JustPearlyThings - August 14, 2023


Modern Women STRUGGLE To Answer This Question


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In this episode, we talk about what a high value woman is and what it means to be one. Is there such a thing as a High Value Woman and what does it mean to be a woman of high value?

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00:00:00.000 is there such a thing as a high value woman if so what does that look like start here go around 1.00
00:00:11.600 i think there is a high value woman because um 1.00
00:00:17.040 i like i know that men care about women's past and women care about a man's future so
00:00:25.520 i think men do look for a high value woman 1.00
00:00:33.520 that's what i think so what what so what traits does does she have so she's like what a virgin you 1.00
00:00:40.960 just said that they care about their past like what what is well like i can't really answer that
00:00:46.080 because i feel like every man has its own okay you don't think there's any general things it's just
00:00:51.200 you don't know um maybe like body count i feel like some guys care about body count and what
00:00:58.000 women do for a living and their mindsets and their goals in life okay what do you think 1.00
00:01:05.440 uh i think there is high value women i think they have to have some traits like have to be motivated 1.00
00:01:13.840 they have to motivate me in some way they also have to be family orientated because i'm big on family so
00:01:20.720 that's definitely high value and i'll say i don't know because some people has
00:01:26.880 past and they have history you know but you can't really judge them from that so i don't know if that
00:01:31.680 you can't judge for on their past yeah it's like can i judge a man if he has a past of like prison
00:01:38.800 uh you can but that person can't change though so oh i shouldn't you want your daughter like your
00:01:46.480 daughter your sister going out with a guy got out of prison like me personally if i meet the guy and
00:01:53.360 i like him oh wow in some way i think that's bad advice you think yeah i think that is who here guys
00:02:00.400 your daughter prison past you're cool with anyone listen if the dude was in prison from a less than
00:02:06.240 a kid and you're like but i like him you might want to rethink that obviously that's like specific you
00:02:11.120 know what i mean like if he was just in prison yeah about anything else then i'd probably give
00:02:16.640 him a chance but like in general i don't really hold people from what they've done okay so they are
00:02:22.240 now okay so for high value women to you body count doesn't matter if it's a thousand you're cool 1.00
00:02:26.640 i wouldn't say i'm cool okay okay so matter someone yeah okay okay so what how how many bodies she got 1.00
00:02:34.000 to be under i'll say probably stay under like 20 okay under 20 she's high value yeah okay what else
00:02:43.520 um i'll say definitely to motivate me in some way i'll say because i'm a gym person i'll say
00:02:50.000 she's health healthy okay yeah and um high value who's is there a woman you think of when you think 0.99
00:03:00.400 of a high value woman someone in the media if not it's okay but i'm just wondering i'm really working
00:03:08.400 my brain i'm just trying to yeah yeah um not right now i wouldn't like choose a specific one right now
00:03:17.520 okay yeah what do you think i think with higher value women it can mean different things i think 1.00
00:03:23.280 if a woman's got respect she's kind she's honest she's got like a business mentality and she's hard 1.00
00:03:30.560 working that to me shows she's a higher value because she's putting in that extra effort and a
00:03:35.840 lot i know a lot of girls that sit around at home all day don't do nothing with their life but then you 1.00
00:03:40.320 see a lot of women that work their asses off you know and to me that shows they're trying to be 1.00
00:03:46.080 good women you know no no no i don't think men really care no yeah it's like it's like nothing
00:03:53.680 to them i get okay it's like it's like you know if a guy talks about his shoe collection yeah and
00:03:59.040 you're like oh that's nice but i don't care yeah okay yeah okay it's like our jobs yeah i think i think
00:04:05.200 it's hard because everyone's got like a different vision in their head of how a woman should be i'm 0.99
00:04:09.360 just curious so okay so you said she's got to have respect like what what what does she have to do to 1.00
00:04:14.400 be a high value woman like what skills does she have to have what what does she have to look like 1.00
00:04:21.520 well we all know a man likes a classy woman right not all men but we all know a man likes
00:04:26.960 to cry i'm not someone that shows their ass off on instagram or you know oh sorry does that sort of 0.91
00:04:32.320 thing so in my head a high value woman to a man is someone that dresses appropriately okay and has 1.00
00:04:39.520 morals okay whatever that means to some people okay but um the bar is low that's it
00:04:46.640 i mean that's all we gotta do i mean my head is a bit frazzled right now but so don't sleep all
