JustPearlyThings - October 15, 2023


Panel Gets DIVIDED on This Can A Whore Be Wife


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36 minutes

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7,584

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4

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Misogyny

69

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In this episode, we discuss public figures such as Britney Renner and the impact they have on the way we talk about sex and sexual health. We also discuss the issue of a hoe and how to deal with it.

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00:00:00.000 someone who doesn't care that you're sexually free or they have a sexually free past
00:00:03.760 like just like we were saying you accept people for their flaws some people would but
00:00:09.440 you're right there's a symbol i do think i do think public figures like that is
00:00:14.000 quite a negative impact on your model that's that simp is not going to be the guy you want though
00:00:18.240 i think i was even about to jump in because what you were saying there like about the way that
00:00:23.200 britney renner's put out and no one really talks about what comes after i think that kind of goes
00:00:29.360 back to what we were saying before where the consequences of that behavior needs to be
00:00:33.200 discussed from those girls that are doing that yeah i was about to say that yeah it's like it's
00:00:38.720 fine i think you know whatever your lifestyle fair enough but i think just getting around the real
00:00:45.920 life consequences of things is i think is the real issue of like listen if you want to do your you
00:00:50.320 know your promiscuous phase or whatever fine but let me just tell you what happens to people who do
00:00:55.920 that in the wrong way and let's not like dance around that but i'm not going to be like but you
00:00:59.760 oh you start with too many people you're not good enough for this no but that is the consequences i
00:01:03.600 just want to do that that's just my thing to understand that it's the consequence of it i just
00:01:07.920 think shame i'll be shouting i just think i think no one's really shouting but okay but i i just think
00:01:14.080 i just think shame um like it changes your behavior the same way like when i was at work and those guys
00:01:20.160 being like yeah like i would not touch a girl over too they didn't know like because i carry weight
00:01:25.120 well because i'm tall and so i don't think they knew how much anyways but um it's like hearing that
00:01:31.200 like brutal honest truth made me change my behavior and i just think it's the same thing to an extent
00:01:36.800 but in this case i don't think it works like that because in your circumstance you could lose weight
00:01:42.080 but if someone slept around they can't go back in the past and not sleep around in it so so what you're
00:01:46.880 doing is basically passing judgment but you're kidding yourself saying oh well there's there's no
00:01:52.800 redemption about what are you talking about how is redeemed like i'm sorry okay okay let's just let's
00:01:58.080 just be like i know bro you're trying to be pc bro they hoes bro just call them what they are 1.00
00:02:06.000 wait um so let's let's just we all know a girl that's that's kind of rebranded herself yeah
00:02:11.840 yeah 100 you meet them at university they all start at university they were closing their ends
00:02:17.840 and then they come to uni and try and be wifey and the girl that was wifey in ends comes to uni and 0.86
00:02:24.160 goes home mad truth ask the asian community because the girls that were part of the asian community 1.00
00:02:29.360 like indian girls they used to go mad in uni you know why because they were prisoners at home yeah yeah 1.00
00:02:35.280 and this is the reality everybody wants to wishy-washy and blur the lines but i think it's not it's not
00:02:40.240 wishy-washy bro i'm not saying i'm not saying there's no such thing as a hoe and i'm not saying 1.00
00:02:44.880 it's a good thing i'm just saying that i think a lot of a lot of the way we talk about it sounds like
00:02:50.320 it's unnecessarily negative and judgmental for people who i'm a big fan of shaming when you can do
00:02:55.840 something about it and you know what where's the positive impact but telling a girl who's that with 20
00:03:00.880 people it's like well she can't change that so it's just mean isn't it it's just a bit rude but alex alex
00:03:06.560 she could she could she could stop sleeping with the whole football team yeah you could stop if if 1.00
00:03:12.000 i was advising her i'd be like look you might want to move
00:03:21.520 and the reason the reason i say this is because i ask guys this question would you rather
00:03:25.920 have a girl that slept with 20 d or sometimes i'll say 10 depends on the day but 10 20 dudes you don't 0.99
00:03:32.080 know or three you do know most guys most guys and this is most guys will pick the 10 or the 20 that
00:03:40.880 they don't know you know what if i don't have to see them if i don't have to meet them what like
00:03:45.200 i don't know man i'm not even if it's why not do you know okay okay yeah i'm gonna be dreaming about
00:03:49.600 those dudes and i'm not you said i'm not i'm just saying if i was advising this girl i'd be like look
