JustPearlyThings - October 17, 2023


Obesity is Money Making Model For Women in 2023


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00:00:00.000 okay so today's topic we are talking about body positivity so my first
00:00:06.900 question is just a general question do you think body positivity is a good
00:00:11.100 thing yes or no starting here and then go around absolutely I think was the
00:00:16.020 body positivity benefits everyone and it's an individual thing that you have
00:00:20.320 to cultivate within self and it manifests for other people to perceive
00:00:24.060 positive win-win all around all right what do you think I definitely agree and
00:00:28.320 I think that you need to be comfortable within your own body as well and if you
00:00:34.920 can be positive and love yourself then you can you know accept everybody else as
00:00:40.140 well okay um I think it's a good thing maybe in a way but then if you maybe look
00:00:47.920 at the health side then maybe sometimes body positivity might not be such a good
00:00:53.760 thing okay so what do you mean by that um just you know I think that being body
00:01:03.060 confident you know you come in you can come in all sorts of different shapes and
00:01:06.300 sizes but if you're at a point where you might be at risk of certain health issues
00:01:12.780 then you have to bear that in mind that's the subject that also needs to be
00:01:18.000 incorporated into that okay what do you think and I think the word body
00:01:22.140 positivity can be used quite loosely I think there's a lot behind it I think
00:01:27.540 it's really about becoming a better version of yourself and through that
00:01:31.620 there are many channels so I do believe in it and I believe it's important the
00:01:38.060 self-love okay it's body positivity a good thing well I mean when I look at body
00:01:44.000 positivity I just see a bunch of marketing directors getting together and be like how
00:01:47.500 can we trick people into over consuming and label it as something nice so I'm a
00:01:55.420 big proponent of having good mental health and I think that you can't have
00:02:00.340 good mental health if you're sitting around thinking of yourself in a negative
00:02:04.720 way and definitely in regards to your body right you can't sit there all day
00:02:09.640 looking in the mirror and being like I'm disgusting I'm this I'm that because
00:02:14.260 that's just gonna wreak havoc on your psychological health however I also do
00:02:18.640 believe that it is up to us individuals because there are certain biological
00:02:22.180 components of life that are irrefutably true in regards to maintaining a healthy
00:02:26.880 body weight and I think that in my personal opinion everybody should strive to
00:02:32.200 be as best as possible a life of self-improvement and being physically fit is
00:02:38.180 one of many components of that but I don't think I think the body positivity
00:02:42.200 thing is not this nice thing that they're putting it out to be I think
00:02:47.000 there's a nefarious agenda behind it which is just like yeah over consume yeah
00:02:51.080 you can do whatever you want this kind of YOLO lifestyle but people are starting to
00:02:55.580 wake up to the fact that like especially with the recent you know situation that
00:02:58.880 happened in 2020 that we can't even talk about without getting trouble here on
00:03:02.520 YouTube but I think a lot of people became more health conscious about that at that
00:03:06.920 time so I think you know these corporations corporations and
00:03:11.560 governments they never have your best interests at heart it's always in their
00:03:17.120 interest and their interest is more power and more control directly over you so
00:03:22.820 when I hear body positivity like I get it you shouldn't hate yourself like and
00:03:26.840 men have body positivity issues like men men women they both look like they
00:03:30.800 want to be better than they are and it's a struggle as a human but I do think
00:03:34.820 that overall the body positivity movement I think on the surface level it looks
00:03:40.400 good but I think behind it it's not what they're trying it is that's my short
00:03:45.440 answer the subject body positivity is actually really personal to me because
00:03:51.740 I'm someone who I always like to treat people nicely and I treat people well and my
00:04:01.200 size unfortunately always like people would just be rude to me or disrespect me I am 21 stones now the
00:04:10.680 biggest I've been is 28 stones and I've had loads of like things happen to me in my life so
00:04:19.680 body positivity for me is just accepting the way you look the way the way we were
00:04:29.460 made and that's how I see body positivity now people have different definitions some
