JustPearlyThings - July 15, 2023


Modern Women NEED SHAME

Topics
trends and sexual revolution promiscuity and marriage outcomes
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
King
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Length

11 minutes

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189.23

Word count

2,142

Sentence count

255

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Misogyny

45

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Toxicity

30

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33

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In this episode, we talk about why women are more promiscuous than ever before, and why it's not a choice, it's a genetic predisposition. Plus, we have a special guest on the show to talk about her new book, "The Book of Shame."

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00:00:00.000 I think we should bring back shame. I think we should shame more, not less.
00:00:06.120 Because women respond really well to social shame. Yes, they do. Women are very easy to propagate. 1.00
00:00:12.380 They learned this in the 20s when they started using radio to influence women. 0.90
00:00:17.780 Women are very easily influenced. That's why we all have the latest fashion trends, the latest makeup trends. 1.00
00:00:22.380 Women go with the trends. And the thing is, when the trend is whoredom, that doesn't make good wives and mothers. 1.00
00:00:28.360 Well, wouldn't you say that the sexual revolution, then, was caused by the absolute obsession with female virginity? 0.59
00:00:34.420 And it's almost like if you have this extreme, you end up going from one extreme to the other. 0.99
00:00:38.840 I would say that the sexual revolution was caused by birth control and women wanting to be whores. 1.00
00:00:44.060 When you think about it, guys, feminism let us do anything. 1.00
00:00:47.480 And we chose whoredom. How crazy is that? We could have chosen anything. 0.97
00:00:53.200 We could have been astronauts.
00:00:54.640 A lot of feminists are actually very anti-sexual liberation. 1.00
00:00:57.480 Like, went to the moon, started Fortune 500 companies.
00:01:01.840 But women are doing that. But women are doing that. 1.00
00:01:02.480 You know, I mean, and we chose...
00:01:04.200 Excuse me, can you follow the rules?
00:01:07.740 Oh, sorry.
00:01:08.660 You just keep cutting and interrupting.
00:01:10.960 No worries. My apologies.
00:01:13.340 Women could have did anything, and we chose whoredom. 1.00
00:01:17.380 And that's the funny thing.
00:01:18.960 85% of us were virgins 100 years ago.
00:01:21.880 Now, 95% of us aren't.
00:01:26.640 That's how much we go with trends.
00:01:28.100 So a little shame, I think it's not a bad thing.
00:01:31.940 Sorry, go ahead.
00:01:32.540 So this is really fast.
00:01:33.700 I'm writing a book right now.
00:01:34.900 It's called The Book of Shame, oddly enough.
00:01:37.820 And I've been very, very deep into it for a few months now.
00:01:41.640 It's going to have a leather cover and energy crystals on the cover.
00:01:44.240 But there's a really interesting argument that sort of self-revealed.
00:01:48.180 I didn't expect this to happen, but I started looking into it.
00:01:50.520 It's like, okay, statistically, I can say, yes, like, there's very clear data.
00:01:54.520 And it's, like, irrefutable, and it's been replicated many times through many studies
00:01:58.380 that if a woman's got 10 or more sexual partners, 1.00
00:02:00.940 the outcome of that marriage is going to be very, very poor,
00:02:03.240 like, relative to other marriages.
00:02:04.800 Like, it's just...
00:02:05.540 But the question is, like, but why?
00:02:07.720 But why?
00:02:08.640 And then I stumbled upon this one study, and then it led me to another study.
00:02:12.020 And I've collected, like, seven pages of data from different studies on this,
00:02:15.520 and it's always converging on the same factor.
00:02:17.220 And here's the question.
