JustPearlyThings - O F Model Call Herself a 10

00:00:00.000 yeah oh well there it is okay cool we have a question here from stifler ask the ladies to 0.97

00:00:07.680 rate their looks on a scale of one to ten okay we can do that go ahead what about you I think

00:00:12.900 like a seven and a half eight okay I think I'm attending the Midwest have you scoot into the

00:00:20.160 table depends on the city in LA the number goes down let's say you're in like a international

00:00:32.220 hub somewhere yeah I mean okay okay like like LA for example I went on a good day a solid like a

00:00:41.760 strong eight okay I would call myself a ten but that's because I'm no matter who it is like

00:00:50.100 no one's ever gonna think I'm the prettiest girl or like there's not ever there's always gonna be

00:00:54.520 somebody that thinks I'm ugly so I'm just gonna call myself a ten and be happy with that I like

00:01:00.440 that you know what I mean well not everybody likes me not everybody has to okay we'll let everybody

00:01:04.640 answer go ahead I'd give myself an eight if I was down south or in the Midwest I'd be Beyonce but

00:01:11.260 here in LA you feel me it really just depends on what part of well we're in Santa Barbara but I'm

00:01:16.080 from LA I'm from the hood so in the hood I'm definitely a ten you feel me but when you go to

00:01:21.040 Beverly Hills stuff like that you you fat you got a belly a little fupa then yeah your number go way

00:01:26.000 down so Beverly Hills versus the hood you know let me know more to love baby more to love um I would

00:01:34.540 rate myself like a seven or an eight okay I'd probably give myself a 6.5 or a seven I think it depends on

00:01:43.420 the city and state to like in Florida maybe like a seven but here in California maybe like a 6.5

00:01:48.460 yeah I think I'm six 6.5 I think that's about accurate

00:01:52.700 that's kind of changing my mind I think he has a low ball in but I was gonna say like a like a

00:01:58.780 seven or eight but I'm gonna go with the eight I say five I think I'm an average chick

00:02:04.720 oh not pretty no what that doesn't mean I don't think there's anything wrong with average

00:02:09.440 we're talking about looks alone looks alone I mean I think like there's nothing wrong with being

00:02:15.800 average I think if you take 10 girls at the table like half of us probably are average yeah I think

00:02:21.220 no one wants to be like honest with me isn't just because you're not saying you're 10 doesn't mean

00:02:24.300 you're not confident either there's a difference between realistic and just not confident I agree

00:02:28.960 completely yeah I just I don't know why like we live in this society where average is seen as a

00:02:33.380 bad thing like most people are average not everyone can be like if you think about if you're an eight

00:02:38.060 that means you're in the top 20 percent of beauty you should have had top 20 percent of beauty results

00:02:42.100 so that means um I don't know modeling contracts I don't know you know um eligible top 20 percent 10

00:02:48.680 percent men in your dms or um I don't know but not not just like like serious taking you seriously

00:02:54.760 but go ahead there's also been beauty studies um they've done where they've like had eight faces

00:02:59.980 lined up of different like kinds of beauty supermodel beauty with the chiseled features 1.00

00:03:03.780 and like you know what people actually find most beautiful is most familiar so it's like more the

00:03:08.780 girl next door look that was actually rated the most beautiful or even like somebody like I've noticed

00:03:14.260 like the more that I've been around couples um people tend to date people that we kind of resemble

00:03:21.520 them or someone that they love like their mom or something I don't know why that is again it's

00:03:27.600 probably the familiarity thing that she just pointed out but I've I've I've continued to notice more and

00:03:32.580 more since being in LA that a lot of people tend to date people that kind of look a little bit like

00:03:37.920 them so it doesn't mean that necessarily like it's the beauty standard it's just beauty beauty in each

00:03:43.560 beauty I'd like to say that beauty is not subjective it's objective there's been many studies like people

00:03:48.740 tend to find the same things attractive like people might have like certain types where it differs

00:03:52.820 a little bit but in general like it's not subjective it's yeah and every man woman in

00:03:57.140 between is someone's type at the time not oh true yeah I think it's a question