00:04:36.920 people think body positivity is changing your body which is fine changing your body but
00:04:43.140 some people think that then like basically they express how they're unhappy with their body which
00:04:49.680 is fine but then they say their body positive by changing their bodies but for me it's just really
00:04:56.940 literally accepting yourself looking yourself in the mirror and saying this is who I am this is how I've
00:05:02.880 been made this is how people have seen me my whole life and if they've been seeing me my whole life like
00:05:08.580 this I should just accept me and yeah I'm body positive okay so I'm just raise of
00:05:15.180 hands overall body positivity good thing raise your hand overall a good thing like
00:05:19.980 more good than bad okay that's what I and she's like half okay okay so I I think
00:05:24.840 body positivity is a horrible thing I think it's trying to normalize bad habits and I
00:05:29.940 don't think it's a good thing for society so I want to know why you guys disagree with
00:05:34.620 that because personally I just don't think I don't think we would put a a crack addict on
00:05:41.700 the cover of a magazine and in the United States obesity is the number one killer and I just don't
00:05:47.040 think it's a good thing that we are normalizing bad habits that's my opinion on it it's number one
00:05:50.860 killer of pets too you know that no way yep it's the number one reason animals die in America is from
00:05:56.420 obesity but yeah you guys yeah go ahead I think I get I see where you're coming from I really do and
00:06:04.580 it's sad and with most things everything does become about money for example I'll give you a
00:06:11.300 perfect example plus size women's it's booming all the ever older and plus size influences are
00:06:18.860 getting fun like they're getting funding or they're being invested in but with plus size men there's been
00:06:25.040 clothes that are being sold for big men but the models are small so again for I have a friend who
00:06:31.280 did that where she like they put on made her wear like a fat fat suit where she was actually smaller
00:06:36.260 and they made her bigger yeah they do so for that reason yeah I see exactly where pearl is coming from
00:06:42.620 because it upsets me that it is it has become a money-making thing a kind of a trend to kind of get
00:06:49.280 get in the views and get in that but for people who actually have had issues and with me but honestly
00:06:55.520 I will share my story one day but I can't share it like until I reach my goals and and I do and I
00:07:02.900 think what he is saying is spot-on like they're ready to roll out the red carpet for women but it
00:07:08.780 really it kind of again goes back to like that kind of nefarious agenda of making money yeah you know
00:07:15.560 because they're catering to women because like who can name some plus-size models right now like
00:07:22.760 Tess Holliday for example a huge name right can any of you name a male plus-size model my friend James
00:07:28.760 Corbin he's a supermodel but James Corbin is not exclusively known for being an oversized no yes he's
00:07:36.440 been in vogue no no no no but he's known mainly for being a talk show host no James Corbin is a
00:07:42.860 Corbin James if it's James Corbin Corbin did but oh he's he's a plus-size model he's from London and
00:07:50.300 he's someone who just wait he's plus size they talk about the talk show host James Corbin the guy who
00:07:56.720 was in the flight scandal recently or no someone out of some James Corden so basically there's a
00:08:05.300 plus that's my mistake then so basically there's a plus-size model from the UK called James Corbin
00:08:10.640 and he talks about body positivity and he's making a difference for the plus-size community and he's
00:08:17.960 not promoting obesity I don't promote obesity I tell people try and stick to natural foods because you may
00:08:25.100 be big but at least if you're big you're gonna have goodness and you're gonna have a lot of like
00:08:30.380 strength and yeah because some people's bodies are just the way they are pearl do you don't know girl
00:08:35.540 I I juice I even have a ninja creamy like I make my own lime grapes like all these things I actually
00:08:42.800 care about my health but my size I'm telling you like I'm also do do like I just don't that doesn't
00:08:50.000 make sense to me like I I think if you did like a training plan with me for a week you would lose weight
00:08:54.680 but I I really I really do I think you would so that's the thing because I have medical issues as
00:09:02.540 well I can't really openly speak about but I have stuff like gout flares up that flares my hands up
