Modern Women NEED SHAME
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about why women are more promiscuous than ever before, and why it's not a choice, it's a genetic predisposition. Plus, we have a special guest on the show to talk about her new book, "The Book of Shame."
Transcript
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I think we should bring back shame. I think we should shame more, not less.
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Because women respond really well to social shame. Yes, they do. Women are very easy to propagate.
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They learned this in the 20s when they started using radio to influence women.
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Women are very easily influenced. That's why we all have the latest fashion trends, the latest makeup trends.
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Women go with the trends. And the thing is, when the trend is whoredom, that doesn't make good wives and mothers.
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Well, wouldn't you say that the sexual revolution, then, was caused by the absolute obsession with female virginity?
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And it's almost like if you have this extreme, you end up going from one extreme to the other.
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I would say that the sexual revolution was caused by birth control and women wanting to be whores.
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When you think about it, guys, feminism let us do anything.
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And we chose whoredom. How crazy is that? We could have chosen anything.
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A lot of feminists are actually very anti-sexual liberation.
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Like, went to the moon, started Fortune 500 companies.
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But women are doing that. But women are doing that.
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Women could have did anything, and we chose whoredom.
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So a little shame, I think it's not a bad thing.
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And I've been very, very deep into it for a few months now.
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It's going to have a leather cover and energy crystals on the cover.
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But there's a really interesting argument that sort of self-revealed.
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I didn't expect this to happen, but I started looking into it.
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It's like, okay, statistically, I can say, yes, like, there's very clear data.
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And it's, like, irrefutable, and it's been replicated many times through many studies
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that if a woman's got 10 or more sexual partners,
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the outcome of that marriage is going to be very, very poor,
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And then I stumbled upon this one study, and then it led me to another study.
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And I've collected, like, seven pages of data from different studies on this,
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This one's a mind-blowing thing, so pay attention, okay?
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Is promiscuity a choice, or is it a genetic predisposition?
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Like, we want to say, okay, let's just say we think it's a choice, right?
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You know, you can be like that, you're having fun.
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I'm going to give you guys an anecdotal example,
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and I'll give you some statistics, and it gets really weird, okay?
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When you think of a single mother, like, just imagine a single mom,
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Is it a little girl she's raising or a little boy?
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So there's a ribosome, a sequence of ribosomes in the genes that when it lines up in a certain
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alignment, it has something like a 78% predictive factor of your sociosexual status.
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Sociosexuality is like a scientific way of saying promiscuity.
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It's how you treat sex, like, you know, just socially and not with any sort of higher purpose,
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And what else is crazy about it is, well, a couple of things, right?
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Number one, women that have this particular set of ribosomes are more promiscuous by definition.
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Number two, they're more likely to have male offspring.
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Yeah, and it's like, it's been known for like 40 years.
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There actually are reasons for it, which get very scientific and very interesting.
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So back in the day, if you were like a concubine, I'd imagine you'd be a concubine for like the
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So maybe there's some genetic variation that happened because the kings wanted sons and
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they would kind of, wouldn't they kill the mistresses that like couldn't give them sons?
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I don't know the answer to that, but I know that female, when you know, when you have a girl
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as opposed to a boy, the sperm gestrates longer in the, in the uterus, right?
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Or in the going up and through the fallopian tubes, et cetera.
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So it's like, um, so there, there is an argument to be said that there's just like a different
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kind of sex that occurs when a woman is very, very into the sex, which a hypersexual woman
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would be because they exhibit more male characteristics.
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And so one, and I started reading into that and there's like quite, and there's got like
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And as I, as I'm reading through the studies and I'm like, I'm putting all this data together,
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I'm going, Oh my God, maybe there's a genetic trigger to tell men to stay away from promiscuous
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women because they're genetically predisposed to cheat on you.
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Well, I just don't think it makes for good wives and mothers.
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Well, part of being a wife is to enjoy sex with your husband.
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So could you then say your husband and the highest sex.
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No, but the highest sexual satisfaction was when they've only had sex with one person.
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And the number one, and the number one person that women cheat with is their exes.
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You could make the argument that practice makes perfect.
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Well, it depends also on what kind of person you want.
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Because the thing is as well, would you say that people are more likely to be attracted
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So for example, a woman who's say been with a few people would want a guy who'd also been
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They will want to find a lady that hasn't slept with multiple men.
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And a wifey isn't someone that sleeps around for fun and wants to, I don't know, build their
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You look at a country like France today where paternity testing is illegal in France.
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You go to jail for 20 years for getting a paternity test.
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So if the wife delivers a child, it's not the color that you are.
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It's like you just have to accept them as your kid and that's it.
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And so, and now your resources are going to a man, you know, to a baby, to a child that's
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Which, it's like, if you have resources as a man, what are your chances of preserving
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What if he's happy raising loads of kids, though?
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So find a man that's happy raising other men's kids.
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Why wouldn't he just get a young woman that can give him a bunch of kids?
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What if he's got five young women who can give him a bunch of kids?
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I mean, you'd probably be attracted to a man that has those options.
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We're going to go back to the wives of yesterday from today.
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Before she would stay, 85% of people were married.
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Now, there's a 32% to 41% chance she's leaving your ass.
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So, depending on the time period in social class, you'd have a wife helping up on the
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So, you're going to get some cooking from scratch, right?
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Now, I'm not saying there are not wives that offer this.
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But does the average chick, I don't know how to farm.
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I don't know how to farm, but my wife knows how to farm.
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I do help my dad water the garden, but that's about how fast I, how far I take it.
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There was a major stigma against female cheating.
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You wouldn't have to worry about her cheating on you.
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It happened, but so infrequently that it would barely cross your mind.
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As opposed to today, where one in five women cuck their partners.
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Christian cultures always despise wife beating.
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And the paranoia about domestic violence was not as high as today.
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Meaning, if your wife attacked you, you could defend yourself.
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As opposed to today, where half of domestic violence is reciprocal, 70% of non-reciprocal,
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the wife is beating on you, sometimes with a weapon, and the cops get called.
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So, they used to be able to, wait, I should, I put this on the wrong one.
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You could call the police on your girl and they would help you if she starts beating you.
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So, if the wife left, which was unlikely, she could not take your kids from you unless you
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In most cases, when you married a woman, you would get a dowry from her family.
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I actually, I do come with eight acres of land.
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But, but, it made sense since you were the one providing financially.
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It was considered her wifely duty to have sex with you.
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Sure, she might deny you sex, but sexless marriages were a lot less common.
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As the head of the household, you'd have the final say on all major decisions.
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If your wife disagreed with you, she'd have to consult privately and not disagree with you publicly.
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Can you pull up the tweet that I have the muzzle?
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In terms of childcare and domestic cleaning, there would be no question of 50-50 on top of your job.
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Just because your wife wanted to be a dental hygienist or receptionist because some feminist teacher told her it was important, nada.
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Women were expected to behave gracefully and look after their appearance.
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Not to mention, postmodern period obesity was a lot rarer because of high food scarcity and lack of junk food.