JustPearlyThings - January 23, 2025


Modern Women Lack Hobbies; Making Them Boring And Unenjoyable ｜ Pearl Daily


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 5 minutes

Words per Minute

148.29474

Word Count

9,779

Sentence Count

870

Misogynist Sentences

160

Hate Speech Sentences

117


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Thank you.
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00:01:35.000 Good afternoon.
00:01:36.580 Good evening, ladies and gentlemen.
00:01:38.500 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
00:01:42.060 I am your host, Pearl.
00:01:43.520 And do I have a show for you?
00:01:45.520 So today we are going to be talking about what hobbies the ladies have.
00:01:51.320 But before we start, guys, if you can go to the audacitynetwork.com and get a monthly or yearly membership.
00:01:57.500 I do read your chats.
00:01:58.680 If you are on the website, you get unlimited chats for the year and one yearly membership pays for the show.
00:02:05.600 So every so often I Google my name to see what comes up.
00:02:10.780 And as you guys know, you know, I could get into a little drama.
00:02:16.060 Sometimes I can be a little divisive.
00:02:18.260 So I get articles and hit pieces written about me all the time.
00:02:22.860 And normally I don't really read them or go into them.
00:02:27.900 But every so often I like to see where my name is in the media.
00:02:31.860 And I was thinking about the adage that men like things and women like people.
00:02:38.920 Because that's something I've heard my whole life.
00:02:41.460 That, you know, men are interested in things and women are interested in people.
00:02:45.040 And the data I have seen proves that to be true.
00:02:48.560 I found this article that talks about female hobbies and I found my name in it.
00:02:54.180 What a coincidence.
00:02:55.500 The writer seems shocked about the general sentiment that of most people, male and female,
00:03:01.600 is that women don't have real hobbies like men do.
00:03:04.240 While her article is satire, I do think it's worth going through.
00:03:08.580 Women do not have hobbies.
00:03:10.420 Not one's worth having anyway.
00:03:12.520 Men have hobbies that benefit themselves and the women that are with them.
00:03:16.820 Going to the gym, working on cars, playing a sport, video games.
00:03:20.300 But what do the ladies do for hobbies?
00:03:22.480 What do we do?
00:03:25.020 Makeup tutorials.
00:03:27.880 Social media.
00:03:29.160 Binge drinking.
00:03:29.900 We're ranked the number one binge drinkers.
00:03:35.640 Gossiping with friends.
00:03:37.360 Back in the day, women used to have real hobbies and hobbies that could benefit the entire family
00:03:41.820 and the community like sewing, knitting, cooking, baking.
00:03:45.100 The hobbies are now frowned upon by modern women.
00:03:49.880 You know, guys, when is the last time you dated a woman that cooked better than you?
00:03:53.440 Now, let's look at this article.
00:03:58.800 How women are ruining the world one hobby at a time.
00:04:05.920 Today, my doctor diagnosed me with an acute case of whiplash, which I reasonably presumed was the result of headbanging to Doja Cat's Scarlet album for 666 minutes straight.
00:04:19.920 And while listening to the satanic girly pop certainly doesn't do women any favors, it turns out this wasn't the cause of my suffering.
00:04:29.480 Could it have been due to a recent car accident where I drove into oncoming traffic because my uterus remembered that dogs exist?
00:04:36.600 No, it wasn't that either.
00:04:38.580 This bout of whiplash was a direct result of diving headfirst into the discourse surrounding women's hobbies and interests.
00:04:49.640 For years, I didn't even believe that women had hobbies.
00:04:53.280 Like many others, my eyes were first opened when a clip from Good Bro, Bad Bro podcast went viral in 2022.
00:05:00.040 I can remember the exact moment I heard him utter the words, how many girls do you know who actually had hobbies?
00:05:10.360 A horrified gasp escaped my mouth.
00:05:13.560 My crochet hook plummeted to the floor.
00:05:16.420 Dread washed over me.
00:05:17.640 It was true.
00:05:18.400 I'd never had a hobby.
00:05:20.220 However, this sentiment is neither new nor novel.
00:05:23.560 Whistleblowers have been trying to get through to the masses for years, but no one is ready to listen.
00:05:28.340 No one was ready to learn that the female race is void of any personal interests, at least of substance.
00:05:36.120 Someone said, what is your hobby?
00:05:37.760 Divorce.
00:05:39.720 You guys are funny.
00:05:42.160 Okay, why do women less hobby-oriented than men?
00:05:48.960 They can't even do their basic grammar.
00:05:50.920 My God, okay.
00:05:51.840 For instance, it seems that a lot of women don't have too many hobbies,
00:05:55.380 where men are often into cars, woodworking, sports technology, magic tricks, art, gaming, electronics, gadgets, and other activities.
00:06:07.740 This is something that's been on my mind a lot lately.
00:06:11.100 When I think about my male friends and what they do, many of them have interests and hobbies.
00:06:15.560 For example, one is in a real film buff.
00:06:20.260 Some DJ play guitar, play football.
00:06:22.880 A lot of my female friends, though, just seem to enjoy watching The Only Way is Essex and X Factor,
00:06:29.300 listening to whatever one radio plays.
00:06:32.740 And they don't ever seem to think a film is good unless it's got a hot guy in it somewhere.
00:06:38.220 This is what I've been saying.
00:06:39.540 And it's overly sentimental like The Notebook.
00:06:43.760 When I think back to most of the girls I've liked, they've not been like this.
00:06:48.440 They've all genuinely been interesting people, but they're just hard to find.
00:06:53.400 Even at uni, when you expect people to be a little less mainstream, as it were.
00:06:59.560 Now we go back to the author.
00:07:01.440 Unlike women, men have real hobbies.
00:07:03.820 Their superior pastimes include watching movies, buying smartphones, and looking at cars.
00:07:09.960 I have never even seen a car.
00:07:11.420 Maybe that's why I keep getting into accidents.
00:07:14.200 But this really can't be true, can it?
00:07:16.520 Because, in fact, it is well documented that women like to charge their phone,
00:07:21.620 twerk, be bisexual, eat hot chips, and lie.
00:07:24.840 So why can't my girl math make sense of this equation?
00:07:29.520 That sounds pretty accurate.
00:07:31.200 I'm not going to...
00:07:31.620 Women do have hobbies.
00:07:32.620 They're just all bad.
00:07:33.560 The miracle of social media age is that we have a slew of brilliant leaders
00:07:38.320 to guide us through this confusing terrain.
00:07:41.200 This includes people like Andrew Tate, Pearl Davis, and Myron Gaines,
00:07:46.180 the first person to ever come up with the concept of women-only gems.
00:07:50.560 What I've learned from these pioneers of the manosphere
00:07:53.680 is that women have a finite collection of interests,
00:07:56.640 and they're usually a cover for something more sinister.
00:07:58.960 That their chosen hobbies are far too delicate to be handled by the meaty hands of a mere girl.
00:08:05.520 Don't worry.
00:08:06.360 I've outlined some distractions to look out for.
00:08:11.120 If she says she's passionate about makeup and fashion, what she really means is she's into manipulation and deception.
00:08:19.260 Women like this are actually energy vampires who thrive off your disappointment when you see their natural body.
00:08:25.220 Turns out her 10-inch eyelashes aren't real, and her cleavage doesn't reach her chin without a bra.
00:08:31.480 She's practically a swamp creature.
00:08:33.320 If your wife is getting into fitness, it's time to lock her in the house before she starts heading to the gym,
00:08:39.420 because she's only going there to cheat on you.
00:08:43.000 You know what's funny?
00:08:44.160 She's making this as satire.
00:08:48.040 This is not inaccurate.
00:08:50.260 Now, it's one thing, you know, if your girl, you found her in the gym, right?
00:08:54.340 Like, if you found her in the gym and that's been a part of her life, okay.
