JustPearlyThings - Panel Gets DIVIDED on This Can A Whore Be Wife

00:00:00.000 someone who doesn't care that you're sexually free or they have a sexually free past

00:00:03.760 like just like we were saying you accept people for their flaws some people would but

00:00:09.440 you're right there's a symbol i do think i do think public figures like that is

00:00:14.000 quite a negative impact on your model that's that simp is not going to be the guy you want though

00:00:18.240 i think i was even about to jump in because what you were saying there like about the way that

00:00:23.200 britney renner's put out and no one really talks about what comes after i think that kind of goes

00:00:29.360 back to what we were saying before where the consequences of that behavior needs to be

00:00:33.200 discussed from those girls that are doing that yeah i was about to say that yeah it's like it's

00:00:38.720 fine i think you know whatever your lifestyle fair enough but i think just getting around the real

00:00:45.920 life consequences of things is i think is the real issue of like listen if you want to do your you

00:00:50.320 know your promiscuous phase or whatever fine but let me just tell you what happens to people who do

00:00:55.920 that in the wrong way and let's not like dance around that but i'm not going to be like but you

00:00:59.760 oh you start with too many people you're not good enough for this no but that is the consequences i

00:01:03.600 just want to do that that's just my thing to understand that it's the consequence of it i just

00:01:07.920 think shame i'll be shouting i just think i think no one's really shouting but okay but i i just think

00:01:14.080 i just think shame um like it changes your behavior the same way like when i was at work and those guys

00:01:20.160 being like yeah like i would not touch a girl over too they didn't know like because i carry weight

00:01:25.120 well because i'm tall and so i don't think they knew how much anyways but um it's like hearing that

00:01:31.200 like brutal honest truth made me change my behavior and i just think it's the same thing to an extent

00:01:36.800 but in this case i don't think it works like that because in your circumstance you could lose weight

00:01:42.080 but if someone slept around they can't go back in the past and not sleep around in it so so what you're

00:01:46.880 doing is basically passing judgment but you're kidding yourself saying oh well there's there's no

00:01:52.800 redemption about what are you talking about how is redeemed like i'm sorry okay okay let's just let's

00:01:58.080 just be like i know bro you're trying to be pc bro they hoes bro just call them what they are

00:02:06.000 wait um so let's let's just we all know a girl that's that's kind of rebranded herself yeah

00:02:11.840 yeah 100 you meet them at university they all start at university they were closing their ends

00:02:17.840 and then they come to uni and try and be wifey and the girl that was wifey in ends comes to uni and

00:02:24.160 goes home mad truth ask the asian community because the girls that were part of the asian community

00:02:29.360 like indian girls they used to go mad in uni you know why because they were prisoners at home yeah yeah

00:02:35.280 and this is the reality everybody wants to wishy-washy and blur the lines but i think it's not it's not

00:02:40.240 wishy-washy bro i'm not saying i'm not saying there's no such thing as a hoe and i'm not saying

00:02:44.880 it's a good thing i'm just saying that i think a lot of a lot of the way we talk about it sounds like

00:02:50.320 it's unnecessarily negative and judgmental for people who i'm a big fan of shaming when you can do

00:02:55.840 something about it and you know what where's the positive impact but telling a girl who's that with 20

00:03:00.880 people it's like well she can't change that so it's just mean isn't it it's just a bit rude but alex alex

00:03:06.560 she could she could she could stop sleeping with the whole football team yeah you could stop if if

00:03:12.000 i was advising her i'd be like look you might want to move

00:03:21.520 and the reason the reason i say this is because i ask guys this question would you rather

00:03:25.920 have a girl that slept with 20 d or sometimes i'll say 10 depends on the day but 10 20 dudes you don't

00:03:32.080 know or three you do know most guys most guys and this is most guys will pick the 10 or the 20 that

00:03:40.880 they don't know you know what if i don't have to see them if i don't have to meet them what like

00:03:45.200 i don't know man i'm not even if it's why not do you know okay okay yeah i'm gonna be dreaming about

00:03:49.600 those dudes and i'm not you said i'm not i'm just saying if i was advising this girl i'd be like look

00:03:54.960 you gotta stop one you gotta stop doing what you're doing yeah you might want to move cities

00:03:59.680 gonna have to yeah and and so i'm not saying like you can ever come back like she's still a hoe

00:04:06.080 deep down but if that's that's what i would tell i i understand so you're talking about continuously

00:04:10.400 being a hoe yeah okay fine fine but don't we think like once a hoe always a hoe like do you think that

