The TRUTH About Women Before FEMINISM
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Summary
In this episode we discuss the difference between sexless marriages of the past and the modern day, and how women cheat on their husbands. We also talk about why women cheat with their exes, and why we should be worried about it.
Transcript
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what's wrong with a woman being a whore well i just don't think it makes for good wives and
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mothers why not but part of being a wife is to enjoy sex with your husband yeah not a bunch of
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men your husband and the highest sex practice makes perfect no but the highest sexual satisfaction
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was when they've only had sex with one person so she's gonna enjoy sex more you could
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and the number one and the number one and the number one person that women cheat with is their
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exes because the argument the practice makes perfect you could argue that i just don't think
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it'd be true i think they would just make you a whore well it depends also what kind of person you
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want because the thing is as well would you say that people are more likely to be attracted to
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people who are like them so for example a woman who say been with a few people would want a guy
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who'd also been with a few people a man loves a whore they will but they will not marry a whore
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they will want to find a lady that hasn't slept with multiple men a wifey and a wifey isn't
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someone that sleeps around for fun and wants to i don't know build their experience up go use a toy
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especially if a man has resources you look at a country like france today where paternity testing
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is illegal in france you can look this up you go to jail for 20 years for getting a paternity test
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so if the wife delivers a child that's not the color that you are it's like you just have to accept
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them as your kid and that's it right and so and now your resources are going to a man you know to
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to a baby to a child that's not your child which it's like if you have resources as a man what
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are your what are your chances of preserving those in divorce court like pretty damn close to zero zero
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what if he's happy raising loads of kids though uh great so find a man that's happy raising other
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men's kids why wouldn't he get a young woman that can give him a bunch of kids what if he's got five
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young women who can give him a bunch of kids what not my baby dad i mean i mean you'd probably be
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attracted to a man that that has those options okay we're gonna go back to the wives of yesterday
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from today okay so we're just gonna go through so what do we say before she would stay 85 percent of
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people were married there was a big social stigma against divorce now there's a 32 to 41 chance she's
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leaving your ass yeah okay next next wait i need you to wait pipe pipe down wait okay thank you
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all right so depending on the time period in social class you'd have a wife helping up on the farm
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so you're going to get some cooking from scratch right and farming now i'm not saying there are not
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wives that offer this but does the average check i don't know how to farm you guys know how to farm
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he does you know i don't know how to farm but my wife knows how to farm i'm not a perfect person i
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don't know i do help my dad water the garden but that's about how fast i how far i take it okay so
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we got cooking and farming then then three there was a major stigma against female cheating you wouldn't
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have to worry about her cheating on you it happened but so infrequently that it would barely cross your
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mind as opposed to today where one in five women cuck their partners right there yes okay next four
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rule of thumb is a myth um christian cultures always despised wife beating and the paranoia about
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domestic violence was not as high as today meaning if your wife attacked you you could defend yourself
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as opposed to today where half of domestic violence is reciprocal 70 percent of non-reciprocal the
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wife is beating on you sometimes with a weapon and the cops get called the man is the one getting
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arrested so they used to be able to wait i should i put this on the wrong one you could call the police
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on your girl and they would help you if she starts beating you okay so um if the wife left which was
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unlikely she could not take your kids from you unless you gave them up voluntarily so the father
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automatically got custody where today 90 percent of the time woman gets kids okay next in most cases
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when you married a woman you would get a dowry from her family any any of you come with a dowry no
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no no i know dang it right it's like a dowry what i can give you a dowry wow thank you i actually i do
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come with eight acres of land shout out dad but uh but um may it made sense since you were the one
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providing financially seven she would be a virgin moreover it would it would pipe down all right wait
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we'll get to you it was considered her wifely duty to have sex with you so unlimited sorry guys i did not
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make this a very good chart unlimited sex sure she might deny you sex but sexless marriages were a lot
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less common where now one in four marriages are sexless very different as the head of the household
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you'd have the final say on all major decisions if your wife disagreed with you she'd have to consult
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privately and not disagree with you publicly oh king i'm sorry i did not tell you this before can you
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pull up the tweet that i have the the muzzle i'm gonna you know go on to my twitter go on my twitter and
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look for a picture you'll know it you'll know it i said should we bring this back okay i'm gonna i'm
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gonna go to 10 i'm gonna skip nine i'm gonna go back in terms of child care and domestic cleaning
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there would be no question of 50 50 on top of your job just because your wife wanted to be a dental
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hygienist or receptionist because some feminist teacher told her it was important nada she was a
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stay-at-home wife eleven women were expected to behave gracefully and look after their appearance
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not to mention postmodern period obesity was a lot rarer because of high food food scarcity and lack of
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junk food so she was in shape now unfortunately um today we're 170 pounds i think you guys are a
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little thinner i'm american you know what i mean um i'm so but it's like 160 regardless we're both fat
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uk us um women were expected to learn to learn how to sing or play an instrument
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um to help pass the hours with evening entertainment so not only would you get
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a girl that could farm make food from scratch she also had to play an instrument and sing
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for all of your friends she had to trust you to make the final decision 13 she'd take your last name
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none of this hyphen i want to keep my own name all right 14 she'd be raised to think marriage motherhood
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and duty to her husband was her purpose in life rather than motherhood being optimal a burden and
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having to delete the word obey from oh my god they deleted the word obey from wedding vows i don't
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even know that all right 15 because uh people courted and then mary didn't play the field monogamy was
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strictly enforced you can forget about this modern 80 20 thing the modern gorilla like quasi polygamy
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where fours are chasing dudes who are tens was gone most men provided they were mentally stable not
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criminals could find a white even if you were beta af you would you would not be invisible some women
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out there would consider you a prospect moreover women had to look for traits that made a good husband
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that healthy good quality gentlemanly traits that modern women find boring today you this guy's funny um
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you wouldn't have to learn to be cocky mildly cruel borderline sociopath just to keep a woman's
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interest no leaving her on red for six hours you want to bring her flowers because you like her
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odds are she'd actually appreciate it 16 as a result of the smallness of the dating pool in the local
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village and the emphasis on choosing a man who's a good provider and had the traits of being sensible
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caring husband a distinctly mid five out of ten guy had a good shot at a hottie
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um as opposed to the results of dating apps over half of dating now where the men often end up with
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a woman significantly uglier than them and fatter than them hey do you know the stats it's really
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interesting so i got one more i need you to wait one more so this is my favorite one did you find it
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king all right there was a social stigma against women who nagged or yelled too much or berated their
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husband in england they called this a scold and there were laws against it and you could be
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punished by public shaming or forcing a woman to wear a muzzle wait show them yeah so if you nagged
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your husband too much i asked the guy should we bring this back you know i just wanted to see
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scroll down scroll down i don't i don't even know what they said let's see all right scroll down
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oh wow oh no all right sorry i didn't think that went through go go go twitter's wild then i don't
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know what to tell you guys so that was the quality of the wives then