00:08:57.220 But if she randomly got really into fitness and nutrition, I have bad news for you, fellas.
00:09:10.140 It will have nothing to do with her wanting to improve her health, train for a marathon, or get into lifting,
00:09:15.060 and it definitely won't have anything to do with the fact that you compared her butt to a bowl of cottage cheese.
00:09:21.240 See, this is the thing.
00:09:22.380 The guys that have the balls to do that, to tell their wife they're fat,
00:09:25.920 they just get dumped.
00:09:29.460 Like, they don't, those guys don't give you a warning, right?
00:09:35.440 They just, you're just done.
00:09:37.720 Like, they're cheating or they're dumping you.
00:09:39.700 Like, there's no negotiation.
00:09:43.060 Let me, let me give you a heads up.
00:09:45.340 No.
00:09:46.720 No.
00:09:47.360 They, the guys that don't have the balls to do that, I mean, they're just going to put up with it,
00:09:51.780 because that's, you know, it's like, oh, I got to go another year without sex.
00:09:57.160 That's too much.
00:09:58.160 I'm not going to do that.
00:10:00.140 Speaking of the gym, be aware that any woman who participates in sports regularly is simply
00:10:05.760 looking for an excuse to wear as little clothing as possible, even if it's literally her job,
00:10:10.660 especially if it's her job.
00:10:12.520 Now, I have a personal story about this, because I grew up playing volleyball.
00:10:15.600 And volleyball, they obviously have the spandex, right?
00:10:21.100 We also have basketball.
00:10:23.080 And basketball has, like, knee length, shorts, and they kind of dress you like a dude.
00:10:29.260 But women would always fight to be more naked.
00:10:31.920 Like, if the uniform was spandex, there was always one or two girls whose spandex would be up their asshole.
00:10:39.780 Guys, let's not pretend you don't know this.
00:10:41.900 You guys, why else were you going to the game?
00:10:44.060 No one cares about women's sports.
00:10:47.440 No one cares about it, right?
00:10:49.980 And basketball, they'd always hike their shorts up.
00:10:53.540 You know, now, as a woman that, you know, grew up playing sports, I could tell the difference
00:11:00.420 between a woman who actually likes the hobby and a woman who's just there to be naked.
00:11:05.840 But they're definitely there.
00:11:08.280 For me to pretend that doesn't exist, come on.
00:11:11.960 Now, for the love of God, do not let your woman observe the night sky.
00:11:17.880 Seeing stars is a slippery slope to astrology and the woo-woo.
00:11:21.640 The moment she finds out about astrology is the moment that sparkly rocks will begin to plague your home.
00:11:27.740 You will step onto them.
00:11:28.800 They will give you boo-boos.
00:11:29.920 Then, when you go to play poker with the boys, you'll reach a set of cards and accidentally draw a tarot instead.
00:11:36.140 It'll be the tower.
00:11:37.540 You will lose every game that night, and your mustache will never be connected to your beard.
00:11:43.820 But you're probably wondering, what's the hidden agenda behind female-dominated hobbies?
00:11:48.040 Like, sewing, dancing, and yoga.
00:11:51.880 Honestly, you're on your own there.
00:11:53.800 I can only reach so far with a sore neck.
00:11:57.600 I'll tell you what it is.
00:11:59.800 Overspending and community.
00:12:02.420 You know, I know someone that runs a yoga studio, and he said they always have to make it less hard because the ladies complain.
00:12:10.780 Like, if you want to get a good workout in and you go to a female-only class, I have bad news for you.
00:12:16.420 You're not going to be burning many calories.
00:12:18.600 You're not.
00:12:19.840 Okay, now let's address some of the true crime fascination.
00:12:23.800 True crime is an increasingly popular genre, with the majority of its audience appearing to be women.
00:12:29.800 Even the study of forensics has become overrun by them, making it one of the only female-dominated scientific fields.
00:12:36.980 That's because we like to eat blood.
00:12:38.500 Some theorize that this could be due to women's keen interests in psychology, puzzle-solving, and justice.
00:12:46.940 Others have pointed out that it gives a woman a sense of catharsis, a way of taking back control over valid fears that women face.
00:12:57.720 Studying cases also means teaching potential victims how they can identify warning signs, take preventative measures,
00:13:06.160 and escape the most drastic circumstances.
00:13:09.700 Similarly, many of these factors are also mentioned when studying male interests of content focused on war and gangs,
00:13:16.800 something that men have historically been the main target of in terms of conscription.
00:13:22.140 So why do women like these shows?
00:13:26.460 It's probably the same reason they like dating felons, guys with face tattoos, and emotionally distant bad boys on motorcycles.
00:13:34.300 Attraction to violence and dominance.
00:13:36.820 Simple as that.
00:13:38.960 You know, I need to stop hearing this stuff that women fear for their safety.
00:13:42.980 Let me get this straight.
00:13:46.840 The women that are going out alone at night that post their location on the internet travel alone abroad are worried about safety.
00:14:02.040 Okay, sure.
00:14:04.140 I can totally tell.
00:14:05.460 The most important argument, but also the most logical one, so people wouldn't agree.
00:14:13.540 Women murder a lot more than I realize.
00:14:16.320 Some are genuinely interested in the outcome of a documentary.
00:14:20.960 But some have got ideas for how to kill their partner for a life insurance money payout.
00:14:26.600 But if we're being honest, our attraction to true crime is probably chalked up to three things.
00:14:35.320 Addiction to drama, sexual masochism, and the female urge to murder their partners for life insurance.
00:14:44.140 These truly are aspects unique to women.
00:14:50.520 A man would never murder his spouse to run away with a lover in a bag full of cash.
00:14:55.480 I swear, Chris Watts is the only guy to ever have done that.
00:14:59.200 Don't Google it.
00:14:59.980 Just trust me, bro.
00:15:01.820 But above all else, the worst hobby for a woman to have is gaming.
00:15:05.900 Not many people know this, but the problem in Genesis wasn't that Eve took an apple from the tree of knowledge.
00:15:13.120 It's that she had the audacity to turn the MacBook on, download Tetris, and crush Adam every time he reached a new high score.
00:15:20.200 For this, women received the curse of painful childbirth and the duty of homemaking, so they would be too busy to even think about the video games.
00:15:29.860 Men, on the other hand, would have to compensate for Adam's embarrassment with manual labor to prove their masculinity and motivate them to get good once they return to the man cave.
00:15:41.340 But this vital lesson has been long forgotten, and modern gaming has been flooded with women once again.
00:15:47.240 Back in the day, video games were sexy.
00:15:50.920 Female characters had big boobs, round butts, and tiny waists.
00:15:54.240 They squeaked every time they took damage and wore skin-tight bodysuits and skimpy outfits.
00:16:03.320 No complaints there, right, fellas?
00:16:05.280 They're like, hell yeah, that's what, yes, yes, they did.
00:16:12.280 But since the return of Gamer Girls fan service has been revoked, now female characters look like this.
00:16:19.740 If you're wondering how this character's outfit doesn't appeal to the male gaze, you're probably just a woman.
00:16:26.380 It's okay, I'm right there with you.
00:16:27.920 But if you really want to understand the issue, you can visit this change.org petition.
00:16:34.360 What is it?
00:16:36.140 Free Stellar Blade?
00:16:37.780 I don't know who that is.
00:16:39.760 It's a new game, but it has a problem.
00:16:42.440 The content has been censored from the original trailer posted by Sony.
00:16:46.860 We, as gamers, want this content back.
00:16:51.240 Okay, I don't really get that, but I'll keep going.
00:16:53.660 Wait, so he's telling me they added more clothes and the guys are...
00:17:04.920 Oh, they took her from that to this?
00:17:08.620 Oh, I can see...
00:17:09.600 Those are two different.
00:17:11.540 Oh, there are two different ones?
