Modern Women Hate Being Treated As Equals In A Man's World | Pearl Daily
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Summary
Every day, men get put in jail because of the words and actions of vindictive women. And every so often, the tables turn and women have to face the possibility of being falsely accused. That s what we are going to talk about on the show today. Back in 2022, Jack Wright accused Sienna Mae of sexual assault.
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So today we're going to be talking about the trend of women getting falsely accused.
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Normally when you hear false accusations, you automatically associate them with men.
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Every day men get put in jail because of the words and actions of vindictive women.
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And every so often the tables turn and women have to face the possibilities of being falsely accused.
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That's what we are going to talk about on the show today.
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Back in 2022, Jack Wright accused Sienna Mae of sexual assault.
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We are going to go over the case and talk about which side you guys are on.
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Now, Jack Wright and Sienna Mae Gomez starred on a show called Hype House on Netflix based in L.A.
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It was content creators living together, forging brand partnerships and addressing online haters drama.
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I mean, we've seen the streamer trend for a couple of years now.
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Now, two weeks after the show premiered, Jack Wright posted a video detailing the SA allegations he experienced from Sienna Mae.
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He accused Sienna of non-consensual touching while he was incapacitated and other inappropriate behaviors.
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After Wright posted his video, Sienna lost upwards of 300,000 followers on TikTok, denting her TikTok following of over 14 million at the time.
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Sienna made a video weeks later denying the accusations, and Netflix chose not to include her on the show because of the allegations.
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Now, Sienna's first response was a long-form article on Medium.com addressing the entire situation.
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I'm so sad that this is where we ended up, and even more so that I'm now being used in a new and even more hurtful way.
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The situation between Sienna Mae and Jack Wright fostered conversations about the backlash survivors receive when coming forward and the darker aspects of teenage internet fame.
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The back and forth between Sienna Mae and Jack Wright went on for months and more, with more accusations of sexual assault against Sienna being levied against her by other male TikTokers that they were both associated with.
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Sienna Mae and her lawyer appeared on the BFF podcast along with a forensic expert and expressed the following,
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There has been no police report filed, there has been no police investigation, there has been no civil complaint filed.
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Honestly, at the end of the day, it's all just a video online.
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Sienna Mae's lawyers spoke about creators' options moving forward, including suing multiple people for defamation.
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So, we are going to go see the original video that Jack Wright posted.
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But before we do, today I have a special guest on the show.
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Our moderator, Doug MPA, is actually here in studio.
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How does it feel to be in person, see the show live?
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It's surreal. I've been a mod on your channel for four years.
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Yeah. Since the beginning, and I'm actually here, so it's kind of a surreal feeling.
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So, we're going to get into the video, but what are your initial thoughts on the situation?
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On my channel, I always say that feminism, okay, the world's never going to be fair for men, right?
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So, if women want equality, they're advocating for life to be just as difficult for women as it is for men.
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So, you're going to see more of this happening.
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You know, this is what they fought for, you know.
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You know, I want to see more women getting, having to pay child support.
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Alimony, you know, getting boxed up by the police, you know, getting judo thrown by police when they shoplift.
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You know, I want to see, you know, this is going to have to happen enough to women for them to want change in the laws.
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Yeah, because there's no benefit of the doubt given to men.
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And it was interesting because when this went down, I was on TikTok at the time.
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And I remember, I remember just thinking it was kind of BS to me at the time, but no one gave her the benefit of the doubt.
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The public opinion was completely on the guy's side, which is so rare.
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Um, I was thinking the only other man where the public opinion went on his side, and it wasn't even immediately, but Johnny Depp, where the public, and I know it's still mixed, but the public is more on his side than normal, right?
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At the time when she wrote that op-ed, that was literally, you know, in the M2 thing.
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So no one really gave, I mean, the people closest to him, and maybe some men did, but the general public sentiment was against him at the time.
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Well, I'm saying now, because it's, yeah, because now, like, it's a little bit different than five years ago, and he's one of the men I've seen being at least retrospectively given the benefit of the doubt, and that was almost unheard of, like, five years ago.
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And I only really would argue that he got that because he's a good-looking guy.
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He was, he's a, he's a Hollywood heartthrob, and he's never really had any, any negative allegations or anything against him historically.
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I think his video was one of the reasons why I was, um, okay and was able to not come out with, like, an aggressive statement like her.
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Sienna and I met four years ago in high school.
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She was dating my good friend, um, and basically, it did not turn out well.
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She cheated on him two times, and it kind of, like, created this whole problem in her friend group.
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Mind you, they were both 18 at the time when this happened, two years ago, so they're both in their 20s now.
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So everything he's talking about, all this foolishness, was, like, when they were in high school.
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Second chance with the people, and I always try to see the good in people.
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I was going back and forth from L.A., and Sienna had just gone viral on a couple videos.
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She reached out to me and basically asked if I wanted to do an interview with her in L.A., and I said, of course.
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I showed her around the Hype House, introduced her to all my friends, and, um, I was happy for her.
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I just want to clarify that we both knew that we were just friends.
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She was singing and talking to other guys in L.A. all the time, and I just thought of her as a good friend.
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It was just strictly friends, and we both knew that.
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At this point, nothing inappropriate was happening between us.
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This next part of the video is very difficult for me to talk about.
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I've been wanting to talk about it for a long time.
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So the first incident where Sienna crossed boundaries, it was after filming.
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Um, um, I was just chilling on my phone on the bed, and she got naked, like, completely naked, nothing on, and straddled me when I was literally just chilling on the bed.
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But I didn't know what to do in, like, the situation, because it was, like, random and weird.
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It's the first time I've ever heard a guy complain about a woman getting naked in front of him.
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I've never heard that as a complaint in my life.
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But, you know, but also, maybe, I don't know if he was this smart, but, you know, if you're working with a girl and your industry is social media...
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Because it can start out nice and good, but then, you know, you have something going with her.
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Then she gets scorned, and then she rips everything, you know, then she burns the whole house down, you know?
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They're, like, just doing a bunch of things to me.
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Like, I didn't want to, like, be, like, aggressive.
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So I pulled her off of me, and it took, like, a couple tries because I didn't want to be, like, too rough.
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And I went out of the room, and that was, like, the end of it.
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The next morning, where she was, like, I'm so sorry for doing that.
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That was, I don't know what went through my head.
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I had to clarify again that I didn't like her that way.
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After that, these type of things kept happening.
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Okay, but it's, like, why do you keep, it's the same question I ask the women.
