Modern Women Use Female Manipulation Tactics to Destroy Society (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily
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Summary
In this episode of Pearl Daily I talk about Taylor Swift's new album "Taylor Swift" and how she's about to enter the Taylor Swift era. I also talk about my plans for a new song I'm writing called "My Simp" and what I would do with it.
Transcript
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But my world's been so much better with you in it
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Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily, everybody!
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and you're all just gonna have to deal with it.
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this is my simp so if i was going to do a simp song i'd be like this have you heard the song
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that's like this is my fight song i would do this is my simp song and then i would rewrite it that
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way that's kind of how i would do it all right i'm done i'm done for today but i am in my taylor
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swift era and you guys are just gonna have to deal with it you really are i mean i really wanted this
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to be like a conservative tonight show now that jimmy jimmy fallon just got taken down but the
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problem is a band like costs money and i was demonetized for a year and a half so i don't
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really have i don't really like i i mean i i do okay i have one guy in here but if we start getting
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a whole crew that's what i don't have that kind of money so i've actually i've taken piano lessons for
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like a year if you'll notice i've been people said i kind of disappeared and i did disappear to take
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piano and guitar lessons because i had this idea in my head of a one-man band oh let's start a band
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oh okay sure you internet stranger the week after another youtuber got assassinated come on in
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come on in come on you're right this way yeah yeah i'm gonna be inside for a little bit
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i'm gonna the piano is very minimal but i will get better i figure if every time i mess up doing this
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you guys roast me i'll just be more motivated i'll be like i'll come back stronger every day
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and then my freestyle is gonna be amazing but really if i was to do a simp song i'd be like
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so what are all the ways guys simp put it in the chat this is how i would do it it would be
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what do i want what key do i want to do this time
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to these only fans whores sofia rain has 10 sports cars and i can't believe the status of that freaking whore
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but someone's gotta fund it someone's gotta pay
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i don't really care if you don't i'm gonna do it anyway
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if you leave in the comments um songs you want me to rewrite or freestyles we can
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that was off the dome and i want to see you do better before you
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you guys are gonna have to bear with me for like a week
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you know i'm not gonna be like these conservatives on these shows
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useless women's nagging is generally behind i'll
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about chores right so what happened was there's a
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come back and say look at this is how you sweep
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work a construction job you work in marketing we
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going with that i want to keep you know if they
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so men you know they start getting together and
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wives complaining about chores what can we make
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would end you would think but then women find a
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maybe you see that sometimes with ai but i just
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an inventor of our time and i really think it's
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the women start complaining i'm bored i don't have anything to do
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and he's like i'm working and she's like no you're always out and about
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you're doing all this all this stuff and he's like honey i'm working
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well but the girl next door and you just don't appreciate me
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and then the men they just want the noise to stop
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they just they just want it they want it to stop
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so then they say okay maybe i can we do movies in the park
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a country club okay a country we'll we'll invent an overpriced
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where the women can be babysat they so they invented a solution
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now what happens is smart men realize this is the cycle
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right smart men will think okay women will never be happy
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we have invented everything what more do you want ladies
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but the simps just keep you could do this cycle
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have you ever seen like i i've seen five times divorced men
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and i'm like at this point are you gonna give it up
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love isn't real but they just keep signing up right
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and now the problem is when you live with a woman it's like what are you gonna do
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i almost think there should be like a separate housing for husbands and wives
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i think they should make houses that can literally be split
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just to solve this problem i'm really think i'm looking out for the men here
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like imagine if you could just lock your lock your wife out of the house
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like and say you're banished to that side of the house
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i'm coming up with solutions that can bring families back together
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that's a pragmatic solution you got to start bargaining with the men
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because the men know when they sign up for marriage
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but anyways we're going to do examples of female manipulation
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and i want you guys to call in but i'm going to list some when i go go go back
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what manipulation tactics have you seen women use
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personally my number one draft pick is going to be gaslighting
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i see that as the number one manipulation tactic
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i didn't do that and then you'll be like yes you did
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no i didn't gaslighting um this is shaw contributed he he responded to this
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he said feigned helplessness when someone pretends to be incapable
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of doing something to gain attention sympathy or to avoid responsibility
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women are capable of fixing cars and like driving without our without texting
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we are capable of actually doing more things that i think men
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i think men are even understand i think a lot of times they think we can't do anything
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and it's really not that it's that we're incredibly lazy creatures that have had men
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but have you ever met like a really competent woman that can just do like
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she was just but she was trained by her husband right
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but it's kind of like a boss you know when your bosses just let you do whatever you want
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you just kind of get worse and i i feel that's what women do
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i do think there is a cap like some things we're just not capable of
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a lot of men realize because we just pretend we can't do anything
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and why wouldn't we right if i could just say oh i don't get it i don't understand
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and then you'll just the guys will come in and do it
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why why learn when you don't have to learn crying
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yeah women whenever women cry um it's pretty much just
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as a man i think there's nothing more important than a man's ability
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yeah i mean it's it's tough because you guys have this like
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protector instinct and the more you can kill it as a guy same with the bonding
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instinct i always see conservatives say this well
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men aren't men they always say this they say if men
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sleep around they can't bond with their wives i'm like what good is bonding gonna
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in 2025 that's something that was useful in 1900
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but now i mean the men that bond with their wives get screwed they either
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become wife goggles guys you know where the wife's always right
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or they become like these these super simps for their wives or they have a happy marriage
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for a few years until their wife ruins their life and they just don't see it coming
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um someone else said the silent treatment weaponizing silence to punish you forcing you to chase their validation
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i talk too much i could never use that one that seems like it would be a good one though
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uh guilt trips turning their mistakes into your fault until you carry the blame for their actions
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weaponized tears crying on demand to reset the narrative because society never questions a woman's pain
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conditional love withdrawing affection until you comply with her demands
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wait sex is oh using intimacy not as love but as leverage victimhood olympics always playing the
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weaker one so accountability never lands on their side social shame running to friends family or the
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internet to control you through the public opinion actually that might be the number one tool of women
