JustPearlyThings - May 11, 2023


Only Fans Model Dominates Rich Men For A Living


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10 minutes

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2,149

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225

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15

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In this episode I speak to a dominatrix who has been in the sex industry for a long time. She's been with me for 4 years now and has seen a lot of change in the industry. In this episode we talk about what it's like working with rich men and how much they make.

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00:00:00.000 I've worked in this sex industry for a long time and most of the men that come to me are
00:00:06.000 rich married men.
00:00:08.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:00:09.000 They're rich and they're married.
00:00:11.000 I don't get broke men.
00:00:12.000 It's the rich and the married men that are happy in their relationships, but you're not
00:00:18.000 because you're finding pleasure somewhere else.
00:00:20.000 Wait, so I'm curious.
00:00:21.000 What do you do?
00:00:22.000 Is it the dominatrix stuff for them?
00:00:24.000 Dominatrix, come in, stripper. 1.00
00:00:27.000 So how do you know how much money they make?
00:00:29.000 Because they tell me, I've been to their houses before.
00:00:32.000 Oh, so you-
00:00:33.000 Yeah, and I see all their girlfriends and their wife's pictures all nicely set up.
00:00:36.000 Okay, so you'll go to their actual house and like, I'm sorry, I don't, dominatrix, is that like when you-
00:00:41.000 You know what that is.
00:00:42.000 When you're horrible.
00:00:43.000 I've seen like Wolf of Wall Street.
00:00:47.000 Is that like that stuff?
00:00:49.000 I'd say a bit more extreme, like making men eat from the toilets.
00:00:53.000 Oh my goodness.
00:00:55.000 Yeah, men pay for this.
00:00:57.000 Rich men.
00:00:58.000 People in the politics, okay?
00:00:59.000 People who do politics and stuff.
00:01:01.000 You'll find them all there.
00:01:02.000 They want you to hit them and make them eat from the toilet. 0.74
00:01:05.000 Can I ask you a question?
00:01:06.000 And they go home to their wife and kiss them. 0.91
00:01:08.000 Can I ask you?
00:01:09.000 Are these two questions?
00:01:10.000 I'm actually really interested.
00:01:11.000 So number one, are these guys that you would find conventionally charismatic and attractive or like they would get other chicks anyways or they would not?
00:01:18.000 I've had very good looking men and very ugly men.
00:01:21.000 The second question.
00:01:22.000 The very good looking men, is there a risk?
00:01:24.000 Because one thing that you offer, like my friend says this, that a sex worker offers, it's not the sex that they offer, it's the privacy.
00:01:31.000 It's like the fact that there's not going to be leaking out.
00:01:34.000 Yeah.
00:01:35.000 Are these good looking guys that can get other chicks? 0.95
00:01:36.000 For them, is it because it's just a safer way to do it?
00:01:39.000 Yeah.
00:01:40.000 Maybe.
00:01:41.000 Yeah.
00:01:42.000 Maybe.
00:01:43.000 Because they know that I probably won't go out and speak to them and they can confide in me because they know I don't know them.
00:01:47.000 They don't know me and they could block my number and never talk to me again.
00:01:51.000 And I'd never be able to contact them anyway.
00:01:53.000 So they're paying for privacy.
00:01:54.000 Do you have to sign NDAs or anything?
00:01:56.000 Um, sometimes, I mean, I've done it twice only because one of the people that came to me actually knew him.
00:02:02.000 I didn't want him to, you know, leak.
00:02:04.000 How many rich men have you, so you've done this for three, three, four years.
00:02:09.000 How many rich men clients have you had?