00:09:08.360 and all that so there's always an obstacle that comes in front but all my life I've battled I've
00:09:16.160 always said good food and get out exercise never be that reason don't ever let anyone give you that
00:09:24.200 reason to say you're fat and you're lazy because that's the stereotype that the world has of plus size
00:09:30.560 people I think there's something that we're not addressing here and it took that obesity and being
00:09:35.780 plus-sized but really it's obesity it's a clinical term it is what it is it's a symptom of something
00:09:40.720 else well I agree with you if I were to work out with you or with a personal trainer I absolutely
00:09:45.260 could lose the weight and so could most other people but obesity is a symptom of something else she's right nine
00:09:50.200 10 times out of 10 yes yes yes yes get someone in the gym put them on a three-month training program
00:09:55.120 and say lose this weight even if they do lose it what's to stop them from putting it back no I'm
00:10:02.080 saying shouldn't we fix that problem then so if it's emotional let's figure out what it is and fix it and
00:10:06.700 promote that instead of obesity on the cover of magazine she's she's spot-on and the number one way
00:10:11.500 that people cope with anxiety the most common way people cope with anxieties by eating yeah exactly you
00:10:17.320 know you eat too much so yeah and you're a thousand percent correct that goes back to like you know
00:10:21.820 your subconscious mind and how you perceive yourself because a lot of these people too adding to what
00:10:27.580 you said they will lose the weight they'll lose like 100 pounds 200 pounds 150 pounds but the
00:10:34.420 subconscious version of themselves in their mind is not that skinny healthy person and they'll self
00:10:39.640 sabotage back up to that weight so what she's saying is a thousand percent correct it's not that I mean I
00:10:46.360 think I'm people and I'm from America but like we're fat people were made and so that's so like
00:10:54.040 in America I think that the American people are grossly undereducated on the foundational principles
00:11:00.520 of having a diet carbs proteins fats they don't even know that those are the three different calorie
00:11:06.100 source and then alcohol if you want to add that but and they don't know about having high protein diet
00:11:10.660 and managing your calories and all that stuff but in addition to that right because we grew up in
00:11:16.500 America thinking like cereal was a healthy thing to eat as a child which is just sugar-corded carbs
00:11:21.880 right yeah now I only eat that if I smoke weed in Miami
00:11:25.380 but you know the this she's a thousand percent correct when she says it is absolutely a symptom
00:11:33.920 of some greater problem that's occurring psychologically because this is it's a
00:11:39.680 manifestation of something yeah but my point isn't like that may be true but my point is we shouldn't
00:11:45.400 be promoting it for sure like I just I have a problem when we start putting that on the cover
00:11:50.420 of magazines because like a model is supposed to be the epitome of beauty but it's supposed to be like
00:11:54.660 the top 10 15 percent of beauty just like in the NBA you go to see the top 10 15 percent of NBA players
00:12:00.720 and now we're putting people that are overweight and unhealthy on the covers of magazines and trying
00:12:05.260 to make it normal yeah and it's not like in Asia that trend is not picking up and they're like
00:12:09.740 looking at America and they're like what the fuck are these Americans doing well the average the
00:12:13.620 average woman in the US is five five hundred seventy pounds it's overweight yeah I know yeah and it's
00:12:19.200 because there's high there's high fructose corn syrup in everything in America that's the main reason
00:12:23.400 there's literally high fructose corn syrup and seed oils and everything that are just killing people
00:12:28.120 the chemicals Jean ah okay my opinion is I think people just need to be real 12
00:12:35.000 I'm sorry 12.1 stone 12.1 stone what about kilos average I thought stone isn't that what you guys do
00:12:42.940 here I'm Australian so I get my kilos 77 78 77 78 yeah 77 kilos good in your head I live in Japan my
00:12:55.700 my scale my scale isn't my scale is in kilos in the industry in Japan yeah sorry go ahead I
00:13:02.000 totally understand what you do what you guys are saying I just think people just need to be more
00:13:09.500 real especially plus-size people like with me I'm not about the I'm not trying to lie here I'm not trying
00:13:15.060 to promote anything but the truth is when for example when you're shopping for clothes as a child