00:03:54.960 you gotta stop one you gotta stop doing what you're doing yeah you might want to move cities
00:03:59.680 gonna have to yeah and and so i'm not saying like you can ever come back like she's still a hoe 0.99
00:04:06.080 deep down but if that's that's what i would tell i i understand so you're talking about continuously
00:04:10.400 being a hoe yeah okay fine fine but don't we think like once a hoe always a hoe like do you think that 0.99
00:04:15.920 she'll ever be able to be a committed relationship if she slept with someone like 50 people okay look 0.63
00:04:20.640 i'm just saying if she if she came to me and and was asking me for advice yes i i wouldn't advise
00:04:26.640 a guy to date her like if the guys were but i'm just saying like i'm just saying if she's looking
00:04:32.960 for a husband if she's saying you know i'm really done and i'm really i i personally think once a hoe 0.99
00:04:38.720 always a hoe pa will give no references i won't be referring but if she said what's the best way to 1.00
00:04:46.560 come out on top be like it's time to move yeah i would give you the worst reference uh sarah yeah
00:04:54.000 she she breathes yeah she's like what are you thinking what do you think your friend oh she she has
00:05:00.960 nice hair she's charismatic she's charismatic she's popular she's real popular yeah i hear what you're
00:05:12.080 saying though like so you're talking about like trying the continuous behavior yeah but i but i
00:05:17.360 also wouldn't say to like make it super hard like because you're still a hoe deep down so you can't 0.99
00:05:23.360 like the born again virgin going to church thing like if a guy's actually taking you serious why are
00:05:28.480 you gonna make him it that hard for him to sleep with you if you know what you are actually i was
00:05:32.960 speaking to a friend recently um and um she is 30 something and um she's in a relationship and she still
00:05:41.280 hasn't slept with her boyfriend that she's been with for like three or four months he's sleeping
00:05:46.080 with somebody else is she a virgin no but that's the thing and i know and i and i um and i said to
00:05:52.080 her but why are you making him wait when i know you've slept with guys after like a week and she was 1.00
00:05:57.760 like yeah but you know i'm not doing that anymore i want you to respect me i want him to respect me and
00:06:04.160 obviously he doesn't know her sexual past so he's dumb though he's dumb right yeah that's not a clever
00:06:10.640 guy no no no no no because the thing is if i was to get out of my relationship for example
00:06:16.480 i know i wouldn't be able to yeah exactly you wait if you're gonna talk make sure you grab the mic
00:06:23.840 but that's what i'm saying i wouldn't like i wouldn't have been able to sleep with someone for a
00:06:27.840 very long time even if i started dating i reckon i would have that rule of at least i don't know
00:06:35.200 you're an exception to the rule but that's what i'm saying you don't believe a girl so he might 0.97
00:06:41.520 believe her because she's been in a lot of long-term relationships and then she might say actually i
00:06:45.840 have put it put it this way from for me and from my experience as soon as you start talking to a new
00:06:50.720 girl she's never slept with no one for the last six months all of them every single every time you
00:06:54.560 speak to a new girl i haven't been with no one for the last six months i haven't slept with no one
00:07:00.160 nowadays will tell you every guy but i'm saying we're talking about general you're talking about
00:07:06.320 exceptions to the rule the general consensus of women will play pc they're not going to tell you how 1.00
00:07:13.040 it is okay you think they tell you exactly in my experience the girls i'm meeting these days will be
00:07:18.560 like oh there's a cute for me wait okay um what about you what do you think do do women tell you
00:07:31.120 no 100 no maybe some some girls are honest and proud are proud hoes but most i've said eight percent 1.00
00:07:38.240 they ain't gonna tell you they'll be like six months or i've slept with two guys three guys and then
00:07:42.640 multiply that by you know what i'm saying i'm seeing someone that is such an annoying thing to
00:07:47.760 say i have a question for the girls okay so as women we all know we know we will always know more
00:07:55.520 than the men about women's sexual history would you guys agree with that 100 so so like when we have
00:08:01.360 friends like they'll tell us more than their boyfriends know yeah so so we know who gets wiped faster
00:08:07.680 hose hose or prudes hose hose my friend well actually yeah i've got friends that are and
00:08:15.600 they're married and actually second and then second question and do their men have any idea so no okay
00:08:20.960 no no what about no i honestly do think you find that most of these like single 40 year old women that 1.00
00:08:28.240 like are like sad that they're not wifed up and they're sad that they don't have kids and that it's
00:08:32.560 because they were hose like in their past and they regret it so much and like that goes back to the
00:08:38.560 britney renner thing i was saying like it's really dangerous for young women because they do end up 0.98
00:08:42.800 regretting it so you think prudes get wifed up yeah you say prudes um you said hose you think hose get
