JustPearlyThings - Modern Women's Advice to Men on Dating

00:00:00.000 what dating advice would you guys give to men i'm interested in get your money up

00:00:06.320 i'm jaking i'm jaking okay what dating advice i would say um just be honest about just be

00:00:14.600 transparent it's not by force like and that's not just to do with like finances and stuff but even

00:00:20.060 like emotional availability and stuff like that like it's not that serious how do you communicate

00:00:26.200 that though on the first date not on the first not on the first date but she said dating advice

00:00:30.560 not date advice so like if you're dating somebody like consistently my advice would be honesty

00:00:36.180 because i feel like my pet peeve is when men are like not honest or like not transparent i didn't

00:00:41.840 really expect it straight away which is fine but at some point just stop lying so i think it depends

00:00:48.180 on be honest be emotionally available those are like the two okay what about you um maybe just be

00:00:54.160 yeah like very clear on your intentions like where you are in your life and what your goal is with

00:00:59.440 this woman essentially be clear in your intentions and what in your intentions yeah okay what about

00:01:04.180 you i think it depends on what you're dating for as a man what are you dating for um most men want

00:01:10.260 to have sex okay then then make that clear i'm trying to tell her tell her right away you want to 0.99

00:01:15.140 fuck uh nah because then you're not gonna get her into bed are you okay so tell her soon i think um i 0.99

00:01:22.060 think it needs to be a little bit uh not so blunt like that okay but you know i'm not looking for 0.99

00:01:26.380 anything serious i'm just looking for just be honest because then you're not playing sup because

00:01:30.840 when you have a daughter it's going to come back on you karma is a real thing okay uh what do you

00:01:35.140 think um yeah it depends on what what you're going for sorry it depends what you're going for so

00:01:41.780 because don't waste my time like i'm dating for for for marriage so it's like are you dating for the 0.99

00:01:46.800 same interest or are you dating for fuck because if so there's lots of fishes in the sea okay so be 0.99

00:01:51.920 honest with your intentions okay what i would say study the girl ask as many questions as possible 0.99

00:01:57.980 because one thing i would say is us women we're very good at playing a character yeah and we can 0.87

00:02:02.540 play any character that we want so when a man you know falls in love with her beauty or this and that 0.96

00:02:07.500 and then later on in a marriage he finds out okay she was a whore with a body count 36 and now you're 1.00

00:02:11.580 divorced and now you've lost your money it's because you didn't really take the time to study 0.98

00:02:15.680 girls i feel like a lot of men these days are going for girls just like for vanity and just

00:02:20.080 this fake facade that they put in on and then they're in they end up finding themselves in the 0.98

00:02:24.360 shit show like i'm not being funny but look at kanye and kim he just fell in love with her because of 0.99

00:02:28.240 her bum and her s tape and then now look what's happened as soon as she made a billion dollars she's 1.00

00:02:32.880 left him and he's gone insane he's gone insane he has no control over what his daughter is posting 0.98

00:02:37.940 on tiktok why because he didn't take the time to really study kim and her manipulative ways 1.00

00:02:43.120 who he was having a kid what would you say i want to hear from the guys um what advice out of this

00:02:49.480 was good and what was not good see what you said about um honesty of your intentions yeah yeah that

00:02:54.940 do you know like when i tell a girl that i don't want anything serious and it's just going to be

00:02:59.600 one that thing it's going to be private no one's going to know like you'll have a good time blah blah

00:03:03.160 blah like 97 of the time they'll just they're on it so i think that's oh they're happy to sleep yeah

00:03:09.340 they're happy to sleep with you because they like it's weird man like girls are just the standards 1.00

00:03:13.900 aren't as high anymore in regards to what they want so and these are not like these are some like

00:03:18.220 what we would class as high value women that have got low body counts so you have found that if 1.00

00:03:21.820 you're more honest honest and i feel like it goes back to what you're saying about earlier about

00:03:25.500 girls that want to um travel a lot and stuff when they're younger especially when they're bored

00:03:29.340 you know like when they're bored they can be like these super good girls that present themselves in

