JustPearlyThings - October 19, 2023


Modern Women Hate Pearl


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9 minutes

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212.55707

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2,064

Sentence count

220

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Misogyny

34

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30

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In this episode, the lads discuss what would happen if society were to go extinct if all the women in society stopped working and taking the lead role in society. Who would lead the Ponzi scheme and who would take the lead?

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00:00:00.000 Look, I actually I learned something today.
00:00:02.640 So apparently the education system has been falling since the 80s.
00:00:07.320 It's been getting worse.
00:00:08.600 But it's not women, it's politics. 1.00
00:00:10.320 No, no, no.
00:00:11.000 I'll tell you why.
00:00:11.920 I'll tell you why.
00:00:12.720 Actually, we have we have a teacher and a teacher's aide.
00:00:15.560 So it used to be male dominated before the 80s.
00:00:18.320 And after the 80s, it was female dominance. 0.99
00:00:20.240 You have to know this stuff, right?
00:00:21.720 Yeah.
00:00:22.080 And so now I'm like, wait, when the women came in, we taught worse than the guys. 1.00
00:00:27.240 And we had two women.
00:00:29.320 No.
00:00:29.880 I don't believe so.
00:00:30.920 Our schools where I am from, which is.
00:00:33.240 No, it's true.
00:00:33.920 It's true to mention.
00:00:34.600 I'm from West London.
00:00:35.680 Yeah.
00:00:36.040 A lot of our schools are outstanding and the children come out and they go into
00:00:39.600 universities and they go into Mensa society.
00:00:42.080 And I have to disagree with you.
00:00:43.480 They're never clever.
00:00:44.480 But the test scores don't.
00:00:45.760 It's in the US, too.
00:00:46.760 Their test scores have been falling since like the 70s.
00:00:49.600 We can't even pass 11th grade tests from back then.
00:00:53.040 Wow.
00:00:53.400 Maybe I'm just blessed to live around smart people.
00:00:57.160 Yeah.
00:00:57.600 So my premise is, I really think if women all went home tomorrow, I think society would 1.00
00:01:03.960 function fine.
00:01:04.840 I'm not saying some industries wouldn't take a hit.
00:01:07.080 I think some would, but I think HR departments would disappear tomorrow.
00:01:12.960 Yeah.
00:01:13.320 Yeah.
00:01:13.560 Who's, who's filing the HR claim?
00:01:15.320 It's not the men.
00:01:16.320 It's the women. 1.00
00:01:17.320 Come on.
00:01:18.320 Everybody.
00:01:19.320 HR would disappear tomorrow.
00:01:20.320 I think.
00:01:21.320 Yeah.
00:01:22.320 And I, and I think society would still run, but if the men stopped working, I think that 0.99
00:01:27.520 society would crash and burn.
00:01:29.200 We'd maybe survive 30 days.
00:01:30.920 Who leads in the Ponzi scheme game?
00:01:32.920 I disagree.
00:01:33.920 Men.
00:01:34.920 I trust a lot of men with money.
00:01:36.280 Not me.
00:01:37.280 I trust it more than women.
00:01:38.280 We have 80% of the debt.
00:01:40.280 Women. 0.81
00:01:41.280 Yeah.
00:01:42.280 Yeah.
00:01:43.280 Women have 80% of the debt, even though we make less money. 1.00
00:01:44.280 We are not good with money.
00:01:45.280 That's because.
00:01:46.280 I'm not talking about you.
00:01:47.280 Not talking about you.
00:01:48.280 I'm talking about us as a group.
00:01:49.280 I'm good with money.
00:01:50.280 Women in my surroundings, they don't. 1.00
00:01:52.440 They are brilliant.
00:01:53.440 They're so good.
00:01:54.440 I'm looking about us as a whole, as a group.
00:01:56.840 But if you look at women as a whole, 80% of us are in debt probably because they have 1.00