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Why do you keep going back if she's assaulting you all the time?
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I think that, I'm going to stick with what I said originally.
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I think he had a responsibility to keep her off.
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I don't think that, I think if they weren't in a social media thing, it would have been
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But I think he had a greater, so I think that she did come on to him.
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Because, you know, before the show, I watched some of the old TikToks and stuff, and she
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I mean, she did a TikTok called, I Love Jack Wright, like straight up, you know what I'm
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But I think he just wanted to hold the line and say, I can't, because, I mean, especially
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So I think that she did something, but, and I don't think it was inappropriate, but he
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had to hold the line, the whole, them working together and stuff.
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So, and they're technically co-workers in a house on a show, so that could be, yeah.
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...gift her, and she said it wouldn't happen again, and we would go on and make some fun
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After all those type of things kept on happening, the Hawaii incident happened, where I was passed
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She got on top of me, took advantage of me, grossed me.
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I'm, I'm so glad they pulled her off of me, and honestly, I'm glad that they have evidence.
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After Sienna found out about the video, she said, sorry.
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That is horrible, and she's working on boundaries, and she was seeking therapy.
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Um, I, there have been an influx of, of, of female teachers, you know, essaying young
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And I hate when guys are like, whoa, oh, she was hot.
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So, uh, no, minors are, are, are victims under the law.
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And, and because, and that could extend further out, women, the, if this would have been a
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man, and these allegations were, he was cut, so he, like, men have to be able to do the
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This whole thing of men having to hold the, the, the higher ground, no, no.
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So, uh, if a woman assaults you, press charges, guys.
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Don't let these women get, get away with anything.
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So, the only way they're going to learn is if this happens to enough women.
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The website, by the way, guys, if you want your comment read, you go to the live chat
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Johnny says, Pearl, no one ever wants to mention the lower rate that women pay for life insurance.
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Can I identify as a female and buy insurance at that rate?
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Not equality, but by any means, equality is impossible in this society.
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In Moby Dick, a preacher gives a sermon that includes this.
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And shortly after there was a party, I was taking pictures with a couple other girls.
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Sienna came in, started screaming at me, got mad at the girls, told me to come to a room
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She started screaming at me, and I was like, Sienna, there's no reason for you to be mad
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I can't just take a simple picture with a couple girls.
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That's when she pulled me in and grabbed me and tried to make out with me, and I got pissed
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I wanted to stay at the party, and she kind of had already been yelling at every single
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So two friends wanted to take her home, and while the car was moving, she jumped out of
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the car for old and said, I have to get back to Jack.
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So I ran back to the house, and I was like hiding from her, and I was just waiting for
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Looking back now, I don't know why I stayed friends with her, stayed around her.
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I truly thought she was going to change for some reason.
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I feel like she'd say she had so much love for me, and she truly cared for me, and then
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the next night she would do something like that.
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She knew I had those boundaries, so when I was at my most vulnerable state, like when
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I was arguing, getting heated, or when I was asleep or passed out, that's when she would
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take advantage of me, because she knew I was at my most vulnerable state.
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I hated any intimacy with her, because I knew we were just friends.
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I didn't want that from her, and especially with the past couple of things she did, I
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Over the next couple of months, I was stuck in this toxic cycle.
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I was stuck with her crying to all my friends, saying that I didn't like her back, and why
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don't I like her back, and she'd get mad at me.
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But these social media women, guys, you've got to avoid women where their industry is
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I've seen women leave their families for social media.
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Who's that one girl that just, she does the interviews with celebrities, the white girl.
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Isn't she like late 30s, and she had two kids, and she walked away from her?
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And she left her husband to freaking get dug out by a bunch of rappers.
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Me, for not caring about her as much as she cared about for me, but she'd also be doing
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I would go see other guys in LA, so it was like, I couldn't win at all.
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She would constantly come to my house, remember my door codes.
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It got to the point where I'd start screaming at her to get out of my house.
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Because I was so sick of her just, like, breaking into my house.
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I would wake up and see her car just sitting outside at, like, two in the morning.
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She would break into my house, and when I was sound asleep, she'd come into my room, and
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I'd wake up to her hand in my pants, and it wasn't, like, the only time it happened, too.
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I know you're saying, like, press the charges against the women that do stuff.
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Like, if she was harassing you, then stop being around her.
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I'd say the same thing to the women that claim they were abused and blah, blah, blah,
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A guy like this, do you think, because a lot of women, okay, women have beta male orbiters.
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Do you think it goes for guys like him, too, where they're addicted to the attention?
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And the reason why they don't cut the woman off is because they know that the woman likes
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Like, if somebody is, like, if somebody's treating you a certain way and you don't like it, but
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you keep signing up, I'm like, why are you, like, it makes me think it maybe wasn't as
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bad as you're saying if you signed up for two years.
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And I think the same with women when they say they were, like, abused, but you were with
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Or they were in toxic relationships for, like, seven and a half years.
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Or it's, like, was, were you doing anything, like, to make her think that maybe it was
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more, I don't know, like, but I say the same thing to women, you know?
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I was so used to it that it, I don't know, it was just, like, normal for me that, like,
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I didn't think there was such, like, a problem at all.
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Like, part of me wants to blame myself for being nice and sticking around after so many,
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But now I realize that I was stuck in this, like, manipulative cycle of her acting like
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Just real quick, so how, because these people all have a team around them.
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I wonder how the conversation went before he uploaded this video.
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Because he had handlers, like, kind of directing him on what to say.
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What do you think motivated him to put this video out?
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Well, in her video, she, like, she said that it was, um, she wanted to stop making videos
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Like, she said that she wanted to stop making videos with him because it was too, like,
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And, like, if you don't want to date, I'm, like, I'm done.
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And I think she was going to make a video, right?
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Saying that they're not going to do content together anymore?
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Yeah, and I think he maybe was scared that she would claim some of the things he's claiming.
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Because when a girl's making a video, even if she says it's not going to be mean about
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So he's like, oh, shit, she's making a video about me.
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She has the power to ruin my career if she wants to.
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Yeah, and you guys remember, women will make a result or say a result,
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so they'll say something happened, leaving other women or the court of public opinion
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So she could have said, oh, we're not doing content together anymore
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It's like, oh, man, and they're automatically going to assume that something bad happened.
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Yeah, or if a man said it, they would just be like, okay.
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So do you think that him preemptively putting out this video was a good thing or a bad thing?
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I mean, it's kind of backfiring a little bit now, but I don't...
