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Summary
In this episode, I talk about getting a nose job, getting a boob job, and getting an infection in my boob. I also talk about how much it cost me to get my boobs done and why I don t regret it.
Transcript
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now usually i just want to say this is women being cheap okay i want to be honest
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look at nose jobs have been around it's not like bbls that's kind of a new phenomenon
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where there are some women that are just going to take l's with that
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but boob jobs and nose jobs have been around like i'm fairly certain marilyn monroe got a nose job
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they're pretty standard if you're going cheap okay truly from the bottom of my heart wish that
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this was good weight but unfortunately it is not so let's be kind i've always been super
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self-conscious about my nose i always i like for real mean always going back to like fifth grade
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holy crap that's so bad this is bad i was already being bullied for the size and the appearance of
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my nose but that said i always wanted to it's a little bit better with makeup but something to
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my nose i would honestly say that it took a long time for me to decide to actually get it done i
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honestly had a lot of fear of going under okay you said two kids in the air force divorce after 20 years
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then why are you trying to use this as an example
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if that's how it ended okay and um being unconscious i also wasn't sure if i truly was
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as insecure as i thought i was or if it was just more so what okay women just can never thought of
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me and when people said about me that was kind of motivating me
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rhinoplasty done i did do what i thought was okay before and after who who wants to listen to this
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woman talk that long this looks really bad though we can all agree terrible my god
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women talking about a botched boob job paid 10 000 for the first surgery 15 000 for the second
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short little story for you so i got my boobs done because i was like oh my god
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i have fucked up boobs like everyone has their boobs done like it's totally normal right get my boobs
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done love them right away i was like oh my god and then like three months later they looked way
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different i was like i'm confused didn't i just pay ten thousand dollars for new boobs but yet these
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ones look the exact same as before just like a little bit bigger um tell me why
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i went to another surgeon afterwards and he was like you're botched i said
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and i'm like okay so what do i have to do turns out i have to get way more work done than i did
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originally pay fifteen thousand dollars for the new one so i'm like okay give me like a give me a
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second give me a month like i need to think about this in the time that i'm waiting to debate on
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getting new boobs i get an infection and i was in the er because i got an infection in my boob
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that's a coincidence right and then i go back to the er because i still had the infection even
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after ambionics and i was like what the fuck and then fast forward to now i go to my gynecologist
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because i'm like i'm having breast pain like let's just get an exam because like i don't know i had
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an infection and like blah blah blah you know whatever horror story um she's like checking me
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out and she's like that's a lump and i was like whoa say that again and she was like you have a lump
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like that's is that where it hurts i was like yeah she's like yeah there's a lump there so you're
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gonna have to go get an ultrasound like right away and i'm like okay so today i'm getting an
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ultrasound on the other boob that did not have an infection and um let's just hope there's not like
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a little guy in there because i don't want to do that because if if it's an abscess from an infection
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they're gonna have to stick a needle in me and drain the liquid out
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or maybe maybe not but yeah so if anyone's got their boobs done please take into consideration
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that it can literally turn into a shit show okay
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you yeah so look i'm honest here yeah but this is pamela anderson she got the cover of a magazine
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this woman might die could go either way ladies fazel says the 48 200 pound thing was 3 a.m a one-time
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thing okay and you guys are telling me you're above fake but
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okay women talking about a botch oh wait i read that one how to avoid botched plastic surgery
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we got here i knew to avoid getting botched plastic surgery i had three nose jobs the first
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two were botched with the same surgeon and then the third was the last one that finally made me happy
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one do not fall for a surgeon's bedside manner or do you guys really think you'd be able to tell
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with her look she's had a bunch of plastic surgery
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bedside manner to make you feel maybe the lips i think the lips give it away
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bedside manner to make you feel really she's saying the cheeks aren't moving naturally bedside
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manner to make you feel really comfortable spending thousands of dollars with them
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they tend to be people pleasers making you feel all warm and fuzzy but in reality their skills don't
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always line up with the promises they make to you so don't go with a surgeon just because he's super
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bubbly and handsome his skill is the number one thing you need to prioritize number two don't choose
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she's a don't choose a plastic surgeon because he's hot oh that's hilarious the surgeon just
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because they seem relatively inexpensive or like a good deal for your area for example in my experience
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my first surgeon charged about five thousand dollars for a rhinoplasty and looking back that
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was definitely a red flag i mean i was excited for the price at the time but in reality the best top
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surgeons do not charge 5k for a nose job they charge probably at least 10k more than that and
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that's just the reality of it but also i'm not saying just because a surgeon charges a lot more
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that means they'll be good that is not true and they can still botch you i'm just trying to say that
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an abnormally inexpensive price for a procedure can kind of be a red flag third do not let a surgeon
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you guys let a surgeon botch you and then do another search
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i let the surgeon who botched me the first time operate on me again because
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you know i talk a lot about how men most men are gonna have sex with the girl when given i mean
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they're men right but i think men overall are good people and i think how we can see that men are good
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people is how hard they try to conceal their sex drive men have 10 million times the testosterone we
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do and i've had a guy explain it to me he's like when i see a girl we just want to have sex with them
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like immediately and we wish we could turn it off like it's very distracting i thought huh
