JustPearlyThings - Modern Women GOT TRIGGERED When He Said THIS

00:00:00.000 and you're looking for someone to love and to settle down with what are you looking for like

00:00:06.440 beyond having a baby like personality what are you looking for in a personality virgin 18 not 0.79

00:00:15.020 annoying cooks i said person great these are all well here's the thing as far as what about what

00:00:23.620 it's not a personality being a virgin isn't a personality you'd be surprised my whole thing

00:00:28.700 as being a virgin i think he needs to go online shopping for that one because he's just missing

00:00:33.500 them all out yeah that's the dating profile yeah well it kind of is a personality because it's

00:00:38.600 based upon choices yeah but like do you know what i mean by like personality so when i'm looking for

00:00:43.360 someone right i want somebody that's going to be funny i want somebody that's going to be adventurous

00:00:47.940 i want somebody that's going to go around the world with me and have a lot of fun and be like

00:00:51.800 a best friend right i'm going to have that like goofy that i can roll around with and stuff and

00:00:57.260 have fun with every tinder profile ever yeah in reality

00:01:00.900 does this guy does this guy seem real does this seem real to you i thought i had it i did i thought

00:01:09.980 that i did have it i did actually i just think i think sometimes like you know society tells women

00:01:15.060 we can just have everything in a guy we want him to be we want him to be stable but we also want him

00:01:20.200 to travel the world with us yeah we did do that i don't i don't know what your personal stuff is but

00:01:25.900 you're not with him now so it didn't seem to work out i know boom

00:01:29.540 i always say it was pretty it was a pretty shitty thing like i'm someone that like

00:01:33.740 i i sometimes think oh shit do i have to and i hate the word settle for less because i i feel like 0.71

00:01:40.800 oh my god i'm taking on less you know but there is parts of me that i'm like okay well i want a man

00:01:45.640 to do this i kind of want him to because i i have a very flexible life with my my job um i've always

00:01:51.160 worked for myself like but i'm free because you know work happens when it happens and that's good

00:01:57.660 for me so i'm like okay thursday night or thursday daytime who wants to go on a date and that's not

00:02:02.780 possible for a man that's working hard or doing the things that i also want so for um if i'm like

00:02:08.220 oh i just want to go to paris for the weekend he might not be able to do that and i have to

00:02:12.360 i'm really trying to start thinking like okay well this if i'm having to think of a man that

00:02:18.020 i want for the rest of my life like where or what am i going to have to start compromising because

00:02:22.660 it's not that i don't think i can have it all but i don't think all is like um sorry my love what she

00:02:29.800 said um at the same time well and i think i think we never really acknowledge that men compromise on

00:02:35.540 us constantly i think most men would prefer most men would prefer virgins i think most men would 0.84

00:02:42.200 prefer women that have cookbooks i think most men would prefer women that could stay home and 0.99

00:02:46.680 homeschool the kids but what percent of modern women can do that i don't think it's most men 0.99

00:02:51.800 trust me it's most but you're in an echo chamber i think i think if you put that if you put two

00:02:57.120 choices in front of a in front of any dude and you gave him what yeah described and then you give

00:03:01.940 him what he actually has the type of guy no i think but if most guys don't have options that's the

00:03:07.740 thing you know you're not understanding that most guys literally have zero options so they get they

00:03:12.880 they just take whatever they can get most guys are literally just grabbing for scraps seriously

00:03:17.720 they don't they don't get the woman they want they get the one they can get i don't i don't know what

00:03:24.160 you're basing that talk to any man honestly behind closed doors they're gonna lie to you

00:03:31.720 because you're a woman they're gonna lie to you one out of three men are either virgins or one 0.93

00:03:36.780 out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year under 30 one out of three

00:03:40.900 yeah do you think one out of three women are sexless no definitely guys would pray i wish 1.00

00:03:46.180 we need to wait we need to wake up i feel like we need to wake up even though some of the some of

00:03:52.160 these information might not sound the way we want to hear it sometimes it's actually reality

00:03:56.400 no it's like we're not going to hear it sometimes if you go back to stats or you know and i i do

00:04:01.600 and i i think with us women sometimes we we pursue what we want and we forget times out of 10 we're

00:04:08.740 going to get what we want because yeah it's us but with a man unless you do and i'm just speaking

00:04:13.360 generally unless you do have a nice job and you're attractive to whatever degree society says is

00:04:18.180 attractive and you have this they're they're not even something as silly as this i always think

00:04:24.960 about this if like a female wanted to go out tonight and find someone to sleep with it's a 1.00

00:04:31.180 it's guaranteed guaranteed i i don't want to say i but if i wanted to walk out tonight some other woman 1.00

00:04:38.060 it's gonna be done but when it's a man i'm thinking about it because the way we are as women we're very

00:04:44.880 entitled um you need to take me out on a date you need to no no i'm just thinking of generally i'm just

00:04:51.040 thinking you need to take a female out on a first of all approach her nicely look good look look the 1.00

00:04:58.220 part take her out on a date have somewhere to take her because obviously you can't take her to 1.00