00:04:15.920 she'll ever be able to be a committed relationship if she slept with someone like 50 people okay look

00:04:20.640 i'm just saying if she if she came to me and and was asking me for advice yes i i wouldn't advise

00:04:26.640 a guy to date her like if the guys were but i'm just saying like i'm just saying if she's looking

00:04:32.960 for a husband if she's saying you know i'm really done and i'm really i i personally think once a hoe

00:04:38.720 always a hoe pa will give no references i won't be referring but if she said what's the best way to

00:04:46.560 come out on top be like it's time to move yeah i would give you the worst reference uh sarah yeah

00:04:54.000 she she breathes yeah she's like what are you thinking what do you think your friend oh she she has

00:05:00.960 nice hair she's charismatic she's charismatic she's popular she's real popular yeah i hear what you're

00:05:12.080 saying though like so you're talking about like trying the continuous behavior yeah but i but i

00:05:17.360 also wouldn't say to like make it super hard like because you're still a hoe deep down so you can't

00:05:23.360 like the born again virgin going to church thing like if a guy's actually taking you serious why are

00:05:28.480 you gonna make him it that hard for him to sleep with you if you know what you are actually i was

00:05:32.960 speaking to a friend recently um and um she is 30 something and um she's in a relationship and she still

00:05:41.280 hasn't slept with her boyfriend that she's been with for like three or four months he's sleeping

00:05:46.080 with somebody else is she a virgin no but that's the thing and i know and i and i um and i said to

00:05:52.080 her but why are you making him wait when i know you've slept with guys after like a week and she was

00:05:57.760 like yeah but you know i'm not doing that anymore i want you to respect me i want him to respect me and

00:06:04.160 obviously he doesn't know her sexual past so he's dumb though he's dumb right yeah that's not a clever

00:06:10.640 guy no no no no no because the thing is if i was to get out of my relationship for example

00:06:16.480 i know i wouldn't be able to yeah exactly you wait if you're gonna talk make sure you grab the mic

00:06:23.840 but that's what i'm saying i wouldn't like i wouldn't have been able to sleep with someone for a

00:06:27.840 very long time even if i started dating i reckon i would have that rule of at least i don't know

00:06:35.200 you're an exception to the rule but that's what i'm saying you don't believe a girl so he might

00:06:41.520 believe her because she's been in a lot of long-term relationships and then she might say actually i

00:06:45.840 have put it put it this way from for me and from my experience as soon as you start talking to a new

00:06:50.720 girl she's never slept with no one for the last six months all of them every single every time you

00:06:54.560 speak to a new girl i haven't been with no one for the last six months i haven't slept with no one

00:07:00.160 nowadays will tell you every guy but i'm saying we're talking about general you're talking about

00:07:06.320 exceptions to the rule the general consensus of women will play pc they're not going to tell you how

00:07:13.040 it is okay you think they tell you exactly in my experience the girls i'm meeting these days will be

00:07:18.560 like oh there's a cute for me wait okay um what about you what do you think do do women tell you

00:07:31.120 no 100 no maybe some some girls are honest and proud are proud hoes but most i've said eight percent

00:07:38.240 they ain't gonna tell you they'll be like six months or i've slept with two guys three guys and then

00:07:42.640 multiply that by you know what i'm saying i'm seeing someone that is such an annoying thing to

00:07:47.760 say i have a question for the girls okay so as women we all know we know we will always know more

00:07:55.520 than the men about women's sexual history would you guys agree with that 100 so so like when we have

00:08:01.360 friends like they'll tell us more than their boyfriends know yeah so so we know who gets wiped faster

00:08:07.680 hose hose or prudes hose hose my friend well actually yeah i've got friends that are and

00:08:15.600 they're married and actually second and then second question and do their men have any idea so no okay

00:08:20.960 no no what about no i honestly do think you find that most of these like single 40 year old women that

00:08:28.240 like are like sad that they're not wifed up and they're sad that they don't have kids and that it's

00:08:32.560 because they were hose like in their past and they regret it so much and like that goes back to the

00:08:38.560 britney renner thing i was saying like it's really dangerous for young women because they do end up

00:08:42.800 regretting it so you think prudes get wifed up yeah you say prudes um you said hose you think hose get

00:08:48.000 wifed up fast confidence okay what about you you think hose get wifed up faster me yeah um i think it's

00:08:54.800 some data well out of my friends the ones that were hose when we were younger are married the ones that