00:02:01.040 a household to take care of because the men got up and left.
00:02:04.280 Not true.
00:02:05.280 If they have a household, if they have children and they have to take on the leadership role,
00:02:09.160 especially if they have to be in society working, of course they're going to be in debt.
00:02:11.840 Well, the men didn't leave.
00:02:12.840 The women leave. 0.99
00:02:13.840 And that's really clear.
00:02:14.840 70 to 80% of the time, women file for divorce. 1.00
00:02:17.840 And a lot of times we make children with men that are not husbands. 0.52
00:02:22.520 What about daddies who disappear in the pregnancy?
00:02:25.340 What about daddies who disappear as soon as they find out that the partner is pregnant? 0.99
00:02:29.200 Well, I've found that the majority of the time when that happens, it's because a woman's 1.00
00:02:32.980 in some sort of situationship.
00:02:35.200 She's trying to trap a man and then, and then now she's like, maybe he'll commit.
00:02:40.280 And he's like, no, I will not, lady. 1.00
00:02:43.400 Now, now, but, but, but number two, and that's, that's, that's, that's not common though,
00:02:49.440 because the majority of the time men, men do stay.
00:02:52.080 So with four different, if a man has four different kids with four different women, 1.00
00:02:56.840 he's not daddy to any of them.
00:02:58.400 Well, that's four, that's four stupid women and one stupid man. 1.00
00:03:02.080 Yeah.
00:03:03.080 It's only women's fault. 1.00
00:03:04.080 Absolutely.
00:03:05.080 It is, it is.
00:03:06.080 I do, I do think it's whoever, I do think women, you are in charge of who your baby father is. 1.00
00:03:11.400 Absolutely.
00:03:13.400 I think that is your fault.
00:03:14.400 Don't hit the player, hit the game, right?
00:03:15.400 And at the end of the day, these, I always say it, that these men always come as, everybody
00:03:18.800 comes into a relationship with their representative, hey, I'm going to show you my good side.
00:03:22.960 But it is facts, facts, facts, facts, that once a woman gets pregnant, that's it. 0.98
00:03:27.640 The relationship literally goes into the toilet after that.
00:03:30.400 After the woman, like the woman switches up? 0.90
00:03:32.640 No, after, after a child, anytime you bring a child into a situation, that's it.
00:03:37.240 Like bring a baby in, everybody's stressed, bills go up, lack of intimacy, it's so many
00:03:42.260 things that lead to that.
00:03:43.400 So men are not, if women are leaving, it's only because men have checked out of the situation
00:03:48.300 and checked out of their duties a long time before.
00:03:50.640 No, no, they list the reasons they leave and it's, it's like irreconcilable differences.
00:03:57.260 It's money, sometimes it's infidelity.
00:03:59.880 They don't even say on which side, but it's pretty split on fidelity.
00:04:03.080 It's roughly 50.
00:04:04.400 Women actually are out cheating men under 30. 1.00
00:04:07.180 Yeah.
00:04:08.400 Women are out cheating. 1.00
00:04:09.400 Good thing I'm over 30.
00:04:10.400 Yeah.
00:04:11.400 Yeah.
00:04:12.400 Tinder did his job.
00:04:13.400 But I'm saying like what you're saying isn't true, that the men are leaving, it's the women
00:04:17.080 leaving.
00:04:18.080 Yeah, but they're filing for divorce. 0.93
00:04:20.120 They're filing for the divorce, but what's leading to the divorce?
00:04:22.900 If I'm a woman at home with your kids and I'm taking care of the household and I'm being
00:04:26.800 faithful to you and just because you're paying the bills, you're out, you know, sleeping with
00:04:30.980 every Sarah and Jessica that walks by.
00:04:33.840 So I'll give you a couple numbers.
00:04:35.560 That's only a small percentage of men that can sleep with multiple women.
00:04:39.280 So it's only like 15 to 20% of men, maybe 30 tops.
