JustPearlyThings - Modern Women NEED To Make This Investment

00:00:00.000 see this is it all goes back to the the thing of like men just kind of don't want to be men

00:00:05.600 and we have to just let it go but i need to tell you this is why i think men should just stop

00:00:24.080 dealing with us and just go to the 22 year olds and only marry i said i said i said wait wait i said

00:00:36.800 hold out for five years and wait for the next round so they the the next generation no no i said hold

00:00:42.960 out because like now like this is exhausting to a guy to convince you that he's he's man enough

00:00:48.080 to lead you and i'm not talking about you personally but just in general this is exhausting it's

00:00:52.640 exhausting and this is the funny thing like for especially for the people that argue for instance

00:00:57.760 you you say you're into real estate and you sell houses is it every sale you make that you make a

00:01:03.360 buck from is it everybody you speak to that you're successful with but what happens when you're

00:01:07.520 successful eventually you go through a couple of losses you learn from them and then you figure

00:01:11.920 out how to move ahead that's what a leader does a leader is not someone that gets every single

00:01:16.800 decision right a leader is someone that can get something wrong and still have the guts to sit

00:01:22.560 down and figure out yeah but you can't like you what are you meant to do as a female then just be 1.00

00:01:26.640 submissive to every single man and hope that one marries you i'll give every single man but every

00:01:30.960 man's meant to be a leader you have to think as women we have a lot more to lose i'm meant to vet

00:01:35.600 your man but once you pick them but how do you vet them without submitting are you gonna even let me

00:01:40.000 speak like how are you even gonna get a man if you can't even let a man speak i don't i'm not i

00:01:44.400 don't want to be married okay then look at the stats with me then just listen or don't but you can't keep

00:01:49.360 cutting me off the point is when a man is trying to get his way ahead in life and he has a woman

00:01:55.600 who is constantly pointing out all the faults he can't focus on what he has to do as a man

00:02:00.400 so one way or the other you're either going to have to decide well you've said you don't

00:02:04.880 want to get married so i don't even know why you're even pressed about this whole situation

00:02:09.440 for people that want to be married the point is if you want to be married you need to vet your man first 0.68

00:02:15.200 then when you pick that man you need to trust in his leadership that is it's as simple as if a man

00:02:20.640 if a man if a man if a man wants you right and he wants to be in a relationship with you okay does he

00:02:26.400 not have to demonstrate that he will show you does he not have to demonstrate before you give him the

00:02:31.200 title of husband or boyfriend does he not have to demonstrate that he would be a good boyfriend

00:02:35.920 yeah right he has to lead by example right so why would you think that if you find a man that you're

00:02:42.480 interested in and that you want to be his girlfriend do you not think that you have to

00:02:46.720 demonstrate that you would be a good girlfriend to him by showing what he would what you would be

00:02:51.760 if he committed to you yeah i know but we're talking about marriage here i know but what i'm

00:02:55.680 trying to say is before you a lot of this the contention is why would i submit to a man right if

00:03:01.280 i can't trust him right why should i trust him blindly it's literally like me going on an airplane and

00:03:07.920 the pilot is not qualified why would i do that okay to women it's a higher risk we have a lot 1.00

00:03:14.400 more to do and we look for safety remember we look for safety who you go so we will go and be with

00:03:19.600 the guy you do vet who you go on a flight with because that's why you choose airlines you don't

00:03:23.120 choose random independent whatever off the cuff right you choose airlines because you know that's

00:03:27.520 part of the vetting process and we hope for the best yeah but like do you ever go in an airline

00:03:32.480 where you think i wonder if this pilot is qualified no no can i i want to point something

00:03:37.280 out it's like you're repeating propaganda because you're saying we have more to lose when we have

00:03:41.200 less to lose the men have everything to lose okay you're speaking financially no i'm talking about

00:03:46.640 everything even matters yeah kids financially if women cared about their fertile years they'd get 1.00

00:03:57.760 married when they're young but we don't choose to well you can have ibf at like how old

00:04:05.520 it fails the most most of the time and this is the problem women will blame the men for not wanting 1.00

00:04:10.160 to get married instead of trying to improve the product should we check them in spam sperm count before 1.00

00:04:14.720 we marry them make sure that they can give us all these kids i agree the woman should look 1.00

00:04:18.640 what if you get married to a man and then you're infertile should he just divorce you because now 1.00

00:04:22.480 you can't give him children i would i would i would say in general i would say this is why

00:04:28.240 women the next like they should just throw us all away you know what i mean they got to just throw 1.00

00:04:33.120 this this is too much for them i feel for it so it's like then just say for the next five years we're

00:04:38.240 marrying nobody and then the next round of 21 22 year old virgins they marry and they're 0.96

00:04:44.640 there you go everything's solved we would be the victims of our own decisions but the thing is

00:04:57.360 when a man commits a crime and goes to jail he doesn't blame the world he understands it was his

00:05:02.160 own choice but then a man comes out and is reborn and everyone wants to treat him like a brand new man

00:05:06.640 but once you get a record you can't do so many jobs you get such a massive record and it's such a

00:05:15.280 you can change your name for 25 pound and then you can go and get a jade yeah but you need to add your

00:05:20.240 previous names on applications guys guys we need to we need to go one at a time what man do you know

00:05:26.320 right that's come out of prison and the world is treating him better than we're not saying the world but

00:05:30.480 like a man will want to be treated like he hasn't done that he's done his time and that he should be

00:05:35.600 allowed now to be a valuable man but reality he's not gonna get that but the reality is that he doesn't

00:05:40.000 get that yeah yeah but they want that but but we're saying like okay but women of a certain you know 1.00