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Unfortunately, like, I kind of think most of those laws are bullshit, but they are the laws.
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Like, I think they both probably could have said essay because of how broad that term is.
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Like, that term is so broad that if either of them wanted to, they probably had something.
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Like, if she went to the internet first, she could have, like...
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Because their relationship was so flirty, I'm sure there was something.
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And also, remember, people always remember the first version of the story first.
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And then she's been on defense this entire time, which is why there are other people in the space,
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the web bill space, that say, if your wife says anything about divorce, you know, go to the court for joint custody.
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Like, the thing is, there's so many videos of them together.
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I am sure there is one out there that exists where she could say it wasn't consensual.
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Like, the same way Blake Lively made up a whole thing saying it was not consensual.
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Women can't really do that the way that they used to.
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And I feel like you should never have to, like, worry about, like, falling asleep and waking
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up to one of your good friends, like, touching you, you know?
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I was, like, terrified for some reason, which you shouldn't be, from, like, a person.
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One night, she started ripping off my clothes, touching my crotch area, trying to make out
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And I'm, like, Sienna, this happens so many times.
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So, we planned a trip to the beach house my dad grew up on in Hawaii.
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And Sienna's family basically planned the same trip on the same dates.
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They left a couple days before us, and we were supposed to leave on a certain date.
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But I didn't want to leave because she already left to go back home, and I did not want to
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be at home with her because I know she'd find a way to start hanging out with me again.
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So, my mom got a text from Sienna's mom saying that Sienna is on a plane taxiing right now.
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Hearing that she was coming back, it was, like, this cycle is never going to end.
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It's, like, it's going to be like this forever.
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She was always going to make her way back towards me.
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There's another time I went to Hawaii with a couple friends for, like, my trip, and she
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She got mad that I was talking to some girls, and she took me into the bathroom to talk to
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She was blocking the door, so, like, I couldn't just, like, throw her out of the way.
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If I come out, she will, like, scream at me in front of everyone and think that I did something.
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I mean, just, I feel like no one would believe me.
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But, yeah, she was on the counter and wrapped her legs around me and started, like, let
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That night we went home, made sure we had, like, different rooms to stay in.
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And I got in the shower, and she picked the lock of my door.
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I made sure to lock the doors, but she picked the lock and walked in.
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Maybe, I would say, I would say it's half true, but over-exaggerated.
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I always say, look at things at, like, a 30% validity rate and see how crazy it sounds.
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It's starting to get to the point where, even at 30%, this is sounding kind of crazy.
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And I went to my friend's trundle bed that was, like, upstairs.
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So now we're caught up to when everything went public, when Mason posted his tweet.
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Since everything was brought to social media, multiple guys came out to me and said that
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I was drunk, sleeping on a couch, and woke up to the homie saying, what the F?
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Because she just got on top of me and was kissing my neck.
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I don't want this to go anywhere, but I want to tell you, Sienna Lowkey essayed me when I
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And I was talking to a different girl probably six months ago.
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Sienna Lowkey did the same thing to me at a party.
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But I was talking to her, and she grabbed my face and started to make out with me.
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And I was trying to push her off, but I never told her I wanted to kiss her or anything.
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We don't want anyone to go through that experience.
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Well, you know, my starting point is, you know, I want to see more women accused.
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So I'm automatically going to take his side because I think more women need to be made
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But I just think that he enjoyed the attention.
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I think that if he wasn't a super Chad, any regular guy would have liked to have gotten
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the amount of attention he got from that kind of woman.
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Probably has gotten away with most things most of her life.
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Or has probably gotten most men that she wanted.
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So she didn't come out with a video to address this.
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But while they're writing that, she put this video out.
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Motherfucker Jimmy Kimmel does not want to meet me.
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I mean, if you have copyright music, you have to pause it every five seconds.
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Yeah, so then, her YouTube channel starts losing a bunch of subscribers.
00:34:57.040
And her most popular before this was 1.2 million views.
00:35:02.660
And then before this, she was getting, like, 29K a video.
00:35:33.500
Okay, now here's Sienna's and her lawyer at the time.
00:35:52.320
Because, like, having your lawyer and the forensic guy is weird.
00:35:56.080
He's a little bit of a super simp, but I do love him.
00:35:58.280
Just so you know, Dave Portnoy, he had false allegations against him.
00:36:05.760
I just saw that, you know, one of the reasons why he wanted to platform her
00:36:18.920
I came in and I was like, holy shit, am I in the right Zoom room?
00:36:25.260
So is this your choice or their choice to be like, we want to be on the call with you?
00:36:37.580
And, like, I feel like what I want to touch on is, like, how I'm doing.
00:36:40.980
And, like, the emotional questions that I know you guys are going to ask.
00:36:46.580
Yeah, she wants to go over her feelings, not the facts of the case.
00:36:52.140
And, like, the, so what's going on questions, that's for them to answer.
00:37:06.140
Along those lines, then, is there some sort of official legal proceeding going on right now?
00:37:38.520
So, remember, this is the court of public opinion.
00:37:48.680
And this lawyer, on multiple interviews and multiple...
00:37:53.000
Made sure to emphasize, no civil charges, no criminal charges, no nothing.
00:38:03.420
You don't need a criminal case to get canceled.
00:38:09.580
So, you know, you can't control what happens in the court of public opinion.
00:38:16.240
Yeah, and she was getting, like, $100,000 brand deals before this.
00:38:21.420
Like, at the rate she was at, she was probably making $100,000 per post at how famous she was before.
00:38:28.860
And so, it's like, you don't get internet money and you don't, like, and not get what comes with internet money.
00:38:34.900
Like, people always complain about being canceled when you get to make money on the internet.
00:38:44.060
It's like celebrities that complain about being famous.
00:38:51.740
Go lay concrete instead of making money on the internet.
00:38:57.020
Nothing by way of an investigation or any kind of legal proceeding filed.
00:39:01.740
Honestly, at the end of the day, this is all just a video online.
00:39:06.200
So, then, though, but then that begs the question, if there hasn't been a legal issue, like, why are you here?
00:39:16.680
Because, obviously, there have been allegations made, right?
00:39:20.460
Obviously, there have been legal allegations made.
00:39:22.280
And, at this point, after so long of just going back and forth online and it's all just social media talking back and forth, it's time to actually bring in some professionals who are going to talk about what's really real.
00:39:35.720
And what's real is that there's nothing out there.
00:39:40.120
I personally, again, as somebody, I think this almost makes it seem like something's real by involving legal when there is no legal.
