JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023


Most Female Dating Coaches Are Lying To You


Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

175.44867

Word count

2,242

Sentence count

4

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

sentences flagged

Hate speech

5

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Summary

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In this episode we talk about how to deal with a cheating husband and how to handle a cheating wife. We also talk about why it s so important to have a good relationship with your spouse and how important it is to respect their needs and wants.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
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00:00:00.000 a lot of stuff like some of you guys kind of say it sounds nice and it works well in theory like
00:00:06.640 raise your standards but it only works well like if you have anything to offer a guy and most
00:00:14.080 modern women don't like how many modern women have cookbooks how many modern women are virgins 1.00
00:00:19.440 beans on toast
00:00:20.400 which is like it doesn't mean you're a bad person or anything but it's just like
00:00:30.720 um you know it's like you're you're asking for bmw prices when you're used honda civic
00:00:36.160 how many buyers you gonna get and if you do get a buyer you know damn well you scam the man
00:00:42.320 and all these girls and and then them them particular girls you're talking about if you
00:00:46.080 ask them would you rate yourself out of 10. i'm a 10. like 12 actually don't forget it
00:00:52.640 it's mad i break the scale that's what they say
00:00:55.920 would you bring or the worst one you ask them what do you bring to the table i am the table
00:01:00.400 like just delusion wait wait that would be really funny that what's his name derek
00:01:05.120 if he rated people like his fans oh that would be good that would be really good
00:01:10.000 i mean he's gonna say yeah yeah you guys are tense yeah yeah yeah he has to literally say
00:01:15.200 everyone's a 10. you literally have to i oh my god i would kill to get that man on a show
00:01:21.680 uh i i'm not after this no i think it'd be funny like i don't know i feel like you can make some
00:01:28.160 funny content no it'd be good interesting good store i would ask him i'd be like why are you simping
00:01:34.480 like what are you doing here i don't think he'd come on i don't know i just have a feeling
00:01:39.840 the heat will be too much um do the next clip blessing
00:01:56.160 is there anyone you can think of who's a bigger simp than derek jackson
00:02:07.600 this next person or the one we're about to watch later oh you think he's bigger
00:02:12.720 no i don't i don't think he is i don't know
00:02:18.160 i mean there's more simps out there trust me
00:02:22.160 once you see it you cannot see it i'm about to ruin so many dating
00:02:35.200 she losing and that applies here secondly i get it it's like well she's taking everything
00:02:42.000 i invested into him no she ain't she about to take everything he was using to stress you out 0.95
00:02:46.800 while blaming it on you she just don't know it yet and it seems like he's able to give her
00:02:51.520 you know all of these different fruits of of your labor you know all of this good treatment this
00:02:55.840 money whatever he was only able to do that because he was giving you the rest of him he was giving her
00:03:00.880 the best while giving you the rest now that she's in your spot he about to give her the rest he's
00:03:06.080 about to give her all of that depression he was projecting onto you because he don't need no
00:03:10.720 therapist that's what she about to get that's all she's taking from you she's taking his criticism
00:03:15.280 whenever his money get low she's about to take on all of that neglect those excuses how little that he 0.66
00:03:21.360 was willing to help you around the house and but whenever he took out the trash once a week he
00:03:25.200 wanted to be treated like a cane that's what she about to get she again she just don't know it yet 1.00
00:03:29.760 everything that he was blaming on you she about to realize you were not the problem and on top of
00:03:34.720 that she's no longer the new toy and he still needs that spot feel now that she's taking on yours
00:03:40.720 he still needs that spot feel because we're not talking about a guy that made his mistakes he did
00:03:45.040 us wrong but you know he wants to make it right he's repentant no we're talking about a guy that
00:03:49.360 stepped out moved out and he don't see nothing wrong with it man what that girl took from you
00:03:55.920 was a blessing to you you need to be thanking her and somebody need to be praying for her because she next
00:04:08.240 i have a feeling that he is he talking to anybody is this like from like a show or anything
00:04:13.680 i don't know michael you gotta i don't know what he's saying i don't know he always i have a feeling
00:04:19.360 that he's like sitting in his room acting like he's talking to somebody but he's not talking to
00:04:23.920 anybody but it's the corner of the room yeah is it again i was like is this you are you just exposing
00:04:30.720 yourself by saying all this stuff it i want to know what what people he knows because i've it's just like
00:04:41.120 mind-blowing at the stuff he's saying because it doesn't it doesn't seem realistic the things
00:04:46.880 that he's saying i'm like do people that you know really act like this and are really doing these
00:04:53.200 things or are you or was this just your story and you're just portraying as it's somebody that you
00:04:59.680 know imagine being his wife like hearing him talk she's like you don't help around the house 1.00
00:05:07.600 that was you you took the trash out once and you wanted to be treated like a king
00:05:12.240 the rest of you you was streaming depression on me it was you hey by his own logic his wife should 0.79
00:05:19.440 have left him by his own logic she did yeah but i mean indefinitely yeah by his logic divorced like so
00:05:27.600 he's just saying anything again you know do as i say not as i do he's just he's just crap i think 0.89
00:05:33.600 he's just playing he just knows what sells he knows he can just drum up the audience he can get
00:05:38.240 his subscribers it's very come on it's really shadow he's doing what he's preaching himself so
00:05:44.240 and he says a lot in in the video it's not it's not really a quick video he's saying a lot of things