00:17:12.640 They're basically...
00:17:13.520 Okay.
00:17:15.800 Do you agree?
00:17:16.700 I don't know who that is.
00:17:18.520 They're like, bring back the naked anime women.
00:17:29.700 Okay.
00:17:30.380 So, but truth be told, I'm definitely part of the problem.
00:17:34.760 Despite having no qualms and set with sexy characters, although even an even playing field
00:17:40.600 would be...
00:17:41.100 Guys, we have naked stripper men, like, shows.
00:17:45.960 When I went to Vegas last time, that was the number one thing I saw on posters.
00:17:52.100 I bet that's going to be more common.
00:17:53.860 I won't lie to you guys.
00:17:55.120 I also take no issue with ugly characters like Mary Jane.
00:17:58.920 The very sight of these women sends some men into an absolute frenzy.
00:18:04.240 I guess just having a hard time figuring out what overly sensitive woke behavior and what's
00:18:09.800 justified male range.
00:18:11.380 One day I'll evolve to understand.
00:18:12.960 You know, I actually have strong opinions on this.
00:18:15.720 Men, look, they're not that picky.
00:18:18.460 They're really not.
00:18:19.200 If you guys saw how low men's attraction floor is, like, okay, when I did my show and we had
00:18:26.420 a thousand women on, there would be women on the podcast that I would deem as fat, that
00:18:32.320 I would look at them and I would say, that woman is fat, not chubby, fat.
00:18:37.480 And after the show, the guys were talking about how she had big boobs.
00:18:43.160 It's like, women will have one positive feature, one, and the men will disregard all of the
00:18:53.280 ugly or the fat.
00:18:54.660 They're like, you know what?
00:18:55.340 That's good enough.
00:18:56.540 But where men don't like this, what they don't like is to see, like when they go to a titty
00:19:03.180 magazine, right?
00:19:04.460 They expect there to be perfect boobs.
00:19:07.780 It doesn't mean that their girlfriend has to have perfect boobs, but when they have a
00:19:13.840 Spider-Man movie and their childhood, Mary Jane was a hot redhead and they go in and see
00:19:22.940 Zendaya who, again, she's cute.
00:19:26.320 Most guys would be like, for a girlfriend, good enough.
00:19:29.820 Good enough.
00:19:30.660 I'll take it.
00:19:31.300 But they're like, this is TV.
00:19:35.020 I'm supposed to see Megan Fox.
00:19:36.880 I'm supposed to see whatever the actress's name was, that was Mary Jane, Pamela Anderson
00:19:43.240 Lovell.
00:19:43.920 That's where the disconnect is.
00:19:47.120 It's when it's higher than it's supposed to be.
00:19:53.220 Now, the author goes back to say, so I have to admit, I'm not sure where to place myself.
00:20:00.240 I grew up with video games with my parents, cousins, and friends throughout the entirety
00:20:04.000 of my childhood.
00:20:05.240 But my mere existence is suddenly the cause of there being a few less games that double
00:20:10.420 as sperm bank material.
00:20:12.520 People want us to prove we have hobbies.
00:20:14.900 But the moment a woman coughs in a game chat, she's barraged with sexual harassment, relentless
00:20:21.220 threats, baseless insults, which is not much different than what happens when we enter
00:20:27.760 a gym, a comedy club, an athletic field, or a tech startup.
00:20:32.760 And again, this is why women have a tendency to ruin men's spaces.
00:20:37.760 Men are so much funnier than us.
00:20:40.280 And I know this because I'm kind of funny for a woman.
00:20:42.800 You guys aren't going to humble me today.
00:20:44.340 I'm funny for a woman.
00:20:46.000 And the thing is, but compared to like a male comedian, it's just not close.
00:20:50.680 It's like Nikki Glaser, whatever.
00:20:52.660 I don't even know if I'm saying her last name right.
00:20:54.600 Blonde, tall woman.
00:20:56.120 She's funny.
00:20:56.680 She's actually funny.
00:21:00.380 But compared to Dave Chappelle, it's not even close.
00:21:07.260 You know what I mean?
00:21:07.700 It's not.
00:21:10.020 And the reason men are funny is they're just a lot more direct.
00:21:12.980 And they roast the crap out of each other.
00:21:16.420 You know, my brother played some shooting game.
00:21:19.460 I don't know.
00:21:20.060 I don't really care what it is.
00:21:21.200 But I would listen to him.
00:21:23.000 We shared a vent when I was younger.
00:21:24.980 And I would listen to the things his best friends would say to him.
00:21:29.860 And I'm talking racial insults, sexist insults, calling each other idiots.
00:21:36.360 They're not very nice.
00:21:37.420 And as women, we couldn't take it.
00:21:39.760 But the guys, it's weird.
00:21:41.880 They'll just insult each other really bad and then be best friends.
00:21:45.880 I'm like, I, okay.
00:21:48.960 Anyways, so she says, but we ask for it because we're existing in men's faces.
00:21:55.200 Maybe the real problem is that some men are uncomfortable when girls have hobbies and interests
00:21:59.900 that don't directly serve them.
00:22:01.520 Because really, what purpose does a man, a woman have outside of being barefoot, a barefoot home appliance?
00:22:09.120 After all, the devil loves idle hands and women who wear shoes.
00:22:15.760 So this is the article that was written.
00:22:19.580 It's obviously satire.
00:22:22.820 Now, the writer of this article was, again, trying to be funny.
00:22:27.200 Trying.
00:22:27.560 That's the, that's, we just don't, we're just not that funny, you know.
00:22:36.280 But she misses a really great point.
00:22:39.260 Men have hobbies and women can't stand them.
00:22:43.060 The first thing a woman does in a relationship with a man is expect him to give up what he likes to give her more attention.
00:22:51.480 Gone are the days of playing video games for an afternoon after a long, hard day of work.
00:23:00.200 You now have to go to her sister's friend's event that you don't care about.
00:23:05.960 Remember, women want women to change as things get more, remember, women want men to change as things get more serious in a relationship.
00:23:16.820 Where men want women to stay the same.
00:23:20.380 They're like, please have sex with me as much as when we first met.
00:23:25.680 Please.
00:23:26.780 You don't have to do anything.
00:23:28.080 Just be, be exactly this way.
00:23:31.520 Please.
00:23:34.280 Nag at me.
00:23:36.000 As little as when we first met.
00:23:38.540 I'll, one a week, it's fine.
00:23:40.100 But please, I just don't need the nagging every single day.
00:23:43.020 I don't.
00:23:44.840 And the women think, hmm.
00:23:47.460 Okay, he's hot, but he's broke.
00:23:51.800 Let me, let me fix that.
00:23:54.920 Let me inspire him.
00:23:56.320 Let me build a man.
00:24:05.820 And then the men secretly hate you.
00:24:08.100 That's really how it goes.
00:24:09.040 I mean, they're, like, forced to stay because, like, they're good people and they're like, I have a kid and a wife.
00:24:13.940 I can't leave.
00:24:16.340 But they don't, they stop, you know, enjoying being around you.
00:24:20.440 Can you, um.
00:24:23.000 Now, I want to talk about the life cycle of male hobbies.
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00:26:11.000 Now, I want to talk about the modern life cycle of male hobbies.
00:26:15.180 So, what tends to happen is men make something really cool.
00:26:20.540 They get together, and men just naturally are inventors.
00:26:24.020 They've invented 90 plus percent of the world's things.
00:26:27.660 And when women invent something, it's always something we don't really need, like a pair of pants.
00:26:33.460 And I'd like to say this isn't all women.
00:26:35.180 This isn't all men.
00:26:36.060 No generalities here.
00:26:37.220 I would never make those.
00:26:39.360 But if we're going to go based on patterns, data, and trends.
00:26:45.200 Examples of things that men invented.
00:26:47.620 Bitcoin.
