Modern Women's Advice to Men onĀ Dating
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Summary
In this episode, we are joined by our good friends, Paul and Pippa, to talk about dating advice, money and relationships. We discuss what dating advice is, how to communicate on the first date and what to look for in a woman and how to get her into bed.
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what dating advice would you guys give to men i'm interested in get your money up
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i'm jaking i'm jaking okay what dating advice i would say um just be honest about just be
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transparent it's not by force like and that's not just to do with like finances and stuff but even
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like emotional availability and stuff like that like it's not that serious how do you communicate
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that though on the first date not on the first not on the first date but she said dating advice
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not date advice so like if you're dating somebody like consistently my advice would be honesty
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because i feel like my pet peeve is when men are like not honest or like not transparent i didn't
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really expect it straight away which is fine but at some point just stop lying so i think it depends
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on be honest be emotionally available those are like the two okay what about you um maybe just be
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yeah like very clear on your intentions like where you are in your life and what your goal is with
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this woman essentially be clear in your intentions and what in your intentions yeah okay what about
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you i think it depends on what you're dating for as a man what are you dating for um most men want
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to have sex okay then then make that clear i'm trying to tell her tell her right away you want to
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fuck uh nah because then you're not gonna get her into bed are you okay so tell her soon i think um i
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think it needs to be a little bit uh not so blunt like that okay but you know i'm not looking for
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anything serious i'm just looking for just be honest because then you're not playing sup because
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when you have a daughter it's going to come back on you karma is a real thing okay uh what do you
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think um yeah it depends on what what you're going for sorry it depends what you're going for so
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because don't waste my time like i'm dating for for for marriage so it's like are you dating for the
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same interest or are you dating for fuck because if so there's lots of fishes in the sea okay so be
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honest with your intentions okay what i would say study the girl ask as many questions as possible
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because one thing i would say is us women we're very good at playing a character yeah and we can
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play any character that we want so when a man you know falls in love with her beauty or this and that
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and then later on in a marriage he finds out okay she was a whore with a body count 36 and now you're
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divorced and now you've lost your money it's because you didn't really take the time to study
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girls i feel like a lot of men these days are going for girls just like for vanity and just
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this fake facade that they put in on and then they're in they end up finding themselves in the
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shit show like i'm not being funny but look at kanye and kim he just fell in love with her because of
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her bum and her s tape and then now look what's happened as soon as she made a billion dollars she's
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left him and he's gone insane he's gone insane he has no control over what his daughter is posting
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on tiktok why because he didn't take the time to really study kim and her manipulative ways
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who he was having a kid what would you say i want to hear from the guys um what advice out of this
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was good and what was not good see what you said about um honesty of your intentions yeah yeah that
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do you know like when i tell a girl that i don't want anything serious and it's just going to be
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one that thing it's going to be private no one's going to know like you'll have a good time blah blah
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blah like 97 of the time they'll just they're on it so i think that's oh they're happy to sleep yeah
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they're happy to sleep with you because they like it's weird man like girls are just the standards
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aren't as high anymore in regards to what they want so and these are not like these are some like
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what we would class as high value women that have got low body counts so you have found that if
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you're more honest honest and i feel like it goes back to what you're saying about earlier about
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girls that want to um travel a lot and stuff when they're younger especially when they're bored
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you know like when they're bored they can be like these super good girls that present themselves in
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in certain ways but they know no one's going to find out and they just want a good time someone
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that looks like this and so i think if if your intentions as a guy just sleep with a girl yeah
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i think just be honest what would you say paul i don't think you should get dating advice from women
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that's the best advice yeah don't take dating advice from women yeah because i think it's a lot harder to
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sleep with women um than we know um and so i think if you've never done it maybe maybe the lesbian girl
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could have um so i was just curious if if they thought so you thought the honesty was good
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anything else not my point because even what we said it was so general tell her your intention to be
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honest yeah a lot of questions it was like nothing that specific i think um for a guy if you want to
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find out about their history without asking too many questions and then you can just ask them like simple
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questions like where have you been the last year like what holidays you been on if they've been to like
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to buy i'd be for these plays like this it's like you're just it's obviously what you've been on
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type thing oh i see what else what other questions i'm curious do you ask you know what i'm i normally
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leave with just the honesty thing because i'm just looking that i was there for one reason and then
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it's cool from there so i don't really i'm kind of a bad person to take advice from because
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people they just want to they reciprocate what i want well i think most men i mean there's men watching
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most men want to know how to get laid so i just you know i heavily rely on um appearing my parents
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stuff so it's just it's my life coach says to me as well i'd be the worst person to give advice
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because for me to pull i just always stand there in the club i think you just you just stand there
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in the club and like what would it come up to you yeah that's when i was more of a younger thing i was
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younger mindset i stopped obviously like no i'm just i'm just curious what that's like so like women
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actually approach you yeah wow that's so rare you know that's not common all my friends are
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they're gas with it they like they like they use me as fishing bait they just tell me to stand there
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and then wait until their friends come too uh king what what are the advice did you think was good
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versus bad i i don't know i can't remember most of it i've got one more like what about what about
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like if you want to find out more about her like having more like debates and stuff to get her
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perspective on on things and that can tell you a bit about somebody as well like being more friend
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like in the beginning just build a friendship and have debates like what we're doing now and get her
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perspective on like world issues and current affairs and that could help a debate that i bring
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up often with if i was to meet someone for the first time is like would you um would would you wife
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would you be a wife if you've stepped with over 50 people and you ask girls and that they're like
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they're so do you mean like some of them try and um like the feminist girls will try and argue the
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point yeah yeah like this and that but i'm like as soon as you start arguing that point i'm like yeah
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i don't yeah but that's fine and that's good though because that's a good way of you seeing
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her mindset that you don't want that i have a question for king just out of curiosity why do you
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feel like it's a bad idea to get um dating advice from women because i always thought like if you're
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trying to attract women then that's where you find out what they're looking for so i'm kind of
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because because women don't know what they want that's the first thing the second thing is second
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thing is most women say one thing and do the other so if you're taking advice from women they're just
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going to tell you what sounds good they're not going to tell you what actually is going to work
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because most of them don't even know so the truth is at the end of the day when you're speaking to women
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i even think the talking part should just be to get her to talk but it's more about watching what
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she does she says okay she speaks louder double words yeah i said pearl you nailed it happy wife
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happy life is a recipe for disaster a man can contribute to his wife's happiness but making