00:09:00.080 weren't i'm married because they've been very career driven okay what do you think i think it's

00:09:04.960 a mixture i feel like i know certain friends who are hose hose but their man don't know so that's why

00:09:11.120 they get wifed up but then i know certain prudes who get no men at all so i feel like it just depends

00:09:17.040 how you present yourself do the prudes present themselves like hose um no but then i feel like

00:09:25.200 it just depends because i know majority of my friends that are prudes i also feel like they

00:09:29.840 don't like put themselves in a position to date like for example let's say they like to dress up

00:09:36.320 wear makeup and just look cute i feel like they actively just withdraw from the game and they don't

00:09:41.440 put themselves out there like they just don't have game like that's the best way to explain it where

00:09:46.480 the hose like have it it goes both ways but like yeah it goes a little bit more game they know how to

00:09:51.440 make men yeah and i think because they've been with more men they know the right things to say they

00:09:56.240 understand men a little bit better than the yeah but then i know certain friends that are just so

00:10:02.240 ho-ish that because everybody knows they don't get wifed so it just like it just literally depends

00:10:07.920 on how you present yourself really i'm just curious roughly the girls i don't even know if you could do

00:10:15.600 this because i mean they might lie to you too but like if you had to guess roughly what body count gets

00:10:20.240 wifed the quickest oh that's difficult difficult to say no i don't even think that i don't know the men

00:10:28.000 don't actually know you just can't tell you can't tell these things is all about the person you guys

00:10:33.760 may know roughly because you know the behind the scenes so i'm just curious if you no i think what um

00:10:40.720 sorry what was your name no um valentina valentina um what you said was a very valid point because

00:10:46.800 the girls that may have slept through a few bodies they will know how to act to pretend that they're

00:10:53.520 this you know high almighty and whatnot but there's someone that's actually approved they will they'll

00:11:00.400 just keep themselves to themselves and not go out there whereas someone that slept with 10 bodies

00:11:04.400 10 15 20 whatever they'll go up and and they'll play the game oh i i i have a number and i can

00:11:09.680 validate it okay okay go ahead what do you think i think it's i'll ask you after sorry go ahead i think it's

00:11:15.440 seven plus seven but seven to ten seven to about ten twelve the reason is yeah i think so because

00:11:22.400 and i can kind of tell i i i judge everyone just by like how they are and i don't do any of this like

00:11:26.720 oh this what's your past i can see i can see your past in your eyes in it so yeah just just look just

00:11:32.160 talk to people you can see i'm sorry i don't believe men though well there are a lot of losers out

00:11:36.640 here but i definitely know that you're not getting anything we don't know anyway anyway i'll say we don't

00:11:41.440 know she so seven seven plus because she's probably these are women who've probably had two or three

00:11:46.240 serious boyfriends in high school and then they've probably had about two to three kind of sexual kind

00:11:52.240 of encounters in university and then they figure out so the whole thing is about being smart you know

00:11:56.000 some girls sleep on a little bit and then they figure it out some people keep on sleeping but that

00:12:00.880 seven mark is when like she's seen enough she kind of gets it now you've been to uni you've had the

00:12:06.800 high school boyfriends you've had a couple dudes at uni you you get how this works you're gonna find

00:12:11.200 a good guy when it gets past like 12 clearly you haven't figured this out so clearly you know it

00:12:16.960 just extends and i can see it like i disagree because one of my friends yeah she's my age she's 20

00:12:23.600 she's married and i'm not joking her body count is 65. that's an outlier come on no no that's not a normal

00:12:30.560 person that's what i'm saying like some people are like i feel like women have the power of like

00:12:37.200 again like i feel like men because i don't want to be rude but i feel like men have fragile egos

00:12:43.360 and once a woman knows how to work around it like like i said how you present yourself is crazy like

00:12:50.640 men didn't make up that saying what he doesn't know doesn't hurt him we didn't make that up

00:12:55.200 we didn't make that up what he doesn't know doesn't hurt him we did not make that but you

00:13:00.560 know why that was made up i've only heard men say that i mean i don't i don't know where the phrase

00:13:04.560 came from well she did not don't hurt her wait i wait um so i don't actually know where the phrase

00:13:09.120 came from i always hear men say that with like cheating which he doesn't know doesn't i always had women

00:13:13.280 say it i've only heard men but i do a podcast with men but it's in a situation where we know

00:13:20.960 women are adding numbers on that they're just erasing you know what i mean erasing it doesn't