00:03:33.980 in certain ways but they know no one's going to find out and they just want a good time someone

00:03:38.220 that looks like this and so i think if if your intentions as a guy just sleep with a girl yeah

00:03:43.180 i think just be honest what would you say paul i don't think you should get dating advice from women

00:03:50.540 that's the best advice yeah don't take dating advice from women yeah because i think it's a lot harder to

00:03:55.660 sleep with women um than we know um and so i think if you've never done it maybe maybe the lesbian girl 1.00

00:04:03.180 could have um so i was just curious if if they thought so you thought the honesty was good

00:04:09.420 anything else not my point because even what we said it was so general tell her your intention to be

00:04:17.020 honest yeah a lot of questions it was like nothing that specific i think um for a guy if you want to

00:04:23.500 find out about their history without asking too many questions and then you can just ask them like simple

00:04:28.060 questions like where have you been the last year like what holidays you been on if they've been to like

00:04:31.820 to buy i'd be for these plays like this it's like you're just it's obviously what you've been on

00:04:35.980 type thing oh i see what else what other questions i'm curious do you ask you know what i'm i normally

00:04:41.820 leave with just the honesty thing because i'm just looking that i was there for one reason and then

00:04:45.180 it's cool from there so i don't really i'm kind of a bad person to take advice from because

00:04:49.180 people they just want to they reciprocate what i want well i think most men i mean there's men watching

00:04:55.260 most men want to know how to get laid so i just you know i heavily rely on um appearing my parents

00:05:01.500 stuff so it's just it's my life coach says to me as well i'd be the worst person to give advice

00:05:06.300 because for me to pull i just always stand there in the club i think you just you just stand there

00:05:13.260 in the club and like what would it come up to you yeah that's when i was more of a younger thing i was

00:05:19.260 younger mindset i stopped obviously like no i'm just i'm just curious what that's like so like women 1.00

00:05:24.220 actually approach you yeah wow that's so rare you know that's not common all my friends are

00:05:31.100 they're gas with it they like they like they use me as fishing bait they just tell me to stand there

00:05:34.780 and then wait until their friends come too uh king what what are the advice did you think was good

00:05:41.420 versus bad i i don't know i can't remember most of it i've got one more like what about what about

00:05:52.140 like if you want to find out more about her like having more like debates and stuff to get her

00:05:57.020 perspective on on things and that can tell you a bit about somebody as well like being more friend

00:06:02.780 like in the beginning just build a friendship and have debates like what we're doing now and get her

00:06:06.940 perspective on like world issues and current affairs and that could help a debate that i bring

00:06:12.460 up often with if i was to meet someone for the first time is like would you um would would you wife

00:06:17.580 would you be a wife if you've stepped with over 50 people and you ask girls and that they're like 1.00

00:06:21.100 they're so do you mean like some of them try and um like the feminist girls will try and argue the 1.00

00:06:25.740 point yeah yeah like this and that but i'm like as soon as you start arguing that point i'm like yeah

00:06:29.980 i don't yeah but that's fine and that's good though because that's a good way of you seeing

00:06:33.740 her mindset that you don't want that i have a question for king just out of curiosity why do you

00:06:38.860 feel like it's a bad idea to get um dating advice from women because i always thought like if you're

00:06:43.180 trying to attract women then that's where you find out what they're looking for so i'm kind of

00:06:47.660 because because women don't know what they want that's the first thing the second thing is second 1.00

00:06:53.420 thing is most women say one thing and do the other so if you're taking advice from women they're just 1.00

00:06:58.300 going to tell you what sounds good they're not going to tell you what actually is going to work

00:07:02.140 because most of them don't even know so the truth is at the end of the day when you're speaking to women

00:07:08.140 i even think the talking part should just be to get her to talk but it's more about watching what

00:07:13.020 she does she says okay she speaks louder double words yeah i said pearl you nailed it happy wife 1.00

00:07:20.700 happy life is a recipe for disaster a man can contribute to his wife's happiness but making 1.00

00:07:25.580 her happy is an impossible task

JustPearlyThings - August 19, 2023

Modern Women's Advice to Men on Dating

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