Modern Women LIE To Themselves
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the beauty standards in society and how they affect our perception of beauty. We also discuss the concept of beauty standards and what they mean to us and why they are so prevalent in society.
Transcript
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okay blessing do the second clip the i'm a 10 one yeah that one
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girls are objective or do you think they think they're hotter than they are
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or do they underrate themselves go around personally i think it depends on the person
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because growing up i'm obviously not skinny hi everyone i'm not skinny so growing up i was
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never the beauty standard for anyone so like all my friends were getting checked out by people blah
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blah blah blah and i was just the other one you know so like i never really thought of myself as
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an attractive person like i would never call myself anything more than a thought but now
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like i don't really care about what anyone thinks about me like i've grown into myself and i've
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i'm comfortable with who i am now that like even if you guys call me delusion or whatever i think i'm
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maybe not a 10 let's not go that far but like definitely an eight so like whether you guys
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think i am or not that's got nothing to do with her but like yeah what is it that took you from
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a four to an eight if nothing's changed what is it that takes loving myself and and looking in the
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mirror and not being disgusted at what i see i understand that yeah so but that doesn't you're
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you're not necessarily being objective about how other people view you right because isn't that what
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a rating really is like what you think the vast majority of people like like if i rated myself one
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to ten i give myself a five i think i'm normal looking and i just think it's based on my results
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i think if i was an eight nine or ten i would have had modeling contracts because people in the top 20
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of beauty they get they get modeling contracts so what is beauty i mean there's a lot of things like
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if you i mean you can you can go online and have people rate your pictures and they rank you one to
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ten that's wild and and so you can get you can get a lot of data that says how attractive you are in
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society and men will wait you women will rate you like every day how we look is like how we represent
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ourselves it's not fun but it's just like being honest so um and it's also like you can get dating
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apps to like you know everyone's tinder bumble like they have a ranking for you behind the scenes
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yeah damn yeah well i trust so um i don't understand when girls say like i'm an eight because or sometimes
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i hear girls say time because i hear this a lot where they say like because i love myself and i'm like
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confident now but don't you think attractiveness is based on results they may be but i don't care
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about those results to be honest but do you think then you're not being objective about your how
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attractive you are or how attractive anyone else might be i guess not but like yeah that stuff's not
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really important to me yeah but i think when when someone when someone rates somebody why why does
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that have anything to do with them like if you rate me if someone rated like somebody a three and
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it's just like okay that's that's your opinion like it's not okay so my first question is based on
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this clip do you think women are honest with each other no no no no what do you what do you think
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eddie 100 no no way do you think that someone that's overweight can be above a five
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yeah oh that's a techie one there's men that like fluffy women like there's
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how many men enough enough yeah but what do you mean by fluffy do you know what i think we need to
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define what the like diabetes can you can you can you google um like a bmi chart like do bmi chart um
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something like that then we can decide as a group because i think you have to define the parameters
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because i think have you guys seen wally wally the movie and like all the women and then the
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people yeah dude yeah yeah you're the one with the the fat the fat one yeah yeah do that yeah there you
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go can you make it bigger yeah yeah thank you well zoom in a little bit the red's kind of smaller than
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i expected for like the red so well i think that's just like the max you know like that's the minimum max
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it keeps going you know so can all right we'll do by color
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and i'm not i'm not talking about body shape obviously these aren't the most voluptuous women
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you know but no cheeks in none of them but just interesting stunts
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okay okay so um does this on the right on the left does that say underweight i can't read it i think
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yeah the blue is underweight and then the green is that normal and then overweight is the the
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the light yellow so yeah can someone be attractive or like above a five if they're overweight
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i still say yeah yeah i just think i think needs to define the parameters because attractiveness
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and whether a woman's are able to i said above a five looks wise like one to ten like they're
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they're more attractive than someone that's average if if the body that i have in mind
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goes to be treated 100 percent okay what about obese obese it depends on the cheeks