00:13:21.940 imagine perform from from four years old I was always a bigger child and so I've always six
00:13:28.740 foot clothes never fit me imagine so imagine now you're buying clothes you're going shopping you want
00:13:36.180 to buy clothes I still can't buy clothes especially here so yeah so for plus size the way it is is they
00:13:41.920 just they're basically just made anyhow in any cuts so you can get something and it will look like you're
00:13:48.500 wearing like blinds or something or some sort of you've just wrapped anything around you like that's
00:13:53.240 how it looks so that's why it's important to have the representation but I honestly think plus size
00:13:59.460 people should just be real it isn't it is unhealthy being big but what are you doing about it I know what
00:14:07.920 I'm doing I'm eating properly I'm making sure I'm having my green juices I'm making sure I'm having
00:14:13.220 porridge so all the rubbish comes out and and when I pig out I do pig out and I love it but I just
00:14:19.200 think that's a bit like entitled to say oh because I'm big now I need to see this on the cover of
00:14:24.380 magazine no no maybe not maybe not you saying that but I'm just saying like that that's what the body
00:14:28.540 positivity movement seems to be pushing like we're big we need that representation like I'm a ginger
00:14:33.200 where's my ginger representation but it's like I think it's like I just think like models are supposed
00:14:40.960 to be the top like 10% of beauty like they're that's supposed to be like I kind of want to look
00:14:45.660 at a magazine and see something I will never attain but that's the I'm I don't want to say
00:14:52.960 that's the problem that's not the right way okay if I go to the NBA I know I will never be as good as
00:14:58.560 those WNBA players but it's okay because that's the top 10% of talent but that's the thing you're
00:15:03.380 your own self Pearl just like you've got this successful podcast that's you that's what you're good at
00:15:08.020 that's your skill like people have their own things that they're good at and and and we should
00:15:13.840 also celebrate as human beings the stuff that we're good at our individuality there's a it's also a big
00:15:19.280 difference between men and women too because like metal watch like predator and be like I bet you I
00:15:24.560 could figure out how to use steroids and like look that good a guy will think like I can I can up my
00:15:31.080 protein I can get a gym partner like you know they they lead in their delusion in a positive aspect but
00:15:36.240 then like and from my experience like you know if you were to just tell a woman that any part of
00:15:43.560 her physical appearance was maybe not up to par according to your personal standards as a man
00:15:48.680 you know they take it as a personal attack yeah and that's when they're like well yeah well you have
00:15:53.760 fake teeth and your fucking suit is ugly you know so it's a big difference between the genders for
00:16:00.500 sure I'm and I just if you look at it right because it's kind of disingenuous to if you're
00:16:06.380 intellectually sound enough to perceive the reality of the situation that like it's a it's a gigantic
00:16:13.820 marketing campaign towards women versus men because if there was body positivity we're talking about the
00:16:22.380 entire body correct like how many women often make fun of guys who are short it's like part of the
00:16:29.260 culture like well he's five foot five short man short man in syndrome small dick energy you know
00:16:37.840 the yeah imagine if guy said small tit energy I said oh time like with girls my age like we all like
00:16:48.440 my type right is like tall you need to be like minimum like 5'10 yeah if I look past someone that's
00:16:55.100 like 5'5 for me I'm just like no sorry instantly and nowadays that's like that's not good for us
00:17:03.040 girls to like say that that is like a thing but you don't see the men coming forward and saying
00:17:08.520 get short men on the cover of magazines where's our short man representation no you don't yeah and
00:17:13.540 this all goes back to money because it's all about and it's sad to say but modern day marketing if you
00:17:20.240 look at it it is all geared towards financially extorting women and you look at like for example
00:17:26.120 I'm American again I'm using American example but over two-thirds of the student loan debt in America
00:17:32.180 is owned by women and then on the flip side of that the top 10 lowest earning college degrees
00:17:40.400 are all majority dominated by women as well so they're taking the tons of tons of debt and getting
00:17:48.640 the most worthless jobs and they're later in life like yeah I want to marry like they find out this