00:05:02.620 um her house because that's very bummy you need to have your own place you can't take me to your 1.00

00:05:07.060 mom's house it takes a lot before he gets his penis wet but when we're gonna get that dick wet 1.00

00:05:12.700 i mean we could we could even we could set up an account we could set up a tinder account with the 0.99

00:05:17.540 girls on the show we could set one up for the girls and one for the guys and see who's more

00:05:25.500 did you guys it's just reality when you take time to think about things that are outside like yeah that

00:05:31.200 things that are not affecting you you start to think past what's actually it's true you're not but

00:05:37.380 you've got to remember you're you're looking at pockets of types of people in a demographic

00:05:41.620 so i always like to say the types of people that go to oceana

00:05:45.880 the types of people that go to oceana when we're having general when we're having general

00:05:50.680 conversations we can't talk about every yeah everywhere so yeah yeah okay there are certain

00:05:55.260 pockets you know i was on no jumper i don't know if you guys know no jumper that was a wild

00:05:59.940 pocket of people right there what's that house it's it's um it's run by a corn star like two

00:06:06.440 corn so they have they do like yeah yeah yeah i mean they're just wild and on that and you know

00:06:13.140 maybe the guy's there because certainly not you but but some corn stars seem to be more forgiving

00:06:20.120 guys with because they date each other or do you know what this is the podcast i listened to you on

00:06:24.720 and i thought what a beautiful sort of like moment where you got to talk to him because he was

00:06:29.840 giving like all he talks like all of my friends he's like he doesn't care he's just like i'm not

00:06:35.060 jealous i love the fact that my woman is able to be free with her body and i was listening to him

00:06:40.260 say these things and i was like it's beautiful he sounds brainwashed honestly like i really like him

00:06:45.740 but i'm just like that doesn't seem that it is not i know but it's different opinion it is not no

00:06:50.460 it's not his opinion is based upon everything that is pushed by mainstream hollywood mainstream media

00:06:55.680 mainstream like tv mainstream music his opinion is from what i'm understanding i'd have met the guy

00:07:00.920 but that kind of acceptance is purely based around everything that the mainstream media is driving

00:07:05.960 into men's brains since childhood when in history have men ever wanted promiscuous women when has 1.00

00:07:11.860 ever been put on a pedestal in grecian times when in grecian times they used to have huge orgies 0.99

00:07:18.740 with prostitutes no with anyone from the township actually

00:07:23.640 and those women were revered those women were revered goddesses they were not stop it they were

00:07:32.040 i will not stop it you stop it

00:07:34.340 did i tell you i was greek

00:07:43.140 but honestly that was the whole thing that you know goddesses were a really big part of that culture

00:07:49.360 before we had christianity and catholicism sort of like brought into commonplace

00:07:55.040 there was quite a lot more goddesses within religion and it was beautiful

00:07:59.760 you know there's um there's still only about eight or nine matriarchs left in societies today 1.00

00:08:05.240 up to four million because they don't work they do and they're up to four million how do they

00:08:09.880 what what society has run on a matriarchy oh please let me tell you 1.00

00:08:13.760 oh let me tell you um so there's um there's a couple um there's a couple tibetan ones there's

00:08:23.540 some indian ones um in south america some tibetan ones some indian ones they're christian

00:08:28.420 they're buddhist um loads of different religions but basically let me tell you

00:08:32.860 um in those societies men have also got big leadership roles and the one differing part of

00:08:39.780 it is the fact that number one the women are leading right but also it's it's equal fair share 0.98

00:08:45.420 pay food resources but if they're which we don't have in society if it worked which is a good thing

00:08:51.120 but if it works okay capitalist if it if it works so well why have we never heard of them

00:08:56.440 uh why would we heard it we heard them because they would be powerful countries

00:09:01.200 it would be successful we wouldn't hear about them yes you would

00:09:05.260 because we live in a capitalist world have you heard of china have you heard of russia

00:09:08.820 well you just well okay but why are we in a capitalist world because it won because it won

00:09:15.360 because it's superior it's superior to socialism why do you think why do you think the whole world

00:09:20.020 all the successful countries all the bit all the beautiful things that are in this room around us

00:09:24.240 right now all this technology didn't come from socialism it came from capitalism it came from raw

00:09:28.680 cold capitalism yeah people die along the way so that rich people you don't think people die

00:09:33.440 a lot more under socialist government let's celebrate it that's dope people are being slave traded 0.99

00:09:39.860 around the world let's celebrate what the fuck people have you heard about have you heard of the 0.98

00:09:44.520 holodomor have you ever heard of the holodomor the starving of ukrainians sorry bill when in history 0.97

00:09:50.300 has slavery not existed in any in any culture ever never it's always like actually the the unique

00:09:57.820 thing is that we have less slavery in the world than ever before we're living in such a peaceful time

00:10:01.940 right yeah that's the unique thing so when you you're blaming like capitalism on on the slave trade

00:10:08.080 no i'm not i mean you just i mean you seem to be i i'm not okay i promise you i'm not so when you

