Most Men Ignore This Red Pill
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the lottery, cheating on your wife, and why women should or shouldn t get married. We also discuss whether or not a woman should get married if she won the lottery and what it means for the chances of getting divorced.
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a woman hit the lottery for 1.3 million dollars right she hid it from her husband and 11 days
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later divorced her husband he found out two years later from a letter in the mail and it was the
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lottery company saying do you want to get the lump sum or do you want to continue getting the
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monthly earnings okay because yeah they didn't like recognize that they were divorced because
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he stayed at that same address right so he got the letter but they were divorced at this time
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two years later correct but she won the lottery at the time they were married he sued her and for
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fraud oppression and malice ended up winning 100% plus she had to pay the court fees on her end
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100% 100% yeah what'd you guys think of that she was wrong he was right he won he won right man won
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yeah don't try it don't try it she tried it she would have got some payments monthly until the
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letter came through and he realized or whatever that's crazy because you know this made national
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news that a woman was you know taking all of a guy's earnings but women do that all the time
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this one's funny because it's a different amount that's a big amount of money though she was taken
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and he won legally he won everything as well because not only did he win money not only did
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she have to pay the legal fees he also found out the kind of woman his wife was yeah he really won
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but that's probably because i'm guessing never had any kids with her if he had kids with her it
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might have been a different situation because of liability and blah blah blah and remember what
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he earns and imagine it shows the kind of woman i'm talking about 100 i'm saying the reason why he
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would have won 100 he couldn't have had you know any liability with her with with actual kids with
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no that's because she was lying you know it's interesting they looked at what happened when like
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each sex won the lottery and their probability of divorce and how do you think it turned out
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it was like the majority of the men's tape when the majority of the women left but see that that
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goes to show who who is responsible with the power of leverage
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so the power of leverage you being the breadwinner you having a life-saving amount is that something that
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you're going to want to push into the tree that you already have or is that something that you're
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going to go and want to do like more selfish things and go and you know do something independent
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do you know i mean because bearing in mind in that marriage you like gone through things where you're
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both broke you're both going through things you know i mean not even like a yo i won the lottery but
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here take that this is my money but boom here take that or and a non nothing like that just
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just up and left i can imagine if you know i'm married my wife divorces me then i see her in
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i'll be thinking where she can i find out she won the lottery no you know you know it's crazy the
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the idea that men will leave you for a younger woman before like no fault divorce was introduced
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isn't even correct even before no fault divorce like women would still leave men more like they
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always have right i see that being true i didn't know that wow yeah because a lot of people know
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because it's a propaganda campaign because basically um with the women's suffrage movement
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they just put like all of this propaganda in the media to like take men out of the home basically
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and tell women that like we need a career more than we need that but then again you need to look
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at it like this so men are proposing sometimes it's not really i don't know it's the guy that's
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made that big decision sometimes the girl might be like yeah your boyfriend material but i didn't
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want to break up with you but now we're married and i didn't really think i'd spend the rest of my life
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i've dated a lot do you know i mean but now we're married things have just moved faster than i really
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cared for them to at the time i thought i'll just go with the flow and i'm comfortable and they might
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not actually think boom like this is not even the i might have grown out of love with this person but
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for the guy because he's making all these um intentional move movements with you of course
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it's a no-brainer what i got more money to do things boom yeah let's stay together i also think
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maybe like i don't i'm just guessing here but going with your your scenario i feel like maybe
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women sometimes like they just want a wedding day like they don't want a marriage they just want a
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wedding day someone proposes oh i can do this and take those instagram pictures with my gals and all
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and like it's all gonna be about me like so you know it makes sense i had this conversation with
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a friend the other day on gay weddings and i said um and i said i understand why a woman want to get
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married because the whole bridesmaids and the whole i said why why a man would want to marry another
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man that's just a waste of money and time and the guy said oh yeah blah blah blah men have every
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right i weren't trying to say men don't have right to marry another man i'm just trying to say i
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understand why a woman wants it but i don't understand why a man would waste his time marrying
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another man that's how you know with a man it's intentional like you said you know because there's so
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much more especially in this day and age now and the climate that we're living in there's so much more at
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risk for the guy like that that is a clear signal from the man that he is committing to you because
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you know and then if you're a girl and you then just sort of just say yes i can see it happening
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would you guys get married without a wedding no no yeah what's the point you wouldn't no why
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just because i think it's such as i'm not one of those girls who's like dreamed of this big white
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wedding my whole life like i still don't really know too much where i want my wedding and stuff but
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i think it's just a nice way to just bring everyone that you love and share that special
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memory with them to be honest team school that's what christmas is for
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christmas is for that roast turkey family you only see once a year that's what christmas is for
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what if he says okay we don't have like money right now um let's just go to the courthouse and get
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this thing done i want to be your husband isn't that more important than the wedding i mean that's
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what my parents did to be fair so why can't you do it i mean yeah i would it's not that i wouldn't
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want to do it but i'd also want that big special day would you would you be comfortable with
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would you be comfortable with getting that down the line say that again would you be comfortable