00:04:52.320 right this is what i got so far don't sleep with 20 people don't have your butt on instagram 0.84
00:04:58.320 be in shape and have be respectable that's it okay that's fine i'm just taking something out
00:05:08.000 there's some more there's some more there you know i'm just repeating back i feel like it'll come back
00:05:13.120 to me that's okay okay what do you think what is a high value woman and does it exist because some 1.00
00:05:18.400 people don't believe in it so it's up to you it has to exist but it's completely different to what
00:05:24.400 makes a high value man i think um women judge a high value man based on the things that we want 0.99
00:05:30.400 and what we look for so um a high value woman has to be based on what men are looking for which is 1.00
00:05:35.760 going to be completely different so it would be younger women uh 20 to 20 um in shape yeah not not 0.99
00:05:47.200 got everything out on instagram and low body count wants kids wants family wants a husband doesn't
00:05:54.080 want to go out on uh girls holidays um all those kind of things based based okay what do you think
00:06:05.280 no i don't believe there's high value women i believe values contextual so it's all very dependent
00:06:10.960 on what you see at the end of the day you could have a woman who is what society theme is overweight 1.00
00:06:16.640 and a man might value that really highly because that's what he wants it all depends on somebody's
00:06:20.400 experience so i don't believe there's high value women i believe that there are women 0.80
00:06:24.000 who want to put out certain ways about them and if that's what they want to do then that's awesome
00:06:29.360 and there are women who are going to do what they're going to do and men will still idolize 1.00
00:06:32.880 and worship them anyway that's what i believe anyway sorry can you explain that again so yeah so
00:06:38.640 value is contextual right so it depends on how someone will perceive that woman so somebody might look
00:06:45.520 at i don't know the queen and see she's high value because she's head of the monarchy
00:06:49.200 and she owns wins the castle and all the rest of it some of us look at the queen and think i can't
00:06:53.680 stand her i don't like her at all she's not high value to me okay whereas somebody may look at 0.76
00:06:57.600 somebody that lives within a council estate and they may aspire to be with a woman like that but you 0.96
00:07:03.200 don't think there's you don't think there's like general things that most men like most men might look
00:07:07.520 at i don't know margot robbie beyonce 20 years ago and say like the high value or good looking like
00:07:14.320 you don't think there's general things that like men want good looking doesn't mean high value though
00:07:18.160 somebody could there's loads of people that are good looking it doesn't mean that they're high value
00:07:21.280 so at the end i'm just wondering if it starts there at least for guys no so i can only talk for
00:07:26.240 myself but for me personally looks doesn't necessarily then equate to high value i've seen women that are 1.00
00:07:31.040 what people classify tens and their values are minus 10 so at the end of the day to me it's
00:07:37.040 contextual very very content well i'm not saying i'm not saying it's just like i'm saying it's not
00:07:40.800 looks alone but like you that would start there like i don't think you can be like 300 pounds and
00:07:44.960 be high value as a girl i just think it doesn't depends on who's looking i know men that want 300 0.96
00:07:49.840 pound girls and they deem them to be high value so it just depends in my opinion i think usually those 0.99
00:07:54.880 guys can't get laid by anyone else very true because you know i don't see you know i just i don't see
00:07:59.760 the rich men like bringing the whales to functions you know very very true but then we're not looking
00:08:06.080 here from a men's point of view we're looking at from a women's point of view so the question you
00:08:09.120 asked was is what do people deem to be a high value so i'm not looking as a high value man looking as
00:08:13.840 a high value woman i'm just looking at what a high value woman is no i was looking i was thinking of
00:08:18.400 it from the men's point of view because i'm just looking what like the most sought after men tend to pick
00:08:22.320 which isn't like fat chicks okay so if we're looking at it from that way the most sought after men no they
00:08:28.560 wouldn't necessarily pick that although some men have some really crazy fetishes so they may say
00:08:34.880 that they don't want these women on the surface but then what they're doing behind closed doors
00:08:38.960 is they i mean every king had concubines very that doesn't make her queen you know no doesn't at all 0.97
00:08:44.800 but he might deem that woman so the high value woman might be the one that he puts on a pedestal but 0.98
00:08:48.880 then he might deem the woman that he's sleeping with that's 300 pounds high value as well because
00:08:52.560 she's given him what he needs at the time that he needs it so it's all very contextual yeah but i would
