@ModernLifeDating The 3 Red Flags In Women
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the red flags you can look out for in a potential partner and how to spot them. We also talk about what to look for and what to avoid when dating someone who is a virgin.
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i'm sorry like you cannot it takes two to tangle i won't yeah i will not deal with this like
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narrative that oh it's only him that's toxic you're doing toxic shit she just got toxic right
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here well because but when you think when you think about it you're supposed to listen to your
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man right so like you're supposed like you're not supposed to argue with hey pearl can i ask a
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question as well didn't she say that because i don't believe that as well anyone when she was
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speaking about her boyfriend uh about oh yeah it was three years ago then we found out it's a
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whole different ex now i know i caught that too yeah how many exes were there what's the what's the
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i caught that too because she was like she was like 22 and then she said oh 18 i was with him for
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you i was like three years and then now you're 26 it could be it could be a thing she was like she
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couldn't they could have broken up when she was like well she said it and a half she said it coherent
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she said it like in one line she didn't mention she didn't say oh that was that ex by the way this
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other ex she literally just said oh yeah and when i was 23 18 your experience what does that mean
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when women are like miss whatever the ex what is that what is that well when they miss their ex
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no no when they're like the details of the timelines are off like when you're like when
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your experience what does that typically mean well i think she's lying but i'm asking like why
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okay you have any so okay it's very simple okay first okay here's a couple red flags i picked
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up one number one she's a woman no i'm just joking
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And it's that face you're doing, which is looking like this.
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And then number three, okay, you don't have to sit there and think and remember about the truth.
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And so when she had to sit back and, like, remember the truth, I was just like, oh, I don't know.
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And then Kit, with the KO punch, was like, wait a minute.
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And she was like, fuck you and your actor award, motherfuckers.
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I was just like, do you remember that conversation?
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She was your biggest friend of your biggest enemy in the same hour.
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I think when I met her, she said my suit was nice on the balcony.
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She said something about my suit on the balcony.
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In your experience, like, what are they hiding?
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Because women are smart enough to know how they're perceived.
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They're definitely know when a camera's on them.
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Did you notice how as well, though, she said, oh, we shouldn't be talking about this.
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Because I thought, you know, your second point.
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I thought that the reason she paused was because she didn't.
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She felt uncomfortable with revealing, like, talking about her sexuality like that on a public forum.
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And when you ask the questions they don't like, then they don't want to talk about it.
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But then that leads on to what we're talking about with how a lot of men will leave their actions.
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I really think that what I saw early on was a gigantic emotional response.
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A defense mechanism along with a lot of emotions mixed in.
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Well, and the girl that came on that I actually, like, believe was a virgin.
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Could you just, because I haven't seen that episode in it.
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Was it the one who wore glasses, wore a mask because she didn't want to be on show?
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No, she was just really, she was really, I think she was on Fresh and Fit once, too.
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I think she was kind of, like, she didn't even want to say that she was a virgin.
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Like, she wasn't even trying to put it out there like that.
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Like, why would you be hesitant to release that information?
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But, I mean, all of us here, obviously, we're all non-virgins, right?
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She's like, don't fucking tell that shit to me.
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I love the way MLD's suit always comes into this, though.
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So, like, if you mean it's your flanker, it's because I love it deep down.
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Like, when a woman's arguing with you, they'll try to get you where it hurts.
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And she was like, when you're logically making a point, she's like, yeah, well, that's why you're
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fake teeth in your suit sucking fucking socks, you know?
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And you don't get triggered by, you know, like, lies, isn't she?
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You get triggered by when somebody hits the truth.
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If she said that her body count was full, I wouldn't care.
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I think it's because, and I'm not saying this is what she was lying about, but I think
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it's because as a Muslim or someone who wants to be perceived as a Muslim, and this
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is a public forum, there is a level of appearance and reputation I think she wants to keep.
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If you meet a girl that's 25, like, that's 25, you're expecting, even if she...
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Whatever religion, you're expecting, she's a virgin.
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And I wanted to tell her, too, like, for me personally, like, if a girl has Snapchat,
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For me personally, like, you're just on a platform that deletes all evidence.
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Like, and then, no, like, come on, you're on, and then, and like, you're not even a social
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She did say that she is YouTubing and trying to get back into it, and like, you know, she
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I'm to the point, I've been doing these shows for so long.
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If I tell you something once and you don't listen, I'm just, I'm not dealing with it.
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I want to ask chat if they think she's a virgin or not once we open the chat.
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I think that whole thing's a contradiction to some degree, though.
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I'm not saying that she's, for a fact, not a virgin.
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And she also has to maintain a certain image to society.
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So, I'm in a Muslim society now, and I'm not a virgin.
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I have to appear this way, but I want to live this way.
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Imagine a girl who, for example, let's say she has a heavily promiscuous past.
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He doesn't, because he doesn't move in the streets like that.
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Let's say he's from a Muslim background, right?
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He's only ever been with maybe one or two girls.
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And if she can avoid him finding out about that, right?
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She's as good as a virgin because he will take her as a wife, et cetera, et cetera.
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And this is something that definitely, you know, girls have told me of their friends,
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Then a guy they met who was a really good guy, only been with one or two people, good
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So, obviously, her disclosing any kind of information, right, to the future man, if
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he stumbled upon this channel, he stumbled upon this episode, he'd be like, what the
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If you're going on a podcast where you're going to be talking about dating, you're going to
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Yeah, like, well, I'm putting things, like, like, they don't say that this is entirely
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about dating, but this is a very common topic on this show.
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Do you know that girl straighter, right, got thrown off the whatever podcast?
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One of the best of these girls, you know, debate girls.
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No, I think it was a different one, but she got thrown off because they asked her if she
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was a virgin and she wouldn't answer the question.
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And then in the end, they threw her off the podcast.
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And people were saying, well, the thing is, like, you knew you were coming onto a dating
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You knew you were probably going to get asked that.
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The whole, I mean, all of the symptoms she was emitting were not one of a virgin.
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Virgin women are, like, very coy, naive, like, very-
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I was sensing the trauma of past relationships when I was watching Express.
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Like, I really pay attention to people's body language and so on and so forth.
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I mean, when she was speaking to you, that was one.