00:26:48.680 Hunting.
00:26:50.160 Men started bodybuilding.
00:26:51.720 Weightlifting.
00:26:52.440 Golf.
00:26:53.260 Sports.
00:26:53.800 Anime.
00:26:54.080 So, they'll make something awesome.
00:26:58.020 And the women, you know, they'll come in.
00:27:04.540 They'll come in and say, I want to be a part of the cool thing.
00:27:10.400 And the men, you know, the men like hot women.
00:27:13.720 So, if women they could have sex with, say they want to join the game, the cosplay, I mean, they're not against it, right?
00:27:24.540 But this doesn't come without a price.
00:27:29.420 So, the first thing that will happen is the ladies will get in and they will complain how there's not enough opportunity for them.
00:27:41.400 Even though they are more than likely being given special treatment.
00:27:45.580 And all the men get together and they think, that woman has gotten ten times the amount of opportunity for five percent of the work and she's complaining about oppression.
00:28:00.860 But if I have to argue with her that she's not oppressed, it's going to make my life hell.
00:28:05.500 She's going to go around and destroy my reputation and just ruin my life.
00:28:19.060 So, I'm just going to let her think that.
00:28:22.780 And the women get their coalition together where they cry about the oppression that's not there.
00:28:27.840 And the men are like, you know what, if they're complaining, I just have better shit to do.
00:28:33.000 I don't want to worry about this.
00:28:34.480 Go ahead, complain.
00:28:36.320 I might even nod along as you cry.
00:28:39.140 Whatever.
00:28:39.720 Just let me play my video games.
00:28:41.560 Please put the boobs out.
00:28:43.460 Okay.
00:28:44.920 So, you know, the women will say, like in gaming, they'll say there's some oppression and that's why they can't be as good.
00:28:51.600 Now, the next thing the women do is they need to get attention in that space.
00:28:57.900 So, they either go in, they're looking for a husband, probably not a husband, probably just a simp.
00:29:04.480 Do you know what I mean?
00:29:05.020 Like, let's just be honest here.
00:29:08.140 The Gen Z women rank men seventh in terms of priorities.
00:29:12.840 Millennials, it's like fourth.
00:29:17.120 Maybe they're there for a hookup.
00:29:18.560 I don't know.
00:29:18.940 The next thing they do is they get naked.
00:29:24.640 So, you know, the tits will come out.
00:29:27.400 The boobs will come out.
00:29:29.120 The ass, everything gets shorter.
00:29:32.120 And then you get the naked anime women.
00:29:40.580 You know, I went to a convention the other day and there's all these half-naked women.
00:29:45.040 But then what will happen is, you know, the women initiate the sexuality first, right?
00:29:50.560 They start by getting naked, wearing revealing clothes.
00:29:53.260 And we're not stupid as ladies.
00:29:56.740 You know, do you know why American Pie was such a popular movie?
00:30:03.340 Because so many guys could relate to wanting to have sex with a pie.
00:30:08.920 Maybe not a pie, but like, you know, it spoke to the male sex drive, which is, they got a lot of testosterone.
00:30:16.160 It just is what it is.
00:30:17.740 So the women will get naked and they'll say, men, don't think about sex.
00:30:21.540 And the men are like, why are you here?
00:30:26.080 The men will say, bitch, you're naked.
00:30:30.920 And the women will say, you're a perv and a pedophile.
00:30:34.660 I'm going to sue you for discrimination.
00:30:39.800 That's what we're going to do.
00:30:40.840 Now, I'd like to say not all women, not all men.
00:30:45.080 This isn't every single one.
00:30:47.080 You know, the other, I guess the other caveats I'll put, some women get into a hobby because their dad or brothers liked it.
00:30:56.300 You know, my producer's sister can build anything because he taught her, I think.
00:31:00.960 Someone taught him.
00:31:02.120 I don't know who.
00:31:03.320 But, you know, some girls grow up like that.
00:31:07.960 Yeah.
00:31:10.840 It's not the norm.
00:31:12.520 It's not.
00:31:13.040 It's the exception.
00:31:13.980 It's not the rule.
00:31:14.640 So there is a caveat, right?
00:31:17.680 You know, occasionally they're truly interested in things.
00:31:22.120 But now the thing is, women have a tendency to only like to applaud hobbies that benefit them.
00:31:31.980 So you don't really see women completely hating on Bitcoin, right?
00:31:36.180 Because Bitcoin, you can go into the Bitcoin niche, nab a Bitcoin guy, you're never working again.
00:31:44.540 Congratulations, ladies.
00:31:45.880 I've given you the cheat code.
00:31:48.160 Now, one hobby that does not benefit women is video games.
00:31:54.140 What do women get out of their guy playing video games?
00:31:57.260 Why should he enjoy himself is really the thought process.
00:32:01.440 Why should he enjoy himself when he could be doing something that benefits me?
00:32:06.180 And so you'll see the ladies nag on video games and talk about how bad they are.
00:32:11.840 And what the simp men will do is they'll say, you're right, we shouldn't play video games.
00:32:19.280 My answer would be, what's your screen time?
00:32:22.660 Because women go on social media.
00:32:24.500 We waste so much time on social media.
00:32:27.820 So here we go.
00:32:28.820 Woman complaining about hobbies.
00:32:30.420 The name of Vichelle for some comments that we made on last night's show, in case you missed it.
00:32:38.900 I feel so appreciative that my boyfriend doesn't play video games.
00:32:43.160 I know when you're saying, no, no, no, it's social.
00:32:45.600 No, no, no, they're not just nerds.
00:32:47.080 It's still a game.
00:32:48.660 If I go around to a guy's house, actually, I did this a couple of weeks ago and we watched a DVD.
00:32:54.560 Yeah.
00:32:54.860 And he put it in, like, a Sony PlayStation.
00:32:57.880 Oh, shit.
00:32:58.640 Did you really match straight away?
00:33:00.520 Yes.
00:33:01.000 Like, it's hard enough to get text messages back from guys.
00:33:03.560 I don't need to now compete with a freaking game.
00:33:06.680 Okay.
00:33:07.080 So off the back of those...
00:33:08.360 So she's admitting it there.
00:33:10.760 Women do not like anything that does not benefit them and that takes attention off of them.
00:33:15.920 You want to play video games for eight hours instead of talk to me?
00:33:25.960 The men are like, yes!
00:33:30.780 They're like, that's exactly what I want.
00:33:36.200 Okay, next.
00:33:37.400 Oh, wait, we have that one.
00:33:38.640 I watched this.
00:33:40.800 We watched this.
00:33:41.440 Liz Wheeler, a 30...
00:33:42.960 Okay, we're going to do a full show on this, a different day.
00:33:45.920 But, Liz Wheeler, conservative commentator.
00:33:49.820 And this is the conservative female commentator life cycle.
00:33:53.560 It always ends with nagging men to be better, even though you're a literal commentator.
00:33:58.820 You know what I mean?
00:33:59.420 It's like, if you're going to say the men aren't doing enough and they're not manly enough,
00:34:04.060 I expect you to have gotten married at 22 and be a trad wife.
00:34:10.640 Do you know what I mean?
00:34:11.100 Like, if you're going to...
00:34:12.480 And I have you guys' stats, ladies.
00:34:15.260 That's the expectation I have, all right?
00:34:17.780 Five-year-old commentator known for her outspoken views recently took to Twitter with a bold claim.
00:34:24.280 She said that playing video games is a major red flag for women and even went so far as to call it a deal breaker.
00:34:31.760 Liz wasn't talking about classic arcade games like Pac-Man.
00:34:35.060 Pyatt says, I'm so happy my ex-wife left me.
00:34:40.280 You know what?
00:34:40.540 I need this as a...
00:34:41.860 I need to do this as a show, too.