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i must suck now they try so hard to turn off or like suppress their sex drive
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that you know they they kind of had a good 100 years ago they'd get a wife
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and she would stay for a lifetime but the women rallied together and they said we don't want to
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be with you anymore we want to be able to kill our kids we want to be able to work outside of you
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and we want to be able to divorce you and the men you know the men they're just
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they don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with them so they're like all right
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and then they watched us just go crazy they said are you sure you want to put your kid in daycare
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that might be kind of bad for the kids are you sure and the lady says please they said are you sure
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you want to wait to get married you don't want to marry young you don't want to and the women said
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now we're gonna we're gonna wait and then the men got together and they said are you sure you want
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to get plastic surgery you're pretty the way you are are you sure and the women said no i'm getting
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plastic surgery and it's got to be so tough for you guys to just watch us make these terrible decisions
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no authority you just have to watch us ruin our lives
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because i would only have to pay for anesthesia the next time around and i was intimidated by the
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price of other revision rhinoplasties but in reality a lot of these revision surgeries require
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a specialist in their field with a whole different skill set in order to give you the desired result you
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want again many plastic surgeons are people pleasers who over promise things they can't
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actually fix number four when you're in the research and consultation phase take your time i don't think
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you should be going to any consultation and signing the paper right then and there that you want your
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surgery done with that surgeon honestly you should be going to as many consultations as possible
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because it is such an important decision you should really ask friends and go by word of mouth to find a
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good surgeon in your area and after each consultation you have really take time to sit
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back and think about everything that was discussed my fifth point which is kind of similar to the fourth
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but literally do as much research as you possibly can and honestly try and figure out who are the most
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distinguished and esteemed surgeons for the procedure that you want in their entire field it doesn't
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even matter if they're local to you because in an ideal world that's who you would be going to get your
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procedure done with not the joe schmo plastic surgeon with a good bedside manner that just
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happens to be local to your area for example and i'm not exaggerating here every rhinoplasty surgeon
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and the name is dean toryumi and not just known by rhinoplasty surgeons but in the whole plastic
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surgery community everyone knows dean toryumi for nose jobs it's because he's traveled the world
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lecturing about his techniques for revision rhino okay
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a five nine single mother got a boob job and has complications
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look at she can use this to get more views on tiktok it's like it makes perfect sense when you think
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about it about getting fake cherries let me tell you something that might advise against it this doesn't
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happen to everybody but it happened and is happening to me i got 700 cc's because i'm five foot nine and
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everyone told me that you know when you're tall you swallow your implants pretty much that was true when
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i first got them okay they dropped pretty quickly everything was really smooth like the first year
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i looked great they looked natural when i first got them and then i started working out and i started
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losing weight and that to me is where like the problems really started is when i started losing fat
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in my upper chest area mind you i got these implants like 10 months after my son was born
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i wasn't down to my original pre-baby weight okay i'm skinnier than i was my pre-baby weight but the
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worst thing is i can't feel them they're numb these are numb right i can feel like to hear
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right around here i don't feel anything on the outside kind of but then it gets like real numb right here
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and and the doctor said that will go away within like two years and it's been four
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and it's gotten worse the numbness has gotten worse it's gotten more painful ask the doctor well like
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is there a way you could have cut so you you know like i wouldn't lost my fucking feeling like is this
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somehow your fault he's just like no i got it done under like my my scar is under and he's like you know
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when i cut we can't tell what nerves we're cutting you just end up with with feeling in spots that you end
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up with i haven't heard any woman talk about this i'm sure if you got them through the armpit
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or through somewhere else you'd probably be able to feel them i don't like the way they look now
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they look like bowling balls on my chest like when i don't have anything on just big circles and
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they're under the muscle okay i don't have a chest muscle so they just you can just see big at this
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point four years i already want to get them taken out or make them smaller now that i'm getting fit
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and i plan to be fit for the rest of my fucking life i have a naturally pear-shaped body i've always
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been thicker at the bottom and skinny at top and now i've kind of given myself kind of an hourglass
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they're almost sometimes wider than my hips so i would like to get that lexi learman look you know
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what i mean that's like what i'm going for and i can't do that with double d bolts on but i'm not
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gonna hold you i will say one these yitties i have afforded to be a pretty nice life over here
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doubt it i've seen too much i'm too pessimist i'm sorry guys i don't know what you want me to tell you
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kenny in the chat is saying i had an 115 pound 5'2 virgin and we had two kids and then she divorced
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me it wasn't a total fail i want to do it again i'm a glutton for punishment
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why retire kenny why have the second half of your life go through robbery number two but you're telling
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me kenny this woman comes up to you in a club and you're saying no in a bar you're probably not in
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the club you're where where are you at you're at ace hardware
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and she says she's easy sex and you're saying no it's been a decade i don't want to do it
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get out of here i don't believe you okay surgery is not without side effect look curveballs
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i want to be on i gotta be honest about what i hear from women that have gotten things done
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because you have to remember on social media there is an incentive
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to say that the surgery was really good or really bad
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and from my experience of people that have gotten things done
