JustPearlyThings - Most Men Ignore This Red Pill

00:00:00.000 a woman hit the lottery for 1.3 million dollars right she hid it from her husband and 11 days 0.95

00:00:11.720 later divorced her husband he found out two years later from a letter in the mail and it was the

00:00:16.040 lottery company saying do you want to get the lump sum or do you want to continue getting the

00:00:19.860 monthly earnings okay because yeah they didn't like recognize that they were divorced because

00:00:23.080 he stayed at that same address right so he got the letter but they were divorced at this time

00:00:27.160 two years later correct but she won the lottery at the time they were married he sued her and for

00:00:32.580 fraud oppression and malice ended up winning 100% plus she had to pay the court fees on her end 0.98

00:00:41.660 what a king

00:00:43.480 100% 100% yeah what'd you guys think of that she was wrong he was right he won he won right man won

00:00:53.840 yeah don't try it don't try it she tried it she would have got some payments monthly until the

00:01:02.080 letter came through and he realized or whatever that's crazy because you know this made national

00:01:06.920 news that a woman was you know taking all of a guy's earnings but women do that all the time 1.00

00:01:11.180 this one's funny because it's a different amount that's a big amount of money though she was taken 1.00

00:01:20.720 and he won legally he won everything as well because not only did he win money not only did

00:01:24.760 she have to pay the legal fees he also found out the kind of woman his wife was yeah he really won 1.00

00:01:29.160 but that's probably because i'm guessing never had any kids with her if he had kids with her it

00:01:34.360 might have been a different situation because of liability and blah blah blah and remember what

00:01:39.600 he earns and imagine it shows the kind of woman i'm talking about 100 i'm saying the reason why he

00:01:47.120 would have won 100 he couldn't have had you know any liability with her with with actual kids with 0.99

00:01:51.880 no that's because she was lying you know it's interesting they looked at what happened when like

00:01:55.500 each sex won the lottery and their probability of divorce and how do you think it turned out

00:02:01.820 it was like the majority of the men's tape when the majority of the women left but see that that

00:02:10.060 goes to show who who is responsible with the power of leverage

00:02:14.800 so the power of leverage you being the breadwinner you having a life-saving amount is that something that

00:02:23.560 you're going to want to push into the tree that you already have or is that something that you're

00:02:28.080 going to go and want to do like more selfish things and go and you know do something independent

00:02:32.160 do you know i mean because bearing in mind in that marriage you like gone through things where you're

00:02:36.320 both broke you're both going through things you know i mean not even like a yo i won the lottery but

00:02:41.560 here take that this is my money but boom here take that or and a non nothing like that just

00:02:46.680 just up and left i can imagine if you know i'm married my wife divorces me then i see her in 0.99

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00:02:54.220 i'll be thinking where she can i find out she won the lottery no you know you know it's crazy the

00:03:01.660 the idea that men will leave you for a younger woman before like no fault divorce was introduced

00:03:09.040 isn't even correct even before no fault divorce like women would still leave men more like they 0.99

00:03:15.120 always have right i see that being true i didn't know that wow yeah because a lot of people know

00:03:20.840 because it's a propaganda campaign because basically um with the women's suffrage movement

00:03:26.020 they just put like all of this propaganda in the media to like take men out of the home basically

00:03:30.340 and tell women that like we need a career more than we need that but then again you need to look

00:03:34.500 at it like this so men are proposing sometimes it's not really i don't know it's the guy that's

00:03:39.660 made that big decision sometimes the girl might be like yeah your boyfriend material but i didn't

00:03:43.320 want to break up with you but now we're married and i didn't really think i'd spend the rest of my life

00:03:48.440 i've dated a lot do you know i mean but now we're married things have just moved faster than i really

00:03:52.120 cared for them to at the time i thought i'll just go with the flow and i'm comfortable and they might

00:03:56.940 not actually think boom like this is not even the i might have grown out of love with this person but

00:04:01.140 for the guy because he's making all these um intentional move movements with you of course

00:04:06.340 it's a no-brainer what i got more money to do things boom yeah let's stay together i also think

00:04:11.500 maybe like i don't i'm just guessing here but going with your your scenario i feel like maybe

00:04:18.100 women sometimes like they just want a wedding day like they don't want a marriage they just want a 1.00