00:13:25.840 exist so yeah but at some point knowing knowing is just like negative benefit like it's not needed

00:13:31.600 you're not helping yourself put it this way with the tree in the woods if you if you're not there to

00:13:35.920 hear it fall did you actually did it actually fall i'm curious do you think if he found out the

00:13:40.240 husband would um would they get divorced no um because of their religion as well oh she's religious

00:13:47.840 yeah muslim as well oh she's a convert um i feel like probably you know i don't know i really don't

00:13:56.800 know but i feel like they would not be i think there'd be a lot of family but i've also got another

00:14:04.960 question though what if yeah this person has a body count of two and they're with their

00:14:11.040 amount for a year and then she fucks his brother does that make her a hoe or does that make her

00:14:15.440 like i don't i don't think it's like black and white like i think there's some things that you

00:14:27.040 can do that are just like mad i like the way you're supposed to like if her body counts two if she ever

00:14:33.040 if her weight guys no side stop um if her body counts two but she slept with two guys in one night

00:14:39.120 is that better than a girl with seven no that's what i'm saying so time is a hoe really based on the

00:14:48.560 spectrum the spectrum of hoism is so vast we're gonna be here all night because it's not based on

00:14:55.360 numbers it's based on intention exactly we've been saying all this time and now what hotel why does it

00:15:00.720 no because it's not listen all right let me help you guys wait no wait i've been quiet stop stop stop

00:15:08.400 thank you i usually talk over people and i've been quiet anyway i agree with my name well with

00:15:14.720 what my nemesis said i actually like it today i'm proud of you because you cannot call a woman a hoe

00:15:20.800 when actually she's experimenting so she can know and make better decisions because it's very dangerous

00:15:26.960 listen i'm not even talking to you too because i think that's an exception to the rule in the day

00:15:30.480 in today's age but i think it's very irresponsible for you to expect a woman to go into a relationship

00:15:36.400 with you and think and know what it is that you bring to the table as a man when she doesn't know

00:15:40.800 what a man can bring to the table he can't bring to the table women need to go through heartbreak

00:15:44.960 women need to experience men to know and be better trust me trust me listen listen do you know what

00:15:50.720 especially in today's age it is necessary because we we are actually programmed to make bad decisions

00:15:55.760 because the world around us is actually not that great i think so we need to learn

00:15:59.200 the experience wait wait wait what what why do you need more trauma to bring into a relationship

00:16:05.680 it's not about trauma it's about experience come on every stop capping every time you break up with

00:16:11.360 someone or you get broken up with there's trauma there's heartbreak that you bring into the it's

00:16:15.360 baggage maybe even a kid maybe you could you could you could phrase it like that but most men would

00:16:22.320 disagree because we all complain to the next guy but you know let me tell something about men and

00:16:27.680 this is the thing i think is becoming the problem men were used to women succumbing to their needs and

00:16:35.680 their wants because they needed a man to survive no no no i'm not i'm just telling you wait a second

00:16:41.200 right which means that now that a woman can work and a woman can provide for herself many to kind of relax

00:16:46.960 on their standards because you will not get a woman that is going to be a virgin in this day and age and be a

00:16:51.920 woman that is actually naturally and i mean i'll go to the east i'll just fly to the east and find

00:16:57.840 that yeah and how are you going to feel with going to the east and meeting like that there's one on the

00:17:01.600 panel but she was 15 when she met him and she was a kid she said she was a virgin and that's even

00:17:09.520 better because you you haven't for two years because you were young because you're 15 in a relationship

00:17:14.400 you know what you know what can i do men men are not picky they're not picky at all you are being

00:17:20.320 picky if you're asking for a virgin most men don't expect okay okay how many men here expect to get a

00:17:26.800 virgin okay so you're telling i know you got one you're fine so so most men don't expect a virgin they

00:17:35.760 just don't want a girl that's had her ass on her instagram that has only fans and that's slept with more than

00:17:42.240 like 15 dudes guys i i've you know i've interviewed a lot of guys it seems to be 10 but then i asked

00:17:48.720 them a second question and then it's like yeah we have chemistry maybe 15. it's not that you know what

00:17:57.360 that's not crazy standards i'm so true so you know what though i do i do think though like a lot of guys

00:18:05.120 initially chat to me because they expect me to be like some crazy fucking hoe who's just gonna like jump

00:18:10.960 on their dick first chance i get but yeah like so they only like me in a sexual sense but then

00:18:17.520 once i do tell them i'm a virgin and like if they believe me um because of how i present myself um