00:10:14.340 were saying slavery was around for a while okay okay i just i don't think that's capitalism sorry

00:10:18.480 go ahead it's not it's not indicative of capitalism but it's part of it um in the matriarchs there isn't 1.00

00:10:24.080 that there isn't in these matriarchs in india in india china these unsuccessful matriarchs i think 1.00

00:10:32.260 before you poo poo it there's four million people in one of these matriarchs alone and they're working 1.00

00:10:37.460 really well and actually the men have reported higher happiness than any western societies today what are you

00:10:42.940 using to define matriarchy because you could have called the uk you could have called the uk a 0.97

00:10:46.440 matriarchy until recently because we had a queen uh no so it's top down so it's matriarchy from the 1.00

00:10:51.120 top down yeah but the queen was the top yeah so it's women in leadership positions from the so as in 1.00

00:10:55.780 the rule of the country was a woman here in the uk okay so it's a matriarchy right i get you i hear you 1.00

00:11:02.060 but it's also systemic patriarchy so below the queen it's men men men men wonder why that is 0.86

00:11:08.860 it's the way we live in like i'm genuine i'm not trying to be a dick i'm just trying to say 0.74

00:11:14.400 why do you think that is uh it's the system that we've been born could it possibly be because

00:11:20.020 men are more competitive than women and they out compete and they out compete each other for these 0.96

00:11:24.340 positions yeah bingo men are more risk-taking and they also are more competitive okay so in matriarchal 0.98

00:11:31.040 societies what was the one differing thing that was like oh my god this is beautiful everyone's

00:11:36.460 getting food everyone's getting shelter there's no division between rich and poor and also there's

00:11:41.200 more sex i'm just saying there was reported higher happiness within the men as well like because men

00:11:47.200 don't have to feel like i'm less than the one percent at top and i need to scrabble to try and get up 0.91

00:11:52.420 there everyone's fucking equal so you're not having to deal with this competition but that would 0.92

00:11:56.960 that kind of i know that would never work having no definite it's still working now 0.77

00:12:01.900 one of the matriarchies is in china i'm so happy you're looking i know i'm saying one of the

00:12:08.340 matriarchies is in china yeah please look so it's a matriarchy in a patriarchy yeah because it's in

00:12:14.980 china yeah so please look like there's loads of them the reason why matriarchy is impossible there 1.00

00:12:21.340 can be no real matriarchy kenya that one like there's only women allowed indonesia ghana indonesia 1.00

00:12:28.260 looks beautiful as well it's just really peaceful but i guarantee the women aren't collecting the 0.90

00:12:32.820 trash i guarantee the women aren't doing like the burning of the surge and stuff like that so what i'm

00:12:38.640 what i'm saying is that these are in patriarchal countries yeah so there's subcultures within there so

00:12:44.320 they're not within the government so it's a commune they're communes yeah like a like a kibbutz or

00:12:50.660 something i love that word yeah but like the whole point the whole point is they're not successful

00:12:56.000 because they're in they have to be in a patriarchy to exist define success um living and breathing

00:13:03.120 power doesn't have to define success i would say on the world stage it absolutely does you can't you

00:13:09.580 can't have no power you can't accomplish anything without power i think they're accomplishing a

00:13:13.860 beautiful little family life yeah that's a very feminine perspective i think it's gorgeous isn't 1.00

00:13:19.080 it look at them they look bloody happy they can be happy isn't that beautiful isn't that success

00:13:24.400 but now it's not successful when you come when you talk about the world stage i mean now you're just

00:13:30.060 kind of moving the goal post now you're saying it's about happiness yeah but i do think everything

00:13:34.840 inevitably is about happiness and for me getting money isn't happy but that's that's the modern mindset

00:13:39.940 that's the modern woman because it's about happiness not the family it's my half everything

00:13:45.160 you just said it's about happiness you think everything's about happiness but that's entirely

00:13:49.660 about happiness but i'm okay well i i'm saying what you said is the modern mindset that is what i'm

00:13:54.980 saying ah what do you mean because you said everything is about you you know what i said

00:13:59.200 you said everything is about happiness yes and that is a modern mindset because it's about

00:14:06.500 happiness and not the family not legacy not your country two things not exist together

00:14:11.380 no why not because we you don't get everything in life i think that you can have a family and be happy

00:14:18.280 yeah you can i think that you can also be happy and have a family yeah but the whole point is that

00:14:24.180 there are times when you're not going to be happy but you choose the family first and that's the whole

00:14:28.080 point is that it's family before my happiness it's not to say you can't be happy and have a family

00:14:32.780 yeah but but the whole point is the modern mindset is that it's always about happiness i think what's

00:14:37.480 beautiful is when you put your family first and therefore you know like put your own happiness down

00:14:43.460 yeah that's also a happiness in itself because you're getting to be altruistic

00:14:47.680 which is happy right i think we agree

JustPearlyThings - March 29, 2023

Modern Women GOT TRIGGERED When He Said THIS

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