00:05:49.200 so all it is is women feel good women feel good it's not your fault it's the man's fault yeah bro like
00:05:55.280 it's it's a trick has he ever done a video like opposite where he's like trying to balance out
00:06:00.640 you know the field and i don't know even out i don't think so never all the i've seen is simp
00:06:07.680 simp jeez simp i have not seen it's really like offensive to men like even the therapy
00:06:14.240 and all that stuff like that's a sensitive topic that's why no one don't like him yeah
00:06:17.760 you never hear those guys say yes derrick come on his wife's in the background probably saying i
00:06:24.320 told you to get therapy you narcissist that's funny yo she should come out with her own channel 1.00
00:06:30.960 wife derrick jackson's wife tells all yeah she could just give dating advice and not say his name
00:06:39.280 how to spot a narcissist yeah come on i knew somebody that went through this aka me
00:06:44.400 if you're ever in this situation i mean he made money off of her that's true i do have a question
00:06:53.680 for the ladies uh derrick said something in his uh first video about the realistic uh qualities that
00:07:03.760 a man wants for a woman and he was talking about oh we want our um or unrealistic sorry we want our
00:07:11.600 woman to cook clean and then um have sex with us and then cook his dinner if a man was a pain 1.00
00:07:20.560 everything for you and all he asked for you was to cook clean make sure everything's straight at the
00:07:27.040 house take care of the kids and then pleasure him would you think that's an unrealistic ask of him to
00:07:34.880 do you do no no no no i don't think so either okay that's a very healthy man woman relationship
00:07:42.720 that's it what if he wasn't paying all the bills do you still think that that's okay
00:07:50.880 um if it's like so um obviously we're doing like half and half bills or whatever
00:07:57.520 yeah 50 50 i feel like hmm with that i think there should be more roles for the both of us then
00:08:08.960 like more equal roles um if we're both making that if we're both paying bills or it's like even even 50
00:08:16.560 50 whatever um i think we should both be taking on more roles or i would trying to balance it more i
00:08:24.320 guess you could say so i would say it it depends on the type of the type of like one who's ever home
00:08:34.960 more but the type of job that the woman may have because i feel like nowadays a lot of people can work 1.00
00:08:43.120 from home but i see that more men still go into work so if the wife is working from home she can do 1.00
00:08:53.280 the job and still do xyz and then still be ready for her man when she come home 1.00
00:09:01.360 don't you think that men do things like fixing stuff around the house 0.99
00:09:06.160 and like they're expected to like fix things mow the lawn yeah so then even if it's 50 50 shouldn't
00:09:11.920 we still be expected to do those things oh yeah i think so i would but i don't want you to be
00:09:18.960 looking i don't want to be exhausted it has to kind of balance like if i'm meeting you a bit
00:09:23.920 halfway i still i'm still because i'm a woman and that's just in me anyway like i'm not going to
00:09:29.120 stop being a homemaker do you understand what i mean but obviously i'm not i don't want to be doing
00:09:34.720 all of it and i'm completely tired and there you can help me do you understand because then i'm going
00:09:40.560 to feel like i'm being taken advantage of do you think men would say the same thing for like you
00:09:45.680 know fixing stuff around the house mowing the lawn yard work maybe not maybe not maybe not
00:09:52.560 i think that's still like a balance um because if he's like mowing the lawn and doing work around
00:09:57.600 the house right so then she would be doing laundry washing dishes and doing you know whatever else 1.00
00:10:02.880 there's still that balance there unless for real i feel like i don't normally ask you to mow the
00:10:08.000 lawn and do that job do you know what i mean i feel like our jobs are easier nowadays but yeah i mean we
00:10:16.560 got automated dishwasher dishwasher laundry machine like dryer rice cooker i would i would rather do
00:10:24.400 that i hate mowing the lawn actually i'm not gonna lie i've never mowed the lawn i like mowing the lawn
00:10:32.400 they would fix the cars they would like they would do the boy stuff can i say one thing though yeah
00:10:37.680 something that's very uh underrated by women what is very important protection because at the end of the 1.00
00:10:45.280 day yeah let's say me and you we was in the house we've got kids who's a protector me or you
00:10:53.120 me that's a dangerous job that's a that's a constant job that's a forever job if me and you are outside
00:11:00.560 and somebody tries to violate who's got to be the hero me or you me who's going to risk their life
00:11:05.760 in a dangerous situation me so at the end of the day i listen i agree with you if the if the bills are
00:11:12.400 being like 50 50 then yeah you're going to share some responsibilities but at the end of the day
00:11:17.920 the life or death situation is always going to boil down to the man even if the man is five foot
00:11:23.840 two it's still going to boil down to the man bruv do you get what i'm saying and i think that's
00:11:28.160 very undervalued by women that's a very bro like being a man is a dangerous role in life 1.00
00:11:34.880 there's like vincent's yeah you can be outside with a girl who's good looking right you go to
00:11:41.280 certain venues and everybody knows london is quite dangerous these days yeah bro like you could go to
00:11:45.760 certain venues and guys could be angry at you because you got a good looking girl and want to try you 0.98
00:11:51.600 and potentially want to delete you bruv so i think that girls don't really women just don't really 1.00
00:11:57.840 think about that but you you lot are cognitive of the fact that when you're on your own and when you're
00:12:02.000 out there in the world it's dangerous and stuff like that but when you've actually got a man there
00:12:05.920 that you can rely on that is there for you that you can you know he's going to be your 999 bro like
00:12:12.800 i think women need to understand that and respect that and show more respect to their men for the
00:12:17.280 fact that usually a man will be more willing to risk his life for his as many of you know i was just
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