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so you think that gut as long as there's cheeks that gut is a madness but
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so that's so then would the answer be no well yeah but you had a gut like that it's a madness
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what about men um there's a lot of men that also this size that are deemed attractive or
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are very successful with women what do you think about like what do you mean like guys okay girls
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no like overweight guys overweight guys are still seen as very attractive are they rich normally yeah
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that's like the cheat code for men i mean like men and women are weighed on different things so
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like men don't care about our money but men are but women care about men's money i mean you could
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argue that maybe the girls wouldn't have like genuine desire for them they just want you know the
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money but it depends in africa um big belly is a sign of wealth yeah that kind of wealth is
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attractive yeah like different countries i like they force feed the women to make them bigger
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because it seems that's like one small tribe in africa and even an exception and i will agree and
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i looked at that tribe because i've heard so much about this tribe this is like the one everyone brings
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up yeah that country is in poverty so it's really not even the majority of the country it's like a
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very it's it's not maybe because of that because they're in poverty maybe like food resources aren't
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very common yeah and then to have those it's kind of like a sign of wealth yeah i've seen it's
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attractive i'm assuming i don't know i just looked it up one day and i was like this is the smallest
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freaking tribe that i've heard so much about validate no like i'm so tired of hearing about this
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tribe and the other thing is like on this show i've had so many people tell me like they won't even
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tell me okay you know i'm gonna ask the panel this first is lizzo a 10. oh no get a picture
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yeah let's put can we put lizzo on the screen what are people saying lizzo's a 10. i can't get like
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i've had so many times on the show i've said okay like what about lizzo i can see already she's finished
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wait wait wait but like face card like she's got a really pretty face yeah this is why girls lie to
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each other no no no this is why you can't trust girls no i'm not saying anything about her body
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weight i'm talking about her face all right one to ten you think that one to ten okay rank her one
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time let me think just looks yeah look just appearance one to ten looks including weight yeah it
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just looks just looks oh man so from that from the three see that's real i can trust i think that's
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too hard too i think i'll go with five i'm going to say neutral five five is average you know no
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like i feel like she's got a really really pretty face she's got a very symmetrical face and you
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cannot disagree with me i will never take your opinion on board i'm talking about her face i'm
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talking about if she even lost weight her features will come out more like i think symmetry is very
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attractive and she's a very symmetrical face to me so i like her face yeah because you know what
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when i hear is she attractive in the face yeah devoid of her body i think would i still have sex with
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her but why is attractiveness always gotta because i'm a man but he's a man i was gonna say he's a man
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i want to chop but both men and women chop so no but men chop but he is like that's like you know yeah
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men i feel like just go for what they see as in like if if you're not if they're not it says
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attraction yeah no the basic principle is the men are attracted to what they see whilst women
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are attracted to what they hear so that's why men lie and women wear makeup i want to agree with you
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but now i look at her face and think i hear what you're saying some she's pretty but that's just me
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trying to be nice like i would not give her okay one to ten eddie one to ten she's a one
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like something that's a little bit more like 300 pounds no like 300 pounds no like like the
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face that you could make lizzo's face look worse is what i'm saying yeah i mean i don't think she's
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like like if she was thinner she'd be fine but she's 300 pounds but i don't think she's a one
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i feel like the one i'll give her two damn what about you what you think i don't know i'd say um
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okay me just being outside the whole motion i would say four but then if someone was to come
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to me if like someone i like if my boyfriend was to come up to me like listen i'm leaving
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you for her i'd be like are you serious like you're taking a piss i'm like what your solverstein's gone
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so what did you give her a one and your opinion probably matters the most your rating thank you
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why does it matter the most because he's actually a man in terms of a sexual mate a relationship
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everything i like the opinion women matter i can be attracted to women too yeah i i know but i'm just
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saying would you would you would you because are you attracted to women too i'm attracted okay so
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would you date lizzo she's not my type as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we
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