JustPearlyThings - August 03, 2023


The Cause of Disunity Between Men and Women


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9 minutes

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1,993

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23

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Misogyny

13

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Toxicity

6

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11

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In this episode, we talk about why men and women are having a hard time getting along these days and how to fix it. We also talk about the Red Pill and why we should all be living towards a higher purpose.

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00:00:00.000 Why do you guys think that men and women are having such a hard time getting along today?
00:00:07.620 Because we can't define which is which anymore
00:00:13.820 It really does play a big part in it. I do and there's so many reasons why I don't know where I'd begin
00:00:20.180 Also women trying to be boss bitches all the time 1.00
00:00:22.860 Yeah, you can't you can't be a nice feminine pleasant wife 1.00
00:00:26.740 If you're knackered from work, and you're always trying to go out and get it hard like a man does you lose
00:00:33.120 Your femininity and then you're going to clash with a man 1.00
00:00:36.820 Especially and then if he's not masculine then you're looking down on him and being a bitch to him really 0.99
00:00:41.620 But can it confirm a sorry, bro does femininity exist in when you look at things things move forward, right? 1.00
00:00:48.580 so from
00:00:50.580 You were talking about granddad and grandma
00:00:52.780 Etc those times and then we look at the times in which we live now so the times we live in which we live now
00:00:59.400 With social media etc. How like for me I struggle to see how femininity 0.99
00:01:07.460 Would keep its place now so yeah, we can talk about the top 1% etc
00:01:12.540 I can talk about myself put myself in a certain bracket
00:01:15.160 I'm not going to though because it's interesting to hear comments that are coming from people when
00:01:18.540 Somebody called people sims here. They have no idea what people do. They have no idea how much money people make day, but um
00:01:25.640 How does femininity how can you break that in a society where you're pumped so much stuff now that women could be this way? 1.00
00:01:33.780 And men have to be this way. How do you?
00:01:37.060 Take all that though you watch pearly things fresh and fit and get some
00:01:40.920 And you take don't listen to all the other things
00:01:44.880 Don't listen to cardi B or
00:01:47.960 Don't yeah, have a private
00:01:49.960 private social media, but I think it's a losing battle though to be honest. I don't I don't see it getting better
00:01:55.420 I see I like I don't see less girls doing sex work in 10 years. I see more
00:01:58.820 More more
00:02:00.820 Younger as well younger girls will start 0.73
00:02:03.280 That's I mean yeah, I mean and it's hard
00:02:07.560 I think that's what we wrestle with because a lot of times like the trad cons will come in and say well the world shouldn't be like that
00:02:12.820 Let's just go back to like our traditional values, but I really don't think it'll happen until we see policy change
00:02:18.320 Yeah, yeah
00:02:19.920 But honestly, how can it get beyond WAP? Do you know what I mean? What's next?
00:02:24.480 What do I see? I see more girls doing OnlyFans. I see more girls sleeping with more men 0.99
00:02:29.760 I see how it gets worse, but I see women being more hypergamous. Yeah, I don't want to live in that world 1.00
00:02:35.880 Yeah, but I think I think it's true like I and that's why I think like there's
00:02:39.840 There's like a really big disconnect between like the conservatives and the red pill because like the red pill guys are saying
00:02:46.200 Well, this is how the world is and we're adapting where the red where the conservative guys are saying. Oh, no, let's go back in time
00:02:51.900 Let's have these traditional values and it's like
00:02:56.160 It's tough it red pill guys are just conservative guys that haven't made a decision yet to live towards a higher purpose
00:03:02.640 Yeah, like there has to be an end goal, you know, that's actually one thing about
00:03:05.820 I think the guy's a brilliant honestly, I think he's a genius
00:03:09.280 I saw him and I was I was like 38 when I first saw him and my guys are like oh
00:03:12.840 There's I'm like, listen, I'm like this guy's a freaking genius and you should listen
00:03:15.400 But the one thing and again, I don't want to disparage anything
00:03:18.680 He says because he's got his own mode of life and that's totally fine
00:03:20.920 But the one thing that for me I was like I I had those same thoughts and I had those same feelings when I was
00:03:26.680 Growing up as well as what he preaches, but I was like
00:03:30.000 But I needed that higher purpose because I found that like you can only you can only um sex yourself into so much
00:03:35.860 Uh happiness until it really just turns into sadness
00:03:39.540 And I and I wanted that that higher purpose and that higher purpose for me was like I want a family
00:03:44.240 I want a wife and kid I need that stability that north star to aim towards
00:03:47.120 It's interesting you say him because tape pushes families
00:03:49.520 He does now he does now
00:03:50.880 Yeah, because now it's especially kind of gonna think a little bit more islamic in the prisons that thing
00:03:55.120 And I actually I just spent a lot of time with dubai with some of our islamic clients
00:03:58.400 One of our clients is a billionaire
00:03:59.520 We interviewed him on our podcast that we're coming out with and he had a really interesting point about that
00:04:04.080 He took us for dinner. It was like iftar after um, you know, and anyways, it was he he really
00:04:08.880 Told us the and I grew up jewish so i'm like, I don't know about islam and he really told the philosophy and I was like, that's really appealing
00:04:14.960 I really like that old world
00:04:16.880 And I really like that there's a purpose at the end that's sort of a thing
00:04:20.080 Well, but i'll give you an example like I actually think you're more red pill than trad con