00:17:56.560 guy is amazing whatever they want to get married she's like oh yeah but I have like $150,000 student
00:18:01.480 loan debt and the guy's just like oh well you can be my girlfriend you know do you still have to pay
00:18:08.220 that off though yeah you have to you have to that's and in America sorry I'm American so I'm just giving
00:18:16.080 guys American side of things that's the only debt you cannot erase by filing bankruptcy so you can file
00:18:23.100 bankruptcy I got credit card debt of mortgage debt car loans everything we cannot get rid of that loan
00:18:30.060 to the United States government well student loan debt so we have a video we're gonna show could you
00:18:37.260 show the couple one first okay I'm gonna read the super chats really quick while we're waiting for
00:18:50.520 him to bring it up Denalva it's so funny they made an account Denalva Denalva Denalva Denalva Denalva the
00:18:56.100 actual corn industry industry really sold the public a bill of goods sold us waste corn and byproducts and
00:19:04.680 surplus and cereal and told us it was healthy all of those juices are full of sugar that's not what
00:19:10.980 you want a huge contributor to the weight epidemic is propaganda by the food industry sugar and carbs
00:19:15.720 in any form are going to be stored as fat let me one second guys also make sure you like the video guys
00:19:24.840 again just a reminder we are going to open up the chat at 1,500 likes and then I just want to see how
00:19:35.880 many it was oh is it just the two okay doubled are you are you ready with it all right
00:19:40.160 interesting did she make that that's why that's actually it's funny because I'll be like what the
00:20:02.040 hell I've been going unhealthy throughout the years because she's that's the thing there's there's a yes
00:20:07.620 she's celebrating herself but the way it's done with happy music I'd be I'd be actually no I can't say
00:20:13.920 I can't don't want to say anything but I don't know like I've put on up I was 28 stones and one
00:20:21.720 thing that I know I guess people are different and it's good she's celebrating herself but again
00:20:27.360 that's the type of I see how when skinnier people skinnier than me look at this video I can I can
00:20:35.640 imagine what they think so I know that you guys aren't also what do you think they think they
00:20:41.280 think oh gosh she she's dying she is her insides are growing older and and I'm not gonna lie same with
00:20:50.120 me when I'm when I'm eating certain things I'm thinking oh gosh oh gosh like something and you
00:20:57.300 know with big people as well like yeah let me give some big plus size facts when you have to go to
00:21:04.740 the loo I'm telling you it feels like fireworks are in your belly and and there is a pressure so but
00:21:12.660 like all these plus size okay sorry I think I'm going no yeah just sorry guys sorry I'm the thing is
00:21:17.120 this for me like so I'm a big fan of love I'm a big fan of like being in love and being in a
00:21:22.560 relationship having a good woman in your life and for me I just maybe this is selfish but like you
00:21:29.240 need to fucking stay skinny so you don't die because I don't want to do this again I don't
00:21:33.200 want to fall in love and lose you and all that shit so anytime I'm in a relationship with a girl
00:21:37.960 whether she works out or not she's gonna start working out when she's dating me so I would just
00:21:42.860 hate to see that as a person dating someone who is gaining weight and then I have to be like
00:21:48.940 looking and dealing with the health issues that come with that yeah so women are more likely than
00:21:54.320 men to gain weight after marriage so do you guys think it's fair to gain weight after getting married
00:22:02.820 why not I don't think it's fair you don't think it's fair drop it on them Pam drop it on them Pam
00:22:08.960 that person met you a certain way and obviously that's what they went for and that's what they
00:22:17.120 desired so that's what they will continue to desire and although they would probably still love you
00:22:22.580 they definitely wouldn't find you still as attractive that's just that's just how it would be
00:22:27.560 yeah I think that's just like a lot of I think that's like really common sense that's really not
00:22:32.360 present in today's generation because it's just like it's unfair it's so selfish to just like
00:22:38.960 that's like a guy getting a relationship with a girl like oh you know what I'm gonna quit my job
00:22:44.120 and I want you to take care of me you guys encourage your partners just encourage them with food encourage
00:22:52.700 them exercise why do we yeah but he probably was encouraging her but she she literally gained 120