00:08:56.800 think you'd have like results to show you know what i mean like you'd have like a ring or like a house
00:09:01.680 oh so some concubines have rings yeah they might but i just i don't really see them bringing the 1.00
00:09:08.720 the concubines out in public like they're usually in the back you know i agree with that i agree with 1.00
00:09:14.080 they don't yeah they don't bring those concubines but those concubines get to live in the ivory tower 1.00
00:09:18.320 yeah and they're quite happy with it as well so yeah to me it's contextual okay what do you think do
00:09:22.800 high value women exist yeah yeah however how value women does exist um because uh like uh 1.00
00:09:33.280 how yeah the first time being on the set so they gave me so after you know so what's the question
00:09:39.840 again all right so what is a high value do high value women exist and what is a high value woman so 1.00
00:09:46.400 high value woman is like a girl that got herself put together like uh that go out there every single day to 1.00
00:09:52.480 work um on what they love and also like doesn't party all the time and um yeah that's what i've got
00:10:01.840 oh is oprah a high value woman no she does she does what she loves every day i don't think she's a big
00:10:09.280 partier she doesn't seem like it oprah high value no uh yeah but no at the same time okay but i think
00:10:17.040 yeah i think yeah i think yeah i think yeah and just some of you guys the bar is like low wow i don't
00:10:21.760 really yeah everything it's like with this everyone here is a high value like i think it depends though
00:10:30.240 like because it's like there's women out there that works to separate themselves from the rest which is 1.00
00:10:36.160 why i can appreciate that you know what i mean but obviously we're all like humans we like what we like
00:10:43.600 but i believe like there is high value women out there there is women that really go out there and 0.99
00:10:49.120 gets it they're really putting the work to be to a high level yeah yeah um i guess like what you guys
00:10:56.080 most of you not you but are describing it's just like it's very like a low bar like we don't really
00:11:01.760 got to do much you might be right i'm just asking the question what do you think is there a high value
00:11:07.040 woman or do high value women exist if so okay who are they well so this is an interesting question 0.99
00:11:12.640 i pondered about this a little bit too because there's a lot of people that'll ask like oh
00:11:16.080 you know high value men so let's that's the other side of it is the does a high value man exist right
00:11:21.600 people are like what's a high value man well that's an easy question to answer it's just a high
00:11:26.240 value man first of all who measures value like we have to have an objective standard we can't be
00:11:30.080 delusional and be like everybody likes different things well you know if this girl's into this kink then 1.00
00:11:34.400 she's a high value woman it's like is she high value because you're into crapping in her mouth 1.00
00:11:38.240 and she takes it that makes her high value that's absolutely crazy a kink doesn't make a person high 0.99
00:11:42.720 value it makes them a sexual object i can buy a sexual object and if i can buy it it's not going
00:11:47.440 to be a lot of value in the marketplace because there's a lot of dudes that can buy it so who
00:11:50.720 determines value that's an interesting question and the answer is where it's the market that determines
00:11:55.040 the value like for people don't know what that means it's like buy my house for a billion dollars
00:11:59.760 it's like but this house sucks yeah but i determine my own value it's a billion dollars how many people buy
00:12:03.760 that house zero people who determines the value of a house the market what does that mean it's the
00:12:08.320 willing number of buyers that are going to pay the maximum price and the highest bidder usually wins so
00:12:12.640 the value has to be determined by the highest bidder that's how things work in life right
00:12:17.200 so a high value woman would be a woman that is sought after by the highest bidder the highest bidding man 0.99
00:12:23.200 now this is a really interesting question because this is a i actually had a really interesting
00:12:26.400 discussion with a friend of mine about this like what does it mean to bid on a woman see this is where
00:12:30.640 women get confused right because women are like oh a lot of guys want to sleep with me and they dm me 1.00
00:12:34.720 so i'm a high value woman but that's but that's a misnomer in the in the value marketplace and there's
00:12:40.080 a really easy answer for that right like here's a question for you guys how many people in the world
00:12:44.080 today can go pay cash and buy a ferrari is that a lot or a little hello it's a little how many people
00:12:49.680 can save up for a little bit and uh rent a ferrari for their wedding or their graduation hello quite a lot
00:12:55.680 of people right so women are like oh these dudes are hitting me i'm high value it's like no you're a rental car 1.00
00:13:00.640 you know a lot of guys can save up and rent a nice car for a day you're not high value so high value