00:34:44.680 Do you know when guys are done with the relationship, but they know if they dump the girl, there's going to be a full-flown blow-up?
00:34:52.500 Have you guys ever tried to get a woman to dump you?
00:34:55.520 If you have, put your strategy of what you did in the comments.
00:35:00.300 Because I'm going to do a whole show on that.
00:35:02.800 When men want a woman to dump him.
00:35:07.640 I mean, Terrence gave a great strategy.
00:35:09.500 You got to cry in front of her.
00:35:15.900 Over something stupid.
00:35:17.460 She's like, is it a hard day at work?
00:35:18.940 No.
00:35:19.320 Did someone die?
00:35:20.220 No.
00:35:22.100 I just saw a puppy video today.
00:35:23.900 Okay.
00:35:25.520 Oh, too funny.
00:35:30.420 Man or Tetris.
00:35:31.800 No.
00:35:32.420 She meant the more immersive and time-consuming games that millions of men enjoy.
00:35:37.040 To back up her point.
00:35:38.920 And by the way, it's the simps that back up these ladies.
00:35:43.680 So when the women go together and say, men should not play video games.
00:35:48.500 I just want you to know, if you guys get manipulated by that, you're a simp.
00:35:52.380 And you got some work to do.
00:35:53.540 I don't know what you got to do with your life to wonder why you would ever go wrong,
00:35:58.900 you know, to change your behavior based on a nag.
00:36:03.740 Like, that's the...
00:36:04.600 You have to understand, every time women nag, they're saying, give me control of what you do.
00:36:08.700 And the low IQ, the low woman IQ men, they'll sign up.
00:36:15.060 They'll say, oh, yeah, this will make her happy.
00:36:18.420 But the high woman IQ men know that as soon as they give her control, she becomes a terrorist.
00:36:26.920 Have you...
00:36:27.320 You know, most men, when they get divorced, they don't see it coming.
00:36:30.520 They think she's happy.
00:36:33.680 You know, they're like, we haven't fought.
00:36:35.520 But the high IQ men with women, they're like, oh, no, you gotta...
00:36:40.080 You gotta start a fight.
00:36:42.060 Or, like, get some drama.
00:36:43.820 Make her think you're cheating, even if you're not.
00:36:45.780 Make her, you know, some guys will say, I'm mad at you in the morning, not text her all day, so she'll freak out.
00:36:56.700 And then say, oh, never mind, I forgot.
00:37:02.340 The strategies I've heard from guys to keep us entertained are so funny.
00:37:09.340 Oh, my God, they're so funny.
00:37:10.920 She shared a bar graph.
00:37:12.160 And I'm not saying this is right.
00:37:13.600 You know what I mean?
00:37:14.040 I'm not saying this is good.
00:37:15.600 Like, this is where...
00:37:16.780 Oh, my gosh.
00:37:19.880 So this is how the conversation goes between the traditional conservatives and the red pill.
00:37:24.860 The red pill says, hey, if your wife thinks you're cheating, she's going to treat you better.
00:37:32.880 Do with this information what you want.
00:37:35.880 If your wife...
00:37:37.160 If you flirt with other women in front of your wife,
00:37:41.740 your wife is going to be a better wife.
00:37:45.600 If you make her sure that you're not cheating, she's going to treat you bad.
00:37:52.560 And the morality police comes in and says, that's wrong.
00:37:57.120 You shouldn't do that.
00:37:58.380 And the guys in the red pill are like, hey, I got my wife to not leave me by doing this.
00:38:06.700 I'm not saying you should do it.
00:38:09.160 I'm saying this worked for me.
00:38:10.880 Then the morality people come in and just say, oh, you can't upset women.
00:38:19.480 That's so wrong.
00:38:22.160 I don't know which one of you in the chat is...
00:38:24.780 I know there's 900 people in here.
00:38:27.540 Somebody has simped in your lifetime.
00:38:29.460 Some woman has got you on this.
00:38:33.720 You know, I don't know who it was, but like someone did.
00:38:39.820 And ladies, the two women in the chat, let's not pretend we haven't done it.
00:38:43.260 This isn't like a conscious thing for us, right?
00:38:45.620 It's not like we're diabolically planning to do these things.
00:38:50.880 But women have a nature, right?
00:38:54.740 We just have kind of a hard wiring that is how we are, where we just like drama.
00:39:02.620 It's why I like cultural commentary over political commentary.
00:39:06.780 And most female commentators are the same.
00:39:09.380 It's way more entertaining to us.
00:39:11.760 Where the men are like, what specific laws are being passed?
00:39:16.000 I mean, Candace Owens is out here trying to figure out if some French man's wife is a dude.
00:39:25.740 I find it very entertaining, but I know if I brought that to my dad, he would say, who cares?
00:39:31.820 I don't care.
00:39:33.680 What executive orders did Trump sign?
00:39:39.220 We're different, right?
00:39:40.380 The sexes are different.
00:39:41.400 And what the red pill does, and if you guys want, if you guys, there's really good resources
00:39:50.760 for men that can help you navigate these problems and give you a guy, not me, right?
00:39:56.220 I don't, I don't date women.
00:39:57.940 I can't help you with that.
00:39:59.420 I'm here to put on an entertaining show.
00:40:03.880 But the morality people who are very obviously simps normally, like they're, they're just normally simps.
00:40:10.940 Like, that's just the default for them, the morality police.
00:40:13.680 So, you know, they'll come in and lecture the red pill guys, so to speak, and say, you're immoral, you're immoral.
00:40:22.600 And they're like, look, your wife has every single sign of divorcing you in five years.
00:40:30.120 And we all know what's going to happen.
00:40:31.920 Like Crowder.
00:40:33.060 Crowder morality policed everyone.
00:40:34.900 And then his wife falsely accused him.
00:40:39.340 And we all saw it coming for years, years.
00:40:42.940 You know, I can talk to a guy.
00:40:45.520 I can have about two conversations with a guy.
00:40:49.560 And figure out if he's going to get a divorce in the next decade.
00:40:52.780 I can pretty, because it's really more in the man's mentality.
00:40:56.260 And granted, because divorce is more of the default, but it's really obvious when a man's wife runs the show.
00:41:05.080 Like if a guy says, I can't move because of my wife.
00:41:09.980 Who runs the show?
00:41:12.340 Him or her.
00:41:13.600 If he says, and to be fair, men are given no authority in this society.
00:41:17.740 This isn't an easy thing to do.
00:41:19.780 But it all comes down to, does the guy have the balls to walk away?
00:41:26.480 And the thing is, the problem, the morality police tells them, generally will tell them,
00:41:32.280 that you are immoral and you're going to hell if you walk away, even if your wife doesn't sleep with you.
00:41:37.780 Even if your wife cheated.
00:41:39.160 You know, I went on Michael Knowles and he said no divorce for a man that was a victim of paternity fraud.
00:41:46.220 Paternity fraud!
00:41:47.060 Your wife not only cheated, but got pregnant by another dude.
00:41:52.300 This guy is supposed to represent traditional Catholics.
00:41:55.940 That's his position.
00:41:58.280 Now, I'm not saying that's, you know, the position of what the Catholic Church would be.
00:42:02.560 I'm saying that's the comment, right?
00:42:04.000 But that's not abnormal from the morality police, right?
00:42:12.360 And so, but the women, they know that, right?
00:42:15.080 They know he can't leave no matter how bad I am.
00:42:19.360 And so, they'll do this.
00:42:20.920 Sorry.
00:42:21.400 I'm getting on a tangent.
00:42:23.100 Let me go back into the hobbies.
00:42:24.620 I apologize.
00:42:25.540 I am sorry.
00:42:26.420 Go to theaudacitynetwork.com.
00:42:28.880 Spend 80 bucks a show and I'll stay more on topic.
00:42:32.540 Sorry.
00:42:32.860 And, and you guys can see all my old episodes.