00:18:24.640 they do start to think of me different and they do start to look at me in a way where it's like yeah

00:18:29.440 i could wife her like yeah like i could look past the ass on instagram like yeah because they do value like

00:18:35.440 like purity but if you go into a relationship would you delete all those pictures or would you leave

00:18:39.680 them up no no i'd have to have someone that was like comfortable because i like expressing myself

00:18:44.560 in that way i like showing off my body i like that but yeah but she's still a virgin she's pure so

00:18:51.200 isn't that good no no i was just out of curiosity i just wanted to know if she deleted for respect

00:18:55.440 you know i mean i mean i mean i think most men would like prefer neither like i don't think they'd care

00:19:00.880 that much i'm not saying like like but but she gets that she's not disputing that what i'm saying

00:19:06.880 is i think sometimes we need to understand that there's a difference between what we want and what

00:19:10.720 we need that's it like what you need is not i don't think men need a dude or sorry i don't think men

00:19:17.840 need a girl that slept with 20 people no but what i'm saying is a man doesn't also need somebody that slept

00:19:23.360 with less than 10. a man needs a woman that is going to be there for him that's going to support

00:19:27.680 him so you go you go through the substance of how much a woman can add to your life even listen this

00:19:33.840 is the thing i i've gone gotten to a stage in my life where i don't want to judge people and i'm very

00:19:38.160 forgiving if you genuinely have genuine kind intentions toward me i don't care about anything if

00:19:43.600 i can trust you you can prove to me that you can trust that can trust you now and forever we have

00:19:47.520 that bond then great i don't care so what matters to men though is they want they want to look like

00:19:52.720 respect is really important to guys and so if a guy brings in a girl and he doesn't know that she

00:19:58.800 slept with like three people in that room or they go to a new town and and she's been with this guy and

00:20:04.080 that guy like life is long if you if you slept with 20 30 people like you're kind of bound to run into

00:20:08.960 them at some point so it's like what about girls bumping into uh the girls that the guys used to

00:20:15.600 and i think and i think and i think most girls don't care they don't the first thing you're gonna

00:20:22.960 think but if they wait but if they do if they do i they have every right to do that i think that's fine

00:20:30.240 okay boys start staying virgins didn't it i think that um stay virgins then because we have no

00:20:35.760 own control of that yeah just stay virgins you're not a simple you're pure i think we need to identify

00:20:41.200 that a lot of the time when we have these conversations we are talking about high value

00:20:44.880 men and when we're talking about you know someone that has i think it's quite clear at this day and

00:20:50.800 age that a lot of people know that women are born with value and men have to gain their value as they

00:20:55.520 work and we're all born with value i personally think that women don't even know how to identify

00:21:01.120 like that word high value men right now has been like put it put this way a high value man for like on a

00:21:08.320 general idea is somebody who can pay their bills keep a roof over their head feed themselves the

00:21:15.120 basic the basic provisions that's what that's the basics wait wait wait wait sorry sorry the high

00:21:21.360 value man is what say that again so a high value like for me yeah what puts you in the first like

00:21:27.200 bracket of being high value is being able to provide yourself for yourself fully so if you feed yourself

00:21:33.200 clothe yourself um home yourself you know have like spare stuff going on

00:21:38.160 that you can do you've reached the point of high value because there is a lot of people

00:21:44.960 let me finish let me finish just no listen let me finish let me finish just like there's

00:21:50.080 just like there's a whole spectrum there's also a high value spectrum do you understand so the bottom

00:21:55.680 the bottom end of high volume is being able to provide because there is a lot of men in this world

00:22:00.800 that cannot do that yes now what happens those are the ones that we say they're trash now what happens is

00:22:05.840 women are looking at the top tier of the high value which is which is the basketball players the

00:22:12.720 football players and these guys and these guys hold on let me finish and these guys are not the men the

00:22:19.920 husbands that you all claim you want because they're the most ones that are least monogamous they have the

00:22:24.960 most options and everybody's going for them but the stuff that you're actually asking for the dudes just

00:22:30.800 below them and slightly below actually are more overqualified to actually provide that but because

00:22:35.840 you're so looking up in the stars and gazed by the lights you're actually missing the real dudes that

00:22:40.880 you're supposed to grow with as a journey like these two have well i i i i think the average and i got

00:22:47.440 cheated on so it made no difference he probably wasn't average if he had the option to cheat he was

00:22:51.760 probably above average but but you there's like five pillars of high value man it's not just like