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that might be and that's why when i see you know men like destiny
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debate and he you know when men use female tactics
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they do use them better than women do i won't lie to you
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you ever seen a man gaslight they're like expert level gaslighters
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whatever men take women's strategies they always do it better than us
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future faking selling you dreams they never intend to deliver just to keep you hooked
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selective memory forgetting the parts that expose them but remembering every slip you ever made
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men get called manipulators for chasing power women perfect manipulation by clocking it as innocent
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i mean just think about the fact that women convinced men that we were sweet innocent creatures
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had men like hook line and sinker believing that until we got caught up
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you know basically aired our dirty laundry on social media now there's no hide in it
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but women i mean you talk to the boomer or the gen x dads
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husbands a lot of them have no idea what women are capable of i mean talk to them about the women of their generation
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they'll keep saying that they're these special women that are super different
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and i'm thinking of course you're gonna i've seen pictures from the 70s your wives were whores too
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all right you guys got the privilege of never finding out that's a privilege
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gen z men don't get that privilege and i see it all the time a sweet a young a young woman comes on
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and you have to understand why i'm so black filled i've interviewed a thousand women
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i have seen the women that convince you guys of innocence
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and then they go and have sex with my recruiters from the show you know what i mean
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i was like of course of course yeah done or they get flown out by like these big celebrity you know
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all right so some approaches male victims of false accusations doing this
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instantly validating and offering emotional support virtue signaling that they'd never do such a thing
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then shifting to gynocentric narratives that excuse other women and protect their group privileges
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gaslighting is overused in mid okay um there is a white knight um this guy had a pretty cool chart
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i cannot read this but if you guys look at the replies to the tweet this was pretty in-depth um
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don't touch me they turn it around and blame you endless complaining about yeah that's another thing
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we have a tendency to get really riled up about something and then our hamster wheel just makes
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it way worse than it is and then you'll you'll go from like oh i don't like this to you're an abusive
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call you controlling call you insecure call you a narcissist lie right in your face face lie to others
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about you or said issue attack your character claim abuse
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triangulation passive aggressive aggression playing the victim lying about being pregnant oh that's a good
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one yeah the women say they're pregnant to get you to bang them a few more times and obviously you're not
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going to pull out because you think she's pregnant while she's pregnant now got bad news for you
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the worst and most sinister is performance when their entire personality and behavior is crafted when you are in the room
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but they're entirely different when you're not in it true shape shifters it was the only time in my life i realized
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they're actually genetically evil people and nothing can change that because they will act
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they will even act out of the good qualities of remorse and change but it's always an act i had to
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catch it on security oh my god security cameras to know i literally walked out of the room and tears
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evaporated and the voice returned to normal as she proceeded to call some other guy once you see it
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you realize that the way they breathe is deceptive you have to go through this to know what i'm talking
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about it's super creepy and troubling it has nearly destroyed my ability to love and almost turned
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my heart into a black piece of charcoal be careful out there there are some truly bad and evil people
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they push hard to move the overton window towards anything which benefits them yeah like it's super normal
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i knew that the overton window um on marrying whores was shifting when i was in i was
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interviewing somewhere and these were guys with i would say status money i would say choice these
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these were guys that had a lot of choice and i asked these guys i said how would you feel would
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you date a girl that did only fans but it was like five years ago and i saw them rationalizing it
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i saw them they said you know what if it was a while ago and it was just nudes yeah i would accept it i'm
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like women have fought really hard now even the top guys are accepting it and that's always that's
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always the cope and i i actually realized that part of part of um part of men complaining about
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you know women being old ran through whatever is they know this is what they have to choose from
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and they always men are so pragmatic they like they always think they have a way around it
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and i really for your sakes you know i've seen men on the really bad side of divorce court i've seen men
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i would say with death in their eyes like it was so bad
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that i really wish there was a way around it but it's luck of the draw i mean when you're getting
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married with women it's like you're picking out of sticks and some people get you know i i think
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there's some analogy where there's like one stick that'll blow you up and you'll die and then there's
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like a short stick or there's a game or something like that but i mean that's kind of what it is with
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women is it's luck of the draw and you might draw well it's a roll of the dice uh one one guy dies
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one guy has a happy marriage there's there's what i would call low risk and high risk women low high
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so there's women that are lower risk where you can lower the risk but i always try to reiterate
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that that's not a guarantee because i want you guys i just want you to expect it if it happens so
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it doesn't ruin your life if it does and you can prepare accordingly there's nothing worse than a guy
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that it happens to that doesn't expect it there's like you know high risk women um she's got herpes
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i'd say that's a high risk she's got um you know i mean she's slept with 57 dudes probably high risk
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but you know i've seen low risk women i've seen low risk women have um high risk women outcomes and
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vice versa so again it's like you're you're pulling straws good luck fellas um i have seen so many
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start internet programs claiming to be courageous and trustworthy oh wait is that what the hell what's
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my internet program all right blocked they um i've seen it a lot but the tactic i use to clean things
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out is allowing them to speak it's really incongruent sudden coldness and aggression to act as a barrier
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towards you while they project their mistakes and defects onto you so you can't respond or defend
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yourself shaming language projection guilt tripping i dated a girl with borderline personality disorder
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before i understood what it was a buddy of mine also dated one they are each special little muffins in
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their own version of crazy mine would guilt trip me over the smallest thing his would scream at him
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we called it f you but please don't leave me disease
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using the line if you love me you should stand by me no matter what i do
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the promise of sex but doesn't go through with it that's another wheel actually i should make that the
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wheel of simping promise you know allude allude that there will be sex at some point maybe hint at
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it flirt with him a little but never put out but promise that it may happen in the future to get him
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to do things right i mean that's that's the wheel of simping
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but you know who cares what i think i think we got to ask the people it's not sharing right
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okay i think we got to ask the people what you guys think you know what have you experienced in
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terms of female manipulation i did get some um but we are going to put the zoom in the chat
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i want to hear what what have you guys experienced i'm going to send this to the group chats
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when it comes to female manipulation i'm going to rejoin one second
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i mute this one right okay doug mpa are you there
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hey how's it going good how are you what do you think about sorry sorry no
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i asked you a question i didn't even let you go sorry
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go ahead i said what do you think of my simp song
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that's awesome the fact that you can come up with that off the top of your head man
