JustPearlyThings - December 25, 2022


Modern Women HATE Hearing The TRUTH

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

196.11

Word count

1,649

Sentence count

—

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

sentences flagged

Hate speech

3

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode of What's Yours Truly, we discuss a recent article that was published in the New York Times titled, "Single Women Are The Most Happy Demographic." The article was written by a man who claimed that single women over the age of 35 are the most unhappy demographic in the world. We discuss the implications of this article and how single women are actually the least happy demographic.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 do you think that's lonely no no you guys really lack community like and i'm not saying like you
00:00:05.140 specifically i'm saying like i i'm able to find so much satisfaction and joy and peace and goodness
00:00:11.340 and and fulfillment in in my friends and and my other relationships i think that's easy as a
00:00:16.380 young woman i think the point he's making is the world treats you different after like 45 or 50
00:00:20.920 i believe that so as a young woman like you're treated better by the world and so because you're
00:00:27.420 young you're attractive you're pretty and so and so it's like you're gonna hit 45 50 the world's
00:00:32.540 gonna look at you different you start to be treated like a man no i'm i'm serious there's i'm already
00:00:38.880 bald i'm halfway there the moment mandem stop buying you drinks you're gonna see the world differently
00:00:43.700 it's done you're going to the club right now and man was like oh can i buy you a drink oh you're
00:00:48.820 so beautiful and all that kind of stuff listen the moment you hit 35 that's gonna stop i i
00:00:54.340 can someone like stop him like this is like what is this man saying i love the i'm speaking
00:01:02.140 reality what i love the concept of what's your what's your issue with what he's saying everything
00:01:08.840 okay he's first of all he's being so heteronormative like the like these are a lot of assumptions
00:01:13.840 that he's making right now that is what is hetero i don't know what that means heteronormative is
00:01:18.140 just making making an assumption that someone is heterosexual first of all so as your this entire
00:01:23.580 line this whole monologue he's doing is assuming that she's only interested in men and that
00:01:29.000 she's only interested in what a man wants or what a man could see in her i mean i think that's 1.00
00:01:35.360 not that's like that's that's just not what life is like i i mean i'm not gonna it's like
00:01:40.700 not just you're just making a lot of assumptions and running down the street with them and i understand
00:01:46.420 the logic behind where he's coming from like i'm not saying that he's being like he's being
00:01:50.580 illogical but because he's basing all of his from my perspective a lot of where your sounding
00:01:57.300 board of information is is your foundation is heteronormativity misogyny and the fact that
00:02:04.500 like so what and it's just not it's just not in alignment okay wait it's just not in alignment
00:02:09.120 with where i where i find my foundation so i'm like pushing back on the opinions that he has
00:02:14.920 so heteronormative i i still think it would be sad if you're a single lesbian woman so like 1.00
00:02:21.300 like i think like personally we're like we're also like making assumptions that she's single
00:02:25.880 she didn't say that she just said that she doesn't want to have children
00:02:28.580 or yeah oh fair enough but like this like whole conversation was under the perspective of whether
00:02:33.740 or not she would be happy without having children and then the second the second yeah i mean it's a
00:02:38.020 it's a valid question i think yeah your answer could be i would be perfectly happy but i just
00:02:43.020 which is what she said over and over and over again and he's trying to like break down why she's wrong
00:02:48.960 and all these possible scenarios i mean i think he's just putting out points that maybe she didn't
00:02:52.380 think about and maybe she has and maybe like but i i think that's what we're supposed to do on a
00:02:56.280 podcast and i'm and i'm exploring the idea that i think he's wrong okay so what do you what do you
00:03:04.660 think uh what what is it that he said misogynistic i think that like making the the assumption that
00:03:10.680 like her the prospects of her life her future happiness is based upon whether or not a man 0.56
00:03:17.200 and objectively a man would find her attractive after the age of like what 35 that he said for me is
00:03:23.560 like is like is misogynist oh i think that's true i don't this i told that i think that's your opinion
00:03:31.140 yeah i mean i think it's true i think most women aren't happy that are that are single childless 0.99
00:03:36.180 over the age of like 45 they're the least happy demographic i that's interesting that's interesting