00:04:43.040 I mean, it's, so the majority of men cannot sleep with multiple women.
00:04:47.300 So it's not them cheating.
00:04:48.300 Well, even if they sleep with one woman, it's still cheating.
00:04:51.120 Like women. 1.00
00:04:52.120 No, no, no.
00:04:53.120 I'm saying like, like women find 80% of men is unattractive, ugly, not, not just.
00:04:57.300 Okay.
00:04:58.300 Not decent.
00:04:59.300 We find 80% of men is ugly.
00:05:00.300 I love ugly men.
00:05:01.300 I sleep with ugly men all the time. 0.96
00:05:02.300 So just because you find ugly doesn't mean we're not cheating with them that we're not
00:05:06.700 cheating with them.
00:05:07.700 Well, I mean, I'm not a cheater, but I'm saying like as women in whole, like a lot of times
00:05:11.820 women were emotional cheaters. 1.00
00:05:13.340 We don't necessarily cheat there's, you know, some women might cheat off of looks, but when 1.00
00:05:17.180 we decide to step out of a relationship, it is always because emotionally at home, something
00:05:21.300 is being neglected and we found that in somebody else.
00:05:24.100 Yes.
00:05:25.100 Thing is both ways, men and women, when you lack something in the relationship, you look
00:05:28.440 for it elsewhere.
00:05:29.980 If you try to deal with it first and you ask and you address the issue and you try to resolve
00:05:35.580 it within and then another, you know, don't know, 10, eight years later and nothing has
00:05:40.420 happened to be resolved, just promises, promises, promises, then this is where infidelity comes
00:05:44.960 in.
00:05:45.960 And I mean, it's sad, but.
00:05:46.960 But it's interesting because it's like, you guys, whenever the woman does something wrong,
00:05:50.380 like she leaves or she cheats, it's always like, well, why?
00:05:53.580 It's men the same way.
00:05:55.580 That's what I just said.
00:05:56.580 But no, no, no.
00:05:57.580 You guys didn't give that benefit of the doubt to the dad who left.
00:06:00.620 There wasn't no.
00:06:01.620 Why did he leave?
00:06:02.620 What?
00:06:03.620 Four times.
00:06:04.620 The one.
00:06:05.620 That one.
00:06:06.620 You know what it is?
00:06:07.620 Because it's expected of a man. 0.71
00:06:08.620 Like you expect, it's very hard.
00:06:09.620 Like you've got to think about it.
00:06:10.620 When the earth was made, men back then were having multiple wives. 0.99
00:06:14.620 So now we have this thing where, okay, you know, they're bringing polygamy back.
00:06:18.460 But before they really brought polygamy back. 1.00
00:06:20.720 Now we have this thing where, you know, it's one and one.
00:06:23.320 Well, that's not in a man's nature.
00:06:24.620 Well, it's actually women are picking polygamy. 1.00
00:06:26.920 I actually think that monogamy benefits more men than benefits women.
00:06:30.620 Because when we're in monogamy, that means like more men are getting laid.
00:06:34.620 That means like 60, 70.
00:06:35.620 But it's funny.
00:06:36.620 No, I'm serious.
00:06:37.620 It's funny.
00:06:38.620 One out of three men are virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:06:41.620 And that's primarily the switches when women have more mate selection. 1.00
00:06:44.620 So a hundred years ago, that was when women started to move into apartments and be able 0.97
00:06:48.620 to basically like be on their own.
00:06:50.620 That makes sense?
00:06:51.620 Before it was like, yeah, before it was like dad's house, husband's house.
00:06:54.620 There was no in between.
00:06:55.620 And it's funny because the more mate selection we have, the stupider we are.
00:06:58.620 Yeah.
00:06:59.620 We'll go for it.
00:07:00.620 Yes.
00:07:01.620 Yes.
00:07:02.620 Yes.
00:07:03.620 We'll go for a smaller and smaller percentage of men. 0.99
00:07:05.620 So it's like, we'll go for 10, 20, 30% of men.