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you're just getting started on it on camera man imagine it in like a month or two it's going to be
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insane let's go i'm here for it i mean to be fair i have done the freestyling for years i've always
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hated it when people pretend they could just do things overnight that took me like four years
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so i could do it now but on and off is kind of a hobby um well and honestly you you know people
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sleep on your voice man you have a really good voice pearl and i have gone karaoke before and she
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tore the house down so don't sleep on pearl's voice she has a really good voice wait when you're
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here in person do you want to he's you have a good voice too do you want a guest for a song
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uh you can wear you can wear a ski mask like that guy
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i'll think about it or we can we can put the camera like low or something so they can't see you
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i'll think about it okay so what female manipulation have you seen uh well um i am going to actually put
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something in the private chat that i want you to click on okay i was just on instagram
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and i saw because because makeup is a good one and i just one second i'm gonna put it in the private
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it's in the the private chat so click on that but um but changing the meaning of words
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oh that's a good one i i've i've talked about that before and i can't believe i forgot to add it
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that's so true go ahead yeah like um you know there's a couple of low-hanging fruit ones like um
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how tall women call themselves stallions now when like a stallion literally means a male horse
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um you know we all know about abuse you know how they've oh they've either they redefine it's like
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it's they say magic and sorcery isn't real yeah it is when it comes to words and meaning women
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it's modern day sorcery it's shape-shifting and sorcery um there's so many words that used to mean one
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thing but now it meets another um traditionally masculine words are have been turned into words of
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female empowerment it's it's crazy um and then what's another thing so i wouldn't say changing words
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around makeup um um uh what's another example um well we know all the basics the shame insults guilt
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and the need to be right that pretty much covers everything i mean it covers a lot um all right let's
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let's play the video you sent can we put we can see it yeah it's up is it shared okay
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let me turn the music off can't they can see it okay i think okay okay yeah yeah i turned off i turned
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off the music guys because it says take your swimming on the first date i want to do my makeup
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like this that looks awesome sorry you could just get like two points i'm just kidding do you know
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what i don't wear a lot of makeup and i hate the feeling of it anyways like i don't i don't know how
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they feel comfortable wearing that much like that's so heavy on your face it's like paint
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can you imagine if she'd sit over your house what your pillow would look like or what your bathroom
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sink would look like the next day look at that she's not even bad looking is the worst part
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it doesn't need to like i almost think do you think she looks better on the left
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uh i'm not a heavy makeup guy so i'd rather see the blemishes and stuff than have a woman having to
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put a bunch of garbage on her face yeah sorry i mean
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i like i don't couldn't you just do light makeup and smooth it you know like that's just
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they should have a water bucket test for all these women where you should be able to splash
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a bucket of water on them and see what they look like afterwards look at that holy crap yeah that's
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a form of manipulation but guys let me know um i want you guys to call in this is the zoom link in
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the chat yeah it is so the zoom link is in the chat it'd be great if you guys could join
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and um you could come on and let me know what manipulation tactics you've seen maybe if you
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have an example in a relationship you've been in where you noticed um the manipulation tactic
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maybe you overcame it right um tell us how you dealt with it we could trade notes here
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um hey pro i think that we should work on because i think that gaslighting is too vague of a term
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i think that women gaslight so much that we really need to work on
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terms for different levels of gaslighting so like you know regular gaslighting is like oh
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you know um i went out with my girls and you know i wanted um i was messing around with a guy but you
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know nothing happened so that's a degree but then there's the the guy gets a dna test and finds out
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the baby's not his and then she's trying to tell him that it is his baby and he's crazy
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that what do you call that kind of gas the hierarchy of gaslighting yes we need to have
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a show about that level one i mean we could spitball here level one level two level three
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so what would level one gaslighting be level one gaslighting would be we never hooked up but they did
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or you know um uh level one gaslighting would be i hate him i want to fuck him yeah exactly i was
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just about to say something like that or you know um you know i slept with him but i had been drinking
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so it doesn't really count because i was you know i i wasn't responsible for my actions i wasn't in
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my right that's like level one gaslighting level two gaslighting that's gonna be
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uh what would okay because level three is like dna testing you know lying about the kid dn paternity
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fraud what's in the middle level two gaslighting would be a week or two of you know i can't have
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sex with you because i have a headache i'm tired um you know you don't if you just do chores around
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the house you get more sex that's like level two gaslighting
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well don't you think that'd be level one so our producer said we're just friends you think that
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would be level one or two i think that's level one yeah we are just friends equals we are either
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fucking or going to fuck what about um or wait are going to fuck the second the relationship ends
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oh how about um um what's up oh um gaslighting um level one is when a woman has i'm not into hookups
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on her online dating profile when all she does is ban guys that she meets right away off of tinder
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i do not want to hookup i am going to have sex with you immediately yes that's gaslighting immediately
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wait wait if you wait wait actually i do not want to hookup means i am not going to
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have sex with you wait wait i am going to make you wait if you are a beta
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because those women it's like i'm going to make you wait if you're a beta
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yeah yeah i mean okay and then what else would be level three gaslighting besides a dna test
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eternity fraud um what about um oh the the female okay when a woman how about this a woman trying to
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get her kids trying to get custody of her kids in divorce court is all gaslighting oh i was abused
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this level yeah i was abused get custody he was a good father but he wasn't a good partner that's gaslighting
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i was emotionally abused yep equals that equals i stopped wanting to have sex with my husband
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and i wanted to go bang my personal trainer yep you got it yeah so we'll have to do a show about the
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different because once again the term gaslighting i mean women do it so much nowadays that we have to
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piece that that term apart it's just way too nebulous and way too vague now number three i was
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great i regret i regretted this guy i banged yeah that's level three all right we got tax man on the
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line let's see what tax man what female manipulation have you noticed and or experience welcome to the show
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hey what's up all right so um i would say any woman with bpd and any woman would be like they will sit
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there and like because i've asked psychologists about this they will not take women that have bpd as
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clients because they know that they actively try to lie and spin things around to fit their own narrative
01:00:42.840
no matter what it is like i dated a girl that had it one time for like two months and i didn't know
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what it was right and she said it and i went to a psychologist and i asked her about it and she was
01:00:53.040
like oh yeah she's gonna like do this this and this and so like she tried to say that i was a narcissist
01:00:58.980
and i'm like i don't i cleaned your apartment this morning i went and got breakfast i don't think a
01:01:04.700
narcissist would do any of those things so yeah like they're just like not all there mentally
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too i think i think they have like deep-seated trauma and you know father issues and that's why
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they're just they're so manipulative it's it's like you're living in a it's ah what did my friend say
01:01:26.080
he's like it's like you're living in the twilight you're like living in a paradox so can you anything
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they say is backwards can you tell me like what can i have a specific example like maybe two or three
01:01:36.340
examples of what it's like dating someone with bpd like what they'll do specifically i've heard about