00:42:36.800 So, if you guys remember Cheska for the OG fans, you can go see Cheska screaming on the audacity network.
00:42:43.900 Video games as the least attractive hobby for men, according to women.
00:42:47.940 But here's the kicker.
00:42:49.700 The data wasn't based on any actual study.
00:42:52.800 It was just your opinion.
00:42:55.600 And oh boy, did the internet have something to say about it?
00:42:58.620 The backlash.
00:43:00.120 And by the way, look, when a woman likes you, she'll play the video games with you.
00:43:11.000 This is the thing.
00:43:12.100 This is the discord, right?
00:43:13.260 The women that don't actually like their husbands are revealing themselves.
00:43:19.120 Because, you know, guys, I went to an anime convention.
00:43:27.040 I don't like anime.
00:43:28.100 No offense.
00:43:28.700 No offense to the anime watchers.
00:43:31.180 My boyfriend got, he got me to go to an anime convention.
00:43:35.880 And I had so much fun.
00:43:37.140 It was amazing.
00:43:38.980 And here's the thing.
00:43:40.820 When women actually like a guy, they do the hobbies they don't like.
00:43:45.200 I've seen women in camo hunting.
00:43:46.700 Do you think that woman wants to hunt?
00:43:49.120 You know, I explained this to my dad once.
00:43:52.740 I really did.
00:43:55.120 Because we went on this family vacation.
00:43:57.080 And I was trying to explain to him that I just don't really like dirt biking.
00:44:00.720 We've done four-wheeling and dirt biking my whole life on these family vacations.
00:44:04.920 And I know that sounds so spoiled.
00:44:06.800 You're thinking, what a brat.
00:44:08.100 You're such a brat.
00:44:09.920 Nobody gets to go dirt biking and four-wheeling.
00:44:12.420 That sounds amazing.
00:44:13.400 Look, I'm sorry.
00:44:16.100 I just don't like it that much.
00:44:17.520 Look, I'm a woman.
00:44:18.220 And one of the days, okay, one of the days, I ditched.
00:44:23.140 I'm sorry.
00:44:24.580 I'm still a woman.
00:44:25.740 You know, I talk about these trends.
00:44:27.160 I don't say I'm above any of them, okay?
00:44:29.560 I ditched going four-wheeling like in Utah to go get wine with my brother's wife.
00:44:38.120 There was a wine bar nearby and I just, you know, I was like, if I have to pick one, it had Moscato, you know, it had the little glasses.
00:44:51.440 It was just really, and my dad just couldn't, he's like, why would, I brought you all the way to Utah and you decided to go drink wine.
00:45:05.520 You could have drunk wine in Chicago.
00:45:09.160 And I had to explain to him, I'm like, dad, it's been all these years and you've taken me on all these trips and you're the best person ever.
00:45:19.260 And my dad really is.
00:45:20.320 He's the best person ever.
00:45:21.680 I will never say a bad word about my father ever because I couldn't.
00:45:24.800 I literally couldn't.
00:45:25.620 And I'm like, dad, dad, I do these hobbies because I love you.
00:45:35.180 I don't like them.
00:45:38.980 I don't like four-wheeling.
00:45:42.700 And I've done it for a decade every year time we go.
00:45:45.860 So I want to go drink wine.
00:45:51.320 And I know that's how you guys feel when the women drag you to all these events you don't want to go to.
00:45:57.420 And one day you look back and it's been a decade and you're like, I love the woman, but God, I hate going to these.
00:46:05.300 And I don't, I don't hate four-wheeling, right?
00:46:07.640 I don't hate it.
00:46:08.300 I just, I'm just not that outdoorsy, okay?
00:46:14.480 You know, some people are born pearl in her silver spoon to love.
00:46:23.540 I knew you guys were going to do that, but, you know, I can either tell you stories about my life or lie about it.
00:46:29.700 Do you know what I mean?
00:46:30.460 It's just, I'm going to be honest, you know?
00:46:33.380 And this is the thing about women.
00:46:38.900 When we actually like the guy, because you guys are entertaining.
00:46:42.920 You're way more entertaining in general than women.
00:46:46.000 You know, there's the occasional woman that's entertaining, like Roseanne Barr, Nikki, what the hell was her name?
00:46:52.140 Nikki Glaser, whatever, whatever her name is.
00:46:55.260 But that's just not, you guys are our entertainment.
00:46:59.080 And I don't just mean in like a romantic way, like when a woman loves her brother, she'll, she'll go do what he's doing or her dad or whoever it is.
00:47:13.120 The women that don't actually like the men around them nag on them about their hobbies.
00:47:19.300 But the women that actually like the men think they're cool.
00:47:22.920 Now they're saying Pearl lied to her dad for a decade.
00:47:30.260 Okay.
00:47:31.060 You know what?
00:47:31.820 It's not, it's not that I hate four-wheeling.
00:47:34.280 It's just once a year is enough for me.
00:47:37.760 And we don't even go that often anymore.
00:47:40.020 It's just if I had to pick.
00:47:43.200 Me and my brother's fiance, we got the wine.
00:47:45.480 You know, it's a lot of fun.
00:47:46.280 This was swift and loud.
00:47:48.840 Many men fired back with one saying, we'd rather play video games than deal with modern women.
00:47:55.740 Another added, but men don't really care about your list.
00:47:59.680 LOL.
00:48:00.980 Others pointed out that men shouldn't have to define their hobbies based on what women find attractive.
00:48:06.840 One person.
00:48:07.960 That's an alpha male.
00:48:08.960 He said, I don't give a fuck.
00:48:12.520 I hope you hate my hobbies, bitch.
00:48:16.280 Give me my anime.
00:48:18.120 Even compared it to women's obsessions with things like Taylor Swift and astrology, which men might not find appealing, but generally accept.
00:48:26.560 Liz wasn't done, though.
00:48:29.140 In a follow-up live stream, she doubled down on her original statement.
00:48:33.780 She claimed that her tweet resonated with women because it's true.
00:48:37.840 Again, but it goes back to this is the concept.
00:48:41.180 Women don't like their husbands.
00:48:43.180 And it's so obvious.
00:48:48.940 Happy wife, happy life.
00:48:50.460 Why is it happy wife?
00:48:51.720 Because the woman's never happy.
00:48:54.340 Why did they divorce their husbands en masse?
00:49:00.220 Women just don't like men that much in general.
00:49:03.680 I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if we did, we wouldn't be 170 pounds.
00:49:12.280 Sorry.
00:49:13.500 While she admitted she faced a lot of backlash, she stood by her observation.
00:49:18.800 According to her, women just don't find gaming attractive in men.
00:49:23.520 Liz argued that video games shouldn't define a man's identity and that if someone felt personally...
00:49:28.680 ...said, Pearl, you've broken your father's heart.
00:49:31.980 I did a little bit.
00:49:33.460 I won't even lie to you guys.
00:49:34.680 I did.
00:49:38.800 I just, you know...
00:49:40.800 I just had to have an understanding going into adulthood.
00:49:44.500 It was because they were overly invested in their gaming life.
00:49:48.520 She reiterated that it wasn't a personal insult, just an objective observation.
00:49:54.320 Though, of course, it was really just her subjective opinion.
00:49:58.880 This raises a question.
00:50:00.720 Is there any truth to her claim?
00:50:02.740 Or is this just another polarizing hot take?
00:50:06.340 Interestingly...
00:50:07.360 Okay.
00:50:07.720 Okay.
00:50:09.500 Now...
00:50:10.220 So, back to what happens with men's hobbies.
00:50:18.280 So, I want to do a recap.
00:50:20.860 Men make something awesome, like Bitcoin gaming, the gym hunting golf.
00:50:25.580 They complain the women join the male-dominated hobby or industry.
00:50:31.580 The women complain there's not enough opportunity for them and said hobby or industry.