00:04:01.920 because I didn't want to get lip fillers until like like three years ago when it became popular to have

00:04:07.060 big lips and as someone like yeah and I was bullied for my big lips growing up until it became like

00:04:12.820 people were getting lip injections but I like that's why I call myself I'm not going to hold on

00:04:18.760 base what I think of myself on what anybody else thinks of me I look in the mirror every day and

00:04:22.700 I like what I see yeah but that's so but it's true I like what I see in the mirror so in my mind

00:04:29.220 okay then I okay in my mind I'm not saying that you have to see me in my mind in my mind in my mind

00:04:35.540 I'm a millionaire in my mind I'm a millionaire and a PhD in my mind and I feel like that so

00:04:41.940 therefore I am that's just because you like what you see in the mirror also that doesn't mean that

00:04:48.320 you're a 10 a 10 is saying you are absolutely perfect so you're saying you don't have any acne

00:04:52.080 your hair is perfect every single day like you're in the best shape of your life you're saying you

00:04:55.720 have absolutely nothing that you think you can improve on yourself I'm not saying that but I'm

00:04:59.600 saying that I would consider myself a 10 I don't know what other people would call me

00:05:03.240 I think maybe you're thinking of different categories because objectively the golden ratio

00:05:06.600 is a measure a measure of facial symmetry and it is objective you can look at someone's face and

00:05:12.020 see how closely they match and so I think when a lot of people say it what they're talking about

00:05:15.800 is this is how I measure up to this ideal standard of beauty though I do think yeah you're right over

00:05:20.720 time or whoever said that over time society does value different aspects of women's beauty as time

00:05:26.680 changes yeah remember women make 70 to 80 percent of consumer buying decisions so all the media is 0.89

00:05:39.500 marketed towards women it's not for men what men what men likes really has not changed

00:05:44.420 natural more natural you see but I said earlier like it really does depend on the country and it

00:05:49.800 does depend on where you're living because it's a lot different in America than it is in Israel I

00:05:53.760 lived in Israel for over four years and the beauty standards there while completely different

00:05:59.900 when I got back here when I got back here I went and I wanted a nose job right away as soon as I got

00:06:08.860 back I went and got Botox I went and got lip filler I didn't feel beautiful here by beauty standards at

00:06:15.320 all but when I lived in Israel I was very confident and I felt great because there they don't care about 1.00

00:06:20.520 those beauty standards right they don't care about them they've done studies on this like with men all 1.00

00:06:28.320 over the world I mean I lived there first I mean I've lived okay I've lived in Germany I've lived all

00:06:33.060 over the world too so we could go back and forth in the I lived game but in general men tend to find

00:06:38.280 the same things attractive I don't believe that's true at all but okay well but what do you think

00:06:42.840 I find attractive um and I mean fit feminine friendly in general um symmetrical face I mean

00:06:49.740 I think you kind of know it when you see it if we're being honest so supposedly like um you know

00:06:54.280 biologically like where the men are attracted to like a woman that looks like she's capable of 1.00

00:06:59.500 bearing a child so like yeah to me that's the only way that we can say what we know men like hair 0.75

00:07:04.400 all different between what men like yeah it's not it's not that one thing like oh if you have a

00:07:09.440 small nose every man is gonna like you men in general aren't that picky and also I don't like

00:07:14.080 supermodels some men like the BBL big booty latinas like everyone has a different type so you can't 0.98

00:07:19.860 just put men into like a certain category I mean men really aren't that picky they swipe right on 0.99

00:07:24.560 dating apps like 50 percent of the time but again men just really are not picky on who they fuck but

00:07:29.660 they're picky on who they want to call their girlfriend yeah and another thing is is you can

00:07:34.680 be you can be the complete you can be the complete and total package and get delivered to the wrong

00:07:39.180 house I'm just saying you can be you can be what somebody is dying and praying for and not get

00:07:44.120 the choosers so then you pick the wrong house no I'm saying no I'm saying I'm saying you can walk

00:07:50.040 into a room and be attend to somebody in that room but go up to the wrong guy I mean not really not

