JustPearlyThings - June 27, 2023


@ModernLifeDating Admits This On The Show


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In this episode, the lads discuss honesty in the dating world and how important it is to have a woman that tells you the truth about her sexual past and how to deal with a woman who lies to you about it.

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00:00:00.000 it's worse what would you say is worse a woman that says her body counts 15 and lies about it 1.00
00:00:07.440 or a woman that says her body counts 20 and tells you the truth truth every time oh the truth yeah
00:00:11.280 exactly what kids are saying truth every time because you know i think you know you know i
00:00:14.400 think it's a factor yeah i think in regards to women and men yeah we can all women can say oh
00:00:19.600 i want a guy that's you know six six figures uh strong masculine da da da da guys can be like i
00:00:24.640 want a woman that's feminine but i do believe that some areas you can increase the percentage enough
00:00:29.360 yeah that some other areas don't become as important well you know let's say but yeah for
00:00:33.600 example yeah i think if a woman's femininity yeah and a woman's honesty and a woman's like roles of 1.00
00:00:39.200 how to be a good wife or a good girlfriend or something are just up the charts all the time
00:00:44.080 i really think there's plenty of guys not most but plenty of guys that will be like you know what yeah
00:00:49.760 she is there about that but she's no i do love it all like she makes me feel like that's like a man
00:00:55.360 i'll add on to that i i recently met a girl in miami when i was on one of these podcasts and we had
00:01:00.960 just gotten into the conversation talking about exes and past because she knows what i do for a living
00:01:06.400 and she we talked about whatever and she was very open with me and like you know it was like some
00:01:11.920 people would consider a high body count but she was also stunningly gorgeous honest with me successful 0.92
00:01:20.000 like successful i don't care about a woman's money and shit but the fact that she was successful 1.00
00:01:24.160 lets me know that she has a fucking brain yeah and she was physically fit and she was just such 1.00
00:01:28.960 like she's so gorgeous and like a great communicator i was just like damn bro i like
00:01:34.240 fucking like this girl you know what i mean like you can overlook that's it but the thing is the 0.91
00:01:39.440 number one thing guys look for in a relationship i think women look for this too is somebody you can
00:01:44.000 trust yeah somebody you can call if there's trouble out there and then if you if the thing is this
00:01:50.080 because it's not about sex it's not about luck it's not about money it's all that it's about
00:01:54.240 damn like if the shit goes down yeah your woman is number two in your life like you like she like 0.99
00:02:00.000 your your your business your cause your duty is number one and and number two is the woman like 1.00
00:02:04.720 can i rely on you can i call you three o'clock in the morning if i've been falsely accused and i need
00:02:08.880 bail money you know what i mean you know what john as well like i think and tell me what you think
00:02:14.320 but you know you said about when when a girl's lied to you about her sexual past that less that
00:02:19.360 level of disgust right yeah i think a massive part of that is because a man's worst fear of raising
00:02:26.160 kids that aren't his yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah oh yeah yeah worst fear right raising a child that
00:02:31.520 isn't his so and oh at the time that that would happen is when uh is when a woman lies about her 1.00
00:02:37.200 sexual past because she says you're the father and you're actually not the father no that's the
00:02:40.880 that's disgusting that's the psychological underpinning isn't it yeah yeah i think that's
00:02:45.040 one of the elements of it though i think there's there's like there's that as well that yo father
00:02:49.840 but i think there's that there's just that hefty element of wait there so let me get this straight
00:02:55.520 yeah you with your chest were willing to say oh wait there he hasn't clucked on yet ah yeah
00:03:03.680 so how long can i play this game for because you have to remember that there's a difference between
00:03:06.800 if a woman lies to you for two seconds like let's say what happened there that's okay she lied to us 1.00
00:03:10.400 but we're not going to feel like idiots but then let's say that we go three years it's not just
00:03:14.800 about if she tells you the truth at the end of the fears you have to think what else did she lie
00:03:18.160 about what else is there and then it becomes again she sustained that character throughout the three
00:03:22.480 years it becomes a thing of like it becomes a thing of like your own imagination is the measurement
00:03:27.200 because at least okay cool let's say you say to someone this girl's got a body count of 30. 1.00
00:03:31.200 a lot quite a lot of people could be like oh wait there that's too high um others could be like you
00:03:35.040 know what yeah that's fine for me i'm calm with that number yeah but when it's a game of imagination
00:03:39.120 yes when you can't that's now a thing of my number is 70 so i'm thinking it could be 70.