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i generally find that they're somewhere in the middle
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there's something you know like a couple women that have gotten their boobs done i know
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they would complain about it being like an annoying pressure but they don't really have
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pain and they get used to it and then a couple years it's fine
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sometimes there are side effects sometimes there aren't it's a roll of the dice
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and men understand this right like men take steroids that's their thing
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and the bodybuilders know that out of a hundred you know one or two might just drop dead
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like but they don't come on and complain and say they were tricked by the surgeons they say look
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i wanted to be really muscular i'm gonna go for it
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curveballs adding weight to the face won't build muscle
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i i gotta be honest with what i see in real life
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it's easy to like look at women crying on social media about their surgeries
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you know what's interesting when people say that they don't know anyone that's gotten plastic surgery
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and you know that you have a mutual friend that had plastic surgery
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i i try to play devil's advocate here and tell you both sides
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there are women that fuck up their faces completely
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tonight a houston mother is sharing her heartbreaking story
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to anyone hoping to save money by traveling across the border for surgery
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she wanted to change her image through plastic surgery
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cheyenne's surgery took place in march at clinica k3
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for three thousand dollars my daughter paid with her life
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her death from fungal meningitis tied to an outbreak
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at a pair of clinics in the mexican border city near brownsville
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the cdc putting out a warning late this summer saying anyone who received the epidural anesthesia
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when a fungus is causing that inflammation or an infection in the lining of the brain
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the problem doctors say the fungus is not easy to detect
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and it needs to be caught early with treatment over a long period of time
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cheyenne leaves behind friends and family including her own daughter just eight years old
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she thought her mom was gonna go to heaven and come back
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cheyenne's mother now left with so much ache and anguish
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i'd with every reasonable standard of care but a jury
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all right let's play a game class what has this commentator gotten done
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pearl i commented yesterday that anything more than a handful is a waste
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there's nothing attractive about something that looks like a butt crack under her chin
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some women i've seen it turn out very badly for
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okay think about the woman that we started with
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and she probably will have a career being a famous fitness model
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meantime kayla has bravely decided to share her story with us
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and she joins me now live along with her attorney alex c
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thank you to to both of you kayla i'd like to begin with you
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i'm so sorry that you've had to go through this
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and also thank you for doing this interview because it's very brave
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how are you doing um personally but then also legally how is the fight
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um it's a battle um but i'm so thankful that i have alex there to help me
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how many surgeries have you been through and do you have any idea how many more
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the woman on the left is thanking her lucky stars it wasn't her she knows damn well she went under the knife
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i've worked with dr cole i have had about five eye surgeries and two regarding the implants
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and how many more do you think you have to endure
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they never told me it's just a slow process each surgery little by little to get to get to a good point
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kenny i can only speak for myself but i don't want a famous woman heck i don't want a rich woman either
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just a good old farm girl okay let me i need to show you guys the
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okay we're gonna who who's the hottest woman that you guys can let's do megan fox young
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there you go smoke show okay we got one smoke show there then we gotta get
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there we go the mids this girl will work for mids
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so you have to understand at the top of women's mind
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i mean that is really you say dakota johnson yeah that's actually a good one but
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now i'm not even saying this is a conscious thing
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but you have to understand this is how we survived
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so you know this idea of this farm girl that's untouched
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they're not gonna go to the bigger cities unless they're a high mid
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the best talent's gonna go to the big cities because that's where the best
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a city man with that has all the country skills
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you know the farm girl yeah i know the farm girls are not untouched so a lot of the complaints you get from the guys in the country is there's no hot women there
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because this woman that's like a six you know maybe a strong seven in high school
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i immediately get thinner like i stayed there for like two weeks
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and i just want you guys to know i lost like 10 pounds in these two weeks want to know why
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so the country women they have a tendency or the women that go to smaller cities
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and it's the same thing with the ladies in conservative media right
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i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna take one for the team
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we're like the five four five six seven tops is like the hottest you'll get
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it's like you get a point right or you get two points
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they they're a lot more critical of women's looks
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like they're a lot more specific in what they look for
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like women as attractive as megan fox in her prime
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but it's because it's a different conservative media right
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and when i point out you know lady you're gonna be here in like two years
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you're gonna be you're here you're here at your top
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this was your this was your cap of like hotness
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it's easy to say that when you've never been offered it
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oh shut up kenny you're saying that megan fox was a five
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and i'm not talking about getting married young
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like they can get their rent paid for just existing
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and it's interesting because a lot of guys have asked if my butt is real
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i did recently yeah i mean i used to hate my face