00:08:48.000 wifed up fast confidence okay what about you you think hose get wifed up faster me yeah um i think it's
00:08:54.800 some data well out of my friends the ones that were hose when we were younger are married the ones that 0.86
00:09:00.080 weren't i'm married because they've been very career driven okay what do you think i think it's
00:09:04.960 a mixture i feel like i know certain friends who are hose hose but their man don't know so that's why 0.55
00:09:11.120 they get wifed up but then i know certain prudes who get no men at all so i feel like it just depends
00:09:17.040 how you present yourself do the prudes present themselves like hose um no but then i feel like
00:09:25.200 it just depends because i know majority of my friends that are prudes i also feel like they
00:09:29.840 don't like put themselves in a position to date like for example let's say they like to dress up
00:09:36.320 wear makeup and just look cute i feel like they actively just withdraw from the game and they don't
00:09:41.440 put themselves out there like they just don't have game like that's the best way to explain it where
00:09:46.480 the hose like have it it goes both ways but like yeah it goes a little bit more game they know how to
00:09:51.440 make men yeah and i think because they've been with more men they know the right things to say they
00:09:56.240 understand men a little bit better than the yeah but then i know certain friends that are just so
00:10:02.240 ho-ish that because everybody knows they don't get wifed so it just like it just literally depends 1.00
00:10:07.920 on how you present yourself really i'm just curious roughly the girls i don't even know if you could do
00:10:15.600 this because i mean they might lie to you too but like if you had to guess roughly what body count gets
00:10:20.240 wifed the quickest oh that's difficult difficult to say no i don't even think that i don't know the men
00:10:28.000 don't actually know you just can't tell you can't tell these things is all about the person you guys
00:10:33.760 may know roughly because you know the behind the scenes so i'm just curious if you no i think what um
00:10:40.720 sorry what was your name no um valentina valentina um what you said was a very valid point because
00:10:46.800 the girls that may have slept through a few bodies they will know how to act to pretend that they're 1.00
00:10:53.520 this you know high almighty and whatnot but there's someone that's actually approved they will they'll
00:11:00.400 just keep themselves to themselves and not go out there whereas someone that slept with 10 bodies
00:11:04.400 10 15 20 whatever they'll go up and and they'll play the game oh i i i have a number and i can
00:11:09.680 validate it okay okay go ahead what do you think i think it's i'll ask you after sorry go ahead i think it's
00:11:15.440 seven plus seven but seven to ten seven to about ten twelve the reason is yeah i think so because
00:11:22.400 and i can kind of tell i i i judge everyone just by like how they are and i don't do any of this like
00:11:26.720 oh this what's your past i can see i can see your past in your eyes in it so yeah just just look just
00:11:32.160 talk to people you can see i'm sorry i don't believe men though well there are a lot of losers out
00:11:36.640 here but i definitely know that you're not getting anything we don't know anyway anyway i'll say we don't
00:11:41.440 know she so seven seven plus because she's probably these are women who've probably had two or three 1.00
00:11:46.240 serious boyfriends in high school and then they've probably had about two to three kind of sexual kind
00:11:52.240 of encounters in university and then they figure out so the whole thing is about being smart you know
00:11:56.000 some girls sleep on a little bit and then they figure it out some people keep on sleeping but that 1.00
00:12:00.880 seven mark is when like she's seen enough she kind of gets it now you've been to uni you've had the
00:12:06.800 high school boyfriends you've had a couple dudes at uni you you get how this works you're gonna find
00:12:11.200 a good guy when it gets past like 12 clearly you haven't figured this out so clearly you know it
00:12:16.960 just extends and i can see it like i disagree because one of my friends yeah she's my age she's 20 0.96
00:12:23.600 she's married and i'm not joking her body count is 65. that's an outlier come on no no that's not a normal 0.96
00:12:30.560 person that's what i'm saying like some people are like i feel like women have the power of like 0.99
00:12:37.200 again like i feel like men because i don't want to be rude but i feel like men have fragile egos
00:12:43.360 and once a woman knows how to work around it like like i said how you present yourself is crazy like 1.00
00:12:50.640 men didn't make up that saying what he doesn't know doesn't hurt him we didn't make that up
00:12:55.200 we didn't make that up what he doesn't know doesn't hurt him we did not make that but you
00:13:00.560 know why that was made up i've only heard men say that i mean i don't i don't know where the phrase
00:13:04.560 came from well she did not don't hurt her wait i wait um so i don't actually know where the phrase
00:13:09.120 came from i always hear men say that with like cheating which he doesn't know doesn't i always had women 1.00
00:13:13.280 say it i've only heard men but i do a podcast with men but it's in a situation where we know