00:04:24.000 I'll tell you why because because i'll give you an example where like the trad cons or the conservatives like talk past the red pill guys
00:04:29.840 When the red pill guys are saying hey, you have to screw 50 girls before you settle down 1.00
00:04:33.760 Yes, where the conservatives are saying we'll just find the right girl. No, i'm a little bit 0.82
00:04:37.680 Yeah, but that's what I mean
00:04:38.560 That's where I think they like talk past each other because the conservatives are like
00:04:42.080 We'll just go to church find the nice girl
00:04:43.840 But it's like if you do find a nice girl. There's a line of whip guys waiting to date her. How do you compete? Yeah 0.81
00:04:49.920 And and the other thing is um
00:04:51.840 Like how do you know who's the right girl if you're not experienced with women and most of the women are more experienced? 0.86
00:04:56.320 Well, they have they have religion that sort of sets the rules for them and then the society around them that upholds that religion
00:05:00.880 I asked uh one of our interviewees in india who's uh worth his company's worth 100 million dollars
00:05:06.080 He's a he was arranged married and I asked him about being arranged married
00:05:09.280 He explained the philosophy behind that and I said do arranged married men cheat he goes never I go, why not?
00:05:13.040 He goes because then you lose your business because you become a social pariah because society doesn't support that behavior
00:05:18.240 Right, but even in india, I went there a couple years ago feminism's coming 1.00
00:05:22.000 And I think that's like what the the red pill guys are saying
00:05:25.600 It's like, okay, the idea of like going to another country and getting a woman is is good and it's probably a better 1.00
00:05:31.280 But the problem is do I see in the future?
00:05:34.000 Feminism spreading and like it's sad, but I think it was 0.99
00:05:38.320 When I was when I was in india like I remember the lady that gave us like a tour or whatever
00:05:43.120 She was a raging feminist and she was telling us about her friends like divorcing their husbands 1.00
00:05:47.600 And I I know it's definitely not as probably
00:05:49.600 Do you know what the divorce rate in india is today?
00:05:51.920 One percent
00:05:52.800 Really?
00:05:53.120 Yeah, one lowest the lowest the divorce rate in the world
00:05:56.560 One percent that's you can look it up statistically. I looked I researched before the show. I wanted to know
00:06:01.760 Really? That's so interesting
00:06:04.400 I guess, you know, maybe it will it will stay the same. I just wonder like I just think it's going to spread
00:06:10.640 It probably will but we have we've seen I mean this is getting into history
00:06:13.520 Like we've seen the fall of empires before and it's always been predicated upon massive social change based around the loss of
00:06:20.000 Sort of like traditional and right
00:06:22.160 You know are really in virtues
00:06:24.000 Right like that's that there's a push back towards that
00:06:26.960 Um, I don't know the big difference between conservative and red pill, whatever
00:06:29.840 I really think myself as a libertarian meaning like you should be able to be free to do what you want
00:06:34.240 I came to the conclusion that what what I wanted in my life was a family and stability and unity in that family
00:06:39.920 I came to it very naturally. It was like, you know, what right? There's got to be something higher
00:06:43.760 But and I agree with you
00:06:45.280 But I think like where a lot of times the conservative like the sleeping with 50 girls, that's the example
00:06:49.440 I'm using like the conservatives will say you can't do that
00:06:51.840 But like the red pill guys will say well
00:06:54.240 This is the only way I can the conservative guys are getting laid way more than the liberal guys
00:06:57.920 And I think there's like very good research data to support that but not liberal
00:07:01.280 I said red pill or conservative
00:07:02.960 But like I always hear like they used to react to Myron's content and say that they're like
00:07:07.200 No, that's disgusting advice. Do you know what I'm saying? But I'm saying like that's where I think they talk past each other
00:07:12.080 I mean, look, I I'm not propagating an ideology and I'm not propagating a
00:07:17.120 Like a value system per se because I'm not a religious or ideological person
00:07:21.120 But I am but I'm certainly propagating that men should work to be better
00:07:25.600 I'm certainly propagating that men should work on themselves and make themselves more intelligent
00:07:29.520 And I also realize the reality I think we see it like it is not a man's job to keep society's chest when they're single
00:07:35.440 It's a man's job to conquer correct and he needs to learn to conquer and then he needs to learn how to conquer the conqueror within him
00:07:41.440 Contain that danger, right?
00:07:46.560 They're like, I don't know this conservative or red pill stuff
00:07:51.440 Have you guys watched fresh and fit before yeah
00:07:54.880 Did you did it what did you find it helpful at first? I was quite
00:07:59.360 wounded
00:08:01.360 I guess so yeah
00:08:03.360 Because obviously 35
00:08:06.080 Not and I wasn't like I was in the early stage of the racism when I
00:08:09.840 Relationship when I first started watching it so at that point I wasn't even engaged and I was just like wow, you know
00:08:14.800 It just points out the truth. It is true, but it isn't pleasant
00:08:19.600 And I think it should be taught. Did it help you get engaged?
00:08:22.960 No, I think we we were already
00:08:24.960 Yeah, I know it would have gone that way anyway, but yeah, I mean the same way
00:08:29.600 he
00:08:30.960 His you know when they talk about a high value man
00:08:34.000 He's this tall he's earning this much and then and my he's not there
00:08:38.640 But it's inspired him actually to
00:08:41.920 You know to achieve to
00:08:44.080 Yeah, I think they do a lot of good for men
00:08:46.080 And I think a lot of times they get a bad rep when they actually do like a ton
00:08:49.120 It's really inspiring for men. I'd say like I don't really know like their podcast offers so much value when it comes to like the guests
00:08:56.560 They have on yeah, definitely
00:08:58.960 Yeah
00:09:00.960 What are you