JustPearlyThings - August 17, 2023


Modern Women Get Schooled On Relationships


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

219.5685

Word Count

2,663

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

20

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 so i have a question guys all right if you had to go like go down a standard deviation iq
00:00:07.420 but you get a perfect body for the rest of your life would you do it oh that's yes like whatever
00:00:16.200 your dream like whatever your dream body is you get it like frozen in time the rest of your life
00:00:21.980 if i did an iq thing i 100 would do it i'm a smart ass bitch no you would have to go down
00:00:27.180 you're dumber now oh fuck no fuck that body oh okay so you'd keep the iq what would you do um
00:00:33.220 i want somebody else to go next no no come on it's all right be honest you know what to be honest
00:00:39.460 i know what it's like to have brains because i have it now so i'm going to already have i'm going
00:00:45.560 to go with the brains okay you'll keep the brain yeah you know i think i'd keep the brains too
00:00:50.520 because hopefully i'm smart enough to make enough money to buy my body
00:00:54.320 that part okay what about you um so if even after after i was like i like my body even
00:01:04.420 even let's even when you have a kid you just you the kid comes out and it right back and just goes
00:01:09.320 right back right back you don't have to work out or anything okay okay so but you just gotta be
00:01:14.020 because you gave me that i have a kid i must be married so i don't care to have my brain so i guess
00:01:18.260 i'll go down and keep my body looking good right you get a smarter guy you know what i mean i'm like
00:01:23.840 a smart guy doesn't need a smart lady he's smart you know i'll do the body that's fine i am so
00:01:30.620 annoyed by stupid people i would never want to be one of them i need to be able to carry a
00:01:34.840 conversation but that doesn't mean you're stupid just go down a little bit right yeah yeah i mean
00:01:39.740 you go down like like a couple iq points but you get this perfect body the rest so you didn't say
00:01:44.760 that's the beginning i didn't know i said stupid i said okay you weren't specific enough so you're
00:01:51.540 dumber technically you didn't say it specifically so i need the right angle of the altitude
00:01:56.060 of the percentage considering the fact that i'm already really fucking smart i could drop you still be
00:02:02.160 fine yeah right right no get it
00:02:05.040 what percent of like 60 year old ladies really have perfect bodies like you'd be like the hottest
00:02:16.380 60 year old 70 year old right now i'm like at the top of the cream of the crop so if i was to drop a
00:02:22.860 few i'd still be at the bottom layer of cream yeah you're so excited you're not like a
00:02:27.560 average bear or just fine it's fine i wouldn't be a dummy for a body but like i can drop a couple
00:02:33.180 yeah like we'll give some off i mean like a b plus student as opposed to like i've seen her do an
00:02:39.100 amazing little thing with like losing weight and like you could do it on your own girl don't leave
00:02:43.760 60 not not the boobs like you can't get big boobs out of nothing no body a what i said body no i
00:02:51.800 i know when i lost all that way my kids also but she's saying you can do it on your own i'm saying
00:02:56.220 unless you want to put like a foreign object in your body which you know or like we're talking
00:03:01.040 about magic here oh i got foreign objects in my body do you ever wonder like how does that work
00:03:05.680 with like kids you know like breastfeeding like it doesn't that it's so fun you can still breastfeed
00:03:10.560 yeah isn't that like the plastic because this is just how i think i'm like doesn't the plastic
00:03:15.740 or whatever's in it just go over it and like then the kids like drinking like plus whatever
00:03:21.540 the hell is in the implant i just can't imagine the implants like are good for you no they're
00:03:28.780 they've actually come a long way so i have like uh i have gummies so it's like if if it pops it
00:03:34.120 doesn't leach but then it's like every 20 years all the women come forward and they're like oh fuck
00:03:39.000 i have all i think that was the old silicon days right yeah but they just invent something new and
00:03:45.060 then 20 years later chicks have the same problem it's gonna be cyborgs and ai robots they're gonna be
00:03:50.300 robots yeah okay what about you perfect body but you got to be dumber i'm definitely taking
00:03:55.900 brains immediately because i'm always at work like damn if i was so smart i could just figure
00:03:59.920 out how to ai this shit but yeah but but it's like we get the perfect body but for me i mean me being
00:04:07.080 smaller me being larger i've lived both lives and i get attention regardless i have always been able
