JustPearlyThings - July 08, 2023


Only Fans Model Gets SHUT DOWN For Saying This


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In this episode, we talk about the dangers of porn and the benefits of not watching it when you're a teenager. We also discuss the impact porn can have on a young man's sex life and whether or not it should be discouraged.

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00:00:00.000 I don't think Pearl's talking about that negative.
00:00:02.300 She's saying negative on society, not negative to the individuals.
00:00:04.280 Yeah, but that's what I mean.
00:00:05.600 It's a negative on society for the pure fact that most people can't earn that much.
00:00:12.260 No.
00:00:12.480 But what they don't realise is that most people on OnlyFans don't earn that much.
00:00:16.780 Yeah, no, you're going back to money.
00:00:17.900 I'm saying it's a negative on society because it's corrupting the youth,
00:00:21.940 it's promoting degeneracy.
00:00:22.920 Yeah, but then I think that's just general porn.
00:00:24.640 I feel like with OnlyFans, there are so many rules of things you can and can't do.
00:00:28.180 I feel like the stuff that I can't talk about on YouTube.
00:00:31.500 I just don't understand.
00:00:32.300 How is it a good thing to be?
00:00:34.220 Because everyone is a sexual person.
00:00:35.900 Every single person has sexuality and urges inside of them.
00:00:39.120 Yeah, but you can do that inside of marriage or a relationship.
00:00:42.940 Yeah, but who's going to get married at 13 when they're starting puberty 0.70
00:00:45.440 and they need to have a wank for the first time? 1.00
00:00:47.880 I mean, you can just wait until you're very old.
00:00:50.240 Who's going to wait?
00:00:51.500 Come on.
00:00:52.780 Tell me that there is a 13-year-old boy out there that's going to wait until marriage 0.77
00:00:56.660 to actually, you know.
00:00:58.700 They used to.
00:01:00.020 They did it for hundreds of years.
00:01:01.340 No, they didn't.
00:01:02.300 That's the stories they told you.
00:01:03.800 No, they didn't.
00:01:04.200 They did it.
00:01:04.660 I would say it's more admirable to have willpower nowadays
00:01:07.880 than to just go to everything online.
00:01:10.360 Everything is so accessible.
00:01:11.500 You know, willpower.
00:01:11.900 Porn up is the most searched thing.
00:01:13.760 You've got OnlyFans, girls everywhere. 1.00
00:01:15.260 There's escorts everywhere.
00:01:16.380 But that's the thing.
00:01:17.100 I think willpower is one of those things.
00:01:18.640 It is important, but it is actually also, it can be very negative
00:01:23.100 to try and have retention, do things for retention purposes.
00:01:27.640 What's the negativity?
00:01:28.860 So the negative thing is that it can actually cause cancer
00:01:31.560 and stuff like that.
00:01:32.740 Show me some studies on that.
00:01:34.340 I can show you those.
00:01:35.260 You can't destroy that out there.
00:01:36.700 Wet dreams are a real thing.
00:01:38.420 It releases itself.
00:01:40.760 No, no, but that's what I mean, is that obviously it can naturally happen,
00:01:43.960 but it can cause problems with your prostate.
00:01:46.020 It can cause problems with infertility, things like that.
00:01:48.520 I do the same sort of content as you, right?
00:01:50.680 We do similar stuff.
00:01:52.220 But the thing is, is that obviously for willpower,
00:01:54.440 retaining and abstaining is a very good thing
00:01:57.500 if you want to get the mind power back up.
00:01:59.280 But actually on a level where you're trying to stay away from people
00:02:09.280 because you can.
00:02:10.900 So are you arguing that a 13-year-old guy,
00:02:14.040 the best option is for him to look at porn at 13 years old?
00:02:17.200 No, but what I'm saying is that...
00:02:19.280 Back for it.
00:02:19.840 Okay, like, is this the...
00:02:22.020 Okay.
00:02:23.280 But it's supply and demand.
00:02:24.640 If people didn't want that, we wouldn't do it.
00:02:26.280 Yeah, exactly.
00:02:26.700 Simple as that.
00:02:27.680 Look, I'm not asking that.
