00:00:31.860I'm not really needed on the work call, so I got my cell phone and found a bunch of texts from my kid and a couple from a number I don't have in my phone.
00:00:39.100In the course of about 11 text messages, I learned that my daughter has gone ice skating and fallen and broken her wrist.
00:00:45.020She's in the emergency room, but could not get treatment because no one can find my wife.
00:00:49.800The number I don't know belongs to a friend of my wife's who's gone to the emergency room to sit with my kid.
00:00:55.680She was the chaperone for the girls who's gone skating.
00:00:58.120So I call this friend, and after a lot of hemming and hawing, she admits that wifey has gone to dinner with some random guy.
00:01:05.620Well, we always leave our location shared with the family because of my job, and sure enough, I pull up the address and Google it, and it's an effing hotel.
00:01:13.180This was 10 p.m., and it's almost four hours later she hasn't answered my text, but she finally did call our kid.
00:01:19.420I have permission and insurance information, and she got a cast and a referral to see an orthopedist when she gets home.
00:01:26.460The friend took our daughter back to her grandmother's and texted me.
00:01:29.780She said, I'm so sorry that you had to find out this way about a guy's name.
00:01:34.640Apparently, it's been going on every time she's gone home that I haven't gone.
00:01:38.080Meanwhile, I've worked countless hours of overtime to pay off her house, take us on nice vacations, and send her daughter to the most expensive private school in our city.
00:01:48.880Okay, so I rarely ever recommend divorce, but I'll tell you why it's actually important that men divorce or at least separate from these women.
00:01:59.980Assuming there's no abuse, cheating on his side.
00:02:03.480You teach your daughter there's no consequences for this type of shit.
00:02:07.860You know, kids aren't stupid, and a lot of times they spend more time with the woman than you do.
00:02:13.060So, by accepting this behavior, you're basically teaching your daughter that this shit's okay.
00:02:20.660And what kind of, you know, what kind of mother is she?
00:02:24.380If instead of, you know, catering to her daughter, she's effing some guy in a hotel.
00:02:29.640And it's really, you know, some guys probably would stick it out for the kids for a couple years.
00:02:35.540You know, I think that's to the discretion of the guy.
00:02:37.540I mean, he knows the daughter better, but this is sad.
00:02:41.540And I've heard this story a lot where women will go home, and they'll cheat at their parents' house, and their whole family.
00:02:56.460They're going to call me a hypocrite because Pearl doesn't believe in divorce.
00:02:59.460Well, the men used to separate from these women.
00:03:01.900They'd, like, throw them in, like, a dungeon or something, okay, not a dungeon, but they would, you know, they'd, like, throw her in another house or, like, an apartment and say, you've got to work now, lady.
00:03:12.120And I would get evidence of everything.
00:03:14.500I would get evidence of everything you're talking about in case you have to go to court because a lot of these chicks, when they, you know, they're looking for the next best option.
00:04:03.240I don't, I think I know maybe five traditional women that actually obey their husband.
00:04:08.420And when the quality of the wife on the market, this is the Christian conservative women, means having a nanny work 100 hours a week to raise your kids for you.
00:04:16.720And you accuse your husband of abuse 24-7.