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this archetype a lot but i i don't get specifics often my god it's like all right so for example
01:01:49.420
i remember one morning we were we were in jersey we were in new jersey so i wake up i go do what i
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have to do for work in the morning go to the gym and come back maybe i was going only like an hour
01:02:01.100
right i come back i get her breakfast give it to her and i'm like i know she doesn't like getting
01:02:06.360
up early right so i come back in the room quiet and i leave everything right there five minutes
01:02:11.600
later she's like yelling where the hell were you i'm like why are you even up this early like you
01:02:15.940
never wake up this oh like as soon as i left she woke up and then like started like going into this
01:02:22.400
whole thing well what if he leaves what if he's not coming back what if he's lying to me because
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usually girls with bpd it's like guys abandon them because they see how crazy they are off the bat and
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they're just they're out they're like they'll hit and they'll be out like not gonna lie like i used to
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hear that about girls that had it a lot because usually once you find one girl that has it you find
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a lot of girls that have it so like you see them all like conversing and socializing together and
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you're like oh yeah this is like this is like an art so what do they do they are they yelling and
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screaming usually or how is it oh yeah oh yeah like okay my my friend dated one too right and he
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actually went through a whole legal case with it he the girl okay so she hit him i remember one time
01:03:09.560
me and my boy went to the strip club and she tracked his phone to the strip club now mind you i'm with
01:03:14.920
my girl my girl didn't care that we went right so we're all three of us are sitting there she comes up
01:03:19.640
there freaking out the bouncer has to call him out there and be like yo get your girl under control
01:03:24.140
she's like swinging her knife at me i'm like what the heck and are they sorry god go ahead my bad
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yeah so she's like swinging the knife at him i go out there i'm like dude you cannot get back in the
01:03:35.420
car with her because we have to drive back to i think we were in dayton ohio so we had to drive
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back to cincinnati so i was like dude you cannot get back in the car with her bro i think i've seen
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the car swerve almost off the road four times we get back he tells me she almost like cut him up
01:03:49.500
like once and then they ended up going to court and she said you know he hit her one time and i'm
01:03:54.720
like dude you you are not the guy to ever hit a woman no like and i had to go testify i had to do
01:04:01.460
all this stuff and he ended up being fine the dude ended up going to jail for like two three months
01:04:06.180
because he was picked up and he didn't even know about the charges and i was just like this is crazy
01:04:11.860
so yeah they'll do some crazy stuff to you are they charismatic like can they have a normal social
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life outside of the relationship oh yeah so what was crazy about it is that because we me and my
01:04:24.900
boy we were doing real estate at that time he was in my company he's not anymore he like moved on to
01:04:29.920
other things but he was sitting there and he started dating her because at first she worked in
01:04:35.880
the probate office for the county clerk so like he was like oh she has a good job she's like smart
01:04:41.920
she's like you know she's got a good head on her shoulders and i'm gonna be honest the first like
01:04:46.220
three times i met her he was fine so you didn't yeah they they can put on an act for you like
01:04:51.840
anybody and he even said it because he'd be like you know one minute she's good and one minute it's
01:04:57.300
hell and i'd be like i don't know when it changes i'm like dude i don't know either because i've seen
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it are they always screaming or is it yes and no or is it like other types of crash outs it's like
01:05:10.240
it's like really highly intensive like emotional crash outs no like they'll like just go manic that's
01:05:18.620
what it is they'll go manic imagine like imagine you're sitting next to someone and something just
01:05:24.440
makes them feel uncomfortable now they're agitated with you and anything you do or don't do for them
01:05:30.080
they're gonna find a reason to be mad and how often does it happen almost on the daily oh really
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like and is it and but they seem sometimes guys say they fall in love with this archetype pretty
01:05:43.760
often so like are they very loving also is it like hot and cold or they can mimic emotions well
01:05:49.440
nah you want me to be real you want me to be real yeah yeah it's fine it's fine oh the pussy is
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fucking fire like i'm saying that because i've had it you know like i'm not gonna lie anybody in
01:06:04.580
chat that has some dpd pussy know that shit fire like i can't they be doing crazy shit and i me
01:06:11.780
personally i think it's because of their emotional trauma towards their father they're trying to make
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a man feel comfortable but at the same time they're also trying to make him feel the pain of what they
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want to make their father that that's what i think it is because i'm like bro there's no way
01:06:26.880
you could be so hot and cold so sexually charged so on and off there's no way someone's built to just
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be like that you had to have gone through some trauma if you mentally ill like and they're good
01:06:37.640
at it they're they're so good at playing the game they'll have you convinced that their crash outs are
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either your fault or they're just going through something and they're going to figure it out and
01:06:46.960
fix it and they never fix it yeah um doug mpa you got any other questions for him i do not i do not
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great great calling i you're this he's an a-level guest okay you see he had his mic figured out
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camera on so we appreciate you calling in okay no problem thanks for having me thanks for always
01:07:09.720
having me have a good one buddy i love it when they just get on their cameras figured out okay
01:07:15.540
i gotta make a pause sorry i saw this and i was like i gotta make a pause
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so there are times where um there is men in my life that make suggestions or have predictions
01:07:30.960
and um at the time i disagree but time goes by and those people tend to be right and right now um
01:07:42.720
a few months ago doug mp actually i'm gonna can i can i say this advise it i want to i want to can i
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hold on i'm gonna i'm gonna ask you if it's okay if i say this can i
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yeah yeah okay so he advised to stay away from conspiracy jay stuff you know and because really
01:08:23.940
it's just the upside and my lack of expertise in that topic it's just not something i know a ton
01:08:30.780
about and we spoke about um candace's owens show at the time and we were talking about how um
01:08:38.940
you predicted her downfall you did you said she's gonna like something's gonna go wrong
01:08:46.560
where she's gonna be wrong about something and have you seen that the girl she said was a man
01:08:53.920
is willing to produce pictures in court uh you're talking about um bridget macron yeah
01:09:01.440
yeah and this is gonna cost them big time it's gonna cost her oh my god and the worst thing is
01:09:07.860
what was the upside of proving that that woman was a man like that's just the
01:09:12.920
even if she or he i don't know but even if she even if this was trans or whatever
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i just what would that i don't care you know what i mean like i just don't
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i don't care yeah um you have to get into it's about
01:09:45.640
she's looking at it long term because that's one of the best parts about your transition probably is
01:09:50.920
you're you've chosen this as a career you're you're doing the long game and um but candace
01:09:57.400
she hasn't maybe it's because her husband's worth 180 million dollars but she hasn't switched to that
01:10:04.120
mindset yet and she picks these battles where the the risk is greater than the reward it's like you're
01:10:12.440
gonna mess around with the president of brands his wife are you serious why well for me it's just the
01:10:22.380
when people with big egos especially women get told they're awesome for a decade
01:10:30.100
you know then we hit our late 20s maybe early to mid 30s whenever it happens and we're told
01:10:36.920
you're wrong or no for the first time it just equates to a crash out yeah because it's just never
01:10:43.020
happened i mean you see it all the time like the women just freaking the f out and the first time
01:10:46.880
they're told no in an assertive voice i mean that's why that's why like she kind of crashed
01:10:51.440
out on nick affleys he was on her show and he was like why are you questioning me about being married
01:10:56.840
and then like you got married you know she like you're a woman and she it just like it looked like
01:11:03.620
it didn't compute like she'd never been told that yeah i'm like you just haven't been humbled yet
01:11:09.340
and now um but now it just got worse actually and that's what made me stop them
01:11:14.840
i i have to see if this is this is true this is alleged alleged alleged uh this is according to
01:11:22.900
y'all yakko boy they're producing so now candace i think i think and i can't i cannot keep up with
01:11:34.900
all our conspiracies i can't there's too many the the the the he she and then there's the you know
01:11:42.560
the j stuff and then now then she was crashing out and saying nick was a fed and that and now you know
01:11:50.340
then she's i think she's trying to tie kirk's death to israel i i don't know there's too many i'm
01:11:57.640
sure i'm butchering them whatever but now i guess they're saying that charlie kirk believed
01:12:05.300
that candace was going insane and they allegedly have texts saying that now
01:12:14.040
i i don't know i guess we will see she has been operating like she has nothing to lose for
01:12:23.640
for way too long i mean and ever since she left the she's with the daily wire like ever since
01:12:29.460
it's like she took a hit backwards in her career by leaving the daily wire and she's been doing her
01:12:36.300
best to try to sprint and surpass where she was when she should just did a slow build back up but now
01:12:45.400
she's being more audacious and more bolsterous and just making all these crazy claims and that can
01:12:51.480
either go really good or really bad and if she loses this defamation lawsuit against the macrons
01:12:57.720
her the whole everything she has is done they're gonna take everything from her watch well that's
01:13:02.920
why in a way i think it's um it's kind of selfish for women to get into politics because politics is
01:13:11.140
such a a dirty messy business i mean there's a reason i avoided it if i i mean i know i i touch on
01:13:19.820
it a little bit but like the deep political i had opportunities to do it but i just think with
01:13:26.580
a family it's kind of not pragmatic like if you really want to go political because i mean
01:13:34.100
politicians are dirty they're they're willing to go to the ends of the earth to destroy you and
01:13:40.220
they'll take your family down with you yeah so i don't want to say it's selfish in all cases because
01:13:47.500
you know i don't think it always is and you know but it's it's a risk you have to weigh
01:13:53.820
and i just uh you know i'm gonna i'm gonna stick in my culture relationship space
01:14:00.020
that's right i'm gonna stay here go ahead yeah good plan but good plan yeah but it's because it's
01:14:07.580
just not and the thing is the problem is candid she's not as good as the guys around her she's just
01:14:15.780
not like she's too um she doesn't pay enough attention to the details so but because she's a
