JustPearlyThings - April 11, 2023


Modern Women INFLATED Sense of Value

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Kevin Samuels
She SCHOOLED This Modern Woman@MelanieKing1 Housewife are in HIGH DEMAND

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Length

10 minutes

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207.06

Word count

2,085

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Harmful content

Misogyny

23

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Toxicity

25

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Hate speech

18

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the differences between men and women when it comes to their looks, how to lose weight, and why women are more than twice as likely to be overweight than their male counterparts. We also discuss the issue of women being overweight compared to men, and how it affects the way they are treated by society.

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00:00:00.000 who wants to improve more men or women men i think men want to improve more because they
00:00:07.520 have to because their value comes from what they can create for themselves so they have to
00:00:14.480 men definitely i was going to say i feel like women want to improve on their looks men just 0.82
00:00:19.680 want more money and things to offer but we both want to improve on different things but if women 1.00
00:00:25.840 want to improve more on looks then why are women more overweight than men yeah are they yes yes 1.00
00:00:34.560 i don't know something like 70 of women in america overweight maybe it's not that much better here 1.00
00:00:40.960 it's not i don't i don't have the stats off the top of my head but i've looked it up before
00:00:45.280 yeah yeah because because you guys are always everyone i'm from america and everyone talks
00:00:48.880 to me and like and i'm like and i looked up the stats here i'm like it's not much better
00:00:52.880 it i think i think uh as an overweight person i can probably speak on this um it helps a man
00:01:01.200 to get more money regardless of what he looks like but for a woman she can improve herself and it 0.99
00:01:09.760 wouldn't really make a difference to how she's treated in most situations because not all women 1.00
00:01:16.080 are eights or tens so i think uh my person i'm saying with it like a five with a banging body like
00:01:22.240 she still gets a ton of attention but what what you're calling a five a certain man might not call 0.97
00:01:27.280 a five he might call it eight or two so i think most people could call that but there's general
00:01:32.240 standards there is i do feel like there's more motivation needed to improve yourself as a woman
00:01:39.040 well for myself i've i've struggled with my weight so i know that the motivation i put into my
00:01:44.560 business for example i haven't put it into myself in the same way but i know that because my business
00:01:50.560 is thriving the same energy i put into that i can use it and apply it into my weight but i feel like
00:01:55.760 there's some there's a lot of women out there who maybe they don't have the mental capacity because 1.00
00:02:00.240 they haven't achieved anything or they haven't successfully done something for themselves so that
00:02:05.520 there's that lack of motivation to even look at themselves yeah i think it's down to the fact that
00:02:10.720 men um women are born of value whilst men have to create their value so even as a woman you can 0.92
00:02:16.640 just walk out there on the street someone's gonna cater to you in some way shape or form as a man
00:02:20.960 before you even get awarded a seat at the sexual marketplace table you need to become something
00:02:25.120 you need to be worth something if you're lucky enough to be born good looking young then that's 0.93
00:02:28.960 your entrance but for most men that's not the case for most women you can be but ugly as long as you've 1.00
00:02:34.560 got a tun tun someone's gonna try and stick it somewhere so i think that's the fundamental difference
00:02:38.400 you have to acknowledge that you're born of value do you think if you couldn't get a relationship
00:02:42.800 that you would lose weight quicker if you got no attention from men in the world i probably
00:02:47.760 wouldn't be overweight i think i've always said my problem is i still get attention yeah
00:02:54.320 and now the attention is even different because you know the body shape i have looks like the body
00:03:00.320 shape that women are paying for so for me it's annoying because even though it's i shouldn't really 0.97
00:03:05.200 compare myself to people i'm like i'm annoyed i'm like i just wish i hated myself enough to change
00:03:09.840 wouldn't you say in a way that we're that's men bailing out women for bad decisions in a way still
00:03:14.720 probably yeah because yeah yeah yeah probably i was gonna say i've had this conversation with men
00:03:20.160 where they're like i don't care like they've been on dates they don't actually ask the girl what she
00:03:23.680 does because they don't care they don't care yeah so i was gonna say so is it it's like a shoe
00:03:28.480 collection so so could you say that like they not that they don't want us to improve but let's say
00:03:33.520 she works in mcdonald's you lot don't actually require sometimes you don't require much edification 0.99
00:03:40.160 well yeah but they want us to look hard yeah so they might and they might want us to be less
00:03:44.160 argumentative just improve in certain aspects but maybe not in feminine friendly submissive and it 1.00
00:03:49.600 depends on the quality of guy you're going for the problem is that the market's so screwed because
00:03:53.520 there's such a small fraction of men who are actually worth something in society so the men who aren't
00:03:57.840 worth something are the ones that are going to be like you know what if she gives it up
00:04:01.040 the hyenas is ready to pounce so i think that's part of the problem i agree it's funny i remember
00:04:08.960 having that same thought because i i lost a bunch of weight like a couple years ago and i remember
00:04:12.880 having the same thought like when i got past a certain weight that you still get like attention
00:04:16.720 but for me it just wasn't like the attention i wanted yeah i mean i've i've i've been all sorts of
00:04:22.160 sizes um and i do notice the attention is different when i'm smaller um i was also younger as well but
