JustPearlyThings - Nichola Tesla Was MGTOW

00:00:00.000 have you ever had a work crush um yeah definitely have you ever flirted with a guy at work

00:00:06.480 yes were you harassing him no because i feel like it was mutual but but you feel like you see so

00:00:15.240 the man could feel like it was mutual does it make it mutual yeah well it was somebody that i

00:00:19.080 i did end up dating but this is the we're in a privileged position because most men

00:00:24.400 if you open up the door they're gonna they're gonna take it you know what i mean yeah but

00:00:28.580 and then it's not the same so and a lot of times have you ever flirted for attention yes every

00:00:34.200 right i flirt for attention all the time do you see how this is confusing to the guys because

00:00:39.920 we'll we'll we'll go in these outfits that are saying that signal to them flirt with me yeah 0.99

00:00:45.520 we'll flirt with them and then if if they're not attractive enough we're like wait not you 0.72

00:00:50.300 i i don't know i feel like i just like to make people feel good so i'll flirt with it even if

00:00:54.780 he's not like that good looking i'll still want to like flirt with him and just be charming and

00:00:58.200 be kind i don't think it has to like mean anything you see that's a problem because when you do that

00:01:02.560 the first day and then the second day maybe you're not in the mood and then he tries to float you

00:01:07.200 because he just felt like okay she did it the first day so she might be on to me yeah but then he tries

00:01:12.340 it the next day and then you're not in a great mood and then you're gonna report him to hr no i would

00:01:16.260 no no not at work i wouldn't do this at work i just mean what i'm even saying is like in general

00:01:20.580 this is what would happen right the reality and we switch come on you've never like i'll before i

00:01:27.560 date a guy i'll change my mind like 10 times yeah but yes no yes no yes no so it's just we're

00:01:33.920 confusing people so we go into these men's world and are like we need to change it to accommodate us 0.99

00:01:40.260 and i say if you want to be in a man's world be in it yeah don't don't change it just be in it

00:01:46.400 right that's a fair point that's a fair point with regards to love there are often questions as to

00:01:53.020 whether women are even capable of loving men the way that men love women men scale mountains because 0.92

00:01:58.740 they love women they cross seas invent things write poetry and revolutionize the world it's my own

00:02:05.240 opinion as well as the opinion of many other migtaus that women are not hardwired for the same level of 0.80

00:02:09.960 love that men are this is partially to do with the fact that women need to look after children 0.98

00:02:14.980 and need to divert those resources elsewhere anyways migtown men want north america and europe to turn 0.99

00:02:20.800 into japan we want men refusing to provide love and resources to women on a civilization wide scale 0.96

00:02:26.940 until society crumbles women are selfish yet men are told to man up and take responsibility and we

00:02:33.900 don't want to take responsibility for childlike women that have given up on their own responsibilities 1.00

00:02:38.220 but continue to demand that we men provide them entitlements because they have a golden vagina 1.00

00:02:43.240 when a man tries to live for himself women call it a midlife crisis and try to shame him back into 0.99

00:02:48.980 submission yet when a woman goes through menopause men are supposed to just tolerate her hot flashes 1.00

00:02:54.140 as well as mood swings but a man in a midlife crisis needs therapy according to women the guy we

00:03:00.960 migtaus look up to the most is nikola tesla a lifelong bachelor that invented many of the technologies that we use

00:03:07.240 today he registered hundreds of patents and invented the 20th century by many accounts

00:03:12.260 do you think that he could have invented all the things that he did if he had a wife and children to

00:03:16.900 support most migtows also avoid long-term relationships because women have multiple 1.00

00:03:21.820 male friends that they use for different functions effectively women have the equivalent of a male harem one 1.00

00:03:28.420 man to sleep with one to bankroll her another one to use as an emotional tampon and other men for all 0.77

00:03:34.360 kinds of functions one man simply can't satisfy the modern woman and the sooner men realize this the 1.00

00:03:40.560 sooner they can go their own way a traditional marriage and family is a great risk for men in this

00:03:45.280 day and age if a man wants a child of his own I would suggest that he go to either Mexico or Thailand and have a 0.91

00:03:51.160 surrogate mother give birth to his own child that way his child can never be taken away by the mother and he

00:03:57.600 often pays thirty to forty thousand dollars to have his own child free and clear that he can raise and

00:04:02.920 any which way he wants what's also really unfortunate today is that many men get married and now that

00:04:08.640 they're married just now do they realize they've gotten married and have kids and are effectively

00:04:13.680 migtows they see the benefit to it but they're stuck in the relationship this issue of being a closeted

00:04:19.800 migtow is one that many of my listeners face other men get married because they like to play a game called