01:14:21.660
woman she gets more attention but and that's okay you know that happens but it's better when it comes
01:14:28.220
with like humility and i just don't get that sense from her i just get the doubling down
01:14:33.860
i never get the sense that i could be wrong i just i don't get it but maybe maybe it's there and i just
01:14:39.860
don't see it yeah i i've always wondered the whole red pill influencer to like right wing
01:14:47.180
talking about the jays stuff where'd that pipeline come from i don't understand it well it's because
01:14:55.000
things go in cycles it's like two years of relationships then two years of politics
01:14:59.660
so that's that's why it's because the news set like if i covered i would have made more money if
01:15:06.340
i covered trump's election more closely do you know what i'm saying like i i'm sure because they
01:15:13.440
always like to do this i'm sure there is a streamer here i mentioned something but it was not a super
01:15:19.220
in-depth following of the campaign but if i just swapped during the election oh my gosh it's cash
01:15:26.960
cow but you lose credibility over time because if you're not good enough to be an expert in those
01:15:35.560
things and i just if i was candace i would go down on how often she does shows in order to in because
01:15:42.960
she's got a bunch of kids right i do this job i do think you can do it and be a mom
01:15:48.420
but i just wouldn't do it five days a week i do like two and make it really accurate if i was her
01:15:55.500
um but the problem is it's a money machine and now she's got to pay for this lawsuit so
01:16:01.880
they'll look at this says and we'll go back to the topic guys just give me give me it give me
01:16:06.920
i had to give him doug mpa his flowers because he not publicly he predicted this like six months ago
01:16:13.420
i said i i said i don't think anything will happen and he said oh no she's gonna crash and burn
01:16:19.180
and yeah i have to you know you're right you're right doug mpa i was wrong you were right
01:16:24.700
is that the yeah record it that's the only time a woman will say it
01:16:29.460
and guys guys in the chat this isn't even about is macron's wife what is she or what isn't she
01:16:39.580
it's the battle itself are you willing to lose everything you possibly have for that you know
01:16:47.620
i see you guys going back and forth in the chat oh well she is and she isn't and blah blah blah
01:16:52.200
yeah but you know not all youtubers have a husband that's worth 180 million dollars
01:17:00.220
you know i'm saying so it's like when you're when if when losing your media empire means that you're
01:17:08.200
out on the street you don't want to fight those kind of battles you just don't and you know example
01:17:15.700
like like fresh and fit um fresh is a clown yes he is but like the only thing i've agreed with
01:17:25.840
him on is i wouldn't have taken it down the path about talking about the jays and all the stuff that
01:17:32.100
myron did because they've lost tens of millions of dollars being demonetized off of youtube and and
01:17:39.880
you know i like myron myron's fantastic but like it's just it's just
01:17:45.700
at what cost i'm glad everything worked out for him i'm not saying that myron she shouldn't have
01:17:49.580
done it but the opportunity cost is real yeah well and it's another thing the only i guess devil's
01:17:57.200
advocate is that i think myron's actually pretty good at covering that stuff because my thing is if
01:18:03.020
you're gonna do it then you have to be really good and accurate at doing it i do think myron's
01:18:10.920
pretty good at it so you could make the case fresh but uh but i but i i would say he has a better case
01:18:21.120
than candace because i just don't think she's she's just not gonna have the time unless these nannies
01:18:27.060
are raising the kids which yeah wouldn't really surprise me i i was a nanny i could kind of spot a
01:18:32.980
nanny mom i could spot it because i you know i had a bunch of nannies all right let me let me let's i
01:18:39.920
show you this clip really quick i want to see it so it says candace owens just announced she is not
01:18:45.780
attending charlie kirk's memorial on sunday due to it being organized by the feds she did reveal she
01:18:53.020
plans to go visit kanye west during that time what okay let's see i don't we'll see if this is real
01:18:58.880
said there is no way we are going to this event now there's a zero percent chance first and foremost
01:19:02.260
why are you singing but anybody can go to it you just buy a ticket to the event and you're all
01:19:07.080
working to try to get me to confirm that i'm going and you're doing this as if you're trying
01:19:11.820
to like push my buttons and be like we got to make her get into her ego so she like shows up and
01:19:16.520
like post it on social media nope actually you know while i'm attacking the feds maybe not going to
01:19:22.260
a public event uh which the feds are organizing is probably a very good idea i'm good you know what i
01:19:27.100
do i'm gonna listen to power on my headphones and go see yay how's that for a memorial for charlie
01:19:32.040
that feels like the right thing for me to do right now well
01:19:37.080
she's gone yeah she's gone you hate to see it i really liked her work on blm back in the day i
01:19:49.920
really did like her debates on that but i just i i don't know as a fan as a former fan the last like
01:19:56.700
few years it all started with the crowder thing for me i need a very humble i that's what i've been
01:20:03.220
i've been asking for i need a humble apology that's very public i need the title and the thumbnail to
01:20:10.000
match i need the title to say i was wrong and i am sorry i need a private apology first to steven
01:20:18.660
crowder then a public apology denouncing everything you said with the same humility with the humility
01:20:25.620
you lacked when you called him an abusive monster because that was your title then that's what i
01:20:30.800
need from you and then maybe you could win me back over candace but until that day
01:20:35.260
that that is what i need from you but i actually you're losing me with all the conspiracy stuff this
01:20:43.540
is i'm i'm getting lost um okay so next we're gonna i'm sorry guys we're gonna go back to the
01:20:52.580
topic female manipulation even though that kind of is in a way i feel like i don't know say you won't
01:21:01.740
go to the funeral because of the feds just just say you don't want to see all the people you have beef
01:21:06.320
with i mean come on that's the real reason you don't want to go that's like me you know here's
01:21:14.460
the thing if i talk shit i'm gonna i'm gonna still show up but look and i will if you want to address
01:21:20.460
the shit talking we can do it but um okay so nate we're gonna have nate come on
01:21:28.320
nate welcome to the show what female manipulation tactics have you seen in your relationships or
01:21:39.960
marriages the more specific the examples the better welcome to the show nate hey what's going
01:21:46.680
on uh can you hear me i just want to make sure my mic i can hear you perfect awesome i uh i first saw
01:21:53.720
you actually i'm like one of the few people who didn't know pearl um but i saw you on fatty's panel
01:21:58.060
um so excited to be on fatty's who's fatty you did you did like i think you were on the treadmill
01:22:07.600
but uh you were sorry i forgot i did that yeah i was on the treadmill yeah it was a small thing
01:22:16.040
but andrew wilson and uh sarah tomato was it was there okay okay yeah yeah okay thanks for coming i
01:22:23.500
just forgot i did that panel so okay so thanks for coming on um so what female manipulation tactics
01:22:31.500
have you observed uh feel free to give examples yeah so i mean i think the main thing is like
01:22:38.340
uh and this might be a little controversial but like the self-gaslighting right so like i i think it is
01:22:45.500
it's perfectly fine for people to sort of you know if you want if people want to describe like
01:22:51.500
trad life world or whatever like that's perfectly cool it's also perfectly cool to talk about like
01:22:56.460
living in a normal society um you know having a normal job and and sort of what comes from that
01:23:02.860
um and i i think like 2025 has been a freaking train wreck like it's been bad you know like uh you know
01:23:10.820
and you know you were ragging on candace owens no offense to her but like it's a perfect example
01:23:16.560
that like i mean she can't find the thread right now and it's like well why is that it's because you
01:23:22.200
haven't told the truth and um you haven't told the truth in the last like three years
01:23:26.320
and that's totally manipulation right it's manipulation to say that like
01:23:32.820
well oh you know uh the world's just like this because i say it is you know
01:23:36.820
can i have examples of like specific examples of what you mean i don't actually watch your show
01:23:42.580
too closely it sounds like i might i might agree but you know go ahead yeah i mean i think the fact
01:23:48.940
that uh you know um you know obviously respect to charlie kirk and his family and respect to candace i
01:23:56.160
know she was friends with them but the fact that you know uh two or three days after you know she's
01:24:00.980
talking about oh well the camera was moving and you know she's bringing up these conspiracy theories
01:24:05.900
and stuff like that uh you know and so to me it's like okay you know from the top of lunatic mountain
01:24:12.820
you're coming down candace owens and telling me that you know you know i don't even i don't listen to
01:24:19.380
an fbi director i already don't like right i don't listen listen to cash patel i listen to candace
01:24:24.880
owens on this it's that's crazy to me yeah yeah that's true what about in like your personal
01:24:31.500
relationships have you are there any other manipulation tactics you've noticed
01:24:36.480
uh no no um you know no i i think without being scared to go past the fence line um from my
01:24:46.020
perspective um you know from my perspective i've been lucky that i have i think like a strong like
01:24:52.980
sort of like you know like good feminine people in my life and stuff like that um and so you know
01:24:59.680
um you know the the sort of you know i wish i had a better answer but i like you know i wasn't
01:25:06.160
expecting to answer that question oh that's okay um well thanks for calling in doug mpa you got any
01:25:11.600
other questions for him that was great that's a great answer that um is that a purple heart behind
01:25:18.920
you oh that's great uh that that's granddad yeah that's awesome man that's amazing yeah
01:25:25.980
yeah good on you for respecting him that's great just wanted to say absolutely yeah good having that
01:25:34.280
up there thank you cool doesn't that well good talk to you buddy thanks for calling yeah we'll see
01:25:41.520
you yeah calling anytime great caller yeah i see a pearl
01:25:45.240
i love it when they just they say their point you guys are getting better i'm proud of you we've
01:25:53.460
come a long way from a few months ago all right we got i follow his twitter the french og welcome to the show
01:26:11.280
hey thanks bro how are you good how are you thanks for calling in
01:26:19.140
well thanks for having me thanks for having me all right so give it to me what
01:26:25.240
fema i know i know you're out in the field i see your bumble on twitter so give it to me what
01:26:33.060
oh turn off um make sure you turn off the youtube in the background oh okay yeah yeah
01:26:39.840
oh shit okay you got it yeah i got it got it got it got it so tell me what what female
01:26:49.500
manipulation tactics have you seen i could make a i could make a fucking dictionary with this um
01:26:56.840
we're ready oh yeah trust me trust me that's why i said this to you i was like he's gonna be great
01:27:03.700
go ahead yeah well just just for context i've just spoken up it's like what i don't like it's like
01:27:09.160
four or five p.m in the um in the uk so bear with me i'm just getting my idea right there but just
01:27:14.880
straight first gaslighting all right because women love to deflect accountability and use
01:27:21.980
offensive tactics rather than defensive tactics to make the guy feel bad about themselves right say
01:27:28.340
um say she's being disrespectful to you she'll say oh well why are you such why are you so sensitive
01:27:35.600
why are you being a pussy what hello it's like you know just crazy stuff right um another one
01:27:46.080
breadcrumbing women want to always have control of the dynamic right they never want to say first
01:27:52.760
that they were interested in the guy so what they'll do is they'll just use stories stories to
01:27:58.940
get the guys or or just they'll send you snaps very little effort to get the guy to actually start
01:28:04.840
the conversation first but they don't want to express their interest right just you know they just
01:28:12.400