00:02:18.000 This one's a mind-blowing thing, so pay attention, okay?
00:02:21.280 Is promiscuity a choice, or is it a genetic predisposition?
00:02:28.800 That's an interesting question.
00:02:29.820 Like, we want to say, okay, let's just say we think it's a choice, right?
00:02:34.460 We want to say it's a choice.
00:02:35.740 You know, you can be like that, you're having fun.
00:02:37.880 Okay, but now watch this.
00:02:39.300 I'm going to give you guys an anecdotal example,
00:02:41.000 and I'll give you some statistics, and it gets really weird, okay?
00:02:44.420 When you think of a single mother, like, just imagine a single mom, 0.99
00:02:47.660 and she's got a kid, okay?
00:02:49.560 You got it?
00:02:50.020 Is that kid male or female?
00:02:54.120 Is it a little girl she's raising or a little boy?
00:02:57.080 I don't know why I see a male.
00:02:58.620 It's always a little boy, right?
00:02:59.700 We always think, oh, it's a little boy.
00:03:01.040 That's not by accident, okay?
00:03:02.880 That's not by accident.
00:03:05.020 This gets really interesting, right?
00:03:06.180 So there's a ribosome, a sequence of ribosomes in the genes that when it lines up in a certain
00:03:13.100 alignment, it has something like a 78% predictive factor of your sociosexual status.
00:03:21.040 Sociosexuality is like a scientific way of saying promiscuity. 0.97
00:03:23.600 It's how you treat sex, like, you know, just socially and not with any sort of higher purpose,
00:03:28.500 right?
00:03:28.700 And it's genetic.
00:03:30.160 And what else is crazy about it is, well, a couple of things, right?
00:03:33.220 Number one, women that have this particular set of ribosomes are more promiscuous by definition. 1.00
00:03:39.240 Number two, they're more likely to have male offspring. 0.91
00:03:43.060 Wow.
00:03:43.720 Yeah, and it's like, it's been known for like 40 years.
00:03:47.620 Why do you think that's the case?
00:03:48.160 Huh?
00:03:48.500 Why do you think that's the case?
00:03:49.380 There are reasons.
00:03:50.180 There actually are reasons for it, which get very scientific and very interesting.
00:03:53.480 Okay, this is my guess.
00:03:54.620 This is my guess.
00:03:55.340 So back in the day, if you were like a concubine, I'd imagine you'd be a concubine for like the
00:04:02.240 most like alpha guy, like the king.
00:04:04.840 Yes.
00:04:05.080 So maybe there's some genetic variation that happened because the kings wanted sons and
00:04:10.680 they would kind of, wouldn't they kill the mistresses that like couldn't give them sons? 1.00
00:04:14.780 Like wouldn't they? 0.99
00:04:15.400 This is just a wild guess.
00:04:16.420 I don't know the answer to that, but I know that female, when you know, when you have a girl 1.00
00:04:20.100 as opposed to a boy, the sperm gestrates longer in the, in the uterus, right?
00:04:23.080 Or in the going up and through the fallopian tubes, et cetera.
00:04:25.100 So it's like, um, so there, there is an argument to be said that there's just like a different
00:04:29.660 kind of sex that occurs when a woman is very, very into the sex, which a hypersexual woman 1.00
00:04:34.800 would be because they exhibit more male characteristics. 0.91
00:04:37.220 Right.
00:04:37.920 And so one, and I started reading into that and there's like quite, and there's got like
00:04:41.980 a whole chapter on it.
00:04:42.820 And as I, as I'm reading through the studies and I'm like, I'm putting all this data together,
00:04:46.460 I'm going, Oh my God, maybe there's a genetic trigger to tell men to stay away from promiscuous 0.69
00:04:52.040 women because they're genetically predisposed to cheat on you. 1.00
00:04:55.920 Yeah. 0.76
00:04:56.600 Yeah.
00:04:57.600 Wow.
00:04:58.280 That's very interesting.
00:05:00.280 Well, can I ask you a question?
00:05:01.800 I'm going to. 1.00
00:05:02.800 What's wrong with a woman being a whore? 1.00
00:05:04.800 Well, I just don't think it makes for good wives and mothers. 1.00
00:05:08.480 He was.
00:05:09.480 Why not? 0.99