00:13:20.960 women are adding numbers on that they're just erasing you know what i mean erasing it doesn't 1.00
00:13:25.840 exist so yeah but at some point knowing knowing is just like negative benefit like it's not needed
00:13:31.600 you're not helping yourself put it this way with the tree in the woods if you if you're not there to
00:13:35.920 hear it fall did you actually did it actually fall i'm curious do you think if he found out the
00:13:40.240 husband would um would they get divorced no um because of their religion as well oh she's religious
00:13:47.840 yeah muslim as well oh she's a convert um i feel like probably you know i don't know i really don't
00:13:56.800 know but i feel like they would not be i think there'd be a lot of family but i've also got another
00:14:04.960 question though what if yeah this person has a body count of two and they're with their
00:14:11.040 amount for a year and then she fucks his brother does that make her a hoe or does that make her 1.00
00:14:15.440 like i don't i don't think it's like black and white like i think there's some things that you
00:14:27.040 can do that are just like mad i like the way you're supposed to like if her body counts two if she ever 1.00
00:14:33.040 if her weight guys no side stop um if her body counts two but she slept with two guys in one night 1.00
00:14:39.120 is that better than a girl with seven no that's what i'm saying so time is a hoe really based on the 0.99
00:14:48.560 spectrum the spectrum of hoism is so vast we're gonna be here all night because it's not based on
00:14:55.360 numbers it's based on intention exactly we've been saying all this time and now what hotel why does it
00:15:00.720 no because it's not listen all right let me help you guys wait no wait i've been quiet stop stop stop
00:15:08.400 thank you i usually talk over people and i've been quiet anyway i agree with my name well with
00:15:14.720 what my nemesis said i actually like it today i'm proud of you because you cannot call a woman a hoe
00:15:20.800 when actually she's experimenting so she can know and make better decisions because it's very dangerous
00:15:26.960 listen i'm not even talking to you too because i think that's an exception to the rule in the day
00:15:30.480 in today's age but i think it's very irresponsible for you to expect a woman to go into a relationship 0.99
00:15:36.400 with you and think and know what it is that you bring to the table as a man when she doesn't know
00:15:40.800 what a man can bring to the table he can't bring to the table women need to go through heartbreak 1.00
00:15:44.960 women need to experience men to know and be better trust me trust me listen listen do you know what
00:15:50.720 especially in today's age it is necessary because we we are actually programmed to make bad decisions
00:15:55.760 because the world around us is actually not that great i think so we need to learn
00:15:59.200 the experience wait wait wait what what why do you need more trauma to bring into a relationship
00:16:05.680 it's not about trauma it's about experience come on every stop capping every time you break up with
00:16:11.360 someone or you get broken up with there's trauma there's heartbreak that you bring into the it's
00:16:15.360 baggage maybe even a kid maybe you could you could you could phrase it like that but most men would
00:16:22.320 disagree because we all complain to the next guy but you know let me tell something about men and
00:16:27.680 this is the thing i think is becoming the problem men were used to women succumbing to their needs and
00:16:35.680 their wants because they needed a man to survive no no no i'm not i'm just telling you wait a second
00:16:41.200 right which means that now that a woman can work and a woman can provide for herself many to kind of relax
00:16:46.960 on their standards because you will not get a woman that is going to be a virgin in this day and age and be a 0.98
00:16:51.920 woman that is actually naturally and i mean i'll go to the east i'll just fly to the east and find
00:16:57.840 that yeah and how are you going to feel with going to the east and meeting like that there's one on the
00:17:01.600 panel but she was 15 when she met him and she was a kid she said she was a virgin and that's even
00:17:09.520 better because you you haven't for two years because you were young because you're 15 in a relationship
00:17:14.400 you know what you know what can i do men men are not picky they're not picky at all you are being
00:17:20.320 picky if you're asking for a virgin most men don't expect okay okay how many men here expect to get a
00:17:26.800 virgin okay so you're telling i know you got one you're fine so so most men don't expect a virgin they 0.99
00:17:35.760 just don't want a girl that's had her ass on her instagram that has only fans and that's slept with more than 1.00
00:17:42.240 like 15 dudes guys i i've you know i've interviewed a lot of guys it seems to be 10 but then i asked
00:17:48.720 them a second question and then it's like yeah we have chemistry maybe 15. it's not that you know what
00:17:57.360 that's not crazy standards i'm so true so you know what though i do i do think though like a lot of guys
00:18:05.120 initially chat to me because they expect me to be like some crazy fucking hoe who's just gonna like jump 1.00
