Most Men Don't Have Real Friends
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Summary
Tristan Tate joins Jemele to talk about his time in jail, how he dealt with the fallout from the Andrew Yang scandal, and how he's dealing with the aftermath of being released from prison. He also talks about his experience with the media and how it affected his life.
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I really respect, I respect, I mean, despite him hating me, I respect Tristan Tate for taking a stand like that because that thing right now, too, I feel like people now are at an all-time high for being snakes and disloyal.
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I just don't think, I don't know, maybe it's because I'm getting older, I'm just wiser, but I haven't, I've never seen so much snakes and shitty people in my life before.
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It shows, like, feminine men, that's like women behavior, like, don't they say, like, women don't have friends because they all hate each other?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, or it's like men will insult each other to their face but be best friends, like, they would never betray each other ever, and it just shows how feminine, like, a lot of the guys are nowadays.
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Yeah, I mean, yeah, I know, I mean, it's just, but it's atrocious, but again, that right there, that loyalty that Tristan is showing Andrew is a great example to young men as well because so many people nowadays, they don't stand for anything.
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They're just in it for themselves, you know, a lot of people, a lot of people would throw Andrew under the bus like that, but thank God he has a good brother like that, and what was Tristan's incentive to do that, you know?
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Nothing but familial love and loyalty to his brother.
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That's a brother for me, and it was the same for me.
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I said to Tristan, if they came in to me, if they Andrew go home, I'd be like, no, no way.
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Tristan's in jail, I'm in jail, we're in jail together.
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He never for a second complained, never bitched, never moaned, and he was only in jail for being my brother, and then I come out, and there's other people, oh, they sent me a piece of paper, blah, blah, blah.
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Like I said, jail confirms everything you already knew about the world, and you truly learn who's on your side and who isn't, and that's good to learn, but it's actually crazy.
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Also, the larger psychological analysis of it all, everyone lives inside their own minds, right?
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I came out of jail, and some of the first messages I got from people was them complaining about the problems me being in jail had given.
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You think, oh, you come out of jail, people would be like, oh, are you okay?
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It's kind of crazy how much everyone's kind of self-interested.
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So it's been a learning curve, and you learn a lot about a lot of different people, and your circle gets smaller.
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And I think that's probably one of the reasons God put me in there, to just learn a lot and make my circle smaller.
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When you had your little fake news drama scandal, did some people that you thought were your friends turn on you during that time?
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Oh, yeah, freaking, freaking, like, MTR, Melanie, they were both like, yeah, both of them.
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I mean, it was more like, she just left, like, a comment saying she's going to, like, burn my studio down.
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She's saying you're going to burn your studio down?
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Yeah, I mean, she didn't make a video or anything, so it's, like, fine.
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No, but it's weird because they were just there, like, a week before.
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And so it's just like, what are you guys doing?
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And, like, then, you know, MTR made the hit piece.
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I mean, just because she's 40, it's like she's still a woman, right?
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She said some things that are pretty smart.
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And then they make a hit piece on me because of a media circus of a video they didn't even watch.
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And they admitted that and then made a whole hit piece on me.
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I'm just glad that this my little fake scandal happened to me by a bunch of like small people.
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But the thing that what has happened though is like I'm glad because, you know, they're a small channel.
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Like how long are people going to sit around and be like fake offended by everything that they.
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But I'm glad it happened because I'm still at an early stage in my YouTube career.
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Because I'm going to take my channel to a million.
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And I'm just glad it happened now because a lot of people in my.
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They're like, oh, well, you know, I saw this and I saw that.
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They didn't say like, what's your side of the story?
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And honestly, when that happens now, I'm just like, OK, peace.
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You know, the crazy thing was, was the one of the people that made a hit piece on me.
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I spoke to them on the phone and, you know, he said he understood what I was set like in the video.
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And then it was like, oh, like I need to stop the bleeding.
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Like, like basically like the audience was too on his neck.
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But, you know, it's, I'm like over it now, but it was.
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It just honestly, like when you date a really, really, really crazy girl, right, your crazy
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And then now I, you know, I have a good heart.
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I thought these people were decent individuals, but I got snaked by a lot of dirty, low IQ
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Because it's like if you're putting it in the group chat, you're not the old, like it's
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like, I don't remember what yours was, but I just, I remember you said something about
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Like one of the things they're like trying to believe moral police was like, I saw like
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a very fat, ugly girl and I was like, how should we kill this chick?
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But you don't know the context of a conversation and that's why, that's why it's so important
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to like, to watch the full video and to watch the full context, but all these reaction channels
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will take a clip and pull shit out of context.
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And it's funny too, like the person that leaked the messages, this guy was.
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He was a thousand times worse than me and everything he said a thousand times, but that's what
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They fricking, they did this reaction where blessing was reading a super chat, but, and
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it was like, it was making fun of one of the people that was here, right.
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That made a hit piece on, and basically they were painting it like blessing said it, but he
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Cause he doesn't watch the space and that's the crazy thing.
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And I was like, you at the time blessing really didn't want to be on camera.
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And I'm like, so you're, you're drawing attention to my producer who, you know, doesn't want
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to be on camera and you know the context because you watch, I'm sure you watch the full thing,
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All this is for these people who are pretending to be these moral arbiters of truth and justice.
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All they're doing is lying and manipulating to make money.
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I mean, how many times have ever impeach been busted for like blatant lies and manipulation?
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Did I tell you that the, what they did with the obese thing?
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Did I tell you how they said I lied about an obesity stat?
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And then when I quote, it's like, and then I gave them the link to the stat that I was
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quoting and now that all they do to their channels is just say, oh, she just makes things up.
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They, they, they said, they said this about me.
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They said that I got rejected by a Japanese girl in a nightclub.
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So I took a champagne bottle and broke it over her face.
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Do you understand how hard you would need to hit somebody with a champagne bottle to break it?
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And as racist as the Japanese are, I would be all over the Japanese news.
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You're not going to be like, oh, like you got to pay a fine.
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Like, no, such a heinous crime would absolutely demand of an American, which they hate us, to be put into prison.
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So it's just like when you think, but you don't, nobody stops to think.
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And the thing is like, when you're watching a video, you don't understand how weird it is in real life to be like doing these things.
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He's like, where did I get the champagne bottle?
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Reaction channels is like, oh, I question your morals.
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I was just thinking like, do you know how weird that is in like real life?
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Like imagine like as a grown, grown ass dude being like, oh, I question your moral.
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Anytime I see a man use the word misogyny or misogynist, I know I cannot trust that guy.
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That guy is a guaranteed snake and I can't trust him.
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It's very, it's just, it's especially the drama channels.
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And like, and they're all old, old people.
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Like just sitting around, that's all we're doing.
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Like, what value are you adding to your filthy audience?