JustPearlyThings - Never Take Relationship Advice From Girls (here's why...)

00:00:00.000 same point you I was literally you've it struck a chord with me because I've

00:00:04.620 just come back from Gambia I was out there doing some charity work and these

00:00:07.000 lot have got nothing but I mean yeah and you see what within themselves it's so

00:00:12.240 I don't care yeah and I just and I was actually thinking the same thing I was

00:00:15.500 thinking if these lot have the same like they're not gonna have the same but like

00:00:21.420 emotional side like all the issues that we have because I'm thinking they

00:00:24.220 literally are some those survival don't survive they're walking miles to get

00:00:28.680 water they're trying to find out with the China ration the rice and this and

00:00:32.280 that and I just even the way they are now I see the dynamics between the men and

00:00:36.240 the women and they all get along all the children play together and they're

00:00:39.120 literally just live in mud house in the middle of a desert that's cold in hot

00:00:41.700 mm-hmm and I think I know what nobody in no two humans are gonna get on completely

00:00:46.260 fine all the time but I just think about divorce or spin-ups never even they're

00:00:49.080 too worried about trying to raise their kids kids don't die yeah because in the

00:00:53.640 West we're too we're too sort of fat on when we're too lazy and we're too we're

00:00:57.840 too comfortable yep and so now we've got all these other issues these are

00:01:00.780 problems that we can worry problems fake problems really we're like oh you know

00:01:04.800 what God I'm such a loser I only have an iPhone 13 I live in a privileged society

00:01:11.460 that we're not even aware of anymore we're very privileged it's good to go on 0.85

00:01:15.660 it's good to go out to them federal countries and literally you come back so

00:01:19.640 grateful and come back and just think my problems are actually nothing I'm

00:01:23.320 bothered because I've got Wi-Fi my Wi-Fi is not working that happened to me when I was I

00:01:26.440 have I was lucky enough for that happened to me when I was 15 I went to

00:01:29.620 Dwanisburg South Africa my mom helped me raise money to go on this missions trip

00:01:33.520 with my church and I went out to like the boonies of I think we were in Krugersdorp

00:01:39.400 which is another city in South Africa and I met a lady who had gangrene in her 1.00

00:01:45.680 leg and we went to her house which was like dirt floor and like tin shack and we 0.96

00:01:53.000 prayed for her we're like Lord please deliver this woman from her gangrene and then I was

00:01:58.360 foolish young boy 15 I was like Lord's gonna cure her right like she's gonna be okay right

00:02:02.280 but later they told me like most likely this woman's gonna die and then I went back to my 0.98

00:02:09.440 area where I lived where I lived on the outskirts of the rich white area and I could go to the school

00:02:14.760 I went to Winter Park High School which was like one of the richest high schools in Florida and I would

00:02:19.720 see people be like oh you know my dad sucks he bought me a used Honda Civic and I 0.82

00:02:23.580 wanted a BMW you know this air conditioning sucks it only makes me kind of hot and I 0.97

00:02:27.600 was like in Africa watching death happen in a hopeless situation perspective your

00:02:33.580 perspective is totally changed and I'm so grateful that my mom was able to pay for

00:02:37.620 that and that I was able to get that perspective on life because you know in

00:02:42.760 the West were so just drunk on the benefits of yeah like the like the quite frankly like 0.90

00:02:52.140 the the glory of the glory of war for for that our our ancestors won when they you know storm

00:02:58.620 Normandy and you know and endured all these attacks from the Japanese and whatnot so I just 0.99

00:03:03.640 think about everything pulling back to where we are right now I just think that we're our lives

00:03:09.560 are so good that we have to make problems yeah when you think about a lot of the

00:03:13.580 culture war stuff it's based on that isn't it like a lot of these cultures yes

00:03:17.720 would it be a thing so so take it home of you guys the boredom theory is real guys

00:03:21.840 I want to read you about this is a column where they answer some of the real problems

00:03:28.960 that we have today in marriage okay now I don't want you guys to take this lightly I

00:03:33.840 want to pretend like we are answering this woman's question okay dear Jessica my husband wakes me up

00:03:45.460 in the middle of the night wanting sex I struggle to fall back asleep afterwards and have told him

00:03:51.380 so I wake up very early for work each day so the fact that he continues to awaken me troubles me

00:03:57.340 because I am not getting adequate sleep when I bring this up he claims I wake him up and that

00:04:03.220 he is trying to satisfy me I feel like he's gaslighting me but he continues to insist it is my doing

00:04:10.160 how do I help now I want to first give you guys what this woman said to her now we'll see do women 0.96

00:04:20.780 give good relationship advice no just okay well no maybe let's let's give her the benefit of the 1.00

00:04:26.340 doubt yeah she's like it's a waste of time all right look look look it's possible your husband

00:04:32.840 is lying to you to justify his habit of of waking you for sex and it's also possible possible you're

00:04:45.020 experiencing some form of what what is known as sex somnia get one of those little surveillance cameras

00:04:52.300 that recorded movements it hasn't I was gonna say it's not my show I was just gonna say just do it

00:05:00.800 I wish I had that problem only because only because the camera is only to do one thing is to underline who

00:05:10.320 is the actual culprit because she said that he said it's her she said it's him so you get the camera

00:05:16.660 out and you prove who did it but what are you just not what are you just not complain and just do it

00:05:21.120 I want to give up I want to give a proper shout out to our friend Allie the real femme sapien she gave 0.99

00:05:38.140 a really good book that I think a lot of women and men should read it's the proper care and feeding of 0.77

00:05:43.760 husbands by dr lauren schlesinger has anybody read that book I think you're on commission or

00:05:49.220 something I mean have you mentioned I've read a lot um so you know that's a really good book for

00:05:56.860 women to understand like what men really want and dr lauren schlesinger she does a really really

00:06:01.300 really good job at it but maybe that wouldn't be an issue if she was being fulfilled each time

00:06:07.160 sexually she's been woken up and not but you know he's like cheers you know and she's like what

00:06:18.160 the hell we just started maybe she said that's keep her awake maybe she said it keeps her awake 0.99

00:06:22.500 after she never said that it was bad she said like so maybe he's rassing it and then maybe she's

00:06:27.220 thinking you know what it's a good session I can go back to sleep there because women 1.00

JustPearlyThings - June 16, 2023

Never Take Relationship Advice From Girls (here's why...)

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