00:07:07.620 I've had so many girls come on the show and say, they've dated a celebrity. 1.00
00:07:10.620 They're average chicks. 1.00
00:07:11.620 Do you think she was the only one?
00:07:13.620 How many girlfriends does Chris Brown?
00:07:14.620 How many girlfriends did they break? 0.92
00:07:15.620 How many girlfriends still like all of these high value, you know, guys have.
00:07:19.620 But did he know he's dating her too?
00:07:21.620 That part.
00:07:22.620 She knew she's dating her.
00:07:24.620 I know it's dated.
00:07:25.620 Like they say, but the fact that you know, this shows, it's common, right?
00:07:29.620 Where the girl's like, we're dating. 0.78
00:07:31.620 But we outnumber men.
00:07:32.620 So really it's the men that have more choices.
00:07:34.620 Like dating is like one to eight.
00:07:36.620 It's like one man from every eight women.
00:07:38.620 No, it's not.
00:07:39.620 It's 55.
00:07:40.620 It's 55% men.
00:07:41.620 It's 45% women. 1.00
00:07:42.620 It's not.
00:07:43.620 Sorry.
00:07:44.620 Other way around.
00:07:45.620 55% women, 45% men.
00:07:46.620 But if you actually look like eligible men, when it comes to dating, if you look like eligible
00:07:51.620 men, men, not even just age, the ones that are not in jail, that are not dead.
00:07:58.620 What percent of the population do you think is in jail?
00:08:00.620 I like that.
00:08:01.620 Like if you've been running into men in jail, that's you.
00:08:04.620 But when you really look at like, do you date men in jail?
00:08:08.620 I've dated men in jail before.
00:08:09.620 I live in New York.
00:08:10.620 You have to date a man in jail.
00:08:12.620 You don't have a choice.
00:08:14.620 Why were you in jail?
00:08:16.620 Why were you in jail?
00:08:17.620 I wasn't in jail.
00:08:19.620 I'm a good criminal.
00:08:20.620 No, I'm not a criminal.
00:08:21.620 You're the pro.
00:08:22.620 Yeah, I wasn't in jail.
00:08:23.620 But of course you date, you know, you might talk to a guy.
00:08:25.620 You literally can go to the corner store in New York and get locked up.
00:08:28.620 Like there is no, you know, so you can be dating a guy and he gets locked up.
00:08:32.620 That's happened to me a couple of times, more than once.
00:08:34.620 It's 1% of the population.
00:08:36.620 For what?
00:08:37.620 That's in jail?
00:08:38.620 Yeah.
00:08:39.620 But I'm saying if you actually think of like eligible single bachelors, right?
00:08:42.620 Who's not married?
00:08:43.620 Who's not dead?
00:08:44.620 Who's not in jail?
00:08:45.620 I guess one out of every 20 for a lifetime.
00:08:46.620 So 5%.
00:08:47.620 And who's not...
00:08:48.620 This is like taking starter of the menu.
00:08:50.620 All the men now, and I don't want to bring it here.
00:08:53.620 I don't want to offend anybody, but there's a lot of gay men in the world now.
00:08:56.620 So if you add that into it, who's really left for women? 0.99
00:09:00.620 Single men that are actually left for women. 0.91
00:09:02.620 I mean, I would argue what women are left for men. 0.97
00:09:05.620 A lot.
00:09:06.620 No, no.
00:09:07.620 If you look...
00:09:08.620 Okay.
00:09:09.620 If you look by...
00:09:10.620 And a lot of people think I hate on women, but it's just, if you look at an evolutionary
00:09:11.620 point of view, most women today would be cast out. 1.00
00:09:16.620 Yeah.
00:09:17.620 Based on what?
00:09:18.620 Age for one, like over 30, you were kind of done.
00:09:22.620 Kids from other marriages or guys, done.
00:09:26.620 Not being a virgin on your wedding night.
00:09:28.620 Your chance of being married was like, no, you're a concubine at that point. 1.00
00:09:32.620 But 95% of women are not virgins on their wedding.
00:09:35.620 I'm not saying we have to be, but I'm saying if we're going from a historical point of view,
00:09:40.620 most women today would have been thrown out. 1.00