00:04:12.480 to attract all different type of everything so none of that matters to me physicalness is just so
00:04:17.740 surface level but for me if i had the brains to make as much money as i want i mean because i
00:04:22.320 trade i do options i do forex so for me like if i had the brains truly to see things on a different
00:04:28.120 perspective i would but then but then it's like if if we were like the ultimate hotties then you
00:04:33.360 could just get a super smart guy you know and then you wouldn't have to think at all you could just
00:04:38.140 be at home chilling i don't want to get bullied well let me say wait a minute i i have that option
00:04:44.820 now so so it doesn't really lean me more to it's like oh the perfect body first of all just having
00:04:52.660 that man who is that man who takes care of me i already have that so it doesn't make me feel like
00:04:59.920 oh i got to get this perfect body so i can get the man that's already going to take care of me but
00:05:03.740 what about like keeping the man you got what about it i got him well i'm saying like wouldn't it i
00:05:09.040 mean are you married you said you're in a relationship in a relationship right so it's
00:05:12.220 like maybe the perfect body he's like ring right here no i don't think so i think it has to do with
00:05:17.700 i want to go back what we were just talking about you said something about uh what did she just say
00:05:22.200 i lost my train of thought she said she can attract anybody big or small anyway and that she wants to
00:05:27.820 be able to create ai and all types of stuff at work so she doesn't want to lose her brains
00:05:31.280 okay yeah i can't i lost the train of thought we were my bad well i was gonna say i would want
00:05:35.820 a perfect body just so i can look in the mirror and be like damn bitch it's fucking fine satisfied
00:05:40.260 not so i can catch a man or yeah it's not for a man yeah it's for yourself my girlfriend i wonder
00:05:45.240 why this is like gut reaction of us women whenever it's like we have with this you could have this for
00:05:51.500 a man it's so interesting because we'll always have to say no no no it's for myself but it's really
00:05:58.360 interesting because a family is supposed to be selfless families only work if we're selfless and
00:06:04.060 we're thinking about the other person for your kids yeah and it will and the husband and it's
00:06:08.420 interesting too because we'll give up stuff for our kids and we'll do stuff for the kids but it's like
00:06:12.620 why why is it a bad thing to say i want to have a perfect body for the man i think and like the whole
00:06:18.400 like feminist like movement of being like an independent woman and even saying that you're
00:06:23.420 codependent on somebody it almost is a negative tone these days but it's not i mean technically
00:06:28.020 you are you're in a relationship it's okay to be codependent on each other yeah like i i would love
00:06:33.160 a perfect body to get married and then a husband and then that's his body like i think that'd be
00:06:37.900 great like what's wrong with that there's nothing wrong with that's just how you view it you know
00:06:42.220 what i mean i think everybody has to live with what they would feel comfortable with so if she doesn't
00:06:48.140 feel comfortable with having a perfect body but she feels comfortable with having a perfect brains
00:06:52.080 that's her mindset now and what she'll live with right and there's nothing wrong with that but
00:06:56.920 i'm just more asking like why do we have this gut reaction that anything we do like for the men we
00:07:02.020 have like whenever girls say oh i don't put on makeup for the men i do it for myself i don't do this for
00:07:07.020 the men like why is our gut reaction as women like this is for ourselves when if we want to be in a
00:07:12.720 long-term marriage you're supposed to do a lot at least for him you have a guy grows a beard because his
00:07:18.400 wife wants him to is that equivalent to what you're saying no because i think men and women
00:07:23.000 are different and i think women are here to serve they have an exception that we don't yeah because
00:07:27.240 i think we're lied to and saying that we're equal and i think the natural order of the world is we're
00:07:31.780 not i think everybody should be living for themselves in their own happiness and that you
00:07:35.200 should never be codependent on your partner okay i think i think i think i think i think that's the
00:07:40.100 problem we can be happy together so so these people talk about being independent independent means
00:07:44.800 you're alone yeah you're not independent independent means to fail look i'm a provider
00:07:49.560 protector my responsibility is the king of the house is to provide and protect for her not control
00:07:54.300 her right you brought something up like treat you bad there's always except there's always these
00:07:58.560 exceptions i was in a toxic relationship everybody's been in bad relationships but my duty and responsibility