00:04:25.200 captain save a hoe they want to rescue women by paying off their student loans buying them a nice 1.00

00:04:30.420 home and furnishing it as well as spoiling them rotten like princesses yet many of the women they 1.00

00:04:35.280 tend to rescue are used up sluts that have been riding the cock carousel for most of their lives and 1.00

00:04:39.960 many women prefer to date bad boys and jerks instead of good loving supportive and good-hearted men many 0.99

00:04:46.460 men can't even get dates or relationships these days because they seem to be unattractive to women and 0.99

00:04:51.240 women have no interest in dating them and having sex with them but it's much harder for unattractive 1.00

00:04:56.160 men than it is for unattractive women and men that are incapable of getting dates and getting into 0.78

00:05:01.140 relationships are often called TFLers or true force loneliness type of guys many of them are bitter

00:05:07.440 because they cannot get female attention and many of them focus on conspiracy theories instead as a

00:05:12.480 hobby some men go overseas and look for foreign brides to marry and this too is a bad idea because

00:05:17.920 female nature is the same everywhere around the world bringing a foreign bride back to a Western 1.00

00:05:22.820 country ensures that in many cases that she will leave you many times foreign women are marrying 1.00

00:05:27.460 foreign men just to get a new passport and once they enter this new country they find more attractive

00:05:32.540 males if she left the country of her own origin behind what makes you think that she won't leave 1.00

00:05:37.000 you behind it just I feel like this way of like thinking it's just so negative like it kind of

00:05:45.400 scares me in a way that men like really believe this and really think this way I do find it quite

00:05:51.120 terrifying what part was terrifying I guess that they just view women in this negative way that we're

00:05:58.220 all like manipulative and that we we're not capable of loving a man in the same way that they are of us

00:06:03.800 I actually I think that's true I think we don't love the same maybe not the same but do you think

00:06:10.520 that we love as deeply as they do um I've actually thought a bit about this I think men will love you

00:06:19.380 through thick and thin more than women well I think um because women his I I think it's just we're

00:06:26.600 hardwired into our DNA we needed a guy that protected and provided for us otherwise we would die

00:06:31.480 so if we if we have any signals that a guy isn't going to do that we're going

00:06:36.020 if a guy if we see a guy get beat up by another guy we're trying to go if we see our guys not making

00:06:41.900 money like he used to be we're trying to go I don't think it makes us bad people I think we had

00:06:47.260 to ensure that our DNA got passed on and I I understand that from the biological perspective

00:06:52.600 but then do you not think that it's a little bit reductionist because you know we have our own minds

00:06:57.260 we have cognitive processes we have social conditioning as well so I think that women 1.00

00:07:02.260 are very emotional yeah and I think when a woman is in love I think I think when a woman is in love

00:07:08.360 she does love harder than a man like you'll see you'll see you'll see a woman go like Bonnie and

00:07:13.700 Clyde leave everything she knows whatever however feelings change and I think women men love harder 1.00

00:07:21.820 because that feeling of being like crazy in love will only last so long but you think for men it

00:07:27.340 lasts longer I I think men just love differently like I think like like a woman when she's done 0.99

00:07:33.740 with a guy she's done yeah where a man I think men like kind of love I don't want to say every girl

00:07:38.640 they've been with but I think men they release a hormone when they have sex with us so they're 0.99

00:07:42.460 territorial over like women that they've been with like I there's um this guy that taught men how to

00:07:49.720 get laid he'd slept with like thousands or I don't know hundreds I saw him in a weekend it was like

00:07:54.800 um a pickup boot camp they literally teach men how to get laid it's very it's very and this guy I saw

00:07:59.800 him take home like four different chicks in a weekend and he told me that he still gets like that 0.95

00:08:04.420 he would always have sex with a girl and like the next person like she would marry right yeah and he he 0.61

00:08:09.720 would tell me that he would still feel some type of way when they got married very I I find that so 0.81

00:08:16.020 unbelievable yeah I feel like as women you would think we get more emotionally I think well I think

00:08:21.140 we can only love one guy at a time and sometimes it's not the guy we're with do you think that's

00:08:26.560 what we talked about earlier I feel like it's common for women to hyper fixate on one person 1.00

00:08:30.900 I think that me and a lot of my friends will hyper fixate on one person to kind of avoid maybe our

00:08:36.140 own pain or what we're going through or hyper fixate on a guy I think I think that guy was just the best

00:08:40.500 you could do and and you couldn't replace him he had something I don't think honestly if you saw

00:08:45.240 like some of the guys that my friends like hyper fixate it doesn't have to be it doesn't have to

00:08:48.900 be looks yeah it doesn't like it there's something about him that she could not easily replace otherwise

00:08:54.520 she would not be fixated on him yeah I get that I do get that but then do you think when they find

