JustPearlyThings - August 02, 2023


Modern Women Try To AVOID accountability On This Topic

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
He Was Pro Abortion Until He Uncovered This Fact The Cause of Disunity Between Men and Women

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10 minutes

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In this episode, we discuss the role of fathers in raising their children and the role they play in raising a child. We discuss the different types of fathers and the roles we should play in providing for their children. We also discuss the difference between single fathers and part-time fathers and what it means to be a "deadbeat" father.

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00:00:00.000 you click it's very easy to say oh he's a deadbeat but nobody understand the side the side of his
00:00:05.440 story because you know what do you actually mean by dead dead as in as in like you're not present
00:00:10.800 you're not doing anything you you know you let go of your child and you don't want nothing to
00:00:14.080 do with the child but you know a lot of the time it's a lot harder to be involved when you're so
00:00:18.640 pushed out yeah you know but some sometimes you have part-time dads that sometimes see you they
00:00:26.640 will come and see you every now and again when they're free when they're available you've got
00:00:31.200 some dads that literally live their life they've separated from the partner in their family and
00:00:35.680 they're going out and they're living their best life and big up all the single moms by the way 1.00
00:00:39.440 because that is a very big down because it was your life choice and you shouldn't have did that
00:00:45.680 you should have stayed with the father you could be no no no no no because some men will walk out
00:00:50.480 on their women and the women will be on their knees begging them to stay and they will not it's the 0.99
00:00:53.920 exception um and plus like those women half the time they pick men that have impregnated like three 0.99
00:00:58.320 girls and you're like what of course he's gonna like what did you expect it's not always the case
00:01:02.400 it's i would say it's more often the case than not and plus women women leave more um statistically 1.00
00:01:09.600 yeah but there is those men that like will be happy to have that woman there and happy to like use them 0.68
00:01:15.680 to stay at the house etc and then expect to see three people at the same time so obviously the woman's 0.97
00:01:21.280 gonna get that's the man that you chose yeah i blame that on the woman because why do we blame 1.00
00:01:27.200 so much on the women no like this is i don't get it yeah it's not it's not even a blame thing it's
00:01:33.440 like you go through a process before you actually get a guy no but what is that what is this like
00:01:40.400 we're blaming the women for a lot of things that actually some men are heavily responsible for 0.77
00:01:45.680 because we're kings man okay um which which part which part is mad you don't think you're so if
00:01:54.160 you have a child aren't you responsible for picking the father isn't that your fault facts
00:02:02.400 we agreed we agreed the women are in control of sex right yeah right women are correct 1.00
00:02:07.600 if you're not in a relationship and you're single and you're you you want to find someone to have
00:02:16.720 sex it's easier for a woman to go out and find that in a relationship it's a partnership okay you're
00:02:22.080 both responsible so another question who knows who knows so i have a question i have a question who who
00:02:27.520 knows when you're ovulating does he know when you're ovulating or do you know when you're ovulating
00:02:32.160 i mean are you not talking about this right right are you not talking about it as a partnership as a
00:02:38.160 team though no i i think it depends i need you to ask them just just in general do do men know
00:02:45.200 if the women are ovulating or do women know if the men are ovulating let's just which one who knows more
00:02:51.440 some women don't okay can we talk about in general general general in general okay the women come on come 1.00
00:02:56.480 come on my friends if we talk about in general of the the women that i'm around we know and we
00:03:02.880 talk about that with the people that we are also we can use protection anyway let's continue let's
00:03:08.240 continue so so so let's let's continue um do do we know if we're on birth control or do the men know if
00:03:14.960 we're on birth control yeah we know okay if i was a man i wouldn't be sleeping with someone without
00:03:20.240 protection ever yeah okay so so do do we get to choose if we get an abortion or do the men get
00:03:26.720 to choose if we get an abortion oh that depends though that really does depend they should the
00:03:31.920 men shouldn't be sleeping with someone without protection we can get to the men okay we can get
00:03:39.040 to them later can we just get to the women first okay on the women though it depends whether you were 1.00
00:03:43.360 tricked because yes if you if that man is obviously not going to be good to you it i do personally think 0.94
00:03:48.400 it is stupid to have a child well sorry that's a bit i'm just asking about the choice like do the 0.98
00:03:53.200 men get a choice and if we get an abortion or not i'm asking about the choice uh it depends so 1.00
00:03:58.320 okay how does the man get any say does he get to um because it could be a thing where they can
00:04:02.880 manipulate the woman and say look i don't want to be i don't want to be a father if you don't they 0.95
00:04:07.520 could convince her but at the end of the day who gets to pick the men or the women of course it's the 1.00
00:04:11.760 woman okay so that's my point so okay so now who gets to pick if we get an iud or not who gets to
00:04:17.920 pick if we take a plan b or not so if we get to do all this picking don't you think we should take
00:04:23.280 more of the responsibility like it's more on us since because when we have sex right we know if
00:04:27.840 they're wearing a condom or not but the men don't know if we're on birth control or not so we're the
00:04:32.160 only one we know if we're ovulating or not where the men don't know if we're ovulating or not so
00:04:35.840 we're the one with all the information where the men don't always have all the information men know
00:04:40.480 that women do baby traps sometimes so just use protection like i feel like it's a shared 0.99