00:18:10.960 on their dick first chance i get but yeah like so they only like me in a sexual sense but then 0.89
00:18:17.520 once i do tell them i'm a virgin and like if they believe me um because of how i present myself um
00:18:24.640 they do start to think of me different and they do start to look at me in a way where it's like yeah
00:18:29.440 i could wife her like yeah like i could look past the ass on instagram like yeah because they do value like 1.00
00:18:35.440 like purity but if you go into a relationship would you delete all those pictures or would you leave
00:18:39.680 them up no no i'd have to have someone that was like comfortable because i like expressing myself
00:18:44.560 in that way i like showing off my body i like that but yeah but she's still a virgin she's pure so 0.93
00:18:51.200 isn't that good no no i was just out of curiosity i just wanted to know if she deleted for respect
00:18:55.440 you know i mean i mean i mean i think most men would like prefer neither like i don't think they'd care
00:19:00.880 that much i'm not saying like like but but she gets that she's not disputing that what i'm saying
00:19:06.880 is i think sometimes we need to understand that there's a difference between what we want and what
00:19:10.720 we need that's it like what you need is not i don't think men need a dude or sorry i don't think men
00:19:17.840 need a girl that slept with 20 people no but what i'm saying is a man doesn't also need somebody that slept
00:19:23.360 with less than 10. a man needs a woman that is going to be there for him that's going to support 1.00
00:19:27.680 him so you go you go through the substance of how much a woman can add to your life even listen this 0.75
00:19:33.840 is the thing i i've gone gotten to a stage in my life where i don't want to judge people and i'm very
00:19:38.160 forgiving if you genuinely have genuine kind intentions toward me i don't care about anything if
00:19:43.600 i can trust you you can prove to me that you can trust that can trust you now and forever we have
00:19:47.520 that bond then great i don't care so what matters to men though is they want they want to look like
00:19:52.720 respect is really important to guys and so if a guy brings in a girl and he doesn't know that she
00:19:58.800 slept with like three people in that room or they go to a new town and and she's been with this guy and
00:20:04.080 that guy like life is long if you if you slept with 20 30 people like you're kind of bound to run into
00:20:08.960 them at some point so it's like what about girls bumping into uh the girls that the guys used to
00:20:15.600 and i think and i think and i think most girls don't care they don't the first thing you're gonna 1.00
00:20:22.960 think but if they wait but if they do if they do i they have every right to do that i think that's fine
00:20:30.240 okay boys start staying virgins didn't it i think that um stay virgins then because we have no
00:20:35.760 own control of that yeah just stay virgins you're not a simple you're pure i think we need to identify
00:20:41.200 that a lot of the time when we have these conversations we are talking about high value
00:20:44.880 men and when we're talking about you know someone that has i think it's quite clear at this day and
00:20:50.800 age that a lot of people know that women are born with value and men have to gain their value as they
00:20:55.520 work and we're all born with value i personally think that women don't even know how to identify 1.00
00:21:01.120 like that word high value men right now has been like put it put this way a high value man for like on a
00:21:08.320 general idea is somebody who can pay their bills keep a roof over their head feed themselves the
00:21:15.120 basic the basic provisions that's what that's the basics wait wait wait wait sorry sorry the high
00:21:21.360 value man is what say that again so a high value like for me yeah what puts you in the first like
00:21:27.200 bracket of being high value is being able to provide yourself for yourself fully so if you feed yourself
00:21:33.200 clothe yourself um home yourself you know have like spare stuff going on
00:21:38.160 that you can do you've reached the point of high value because there is a lot of people
00:21:44.960 let me finish let me finish just no listen let me finish let me finish just like there's
00:21:50.080 just like there's a whole spectrum there's also a high value spectrum do you understand so the bottom
00:21:55.680 the bottom end of high volume is being able to provide because there is a lot of men in this world
00:22:00.800 that cannot do that yes now what happens those are the ones that we say they're trash now what happens is
00:22:05.840 women are looking at the top tier of the high value which is which is the basketball players the 1.00
00:22:12.720 football players and these guys and these guys hold on let me finish and these guys are not the men the
00:22:19.920 husbands that you all claim you want because they're the most ones that are least monogamous they have the 1.00
00:22:24.960 most options and everybody's going for them but the stuff that you're actually asking for the dudes just
00:22:30.800 below them and slightly below actually are more overqualified to actually provide that but because
00:22:35.840 you're so looking up in the stars and gazed by the lights you're actually missing the real dudes that
00:22:40.880 you're supposed to grow with as a journey like these two have well i i i i think the average and i got