want to put something out there and they want and they will just and also part of breadcrumbing
01:28:17.400
is um when it's about giving as little as possible affection just to create a validation loop that
01:28:26.600
is enough for the guy to be uh to be into but as soon as they feel that they get the validation
01:28:32.060
the guy then they pull back so that the guy gets stuck in a in a rut where they always constantly
01:28:40.180
chasing the girl but every time that he basically pulls back because he's not getting enough
01:28:44.580
she'll breadcrumb him a bit further just to keep the dial just to keep the control
01:28:48.720
uh what else uh the love bombing and then the pullback
01:28:54.260
uh so the love bombing and the pullback what happens is that the girl wants to get a guy a guy
01:29:01.020
wants to get a guy's attention so she'll throw different threads of interest towards the guy and
01:29:08.680
they see what type of compliments he really vibes with he does she does that for a little bit
01:29:13.540
game uh game definitely um attached and then what what she does is she starts she slowly starts
01:29:21.880
to criticize him but it starts with very like offhand comments not really bad and then afterwards
01:29:28.520
she starts to really bring him down just in order for her to basically have complete control of him
01:29:34.780
well those are just three of the top of my head can we role play that one so pretend i'm you you be
01:29:39.720
the girl in this okay okay can you give me just one second i'm just gonna grab myself some water i'm
01:29:45.880
just a bear do you need do you need like a couple minutes i can put you in the waiting room and bring
01:29:51.200
you back um yeah two minutes that's fine two minutes okay i'll go to i'll take another caller and then
01:29:57.020
i'll go back to you while i let you wake up all right all right all right those were good though
01:30:04.260
don't get up here those are pretty i see his tweets all the time those are pretty funny right
01:30:09.940
yeah yeah yeah he was spot on he was spot on he's in the field i want to ask him before he gets off the
01:30:17.200
phone about the different levels of gaslighting oh yeah that was his first um that was his first uh
01:30:26.020
thing so um i'm gonna run the level one level two level three and see if he has any other ideas
01:30:32.820
for level one level two level two eventually when he gets done with this yeah well we'll bring up
01:30:38.020
sweet auntie while he wakes up and then um and then we'll see what he has to say we'll go back
01:30:44.380
sweet auntie welcome to the show uh so what female gas i know you've said she knows women are crazy
01:30:55.880
so not all not all not all do you see women have a gun to my head like basically on this show
01:31:02.060
um but she i i know she's been on before so what get what manipulation from women have you seen
01:31:11.420
go ahead oh auntie you're on mute unmute auntie gotta unmute there we go the controls disappeared
01:31:21.640
for a second can you hear me all right i can hear you okay so um lots of tactics i've got 99 problems
01:31:29.600
and which is where every single one um but work workplace manipulation is probably the one that's
01:31:39.480
done a lot of damage to me and uh i've had them hive mind and ostracize me in workplaces
01:31:47.360
and even getting to the point of manipulating my management teams against me um i the final straw
01:31:56.100
that ruined my ambitions in having an actual career were a female i worked with if we were lateral
01:32:04.160
and our boss she had been feeding lies to him about things that i did and he actually used like
01:32:12.340
things that were legitimate that's the thing that women will do is they'll find truthful things and
01:32:18.600
then they'll twist those things and that's why their lies are so hard to to grasp and she would do that
01:32:24.620
and she got me um to start getting written up and talked to and yelled at by my boss and i just i
01:32:33.180
finally gave up you sound like a man yeah like that's what men say you know you sound like a guy
01:32:42.660
like is my voice really low no no no no i know i know i know you're you're being figurative no no i
01:32:49.740
wasn't i was yeah i wasn't talking about the book but no because do you know what i relate though
01:32:55.200
because that's how i feel with women you guys win you win you win i give up you get i went to blue
01:33:02.320
collar work to literally just get away from it all i couldn't do it anymore do you know what's crazy
01:33:06.800
women said if women ran the world there would be no wars i'm like women would torture you for fun
01:33:12.840
we do it with our words all the time it's just torture for fun
01:33:16.740
correct and could you imagine if they had military force oh my gosh and women run for office i'm like
01:33:24.240
let me just kms you know or even worse can you imagine if women had the physical strength of men
01:33:30.840
oh my gosh you'd all be in cages oh my gosh that would be terrible yep because everything that that
01:33:42.100
women are everything okay everything that women are stronger than no i'm sorry whatever is weaker
01:33:53.040
than women women abuse pets kids elderly elderly you got it
01:34:00.240
100 oh yeah it's awful it's awful i couldn't even imagine if they had the strength force for
01:34:07.740
backing that up everything that they project that they're afraid of men doing
01:34:11.380
it's because if they were men they would probably be doing that oh that's good do you know what
01:34:15.820
reputation destruction i think is the worst that's like the i think that's the worst one i would
01:34:21.700
rather a woman just punches me in the face and then i'm done with it then nitpick every little thing
01:34:27.320
that i do for years five mind the rest of the hive to join in that yes oh my god do you know what so
01:34:35.420
when i was in school there's volleyball teams right and i was never cool enough you know there's always
01:34:41.760
like the cool women and you know or like the popular i was never popular but sometimes i would
01:34:47.500
get into the popular group for like a little bit a little bit but you always get kicked out like i'd
01:34:52.960
say something too blunt one girl gets mad and then i'm kicked out of the group chat
01:34:57.320
and i'm like but it's like one will get mad at you and recruit all of them but you're like damn it
01:35:05.260
i guess i'm gone yep i just it's what it's not even worth the fight it's just i'm just gonna leave
01:35:13.820
this because you can't win no matter how hard you fight against it and it's just just move on yeah
01:35:19.140
well thanks for calling in sweet auntie please call it anytime you're like my only female caller
01:35:25.300
i will i will i enjoy it i hope that guy's woke up because it's got a lot of questions for the scale
01:35:31.900
okay thanks for calling um all right we're gonna bring back in
01:35:38.440
he's back open my eyes as well anyway i i'm honored you got up so early to come on the show
01:35:51.660
no no i'm like my sleep schedule is so fucked up anyway it's like actually let me just grab my
01:35:58.340
my mic yeah okay so so go ahead so female manipulation tactics and if you have any advice for the guys i know
01:36:05.740
we do coaching so if you have any advice for the guys of how to overcome it feel free to sprinkle
01:36:10.380
that in but we're ready for you all right fine it's like it's it's it's pretty simple just to put
01:36:16.160
things into perspective and don't get too much into your ego because the best way to manipulate someone
01:36:20.660
whether it's women or guys is through ego all right actually um like i made like an article it's a
01:36:28.120
paid article in my sub stack was like all the list well not like all the list but just the process
01:36:33.040
and that i've got just in front of me just to uh just for to refresh my memory type of stuff so
01:36:38.300
yeah in terms of how to get how to um to not get caught up in it don't take what she says at face
01:36:46.440
value all right don't take what she says at face value if she says stuff that nobody else has said
01:36:50.900
about you most likely is bullshit why because you're not that special but she will want to make you feel
01:36:59.100
special what's an example of something that a woman said to you that you just know it's bullshit
01:37:04.240
actually something really recent that just happened i don't know just i was like
01:37:09.700
so it sounds too good to be true here but like i just but actually just be aware of this right
01:37:16.080
a girl that over text a girl that over text i mean by that like she's like already so much into you
01:37:22.780
like oh my god you're so uh like to me also i have like uh and that's something that maybe
01:37:29.920
is going to surprise a lot of guys i make sure to hear exactly what word she says right so for
01:37:37.200
example i make a distinction between hot and handsome right and every time i've got a girl call
01:37:43.060
me handsome every time i had some bullshit every time it was fake every time it was it's kind of
01:37:47.820
and guys it was just like they love to be heard called handsome and everything no you're you're just
01:37:52.220
you're just a good guy to take advantage of because it's like you're you gotta be in it's
01:37:58.700
very important to distinguish when a girl calls you hot it's like sexually desirable handsome you're
01:38:04.940
quite the good guy actually the first person that pinpointed that to me was actually cga right
01:38:09.860
quote greg adams and i was like and then i started looking and i was like holy shit that's actually so
01:38:14.420
on point say so for example when a girl called me how i remember every time was no problem going into
01:38:20.540
sex but every time handsome it was always bullshit after bullshit right they were weaponizing sex they
01:38:26.660
wanted to see if they could get me to jump through their hoops kind of like it's it's for example a way
01:38:32.560
to to to groom you into doing what they want you to do right but because i didn't really take care
01:38:39.020
into consideration and some i've had i wanted to make them work more for it in the sense that oh you
01:38:44.060
is that all is that is that the best you've got tell me more you know tell me more okay
01:38:50.460
you're gone no i was just i was just gonna ask what else so okay fine so if she says handsome you
01:38:56.760
got some bullshit yeah you're just kind of like the put like she sees you as a potential cleanup guy
01:39:03.140
right like like it's the stuff that they say to guys in their 30s that they would not have fucked in
01:39:07.820
their 20s right so that basically it's like the second the second in line anyway um but let's say
01:39:14.760
for example what did well she do first she'll figure out your vulnerability right she'll throw
01:39:20.360
different threads she'll be like she wants to see what draws the core of your identity um you know
01:39:27.300
like um what do you believe about yourself that is so key that she's gonna double down on
01:39:32.700
right and generally they'll see that from the way that you're engaged with whatever fish throws at
01:39:38.400
you and then say for example you love being complimented on your looks you love being
01:39:42.540
complimented on your intelligence you love being complaining complimented on i don't know some part
01:39:47.460
of your personality and they'll double down they'll triple down right but it has two purpose one is
01:39:54.720
intel for her to use and then she um she feels that you matter like she feels that um she feels that
01:40:05.680
she matters to you right so that gives her a feeling of importance right but also what they'll do is
01:40:13.120
they will want to look for easy targets all right so because they're more manipulable right and they're
01:40:20.720
also very easy um they generally lack attention from other women so it wouldn't be like so they
01:40:27.660
when they feel that for example you're very dependent upon her attention that's a subtle sign that you're
01:40:32.040
not used to attention from women so that means that she can have easier she has less competition with
01:40:37.020
other women so therefore she knows that you're you're a better prey um then what she's going to do is
01:40:45.240
she's going to find the insecurities that you have from the vulnerability that she managed to get out
01:40:50.640
of you because say for example someone understands you very well then you're more you're more happy to
01:40:57.320
open up to them then if you then that person that you open up to you'll put them at a higher position
01:41:03.080
than the other ones so right now she the the fact that you expose yourself emotionally put her
01:41:10.520
at a big advantage at a big power has big power play right and then she'll she'll she'll see that she has a big
01:41:19.880
part uh in maneuvering maneuvering your self-esteem right and how did she do that was through the love
01:41:28.720