00:03:44.560 no and then that's that's what happened to me so then in addition to that after i found out the
00:03:49.600 truth through a number of inconsistencies because i'm smart like i made a multi-million dollar business
00:03:56.560 like i'm not lying from a hoe i could figure that shit out yeah like so you know i i how did it take a 0.98
00:04:03.600 year of that dude dude i'm not gonna lie because i was too busy i was just too busy that was the
00:04:09.520 time i was dating three girls oh and then oh you can't even my daughter no actually the reality i was
00:04:14.560 dating five but i was only taking three seriously but you know that that that and then life is my life
00:04:22.240 it was a hoe face but no i want to add on to that real quick it's just that when when you spot that 0.94
00:04:31.040 one lie then the relationship is tainted because she's like she's like oh you know i gotta work
00:04:35.840 late but she's sucking some dick you know even though she does have to work late and it just 1.00
00:04:40.240 with your head but on both sides too for the men do men don't mention lie women should lie because 1.00
00:04:45.280 it with your head and you're just like you can't even focus on the person in front of you you can't
00:04:50.400 focus on your duty your business your fitness whatever the case may be you're even in the
00:04:55.040 relationship with her because she's gonna start to say you have to remember that a woman's emotions 0.95
00:04:59.520 play vital factors towards the the overall the reality yes overall the relationship so it's like
00:05:05.840 if she's seeing that you're disgusted in her yeah that's gonna play a role yeah if she's seeing
00:05:10.400 that oh wait you don't want to touch me no more you don't want to hold me you don't want to be
00:05:14.160 intimate with me in any type of way that now is going to affect what she now does and you see
00:05:18.480 some females yeah out of insecurity could just be like okay i need to feel love right now let me 1.00
00:05:22.480 just go to my ex yeah i need to feel like i need to go let me let me and most women cheat with an 1.00
00:05:26.480 axe yeah so yeah so that's that's i'd like i'd like is there is that is that could i just make one
00:05:32.560 other thing though is there is there the possibility that like it's more about not lying than it is about
00:05:38.480 how much you reveal yes because because it's not like we're giving the impression like on the first or
00:05:43.760 second day you're going to be sitting down going right well my body count is yeah 100 yeah like we i i
00:05:48.320 wouldn't expect her and i wouldn't ask exactly yeah yeah i wouldn't even you know what is your
00:05:52.960 what is your number what's your body like i wouldn't get into that conversation however
00:05:56.960 what you want to avoid is somebody who's actively lying about it you know if you meet a woman and
00:06:01.280 she's like oh yeah you know because the trust is damaged the trust like the backbone of all relationships
00:06:08.240 friendships business love it is all trust and the number one way to damage trust is with a lie
00:06:16.320 and you know you don't you know when you said revealing yeah like for example i feel like we're
00:06:20.000 all the same where we're on the face first date we'd never say to a woman first thing what's your
00:06:24.000 body count yeah i don't think that's a thing that would all say however in regards to the revealing
00:06:27.760 thing we are we're all intelligent males females we're all intelligent creatures i'm going to be able
00:06:33.040 to see what you're not saying i'm going to be able to see what you're not putting forward i'm going to
00:06:38.320 be able to see when you're kind of skipping around we were able to do with her within the space of two
00:06:41.920 two minutes yeah so it's like in a relationship over the space of a year i'm gonna like why didn't
00:06:46.560 you tell me that you you did do a gangbang why did you why why did you tell me that oh wait you're
00:06:54.320 still friends with your ex and i had to find out because i saw a notification button on your phone
00:06:58.000 why did like why didn't you tell me about the pakaki party it's like i feel like i feel like a woman
00:07:03.760 not saying something is as bad as them saying something if it is a lie i'm trying it's called lying by
00:07:08.320 admission isn't it i'm trying to find the stat but it's like i think 50 of men will ask your body
00:07:15.840 count well that's a lot i just don't think you should ask i personally yeah i don't know it's just
00:07:21.680 no because i'm saying we all want to know that don't get i don't want to find the stat don't get
00:07:25.680 interested we all want to know but we're not all one i wouldn't want to ask i don't ask but you