00:22:56.640 taking care of your bills and they they they talk about how entertainers aren't in the high value man

00:23:01.120 category automatically thank you they're not they're not why do people act like these rappers are like

00:23:05.920 respectable dudes yeah you guys wait wait wait no it's like um basketball players um they they're like

00:23:12.560 have a 92 chance of getting divorced within like five years after leaving the league and um football players

00:23:19.200 it's like a 60 or seven and uh i think it's higher than the i think it's 78 chance of getting divorced

00:23:25.360 but kevin samuels there's like five pillars of a high value man yeah no i watch kevin and that's

00:23:29.600 what i was saying like there's a spectrum right and that's what i'm saying like the basic level

00:23:34.080 the basic level which most majority women who are also on that same level they miss that what do you

00:23:39.840 mean the same level though because can i just finish my point when because i started talking about the

00:23:43.280 high value men right about the fact that we're talking about so let's say high value if i'm talking

00:23:48.720 about a high value man i'm talking about he's probably making about 80 in in uk 80 plus k he's got his own

00:23:55.200 apartment yeah i personally would speak like that right so essentially why would this man work for

00:24:02.480 20 years or whatever to establish himself and then he why would he want to be with a girl that um has

00:24:08.640 slept with 20 30 guys don't get me wrong i'm not saying that every single guy that's over 30 wants a

00:24:13.840 21 year old because some people do actually want someone to grow old with and have a nice conversation

00:24:18.560 with it's not just about sex and fertility but at the end of the day there is they've got the spectrum to

00:24:24.240 choose if we're just talking about guys like yourself and not yourself like you spoke the

00:24:28.880 regular guys yeah like you spoke about 90 of these yeah that you know they're making all right money

00:24:33.200 they're like but really and truly can they really ask for a virgin but when they can of course they can

00:24:37.600 when they get to him no no they have no right why when they get to make it so because well because

00:24:42.320 she's not the she's not one percent ain't nobody got the right to ask for no virgin what are you

00:24:47.120 talking to danelva you're the same girl that'll say women can ask for whatever they want

00:24:53.760 but men can't ask for when did i ever say that when did i ever say that you insinuate it often

00:24:59.840 often no i say as a person please stop stop guys okay

00:25:11.760 okay i don't even remember what we're talking about now liberation what i was saying match your level

00:25:16.960 as in yeah yeah no you're right i think actually a lot of times like the virgins aren't who guys would

00:25:22.240 think like i think if you like a lot of virgins i know are really awkward i don't even think they would

00:25:27.440 like i'm not interested or that attracted like i don't know and also if somebody's at 80 130 grand a year

00:25:34.560 i think they're going to be of a certain age right so they're not going to meet somebody who's single

00:25:40.240 that's in their 20s that's a virgin that's necessarily at their level that they want to

00:25:45.200 match and grow with because nobody now you want to meet a woman who's also doing her thing and not

00:25:51.360 just at home waiting for their man to come and no i mean guys like that they want a girl that's

00:25:56.080 waiting for them to come because if a girl's just sat at home waiting for the man to come and marry

00:26:03.120 they don't they don't really care yeah yeah i mean is it blessing isn't your girlfriend at home all the

00:26:07.760 time she likes it she's not nowhere else but i don't think like the housewife stuff is nice

00:26:26.080 i haven't experienced too much of that before but i definitely prefer like someone who's also kind

00:26:29.920 of doing their own thing acting like why do we so women have all these like standards for men

00:26:38.320 like you have to be this and that i don't i don't think it's bad for me to be like all right i would

00:26:42.320 hope you're educated and i hope you're you're also doing something reasonably respectable right

00:26:46.240 it's not just me that has to work in the top place you have to be equally yoked that's me

00:26:50.400 it's like creatively like because if for me if i'm sat at home doing nothing just waiting for

00:26:55.040 my man to come home like what i'm like what am i doing like what am i doing like what am i doing

00:27:00.480 it's kind of weird i need to be like doing something creatively or something i mean cooking food waiting

00:27:05.760 for yeah no i mean if it was me there's always making another bowl i'm just thinking if it was if

00:27:12.800 you're married to a high value man there's gonna be to do around the house it's a full-time job has

00:27:17.360 he not got a cleaner what do i look like a cleaner no but you know what's so crazy wait wait wait wait

00:27:23.680 if you're married to a high value man why wouldn't you clean no but why wouldn't we have a cleaner like