bombing oh because she figured out that she can ruin make or ruin your day exactly she has that amount
01:41:35.200
of power over you and now that's what we call when you're cooked
01:41:39.600
that's halfway there that's halfway there oh no she's not done okay she's not done she's not done all
01:41:47.440
right and she's gonna do something that very few girls ever did for you so that basically is gonna
01:41:54.040
really make you feel even deeper that she's special she's like my god not only basically she listened to
01:42:01.020
me she she made me expose myself she's not she's not really like dig deep into me i mean she has not
01:42:07.300
really made anything bad but then she'll look at something that you know will mean so much to you and
01:42:11.700
and then and then she'll go cold hot and cold then she'll go hot and cold then you start creating
01:42:18.700
you start becoming anxious and everything and then she start to guilt trip you over the smallest of
01:42:25.040
matters and then she'll she'll she'll say no it's fine then it's going to be that constant loop of hot
01:42:32.060
and cold hot and cold to the point that it's only cold and baby and she'll get completely cold from the
01:42:37.180
moment that she feels that you have no control whatsoever of yourself and she has full control
01:42:41.580
of you so that's the finish like that's from the love bombing to the withdrawal
01:42:45.180
how long does this process take like how long from start to finish
01:42:52.300
generally about on average i would say like finger in the wind estimation about three months
01:42:59.320
and do most guys clock on or are they just cooked
01:43:02.740
thing is most guys have barely any attention from women so therefore when someone normally is not
01:43:09.840
basically completely solipsistic she's solipsistic but she's way more manipulative and scheming than
01:43:17.440
you know most girls so therefore they they fucking think that they've got the one and they'd be like oh
01:43:22.660
yeah that's amazing that's great etc etc but really um even for a guy that even have success it's easy
01:43:31.180
you can easily fall into it because say for example you're looking for someone serious you're like
01:43:36.000
holy shit that's your life material well that's when you get that's when you get the hell with the
01:43:41.940
jesus cross and the flower dress he actually has a really good ai guys um he he it's actually so
01:43:50.820
it's actually so good i've used it before um he sent me like a free thing and it was like
01:43:57.600
it it helps you like overcome the women's shit test is that the best way to describe it i'm like
01:44:04.860
but it's really good actually go ahead well you know how you go you got to learn you to know me
01:44:10.880
right it was because of my bumble chats right yeah yeah yeah like obviously i was trolling a woman on
01:44:16.720
bumble but afterwards i was like well actually i can actually use my uh i can i'm i'm really lazy so
01:44:23.240
what i i created with the help of my co-founder an ai that was look at all my good bumble chats not
01:44:29.360
like the shit bumble chat that i was just doing for fun and trolling woman um and i was like my god
01:44:34.960
i can actually save myself texting woman by just using that the retrieval system but then i also put
01:44:41.580
like all the knowledge that i have on every other aspects you know when it comes to relationship you
01:44:46.400
find yourself in a in a in a crazy situation or even just in a normal situation as part of your
01:44:51.380
relationship and then tell you the wrong filter truth that none of the mainstream solution is
01:44:55.460
gonna gonna tell you right but a lot of time they all he also stops guys from simping because a lot
01:45:01.180
of time guys sent by text and they don't even know it and he will call you out for it so yeah
01:45:05.480
so do you have it run your bumble now your ai sorry oh yeah yeah i mean i mean they're talking to
01:45:14.780
you and it just talks to an ai i mean i you know i just added it's really good it's on whatsapp right
01:45:22.660
it's on it's on whatsapp telegram yeah so it just like plugs it in for you so if you guys want it
01:45:28.960
could you put your twitter it's french og right yeah yeah french og3 at french og3 and it's there's
01:45:36.160
a direct link for a free trial you get like 23 message and then you can make you know your opinion
01:45:40.460
for yourself based on your situation yeah it's actually really good guys it's maybe i'll show you
01:45:46.740
guys one day but i was actually really impressed by the ai um so what what manipulation tactics
01:45:54.980
would you say is like oh doug mpa do you want to tell him the three levels of gaslighting and see
01:46:01.000
what he thinks oh yeah go on okay doug mpa came up with this go ahead yeah so um
01:46:09.680
gaslighting is such a a vacuous and nebulous term now and women gaslight so much that we have to
01:46:18.320
find a way to put levels to gaslighting or different terms inside of gaslighting so we're
01:46:24.660
going with level one gaslighting level two gaslighting and level three gaslighting starting
01:46:30.440
with level three like level three is the top level where you get your kid's dna tested you find out
01:46:35.900
it's not yours but she's still trying to tell you it's your kid and trying to shame you into like
01:46:41.120
not believing what science says so that's that's level three that's the worst then like level one
01:46:48.880
is like um what was an example level one again pearly oh here let me pull it up we were going
01:46:55.860
through it level one um is we never hooked up but they didn't technically have sex but she did some
01:47:04.660
sort of oral um i hate him but i really want to fuck him go ahead yeah or or um you know a woman
01:47:14.180
will will will sleep with a guy and blame on the alcohol oh yeah you know i drank i i slept with him
01:47:23.780
but you know i drank a little much that night to remove herself from from accountability level two would
01:47:29.480
be the the kind of gaslighting that women do like in divorce court or like when they leave a
01:47:36.660
relationship because on our channel we have what's called the female friendly version of the story
01:47:41.440
which is where they make themselves sound like the hero and the victim at the same time in the story
01:47:46.640
you know what i'm talking about so that's like level two gaslighting so level three would be
01:47:51.880
trying to gaslight a dna test level two would be lies and like divorce court trying to make themselves
01:47:58.500
look better when they were the demons in a relationship and like level one is like basic
01:48:03.620
kind of relationship with gaslighting so what would what do you think of that model there and what
01:48:08.680
what would you put for level one level two level three gaslighting i'm taking notes i'm ready
01:48:13.140
all right okay so like i mean some level of gaslight is kind of like a bit harmless like let's say call
01:48:19.980
call it level one where it's kind of it's almost like she's unconscious but just because she just
01:48:24.500
want to deflect accountability she just finds a way to put it back on you so fair enough so that
01:48:29.200
is kind of like over as you said over a little relationship uh it could be my body counts three
01:48:35.780
you know like that level one i mean body count yeah we could put that put that put that in but it's kind
01:48:46.480
like stuff that is not really i would say harmful as long as it's not um as you call it um repetitive
01:48:53.980
and over matters that really matter you know such as for example dna uh dna test for fathers so yeah
01:48:59.800
definitely makes sense right then there can be the gaslighting uh to make herself look good as you said
01:49:06.140
which is um you know just uh or make herself a victim meaning by that she it's less so much about
01:49:13.260
uh putting the blame on you rather than putting the blame away from her to some third you know to
01:49:20.240
some let's say or circumstantial stuff because ask yourself always this whenever a girl finds herself
01:49:26.620
in a shitty situation where she willingly and with agency exposing herself to because originally what
01:49:32.840
she wants is to get herself to do that thing and then she'll just find an excuse as to why she was
01:49:38.460
out of control right uh so yeah but i would say that yeah it's it's worse than the level one makes
01:49:46.220
sense and then the third one is is full bad faith uh gaslighting which means that it is purposely
01:49:52.840
misleading you into thinking uh a certain thing so that you know you get to make the wrong decision
01:50:01.180
right yeah and you already see it very early on and like let's say even in dating like you know the
01:50:08.240
amount of girls that basically portray like you know like an image of themselves you know that they
01:50:13.840
they're done like they're kind of like they're another type of girl right i can see i can sense and
01:50:19.000
i can even qualify very quickly to know it's all bullshit but they're all misleading you in order to
01:50:23.000
get you to make the wrong decision or get the wrong idea like so many guys for example they'd be like
01:50:27.420
you know like looking at girls that you know will hold out on the first date and everything
01:50:33.560
especially past 30 right and and and really they're ran through as fuck and they don't have no fucking
01:50:41.040
but because they just think that oh a girl that's sleeping on the first date is a hoe it's like
01:50:45.320
you know what there's as equal as chance that she's one even if she doesn't so it's like so i keep
01:50:51.540
telling pearly that we need to redefine you you can't just say that a woman is a whore because
01:50:58.740
she slept with you on the first date because you want to be the guy she sleeps with on the first date
01:51:03.240
well she's giving you leverage off it's like some men just want to self-destruct in a way they're like
01:51:09.160
please don't give me leverage she's like here's she's like here's the leverage they're like no i can't
01:51:15.140
have it let me give the state more leverage you know what i mean like that you know but it's it's
01:51:22.300
actually quite funny because i was chatting to a girl recently right um who had like a few dealings
01:51:27.380
and everything and she was telling me about a girl that like uh that found herself a husband
01:51:33.020
and she was serial dating and and what she was doing like two or three dates in a day right like
01:51:39.520
fucking crazy like coffee here coffee there and then like dinner date or like whatever
01:51:42.920
and she went from sleeping with like guys on the first date to five six seven day after five six
01:51:49.460
seven dates but what was a funny bit was a couple of times she found herself with a guy that she made
01:51:55.160
him wait for like the six or seven day but he was so shit not afterwards well she basically she didn't
01:52:01.680
want to see him but it was so obvious that it was about the sex and and the girl i was seeing was
01:52:06.520
just saying to her like so imagine you basically wasted fucking six days to know that he was shit in bed
01:52:10.900
like you both wasted your time and she was nowhere near a good girl that girl that was basically
01:52:17.400
making six seven dates wait so really you won't i'll give you some men are like begging to be fooled
01:52:24.160
yeah do you know what i mean like some men it's like they want to take an l on some sub psychological
01:52:30.980
level i can't describe it but it's like every time a guy tells me his wife is different i'm like okay
01:52:37.140
i'm like no no no no i'm like let's explore this when did you meet her oh so you didn't know her in
01:52:44.600
high school you didn't know her in college oh she just moved and i'm like come on guys like come on
01:52:51.640
okay sorry go ahead no no but i've got i've got like i've got a good insight for for for guys in
01:52:57.540
order to know how experienced she is okay go ahead so normally like when you bring a girl back right
01:53:04.500
like whatever time you know you'll you'll deal with a lot of no we can't do this tonight oh you know
01:53:10.640
like do all the all the bullshit like you know like pretending that you know like are we gonna do
01:53:15.540
this type of stuff so all that false plausible deniability or even something called last man
01:53:20.820
resistance kind of like she just say no just so that it doesn't appear it's too easy type of stuff
01:53:24.600
when she says no look at how confident she says no is she awkward or she does that with like
01:53:32.920
a strong confidence because the girl that do that with a lot of confidence they've been there way many
01:53:40.880
time for her not to feel awkward about shutting down the guy when they're let's say in the right
01:53:46.640
vicinity to operate the girl that is a bit awkward and everything has not found herself in that
01:53:51.000
situation that much and that's something that i've i've noticed and i was discussing that with other
01:53:55.940