00:02:29.100 I'm asking net good or net negative.
00:02:30.420 No, I think it's net good.
00:02:31.200 There's a person in here.
00:02:32.840 Sterling's a former corn star.
00:02:34.620 We can say that.
00:02:35.540 Okay.
00:02:36.020 He'll tell you firsthand.
00:02:37.040 It's a net negative.
00:02:38.060 I'll tell you exactly why it's a net negative.
00:02:39.800 It's a net negative because of the ramifications
00:02:42.240 that habitual pornography use has on the male brain
00:02:48.720 and his ability to maintain motivation and drive.
00:02:53.240 And when men in society have no or reduced,
00:02:56.720 massively reduced motivation and drive,
00:02:59.360 nothing gets built.
00:03:01.040 Nothing gets created.
00:03:01.800 I don't think that your heightened testosterone
00:03:03.540 has anything to do.
00:03:05.000 I'm not talking about testosterone.
00:03:06.240 I'm talking about dopamine.
00:03:07.120 Very, very different.
00:03:07.920 Different things.
00:03:08.360 I'm talking about brain chemistry. 1.00
00:03:09.580 Yeah, but you're keeping your cum in your balls. 1.00
00:03:11.920 No, shut up. 1.00
00:03:12.940 Let me finish. 0.99
00:03:13.700 When I'm making a nuanced, intelligent point,
00:03:16.320 don't just blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:03:17.100 That it is.
00:03:17.420 Okay?
00:03:17.820 Yeah. 0.54
00:03:18.080 So when you habitually use porn,
00:03:21.200 your dopamine receptors get fried.
00:03:23.800 Dopamine is the molecule that you get.
00:03:26.080 Your brain gives you as a reward
00:03:27.220 for pursuing something meaningful, pursuing goals.
00:03:31.020 Yeah.
00:03:31.240 Okay, now we have an entire generation of young men
00:03:33.700 whose dopamine receptors don't really work very well
00:03:36.300 because they've been hooked on porn
00:03:37.720 since they were a young teenager
00:03:39.980 and now they're not being very ambitious.
00:03:42.080 Wait, wait, wait.
00:03:42.540 So I have a question.
00:03:44.180 I have a question.
00:03:44.940 So knowing what we know in the red pill,
00:03:47.000 that women are going for a smaller 1.00
00:03:48.120 and smaller percentage of men,
00:03:50.520 what do we do with the problem of sexless men?
00:03:54.480 Because I was thinking about this.
00:03:56.000 If you got, I agree with you,
00:03:57.840 but if we got rid of porn tomorrow,
00:03:59.360 what would happen with birth control still on the table?
00:04:02.960 Because with birth control, no fault divorce,
00:04:05.100 we're still going to have, you know, the 20-80 rule.
00:04:08.600 So what do you think would happen
00:04:10.440 with the bottom 30, 40% of men?
00:04:13.720 Men would go crazy.
00:04:14.680 Yeah.
00:04:14.840 You made the point before.
00:04:16.100 It's like the reason it's so,
00:04:18.420 like you guys can make so much money
00:04:19.660 is because of the supply-demand curve, right?
00:04:21.620 It's wanted.
00:04:22.100 Well, and it's accessible.
00:04:23.360 It's extremely accessible.
00:04:24.780 But what you're talking about
00:04:25.860 is people who are consuming porn that is free,
00:04:28.980 porn that is free.
00:04:29.660 Every, all porn is free.
00:04:31.180 They get to you through that funnel.
00:04:33.740 They end up at your own thing.
00:04:35.820 Yeah, but the majority of people
00:04:37.120 aren't spending thousands and thousands
00:04:38.740 is because of that, that porn is free.
00:04:42.180 The type of stuff,
00:04:43.040 the type of people that will have addictions
00:04:44.340 and things that they will continuously watch
00:04:46.880 is because it's free.
00:04:48.040 I guarantee that every single guy
00:04:51.280 who is paying you $1,000 a month has in his life.
00:04:53.100 But it's not every guy spending thousands of dollars.
00:04:54.740 No, I didn't say that.