00:04:23.520 wedding day someone proposes oh i can do this and take those instagram pictures with my gals and all 0.99

00:04:27.780 and like it's all gonna be about me like so you know it makes sense i had this conversation with

00:04:34.140 a friend the other day on gay weddings and i said um and i said i understand why a woman want to get

00:04:39.620 married because the whole bridesmaids and the whole i said why why a man would want to marry another

00:04:43.980 man that's just a waste of money and time and the guy said oh yeah blah blah blah men have every

00:04:49.340 right i weren't trying to say men don't have right to marry another man i'm just trying to say i

00:04:53.460 understand why a woman wants it but i don't understand why a man would waste his time marrying 1.00

00:04:56.960 another man that's how you know with a man it's intentional like you said you know because there's so

00:05:00.620 much more especially in this day and age now and the climate that we're living in there's so much more at

00:05:05.180 risk for the guy like that that is a clear signal from the man that he is committing to you because

00:05:11.760 you know and then if you're a girl and you then just sort of just say yes i can see it happening

00:05:18.000 would you guys get married without a wedding no no yeah what's the point you wouldn't no why

00:05:24.880 just because i think it's such as i'm not one of those girls who's like dreamed of this big white

00:05:30.040 wedding my whole life like i still don't really know too much where i want my wedding and stuff but

00:05:34.540 i think it's just a nice way to just bring everyone that you love and share that special

00:05:39.720 memory with them to be honest team school that's what christmas is for

00:05:43.240 christmas is for that roast turkey family you only see once a year that's what christmas is for

00:05:49.920 what if he says okay we don't have like money right now um let's just go to the courthouse and get

00:05:55.040 this thing done i want to be your husband isn't that more important than the wedding i mean that's

00:05:59.160 what my parents did to be fair so why can't you do it i mean yeah i would it's not that i wouldn't

00:06:05.060 want to do it but i'd also want that big special day would you would you be comfortable with

00:06:10.440 would you be comfortable with getting that down the line say that again would you be comfortable

00:06:15.000 with with getting that big day down the line as more like a certificate of your your union and

00:06:20.180 marriage yeah i could do that small now and then big maybe five years ten years yeah i could do that

00:06:25.100 why is it not enough to just have been picked though like if a guy is literally telling you

00:06:30.400 he wants to marry you like why why do you need some kind of signification that you've achieved

00:06:36.260 this great thing like why is it not just enough in your heart that this guy wants to be my husband

00:06:40.820 you wanted it earlier no no i agree with her i agree with her why do you need a legal documentation

00:06:46.000 to tell me that no i mean the wedding day the wedding day oh oh okay i'm deeper so don't get me wrong

00:06:50.580 of course it's it's nice like you say you get your family and friends together yeah who doesn't want

00:06:54.920 that especially when you know because the bride's family meets the groom family like that's that's

00:06:58.880 lovely but at the end of the day the marriage signifies a partnership and a commitment and

00:07:03.800 why why do you need that wedding day so he asked if you would take it if you had that big day down

00:07:10.280 the line would you do it if there was no big day he just wanted to be your husband but you didn't

00:07:15.240 have the money for a wedding so like that was it you just go to the courthouse or whatever and get

00:07:19.680 the document would you do that i mean of course if i was completely in love with the man and i wanted

00:07:23.820 my i saw a future with him and i wanted to live my life with him of course i'm not gonna say no

00:07:28.940 do you know what i mean because it is about the marriage at the end of the day but just for me

00:07:32.460 i love memories and i think that would be a celebration of what's to come so for me it's like

00:07:38.240 it's like the beginning of the story what about the memories that you'd make in the marriage

00:07:41.900 yeah no of course but it would be like it would be like a celebration of the beginning of the future

00:07:47.320 but wouldn't couldn't you make memories in him asking you the feeling that you get and knowing

00:07:53.080 that he wants to make that commitment walking down to the courthouse together having that private

00:07:57.240 moment together then whatever you do a glass of champagne yeah you don't need everyone else to

00:08:03.320 confirm that you've done something great you don't need to seek validation from everyone else

00:08:09.000 you're kind of making me want a courthouse wedding 0.52

00:08:10.600 i've got a question for you uh for the women yeah would you would you women agree or disagree that 1.00

00:08:17.120 the more a man has to kind of do in the relationship is like the less you kind of