00:39:49.380
Like, I always think it's better to hear from the horse's mouth.
00:39:53.240
Like, I get, I always get when someone says, I can't speak on it.
00:40:09.060
But I think that with how, like, blown out of proportion this has all got, it's now, like, to the point where I just, like, can't even, like, deal with this stuff anymore.
00:40:20.620
Like, it's literally just me kind of, like, focusing on my emotional state.
00:40:24.920
And then as everyone's, like, what's going to happen next?
00:40:37.820
I'm going to let my team, like, just talk about this one and kind of, like, take this one.
00:40:41.600
Because it's just, like, not even worth it for me to, you know.
00:40:48.980
I do think in a situation like this, and I'm not, and I've watched everything.
00:41:06.440
And it wasn't even necessarily, like, because we'd met or spoken.
00:41:12.260
No, I don't think it was, like, a favor or anything.
00:41:13.520
Yeah, it was like if my girlfriend did that in a second, I would never.
00:41:18.180
Like, if I'm sitting there and my girlfriend climbs on me, now there's been all dispute on where this is going back.
00:41:23.800
I will say the seriousness of these allegations both ways, I think it's kind of disgusting that it's being played out on social media when it's getting that serious.
00:41:33.720
Because those are serious things, and nobody knows what's right and wrong.
00:41:38.360
But when women do it, they're not crucified for it.
00:41:49.720
And he laid, this is fast forward three years later, but he was the one who crucified Zach Bryan and let that completely play out.
00:41:58.760
I don't know if you saw the episode, but one of the girls that's on the show later dated a country superstar.
00:42:04.700
And on the way out said that he emotionally abused her, some bullshit.
00:42:09.800
And Dave completely simped and put her on and did a whole episode about how he was abusive and how none of them liked him.
00:42:17.600
And that's why I said, I really do like Dave, but he is a super simp sometimes.
00:42:24.220
Even this interview is very unlike BFF, so we want to treat it delicately.
00:42:29.300
Um, well, especially because I feel like, I feel like when you just keep bringing this, uh, attention kind of to this, not you necessarily saying, I just mean like when people keep bringing the attention to the situation, it just got to fuck up to people's mental health.
00:42:40.320
Like you and Jack can't be in the greatest mental health place when it's like, this stuff is just constantly being brought online and just being talked about.
00:42:49.380
And then everyone's giving their opinions on you and what you should do and how you should live your life.
00:42:55.700
Like if I'm being totally honest, I literally haven't been on my phone the past month.
00:43:01.760
Like, I know that there's been like thousands of like YouTube videos I am and just talking about like just my character and I haven't seen anything.
00:43:12.620
And I just know that there's like, I don't know.
00:43:16.100
I just, yeah, it's like, I, I obviously am not doing, you know, 100% because how could you be when?
00:43:31.760
Well, because the thing about it is, is men, when they have an allegation against them, it's a different kind of shock.
00:43:40.320
Like, I'm not saying like, not that she's saying like.
00:43:44.420
This is genuine shock where she didn't think this was going to happen.
00:43:49.540
Men, so many men have been falsely accused that they're shocked at having to figure out how to handle it.
00:43:56.940
But she's shocked that this is even happening to her.
00:44:02.440
And she doesn't know, like men know that their words will be used against them.
00:44:12.900
Cause she now is trying to figure out how to talk without having it used against her.
00:44:19.920
But her, her biggest hurdle in this, and I don't know, is how does she tell her truth while not saying anything incriminating, you know, when, when, in, in cases of false accusations, everything could be used against you.
00:44:37.840
There's like, just so much hatred, you know, and like literally just so much cyber bullying.
00:44:45.440
You know, I got no sympathy for people on the internet who get cyber bullied, even myself.
00:44:50.960
You know, it's just like, we, we asked to be here.
00:44:54.280
Nobody's putting a gun to your head and making you come on the internet.
00:44:56.900
If you go on the internet, you're going to get hit pieces.
00:45:00.160
You're going to get cyber bullied, either deal with it or don't like, you don't get to make internet money without the cost of internet money.
00:45:10.260
You get either the internet money and no criticism in your day-to-day life.
00:45:15.980
Nobody looking at your personal life or you get the internet money.
00:45:21.500
Do you think, do you think like bringing it, do you think you bring in the lawyer team and everything?
00:45:25.760
Do you think that's going to bring more attention to the situation?
00:45:27.840
Or do you think that's to like kind of quiet people down or it's going to quiet people down?
00:45:32.160
I think it is going to quiet people down because it's just like, I literally have my lawyer sitting right here next to me telling, telling you guys and whoever's going to see this now that there's nothing being done.
00:45:44.880
Like you can't just like, you can't just like claim with no credible proof because yeah, you guys have never had.
00:45:59.060
She's literally in shock that this person said these things about her.
00:46:02.880
And the reason why she has her legal team there is because she's, she's, she's getting hit in her pocketbooks.
00:46:13.040
So she's wondering, why am I having to pay for this when it's just words?
00:46:23.520
Probably never had, or very few, I don't even know, had people being accused of like an actual crime, like an actual.
00:46:31.920
I actually have been in a very similar in which there's no, there's no, I'm actually reverse.
00:46:42.480
Like it's very unusual because I've been accused of things usually.
00:46:45.520
And it's so untrue that I am now suing the people saying it.
00:46:52.860
I don't know that the, and I was trying to prove a point.
00:46:56.800
I read through all and we'll get to all this stuff.
00:46:59.000
A lot of it seemed like things you already said, but even backing up because I haven't heard you say it.
00:47:03.300
But what the strangest part of this to me, I guess, is like you and Jack, like when you were on with us, you guys seemed like two peas in a pod.
00:47:15.740
Yeah, it seemed like you guys were like dating and everything, had like a relationship going.
00:47:19.420
So what, like, do you have, if you look back on this, are you at any point like, oh, I should have seen a red flag there, there, that something was off with this relationship?
00:47:33.260
And were you guys actually dating or never actually dating?
00:47:40.260
And was I, sorry, you asked if I was like caught off guard.
00:47:43.320
It was like, it obviously, I don't, my guess is you didn't see this coming.
00:47:47.760
So when you look back, were you like, maybe I should have seen a red flag in this relationship somewhere that alerted that something was drastically off between you two.
00:47:55.740
When all this dropped on back in 2021, whatever, I was literally in shock.
00:48:03.640
Like I was literally so just surprised at like what, what was being said because it came from, from nowhere.