00:04:55.680 Listen, I said every guy
00:04:56.800 who has spent thousands of dollars a month with you
00:04:59.500 has also watched a copious amount of porn. 0.91
00:05:02.120 Yeah. 0.98
00:05:02.360 I can guarantee you that.
00:05:03.200 So I've got a subscriber that came to me
00:05:06.540 and he said he,
00:05:08.040 but he might be lying, I don't know,
00:05:09.220 but he said that basically
00:05:10.400 he doesn't watch mainstream porn
00:05:13.080 because he doesn't know
00:05:14.220 if them people have given full consent.
00:05:16.340 So he will not watch mainstream porn.
00:05:18.540 So he's come to me. 1.00
00:05:20.880 He's talking about his ass. 0.99
00:05:22.500 It's kind of like a weird angle. 1.00
00:05:23.160 No, he's talking about his ass. 1.00
00:05:24.220 Sorry. 1.00
00:05:24.380 So he's come to me.
00:05:26.080 So I would say that there is people
00:05:27.700 that wouldn't watch mainstream porn,
00:05:30.760 not like 100% of people.
00:05:34.540 No.
00:05:37.380 That's the exception.
00:05:38.420 It's not the rule, though.
00:05:39.160 I think all the guys going on porn up
00:05:42.300 are like, oh, I want to make sure
00:05:43.600 I do it ethically.
00:05:45.000 No, no one actually wants to do that.
00:05:47.320 So you were talking about the 80-20,
00:05:50.120 so with contraception.
00:05:52.320 So are you talking about the fact
00:05:54.560 that obviously majority of people
00:05:56.160 are having sex with intent of having a child?
00:06:00.480 No. 0.93
00:06:00.960 Okay, so what...
00:06:01.980 I was talking about how women select 1.00
00:06:03.860 for a very small percentage of men.
00:06:06.280 Yeah, I feel awful.
00:06:07.880 Especially in our 20s
00:06:08.740 when we have the most mate selection.
00:06:10.580 So 100% of women want 20% of men. 0.70
00:06:13.280 Yeah, and I see that.
00:06:14.240 Usually they might expand in their 30s
00:06:16.020 when they have less choice,
00:06:17.240 but especially in our 20s,
00:06:18.660 we go for a small percentage.
00:06:19.800 So if we have like 4s, 5s, 6s, 7s, 8s, 9s, and 10s
00:06:24.760 going for the top 20...
00:06:25.880 I hate comparing people to my numbers, so...
00:06:26.880 It's horrible, but...
00:06:27.300 Going for the top 20%,
00:06:28.660 then what are the bottom 40% of men going to do?
00:06:31.900 Watch porn?
00:06:32.460 Nothing.
00:06:32.960 Yeah. 0.98
00:06:33.480 They're going to watch porn. 0.94
00:06:34.280 That's what they do. 0.98
00:06:34.940 That is what they do.
00:06:35.480 But the problem...
00:06:37.000 But wait, wait.
00:06:37.500 So the problem is in societies, though,
00:06:39.300 is that when you have a large group
00:06:41.100 of sexless men,
00:06:42.460 like a lot of times they get aggressive.
00:06:44.920 So Pearl, the only logical solution to the fix,
00:06:48.180 like let's say, okay,
00:06:49.500 because the fix to the sexless problem with men
00:06:51.620 is adult content, right?
00:06:53.840 Yeah.
00:06:54.240 That's the current fix.
00:06:55.460 Yeah.
00:06:55.860 If we take away that fix, right,
00:06:57.700 we also have to take away the cause.
00:06:59.640 Right.
00:07:00.220 And the cause is things like Instagram and dating apps.
00:07:02.900 Mm-hmm.
00:07:03.280 Okay.
00:07:03.680 Which create that disparity.
00:07:05.820 I would go a step further.
00:07:08.080 I would ban divorce and birth control.
00:07:10.460 Yeah.
00:07:10.820 Yeah.
00:07:11.920 Maybe take away the...
00:07:13.340 Repeal the 19th, too. 0.78
00:07:15.240 Take away the vote.
00:07:16.220 But who's saying that...
00:07:17.580 Who's saying sexless men is a problem?
00:07:20.440 Where is that?
00:07:20.840 No, I think it's a problem.