00:08:59.120 someone new then they hyper fixate on on the new guy that if if he's better if he's better yeah which

00:09:04.580 a lot of times women cannot do better because we age yeah right and so we have less market value 1.00

00:09:12.100 because I do see that I think when I've been you know head over heels in love with someone

00:09:16.240 and like hyper fixated on them and found it really really difficult to get over them

00:09:19.720 it has taken I guess someone new to come in for me to be able to move on from that and I feel like it's

00:09:26.140 the same kind of feelings and the same kind of situation and hyper fixation but just with a different

00:09:30.760 face every time and that's made me realize that okay I need to do the serious inner work now

00:09:35.220 to heal from that so and then my question is what percent of women actually end up with the man they 1.00

00:09:41.280 want if we're all going for 20 percent of men that means most of us don't end up with the guy we want

00:09:46.520 so what do we do so there's no other choice right I'm not even saying it's a bad thing like I think

00:09:51.160 it's better right to get married but but the the issue we're going to get into is like that's why I

00:09:58.680 think in general men love harder than women because if we take a hundred marriages I think

00:10:03.780 the men tend to love the women more because one the women leave more yeah so that that says something

00:10:10.560 and and two I I think there's more men that are head over heels in love with their wife than there

00:10:16.720 are women that are head over heels in love with their men because you see men do a lot more for women

00:10:22.360 than women typically do for men today right so do you not think that they do kind of different 0.99

00:10:28.000 jobs though even in like a traditional I do think but let's let's take traditional right yeah what

00:10:33.200 percent of women like are and I don't have this either so I'm not saying like I'm just analyzing

00:10:38.320 the market yeah most men make more than the women yet most women are fatter than the men 0.99

00:10:43.560 right so wait what does that have to do with it though that's that's what starts with right money and

00:10:49.140 looks right like if we bear I mean I'm not saying women want looks too but most men are taller than the

00:10:54.780 women yeah but most women you know that it's more common for a girl to not be able to cook than to 1.00

00:11:01.260 really know how to cook really I I I don't know I feel like me and all my friends like we love to

00:11:06.900 cook we'll always do like meals for each other my experience is that I know a lot of women that are 1.00

00:11:10.360 really good I I would say when you look at women in general I would say we know less about cooking than 1.00

00:11:18.380 women 50 years ago do you think I I don't know I feel like I yeah me it was definitely passed down from my

00:11:23.980 grandma do you do you not feel the same like you no I think because women had working moms most of us 1.00

00:11:30.480 you were very lucky you got to stay yeah maybe I will say the exception to that yeah but now we have

00:11:35.920 one out of three kids are born out of wedlock I actually think it almost hit I think it just hit

00:11:40.220 50 percent of kids are born out of wedlock wow so where are they going to learn it from if their mom's

00:11:44.940 at work yeah you only have so much time in a day you can't do everything no that is true um because

00:11:51.140 yeah where are they going to learn I feel like as well though you do learn when you like go off to

00:11:54.180 university or and you have to start like cooking for yourself or when you live alone then surely

00:11:58.560 you have to learn to cook like surely if you're living on your own which most people do I'm assuming

00:12:03.460 when they get to like they buy a lot of takeout that's what happens oh we get we get delivery I

00:12:07.760 mean we're all guilty of that but surely you cook for yourself sometimes if you're working like

00:12:11.500 say a normal job on a normal wage you can't be getting delivery like every single night

00:12:15.260 you'd be surprised no you can't what on like a normal salary like really how much is pfc well

00:12:22.520 women women women also own the majority of the debt right so we also like on our car and on our credit 1.00

00:12:29.300 cards and stuff like that yes we do another possible solution for men looking for love are synthetic lovers

00:12:35.300 in Japan people pay for affection conversation sex and often each of their needs are met in a service 0.71

00:12:42.600 type of setting so what did you think of migtel the voice that they do for it is really weird 0.94

00:12:49.640 it's kind of funny yeah I love the cock carousel that was my favorite thing if I'm going to take

00:12:55.100 anything away from this is that yeah you know I that one when I first heard it I was like well 0.53

00:13:01.040 that's not nice but then I started looking at the stats right I was like this doesn't there's women 1.00

00:13:06.580 that have admitted there was a survey of women in college yeah in college yeah girls said they 1.00

00:13:11.820 slept with seven guys a year that was the average how do they have the time I said the same thing

00:13:16.880 but I'm like if I'm looking at these numbers it's not good for us I'm like this isn't I mean go them

00:13:23.580 slay um I will not say no no no don't slay no no no why don't you tell the people where they can find

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JustPearlyThings - July 16, 2023

Nichola Tesla Was MGTOW

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