Only Fans Mom Utters The Most Hypocritical Statement
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the dangers of online only fans and how they can affect our children. We also discuss the benefits of being an online only fan and how it can affect your kids in the long-term.
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Have you guys thought about, like, what effects that would have on when you guys have kids?
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But now my job gives them opportunities that I wouldn't be able to give them before.
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I was literally using food banks with my children when I had my other job.
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I was still spending time away from home, like, working, and still coming home and not having enough money to, like, support them.
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And I'm still able to provide and pay for things that I wouldn't be able to do.
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Like, just, like, an example is, like, swimming lessons for my daughter.
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I would never, ever have been able to afford swimming lessons.
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Something so basic and simple that's going to help her in the long run.
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And I wouldn't have been able to do that before without anyone.
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What do you tell them when they say, Mummy, what do you do for work?
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Well, obviously, the youngest doesn't know what I do for work.
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But the two older ones do know what I do for work.
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That's not going to stop anyone from going on the internet.
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Like, it's to stop, like, under 18s getting access to it.
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He just accepts that that's where the money comes from.
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Do you think that's going to set him back a little bit?
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Because he just thinks that's a good way to make money?
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She's a girl, like, she would never, ever do OnlyFans.
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But she's, like, she's happier now that I do OnlyFans.
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I literally would support her in anything she wanted to do.
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I don't think that OnlyFans is, like, the be-all and end-all and is amazing.
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So if you said this is a good route to go down or a bad route, would you say it's bad?
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Like, if you're going to get, like, $130 a month, then I don't see the point in doing OnlyFans.
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Because I don't think, like, money should have any bearing on values.
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No, I think there's either things you would do for money or things you wouldn't.
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Could you murder someone if they pay you enough money?
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Your reputation will, in fact, it will hurt your family someday.
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What if your daughter's to get bullied because her mum chose that route?
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No, I'll move out our country and live in a mansion somewhere else.
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Like, if you think it's okay for bullies to bully people because of something that...
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You've got to have something fulfilling in your life.
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And to teach your kids that, hey, it's okay, you can, if all goes to shit, just jump on
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I'm not a parent, so I can't really go out and say it, but I think that's a healthy way
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I feel like I'm in a position where I'm able to support my daughter to not do OnlyFans.
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I've got enough money to be able to set her up her own business so she can be a business
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woman and not work for anybody else and slave away and get minimum wage for nothing.
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And you don't have to answer this if you don't want, but where's the dad?
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Where are the fathers for all the OnlyFans girls?
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So when I was with him, I wasn't even allowed Facebook.
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I wasn't allowed to shower without his permission.
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My mum didn't give me a phone until I was in year nine.
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I think it's a dangerous society we live in when parents allow kids to set the standard
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I think it's a parent's duty to set the standard for what morality is going to be in their household
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and should not depend on what their children feel about it.
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You see, you see, the thing is, I don't, I, obviously, I don't disagree with OnlyFans.
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So if she wanted to go and do OnlyFans, I would 100% support her.
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But I just, it seems like you, but you wouldn't encourage it though.
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I wouldn't also encourage her to go and get a job at McDonald's because I don't want her
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How would kids feel if you had no money in the household?
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So, like, I mean, you haven't been into like, like, I don't know, I used to travel a lot
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when I was younger and it was shocking to me how like in third world countries, like
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I'm sorry, but I was not happy when I was poor and neither were my children.
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But third world countries have no more crime and violence everywhere.
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Well, I mean, I'm talking about, so I went to, the country I'm talking about was India.
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And when I went to India, that's the most poverty I've ever seen in my life.
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Like that's the lowest like standard of living.
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There's a range, but in some of the parts we were in.
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And to me, it was just like shocking how like they were really, really happy, even though
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The thing with that is, I'm not, I'm not saying, I'm not saying it's like all sunshine
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I'm just saying, I don't, I don't think money is the only thing that dictates happiness.
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Like you get more opportunities, the more money you've got.
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And you get a better quality of life, the more money you've got in this country.
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I mean, I guess, I really think quality of life depends on your family more than anything.
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I think the goal should be to have, you know, to like bring kids up into parent household.
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I just don't think that's like the norm to have, you know.
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I think obviously the, the two parent household, it is important.
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However, what, so your, your house, obviously I've seen your content.
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Because your stance is that obviously the, are you thinking that both parents should work
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Because you grew up with your dad, well, your mom was working with your dad, but then your
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I mean, I think the more time parents can spend with their kids, the better.
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So then like with people like Kimmy, who's got kids, she can spend all the time in the
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world with her kids and obviously still do what she does.
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But I would just think like the better outcome is to get married and stay married.
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And I, I would personally, my, my situation, their father has a more of a negative effect
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Are the kids better off with you guys together?
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The kids, the kids witnessed some horrible, horrible things that nobody should witness.
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And they, they are loads, a million times better off now that I'm a single parent.
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Like if there is like issues going on with like to keep the parents together, if it was
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a last resort, would you, would you, would you think that couples therapy is a good thing
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to make the parents stay together for the kids?
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Well, I think if you get a good therapist potentially, but I think 90% plus of therapists
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I'm not saying there's no validity in the profession there is, but I've, I was in school for psychology.
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Wait, if you think that they're not, well, I'll tell you, I was in it because I just wanted
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a visa, so I just was like, this seems like an easy degree.
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And I noticed all the girls in the program were crazy.
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The U.K., but I noticed that you were going to go in and pay nine grand a year to be a
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Well, I had a, I had a sports scholarship here.
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So it was, it was, you looked like you played netball.
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But, but in the U.S., in the U.S., I noticed like a similar thing.
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I was like, these are the therapists of America.