00:07:57.100 okay I'll give let's let's do it let's do a different example is Lizzo gonna be a 10 anywhere

00:08:02.340 no Lizzo if she goes to Japan that's exactly what I'm that's exactly what I'm saying no no but she's 1.00

00:08:08.520 not gonna be a 10 anywhere I mean we could argue that maybe like you know I'm confused what the hell

00:08:13.060 we're arguing actually well yeah she will be a 10 somewhere like I said in the hood she's just like 1.00

00:08:19.860 every woman they have they could be the exact perfect package for the perfect person right but that's 1.00

00:08:25.620 exactly what I'm trying to say Lizzo if you want to use her as an example she's a beautiful woman 0.54

00:08:30.240 right right I think what she's getting at is that I mean I have common sides I think that's where you

00:08:36.760 get in I think that's where you get it wrong sometimes I don't understand why everyone can

00:08:41.060 we have to we have to generalize in order to have conversations sometimes we know we have to

00:08:46.560 otherwise if we're gonna have a conversation about every single exception but we're gonna be

00:08:50.540 here all day if I said you guys look like Lizzo would you take it as a compliment her face and her

00:09:07.580 confidence and the way that she carries herself hell yeah I can find beauty in every single woman 1.00

00:09:13.760 though like that's just me I think what Pearl was trying to get at is that it's okay to be normal

00:09:19.400 it's okay not to be a 10 out of 10 in society's standards everybody is told nowadays that they're

00:09:24.140 special and that you're a 10 you're a 10 no let's be for real we have to be honest with ourselves we go

00:09:28.600 out into the world I'm gonna go out somewhere somebody doesn't like black girls guess what I'm 1.00

00:09:31.460 gonna have to do except that people don't like black girls I'm gonna go out there and change the 1.00

00:09:34.960 world's opinion no that doesn't make that doesn't change how you feel about yourself yeah but I mean

00:09:38.740 I feel about myself because I'm going off of society's standards what I look like I feel that

00:09:43.160 way but she's saying the question was to rate our looks not ourselves there's a big difference

00:09:47.680 okay but come on even if we're gonna go off personality what we all have perfect 10 no no I'm

00:09:55.120 saying like there's no areas for improvement in your personality no I mean it is when you're saying

00:10:00.940 you're a 10 if you're including because you said I said I said if we were telling even if we were

00:10:10.260 going personality that's what I said that's true yeah but I think that we're having a little bit

00:10:14.360 of confusion about objectively there is an objective beauty standard you can look at a woman and there

00:10:19.000 are different across races across ethnicities across all different types of things there are women who 0.93

00:10:24.040 are objectively beautiful when they walk in a room you know that's a 10 you know it you know it when

00:10:28.320 you see it but there is relative beauty like like like you were saying it depends on where you are

00:10:34.780 and you may have somebody who for that for that culture for that area that's a 10 and it looks

00:10:39.860 different than the objective 10 that all most people if you have a room full of a thousand people

00:10:43.840 from all over the world they know when somebody walks in that's a 10 objectively because you can see

00:10:48.780 it's the facial symmetry it's just the math and our brains comprehend it as beauty 100 and if you bring

00:10:53.380 somebody with blue eyes somewhere where it's probably not predominantly not blue eyes they're

00:10:57.860 immediately going to get like a double look or be held to like oh wow that's beautiful because

00:11:03.380 it's not seen as often or whatever the case may be I'm not just I'm just saying blue eyes because I

00:11:07.960 that's what I have so I'm not going to critique somebody else's look but yeah well I don't

00:11:12.460 understand is who is the shot caller that said oh this is the perfect structured face this is what

00:11:17.800 beauty is it's just society who has the right to say that you're right who are you bringing up the golden ratio

00:11:23.880 it's just math it is and you know another thing is ridiculous to me is that okay this is what a 30

00:11:30.680 year old should look like this is what you should look like when you're 20 this is what 0.91

00:11:33.520 I have a question I have a question how tall are you how tall are you five seven okay would you date a guy

00:11:39.540 that's five foot I have really oh plenty of times five foot seven inches yeah no look where I come