00:04:29.760 um people do treat you differently men treat you i mean at this way i attract a certain man i know the
00:04:35.760 man if i know where to go if i i know the kind of man i'll get but i think when i was smaller there was
00:04:42.720 a there was a variety of men it was all races all cultures all colors why are you able to have this
00:04:48.720 conversation and because a lot of overweight women like get very mad when they hear my show because 1.00
00:04:53.200 i think it's something i'm working on so that i'm trying to lose weight i'm actually doing stuff
00:04:57.840 you know yeah okay no that's cool um who wants do you think
00:05:06.320 would you rate yourselves one to ten the chat wants you
00:05:10.800 everyone guys and girls we don't discriminate
00:05:12.400 are we including seven or seven not allowed yeah you can't use seven
00:05:15.760 wait it's just looks or like just like one to ten looks i'll just look for them
00:05:21.920 i'll give myself a six six i would say i've watched kevin samuels i would say an adjustable six
00:05:29.680 i think i'm a four and a half okay i think when i say when i say i have this conversation with my
00:05:46.080 wife quite often but when i say a number i feel like now nowadays i feel like i'm disrespected when
00:05:50.480 i say this number but i generally think i'm like a six but she digs
00:05:54.240 but you're married i'll give you a higher number for the fact you're married yeah
00:06:00.800 i'm gonna be honest my number changed based on what they said as well it did affect what because
00:06:05.600 i'm not gonna rate myself higher than women who are younger than me i'm just not gonna do it
00:06:10.320 because i know i know how it is okay what about you me
00:06:17.280 i honestly think i'm a six i think my personality does it for me still me too i'm not gonna lie and
00:06:21.920 that's fine right but as a man that's what it is i grew up ugly wait so men do write themselves
00:06:27.520 lower do you feel like a woman's personality could make you like her like could she might 0.99
00:06:33.200 she might be a fool but her personality could make you wife you have to be a certain level 1.00
00:06:36.720 of attractive for your personality to take it over i reckon i i honestly believe i'd rather wife a girl 0.99
00:06:41.600 who was less attractive by a greater personality yeah 110 i don't want because i think the more
00:06:46.720 attractive a girl is the more crazy she is because there's no one and no one's ever held her 1.00
00:06:50.160 accountable see when it the the prop the best girl to get is a girl that was ugly in school 1.00
00:06:54.800 who blossomed into her beauty because she had to learn to navigate the the and learn about men 0.93
00:07:00.720 by being around men because you never got men and then now you get men if your mind is in in
00:07:05.920 the right place then that's that's the sweet you know what's so crazy i agree with him so much because
00:07:09.680 i was a tomboy and i think i was quite well i'm dark skinned so in school back in the day it was like
00:07:15.440 oh you're dark your blick so i remember the day i consciously said i'm going to become a tomboy i
00:07:20.640 said so no man can tell me if i'm pretty if i'm not pretty and and then i just became mandem i just
00:07:25.360 became one of the boys and you see that key of navigating around the boys it is so i think it's
00:07:31.040 very true why do you think it's okay in society for us to say men are trash but it's not okay for men
00:07:38.000 to say women are horrors even though it's more true i think they can okay no way do you think 1.00
00:07:43.920 do you think on a public platform if yeah you have a podcast yeah if you went on your podcast and just 0.79
00:07:49.280 said modern women are horrors wait but is that a generalization right but but women but women 1.00
00:07:57.760 generalize all the time they say they're afraid to walk alone at night i think i i think women call 0.98
00:08:03.680 themselves whores in different ways so they call themselves sugar babies they call themselves 0.98
00:08:09.120 we're not talking about the women i'm saying like why is that okay in society because it means 0.99
00:08:13.840 that you have to accept that the opposite sex and acknowledges your flaw and they acknowledge that 0.99
00:08:20.240 you are a whore that's what it is no women are sensitive i think you know when another woman you know 1.00
00:08:28.960 as a joke they'll say oh you're a b or you know you're a whore yeah they say like oh it's candy 1.00
00:08:33.920 it's cute and candid but when a man says it's you you know like when a guy says to you you don't look 0.98
00:08:38.960 good in those clothes you know he means it he's not gonna say he's not gonna say it like just to be 0.97
00:08:43.200 horrible if he's telling you oh darling you're a whore he means he means that you know what it is 0.96
00:08:48.240 you've kind of been caught because sometimes i feel like girls will be like i've done the same friendship 1.00
00:08:52.880 group it means you're a whore when a man has to open his mouth and say it honestly for him to because you know 1.00
00:08:57.360 men don't care about stuff men men only talk when they need to you're a whore babes i think a woman 1.00
00:09:01.520 a woman's got to maintain her social capital so a man being able to call her a whore just diminishes 1.00
00:09:07.840 her social capital because that's that's who you you're of value to you're not of value to other
00:09:12.880 girls you're of value to men so especially if the guy is a guy that you like if you see an 0.94
00:09:16.240 attractive guy call you a whore it's game over it's game over what do you think no i agree honestly 0.99
00:09:22.800 because if a guy came up to me and said i'm a whore i would just i just think my life's over 1.00
00:09:28.960 i'll never get married have you said men are trash before 100 i've said it before i have said it before 0.99
00:09:35.040 yeah did you mean it no i don't think all men are trash that's a lie yes i do 0.94
00:09:44.400 when you're younger it's easy to be like this and that you know when you grow up and there's life 0.83
00:09:47.760 experiences but life humbles you exactly and i think you realize everyone's got a bit of mental
00:09:52.400 health everyone's traumatized no people need therapy i don't think girls are the same guys 0.98
00:09:58.960 and then you're calling those guys most men don't have sex