Modern Women GOT TRIGGERED When He Said THIS
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about being a virgin, sex, sexless men, and sexless women. We also talk about the difference between a virgin and a sexless woman and how to deal with it.
Transcript
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and you're looking for someone to love and to settle down with what are you looking for like
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beyond having a baby like personality what are you looking for in a personality virgin 18 not
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annoying cooks i said person great these are all well here's the thing as far as what about what
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it's not a personality being a virgin isn't a personality you'd be surprised my whole thing
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as being a virgin i think he needs to go online shopping for that one because he's just missing
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them all out yeah that's the dating profile yeah well it kind of is a personality because it's
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based upon choices yeah but like do you know what i mean by like personality so when i'm looking for
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someone right i want somebody that's going to be funny i want somebody that's going to be adventurous
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i want somebody that's going to go around the world with me and have a lot of fun and be like
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a best friend right i'm going to have that like goofy that i can roll around with and stuff and
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have fun with every tinder profile ever yeah in reality
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does this guy does this guy seem real does this seem real to you i thought i had it i did i thought
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that i did have it i did actually i just think i think sometimes like you know society tells women
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we can just have everything in a guy we want him to be we want him to be stable but we also want him
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to travel the world with us yeah we did do that i don't i don't know what your personal stuff is but
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you're not with him now so it didn't seem to work out i know boom
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i always say it was pretty it was a pretty shitty thing like i'm someone that like
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i i sometimes think oh shit do i have to and i hate the word settle for less because i i feel like
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oh my god i'm taking on less you know but there is parts of me that i'm like okay well i want a man
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to do this i kind of want him to because i i have a very flexible life with my my job um i've always
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worked for myself like but i'm free because you know work happens when it happens and that's good
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for me so i'm like okay thursday night or thursday daytime who wants to go on a date and that's not
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possible for a man that's working hard or doing the things that i also want so for um if i'm like
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oh i just want to go to paris for the weekend he might not be able to do that and i have to
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i'm really trying to start thinking like okay well this if i'm having to think of a man that
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i want for the rest of my life like where or what am i going to have to start compromising because
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it's not that i don't think i can have it all but i don't think all is like um sorry my love what she
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said um at the same time well and i think i think we never really acknowledge that men compromise on
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us constantly i think most men would prefer most men would prefer virgins i think most men would
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prefer women that have cookbooks i think most men would prefer women that could stay home and
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homeschool the kids but what percent of modern women can do that i don't think it's most men
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trust me it's most but you're in an echo chamber i think i think if you put that if you put two
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choices in front of a in front of any dude and you gave him what yeah described and then you give
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him what he actually has the type of guy no i think but if most guys don't have options that's the
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thing you know you're not understanding that most guys literally have zero options so they get they
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they just take whatever they can get most guys are literally just grabbing for scraps seriously
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they don't they don't get the woman they want they get the one they can get i don't i don't know what
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you're basing that talk to any man honestly behind closed doors they're gonna lie to you
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because you're a woman they're gonna lie to you one out of three men are either virgins or one
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out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year under 30 one out of three
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yeah do you think one out of three women are sexless no definitely guys would pray i wish
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we need to wait we need to wake up i feel like we need to wake up even though some of the some of
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these information might not sound the way we want to hear it sometimes it's actually reality
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no it's like we're not going to hear it sometimes if you go back to stats or you know and i i do
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and i i think with us women sometimes we we pursue what we want and we forget times out of 10 we're
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going to get what we want because yeah it's us but with a man unless you do and i'm just speaking
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generally unless you do have a nice job and you're attractive to whatever degree society says is
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attractive and you have this they're they're not even something as silly as this i always think
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about this if like a female wanted to go out tonight and find someone to sleep with it's a
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it's guaranteed guaranteed i i don't want to say i but if i wanted to walk out tonight some other woman
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it's gonna be done but when it's a man i'm thinking about it because the way we are as women we're very
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entitled um you need to take me out on a date you need to no no i'm just thinking of generally i'm just