00:27:28.480 i have a cleaner like it's true they always get cleaners though i personally haven't i've got

00:27:34.880 two children and i've got my own creative things that i'm doing so i'm not cleaning toilets i don't

00:27:41.680 know some people value some people value privacy so it's like when you have all these random people in

00:27:46.880 your home you kind of lose you kind of lose an element of privacy i mean yeah i mean you could

00:27:51.200 have a cleaner and we could have it forever but i'm saying i'm saying there's always there's

00:27:55.200 there's always to do around the house that that would have like i mean you can i mean

00:28:00.480 if you just talk to you i started messaging with like real homemakers oh my god they make all

00:28:05.040 their food from scratch like a lot of times they garden it themselves like like a lot of women that

00:28:10.160 say that's a yeah running a home is not easy so it's hard work i've done it since i've seen

00:28:15.200 yeah we're meant to do that a lot of times they watch the kids a lot of times they'll homeschool them

00:28:19.280 like it's yeah i guess i guess it depends on like where but a lot of the women i meet in london

00:28:26.880 that are like i always feel like if if she stays home a lot then she's gonna do all this housework but

00:28:33.920 eventually she's gonna be like oh i need some help and we need to hire a maid oh we need we need like a

00:28:38.800 nanny to help because that's what they do and then she'll want to do other things and then

00:28:42.320 naturally when infidelity comes into the picture or your wife has like six hours a day like so i

00:28:49.120 can more easily trust someone who also has a career because the women who are kind of you know cheating

00:28:55.120 in their marriages are women who have spare time that's how i think but i don't know it's so crazy

00:29:02.480 that is that people don't like the gardener the main factors you know like because when you when you

00:29:08.800 asked you said when you described a high value man the first thing you went to was finance do you not

00:29:13.760 know that a man's financial peak the point at where he makes the most money in his life is for 51 and

00:29:20.960 that's what i was saying so if you're not 25 if you're not between 20 and if you're not between 18 and 30

00:29:26.880 and we'll be happy dating a 51 year old get this fairy tale out of your head hold on hold on let me

00:29:32.480 finish let me finish and just to go on what you're about to say get better at picking a dude who is

00:29:38.080 going to become a high value right because you don't know how to pick you don't know how to pick

00:29:44.000 oh how did you say that can i can i say something i've been good enough you're quiet

00:29:49.360 what are you the sideman please please please talk in your mouth i'm talking to your mic

00:29:56.320 i was just saying that like perspectives you were saying the other week that it was okay to be

00:30:01.440 a sideman and be okay in that position yeah as a man isn't she married or in a relationship

00:30:07.440 he's not trying to wife her he's just sleeping i'm not trying to wife it but then doesn't that devalue

00:30:12.720 you as a man no i mean i do you know how hard it is to get sick wait wait wait wait wait stop

00:30:18.480 interrupting sorry sorry sorry so so i mean that would be nice but no i mean women don't give a

00:30:25.360 shit it's just look at there yeah how many times has drake stolen people's girls are women oh no i'm

00:30:32.480 not sleeping with drake well that's kind of dangerous you're trading on that little line of

00:30:37.440 old girls are holes the same way that all men are trash that's not really the case and i actually

00:30:41.280 think when you're saying when did i say when you when did i say men are trash no i'm not saying

00:30:46.080 that you said i'm just saying it's comparatively the same thing where it's just coming out of your

00:30:49.440 mouth the same way that i could say all men are trash so you shouldn't really say like that it's

00:30:52.640 generalizing what's general what's when you keep talking about girls don't care girls do care and

00:30:56.880 not every single girl i'm saying i'm saying by and large girls do not care if men but they do

00:31:02.720 what you're seeing what don't what you're seeing what what the world is actually actually showing you

00:31:07.360 what a lot of men actually suffer with is the fact that they are dealing with hoes and they think

00:31:12.160 every woman is a hoe and not every woman is a hoe actually at the percentage of a lot of women that

00:31:16.640 are hoes may be actually quite small because a lot of women have very high standards so they're not

00:31:20.640 even wanting to open their legs i'm not saying all women are hoes i've never said that wait wait

00:31:27.520 it's not even by large either wait wait i'm not saying all women are hoes i've never said that i've

00:31:32.480 not you can't catch me on a podcast saying all women are hoes i didn't say but but i'm saying is

00:31:36.640 that by and large women don't care and the reason the reason if they did so many women that come on

00:31:42.160 the show it wouldn't be such a large percentage that have picked men that cheat on them okay and like