00:05:10.480 Well, part of being a wife is to enjoy sex with your husband. 1.00
00:05:14.420 Yeah. 0.98
00:05:14.820 So could you then say your husband and the highest sex.
00:05:17.600 Yeah, but practice makes perfect.
00:05:19.100 No, but the highest sexual satisfaction was when they've only had sex with one person. 0.88
00:05:24.420 So she's going to enjoy sex more.
00:05:26.860 You could also make the argument.
00:05:28.360 And the number one, and the number one person that women cheat with is their exes. 1.00
00:05:33.640 You could make the argument that practice makes perfect.
00:05:36.280 You could argue that.
00:05:37.100 I just don't think it'd be true. 1.00
00:05:38.260 I think they would just make you a whore. 1.00
00:05:40.120 Well, it depends also on what kind of person you want. 0.97
00:05:42.800 Because the thing is as well, would you say that people are more likely to be attracted
00:05:46.260 to people who are like them?
00:05:47.440 So for example, a woman who's say been with a few people would want a guy who'd also been
00:05:51.300 with a few people. 1.00
00:05:52.260 A man loves a whore. 1.00
00:05:53.580 They will fuck a whore. 1.00
00:05:54.800 But they will not marry a whore. 1.00
00:05:57.560 They will want to find a lady that hasn't slept with multiple men. 1.00
00:06:01.620 A wifey. 0.94
00:06:02.400 And a wifey isn't someone that sleeps around for fun and wants to, I don't know, build their 1.00
00:06:07.220 experience up.
00:06:08.500 Go use a toy.
00:06:10.040 Especially if a man has resources.
00:06:11.480 You look at a country like France today where paternity testing is illegal in France.
00:06:14.940 You can look this up.
00:06:15.740 You go to jail for 20 years for getting a paternity test.
00:06:17.860 So if the wife delivers a child, it's not the color that you are. 0.84
00:06:20.600 It's like you just have to accept them as your kid and that's it.
00:06:23.340 Right?
00:06:23.880 And so, and now your resources are going to a man, you know, to a baby, to a child that's
00:06:27.680 not your child.
00:06:28.300 Which, it's like, if you have resources as a man, what are your chances of preserving
00:06:31.760 those in divorce court?
00:06:32.680 Like, pretty damn close to zero.
00:06:34.140 Zero.
00:06:34.360 What if he's happy raising loads of kids, though?
00:06:37.240 He's got more children.
00:06:38.400 Great.
00:06:38.820 So find a man that's happy raising other men's kids. 0.98
00:06:41.280 Why wouldn't he just get a young woman that can give him a bunch of kids? 1.00
00:06:45.520 What if he's got five young women who can give him a bunch of kids? 1.00
00:06:48.360 Not my baby, Dad.
00:06:52.400 I mean, you'd probably be attracted to a man that has those options.
00:06:56.020 Okay.
00:06:56.700 We're going to go back to the wives of yesterday from today. 1.00
00:07:00.320 Okay.
00:07:01.260 So, we're just going to go through.
00:07:03.440 So, what do we say?
00:07:04.760 Before she would stay, 85% of people were married.
00:07:09.040 There was a big social stigma against divorce. 1.00
00:07:12.580 Now, there's a 32% to 41% chance she's leaving your ass. 1.00
00:07:17.280 Yeah. 1.00
00:07:18.120 Okay.
00:07:18.900 Next.
00:07:19.300 Next.
00:07:19.380 Next.
00:07:19.500 Next.
00:07:20.760 Next.
00:07:21.200 Wait.
00:07:21.620 I need you to wait.
00:07:22.520 Pipe down.
00:07:23.780 Wait.
00:07:24.100 Okay.
00:07:24.420 Thank you.
00:07:25.360 All right.
00:07:25.840 So, depending on the time period in social class, you'd have a wife helping up on the 0.99
00:07:30.440 farm.
00:07:31.140 So, you're going to get some cooking from scratch, right?
00:07:35.540 And farming.
00:07:36.360 Now, I'm not saying there are not wives that offer this.
00:07:39.440 But does the average chick, I don't know how to farm. 1.00
00:07:42.000 You guys know how to farm?
00:07:43.480 He does.
00:07:44.360 I don't know how to farm, but my wife knows how to farm. 1.00
00:07:46.780 I'm not a perfect person.
00:07:48.220 I don't know.
00:07:48.540 I do help my dad water the garden, but that's about how fast I, how far I take it.