00:48:13.320
In my opinion, I was like, this, this is literally just pulled out of thin air.
00:48:22.880
And once again, we have to assume that everyone's going to believe the woman and figure out how to do damage control.
00:48:37.220
Johnny says history is reminiscent of Jody Arias.
00:48:50.260
I don't know the whole thing, but it was a case like a couple of years ago.
00:48:53.600
Pearl, once Pandora's box is opened, the hunger will never die.
00:49:01.600
Can't wait for the next soy boy to come forward and whine.
00:49:04.860
Kyle, all I know is in this certain predicament is that it's a simp that fails to realize his mistakes.
00:49:15.420
And a woman who is a straight up whore who cannot see, she might as well open up an OnlyFans.
00:49:24.940
Can you put a poll in the chat if you find her attractive?
00:49:31.240
It was literally just as shocking to me as it was to everybody else on the internet.
00:49:38.800
So, Jody Arias is a woman who was convicted of deleting her ex-boyfriend Travis at Alexander in 2013.
00:49:46.460
So, I guess she took him out while he was in the shower.
00:49:57.600
Tell you guys, women, they're advocating for life to be just as unfair.
00:50:02.720
So, you're going to see more women getting worse prison sentences, getting all that stuff.
00:50:14.700
And literally since our last trip to Hawaii together.
00:50:19.300
The last time I literally saw him was before I got on my flight and we haven't talked since.
00:50:33.660
When did that come out versus when it happened?
00:50:42.060
Like, when in the year was that filmed versus when it was posted?
00:50:48.600
And the claims or the tweet was posted in June of 2021.
00:51:16.300
And this response was literally, like, five days ago.
00:51:21.580
So, her YouTube channel was quiet for, like, two years.
00:51:38.880
Guys, you know how women will cap about the men that are interested in them?
00:51:54.640
But think, you know, but we know, once again...
00:51:56.720
Like, sometimes I've seen guys and they'll show me, like, women they've dated or whatever.
00:52:09.480
You know, I've been moderating the chat a long time.
00:52:24.960
But they're thinking about what I smash and have to deal with the consequences afterwards.
00:52:42.460
And I've been thinking about making this video for, like, three years.
00:52:48.960
And basically, what I'm going to do is summarize my last three years being canceled, the trials
00:52:59.580
I went through, my relationships, my, basically, trauma and shit that happened to me.
00:53:16.820
You know, men, when they have trauma, it's always, like, they tell you, guys, you ask
00:53:24.280
them what they're going through, and they'll tell you the most depressing story you've ever
00:53:28.280
And women, it's the people on the internet don't like me.
00:53:36.200
I had, someone told me a story the other day about how they got, like, ran out of their
00:53:48.220
And talk about my, I guess, story and my testimony.
00:53:55.300
And I think for a long time I avoided this because it's, it's really, it gets hard.
00:54:00.740
Especially when you live it and you feel it so heavy.
00:54:06.220
I mean, I do talk about it, but with, like, my boyfriend, my parents, my family, and my
00:54:13.360
Like, for the most part, I want to, you know, be a happy person, be a positive person, try
00:54:20.700
to see the light in the world and the light in people.
00:54:22.900
But I also believe that, for my situation especially, I haven't addressed anything on social media.
00:54:34.560
And I think that in absence of me vocally, like, just talking about it casually, people
00:54:45.200
People post stuff about me that is just, like, it's just kind of, honestly.
00:54:50.580
Would you give her credit for going dark, Pearl?
00:54:52.900
Because you could argue that if she would have been talking this whole time, it could
00:55:03.620
Do you think that was a good idea or a bad idea?
00:55:10.180
Okay, so what I found when it comes to social media is everyone wants you to shut up, right?
00:55:19.600
But I actually think Dave Portnoy has been really smart.
00:55:24.320
Every time he has an allegation, he pulls up his phone, gives his side of the story, moves
00:55:35.700
So, um, no, I think it would have been better if she just did this video, didn't get the
00:55:41.720
lawyers involved, set her side of the story, and moved on, let people argue about it.
00:55:47.460
And then just ate all the opportunities, leaving.
00:55:50.860
I mean, I guess they would have, she would have lost and got canceled anyway.
00:55:54.180
But the, the problem is when people are famous for just existing, they don't have a business
00:56:04.280
So, like, if, if she was, let's say, like, a political commentator, I would have just given,
00:56:13.040
Dave, it's like he does celebrity gossip, whatever.
00:56:15.800
So, when he's in the news, he says, look, this is the allegation, that's not true, believe
00:56:21.300
what you want, I'm moving on, business as usual.
00:56:23.740
Crowder, same thing, when the divorce stuff came out, he said, look, this is it, but I
00:56:33.200
So, I'm gonna amend my, I'm gonna say for her, that probably was the best situation,
00:56:44.040
The best example of what you're talking about was, you're too young to remember, but when
00:56:49.000
those allegations came out against Kobe Bryant, you know, he, the Lakers, he kept showing
00:56:55.260
up to basketball games, and he was just winning, like, they went on, like, a win streak, and
00:57:03.020
So, he had basketball, he was able to, to do his craft while he was going to do it,
00:57:07.320
but you're right, like, what could she possibly do if she gets canceled off of TikTok?
00:57:10.780
Yeah, like, I guess for her, it's a little different, but if she had some sort of show
00:57:19.320
or something she was doing, like, I don't know, even if she starts, she used that to,
00:57:23.880
like, start a podcast or something, I, I don't know, I would have just given a statement and
00:57:33.380
Like, I think, I think the longer you wait, the more it drags out.
00:57:37.020
So, would you say that even if she lost all of her brand deals, she should have made a
00:57:41.240
statement and then just kept posting and tried to rebuild after that?
00:57:48.440
I mean, better than going dark for two years, right?
00:57:51.960
I don't know, like, but the problem for her is she didn't have anything other than existing.
00:57:57.000
Like, that's, that's why I'm getting stuck in this because she doesn't have anything to
00:58:01.620
go back to because her, she, her fame, it was a hype house.
00:58:06.960
When you're canceled on reality TV, what do you do?
00:58:09.680
And then also, I mean, because the best argue, argument you could make for her going dark
00:58:13.580
is she was young and like social media women talk too much anyway.