00:05:45.440 if they're promiscuous where want a certain man to commit to them but they're just not getting it

00:05:49.680 and then if they do get a man who would commit to them they say that they're settling but you don't

00:05:53.200 you don't see the drug dealers coming out and say you're drug dealer shaming but the women will come out and 0.99

00:05:58.320 say you're whore shaming and slut shaming and some women love drug dealers like 1.00

00:06:04.720 do you think yeah that women are good support mechanisms 1.00

00:06:09.600 what do you mean emphasize a little bit do you think like in a relationship do you think they

00:06:13.360 should be in a supporting role or the leading role like what women should be in the supporting 1.00

00:06:17.280 personally i think supporting role so you think that women are good supporters they should be so if 1.00

00:06:23.280 he's not a good leader ain't you part of the problem then because you're the supporting role and

00:06:27.200 you could you could happen to become a better leader i guess it's always going to be one or

00:06:29.680 the other do you mean it's always going to be both yeah it's going to be team effort do you

00:06:33.120 what i mean but i feel like you see how no one said anything when i said something positive about

00:06:36.560 like no no one wanted to jump on and say no i actually agree but i'm just trying to think as

00:06:42.720 me like i'm 22 so you guys still think i got some i still got some chances in me but like

00:06:48.560 like like i'm 22 and i'm not the real woman do you know what i mean like i'm not like i've been

00:06:54.720 through whatever i've been through but it's like now the problem is not to take like what it's not

00:07:00.400 about me saying i'm not a real woman it's me taking accountability saying okay maybe i'm didn't do

00:07:06.160 whatever how do i then is it just like we said joked around is it done now okay i want to actually

00:07:17.360 give you a real answer nobody ever gets i like her yeah nobody ever asks to this they don't care okay

00:07:26.720 i'll tell you the number one this is just you know from the guys what they say the number one thing

00:07:31.920 a personal trainer that's the number one dating advice for women get in the best shape because 1.00

00:07:37.440 then you can get away with more weren't raised to be a wife if you're hot enough they might overlook 1.00

00:07:42.800 it okay that's step one uh you got to get their attention right step two you got to find the married

00:07:48.480 women that actually are submissive to their husbands and learn from them i'm not saying go to me right but 1.00

00:07:54.240 it's like go find the women that have married are married stay married and their husbands actually

00:07:58.960 like them and can vouch for them because a lot of married women their husbands are miserable so you 0.97

00:08:02.720 got to find the ones um yeah and then i would say those are the first two steps and then if you do

00:08:10.800 that you're ahead if she has children then she's kind of what do you mean if she has kids if she has 0.74

00:08:15.120 children already then she's okay i don't have children that's another topic yeah yeah but it's a thing

00:08:21.040 it's definitely a thing i'll give you an answer so if you have kids it's time to get back with your

00:08:25.920 baby daddy you made your bed you made your bed look i'm just trying to solve all the world's

00:08:32.800 problems they always come to me and say pearl what are your solutions well today i got some

00:08:38.320 no is she is she wrong no no no she's not right i'm agreeing or or lower your standards to down here

00:08:48.800 because i know what i bring to the table even though even though i may not be that can i ask you a

00:08:53.840 question if you what would you say to the guy who lives in his mom's basement right is overweight

00:08:59.120 right isn't actually like working on his purpose and anything and he says i deserve a girl like

00:09:05.920 beyonce and if he doesn't get someone like him he's settling what would you say to him

00:09:10.560 well first of all he's got you man he's got you no i'm just asking like what would you say to him

00:09:14.640 because he doesn't want to settle right so what would you say to him obviously like girl like beyonce

00:09:19.840 like so he wants so he goes i want a girl i want a girl who is very gorgeous who's very feminine who 1.00

00:09:27.360 is very submissive and is going to support me and everything i'm doing i do believe that you should

00:09:32.080 first look at yourself before you try and get what no but i'm asking you what if he goes if i if he goes

00:09:39.840 um if i take any girl that's not that i'm settling what would you say to him when you know you're not

00:09:45.840 you're not you're not i know i know i know what i know what i would say to them i'll be like well

00:09:51.760 yeah you're you're you're not really right but also women are settling as well because not every

00:09:56.240 woman's here with the ronaldo so here's the thing here's the thing there's actually right i

00:10:02.960 believe there's actually there's actually there's actually no there's actually no such thing i don't

00:10:05.840 know yeah because i may not want a ronaldo i know but what i mean is there's actually no

00:10:10.320 ronaldo picked a normal girl working in a shop so it's it's there's no such thing because human

00:10:14.960 beings right we're selfish we're selfish by design you think she's normal so let me tell you what

00:10:19.440 what um ronaldo's girlfriend has that most women don't have one she's super feminine so she's very 0.99

00:10:25.600 oh yeah i think she's beautiful she takes care of her shape three she's submissive i keep saying that 1.00

00:10:31.120 word but you guys it just keeps going over your head ronaldo is the guy that is the top guy right

00:10:36.000 he's out there what do you actually hear about his woman you don't hear anything that's amazing

00:10:46.320 how is that sad but most women today want to be on the same level with their man they want 0.97

00:10:51.120 to be in the media they want to be in the limelight they want to be the one taking the shine while

00:10:55.040 their man is doing his thing that is a problem it depends what your career choice is though yeah but

00:11:00.240 it doesn't matter if you have a top man it doesn't matter what you do like for example if i want to be

00:11:05.120 like a let's just say an actress singer whatever whatever that comes with being in the limelight if

00:11:10.880 that's what you want yeah but a lot of guys a lot of guys won't go with you because of that

JustPearlyThings - August 30, 2023

Modern Women NEED To Make This Investment

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