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thinking you need to take a female out on a first of all approach her nicely look good look look the
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part take her out on a date have somewhere to take her because obviously you can't take her to
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um her house because that's very bummy you need to have your own place you can't take me to your
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mom's house it takes a lot before he gets his penis wet but when we're gonna get that dick wet
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i mean we could we could even we could set up an account we could set up a tinder account with the
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girls on the show we could set one up for the girls and one for the guys and see who's more
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did you guys it's just reality when you take time to think about things that are outside like yeah that
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things that are not affecting you you start to think past what's actually it's true you're not but
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you've got to remember you're you're looking at pockets of types of people in a demographic
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so i always like to say the types of people that go to oceana
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the types of people that go to oceana when we're having general when we're having general
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conversations we can't talk about every yeah everywhere so yeah yeah okay there are certain
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pockets you know i was on no jumper i don't know if you guys know no jumper that was a wild
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pocket of people right there what's that house it's it's um it's run by a corn star like two
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corn so they have they do like yeah yeah yeah i mean they're just wild and on that and you know
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maybe the guy's there because certainly not you but but some corn stars seem to be more forgiving
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guys with because they date each other or do you know what this is the podcast i listened to you on
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and i thought what a beautiful sort of like moment where you got to talk to him because he was
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giving like all he talks like all of my friends he's like he doesn't care he's just like i'm not
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jealous i love the fact that my woman is able to be free with her body and i was listening to him
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say these things and i was like it's beautiful he sounds brainwashed honestly like i really like him
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but i'm just like that doesn't seem that it is not i know but it's different opinion it is not no
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it's not his opinion is based upon everything that is pushed by mainstream hollywood mainstream media
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mainstream like tv mainstream music his opinion is from what i'm understanding i'd have met the guy
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but that kind of acceptance is purely based around everything that the mainstream media is driving
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into men's brains since childhood when in history have men ever wanted promiscuous women when has
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ever been put on a pedestal in grecian times when in grecian times they used to have huge orgies
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with prostitutes no with anyone from the township actually
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and those women were revered those women were revered goddesses they were not stop it they were
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but honestly that was the whole thing that you know goddesses were a really big part of that culture
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before we had christianity and catholicism sort of like brought into commonplace
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there was quite a lot more goddesses within religion and it was beautiful
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you know there's um there's still only about eight or nine matriarchs left in societies today
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up to four million because they don't work they do and they're up to four million how do they
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what what society has run on a matriarchy oh please let me tell you
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oh let me tell you um so there's um there's a couple um there's a couple tibetan ones there's
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some indian ones um in south america some tibetan ones some indian ones they're christian
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they're buddhist um loads of different religions but basically let me tell you
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um in those societies men have also got big leadership roles and the one differing part of
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it is the fact that number one the women are leading right but also it's it's equal fair share
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pay food resources but if they're which we don't have in society if it worked which is a good thing
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but if it works okay capitalist if it if it works so well why have we never heard of them
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uh why would we heard it we heard them because they would be powerful countries
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it would be successful we wouldn't hear about them yes you would
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because we live in a capitalist world have you heard of china have you heard of russia
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well you just well okay but why are we in a capitalist world because it won because it won
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because it's superior it's superior to socialism why do you think why do you think the whole world
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all the successful countries all the bit all the beautiful things that are in this room around us
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right now all this technology didn't come from socialism it came from capitalism it came from raw
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cold capitalism yeah people die along the way so that rich people you don't think people die
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a lot more under socialist government let's celebrate it that's dope people are being slave traded
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around the world let's celebrate what the fuck people have you heard about have you heard of the
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holodomor have you ever heard of the holodomor the starving of ukrainians sorry bill when in history
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has slavery not existed in any in any culture ever never it's always like actually the the unique