00:22:47.440 cheated on so it made no difference he probably wasn't average if he had the option to cheat he was
00:22:51.760 probably above average but but you there's like five pillars of high value man it's not just like
00:22:56.640 taking care of your bills and they they they talk about how entertainers aren't in the high value man
00:23:01.120 category automatically thank you they're not they're not why do people act like these rappers are like
00:23:05.920 respectable dudes yeah you guys wait wait wait no it's like um basketball players um they they're like
00:23:12.560 have a 92 chance of getting divorced within like five years after leaving the league and um football players
00:23:19.200 it's like a 60 or seven and uh i think it's higher than the i think it's 78 chance of getting divorced
00:23:25.360 but kevin samuels there's like five pillars of a high value man yeah no i watch kevin and that's
00:23:29.600 what i was saying like there's a spectrum right and that's what i'm saying like the basic level
00:23:34.080 the basic level which most majority women who are also on that same level they miss that what do you 0.85
00:23:39.840 mean the same level though because can i just finish my point when because i started talking about the
00:23:43.280 high value men right about the fact that we're talking about so let's say high value if i'm talking
00:23:48.720 about a high value man i'm talking about he's probably making about 80 in in uk 80 plus k he's got his own
00:23:55.200 apartment yeah i personally would speak like that right so essentially why would this man work for
00:24:02.480 20 years or whatever to establish himself and then he why would he want to be with a girl that um has
00:24:08.640 slept with 20 30 guys don't get me wrong i'm not saying that every single guy that's over 30 wants a
00:24:13.840 21 year old because some people do actually want someone to grow old with and have a nice conversation
00:24:18.560 with it's not just about sex and fertility but at the end of the day there is they've got the spectrum to
00:24:24.240 choose if we're just talking about guys like yourself and not yourself like you spoke the
00:24:28.880 regular guys yeah like you spoke about 90 of these yeah that you know they're making all right money
00:24:33.200 they're like but really and truly can they really ask for a virgin but when they can of course they can
00:24:37.600 when they get to him no no they have no right why when they get to make it so because well because
00:24:42.320 she's not the she's not one percent ain't nobody got the right to ask for no virgin what are you 1.00
00:24:47.120 talking to danelva you're the same girl that'll say women can ask for whatever they want
00:24:53.760 but men can't ask for when did i ever say that when did i ever say that you insinuate it often
00:24:59.840 often no i say as a person please stop stop guys okay
00:25:11.760 okay i don't even remember what we're talking about now liberation what i was saying match your level
00:25:16.960 as in yeah yeah no you're right i think actually a lot of times like the virgins aren't who guys would
00:25:22.240 think like i think if you like a lot of virgins i know are really awkward i don't even think they would
00:25:27.440 like i'm not interested or that attracted like i don't know and also if somebody's at 80 130 grand a year
00:25:34.560 i think they're going to be of a certain age right so they're not going to meet somebody who's single
00:25:40.240 that's in their 20s that's a virgin that's necessarily at their level that they want to
00:25:45.200 match and grow with because nobody now you want to meet a woman who's also doing her thing and not 0.98
00:25:51.360 just at home waiting for their man to come and no i mean guys like that they want a girl that's
00:25:56.080 waiting for them to come because if a girl's just sat at home waiting for the man to come and marry 0.95
00:26:03.120 they don't they don't really care yeah yeah i mean is it blessing isn't your girlfriend at home all the
00:26:07.760 time she likes it she's not nowhere else but i don't think like the housewife stuff is nice
00:26:26.080 i haven't experienced too much of that before but i definitely prefer like someone who's also kind
00:26:29.920 of doing their own thing acting like why do we so women have all these like standards for men 1.00
00:26:38.320 like you have to be this and that i don't i don't think it's bad for me to be like all right i would
00:26:42.320 hope you're educated and i hope you're you're also doing something reasonably respectable right
00:26:46.240 it's not just me that has to work in the top place you have to be equally yoked that's me
00:26:50.400 it's like creatively like because if for me if i'm sat at home doing nothing just waiting for
00:26:55.040 my man to come home like what i'm like what am i doing like what am i doing like what am i doing
00:27:00.480 it's kind of weird i need to be like doing something creatively or something i mean cooking food waiting
00:27:05.760 for yeah no i mean if it was me there's always making another bowl i'm just thinking if it was if
00:27:12.800 you're married to a high value man there's gonna be to do around the house it's a full-time job has
00:27:17.360 he not got a cleaner what do i look like a cleaner no but you know what's so crazy wait wait wait wait