00:23:01.040 pounds that's a whole other thing they did it together it feels it seems like they it was
00:23:05.000 the couple goal it was that goes you know couple no no they didn't no she got bigger he didn't get that
00:23:11.240 much bigger yeah let's play it again anyway you guys don't know the world of chop chases as well
00:23:17.480 I'm I am big so I can tell you the world of chop chases as well we're talking about the video like
00:23:21.740 I know but he probably likes big women no no come on he wouldn't have made then he would have married
00:23:27.320 listen wait wait wait he would have married a big woman if you wanted a big woman so I think it's
00:23:33.380 it's one thing if you marry wait if you marry a chick and she's like over I don't know what 200 pounds is
00:23:38.940 here okay that's one thing but it's like if you sign up for one thing and then she bamboozles you
00:23:44.960 later you think that's fair just like if I marry a guy thinking he's gonna pay all the bills and I'm gonna get
00:23:50.420 to be a stay-at-home wife and that's what I thought and then one day he's like you know what
00:23:55.140 yeah I just don't feel like working anymore or I don't feel like being faithful anymore
00:24:02.160 I'm just gonna go fuck every girl I could find now or on her side too it just not be cool I just think
00:24:09.620 that you need to be because I think it's common sense when you get a relationship you're like okay
00:24:15.380 this is what I like so let's try to keep this going or make this better right and if it goes
00:24:24.720 both ways yeah and I think that I've I've been there I've been in a relationship and I've put on
00:24:29.940 weight in that relationship so I'm not just talking you know blindly I've gone up to 16 stone at my
00:24:36.020 heaviest so but I also know that as much as you try to put this body positivity on everything at the
00:24:42.620 particular at that particular point in my life I was very unhappy through a lot of reasons because
00:24:48.860 I knew that I wasn't the same person I was when my partner met me and I didn't feel confident in
00:24:53.960 myself but even though I've lost that weight I've still carried that with me so for the Americans at home
00:25:00.380 I was calculating yeah 16 stone is 224 pounds you look great oh my gosh you're 220 pounds you look great
00:25:08.620 59 like nearly 16 stone wow seriously I know how I fit so as much as people used to say oh you look
00:25:16.140 good me personally for myself I didn't feel that way but you know I felt I I was like that my whole life
00:25:23.720 but I was just sick and tired of being unhappy I'm like do you know this world is so sure yeah
00:25:29.960 and I can get to that point without that then great but me personally it was just a massive thing for
00:25:35.780 I couldn't get past it's amazing how good you look now that's like you because a lot of the majority of
00:25:40.340 people they when they get that big they can't go back it's a large percentage of people that
00:25:46.280 yeah I was at my heaviest I was 19 stone that's more than 16 stone so that wow are you guys friends
00:25:56.360 yeah yeah did you lose it together I was literally the fat kid that ate cake I was the food was my
00:26:06.440 comfort it was it was everything to me Matilda yeah and that's that's all I loved and it was an everyday
00:26:13.100 thing but in my head in my mind I was shifting the weight but the reality of it as I wasn't I wasn't
00:26:19.040 motivated and there was nothing to work toward and I live with that for most of my childhood I live with
00:26:25.760 that throughout my early adult years I had children when I was young so obviously after having children
00:26:32.180 you've got the baby weight that stayed on you and then you will have areas of your body then that
00:26:38.840 that you can't cover up yeah you know that you can't hide and so that kind of led me to then
00:26:46.460 staying at home and then there's a cycle after that where you know you you're at home you're socially
00:26:54.920 excluded from from from places and people and then you tend to put yourself into a box a self-hate then
00:27:03.140 um because whatever trauma that you actually had which got you there starts to manifest as you get
00:27:09.520 older and when you look at the people around you when you look at how people respond to you you're
00:27:14.720 constantly battling yourself and it is self yeah and and for me I had to heal first I had to first
00:27:22.160 figure out what was the trauma yeah where's the problem um and with that you don't even know where
00:27:28.580 to begin because you don't know what the problem is and then you have to soul search you have to
