JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Try To AVOID accountability On This Topic

00:00:00.000 you click it's very easy to say oh he's a deadbeat but nobody understand the side the side of his

00:00:05.440 story because you know what do you actually mean by dead dead as in as in like you're not present

00:00:10.800 you're not doing anything you you know you let go of your child and you don't want nothing to

00:00:14.080 do with the child but you know a lot of the time it's a lot harder to be involved when you're so

00:00:18.640 pushed out yeah you know but some sometimes you have part-time dads that sometimes see you they

00:00:26.640 will come and see you every now and again when they're free when they're available you've got

00:00:31.200 some dads that literally live their life they've separated from the partner in their family and

00:00:35.680 they're going out and they're living their best life and big up all the single moms by the way 1.00

00:00:39.440 because that is a very big down because it was your life choice and you shouldn't have did that

00:00:45.680 you should have stayed with the father you could be no no no no no because some men will walk out

00:00:50.480 on their women and the women will be on their knees begging them to stay and they will not it's the 0.99

00:00:53.920 exception um and plus like those women half the time they pick men that have impregnated like three 0.99

00:00:58.320 girls and you're like what of course he's gonna like what did you expect it's not always the case

00:01:02.400 it's i would say it's more often the case than not and plus women women leave more um statistically 1.00

00:01:09.600 yeah but there is those men that like will be happy to have that woman there and happy to like use them 0.68

00:01:15.680 to stay at the house etc and then expect to see three people at the same time so obviously the woman's 0.97

00:01:21.280 gonna get that's the man that you chose yeah i blame that on the woman because why do we blame 1.00

00:01:27.200 so much on the women no like this is i don't get it yeah it's not it's not even a blame thing it's

00:01:33.440 like you go through a process before you actually get a guy no but what is that what is this like

00:01:40.400 we're blaming the women for a lot of things that actually some men are heavily responsible for 0.77

00:01:45.680 because we're kings man okay um which which part which part is mad you don't think you're so if

00:01:54.160 you have a child aren't you responsible for picking the father isn't that your fault facts

00:02:02.400 we agreed we agreed the women are in control of sex right yeah right women are correct 1.00

00:02:07.600 if you're not in a relationship and you're single and you're you you want to find someone to have

00:02:16.720 sex it's easier for a woman to go out and find that in a relationship it's a partnership okay you're

00:02:22.080 both responsible so another question who knows who knows so i have a question i have a question who who

00:02:27.520 knows when you're ovulating does he know when you're ovulating or do you know when you're ovulating

00:02:32.160 i mean are you not talking about this right right are you not talking about it as a partnership as a

00:02:38.160 team though no i i think it depends i need you to ask them just just in general do do men know

00:02:45.200 if the women are ovulating or do women know if the men are ovulating let's just which one who knows more

00:02:51.440 some women don't okay can we talk about in general general general in general okay the women come on come 1.00

00:02:56.480 come on my friends if we talk about in general of the the women that i'm around we know and we

00:03:02.880 talk about that with the people that we are also we can use protection anyway let's continue let's

00:03:08.240 continue so so so let's let's continue um do do we know if we're on birth control or do the men know if

00:03:14.960 we're on birth control yeah we know okay if i was a man i wouldn't be sleeping with someone without

00:03:20.240 protection ever yeah okay so so do do we get to choose if we get an abortion or do the men get

00:03:26.720 to choose if we get an abortion oh that depends though that really does depend they should the

00:03:31.920 men shouldn't be sleeping with someone without protection we can get to the men okay we can get

00:03:39.040 to them later can we just get to the women first okay on the women though it depends whether you were 1.00

00:03:43.360 tricked because yes if you if that man is obviously not going to be good to you it i do personally think

00:03:48.400 it is stupid to have a child well sorry that's a bit i'm just asking about the choice like do the

00:03:53.200 men get a choice and if we get an abortion or not i'm asking about the choice uh it depends so

00:03:58.320 okay how does the man get any say does he get to um because it could be a thing where they can

00:04:02.880 manipulate the woman and say look i don't want to be i don't want to be a father if you don't they 0.95

00:04:07.520 could convince her but at the end of the day who gets to pick the men or the women of course it's the 1.00

00:04:11.760 woman okay so that's my point so okay so now who gets to pick if we get an iud or not who gets to

00:04:17.920 pick if we take a plan b or not so if we get to do all this picking don't you think we should take

00:04:23.280 more of the responsibility like it's more on us since because when we have sex right we know if

00:04:27.840 they're wearing a condom or not but the men don't know if we're on birth control or not so we're the

00:04:32.160 only one we know if we're ovulating or not where the men don't know if we're ovulating or not so

00:04:35.840 we're the one with all the information where the men don't always have all the information men know

00:04:40.480 that women do baby traps sometimes so just use protection like i feel like it's a shared 0.99

00:04:46.800 responsibility i would say it's more on the women for picking who you have a child with 1.00

00:04:54.400 do you know what i i i like this because i have daughters so i i'm trying to i'm learning all of

00:04:59.920 this so you know you're right i feel like you're really right because at the end of the day to

00:05:03.680 communicate with whoever they're dealing with that was yeah i know but like you said it is the woman 1.00

00:05:08.160 like let's be respectful here but like at the end of the day it is the woman's control to have 1.00

00:05:15.840 something grow in her in a way you know if you want to have a baby you can be like oh i'm having a