00:08:04.140 and honor is to serve her and and provide and protect for her responsibility she takes care of the
00:08:10.060 home she cooks the food this is how we live our life now when you say that if i say i'm independent
00:08:16.400 well then why am i in a relationship right i rely on her to take care of the home that's what she does
00:08:21.520 i didn't say independent did i no but i'm saying you said codependency is bad it's not codependent like
00:08:26.220 you're unable to like you can't survive it's just being a team well no no no so this is the other
00:08:33.340 misconception a relationship is not a partnership a partnership is where you go into business with
00:08:38.300 somebody we're not in a partnership we're in a relationship i leave the home it's not this is
00:08:44.740 this is where the problems come in we come in it's 50 50 no it's not 50 50 and i agree with that i leave
00:08:50.000 the home but here we are right here we are i don't believe it's 50 50 i don't believe it but this new
00:08:55.080 generation set of men is why a lot of the women are the way they are with the feelings of wanting to
00:09:00.100 be so independent because the men are like so aggressive with they don't want men are the new
00:09:04.420 bitches let me tell you why women ask them to be bitches and 80 of the single parent homes are
00:09:11.320 women and they're trying to raise these boys and they're raising them as feminine men you need to
00:09:15.960 do this you need to do this your grandma your great grandmother's like you go out find yourself a good
00:09:20.400 man that can take care of you a lot not and when i say this i know a lot of the a lot a lot of these
00:09:25.760 women nowadays their mamas are like you don't need a man you can be an independent boss bitch and
00:09:30.680 then what happens is you you become 50 60 years old drinking box wine watching netflix with your
00:09:36.420 with your cats right talking about angel numbers and horoscopes i'm fine i'm fine but let me tell you
00:09:41.720 something i'm fine i'm fine and then you come 60 you're like what am i going to do for work
00:09:45.640 you can't retire you don't have two three million if they picked the perfect body at 60
00:09:51.340 i'm not coming at you i'm just stating what what as a man of high value man we're looking we're like
00:10:01.660 i i talked i had a conversation last night i i talked to hundreds and hundreds of women i coach
00:10:07.160 men and women i get these challenges i've helped marriages now i'm not perfect i don't know everything
00:10:12.340 but i'm rarely in doubt because this is what i do and i see the challenges that some of the ladies and
00:10:17.080 men have and a lot of these men are simping i get it they're simping and they'll come up like like
00:10:22.160 pearl pearl was in a situation watch this pearl was in a situation a guy watched my podcast pearl was on
00:10:27.480 there he reached out to her somehow shape way or form and he wanted to date her and like soon as he
00:10:33.220 met her he goes i want to marry you it turned her off he was simping thirsty am i right yeah yeah i did
00:10:40.380 and these guys i say men stop chasing women stop chasing women what value does a woman bring to
00:10:48.700 the table i say that or to the relationship outside of sex what do you bring to the relationship outside
00:10:53.700 of sex i'm fucking hilarious dude men don't want to date comedians they want to date models
00:10:59.500 if that was true if men wanted to date funny if men wanted to date funny well i'm a funny
00:11:05.760 chelsea model so what's up chelsea you're you're not that i also have a girlfriend so y'all need
00:11:10.260 to keep that i understand well they're right you're in a different relationship you're in a
00:11:14.320 different relationship yeah but but you know for men it's like they're not looking for funny chicks
00:11:19.160 otherwise you wouldn't see all these comedians they're always single no that's not true have you
00:11:23.440 seen that asian comedian she just came out with the movie and she's fucking funny you know it's so
00:11:27.360 funny she was pregnant she already had that baby yeah she knew it's so funny it's like you have to
00:11:32.000 bring up the exception whose name you don't really watch comedians well yeah but like just
00:11:36.380 think of chelsea handlers by yourself all the big name comedians are by themselves that woman is paid
00:11:42.680 i still do think like as much as you can be as black and white with stuff i still think that men
00:11:47.980 do choose you or fall in love with you or like you more because because of your personality and
00:11:53.760 because of things that you bring to other things that you bring to the table they miss you when you're
00:11:56.860 not around not because you're fine i know he's really nice bodies at that really nice bodies
00:12:02.320 tatted up gorgeous i mean the the woman that all the men walk in the room and want no they still get
00:12:07.580 you