00:08:22.640 like him as a person say that what do you mean so for instance if he has to do the most

00:08:27.780 big wedding big this big that he's lacking he's kind of lacking because without that you you said

00:08:34.120 you have to be in love with him 100 and all these other factors whereas if you really just

00:08:38.120 you you mess with him as an individual he doesn't really have to do the extras because i notice

00:08:43.820 if i'm not someone's cup of tea i might have to jump through a hoop or two if i'm her cup of tea

00:08:49.100 but we're we're chilling on biscuits it's all good you know i mean so there's a difference so would

00:08:55.320 you guys agree or disagree with that basically i think what he's saying is you said that you would

00:08:59.800 do the courthouse if you loved him 100 let's say you loved him 70 then i wouldn't get married

00:09:04.900 does he have to do the white wedding it's high though i think you're right the more you have to

00:09:13.220 do for a girl the less she probably does like yeah yeah it affects yeah because when you're when

00:09:17.760 you're really into you're always like thinking about what he wants what he you're happy just to

00:09:21.900 be around him yeah yeah listen to mandem listen to that because if you're doing the most it means

00:09:27.680 she don't like she's not into you like that for real and you set a precedent as well to say you know

00:09:32.080 what for you to be with me i have to come with all these things men don't realize how valuable

00:09:36.840 their attention is like because i think women would know we would not survive without male attention 1.00

00:09:41.840 if men treated their attention like it was valuable women would have a very different behavior 1.00

00:09:46.580 yeah guys throw attention at turnips i've been watching capybara tiktoks for a long time right

00:09:52.200 you know the animal the capybara i don't know what that is

00:09:56.800 seriously imagine if every guy said you know what i'm not going to accept a girl that has slept with

00:10:02.600 double digit people i'm not going to accept women um that are overweight i'm not going to accept women 1.00

00:10:09.260 with children out of wedlock women would make different decisions like imagine if like women 1.00

00:10:15.640 would not leave their husbands if they didn't think there was a simp waiting for them they would not

00:10:20.260 women would not they would stay but it's like because men will give like their attention which 1.00

00:10:25.900 is so it is so valuable like we cannot survive without male attention that's why women without 1.00

00:10:32.100 dads like they're messed up because they didn't get that male attention so they have to go somewhere

00:10:37.740 else male attention is valuable and if men were more selective with who they gave it to i think women

00:10:44.260 like would be better in a way yeah see yeah that's true but doesn't that link to the whole thing where

00:10:50.020 um there was a thing where it's like guys only go as far in terms of courting as women allow

00:10:56.140 oh true so like so like back in the day victorian times why did everyone back then used to call and

00:11:02.780 used to wear like the big corsets and have to date someone for like two months before you could

00:11:07.540 no it's not no it's not it's not no it's not the men's responsibility yes the women's the sexual 0.69

00:11:13.860 marketplace the the purity of of women is the women's responsibility because we're in control of 1.00

00:11:18.340 sex exactly but i do think that the the quality i don't want to say quality but

00:11:23.460 like men it they'll they'll still wife women that have no business being wife that should be in the 1.00

00:11:30.080 streets forever or that have had like if you have two different baby daddies why is anybody marrying 0.65

00:11:34.380 you leave you in the streets why isn't it leave like what was the name of the uh the girl of um

00:11:39.240 the basketball player britney jenna britney reno yeah britney reno friend of the show

00:11:44.100 she's one of those girls and in that type type of situation where it's like you know her past so 0.99

00:11:51.020 well that like there's no way do you think some women can just be really unlucky like they fell 1.00

00:11:55.740 for somebody she's not one of those women fell for somebody had a kid i think that's an excuse 0.99

00:12:00.940 you choose what you do with your own body in the same argument as you were saying earlier about

00:12:06.420 if you should have children or not and you said oh it's a woman's body i imagine you were referring

00:12:10.440 to abortion and and you have the right i think you have complete control so you have complete 0.91

00:12:16.040 control to not open your legs to every man yeah but people get divorced too but there's people that

00:12:20.820 have like two free marriages and that's not even like a small amount a lot of people get divorced i'm

00:12:24.980 not even trying to be what's the percentage

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JustPearlyThings - August 12, 2023

Most Men Ignore This Red Pill

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