Modern Women Reveal How Much Their Submission Costs
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss how much a man should earn to be considered a good financial man. How much should a woman earn? How much does a woman need to earn to feel safe in a relationship with a man? What is a good amount of money a woman should be able to earn, and how much money should a man earn?
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believe that i agree and so like women own too far to consume a debt i'm gonna blame it on sheen
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okay like she needs to chill out so i have a question for the women how much does your
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submission cost oh what do you mean like okay so when i i use this example when i say submission
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so he says babe trust me quit your job no i think if i pick someone to spend the rest of my life with
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okay and i've i i gained that much trust for them i think i would be able to do it 15 000 pounds a
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year is what he makes no okay 20 000 pounds a year i don't think it's even there's there's a there's
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that means there is a price there is a price for me like it's emotional security you know i really
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need that more okay so emotional security but he earns 30k no
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you can you can you can you can he said trust me no i'm not trusting nothing okay okay okay
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a man can just like up and leave you like no that's not that's not true though um women leave
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70 to 80 percent of the time 90 percent of their college educated like men really don't leave
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because i mean we're literally paid to leave true facts okay so i don't know i don't know all right
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let's look 40 40 i think it's got to be fairly a fairly good sum okay 50 000 pounds 60 000 pounds
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right so i can't work at all like can i have a little side hustle no no that's not the point
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like you you i didn't tell you what he's gonna have you do right maybe you work for him i don't
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know he just okay he just says quit your job yeah trust me okay i think 50 000 i have a plan
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i think 50 000 50 000 yeah so if a guy's making this is me
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i'll say i'll say 50 i think i will feel safe enough to like what what percent of men do you
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think make 50 000 like six percent no it's gonna be higher surely is that quite high it's not high
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but it's higher than that must be like 50 actually i don't know i would have thought it'd be quite
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fairly high i think the higher end in the uk is the average income in the uk i think is between
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24 and 28 000 a year that's the average so 40 percent of men 10 make about 70k yeah and that's
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the higher end so that's that would be higher value in yeah so maybe it's like 15 i'm looking
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it says it says six percent of the uk population earn more than fifty thousand dollars oh my god
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it says i mean it might be different in london but it says six percent of the uk population earn
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more than fifty thousand pounds a year it only matter in london because like five percent of
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that is in london yeah yeah right in this room let me let me do london so everyone go around say
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what your submission costs i'm gonna look it up oh my god be honest as well um
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he will need to earn a hundred and something k and and i know it sounds like a wild number
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but the only reason why i'm saying that is i'm thinking about what i know costs are right now
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and i'm thinking if he could earn that and even whatever he's got planned doesn't necessarily
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go to plan i know we're still okay so yeah okay what do you think um i think for me like you would
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have to um i don't know like probably like over 100k like and i would have to get money sent to my
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bank account like every month like i would have to be getting paid like i know you're asking questions
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can i just ask a question so if he gave you 500 pounds a month 500 okay so i had this conversation
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with someone right he's paying for everything okay you have no bills okay you have no nothing
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your phone bill every electricity everything and he gives you 500 pounds to spend on whatever you want
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every month is that enough how much is he making that's not your business yes what your business
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no no no i don't think a woman needs to know how much a man earns because we like to spend their
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money for them before they've made it so i don't think we need to that's why she's smiling she's
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like yeah yeah i'm gonna get that money but but your bills are paid like so what you used to spend on
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by yourself or bills you used to you don't need to pay for that anymore you've now got 500 pounds to
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do your nails anything you want to do your profit 500 pounds is that okay i mean if that's all he can
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give that's all he's chosen to give he's not about he's just chosen to give you 500 okay i have so many
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questions but i mean like it's black and white that's the minimum like sorry if that's like all
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he can give then of course like i'm more than happy to accept that because us women with our words that's
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it's not about whether it's all he can give he has chosen to give you 500 all your bills are paid
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it's not about chosen or all he can afford it's not about what he can afford he said you are getting
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500 pounds wouldn't you say that's nice of him that is nice of him but you're not happy about it
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but like i want to know more context about the situation like what's there to know
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sorry can i ask you a follow-up on that the whole thing of you whether you're satisfied of 500 pounds
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if that was all he could give it sounds like you'd be okay yeah if he could give you 5 000 it sounds
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like you'd be pissed um but you chose the 500 i would like the thing is as well like i would look
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at my own circumstance as well like how much do i actually need you know like do i need more than
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500 because if i do then i would have to have you don't need you don't in terms of everything is
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paid for everything's paid for this is just this is what would you need it for this is your play
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money this is your play money this is monopoly money lashes nails yeah of course i'll be fine with
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500 of course okay but why was it so hard for you to because like i don't know like for me i just
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feel like if he's earning like a lot of money and we're a partnership like we're building you know
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things together family together a house together then why would he want to limit me like i would
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like if if it was the other way around i would always give more i would always i'm just about to
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say like why do you you part of you guys building a house together and whatever has not got anything
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to do with you financially your part is keeping the home safe and secure so so long as that's our
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agreement between us then yeah but as soon as so baby as soon as you stop working and stuff
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financial is not part of your your your you are yeah true do you get what i'm saying so why is it
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i just feel like us women like i'm i as well i'm trying to unlearn a lot of bad habits or and i
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think it's because we've been given so much power in terms of the jobs that we have access to so
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sometimes the jobs we have we bring that mentality home and how we communicate with men and all of
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that you have to remember they're paying you so they deal with our bullshit but a man has chosen to
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marry you so i don't have to deal with this even though i've asked you to marry me i i decided to ask
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you i didn't have to ask you the maddest thing about that is that you will go into work every
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day even though you hate your job and you won't talk back to your boss and in that same scenario
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that we just painted where your man's giving you free money etc you're still going to come back to
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your man and try and cause trouble at home that makes zero sense to me see in that in that situation
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my my um one little thing that i would say is that it's not the 500 that is an issue for me
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it's um the trust i feel like the trust should go both ways so for me for me you capping me at 500
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it's kind of like one i'm a dependent you don't really trust your children with money like that
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so you're it's almost like i'm a dependent i'm a child um and secondly for me as i said i feel like
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if you just if your car's just staying just like babe like do the shopping or whatever you should
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trust me yeah as your wife that i'm not going to be reckless with your money but it's for me i don't
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know maybe it's a me problem how it would make me feel yeah not necessarily that it's the cat but
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how it would make me feel but also like but you also don't you also don't know why he's doing it
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like like saving for a house or something but the whole point of submission is like you trust him
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yeah that's why nations right yeah but that's why i said it might be a me problem that how how
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it makes me feel i don't think it's a thing where like i don't disagree with what you're saying
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but i think we're all very like intelligent adults yeah and we just quoted a stat that women
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own two thirds of consumer debt women make all the i think women are children actually
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if we know the facts as to how women make consumer decisions then again and you trust your man
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doesn't it just doesn't it make sense that you know if left your own devices over time
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you'll become frivolous with that money yeah detrimental to the situation i think it may be
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different it may be subjective because i handle all the bills and stuff in my house not that i pay for it
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but my husband i think i'm better with in terms of organization i don't know i don't think i'm
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the exception i think that might be a quality of a wife no i think like a lot of girls are better
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at like accounting and organization we have like a whole spreadsheet you know i mean we have the
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incomings and i'm much more better with budgeting and all that stuff yeah but i think men like just
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don't make impulse decisions as much like we'll see like a cute outfit we'll be like buy it don't even
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look at the price yeah yeah i think i'm more like i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on
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