00:04:46.800 responsibility i would say it's more on the women for picking who you have a child with 1.00
00:04:54.400 do you know what i i i like this because i have daughters so i i'm trying to i'm learning all of
00:04:59.920 this so you know you're right i feel like you're really right because at the end of the day to
00:05:03.680 communicate with whoever they're dealing with that was yeah i know but like you said it is the woman 1.00
00:05:08.160 like let's be respectful here but like at the end of the day it is the woman's control to have 1.00
00:05:15.840 something grow in her in a way you know if you want to have a baby you can be like oh i'm having a
00:05:21.680 baby with or without you that's my decision not yours you know the man is not ready but then you
00:05:28.080 still make the choice you know if you know you're gonna have unprotected sex you should prepare for
00:05:33.520 that made the decision no but if you go in and have unprotected sex you're both
00:05:38.000 consenting adults you you have brain cells you know what can happen some women don't think like 1.00
00:05:42.880 that though yeah but that's the thing but women are 100 in control of who's born yeah men are just 0.99
00:05:47.920 in control of who they have sex with but women are 100 in control of who gets born i agree that they 0.56
00:05:54.080 shouldn't they it's true no it's true i'm sorry so much going on in my head i'm not saying it out loud
00:06:00.800 what if you don't believe in abortion my question is then why are you having unprotected sex with men who
00:06:05.680 shouldn't be fathers yeah that's my question that is that is a good point i do agree with you but
00:06:11.600 what if what if they've um made you think that they're a good guy and this hasn't actually happened
00:06:16.880 to me but but that's the woman's judgment though in a way what if they've made you think that okay 0.62
00:06:22.000 i guess i can't i'm sorry baby should be like step 10 all right yeah you should be married first so
00:06:28.640 like it's like what were you doing you should a baby first we're not in the 50s girl what i did
00:06:33.920 you would 50s girl making a baby no as in marriage first and then you don't think you should get 0.99
00:06:40.160 married before you have a kid times have changed okay well times have changed i would prefer to go that
00:06:46.000 do you know what i'll be honest with you yeah i think it is better to get married and have children
00:06:53.840 reason why is because there's more stability yeah there's more like okay we put each other first
00:07:00.160 we are loyal to each other first and we've made something signed and sealed we can now you know
00:07:05.280 conquer life you know the whole having babies out of wedlock always seems to be the reason why a
00:07:11.680 lot of relationships fail and that's and that's that's you know i'm not going to say it's facts
00:07:15.600 but i'm saying that's my opinion but for me it's a thing where you know if you're married you already
00:07:20.560 built already a foundation of of how you're going to raise your child and your child's going to look
00:07:25.440 at you too and be like okay well you look on my my example of how i should you know live my life and
00:07:32.160 meet somebody and and kind of do the same thing i hope we're talking about what can be changed because
00:07:36.960 this generation right now is that's another topic if you're fortunate enough to find someone
00:07:42.720 yeah you can marry and settle down with and do all that then good for you i don't think it's that hard
00:07:49.040 to be honest really yeah teach me i think well i think i think a lot of women i love the way you 0.98
00:07:55.360 speak it's just it's not that deep yeah yeah it's not that deep now don't get me wrong don't get me
00:08:00.320 wrong um it is hard to find a guy that meets all of your requirements as a woman i will say we're 1.00
00:08:08.880 all pretty picky high standards yeah yeah in general let's just let's just call a spade a spade here
00:08:15.040 women are picky men are not as picky and i do think it is hard for women to find a guy that meets all
00:08:21.520 their requirements but okay so if a guy if if you're saying okay i can't find a guy that meets my
00:08:27.440 requirements well it's maybe you're not good enough so you should probably try to be better
00:08:32.240 um or or maybe lower the requirements and get a guy that's on your level i would say those are you
00:08:39.360 know if nobody's buying you got to figure out what's the problem yeah and either fix the problem
00:08:45.040 or lower what you want lower your price there's also a lot of women that go for guys that are 1.00
00:08:51.760 emotionally unavailable and that's out of their league and they stick with i think it's out of
00:08:56.640 their league yeah that's what i think i think when they say emotionally unavailable it just means he
00:09:01.680 doesn't like me that much she's only there for his looks yeah more yeah so like she's a five a six 1.00
00:09:07.680 maybe a seven going for a nine or a ten and he's emotionally unavailable because he doesn't like her
00:09:13.680 and he just won one thing there's some guys though if they've experienced trauma they've got trust
00:09:18.480 issues like really deep trauma or trust issues they the women could be anything and actually 1.00
00:09:24.400 they still wouldn't be able to maintain it because they would purposely be avoiding or their
00:09:28.240 subconscious would because they're afraid of abandonment and stuff like that i do think women 1.00
00:09:32.800 sometimes pick men that aren't husbands yeah and then get surprised when they don't act like husbands
00:09:38.480 when he wasn't that's very true husband he doesn't want to be married i don't know why we're surprised
00:09:44.080 that it's it's like it's like you can't pick a you can't take a wild animal and be and and and expect
00:09:51.440 it to be a pet like you know i'm saying it's gonna be wild it's gonna have this nature do you know 0.83
00:09:55.600 i'm saying it's gonna come out with this randomness as women we're all screwing the same guys yeah yeah 1.00
00:10:01.840 yeah fun fact yeah yeah as women just as a group we're all screwing the same men but isn't that the 0.92
00:10:08.560 same with men though yeah yeah men screwing the same women um probably not because i'll take anyone 0.97
00:10:15.920 more like not really because they don't need to have women women typically go for 20 of men 1.00
00:10:22.720 typically what do you mean what do you mean so um women if we list our requirements i've done we can 1.00
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