00:07:22.360 It's 100% of the...
00:07:23.360 Because the thing is, men have...
00:07:25.260 Well, the problem is in history,
00:07:27.020 usually when there's a large group of sexless men,
00:07:29.540 there was some sort of uprising.
00:07:31.000 Yeah.
00:07:31.360 That's like there's even...
00:07:32.300 I've even heard...
00:07:32.940 You're saying a correlation with history.
00:07:34.760 Yeah.
00:07:35.280 Yeah.
00:07:35.560 Yeah.
00:07:35.780 And so I'm saying right now,
00:07:37.360 the reason there isn't that
00:07:38.620 is because we have porn.
00:07:40.120 And I'm saying if you took away the porn,
00:07:42.020 what would happen to the sexless men? 0.89
00:07:44.040 Do you think they would...
00:07:44.900 I don't...
00:07:45.380 I think they would...
00:07:46.100 Well, I'd go off sternly to answer...
00:07:47.460 It's a sedation.
00:07:48.380 Yeah.
00:07:48.880 I'd go off sternly to say
00:07:50.000 there'd be more productive people.
00:07:51.660 Things would be getting...
00:07:52.320 No.
00:07:52.820 They would be creepy.
00:07:53.340 No.
00:07:53.760 Men have... 0.83
00:07:54.420 They would be attacking women. 0.97
00:07:55.620 Yeah, exactly.
00:07:56.400 I agree.
00:07:57.280 Men and women both have natural urges.
00:07:58.940 No, but the problem is the society,
00:08:00.340 we still have dating apps.
00:08:01.480 So even if like those men got better,
00:08:03.460 like women would still go for the top 20% of men. 1.00
00:08:05.940 Yeah, exactly.
00:08:06.540 Because we have birth control and dating apps.
00:08:08.960 So what...
00:08:09.460 And no fault divorce.
00:08:10.820 And so women... 1.00
00:08:12.340 There's two different points there.
00:08:13.700 There's the point I was making about like
00:08:15.860 habitual porn use leads to a reduced drive in men.
00:08:19.120 That's one point.
00:08:20.340 The point Pearl's trying to make here right now
00:08:21.820 is like, okay, well, if you took away porn,
00:08:23.680 now there's a bunch of dudes who don't have an option.
00:08:26.180 Really hard to do it.
00:08:26.940 Have any dating options whatsoever.
00:08:28.800 And if they are frustrated,
00:08:30.160 then they will burn the society down.
00:08:32.760 Yeah, but what would you rather...
00:08:34.020 And you're right that it may not happen,
00:08:37.400 but again, if we look at history,
00:08:38.980 there are trends.
00:08:39.500 But if no porn is a net gain on society,
00:08:44.400 wouldn't you rather that than...
00:08:45.540 Well, I'll tell you, I'll tell you.
00:08:47.260 You need the balance.
00:08:47.880 You need the balance.
00:08:48.580 So you need to take the female side as well. 0.97
00:08:50.320 But that's why I would argue
00:08:51.520 we got to ban birth control,
00:08:53.740 no fault divorce,
00:08:54.780 and maybe take away the vote too.
00:08:56.960 But I don't know if society's going to get behind that.
00:08:59.760 That's a lot on the ticket.
00:09:01.860 Repeal the 19th. 0.57
00:09:03.960 You're an American.
00:09:04.820 You can go for president. 1.00
00:09:06.260 Just get rid of women all together. 1.00
00:09:07.620 Do you know what I would do? 0.99
00:09:09.040 I would run for president,
00:09:11.340 and then I would win,
00:09:12.680 and then I would be like,
00:09:13.700 I'm a woman.
00:09:14.220 I shouldn't even be here.
00:09:15.880 And that's right.
00:09:17.140 I'd be like,
00:09:18.620 I need to step down.
00:09:19.800 My VP can go.
00:09:20.980 I would repeal the 19th. 0.98
00:09:23.060 I'd be like,
00:09:23.540 get women out of politics. 1.00
00:09:25.300 There you go, VP.
00:09:26.780 Yeah.
00:09:27.200 Maybe I'll get Trump back in office.
00:09:29.220 Yeah.