00:31:47.280 women like women like men that other women want to bang and there's 100 and there's and there's and

00:31:56.800 and there's violence yeah yeah you know you know i'll give you i'll give you an example pickup artists

00:32:01.840 teach men to wear rings so they can get more girls because women see that as a sign of pre-selection

00:32:08.560 oh he married her he'd marry me and women and and throughout history men that could get multiple

00:32:14.960 women it was a sign that they could take care of those women so it's like so i'm not saying every

00:32:21.840 single woman you know some some women have dads to you know tell them don't go there whatever whatever

00:32:26.800 but but i'm saying by and large women don't care that's why they have no girls by and large by and

00:32:32.480 large even me like if a guy said oh i slept with a married chick like am i gonna care like it wasn't me

00:32:40.400 girls do not like men that do not attract girls i'm telling you guys guys aren't you falling for that

00:32:46.560 trap where you're generalizing in a way that doesn't serve you so clearly clearly clearly you want the

00:32:53.120 women that does actually care whether they do cheats on her yeah and that's what i'm saying you

00:32:58.080 don't so clearly that's what you'd be looking for right so clearly clearly clearly that makes everyone's

00:33:02.560 life easier right so if you're saying oh most women don't like this most women like um men who

00:33:08.560 cheat on them and etc then surely surely we don't want the ones that no i said i said most women don't

00:33:13.040 care if you slept with a married guy but i think i think even i made the point of handles being the

00:33:19.520 side dude and because in the last one he had said and so it was kind of like in my mind i was like

00:33:25.360 he's not like marrying up in what he's saying in that moment so what she was saying is that like

00:33:31.520 as a woman if i met handles and he was like yeah i used to date a married woman would i care if i

00:33:37.840 want him and i feel that he adds value to my life i wouldn't and i'm saying like by and large

00:33:44.800 women don't care maybe we should i'm not saying it's like the right thing but like if i'm being

00:33:50.640 honest if you if you think he's handsome he's got a good job he has all the things you look for but

00:33:54.160 he dated a married woman at one point um anything i think that's a bigger level that's a bigger level

00:34:02.400 you made a married woman step outside what did you have sir the clever woman the top woman i meet

00:34:08.720 like the the a-plus woman again intelligence is my biggest thing they they'll they'll she'll she'll

00:34:16.080 she'll cut you out if if you like talk the wrong way she'll be like this guy's a

00:34:20.080 and i'm like i did barely said because you'll start it's alex but i just think it's because you're not

00:34:24.320 that guy to her no it's not no no and that's not fine but i'm saying like no i said to her i didn't

00:34:30.160 say to anyone but i'm saying like a lot of times like when girls cut you out for stupid reasons it's

00:34:35.360 just because they don't like you because the same girl that's like because again most girls talk like

00:34:40.400 we talk to these girls behind the scenes you see how they move and they'll be like oh i won't accept

00:34:44.160 that that and that and they won't from the guy they don't like but if they like a guy some dudes get

00:34:50.960 the application at the front door and some dudes get let in the back entrance yeah i get i don't have to

00:34:55.840 pay nothing it's just like the clubs if some dudes gotta line up and go through the process

00:35:00.160 and some dudes just get the gate open one time i get it but i think i think you're still you're

00:35:04.720 still like targeting your the way you think about this for the women you don't want in it i i think

00:35:11.040 about the women i do want it's not that girl was married to the next guy and she actually went back

00:35:16.160 to the guy who she used to date at uni she's off the market french royalty these women are smart like she

00:35:22.720 she i didn't say anything like she could she could already kind of tell that like i wasn't ready at the

00:35:26.960 time bro women so i would say i don't know i don't really agree with what you're saying you're

00:35:30.960 talking about women on the streets isn't it i'm not i'm talking about women in general bro in just

00:35:35.200 in just a generalized situation like you have to come to a level of agreement with yourself

00:35:40.800 as a dude where you go like you know what i'm just going to work on me because there is nothing

00:35:45.680 out here in this world that can guarantee me or give me any security about where a woman's been

00:35:51.040 unless i bump into her while i'm in my teens young like these guys right so once i've reached

00:35:56.640 a certain age you just kind of have to accept regardless of whoever i pick they're going to

00:36:02.080 have a past regardless now me as a what they like to call high value man what i like to call the

00:36:09.360 difference is as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis

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JustPearlyThings - October 15, 2023

Panel Gets DIVIDED on This Can A Whore Be Wife

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