00:13:04.880 cannot be a rental car a car value a high value has to be an owner car so a high value woman by the 0.99
00:13:10.000 definition of the market is just what is the highest status or the highest value or most desired because
00:13:16.640 that's how men's values market it you know what is the highest value man that is willing to give you what
00:13:21.920 ring a ring there it is it's the highest value man that's willing to give you a ring so if you can get
00:13:27.120 dudes that want to hump you but they don't want to give you a ring you're not high value and that's
00:13:31.040 that's the answer the high value women exist yes because i'm married for for 10 years with four kids 1.00
00:13:37.280 uh and i know a lot of other dudes that are doing pretty darn well uh that that are married to these 0.99
00:13:42.160 women but then it goes back to what i was saying before so it's contextual so it's like i could say my
00:13:49.760 mom's high value but my mom's done a lot of stuff that other people would have deemed to be high value but
00:13:54.240 my mom's high value because she's worth something to me she's my mom she raised me yes but we're
00:13:57.920 talking about sexual market value we're not talking about do i love my mother it's a totally different
00:14:01.520 argument i get i get that but where i come back is that what you're saying is basically what i put in
00:14:06.000 a nutshell is contextual so you can be married so it's what you're saying is that basically it's a woman
00:14:11.760 who a man's worth willing to put a ring on so yeah you're right a man might be willing to put a ring
00:14:16.640 on somebody that's 300 pounds so in no man listen listen i know guys and i'm going to bring them to
00:14:22.720 pearl show on saturday by the way if you guys are going to watch i hope it's going to be amazing
00:14:25.920 i know guys worth 100 million dollars like i was with one just the other day at my place and henry
00:14:30.080 was filming us having a conversation it's like no dude is like i've made 100 million dollars now it's
00:14:34.720 time to bag me a 300 pounder and my what and my life is complete zero men not even one man is thinking
00:14:40.160 that you know i think then again it's contextual because i can go to my car i can go to my place of
00:14:44.880 heritage where i know a man who is incredibly rich and his woman is over 250 pounds and that's his wife
00:14:52.080 yeah and he parades her everywhere and he's very happy to do it and the concubines he has
00:14:57.200 parades probably the right word yeah and the concubines that he has are women who other men 1.00
00:15:02.240 would be high value how long have they been together 15 years okay yeah but was she like that when he 1.00
00:15:07.200 like was was he rich then he was rich and he picked a fat and he's always picked women that are larger 1.00
00:15:12.960 because that's his thing so again it's contextual but that's not market value it's like yeah some some
00:15:17.120 guys like you know a shitty car that breaks down because they're into this vintage shitty car but
00:15:22.240 that's not that's not the market value that's just the guy right you're applying group statistics to
00:15:26.800 an individual which is fine and i agree with your argument you're like well my mom is high value
00:15:30.480 because she does a lot of good things for me you know my kid her kids society etc i get that
00:15:34.800 obviously in the context of the show we're talking about sexual market value right now if a guy likes
00:15:40.160 if a guy likes a whale let me say this that's a terrible strategy for a woman to implore in her life 1.00
00:15:44.320 like well some guys like me if i'm 300 pounds it's like yeah but that's not maximizing for success
00:15:50.000 yeah that's true that's your at that point you're just a disabled parking spot right like guys will 0.98
00:15:53.680 park with you but they'll check if anyone's looking first that's the point which you if you had do you
00:15:59.120 have kids yeah we got daughter yeah if you were going to give her advice just generally because if you've
00:16:05.200 got a son you tend to give your kids advice on how to grow up and be a good man how if you were to advise
00:16:12.400 your daughter your recommendation wouldn't probably be to yeah just get as fat as you like because 1.00
00:16:17.520 some man out there will love you you kind of you want your child to kind of aim 0.87
00:16:23.440 you know yeah do you know what i think i think of getting a good man i know my viewpoints are very
00:16:28.640 different to most people so like we could look at things holistically like of course we can we
00:16:34.320 can look at things holistically look at it and at the end of the day right and we have to on a show
00:16:38.160 yeah because like on a show it's not about individuals like we're talking about society
00:16:42.160 in general um what do you think high value women uh definitely exist yeah and from like listening to 1.00
00:16:47.920 everybody i would like i i'd list uh looks body count probably important uh for me intelligence
00:16:54.880 definitely high up there uh loyalty is a big deal um and nurturing for sure if i would list a few things