00:03:40.960 i just i just could not get behind that i was asking if you have statistics on that really yeah
00:03:46.120 there's like multiple stuff what about single black women yes do you have statistics all about black 0.99
00:03:51.340 women like because like i feel like and i the only reason i'm asking this is because i feel like
00:03:55.840 we like black women from my perspective again i'm only speaking from my perspective we are very we
00:04:04.020 have such a strong like sense of community that like i i just we don't have i just feel like our
00:04:10.660 our culture is different so those types of statistics i think aren't going to be applicable
00:04:15.980 across i think what like what it would be black women i must say i think it's applicable very
00:04:21.120 genetically and biologically very very i think i think biologically can i just say one thing real
00:04:26.520 quick right understand people like i'm five foot six give or take half an inch in it so like
00:04:32.480 at the end of the day my entire life i have felt the effects of not being the societal standard
00:04:40.840 of what women expect to you feel me so at the end of the day like for example i'm a man like i can
00:04:47.020 either cry about it and be like oh no women don't like me because i'm short whatever or i can do
00:04:52.620 something about it for for example for me personally i started boxing you feel me so like i started boxing
00:04:58.260 and i tried to show that you know what i'm on the shorter side of things but i can still protect you
00:05:03.460 do you get it and like at the end of the day life throws certain things at you and you just kind of
00:05:09.800 have to deal with it now as a woman there are certain things and i'm so sorry to tell you this
00:05:15.540 but there are certain things you can do that can completely ruin it for you for example
00:05:20.540 if you're a woman and you have only fans i'm sorry but i'm not going to take you seriously 1.00
00:05:26.200 that's your opinion do you get it here's the thing here's the thing look understand i'm an average man
00:05:32.320 i'm not a rich guy or anything like that but i can tell you right now a millionaire if he's looking
00:05:37.400 at you and he knows you got only fans he's not going to take you seriously because there's
00:05:41.340 certain things us mandem look for you feel me
00:05:43.140 you feel me nah i'm curious any any guys any of you take an only fans model seriously
00:05:49.380 no way no way no no no i've not but you know what like
00:05:54.380 what don't say what
00:05:56.520 girl you want to make 1.00
00:06:01.760 um sorry go ahead so no guys here so go ahead no so personally i think you can always argue like
00:06:13.700 like people would never take them seriously and your value goes down but it depends what kind of
00:06:18.500 value you're looking at so like their financial value goes up their sexual value goes up no yeah
00:06:24.680 well in terms of for women
00:06:27.340 sexual value
00:06:28.820 can i just quickly clarify how does their sexual value go up
00:06:32.820 once people see you've got only fans there's always going to be people in public they'll say
00:06:37.620 nah i'd never be with someone from any fans but check their dms
00:06:40.660 nah most will be there for a night
00:06:42.260 yeah but check their dms and you'll see i'll give you an example like look at lana 0.99
00:06:49.340 roads she can't even keep a man 1.00
00:06:51.060 that's like she used to be my favorite 0.98
00:06:53.080 that's like i don't know look at that's one person from that i know but that's like what
00:06:59.780 one of the most i would argue one of the most i would argue one of the most yeah i would argue
00:07:02.740 one of the most beautiful women i mean i don't know i don't i'm not a consumer
00:07:06.020 of that content we don't eat cool but is that part of because i feel like it changes across the demographic
00:07:11.540 obviously that's someone that we've looked at from a different one but there's people like
00:07:16.260 you i'm not sure if any of you have heard of ruby rose someone else yeah but there's people and
00:07:20.900 people look at her and still be like that's still a no no no no no no no no but she's got only fans 0.97
00:07:27.620 she's got only fans so that's what i said her sex her sexual value went up but you'd still smash 1.00
00:07:32.420 i didn't say you'd want to be in a relationship with her but i said her sexual value yeah wait so 0.76
00:07:36.660 your your your your sexual value but your relation like what guys gonna take you serious
00:07:40.580 i know but then some people might i think no no no i'm sorry i mean i can't argue for everyone
00:07:46.020 i mean wait wait and i mean i i mean a sim a sim might i know yeah see but see this is sim culture
00:07:53.540 people are gonna be like ah do you know what you're only fans i see you
00:07:56.500 as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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