00:27:23.680 if you're married to a high value man why wouldn't you clean no but why wouldn't we have a cleaner like 1.00
00:27:28.480 i have a cleaner like it's true they always get cleaners though i personally haven't i've got
00:27:34.880 two children and i've got my own creative things that i'm doing so i'm not cleaning toilets i don't
00:27:41.680 know some people value some people value privacy so it's like when you have all these random people in
00:27:46.880 your home you kind of lose you kind of lose an element of privacy i mean yeah i mean you could
00:27:51.200 have a cleaner and we could have it forever but i'm saying i'm saying there's always there's
00:27:55.200 there's always to do around the house that that would have like i mean you can i mean
00:28:00.480 if you just talk to you i started messaging with like real homemakers oh my god they make all 1.00
00:28:05.040 their food from scratch like a lot of times they garden it themselves like like a lot of women that 1.00
00:28:10.160 say that's a yeah running a home is not easy so it's hard work i've done it since i've seen
00:28:15.200 yeah we're meant to do that a lot of times they watch the kids a lot of times they'll homeschool them
00:28:19.280 like it's yeah i guess i guess it depends on like where but a lot of the women i meet in london 1.00
00:28:26.880 that are like i always feel like if if she stays home a lot then she's gonna do all this housework but 1.00
00:28:33.920 eventually she's gonna be like oh i need some help and we need to hire a maid oh we need we need like a 1.00
00:28:38.800 nanny to help because that's what they do and then she'll want to do other things and then 1.00
00:28:42.320 naturally when infidelity comes into the picture or your wife has like six hours a day like so i 0.53
00:28:49.120 can more easily trust someone who also has a career because the women who are kind of you know cheating 1.00
00:28:55.120 in their marriages are women who have spare time that's how i think but i don't know it's so crazy
00:29:02.480 that is that people don't like the gardener the main factors you know like because when you when you
00:29:08.800 asked you said when you described a high value man the first thing you went to was finance do you not
00:29:13.760 know that a man's financial peak the point at where he makes the most money in his life is for 51 and
00:29:20.960 that's what i was saying so if you're not 25 if you're not between 20 and if you're not between 18 and 30
00:29:26.880 and we'll be happy dating a 51 year old get this fairy tale out of your head hold on hold on let me
00:29:32.480 finish let me finish and just to go on what you're about to say get better at picking a dude who is
00:29:38.080 going to become a high value right because you don't know how to pick you don't know how to pick
00:29:44.000 oh how did you say that can i can i say something i've been good enough you're quiet
00:29:49.360 what are you the sideman please please please talk in your mouth i'm talking to your mic
00:29:56.320 i was just saying that like perspectives you were saying the other week that it was okay to be
00:30:01.440 a sideman and be okay in that position yeah as a man isn't she married or in a relationship
00:30:07.440 he's not trying to wife her he's just sleeping i'm not trying to wife it but then doesn't that devalue
00:30:12.720 you as a man no i mean i do you know how hard it is to get sick wait wait wait wait wait stop
00:30:18.480 interrupting sorry sorry sorry so so i mean that would be nice but no i mean women don't give a 1.00
00:30:25.360 shit it's just look at there yeah how many times has drake stolen people's girls are women oh no i'm 0.95
00:30:32.480 not sleeping with drake well that's kind of dangerous you're trading on that little line of
00:30:37.440 old girls are holes the same way that all men are trash that's not really the case and i actually
00:30:41.280 think when you're saying when did i say when you when did i say men are trash no i'm not saying
00:30:46.080 that you said i'm just saying it's comparatively the same thing where it's just coming out of your
00:30:49.440 mouth the same way that i could say all men are trash so you shouldn't really say like that it's
00:30:52.640 generalizing what's general what's when you keep talking about girls don't care girls do care and 0.95
00:30:56.880 not every single girl i'm saying i'm saying by and large girls do not care if men but they do
00:31:02.720 what you're seeing what don't what you're seeing what what the world is actually actually showing you
00:31:07.360 what a lot of men actually suffer with is the fact that they are dealing with hoes and they think 1.00
00:31:12.160 every woman is a hoe and not every woman is a hoe actually at the percentage of a lot of women that 1.00
00:31:16.640 are hoes may be actually quite small because a lot of women have very high standards so they're not 1.00
00:31:20.640 even wanting to open their legs i'm not saying all women are hoes i've never said that wait wait 1.00
00:31:27.520 it's not even by large either wait wait i'm not saying all women are hoes i've never said that i've 0.93
00:31:32.480 not you can't catch me on a podcast saying all women are hoes i didn't say but but i'm saying is 0.96
00:31:36.640 that by and large women don't care and the reason the reason if they did so many women that come on 1.00