00:58:18.840
But you imagine if she were just Brittany rendered it and said her truth the whole time, it would
00:58:24.520
I'm sure it was better for her mental health, but I was just thinking it's tough because
00:58:30.860
you don't want to say anything that makes it worse, but I've found in social media that
00:58:35.740
the quicker people respond, at least you can get the response and then people are arguing
00:58:42.360
Like where, like his, like if she did this three years ago, then both sides would have
00:59:05.820
Like, it's just kind of like, that's what you think.
00:59:11.500
But Pearl, whenever a woman says literally a lot with long pauses in the sentence, lying
00:59:19.360
Whenever someone's vocabulary tells you that they are not lying, they're definitely lying.
00:59:24.560
I guess my point in talking about the last three years and how I got to basically where I am
00:59:33.200
today is for somebody watching this that is depressed, is anxious, is going through something
00:59:43.860
and feels like they're alone because I felt like I was alone so, so many times the past
00:59:53.880
few years and I felt like nobody could understand me really and nobody could really understand
01:00:01.160
But as I listen to more podcasts and as I listen to people's stories, people's like documentaries
01:00:14.600
So in 2020, I was a sophomore in high school and this was when COVID was kind of starting,
01:00:25.000
but also nobody knew if it was like a big enough deal yet.
01:00:27.840
Like everybody still kind of thought we were going to go back to school.
01:00:31.160
As we started to do online classes and stuff, I had a lot of free time, obviously, because
01:00:36.160
I was no longer in dance since COVID was happening.
01:00:40.060
We were doing online dance classes, which took up like 99% of my free time otherwise.
01:00:48.100
So I had a lot of time to just kind of do whatever, as did everybody during this era.
01:00:53.340
She gets to it faster and go to her YouTube page and go to the nine minute video because
01:01:04.200
Yeah, so the talking about the Jack White situation.
01:01:07.840
Last week, I posted a video about what it was like to be canceled as a teenager.
01:01:23.240
Because she put this on TikTok and YouTube and people were like, oh my God, she was innocent.
01:01:32.800
Most important and vulnerable videos that I've ever shared.
01:01:37.000
I always wanted to address the situation with Jack White and all of those allegations that
01:01:43.220
were made because I think in absence of me ever like verbally talking about it, there
01:01:51.720
Um, I took like six months off of social media during that time.
01:01:58.280
There were literal newspaper articles that I had killed myself.
01:02:06.720
And I think I can speak about it much more gracefully without like defensiveness and anger
01:02:14.400
I felt so frustrated at all of these people, at all these narratives that were basically
01:02:21.880
So today I'm going to be debunking some of the things that people comment on my account
01:02:28.920
I have never really defended myself on my platform, but I have worked so hard for this platform
01:02:38.480
I also just posted like a 45 minute YouTube video explaining the whole story time with Jack,
01:02:44.500
our friendship before any of the allegations, what actually happened after.
01:02:49.600
And like during that time, and then my testimony to Jesus and you knew that was coming too.
01:03:03.300
Just how I honestly came back from that and how I've found resilience and built my brands
01:03:11.380
I've said this since the beginning when all these allegations were made when I was 17 until now.
01:03:20.800
I've never spoken to a police officer about the situation.
01:03:28.000
And people like to really argue that I went to jail at some point, but public arrest records
01:03:38.960
Get why people bring up the video, the proof, but I think you can manipulate anything to be
01:03:45.740
So I'm going to explain the whole video for you.
01:03:49.400
This video was taken seven months before Jack and I's friendship ended, before they made those
01:03:54.600
allegations, before he put out their tweet, whatever.
01:03:57.540
We were friends for another seven months afterwards.
01:04:00.980
So the video was filmed on Snapchat by his brother, James.
01:04:05.380
So they're talking about where he's supposedly laying on the couch and he's touching him.
01:04:11.040
I mean, I dealt with a guy who was accused of rape and had two kids with the woman after.
01:04:15.900
And they gave the woman custody because she claimed she was raped on the first night.
01:04:21.000
And she proceeded to have two children with him.
01:04:23.800
So if a woman makes an accusation against you, it has to be over right there.
01:04:29.480
If you're with a woman and she calls the police to your house, it's over right there.
01:04:44.660
There are lines, there are certain lines that if they're crossed, if it's out of the bottle,
01:04:51.000
If you're married and the woman says divorce, even to her just saying that, it's over.
01:04:58.240
There was a guy in London I knew who was married for like 20 years.
01:05:05.240
And he didn't really, he's like, I don't really know what you're talking about.
01:05:15.300
He was like, he was one of the trainers at my gym.
01:05:23.480
And she falsely accuses him of rape because she thought that he was cheating.
01:05:33.780
And the person that, like, their mutual friend saw him, the twin brother with, like, they thought
01:05:47.780
So imagine if they saw your, like, imagine that you, you and your wife, like you, you're
01:05:53.020
married to a woman and there's a mutual friend who says, I saw your husband with this woman.
01:06:05.200
Now, obviously, the false accusation bad, but like, but that's not the point of the story.
01:06:11.660
She, yeah, so then the friend tells the wife and the wife believes the friend that the husband's
01:06:27.940
So she dropped the charges and they were trying to work.
01:06:30.280
I don't know how it is now because I haven't talked to him in like two years, but last like
01:06:38.620
Like she did the charges and then she went back and said she lied.
01:06:42.120
And I guess you could do that in London because there are times where they have it now, especially
01:06:47.720
with a lot of DV laws, where it's not the person doing the charges.
01:06:58.780
He married a single mom and then they had two kids.
01:07:02.140
And the, the, the child that wasn't his was a daughter.
01:07:06.540
When she was 15, she, she's messing around with this, with this older boy.
01:07:13.980
She's like, I'm going to call the police and say that you, you know, that you did something
01:07:18.640
She, he's like, do what you got to do, but you ain't leaving the house because I want
01:07:22.400
So she called the police because she just thought that the police were going to scold him
01:07:28.040
No, they put handcuffs on him and took him to jail.
01:07:37.240
So the, the daughter went to the judge multiple times and said that she was just lying, but
01:07:44.560
So they, they kicked him out of his house and he was, he was the sole breadwinner.
01:07:49.200
So he, he had to get a apartment and so pay rent there, pay for the mortgage there.
01:07:54.960
And it took about 11 months for the case to get resolved, but he couldn't go to his own
01:07:59.880
house and the daughter was telling the judge multiple times I was lying, but they had
01:08:03.600
to go through the whole process because the state made the charges, not the, not the girl.
01:08:07.720
I think, um, I think at that point, like they dropped it somehow.
01:08:15.360
And the last I talked to him, she was basically begging him to not divorce her.