00:50:36.020 They get naked or have a lot of sex with the men in the industry.
00:50:41.020 File a lawsuit.
00:50:42.180 And then nag their husband or boyfriend about the hobby if they don't follow option one.
00:50:50.880 And the only hobbies that women like are the ones that benefit them.
00:50:54.800 Now, what happens with women's hobbies?
00:50:56.780 So, women have a tendency to complain about how hard their hobbies are, like cooking, cleaning, makeup, sewing, child-rearing.
00:51:06.600 And then, eventually, there's a lot of money that comes into a female hobby because women make up 80% of consumer buying decisions.
00:51:14.540 So, you know, women like going to restaurants.
00:51:18.100 So, that becomes a big industry.
00:51:22.120 Makeup tutorials become a big industry.
00:51:24.560 So, money then goes into the female hobby.
00:51:29.520 And a man comes in and dominates.
00:51:32.680 The top YouTubers are gay men.
00:51:35.380 The top makeup YouTubers are gay men.
00:51:37.960 The top Michelin chefs are men.
00:51:40.600 A study conducted in 2022 found that of 2,286 Michelin-starred restaurants spanning 16 countries, just 6% are women, are owned by women.
00:51:56.740 Men raise better children with single-father homes having the same outcomes as two parents.
00:52:02.820 And the hobby then moves.
00:52:07.160 So, then, women have a tendency to not be able to compete in the real world where it's based on competence.
00:52:12.680 So, what happens is the hobby moves to social media where women can be 10% as talented and get 1,000% of the views because women have their looks.
00:52:23.440 And the woman either has a male audience who wants to sleep with her or a female audience who wants to see an average woman get above-average results.
00:52:33.460 An example of this is music.
00:52:35.360 Music used to be male-dominated.
00:52:38.760 And now, and so, back when it was more male-dominated, we have Michael Jackson here.
00:52:49.480 This might copyright.
00:52:51.420 So, I'm going to start and stop it a couple times.
00:53:04.220 So, we got, you know, Michael Jackson.
00:53:06.280 He's dancing.
00:53:06.940 He's dancing.
00:53:08.760 Oh, they say mute it.
00:53:10.820 Okay.
00:53:11.800 Okay.
00:53:12.180 We got, you know, he's dancing.
00:53:14.260 He's a performer, right?
00:53:16.040 I mean, look at this.
00:53:19.820 Amazing singer.
00:53:23.000 Then, versus Taylor Swift.
00:53:28.340 Now, she's not bad, but even here, the men are doing most of the work.
00:53:36.280 She's barely dancing.
00:53:38.760 Look at this.
00:53:41.700 Look at this.
00:53:41.780 The men are all dancing.
00:53:43.400 And she's standing there.
00:53:47.500 I could do the same thing with Bruno Mars.
00:53:49.320 So, now, we're going to take some videos of the ladies talking about how they have no hobbies.
00:53:57.400 And they admit this themselves.
00:53:58.700 And so, I feel like I have this super irrational fear that actually makes no sense.
00:54:05.060 The complete fear of somebody asking you what your hobbies are.
00:54:08.500 I'm terrified of people asking me things about myself.
00:54:11.800 I literally can't handle playing get to know you games because it's like, I have to say stuff about myself that other people are supposed to find interesting, but nothing about me is interesting enough for me to tell other people.
00:54:22.200 Also, another problem is as soon as somebody asks you what your hobbies are, you're expected to say stereotypical things that normal people do.
00:54:29.280 Like organized groups, clubs, or sports.
00:54:31.220 I literally do none of those things.
00:54:33.220 What am I supposed to say?
00:54:34.220 I feel like every time somebody asks me what my hobbies are, I literally forget everything I've ever done in my entire life.
00:54:40.860 It's like as soon as somebody asks me what I do in my free time, I realize that I do nothing in my free time.
00:54:46.480 And I'm basically a completely worthless human being.
00:54:50.900 Hi, my name's Susan.
00:54:52.040 What's yours?
00:54:52.880 Oh, I'm Andrea.
00:54:53.700 It's nice to meet you.
00:54:54.660 You too.
00:54:55.200 What are your hobbies?
00:54:56.320 I play volleyball, tennis.
00:54:57.580 I'm president of my student government.
00:54:59.180 And I take violin lessons.
00:55:00.720 Nice.
00:55:01.420 Hi, my name's Susan.
00:55:02.600 What's yours?
00:55:03.400 Oh, I'm Andrea.
00:55:04.220 It's nice to meet you.
00:55:05.200 You too.
00:55:05.760 What are your hobbies?
00:55:07.580 I'm going to be honest with you.
00:55:09.300 I basically just watch The Office until 3 a.m.
00:55:12.900 I eat because I'm bored.
00:55:14.660 And then I binge play Super Mario 64 over and over again.
00:55:19.600 Oh, that's cool.
00:55:22.220 So basically, the reason why I hate people asking me my hobbies is because I finally have to come to terms with the fact that I've really accomplished not that much in my life.
00:55:30.660 Also, there's one thing that trumps all the bad hobbies.
00:55:33.880 That is the fear of accidentally saying a demonstrative hobby.
00:55:38.460 You probably have no idea what a demonstrative hobby is because I basically just coined that term by myself five minutes ago.
00:55:44.100 Essentially, what a demonstrative hobby is, is something that you tell somebody that you're good at and then they ask you to demonstrate it for them.
00:55:51.540 This is particularly a struggle for me because most of my hobbies that aren't like Netflix and stuff just so happen to be demonstrative hobbies.
00:55:59.180 These could include things like singing, playing an instrument that's readily available to you at the time, or having a YouTube channel.
00:56:05.640 People always want you to sing for them, or play them a song, or show them your YouTube channel and the videos that you've made.
00:56:12.480 And this may seem completely normal, of course, if you tell people that you have an interest in something.
00:56:17.020 They assume that you're readily available to show it to them and share your passion with them, basically.
00:56:22.240 But if you're anything like me, even if I'm really proud of a YouTube video, it's kind of difficult for me to show it to somebody.
00:56:27.700 Okay. Girl number one, no hobbies.
00:56:33.580 Next girl says she has no hobbies.
00:56:35.600 Is anyone else embarrassed to admit that they don't have hobbies?
00:56:38.960 Because I don't really have hobbies, and for some reason I feel really embarrassed to say that.
00:56:43.460 Like, it makes me really boring or, like, very one-dimensional.
00:56:47.340 I do have things I do on the daily, like Pilates or hanging out with my dog, that bring me joy.
00:56:53.120 Or not even something as extreme as joy, just bring me, like, peace and balance that I love to do.
00:56:57.340 But I don't know, for some reason calling working out a hobby just doesn't seem to kind of fit in the mold of, like, maybe what a hobby is.
00:57:04.180 Or maybe I just, like, completely don't have the right definition of hobby in my mind.
00:57:08.140 But whenever I, like, meet new friends and they're like, oh, what are your hobbies?
00:57:11.000 Like, I really don't know what to say.
00:57:12.740 Sometimes I'll say wine because that is something I truly enjoy and that I'm actively learning about.
00:57:18.020 I do like wine. I do.
00:57:20.680 I don't have it often because it makes you kind of fat, but...
00:57:24.760 Even saying, like, wine as a hobby.
00:57:26.820 Like, it doesn't sound like building models or, like, cycling or, like, hiking every day or something like that.
00:57:32.180 But also, like, I'm just a normal adult who works, who needs downtime, and who just needs to chill.
00:57:37.120 And sometimes chilling just looks like going on TikTok and being entertained.
00:57:40.840 But at the same time, like...
00:57:42.160 Women's hobby is social media.
00:57:44.440 And it's ten times more destructive than men's hobbies.
00:57:48.480 Women get on social media and leave their family and cheat on their husband.
00:57:53.000 Men play video games.