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with with getting that big day down the line as more like a certificate of your your union and
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marriage yeah i could do that small now and then big maybe five years ten years yeah i could do that
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why is it not enough to just have been picked though like if a guy is literally telling you
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he wants to marry you like why why do you need some kind of signification that you've achieved
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this great thing like why is it not just enough in your heart that this guy wants to be my husband
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you wanted it earlier no no i agree with her i agree with her why do you need a legal documentation
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to tell me that no i mean the wedding day the wedding day oh oh okay i'm deeper so don't get me wrong
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of course it's it's nice like you say you get your family and friends together yeah who doesn't want
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that especially when you know because the bride's family meets the groom family like that's that's
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lovely but at the end of the day the marriage signifies a partnership and a commitment and
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why why do you need that wedding day so he asked if you would take it if you had that big day down
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the line would you do it if there was no big day he just wanted to be your husband but you didn't
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have the money for a wedding so like that was it you just go to the courthouse or whatever and get
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the document would you do that i mean of course if i was completely in love with the man and i wanted
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my i saw a future with him and i wanted to live my life with him of course i'm not gonna say no
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do you know what i mean because it is about the marriage at the end of the day but just for me
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i love memories and i think that would be a celebration of what's to come so for me it's like
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it's like the beginning of the story what about the memories that you'd make in the marriage
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yeah no of course but it would be like it would be like a celebration of the beginning of the future
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but wouldn't couldn't you make memories in him asking you the feeling that you get and knowing
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that he wants to make that commitment walking down to the courthouse together having that private
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moment together then whatever you do a glass of champagne yeah you don't need everyone else to
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confirm that you've done something great you don't need to seek validation from everyone else
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you're kind of making me want a courthouse wedding
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i've got a question for you uh for the women yeah would you would you women agree or disagree that
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the more a man has to kind of do in the relationship is like the less you kind of
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like him as a person say that what do you mean so for instance if he has to do the most
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big wedding big this big that he's lacking he's kind of lacking because without that you you said
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you have to be in love with him 100 and all these other factors whereas if you really just
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you you mess with him as an individual he doesn't really have to do the extras because i notice
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if i'm not someone's cup of tea i might have to jump through a hoop or two if i'm her cup of tea
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but we're we're chilling on biscuits it's all good you know i mean so there's a difference so would
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you guys agree or disagree with that basically i think what he's saying is you said that you would
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do the courthouse if you loved him 100 let's say you loved him 70 then i wouldn't get married
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does he have to do the white wedding it's high though i think you're right the more you have to
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do for a girl the less she probably does like yeah yeah it affects yeah because when you're when
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you're really into you're always like thinking about what he wants what he you're happy just to
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be around him yeah yeah listen to mandem listen to that because if you're doing the most it means
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she don't like she's not into you like that for real and you set a precedent as well to say you know
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what for you to be with me i have to come with all these things men don't realize how valuable
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their attention is like because i think women would know we would not survive without male attention
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if men treated their attention like it was valuable women would have a very different behavior
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yeah guys throw attention at turnips i've been watching capybara tiktoks for a long time right
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you know the animal the capybara i don't know what that is
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seriously imagine if every guy said you know what i'm not going to accept a girl that has slept with
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double digit people i'm not going to accept women um that are overweight i'm not going to accept women
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with children out of wedlock women would make different decisions like imagine if like women
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would not leave their husbands if they didn't think there was a simp waiting for them they would not
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women would not they would stay but it's like because men will give like their attention which
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is so it is so valuable like we cannot survive without male attention that's why women without
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dads like they're messed up because they didn't get that male attention so they have to go somewhere
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else male attention is valuable and if men were more selective with who they gave it to i think women
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like would be better in a way yeah see yeah that's true but doesn't that link to the whole thing where
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um there was a thing where it's like guys only go as far in terms of courting as women allow
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oh true so like so like back in the day victorian times why did everyone back then used to call and
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used to wear like the big corsets and have to date someone for like two months before you could
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no it's not no it's not it's not no it's not the men's responsibility yes the women's the sexual
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marketplace the the purity of of women is the women's responsibility because we're in control of
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sex exactly but i do think that the the quality i don't want to say quality but
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like men it they'll they'll still wife women that have no business being wife that should be in the
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streets forever or that have had like if you have two different baby daddies why is anybody marrying
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you leave you in the streets why isn't it leave like what was the name of the uh the girl of um
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the basketball player britney jenna britney reno yeah britney reno friend of the show
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she's one of those girls and in that type type of situation where it's like you know her past so
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well that like there's no way do you think some women can just be really unlucky like they fell
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for somebody she's not one of those women fell for somebody had a kid i think that's an excuse
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you choose what you do with your own body in the same argument as you were saying earlier about
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if you should have children or not and you said oh it's a woman's body i imagine you were referring
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to abortion and and you have the right i think you have complete control so you have complete
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control to not open your legs to every man yeah but people get divorced too but there's people that
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have like two free marriages and that's not even like a small amount a lot of people get divorced i'm