01:08:20.300
And like, she was like, he's just, he just said, yeah, she has been on like, like, like
01:08:31.960
He said the only good thing that happened with his stepdaughter before she did that,
01:08:41.820
He said that like, cause he was a Muslim and that she, what?
01:08:50.400
No, that's why the Muslims, let's say like, they don't have the same problems.
01:08:53.960
I'm like, I lived in, I lived in a Muslim area.
01:09:01.040
So, but that was like when the kids were like teenage, I think his youngest was like
01:09:04.880
16 or something like older, but she, um, said he could get a second wife.
01:09:13.080
She's like, look, you can go get a younger, like you can get a second wife.
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Cause once she crosses that line, she could do it again.
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I think last I checked, they were in separate like living situation.
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And that was, it was interesting because he said, I have no idea what you're talking about.
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Like he was so blue pilled and that it was interesting too.
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So like his wife said, you can go get a second wife.
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And I was explaining to him how like, like the women are different now.
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And it was funny to like watch him go through it because he would, he would date like women.
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He would date women closer to his, you know, give him some shish kebab and they're happy.
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In November of 2020, again, seven months prior to them ever posting anything about me or
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We had just gotten back from like a bigger party and we were at another party with people
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all around us and we were both drunk and making out the entire night.
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He was introducing me as his girlfriend at the party.
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I go in more into that on my YouTube video about like the, what were we, what weren't we
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and how he kind of used me for clout and didn't actually want to date me in the YouTube video.
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I'm not really going to go into that here, but he, this is one of the nights where he
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decided that he was my boyfriend and we were making out and whatever.
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He filmed it on Snapchat and he sent it to a friend group with the caption, like the bar
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or whatever that was like, oh, they're so annoying, like making out again or whatever.
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And I don't know how more people don't think about this, but if I genuinely was like sexually
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assaulting him in this moment, why would his brother film it?
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They're both like six foot two, six foot three.
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If they wanted to come remove me off of him, he would have, but like that didn't happen.
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It wasn't until they needed proof multiple months.
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You know, he could, he could withdraw consent after the fact.
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They made it out of context and they basically just made me look like a bad person when the
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initial feeling or vibe of the video was like, oh my gosh, they're making out again.
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This video was manipulated to make me look a certain way.
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And after all these years, I've just realized the people who want to see the truth and want
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And the people who just want to hate me, they will.
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I think if she did this at the time, it would have been better because this is going to get
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like 2 million views, I think tops, his got 23 million.
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If she posted this three years ago and just said, these are the facts, believe what you
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It would have, I think it would have done a better job defending herself than like three
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She, she probably could have made a case, a better case based upon what she's talking
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And basically we were like, would this hold up, like, would this hold up as proof in a
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If we ever had to take it to legal justice system, the guy literally laughed and he was
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Like, this is, this is not proof of a sexual assault.
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I think once again, women have got, have used less and gotten more.
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Remember, she, the court of public opinion doesn't need evidence.
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It doesn't need to be based on anything credible.
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And she's talking about, oh yeah, would it have stood up in court?
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It doesn't, it doesn't matter in the court of public opinion.
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And if the lawyer is saying, if my team of lawyers is basically saying like, no, this
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I mean, it doesn't really matter if like the 13 year olds on TikTok disagree.
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I get this question a lot about why did I not sue for defamation?
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The first one, it takes years to resolve defamation cases.
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And also on top of that, in the state of California, it is extremely, extremely hard to win because
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The second reason why is because it can cost hundreds of thousands of dollars to go through
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We do believe that the truth has a way of surfacing.
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And when you live in the truth and when you live in light, and I think I've lived a life
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of growth and I think resilience is the best proof of who I am and of what happened to me
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Honestly, this was always just about the court of public opinion for Jack.
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He never had the intention of addressing anything legally.
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And when my legal team reached out to his after he posted his video, they literally had
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Honestly, the sad truth is that anyone can say anything online without proof.
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Yeah, and you're right that this is the only way that it's going to stop is because now
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She's saying, hey, anyone can say anything online without proof.
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You know, that's why, oh my gosh, I get so irritated with the trad cons when they're like,
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when really the solution to feminism is more feminism.
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And if a YouTube rep is watching, I wouldn't even want that.
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Yeah, really, I'm like, but the conservatives will always say like, no, you can't do any
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of it back to them, like be nigh, you know, but you're right now she's complaining.
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It's going to get way more attention than if a man complained.
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Remember, the tried and proven thing is I've seen plenty of women where they they're all
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for these female tactics and stuff until it happens to their brother or their son or
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a woman will will will find a good guy to marry, but he already had kids and he sees
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Or they have to warn their son about women like them.
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And especially with like AI now, things can be doctored and narratives can be changed
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America's justice system is founded on innocent until proven guilty.
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But I've noticed that a lot of the younger generation likes to think that it's guilty
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I've seen a lot of people mention about like what Tana said a couple months ago regarding
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like Jack's character and how he kind of is like a different person online than he is
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To be honest, I've always hoped that people would see through those eyes and that it's
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not always what is presented on the outside that is true.
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I try to have as much grace as possible here, especially when talking about him.
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But if I'm being honest, even when we were friends, he's always been very strategic.
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I addressed that in the YouTube video way more in depth, how he used me and I was like
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And then I decided that we were no longer friends.
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He literally told me and I included screenshots.
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It's not good for the brand to end our friendship.
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After he posted all of his allegations and made everything about me, he deleted his entire,
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all of the TikToks with me to basically sway public opinion and make it seem like it was
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But I included a lot of these videos in the YouTube video that I just posted.
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Even I forgot how affectionate he was to me and vice versa on camera.
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When you take away context or manipulate what people see, it's a lot easier to tell your
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Since this happened years ago, I received like thousands of DMs.
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Currently 22 and went through something similar at 16 and 19 to the point I deleted all my social
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media and have scar makeup that are visible enough.
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Messages from people, girls specifically, who are going through something in their life
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that they don't feel like they will get out of.
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And if I, somebody who went through this so publicly, can speak about it and offer encouragement
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of like, you will come back and this is not the end of your story, then that's what I'm
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Yeah, but for men, it usually is the end of their story.
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In the, um, in the long form video, she had, you don't have to worry about it, but she
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actually says that she regretted that, that one video that she posted because it, um, it
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minimized what was going on with SA victims and stuff.
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So she took accountability for that cringe video that she posted.
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Oh no, that's the new, is that the new boyfriend?