00:57:59.360 I don't really think it causes school shootings or anything like that.
00:58:03.300 I really haven't seen a correlation.
00:58:05.560 I don't think that's common.
00:58:07.100 Why does it really matter whether or not we...
00:58:11.520 But it's not uncommon for women to leave their husbands off of social media.
00:58:14.640 I did a space the other day.
00:58:16.500 And there's a guy who said he lost his Mormon wife.
00:58:19.920 He had a Mormon virgin.
00:58:22.080 She left him.
00:58:23.820 She got on Facebook.
00:58:26.500 That'll do it.
00:58:27.300 Spend our free time with, like, the active pursuit of something.
00:58:30.800 Sometimes I'll be active.
00:58:32.240 Okay, the next one.
00:58:34.560 Another girl with no hobbies.
00:58:36.840 Does anyone else just, like, not have any hobbies?
00:58:40.120 I don't know.
00:58:40.700 Maybe it started with COVID and just over the last three years, like, things being crazy.
00:58:45.160 But if you ask me, like, what are your hobbies?
00:58:47.620 What do you like to do?
00:58:48.860 I don't think I have an answer to you other than go on my phone, watch TV, and, like, work.
00:58:54.980 I don't even really know where I would start with finding a hobby.
00:58:59.000 Do you guys have any suggestions of, like, things that I can try that are maybe kind of low commitment
00:59:03.920 or, like, not really expensive?
00:59:05.780 Because I am totally at a loss.
00:59:08.060 If you have any suggestions of hobbies that I should try out, please, please, please let me know.
00:59:13.220 But her hobby is seeking validation, attention, and avoiding responsibility.
00:59:21.740 Maybe the Amish have a point about technology.
00:59:24.320 Okay, then go join it.
00:59:27.080 Go join.
00:59:27.900 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:59:29.940 Go join it.
00:59:31.040 Really, truly.
00:59:32.740 Seriously.
00:59:33.940 Go join the Amish.
00:59:36.940 This is the TikTok.
00:59:37.720 How many girls do you know?
00:59:38.560 That sparked the debate.
00:59:40.280 You don't actually have hobbies.
00:59:41.780 How many girls do you know actually have hobbies?
00:59:45.080 Um, honestly?
00:59:46.600 Okay, hear me out.
00:59:48.000 He's kind of right.
00:59:49.580 Like, I don't really have hobbies.
00:59:53.120 Like, I breathe and, um, I, um, I go like, and I click my nail.
01:00:00.360 Okay, the guys have left.
01:00:01.940 What is he talking about?
01:00:04.900 First of all, this very app we're on wouldn't exist without women's hobbies.
01:00:10.380 Witch talk.
01:00:11.480 Messy talk.
01:00:12.780 Knitting talk.
01:00:13.720 Um, okay.
01:00:15.460 So, again, the hobby is, is TikTok.
01:00:18.400 LGBT talk.
01:00:19.820 Every type of TikTok.
01:00:21.760 Dancing TikTok would not exist without women's hobbies.
01:00:25.380 Facebook.
01:00:26.840 You are.
01:00:26.960 So not, like, becoming a ballerina or professional dancer.
01:00:31.180 TikTok dances.
01:00:32.820 Again, not right or wrong, but let's, let's just kind of call it what it is.
01:00:35.900 You already know what goes down there.
01:00:37.220 Instagram has a whole section of modeling because women's hobbies.
01:00:40.880 Yeah, because they, no, because the ladies couldn't do real modeling, so then they did
01:00:44.980 Instagram modeling.
01:00:46.260 Are looking good in photos.
01:00:48.760 What is he, what?
01:00:50.600 What are men's?
01:00:51.580 She just proved his point.
01:00:53.600 She just literally proved his point.
01:00:54.580 Hobbies besides getting on a mic and ridiculing women as a way to, like, make you feel better
01:00:58.880 about yourself.
01:00:59.440 Are you jealous?
01:01:01.160 So women's hobbies are bitching.
01:01:03.260 That is a hobby.
01:01:05.620 That is a true hobby.
01:01:08.180 That's funny.
01:01:08.800 So not only do women not have hobbies in general, but they will shame a man for having his hobbies.
01:01:17.080 How many stories do we hear of women that want their man to stop watching football, stop
01:01:20.980 playing video games, stop watching anime, and they even use Psy language to shame a man
01:01:26.000 into giving up what he loves.
01:01:27.940 Ladies, if you're with a guy and he'd rather watch football or play video games than talk
01:01:32.900 to you, that's a you problem.
01:01:36.140 And you've got to ask yourself, why are you so boring?
01:01:43.020 Can't do anything to get your, I mean, if you can't, if you get, I'm just thinking, if
01:01:50.380 you gotta, if you can't get naked and get his attention, I'm just saying, women have that
01:01:56.540 card and men don't have that card the same way women do.
01:02:01.760 And he's still, okay.
01:02:03.920 Anyways, we're going to keep going.
01:02:05.600 So women gives good advice about husband's hobby.
01:02:11.180 Has this hobby or this one thing that he makes sure that he does all the time.
01:02:17.320 If he's a golfer, maybe he goes golfing every weekend in the summer and you'd rather be going
01:02:22.880 to the beach and it's super annoying, or if he's a gamer like my husband, you know, he
01:02:27.920 gets home from work every night and he just plops himself down and doesn't worry about anything
01:02:33.460 else and just wants to be there.
01:02:36.120 Or if he's a gym guy, he makes sure that he gets to the gym every single day for his hour,
01:02:43.040 whatever time it is.
01:02:45.440 And if you're anything like me, you can get frustrated and be like, how can he just drop
01:02:51.100 everything and not worry about the million things that have to get done?
01:02:56.360 And yeah, women are jealous of men's ability to be content.
01:03:01.700 Men will be living on a mat with a mattress on the floor and an empty apartment and think
01:03:07.340 this is pretty great.
01:03:11.260 And women will look at the same apartment and say, how is he happy with this?
01:03:17.180 Do his thing.
01:03:18.880 How can he do that?
01:03:20.120 And it can feel so unfair.
01:03:21.500 Guys, hit the like button.
01:03:23.040 A like is free.
01:03:23.940 We should have a thousand likes in here.
01:03:25.640 Especially if you feel like you're not able to do that for yourself.
01:03:30.660 But here's the thing, my love.
01:03:32.820 You have the responsibility to do that for yourself as well.
01:03:37.780 So instead of getting frustrated at your husband and resentful,
01:03:42.340 take his self-care as a reminder or a cue for you to turn around and say, oh, maybe I'm frustrated
01:03:53.140 because I'm supposed to be doing that for myself as well and I'm not doing it.
01:03:57.680 Make the time, make the space, make it a priority to do the things you love and truly take good
01:04:07.400 care of yourself, take good care of your joy.
01:04:11.080 That is your responsibility.
01:04:13.960 Yeah.
01:04:14.740 Many times women have a tendency to blame men for their lack of happiness.
01:04:19.900 Your happiness is your own responsibility.
01:04:22.180 And if you don't have hobbies, it's pretty easy to pick one up on YouTube.
01:04:25.240 You can learn to cook.
01:04:26.160 You can learn to sew.
01:04:27.020 You can learn to knit.
01:04:28.260 We are in the information age where you can literally learn anything on the Internet.
01:04:32.780 Doug MPA, our moderator, says, leave, find a hobby and leave your husband's alone.
01:04:44.540 Doug also says, Zendaya was a hotter Mary Jane than Kristen Dunst.
01:04:49.800 I don't think I saw that version.
01:04:53.180 But anyways, guys, let me know what you think in the comments.
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01:05:16.920 Thanks so much for watching, guys.
01:05:18.520 Please like the video on your way out and subscribe.
01:05:21.040 And I will see you guys tomorrow.
01:05:23.300 Bye bye.
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