00:31:42.160 the show it wouldn't be such a large percentage that have picked men that cheat on them okay and like 0.93
00:31:47.280 women like women like men that other women want to bang and there's 100 and there's and there's and 1.00
00:31:56.800 and there's violence yeah yeah you know you know i'll give you i'll give you an example pickup artists
00:32:01.840 teach men to wear rings so they can get more girls because women see that as a sign of pre-selection
00:32:08.560 oh he married her he'd marry me and women and and throughout history men that could get multiple
00:32:14.960 women it was a sign that they could take care of those women so it's like so i'm not saying every
00:32:21.840 single woman you know some some women have dads to you know tell them don't go there whatever whatever 1.00
00:32:26.800 but but i'm saying by and large women don't care that's why they have no girls by and large by and 1.00
00:32:32.480 large even me like if a guy said oh i slept with a married chick like am i gonna care like it wasn't me
00:32:40.400 girls do not like men that do not attract girls i'm telling you guys guys aren't you falling for that
00:32:46.560 trap where you're generalizing in a way that doesn't serve you so clearly clearly clearly you want the
00:32:53.120 women that does actually care whether they do cheats on her yeah and that's what i'm saying you 0.72
00:32:58.080 don't so clearly that's what you'd be looking for right so clearly clearly clearly that makes everyone's
00:33:02.560 life easier right so if you're saying oh most women don't like this most women like um men who
00:33:08.560 cheat on them and etc then surely surely we don't want the ones that no i said i said most women don't 1.00
00:33:13.040 care if you slept with a married guy but i think i think even i made the point of handles being the
00:33:19.520 side dude and because in the last one he had said and so it was kind of like in my mind i was like
00:33:25.360 he's not like marrying up in what he's saying in that moment so what she was saying is that like
00:33:31.520 as a woman if i met handles and he was like yeah i used to date a married woman would i care if i 0.88
00:33:37.840 want him and i feel that he adds value to my life i wouldn't and i'm saying like by and large
00:33:44.800 women don't care maybe we should i'm not saying it's like the right thing but like if i'm being 0.95
00:33:50.640 honest if you if you think he's handsome he's got a good job he has all the things you look for but
00:33:54.160 he dated a married woman at one point um anything i think that's a bigger level that's a bigger level
00:34:02.400 you made a married woman step outside what did you have sir the clever woman the top woman i meet 1.00
00:34:08.720 like the the a-plus woman again intelligence is my biggest thing they they'll they'll she'll she'll 0.98
00:34:16.080 she'll cut you out if if you like talk the wrong way she'll be like this guy's a 0.86
00:34:20.080 and i'm like i did barely said because you'll start it's alex but i just think it's because you're not
00:34:24.320 that guy to her no it's not no no and that's not fine but i'm saying like no i said to her i didn't
00:34:30.160 say to anyone but i'm saying like a lot of times like when girls cut you out for stupid reasons it's 1.00
00:34:35.360 just because they don't like you because the same girl that's like because again most girls talk like 1.00
00:34:40.400 we talk to these girls behind the scenes you see how they move and they'll be like oh i won't accept 0.94
00:34:44.160 that that and that and they won't from the guy they don't like but if they like a guy some dudes get
00:34:50.960 the application at the front door and some dudes get let in the back entrance yeah i get i don't have to
00:34:55.840 pay nothing it's just like the clubs if some dudes gotta line up and go through the process 0.93
00:35:00.160 and some dudes just get the gate open one time i get it but i think i think you're still you're
00:35:04.720 still like targeting your the way you think about this for the women you don't want in it i i think
00:35:11.040 about the women i do want it's not that girl was married to the next guy and she actually went back
00:35:16.160 to the guy who she used to date at uni she's off the market french royalty these women are smart like she 1.00
00:35:22.720 she i didn't say anything like she could she could already kind of tell that like i wasn't ready at the
00:35:26.960 time bro women so i would say i don't know i don't really agree with what you're saying you're
00:35:30.960 talking about women on the streets isn't it i'm not i'm talking about women in general bro in just
00:35:35.200 in just a generalized situation like you have to come to a level of agreement with yourself
00:35:40.800 as a dude where you go like you know what i'm just going to work on me because there is nothing
00:35:45.680 out here in this world that can guarantee me or give me any security about where a woman's been 1.00
00:35:51.040 unless i bump into her while i'm in my teens young like these guys right so once i've reached
00:35:56.640 a certain age you just kind of have to accept regardless of whoever i pick they're going to
00:36:02.080 have a past regardless now me as a what they like to call high value man what i like to call the
00:36:09.360 difference is as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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