00:07:32.880 know you don't want to say why well kit wanted to ask a question to the panel well it kind of
00:07:36.960 shift gears but i wanted to ask what do you think is something men lie about in the beginning what's
00:07:41.760 the equivalent that men would like our intention money yeah actually i'll tell you a story i'll
00:07:47.840 tell you a story of a guy that came on the show you know he was talking about um his business right
00:07:54.320 and then um he was like saying he makes six figures from it and like grabs like oh cool like i just
00:08:00.720 i'm just like i just believe people but i have uh producers that maybe sense cat more than more than
00:08:07.120 i do yeah we looked up the business it was dissolved oh yeah i would say we looked up the
00:08:13.840 actual business i would say i think the majority guys a lot well they i think they insinuate
00:08:19.200 about sexual performance oh yeah yeah i like they don't they're like oh girl i'm gonna
00:08:26.880 the shit out of you not like that but i think they like gas it up to me they gas it about i don't know 0.57
00:08:32.160 what because i don't like i'm so successful now like i'm so terrified when i go on these new dates
00:08:37.840 yeah i lead with all my shitty points yeah i'm like i have anger problems 0.54
00:08:45.520 i should do that i'll be like i'll go through your phone
00:08:49.760 you know i think men lie about like most commonly in society though i think most men
00:08:55.440 lie about their intention of because we're talking about first uh yeah yeah yeah
00:09:00.480 we're not talking about yeah yeah yeah that's good that's good the first intention the reason why is
00:09:04.240 because all of us as men let us be honest anytime you see a female you're attracted to that you would
00:09:11.600 you want you want to have sex with her now don't get twisted you can have you can have sexual restraint 0.98
00:09:15.840 or you could be in a relationship where you don't even desire anyone else anymore but i'm talking about
00:09:19.520 you first see the woman that you actually like there's going to be a sexual arousal to some degree
00:09:23.920 like to some degree at least you may also be stimulated by her mental her mentality so and so forth
00:09:28.880 but there's a oh if she said would you like to have sex right now and she's the girl that i like 0.67
00:09:34.400 would i say no to that not a lot of men will say no but the thing is that if you go to a first
00:09:39.040 date and a woman says what is your intention with me now you three are dating coaches right
00:09:44.800 you've gone you've been on many many many many dates are you telling me that every
00:09:50.000 british constitution because i need this fifth
00:09:54.640 you guys have been on many many dates yeah so you're telling me that let's say you've dated 50 between
00:09:59.520 all of you guys you're telling me each time you wanted to know about her mentality you wanted to
00:10:04.080 know about copy i'll be honest and you guys tell me that straight away i'll be honest with you i used
00:10:08.960 to be if a girl was attractive if she was hot yeah like yeah i would but hold on but now but but i 1.00
00:10:15.200 think when you've got when you've had enough experience with women to a certain degree you
00:10:20.640 realize even if it's just a casual thing you are still spending time with them yeah you're still
00:10:24.720 investing time yeah so even if i'm even if i was only in a place where i'm looking for something
00:10:29.440 casual it's still important to me to like who she is as a person the point i'm making though is that
00:10:34.400 it's not that i'm coming from a casual perspective i'm coming from a first intrusive thought of when
00:10:38.960 you see them the first thought of because you have to remember yeah from a prime you don't know if you
00:10:43.680 want something serious because you don't know exactly but you're still attracted so because you're still
00:10:48.080 attracted you're going to have the the thing that's great that's that's the fuel that's making you
00:10:53.200 gravitate towards what's the what's the question i'm saying yeah that like what's the most common
00:10:57.760 thing that guys will lie about on their first date now the intention could be i think it is intention
00:11:03.440 like a guy's like a right she's like oh yeah i'm looking for a relationship like i'm definitely
00:11:07.920 so honest whenever any okay cool men that go on these these these these pornography sites these these
00:11:13.760 talk to these women so and so forth you really think that they're not going it without with a sexual 0.99
00:11:18.000 not motive but a sexual fueling beforehand before they even get to that scenario