00:02:13.000 I only see high class men.
00:02:14.000 So all of them.
00:02:15.000 Wow.
00:02:16.000 Yeah, probably not all of them, but very, very high majority of them.
00:02:21.000 I reckon out of all of them, I've probably seen 10 low class men.
00:02:25.000 Wow, so.
00:02:26.000 I don't like, like, I don't, in the job, I don't.
00:02:29.000 Is that because of, like, is that because of you?
00:02:33.000 Sorry, sorry.
00:02:34.000 Is that kind of because of your market specifically?
00:02:37.000 Like, or is that typical among, do you have friends that do the same thing?
00:02:41.000 Um, I have quite a few friends that are in, like, the industry, but my main friends work their 9 to 5s and stuff.
00:02:48.000 Um, but.
00:02:49.000 But I meant, like, out of your other friends that do sex work, are their clients mostly rich too?
00:02:54.000 Yeah.
00:02:55.000 Wow.
00:02:56.000 Yeah, I'd say so, yeah.
00:02:57.000 That's so surprising to me.
00:02:58.000 It's not surprising at all.
00:02:59.000 It makes perfect sense.
00:03:00.000 Now, by the way, just, just to be clear, just because all your clients are rich men does not mean that all rich men do that kind of thing, right?
00:03:04.000 Oh, no, of course not.
00:03:05.000 Of course.
00:03:06.000 Statistically, it's about 20%, 20% of men that cheated the higher income bracket.
00:03:11.000 And statistically, it's about 20% of women in the lower income bracket. 1.00
00:03:14.000 But as a man's income goes up, his propensity to cheat grows from, like, 13% to about 20%. 0.78
00:03:18.000 It sort of levels out about 200,000.
00:03:20.000 And then for a woman, her propensity to cheat actually drops from 20 down to about 13 as a man's income goes to about 200,000. 0.97
00:03:26.000 And I've looked at some, like, interesting charts about that.
00:03:28.000 So I just want to be like, yes, that obviously exists, but it's not all rich men.
00:03:32.000 Yeah, it's not all.
00:03:33.000 But it makes sense that it would be rich men because they just, I think it's a financial thing.
00:03:36.000 Yeah.
00:03:37.000 Like, for a lot of guys to drop 500 bucks could be a lot of money.
00:03:39.000 But if it doesn't mean anything to you, it's like, whatever.
00:03:41.000 Yeah.
00:03:42.000 Yeah, what does it cost?
00:03:43.000 What do you cost?
00:03:44.000 It depends.
00:03:45.000 So in half an hour, an hour overnight.
00:03:48.000 Is that cleaning?
00:03:49.000 Sorry, we're talking about it.
00:03:50.000 Dominatrix. 1.00
00:03:51.000 Toilet cleaning.
00:03:52.000 Because the dominatrix is non-sexual. 0.99
00:03:54.000 They're not allowed to touch you.
00:03:56.000 You're basically a goddess in their eyes, you know.
00:03:58.000 It's not like a school and service.
00:03:59.000 It's not like that.
00:04:00.000 So overnight, I charge 1.5K for an hour, 300 pounds with a 100-pound deposit.
00:04:05.000 And that's not even including the extras because they want me to do really dirty things.
00:04:08.000 I put their head in the toilet or maybe poo on them. 1.00
00:04:12.000 I'm not ashamed of it.
00:04:14.000 I've done it.
00:04:15.000 I have done it.
00:04:16.000 No one's ever done it to me, but I have done it to them.
00:04:18.000 And I'll admit that.
00:04:19.000 You pooped on a guy. 0.67
00:04:21.000 Yeah.
00:04:22.000 Was he a good-looking guy?
00:04:23.000 Yeah.
00:04:24.000 He actually was.
00:04:25.000 He actually was.
00:04:26.000 No, I just wanted to know.
00:04:27.000 It feels more wrong.
00:04:28.000 You don't want to meet him in the street and be like, I think he's nice.
00:04:30.000 It feels more wrong when they're good-looking for some reason.
00:04:33.000 Because it feels like they shouldn't even be there.
00:04:35.000 Yeah.
00:04:36.000 And I say to them, why are you here?
00:04:38.000 They say, because it's just easier.
00:04:40.000 And I like my fetishes.
