JustPearlyThings - June 01, 2023


Most Men Don't Have Real Friends


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

205.64209

Word Count

2,165

Sentence Count

178

Misogynist Sentences

12

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary

Tristan Tate joins Jemele to talk about his time in jail, how he dealt with the fallout from the Andrew Yang scandal, and how he's dealing with the aftermath of being released from prison. He also talks about his experience with the media and how it affected his life.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I really respect, I respect, I mean, despite him hating me, I respect Tristan Tate for taking a stand like that because that thing right now, too, I feel like people now are at an all-time high for being snakes and disloyal.
00:00:17.100 I just don't think, I don't know, maybe it's because I'm getting older, I'm just wiser, but I haven't, I've never seen so much snakes and shitty people in my life before.
00:00:26.320 It shows, like, feminine men, that's like women behavior, like, don't they say, like, women don't have friends because they all hate each other?
00:00:33.180 Yeah, yeah, yeah, or it's like men will insult each other to their face but be best friends, like, they would never betray each other ever, and it just shows how feminine, like, a lot of the guys are nowadays.
00:00:44.020 Yeah, I mean, yeah, I know, I mean, it's just, but it's atrocious, but again, that right there, that loyalty that Tristan is showing Andrew is a great example to young men as well because so many people nowadays, they don't stand for anything.
00:01:01.580 They're just in it for themselves, you know, a lot of people, a lot of people would throw Andrew under the bus like that, but thank God he has a good brother like that, and what was Tristan's incentive to do that, you know?
00:01:13.080 Nothing but familial love and loyalty to his brother.
00:01:17.280 That's a respectable thing.
00:01:18.980 That's a brother for me, and it was the same for me.
00:01:21.100 I said to Tristan, if they came in to me, if they Andrew go home, I'd be like, no, no way.
00:01:25.520 Tristan's in jail, I'm in jail, we're in jail together.
00:01:27.340 He never for a second complained, never bitched, never moaned, and he was only in jail for being my brother, and then I come out, and there's other people, oh, they sent me a piece of paper, blah, blah, blah.
00:01:37.060 You're moaning?
00:01:38.120 It's unbelievable.
00:01:39.280 You truly learn.
00:01:40.300 Like I said, jail confirms everything you already knew about the world, and you truly learn who's on your side and who isn't, and that's good to learn, but it's actually crazy.
00:01:49.280 Also, the larger psychological analysis of it all, everyone lives inside their own minds, right?
00:01:54.500 So it's kind of crazy.
00:01:55.560 I came out of jail, and some of the first messages I got from people was them complaining about the problems me being in jail had given.
00:02:03.220 Like, you think that wouldn't happen, right?
00:02:05.560 You think, oh, you come out of jail, people would be like, oh, are you okay?
00:02:07.740 They're like, oh, you're okay?
00:02:08.560 You're out now?
00:02:09.100 Okay, yeah, well, listen.
00:02:11.380 You'd be amazed.
00:02:12.420 You'd be amazed.
00:02:13.120 And I'm like, I was in jail.
00:02:15.200 What do you want me to do?
00:02:15.960 Yeah, that sounds unfortunate.
00:02:16.960 I was in a jail cell.
00:02:18.020 What do you want me to do about it?
00:02:19.140 It's kind of crazy how much everyone's kind of self-interested.
00:02:21.620 So it's been a learning curve, and you learn a lot about a lot of different people, and your circle gets smaller.
00:02:27.100 And I think that's probably one of the reasons God put me in there, to just learn a lot and make my circle smaller.
00:02:31.740 When you had your little fake news drama scandal, did some people that you thought were your friends turn on you during that time?
00:02:38.400 Oh, yeah, freaking, freaking, like, MTR, Melanie, they were both like, yeah, both of them.
00:02:46.320 Melanie, too, is no don't.
00:02:47.440 She's done with you?
00:02:48.200 I mean, I don't know.
00:02:49.100 I mean, it was more like, she just left, like, a comment saying she's going to, like, burn my studio down.
00:02:53.600 And I was just like, I know, it was weird.
00:02:56.160 She's saying you're going to burn your studio down?
00:02:57.620 Yeah, I mean, she didn't make a video or anything, so it's, like, fine.
00:03:01.020 I'm not really mad with her.
00:03:02.560 But it's like.
00:03:03.260 Is this fucking woman, like, 40?
00:03:05.720 I don't know.
00:03:06.780 This is odd.
00:03:07.300 She has daughters?
00:03:07.960 She's going to burn your studio.
00:03:09.440 This is an odd thing.
00:03:10.120 Does she not know that arson's a crime?
00:03:12.300 Well, I don't know.
00:03:14.520 I don't know.
00:03:15.300 But it's like.