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If you go to her TikTok and her YouTube, if you go far back enough, you, but you, you
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She, she literally has a video called I Love Jack Wright.
01:21:18.020
Pearl, would you sue if your siblings were smearing your names with your relatives for 50 years,
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causing them to stop talking to you without asking your side?
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Because, I know that's like obviously what men go through, but like lawsuits are just so expensive.
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Because, I mean, I, there was even a point where I considered one with some people that said stuff that was untrue about me.
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But, it's like the amount of time that you have to go through to do it, and money, and to get, especially if they're broke, like what are you going to get money that they're never going to pay?
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Um, yeah, I guess you could clear your name, but, I mean, Conor McGregor just got guilty in civil court of rape.
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At the bottom of the document, I found a TikTok that you can use.
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The eyes and words are so icy, oh, but cheaper, like Rome on fire.
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Oh, she was saying, too, when he said she broke into the house, she was saying that it was actually, that there was a code that everyone had, so people would just go in and out, like, all, because that's kind of how the hype houses are.
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The way she tells me I'm hers, and she is mine.
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This is way too much excitement around a relationship and attention.
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Could this go back to the fact that women don't know how to take rejection and don't know how to take L's?
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And she just kept trying and trying and trying.
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Yeah, and I bet sometimes, you know, he kind of gave in and was, like, making out or whatever.
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Because, you know, if this was a guy trying to say, well, he was showing, they'd be like, whoa, you should have known better, man.
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Okay, well, I mean, I think that the government really shouldn't be in those relationships.
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I think it's kind of an over-exaggeration, but since women asked for this, we got it.
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Do you think the court of public opinion is always going to be a thing?
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Like, I think the truth is coming out more now than ever, where you see, like, influencers being found out for being fake.
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Like, you see, like, even, like, the top comments on the Nala woman for her TikToks are a lot of men, like, calling her out on the B.
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I mean, I think people are smarter than they were in the past, and because women talk too much, our tricks have been revealed.
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I think it's just going to be more male and female content, so the women will believe the women and the men, you know.
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What would you, what would, I guess, just for a conversation, definitively, like, what would you, if a man were to be falsely accused, what do you think would be, like, his first couple of steps?
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Would you recommend that, like, what would you recommend?
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Yeah, so let's say you're, like, a social media personality and false accusations come out.
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Like, what would, and he would say, Pearl, I'm being falsely accused.
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What would you think, what would you say to the guy?
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I think men should defend themselves and bring out the receipts.
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I think it depends on the situation and what evidence you have, but you need to be compiling evidence as you're dating women that everything was consensual.
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So I have a friend who balanced a lot of women in London, and the way he avoided false accusations is he'd always get a text the day after saying, I had a good time.
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He's like, you have to make sure you, like, call them back because you have to understand the psychology of women that women tend to falsely accuse when their reputation is on the line.
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So a lot of times when women get caught cheating, they falsely accuse.
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When women look like sluts, they falsely accuse.
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When they feel like they're going to lose something, like, big time.
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So if they feel like they're going to lose their career, their kids, something significant to them.
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Yeah, so you have to, like, kind of play into that psychology.
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And, I mean, I'd even recommend if you want to ghost a woman instead of ghosting her, cry in front of her to get her to leave.
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No, because if she gets mad, like, you don't know what she's going to do.
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So it's kind of better to get her to leave rather, you know, than dump.
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And I think men kind of figure this out on their own.
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But, and I think you should defend yourself, you know, like, bring out the text, bring out the receipts.
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If she's, you know, if she's, if she's willing to throw you under the bus and go public, like, I say do it back.
01:28:50.960
And then if, if a female content creator that you were friends with came to you and said,
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Pearl, this person could be men or women is falsely accusing me of something, what would you say to her?
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I think, I think defend yourself, let the facts come out and do it right away and move on.
01:29:15.880
I know a lot of lawyers will tell you not to talk.
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But I think Dave Portnoy, like, he always would say that all the lawyers would tell him to shut up, don't respond, don't respond.
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And he would just give the facts and go back to his show.
01:29:31.920
So, so you say the Dave Portnoy method where when it first came out, you'd literally turn your phone on and try to get your story out there along with the initial narrative.
01:29:46.220
You have to think through what you're going to say.
01:29:48.540
But there was actually a kid that was a drum major at Jackson City University.
01:29:54.300
And he was, he was in Target looking for a lamp for his, for his, his dorm room.
01:30:03.200
And this girl turns on a video and says, this guy is following me.
01:30:09.400
And the guy's like, she's like, why are you following me?
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It's like, you've been following me for all these different aisles or whatever.
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But he, he put his identity out there like right away.
01:30:37.580
And his whole support group, like the whole school and everything came to defend him.
01:30:43.500
Like, I would always get dirt on women that you're dating that she knows she doesn't want to come out.
01:30:50.580
Like, there has to be some secret that she does not want to be public.
01:30:56.100
But if she knows you have it, she's going to be less likely to do it.
01:30:59.440
But if she knows something, like, and you got to be non-judgmental too.
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Like, you can't, like, ask her personal questions.
01:31:07.960
But if she knows, you know, she's going to be a lot less likely to do it.
01:31:13.820
And they don't think about the future when they get upset, though.
01:31:18.720
Well, I mean, that's when you go and defend yourself, you know.
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I mean, that's all, I'm not saying it's foolproof.
01:31:26.400
Based on what I've seen, that's the best you got.
01:31:35.640
Okay, anyways, do you have any final thoughts for the show?
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I want to see more women paying child support, more women paying alimony, more women falsely accused.
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I want to see more police judo throwing women around and putting cuffs on them.
01:31:55.880
Everything that men had to go through historically that women put them through, I want to see the same thing happen to women.
01:32:12.260
So, equality with women means them facing everything a man has to go through.
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And enough women have to go through this for them to realize that.
01:32:33.300
I mean, we had a PI on the show and he makes women sign a document before hooking up with them.
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Kenny says, this is not financial advice, just my opinion.
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How financial people on the internet protect themselves.
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Look, I don't want anyone to come back and say, Pearl, this didn't work.
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She only said it because I asked, not because anyone solicited her for advice.
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So, any report on weird behavior of women to HR, if you're a man, do not wait and fight for yourself.
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That's my ex-wife took 19K and I kept the house because I was going to take alimony from her.
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But if you guys want, actually, Terrence Pop sells a course called Administrative Violence on how to use the justice system against women that they use on you.
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And thank you to everyone on the website for supporting me.