00:05:21.680 baby with or without you that's my decision not yours you know the man is not ready but then you

00:05:28.080 still make the choice you know if you know you're gonna have unprotected sex you should prepare for

00:05:33.520 that made the decision no but if you go in and have unprotected sex you're both

00:05:38.000 consenting adults you you have brain cells you know what can happen some women don't think like 1.00

00:05:42.880 that though yeah but that's the thing but women are 100 in control of who's born yeah men are just 0.99

00:05:47.920 in control of who they have sex with but women are 100 in control of who gets born i agree that they 0.56

00:05:54.080 shouldn't they it's true no it's true i'm sorry so much going on in my head i'm not saying it out loud

00:06:00.800 what if you don't believe in abortion my question is then why are you having unprotected sex with men who

00:06:05.680 shouldn't be fathers yeah that's my question that is that is a good point i do agree with you but

00:06:11.600 what if what if they've um made you think that they're a good guy and this hasn't actually happened

00:06:16.880 to me but but that's the woman's judgment though in a way what if they've made you think that okay 0.62

00:06:22.000 i guess i can't i'm sorry baby should be like step 10 all right yeah you should be married first so

00:06:28.640 like it's like what were you doing you should a baby first we're not in the 50s girl what i did

00:06:33.920 you would 50s girl making a baby no as in marriage first and then you don't think you should get 0.99

00:06:40.160 married before you have a kid times have changed okay well times have changed i would prefer to go that

00:06:46.000 do you know what i'll be honest with you yeah i think it is better to get married and have children

00:06:53.840 reason why is because there's more stability yeah there's more like okay we put each other first

00:07:00.160 we are loyal to each other first and we've made something signed and sealed we can now you know

00:07:05.280 conquer life you know the whole having babies out of wedlock always seems to be the reason why a

00:07:11.680 lot of relationships fail and that's and that's that's you know i'm not going to say it's facts

00:07:15.600 but i'm saying that's my opinion but for me it's a thing where you know if you're married you already

00:07:20.560 built already a foundation of of how you're going to raise your child and your child's going to look

00:07:25.440 at you too and be like okay well you look on my my example of how i should you know live my life and

00:07:32.160 meet somebody and and kind of do the same thing i hope we're talking about what can be changed because

00:07:36.960 this generation right now is that's another topic if you're fortunate enough to find someone

00:07:42.720 yeah you can marry and settle down with and do all that then good for you i don't think it's that hard

00:07:49.040 to be honest really yeah teach me i think well i think i think a lot of women i love the way you 0.98

00:07:55.360 speak it's just it's not that deep yeah yeah it's not that deep now don't get me wrong don't get me

00:08:00.320 wrong um it is hard to find a guy that meets all of your requirements as a woman i will say we're 1.00

00:08:08.880 all pretty picky high standards yeah yeah in general let's just let's just call a spade a spade here

00:08:15.040 women are picky men are not as picky and i do think it is hard for women to find a guy that meets all

00:08:21.520 their requirements but okay so if a guy if if you're saying okay i can't find a guy that meets my

00:08:27.440 requirements well it's maybe you're not good enough so you should probably try to be better

00:08:32.240 um or or maybe lower the requirements and get a guy that's on your level i would say those are you

00:08:39.360 know if nobody's buying you got to figure out what's the problem yeah and either fix the problem

00:08:45.040 or lower what you want lower your price there's also a lot of women that go for guys that are 1.00

00:08:51.760 emotionally unavailable and that's out of their league and they stick with i think it's out of

00:08:56.640 their league yeah that's what i think i think when they say emotionally unavailable it just means he

00:09:01.680 doesn't like me that much she's only there for his looks yeah more yeah so like she's a five a six 1.00

00:09:07.680 maybe a seven going for a nine or a ten and he's emotionally unavailable because he doesn't like her

00:09:13.680 and he just won one thing there's some guys though if they've experienced trauma they've got trust

00:09:18.480 issues like really deep trauma or trust issues they the women could be anything and actually 1.00

00:09:24.400 they still wouldn't be able to maintain it because they would purposely be avoiding or their

00:09:28.240 subconscious would because they're afraid of abandonment and stuff like that i do think women 1.00

00:09:32.800 sometimes pick men that aren't husbands yeah and then get surprised when they don't act like husbands

00:09:38.480 when he wasn't that's very true husband he doesn't want to be married i don't know why we're surprised

00:09:44.080 that it's it's like it's like you can't pick a you can't take a wild animal and be and and and expect

00:09:51.440 it to be a pet like you know i'm saying it's gonna be wild it's gonna have this nature do you know

00:09:55.600 i'm saying it's gonna come out with this randomness as women we're all screwing the same guys yeah yeah 1.00

00:10:01.840 yeah fun fact yeah yeah as women just as a group we're all screwing the same men but isn't that the

00:10:08.560 same with men though yeah yeah men screwing the same women um probably not because i'll take anyone

00:10:15.920 more like not really because they don't need to have women women typically go for 20 of men 1.00

00:10:22.720 typically what do you mean what do you mean so um women if we list our requirements i've done we can 1.00

00:10:28.640 even do the delusion calculator it's a lot of fun it's a delusion yeah yeah yeah do you want to see

00:10:34.000 delusional do you want to see this let's see let's have a little let's have a little

00:10:37.200 i want to see this

JustPearlyThings - August 02, 2023

Modern Women Try To AVOID accountability On This Topic

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