00:03:16.800 No, but it's weird because they were just there, like, a week before.
00:03:20.000 And so it's just like, what are you guys doing?
00:03:22.840 And, like, then, you know, MTR made the hit piece.
00:03:26.320 And I'm like, you were just here.
00:03:29.840 And then what was the other one?
00:03:31.340 But it's, like, feminine behavior.
00:03:32.960 Like, you expect that from chicks.
00:03:34.380 You know what I mean?
00:03:34.900 Like, you're telling me, like, social.
00:03:36.660 Of course.
00:03:37.400 I mean, just because she's 40, it's like she's still a woman, right?
00:03:40.620 But it's like.
00:03:41.420 I gave her a benefit of the doubt.
00:03:42.420 She said some things that are pretty smart.
00:03:43.800 But that's pretty fucking dumb to say.
00:03:45.820 I'm going to burn you.
00:03:46.840 That's childish.
00:03:47.460 Like, I'm not.
00:03:48.700 It's not.
00:03:49.860 I really don't have smoke with Melody.
00:03:51.840 But it was.
00:03:52.540 Again, at the end of the day, it's like.
00:03:55.600 I don't know.
00:03:56.360 They were just there.
00:03:57.260 We had such a good time.
00:03:58.280 And then they make a hit piece on me because of a media circus of a video they didn't even watch.
00:04:03.060 That was the crazy thing.
00:04:04.140 Was neither of them watched the video.
00:04:06.100 And they made.
00:04:07.100 And they admitted that and then made a whole hit piece on me.
00:04:10.160 And then on top of that, there was.
00:04:12.200 I don't know.
00:04:13.040 Anybody else?
00:04:13.820 I'm trying to remember.
00:04:15.240 I feel like there was like one or two more.
00:04:17.140 But I don't even remember now.
00:04:18.380 I'm just glad that this my little fake scandal happened to me by a bunch of like small people.
00:04:25.100 And not like a gigantic presence because by.
00:04:28.460 Oh, yeah.
00:04:28.860 I guess Abba and Free.
00:04:30.440 They went for you too, didn't they?
00:04:32.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:04:33.300 They did.
00:04:33.740 They did.
00:04:34.280 But the thing that what has happened though is like I'm glad because, you know, they're a small channel.
00:04:39.720 Two million subscribers.
00:04:40.420 And like a dying channel.
00:04:42.400 Like how long are people going to sit around and be like fake offended by everything that they.
00:04:48.380 These pseudo moral police are doing.
00:04:51.220 But I'm glad it happened because I'm still at an early stage in my YouTube career.
00:04:56.100 Because I'm going to take my channel to a million.
00:04:57.800 There's no doubt.
00:04:58.900 And I'm just glad it happened now because a lot of people in my.
00:05:02.960 Like some people in my inner circle.
00:05:05.340 They're so mentally weak.
00:05:07.040 They're like, oh, well, you know, I saw this and I saw that.
00:05:10.680 And I don't know if I could support you.
00:05:11.740 I'm like, you're.
00:05:12.740 They didn't even call me.
00:05:13.640 They didn't say like, what's your side of the story?
00:05:15.700 Can you give me some explanation?
00:05:16.780 Question just immediately turned on me.
00:05:18.780 And honestly, when that happens now, I'm just like, OK, peace.
00:05:23.320 See you later.
00:05:24.000 You know, the crazy thing was, was the one of the people that made a hit piece on me.
00:05:28.320 I spoke to them on the phone and, you know, he said he understood what I was set like in the video.
00:05:33.440 He's like, oh, no, that makes sense.
00:05:34.800 I get it.
00:05:35.240 They're just overblowing it.
00:05:36.380 And then it was like, oh, like I need to stop the bleeding.
00:05:40.520 Like, like basically like the audience was too on his neck.
00:05:43.840 So he has to, but that's what they're doing.
00:05:45.340 They just appease the audience.
00:05:46.900 They just follow the audience.
00:05:48.220 But, you know, it's, I'm like over it now, but it was.
00:05:52.620 I'm glad.
00:05:53.080 It was just.
00:05:54.260 It just honestly, like when you date a really, really, really crazy girl, right, your crazy
00:06:00.040 detector gets like really refined.
00:06:02.100 And so now I get spot crazy from a mile away.
00:06:05.880 And then now I, you know, I have a good heart.
00:06:08.400 I thought these people were decent individuals, but I got snaked by a lot of dirty, low IQ
00:06:14.160 people.
00:06:14.860 Well, that's what we do.
00:06:15.540 We do people leaking group chat messages.
00:06:17.900 Oh my God.
00:06:19.480 Because it's like if you're putting it in the group chat, you're not the old, like it's
00:06:22.560 like, I don't remember what yours was, but I just, I remember you said something about
00:06:25.940 it, like a group chat or something.
00:06:27.420 Like one of the things they're like trying to believe moral police was like, I saw like
00:06:31.800 a very fat, ugly girl and I was like, how should we kill this chick?
00:06:35.700 It was clearly a joke, right?