00:07:53.180 Okay.
00:07:53.600 So, we got cooking and farming.
00:07:56.680 Then, then three.
00:07:58.060 There was a major stigma against female cheating. 0.99
00:08:00.680 You wouldn't have to worry about her cheating on you.
00:08:03.240 It happened, but so infrequently that it would barely cross your mind.
00:08:07.280 As opposed to today, where one in five women cuck their partners. 1.00
00:08:12.280 Right there. 0.65
00:08:13.140 Yes.
00:08:13.680 Okay.
00:08:14.180 Next.
00:08:15.020 Four.
00:08:15.400 Rule of thumb is a myth.
00:08:17.440 Christian cultures always despise wife beating. 0.95
00:08:21.020 And the paranoia about domestic violence was not as high as today.
00:08:24.520 Meaning, if your wife attacked you, you could defend yourself.
00:08:27.480 As opposed to today, where half of domestic violence is reciprocal, 70% of non-reciprocal,
00:08:34.420 the wife is beating on you, sometimes with a weapon, and the cops get called. 0.99
00:08:38.840 The man is the one getting arrested.
00:08:40.700 So, they used to be able to, wait, I should, I put this on the wrong one.
00:08:45.460 You could call the police on your girl and they would help you if she starts beating you. 1.00
00:08:49.860 Okay.
00:08:50.880 So, if the wife left, which was unlikely, she could not take your kids from you unless you 0.93
00:08:58.380 gave them up voluntarily.
00:08:59.680 So, the father automatically got custody.
00:09:02.480 Where today, 90% of the time, woman gets kids. 1.00
00:09:12.320 Okay.
00:09:13.680 Next.
00:09:15.340 In most cases, when you married a woman, you would get a dowry from her family. 0.87
00:09:20.680 Any of you come with a dowry?
00:09:23.140 No?
00:09:23.980 No?
00:09:24.320 I know.
00:09:24.700 Dang it, right?
00:09:25.560 It's like.
00:09:27.260 I can give you a dowry.
00:09:28.020 A dowry.
00:09:28.620 What?
00:09:28.960 I can give you a dowry.
00:09:29.980 Wow.
00:09:30.420 Thank you.
00:09:30.800 I actually, I do come with eight acres of land.
00:09:33.140 Shout out, dad.
00:09:33.780 But, but, it made sense since you were the one providing financially.
00:09:42.400 Seven.
00:09:42.980 She would be a virgin.
00:09:45.060 Moreover, it would, it would pipe down.
00:09:47.940 All right, wait, we'll get to you. 0.99
00:09:49.720 It was considered her wifely duty to have sex with you. 1.00
00:09:53.360 So, unlimited. 0.99
00:09:56.680 Sorry, guys.
00:09:57.460 I did not make this a very good chart.
00:09:59.760 Unlimited sex.
00:10:00.940 Sure, she might deny you sex, but sexless marriages were a lot less common. 1.00
00:10:06.700 Where now, one in four marriages are sexless.
00:10:12.780 Very different.
00:10:14.040 As the head of the household, you'd have the final say on all major decisions.
00:10:18.680 If your wife disagreed with you, she'd have to consult privately and not disagree with you publicly.
00:10:24.340 Oh, King, I'm sorry.
00:10:25.360 I did not tell you this before.
00:10:26.880 Can you pull up the tweet that I have the muzzle?
00:10:30.940 I'm going to, you know, go on my Twitter.
00:10:33.720 Go on my Twitter and look for a picture.
00:10:35.800 You'll know it.
00:10:36.540 You'll know it.
00:10:37.020 I said, should we bring this back?
00:10:38.800 Okay.
00:10:39.440 I'm going to, I'm going to go to 10.
00:10:41.280 I'm going to skip nine.
00:10:42.000 I'm going to go back.
00:10:42.980 In terms of childcare and domestic cleaning, there would be no question of 50-50 on top of your job.
00:10:48.880 Just because your wife wanted to be a dental hygienist or receptionist because some feminist teacher told her it was important, nada. 1.00
00:10:57.020 She was a stay-at-home wife. 1.00
00:10:58.620 11.
00:10:59.500 Women were expected to behave gracefully and look after their appearance. 0.92
00:11:03.500 Not to mention, postmodern period obesity was a lot rarer because of high food scarcity and lack of junk food.
00:11:11.400 So she was in shape.
00:11:14.000 Now, unfortunately, today we're 170 pounds.