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thing is that we have less slavery in the world than ever before we're living in such a peaceful time
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right yeah that's the unique thing so when you you're blaming like capitalism on on the slave trade
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no i'm not i mean you just i mean you seem to be i i'm not okay i promise you i'm not so when you
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were saying slavery was around for a while okay okay i just i don't think that's capitalism sorry
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go ahead it's not it's not indicative of capitalism but it's part of it um in the matriarchs there isn't
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that there isn't in these matriarchs in india in india china these unsuccessful matriarchs i think
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before you poo poo it there's four million people in one of these matriarchs alone and they're working
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really well and actually the men have reported higher happiness than any western societies today what are you
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using to define matriarchy because you could have called the uk you could have called the uk a
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matriarchy until recently because we had a queen uh no so it's top down so it's matriarchy from the
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top down yeah but the queen was the top yeah so it's women in leadership positions from the so as in
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the rule of the country was a woman here in the uk okay so it's a matriarchy right i get you i hear you
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but it's also systemic patriarchy so below the queen it's men men men men wonder why that is
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it's the way we live in like i'm genuine i'm not trying to be a dick i'm just trying to say
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why do you think that is uh it's the system that we've been born could it possibly be because
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men are more competitive than women and they out compete and they out compete each other for these
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positions yeah bingo men are more risk-taking and they also are more competitive okay so in matriarchal
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societies what was the one differing thing that was like oh my god this is beautiful everyone's
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getting food everyone's getting shelter there's no division between rich and poor and also there's
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more sex i'm just saying there was reported higher happiness within the men as well like because men
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don't have to feel like i'm less than the one percent at top and i need to scrabble to try and get up
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there everyone's fucking equal so you're not having to deal with this competition but that would
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that kind of i know that would never work having no definite it's still working now
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one of the matriarchies is in china i'm so happy you're looking i know i'm saying one of the
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matriarchies is in china yeah please look so it's a matriarchy in a patriarchy yeah because it's in
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china yeah so please look like there's loads of them the reason why matriarchy is impossible there
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can be no real matriarchy kenya that one like there's only women allowed indonesia ghana indonesia
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looks beautiful as well it's just really peaceful but i guarantee the women aren't collecting the
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trash i guarantee the women aren't doing like the burning of the surge and stuff like that so what i'm
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what i'm saying is that these are in patriarchal countries yeah so there's subcultures within there so
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they're not within the government so it's a commune they're communes yeah like a like a kibbutz or
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something i love that word yeah but like the whole point the whole point is they're not successful
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because they're in they have to be in a patriarchy to exist define success um living and breathing
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power doesn't have to define success i would say on the world stage it absolutely does you can't you
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can't have no power you can't accomplish anything without power i think they're accomplishing a
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beautiful little family life yeah that's a very feminine perspective i think it's gorgeous isn't
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it look at them they look bloody happy they can be happy isn't that beautiful isn't that success
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but now it's not successful when you come when you talk about the world stage i mean now you're just
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kind of moving the goal post now you're saying it's about happiness yeah but i do think everything
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inevitably is about happiness and for me getting money isn't happy but that's that's the modern mindset
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that's the modern woman because it's about happiness not the family it's my half everything
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you just said it's about happiness you think everything's about happiness but that's entirely
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about happiness but i'm okay well i i'm saying what you said is the modern mindset that is what i'm
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saying ah what do you mean because you said everything is about you you know what i said
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you said everything is about happiness yes and that is a modern mindset because it's about
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happiness and not the family not legacy not your country two things not exist together
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no why not because we you don't get everything in life i think that you can have a family and be happy
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yeah you can i think that you can also be happy and have a family yeah but the whole point is that
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there are times when you're not going to be happy but you choose the family first and that's the whole
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point is that it's family before my happiness it's not to say you can't be happy and have a family
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yeah but but the whole point is the modern mindset is that it's always about happiness i think what's
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beautiful is when you put your family first and therefore you know like put your own happiness down
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yeah that's also a happiness in itself because you're getting to be altruistic