00:04:41.000 And you know, you said about the fat women.
00:04:43.000 There's so many men that have a fetish of fat women. 0.98
00:04:47.000 But they won't admit it to the public because it's shameful.
00:04:50.000 But they love it.
00:04:51.000 That's what I was.
00:04:52.000 They love it.
00:04:53.000 But they're not marrying them.
00:04:54.000 The rubber, the market value is the marriage.
00:04:55.000 They're not marrying them.
00:04:56.000 They're not marrying them.
00:04:57.000 But.
00:04:58.000 I look at things on extreme.
00:04:59.000 By the way, when I.
00:05:00.000 They're ashamed to marry them. 0.86
00:05:01.000 That's why.
00:05:02.000 When I said earlier, just because a guy wants to crap on you and that's like, whatever,
00:05:04.000 you crap on them and that's like, you don't consider. 0.60
00:05:07.000 I was being like.
00:05:08.000 You didn't know.
00:05:09.000 Yeah.
00:05:10.000 I was being like.
00:05:11.000 That was a hyperbole.
00:05:12.000 I was really exaggerating.
00:05:13.000 And this just got really real.
00:05:14.000 It has happened.
00:05:15.000 It has happened.
00:05:16.000 Do they ever pay to like crap on the girls? 1.00
00:05:18.000 They do, but I'd never do that.
00:05:20.000 I'm the one that's in the power.
00:05:21.000 No man could ever do that to me.
00:05:23.000 Even if he was Chris Brown or whatever.
00:05:26.000 No one.
00:05:27.000 See, this is what I find.
00:05:28.000 I find this perplexing because it's, you know, so a rich guy will marry the high value
00:05:33.000 woman, but he still wants what he wants. 0.60
00:05:37.000 Yeah.
00:05:38.000 It's confusing.
00:05:39.000 So this is what I find.
00:05:40.000 So you go out.
00:05:41.000 You might like steak every day, but every now and then you gotta get a McDonald's.
00:05:44.000 You know what I mean?
00:05:45.000 Every now and then McDonald's is nice.
00:05:48.000 But I feel like that's why I get a bit confused because where I get the really high class
00:05:53.000 men come to me sometimes, it confuses me because I'm like, you shouldn't be here.
00:05:57.000 So they don't want that.
00:05:58.000 So in my eyes, they don't want the high value.
00:06:00.000 The high value woman is for their own ego. 1.00
00:06:03.000 No, the high value woman is for their children. 1.00
00:06:04.000 It's for the show.
00:06:05.000 For the children.
00:06:06.000 Not for the show, for the children.
00:06:07.000 For the children.
00:06:08.000 And obviously, it's good if you're with a really high class person, it makes yourself
00:06:12.000 look better as well because whoever you're with reflects on who you are as a person
00:06:15.000 as well.
00:06:16.000 I just think it's like what they want long term.
00:06:19.000 Like I think men will always crave variety, which sometimes is whales, I guess.
00:06:24.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:06:25.000 I don't know.
00:06:26.000 Yeah, but a fetish is always a good thing.
00:06:29.000 I don't know.
00:06:30.000 There's a reason why they hide that.
00:06:31.000 A thousand fetishes.
00:06:32.000 They're not.
00:06:33.000 Yeah.
00:06:34.000 Not every fetish needs to be played out.
00:06:36.000 Exactly.
00:06:37.000 Yeah.
00:06:38.000 There's even a fetish and guys will pay you to pop balloons with your bum cheeks. 0.83
00:06:43.000 And it's like, what?
00:06:44.000 Why?
00:06:45.000 Like, how does that turn?
00:06:47.000 Like, how does that?
00:06:48.000 I don't know.
00:06:49.000 It's weird.
00:06:50.000 That's definitely childhood trauma.
00:06:51.000 And all these people, all these men that do come to me, it does root down to some sort
00:06:56.000 of childhood issue or trauma.
00:06:57.000 It definitely does because even like the whole dominatrix thing where they like being hurt,
00:07:02.000 abused and called horrible names, they've got issues.
00:07:06.000 They've got a lot of issues.