00:06:37.600 I'm not like planning out homicide.
00:06:39.500 But you don't know the context of a conversation and that's why, that's why it's so important
00:06:43.740 to like, to watch the full video and to watch the full context, but all these reaction channels
00:06:49.480 will take a clip and pull shit out of context.
00:06:52.040 And it's funny too, like the person that leaked the messages, this guy was.
00:06:57.420 He was a thousand times worse than me and everything he said a thousand times, but that's what
00:07:04.020 these people do.
00:07:04.540 They're liars.
00:07:05.120 They're manipulators.
00:07:06.320 Do you know what they did to blessing?
00:07:08.920 Oh my gosh.
00:07:10.480 They fricking, they did this reaction where blessing was reading a super chat, but, and
00:07:16.840 it was like, it was making fun of one of the people that was here, right.
00:07:21.220 That made a hit piece on, and basically they were painting it like blessing said it, but he
00:07:26.800 didn't know the context of the super chat.
00:07:28.880 Cause he doesn't watch the space and that's the crazy thing.
00:07:33.760 And I was like, you at the time blessing really didn't want to be on camera.
00:07:37.060 And I'm like, so you're, you're drawing attention to my producer who, you know, doesn't want
00:07:40.600 to be on camera and you know the context because you watch, I'm sure you watch the full thing,
00:07:45.280 but it's like, I don't know.
00:07:46.320 It's just, and that's why it's dishonest.
00:07:48.160 No, that's what I said.
00:07:48.880 All this is for these people who are pretending to be these moral arbiters of truth and justice.
00:07:57.280 All they're doing is lying and manipulating to make money.
00:08:03.160 That's all they're doing.
00:08:04.240 I mean, how many times have ever impeach been busted for like blatant lies and manipulation?
00:08:09.920 Lies and manipulation.
00:08:10.860 Oh my gosh.
00:08:12.040 Do you know what they did?
00:08:12.780 Did I tell you that the, what they did with the obese thing?
00:08:16.340 Did I tell you how they said I lied about an obesity stat?
00:08:20.960 And then when I quote, it's like, and then I gave them the link to the stat that I was
00:08:25.360 quoting and now that all they do to their channels is just say, oh, she just makes things up.
00:08:30.180 She just lies.
00:08:31.000 She just lies.
00:08:31.840 And I'm like, I know you saw the stat.
00:08:35.380 I am a hundred percent positive.
00:08:38.040 You saw it.
00:08:38.800 They, they, they said, they said this about me.
00:08:41.380 Okay.
00:08:41.840 It's a total lie.
00:08:43.000 They said that I got rejected by a Japanese girl in a nightclub.
00:08:48.880 So I took a champagne bottle and broke it over her face.
00:08:53.780 Do you understand how hard you would need to hit somebody with a champagne bottle to break it?
00:09:00.480 That, that chick would be dead.
00:09:02.540 Yeah.
00:09:03.140 And as racist as the Japanese are, I would be all over the Japanese news.
00:09:08.560 Right.
00:09:09.120 And in prison.
00:09:12.000 You're not going to be like, oh, like you got to pay a fine.
00:09:14.540 You'll be on your way.
00:09:15.500 Like, no, such a heinous crime would absolutely demand of an American, which they hate us, to be put into prison.
00:09:25.320 Yeah.
00:09:25.800 You know?
00:09:26.120 So it's just like when you think, but you don't, nobody stops to think.
00:09:29.440 Nobody stops to understand context.
00:09:30.740 And the thing is like, when you're watching a video, you don't understand how weird it is in real life to be like doing these things.
00:09:36.400 Yeah.
00:09:36.920 But like, do you know what I mean?
00:09:38.020 It's like, I forgot what he said.
00:09:39.360 Where did I get the champagne bottle?
00:09:41.140 He's like, where did I get the champagne bottle?
00:09:42.660 Reaction channels is like, oh, I question your morals.
00:09:45.840 I was just thinking like, do you know how weird that is in like real life?
00:09:49.300 Oh, man.
00:09:49.860 Like imagine like as a grown, grown ass dude being like, oh, I question your moral.
00:09:54.160 Like, I'm like, it's so odd.
00:09:56.900 It's just odd behavior.
00:09:58.440 Anytime I see a man use the word misogyny or misogynist, I know I cannot trust that guy.
00:10:06.260 That guy is a guaranteed snake and I can't trust him.
00:10:10.240 It's very, it's just, it's especially the drama channels.
00:10:12.920 It's so feminine.
00:10:14.180 I just can't imagine.
00:10:15.360 And like, and they're all old, old people.
00:10:17.480 Old people sitting around gossiping.
00:10:19.180 Out of shape.
00:10:20.040 I call them the gossip girls.
00:10:21.800 Like just sitting around, that's all we're doing.
00:10:23.660 Sitting around gossiping.
00:10:24.980 Gossiping.
00:10:25.420 Like, what are you doing?
00:10:26.620 Like, what value are you adding to your filthy audience?
00:10:30.100 Yeah, but they're just.