00:27:33.500 look who you've got around you you don't have to look at your parents and how you grew up your school
00:27:39.140 days and all of that you have to calculate and sometimes you are the problem sometimes the way
00:27:45.140 that you've behaved is a problem however the way that you've behaved isn't necessarily because you've
00:27:50.420 wanted to be that way but you was trying to be something that you was not in the first instance
00:27:55.100 so for me once I discovered all of that and I and I shifted to to some weight and got to a healthy
00:28:02.300 weight I then chose for me to have surgery that was that was the gift to myself so after I'd healed
00:28:09.500 and I'd recognized where the trauma came from and I dealt with that trauma my gift to myself then was
00:28:15.940 to have surgery what kind of surgery I had a tummy tuck good for you I've had liposuction me too I've had my
00:28:21.680 beefs done I had I had like what so I did so and tying into the whole thing because a lot of people
00:28:26.660 try to like shit on me right now because I got liposuction right because I was just in such a bad
00:28:31.860 place you know why because I was reading YouTube comments everybody's just telling me this was in
00:28:37.000 like 2021 March I got it but I also was fully transparent about it and I made a full documentary
00:28:43.400 good about it in Tokyo and but at the time it was so crazy because I was so like just constantly
00:28:51.880 being slammed because I wasn't like huge I just had like a little in the in my midsection and then
00:28:57.340 I was just like a man possessed and then I just like yeah let's do it let's do it pay pay pay pay
00:29:03.860 whatever and the next thing you know I'm laying on the fucking surgery table like oh fuck like
00:29:07.420 this is gonna be crazy and then I woke up and I was just like oh my god I can't believe I went
00:29:14.060 through with that but that you know the same for myself but and it's you know it's so crazy too
00:29:18.920 given them because like I said I'm not I'm not hiding it I don't care I tell everybody you know
00:29:23.600 what put it on my tombstone like put it right there here here lies MLD you got liposuction what an asshole
00:29:28.760 you know um I'm happy when I did it and then I learned a lot of lessons along the way
00:29:36.800 so but even though now I get shamed why for being a man that got liposuction right but I don't care
00:29:45.740 because you get called lazy though that you were lazy oh you know everything this guy does this guy
00:29:51.500 has no discipline this guy this this guy that I'm like have you seen the business empire that I run
00:29:57.960 like I didn't run that being lazy but all that aside yeah I would rather personally I would
00:30:03.780 rather be shamed for getting liposuction than being shamed for being overweight and at this point
00:30:10.960 in my life if they because it did people are going to criticize you no matter what and I did use it
00:30:16.300 because you know I wanted to create this documentary and I wanted the fat cells out of my body and so
00:30:21.900 um I'm still I'm even here on the UK on my trip I'm still exercising I still eat clean
00:30:27.940 yeah and I understand to uh is it Alicia Alicia Alicia Alicia Alicia I'm so sorry I'm okay
00:30:35.500 you'll forgive her Alicia as Alicia alluded to earlier Alicia was correct when she said the symptom
00:30:42.700 is something going on inside you and then Pam Pam as well said that what was going on inside of you
00:30:48.220 is there is some there's some trauma there's some things so I think what Pearl said is absolutely
00:30:53.900 correct we can't glorify this because at the end of the day what we're doing is we're glorifying poor
00:31:00.180 mental health yes because it's we can't be glorifying that kind of stuff because and you're literally
00:31:05.520 sending people off to an early grave I'm a big fan of being alive you know and it's so it's interesting
00:31:13.640 too that you guys like weren't hand selected for this body positivity thing but that's like the
00:31:21.900 universe is coming together that's pretty cool the the thing is there's a perception um when it comes
00:31:27.440 to people that choose to have elective surgery and that is what I try in my day-to-day life try to
00:31:35.200 allow people to see that it's not about just wanting to have surgery to get rid but some people
00:31:39.320 are not best gym candidates I wasn't I mean I I'd spent thousands of pounds on on personal trainers
00:31:45.840 on diet plans um I was doing all sorts however what happens is yes you might lose the weight
00:31:51.900 the weight will go down in my case as many of you know I was just banned on TikTok and we are
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