00:11:58.260 from look you you just blessed and at my age you just blessed to get somebody that you feel me wants

00:12:03.420 to show you some love honey and show you a good time honey so you got to go along with it baby if

00:12:09.380 it's if it's your you feel me your type then it's your type height shouldn't matter you know what I

00:12:13.600 mean yeah I don't I think that's shallow to be honest to to put somebody down just based off their

00:12:18.220 women women do though if you look at the filters on dating apps though like most like the most common 0.97

00:12:22.760 filter is six foot and up and most women have that filter on if they can I have a question I feel 1.00

00:12:27.020 like most men like shorter women as well they do yeah that's my problem five two is like this they want 0.99

00:12:32.100 a little tiny so for those of you who are working in the adult industry I'm curious what you think

00:12:49.260 your life will look like about 10 to 15 years in the future like what do you picture where do you

00:12:53.940 picture your careers going I mean I've definitely been thinking about that a lot since I got pregnant

00:12:59.680 and also before as well um that's also why I kind of stepped out of the corn industry itself

00:13:08.500 because I was realizing that you know at least with OnlyFans yes they can screenshot yes they can

00:13:13.080 screen record everything and it can be put out on Reddit or whatever but that I'm on the hub

00:13:19.380 anyone can look me up and now it kind of sucks like looking back on it I don't regret my decisions

00:13:27.760 because they got me to where I am today and the person that I am today and I will always be thankful

00:13:31.820 for that um but I do wish I went ahead and did my research before and did things a lot differently

00:13:39.280 than I did um but I wonder did you know before you started so this is something so I'm a career coach

00:13:47.820 and I help people find jobs without buying college degrees so I help people get into tech and different

00:13:52.080 industries blue collar doesn't really matter whatever people want to do I'll help them figure out how to do it

00:13:55.880 and so I'm curious about if if it's common knowledge that if you do that kind of work later on down the

00:14:02.680 line it may show up and an employer may choose not to hire you and they're legally allowed to do so

00:14:07.080 and how have you like planned for that on down the line I went ahead I went ahead Kiana still is my real

00:14:12.760 name but I changed the spelling of it I use a fake last name legally you changed it no okay so if I walk

00:14:18.860 into a job they you can't correlate Kiana Kumani with my real name um what if they start like making

00:14:26.200 technology to like find your face well they already have I mean if they already have them they already

00:14:30.660 have but honestly after the work that I've done I don't see myself going back to a nine to five

00:14:35.380 um I do want to go to college and I do want to get my nursing degree because I do want to go and be a

00:14:42.700 traveling nurse and help out in different countries and I don't think it really matters when you're

00:14:46.200 going to be a nurse if you've done corn I don't see that as an issue because I'm I want to help

00:14:53.580 well a lot of employers a lot of employers do and it will impact your prospects and if that if that is

00:14:59.000 the case then that is the case but right now I'm trying to stack my money as much as possible and

00:15:03.100 again invest in Airbnb properties that's wise of you yeah yeah and do as much as possible I don't want 0.98

00:15:08.420 to waste my money on stupid stuff yeah I think it's dumb that a lot of women in the industry get into 1.00

00:15:14.980 the industry and they are so they have never had that much money before so they go and buy 1.00

00:15:20.440 designer purses designer shoes they waste all they waste yeah they waste all their money they spend it

00:15:26.720 and they don't learn how to do their tax forms they don't learn how they don't learn how to write off

00:15:30.900 things that they're paying for on a daily basis to keep up with their own their own like look like

00:15:36.400 when you're when you're an OF model I can write off these nails every time I get them done I can write 1.00

00:15:40.500 everything else do you own taxes or do you have CPAs I do my own I've I've because I did my business

00:15:47.700 degree I actually like took courses and shit like that and I actually really really enjoy doing that

00:15:52.000 I want to help more people do that when it comes to OF um but no I definitely have a plan for after

00:15:58.200 I'm done with the industry that I'm in right now did you did you start in OnlyFans because you

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JustPearlyThings - May 24, 2023

O F Model Call Herself a 10

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