00:07:08.000 And they're issues that they need to obviously get some help.
00:07:11.000 Maybe it's like mommy issues or something.
00:07:14.000 Maybe.
00:07:15.000 Yeah.
00:07:16.000 Like I've had men cry to me before and sit in my lap.
00:07:18.000 What do they cry to you about?
00:07:19.000 Just their life.
00:07:20.000 They've got money and they hate their life.
00:07:22.000 And they're always on drugs.
00:07:24.000 Like, what do they say?
00:07:25.000 What are their problems?
00:07:26.000 Just that they're not happy in their marriage.
00:07:29.000 They're always working.
00:07:30.000 They're always stressed.
00:07:31.000 They're always on drugs.
00:07:32.000 You know?
00:07:33.000 Do you know why they're not happy in their marriage?
00:07:35.000 Like, what are their complaints?
00:07:36.000 I mean, I don't really go to and I just kind of just let them cry on me.
00:07:40.000 Wow.
00:07:41.000 But yeah, no, because after that I need mind therapy when I deal with men like that.
00:07:45.000 But yeah.
00:07:46.000 Yeah.
00:07:47.000 That's what I mean.
00:07:48.000 So it's very mentally draining for me to do this job and I know I shouldn't be in it because
00:07:52.000 it's like I'm taking on everyone else's trauma and I need to deal with mine first.
00:07:56.000 So yeah.
00:07:57.000 Just a caveat.
00:07:58.000 Like again, because all these guys come to you, doesn't mean that all guys that are like
00:08:01.000 that do go to that kind of a service.
00:08:02.000 The reality is that wealthier people do report a significantly higher statistical mean of being
00:08:09.000 satisfied with their life.
00:08:10.000 And they report a significantly higher happiness sort of index to their marriage, which is again
00:08:16.000 why 85% of millionaires are married.
00:08:18.000 So what you're reporting is not actually the norm.
00:08:20.000 That is the fringe of that.
00:08:21.000 It just is.
00:08:22.000 I just want guys to understand it.
00:08:23.000 Because there's some guys here listening like, oh, see, that's why I don't be successful
00:08:27.000 because I'm just going to be sad.
00:08:28.000 No, statistically, you'll be way happier.
00:08:30.000 You'll be way happier.
00:08:31.000 Just trust me, guys.
00:08:32.000 Build yourself.
00:08:33.000 Oh, no, definitely, definitely.
00:08:34.000 Yeah.
00:08:35.000 I feel like you just get the odd rich men who obviously aren't doing it the right way.
00:08:39.000 They're abusing themselves with drugs and things like that.
00:08:42.000 Some, not everyone loves their life, you know.
00:08:44.000 They'd rather cry in a Ferrari.
00:08:45.000 Yeah.
00:08:46.000 Yeah.
00:08:47.000 Yeah.
00:08:48.000 Yeah.
00:08:49.000 Okay, for the guys, have you ever stopped dating a girl because of her past?
00:08:54.000 Yeah.
00:08:55.000 What happened?
00:08:56.000 What'd you find out?
00:08:58.000 Um, so I found out, I was 18, found out that the girl, yeah, is that better for you? 0.90
00:09:09.000 Yeah.
00:09:10.000 Okay, cool.
00:09:11.000 Um, 18, I found out the girl had slept with, like, multiple men.
00:09:17.000 And this was through a conversation that I had heard from one of my friends saying,
00:09:22.000 oh, what's that girl? 1.00
00:09:24.000 Like, I know she's been with, like, this guy and that guy.
00:09:28.000 And as soon as I heard that, I said to the girl, why did you tell me a strange number?
00:09:31.000 You told me this number, and now I'm finding out it's more than likely this.
00:09:36.000 And she broke down and said, oh, I didn't want to talk to you about all these girls and
00:09:39.000 blah, all these men, sorry, blah, blah, blah.
00:09:41.000 For me, that was the end.
00:09:42.000 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:09:45.000 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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