guys and it's like it's so fucking like such a great indicator but also if you want to look at as
01:54:02.120
well like you if you want to kind of like get an idea of how high her body count is whatever look at
01:54:08.020
how long she's been single look at how high is a sex drive and uh look at how long uh um you know
01:54:14.560
like um what do you call it so hi is a sex drive how long she's been single and always ask different
01:54:19.940
question about you know like just you leave the information you say for example you talk about your
01:54:24.320
what you've done show that to her that you're not that you you really don't care you really don't
01:54:29.940
care right like about your you know about body count and you're not judgmental and then she'll tell
01:54:34.160
you about different stories and then you start you know collating the information then you get
01:54:39.060
you can get a good ballpark idea of where it's at how many bodies do you calculate for every year she's
01:54:44.980
single oh my god i mean i did i did econometrics that's cool i never thought i would actually use
01:54:52.040
that um but anyway uh um well just for me i'll just say one every two the one every two months
01:55:00.340
like if she's been single on average i'd say one every two months if for like say a period of
01:55:04.480
singledom like let's say two years and actually a lot of the puas say that yeah really that's not
01:55:10.060
the that's not the first time i've heard that one every two months oh but yeah you see i didn't even
01:55:15.500
know that most of the puas said that goes to show right i've heard it before but yeah and also
01:55:21.320
another key indicator for me and um the more i mean the thing is it's like it's not as good an
01:55:26.920
indicator but the more introverted she is the more um the less likely she's going to have one right
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but dating apps makes it easier for introverted people but still however i'll tell you something
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and that's something the the best the best girl game she has like how good of a game she has
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the higher likelihood she has a high body count
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but to be honest i'll tell you it's like a lot of times girls don't have a high body count because
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they don't like sex that much so it's like you go to a go to a girl but you're like yeah great
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she has no body count then you end up in a dead bedroom because you decide to go for a girl that
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doesn't like sex do you know what i know a guy in in london there was a guy who waited till he was
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married and that's what he found out his wife just had a very low sex drive and so that he
01:56:13.140
married her and then she like did not want to have sex with him like she did it like once and
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then she just wouldn't want to do it again so yeah it's kind of like a roll of the dice but that that
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was a good one the awkward with the no that's true yeah yeah and by the way i just want to say to dog
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i think that's actually really good like those uh three level of gaslight kind of like good faith
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bad faith and kind of like deflecting accountability uh yeah i like i like the way you put it the
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level three is because there's some level of lying we just kind of do subconsciously
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but level three is you are lying you're purposely doing it and you are like you're making the wrong
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decision yeah yeah so the thing about female manipulation is guys that people manipulate and
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think that they're um they're satisfying that women need to manipulate but that never goes away like
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ever yes the thing is a lot of time women just want control yep i agree yeah um crazy do you think that
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have you ever been in a relationship where a woman did not use any of the manipulation tactics
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i mean to be honest it's like to me i the thing is my view on manipulation is not black and white
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okay it's because it's natural for each and every one of us to manipulate but sometimes with a good
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intention sometimes with bad intention sometimes we just um we're just not even aware as you were
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saying yeah right so for me the way i look at girl whenever i deal with a girl all i look at is is she
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of good faith is she of bad faith because people will draw and think that actions will tell everything
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but if you don't know where the action is coming from you don't know if whether she's stupid
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or whether she is really mean yeah so so so so it's about like i don't look at oh my god she's
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manipulating it's like i think that manipulation is part of you know it's part of human interactions
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so i so it's like if you think that you know you want a girl that never manipulates you well
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you're never gonna find one you're never gonna find one even seduction is manipulation
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that's what i always try to reiterate is women are women i don't care if you're in africa asia
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london i mean you're in london you see the international range of the women that come here
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um it's just there's no way around it women are women even in different time periods there was like
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books written about women's manipulation in 1900 you know yeah god but even even even guys
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manipulate but they don't even know like for example when a guy is doing nice things to a girl
01:59:11.400
that's his way of trying to manipulate her to do is what is it what you want what you uh what he
01:59:15.500
wants her to do yeah like you're in a relationship the guy doesn't get any sex and then he's trying
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to basically you know be nicer in order to get the sex well that's poor manipulation first
01:59:25.040
second still manipulation yeah i agree i agree um well doug mpa you get any other questions for him
01:59:32.640
no i um we'll have to we're going to cover all sorts of different topics that look like this so
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you need to call in because you hit on a lot of good yeah and just right to the point man oh my
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goodness thanks for calling yeah his great his twitter is really good i'm telling you guys you
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really should check out that ai what is it again what is so it's called ask chad ai um but where
01:59:57.360
can they get it it's in your twitter bio so it's on my bio it's on my bio so technically so look uh you
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can get straight to the website i mean look i can send you the website uh you can put in your video
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description is ask dash chad dot ai can you yeah put it in the private chat and then yeah okay give
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me a sec i'll put it in the youtube chat yeah okay perfect i'm telling you this ai is so funny like
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that i i just remember i was asking it questions and it was like don't send that
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i was so funny like i i wish i could because this was like a month or so ago but i just remember i
02:00:40.180
was asking it questions and i was like cracking up yeah i mean sometimes you even call like i had a
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client he called him like a fucking weak ass bitch and i was like he was like what
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i thought i made the ai exactly he paid you for your ai to call him a weak ass
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all right so hold on i see that there's this channel call me a fucking boomer but like give
02:01:05.600
me a sec uh there's this chat message to everyone no no so how do i get um
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uh you know what where can i send it hold on i see pearl davis meeting
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okay fine hold on let's see yeah if you can i'm a little chat thing yeah yeah
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doug mp would you mind putting it in like the description or comment section one or the other
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yeah i'll do it so but yeah guys follow him on twitter he's got some good tweets
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i'm being shadow banned so my my post don't really get my
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people your twitter in the private chat too oh here i i i got it yeah i got it for you
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yeah okay i got it oh thank thank you pearl yeah thanks for coming on come on anytime all right
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perfect well look uh and whenever there's a subject let me know i'll just pop in and uh
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happy to meet you doug and really nice uh gaslight uh breakdown all right we'll see ya
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yeah good talking to you buddy what a great guest yeah no i'm telling you there's some of the best
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people on twitter um because i really enjoy the the different puas like i love see i love the
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stories i just am very entertained by them so sometimes i'll tell them to call in go ahead
02:02:28.580
so he's french but he lives in in in the uk yeah
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so i'm putting in the chat and then i'll after this show i'll put it in
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in the description too well this was a fun show do you have fun i had fun today
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yeah you know and uh i'm interested to see where this music thing goes because you're doing really
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good at at the beginning it's really good especially for for off the top of the dome good job yeah i well
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i kind of want to start the show where they give me they get maybe one day we'll all write a hit song
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together you know where they give me like um words and i could just write it because i i really enjoy
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doing that it's fun um okay guys make sure you like the video thanks doug and pa you got any final thoughts
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in my opinion the best way to avoid female gaslighting manipulation is just um
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you got one of the best things as a man you can do because men we accumulate um
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monetary well we accumulate things for the sake of others because because men are benevolent
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but when you're dealing with women and manipulation and gaslighting just learn how to say no early on
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whatever she wants just say no and just keep all your stuff to yourself to prove it otherwise
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so that's how i get around female manipulation just say no
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nope and then if they're crazy they'll crash out like the video guys subscribe
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um thanks for watching and i'll see you next time bye-bye