JustPearlyThings - October 17, 2023


Panel Of Feminists Unable To Answer This


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Is sex a choice or a genetic predisposition? Why are women more likely to cheat on their husbands? And why is it that women have more than twice as many partners as their male counterparts? Is it because women are genetically predisposed to cheat?

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00:00:00.000 book right now. It's called The Book of Shame, oddly enough. And I've been very, very deep into
00:00:06.820 it for a few months now. It's going to have a leather cover and like energy crystals on the
00:00:10.000 cover. But there's a really interesting argument that sort of self-revealed. I didn't expect this
00:00:15.040 to happen, but I started looking into it. It's like, okay, statistically, I can say, yes, like
00:00:19.040 there's very clear data and it's like irrefutable. And it's been replicated many times through many
00:00:24.060 studies that if a woman's got 10 or more sexual partners, the outcome of that marriage is going
00:00:28.020 to be very, very poor, like relative to other marriages. Like it's just, it's, but the question
00:00:32.540 is like, but why, but why? And then I stumbled upon this one study and then it led me to another study
00:00:38.020 and I've collected like seven pages of data from different studies on this. And it's always
00:00:42.140 converging on the same factor. And here's the question. This one's a mind blowing thing. So
00:00:45.560 pay attention. Okay. Is promiscuity a choice or is it a genetic predisposition?
00:00:54.740 It's an interesting question.
00:00:55.800 Like we want to say, okay, let's just say we think it's a, it's a, it's a, it's a choice,
00:00:59.120 it's a choice, right? We want to say it's a choice. You know, you can be like that. You're
00:01:03.100 having fun. Okay. But now watch this. I'm going to give you guys an anecdotal example. Then I'll
00:01:07.260 give you some statistics and it gets really weird. Okay. When you think of a single mother,
00:01:12.140 like just imagine a single mom and she's got a kid. Okay. You got it. Is that kid male or female?
00:01:16.980 Is it a little girl she's raising or a little boy?
00:01:23.120 I don't know why I see a male. It's always a little boy, right? We always go. It's a little
00:01:26.680 boy. That's not by accident. Okay. That's not, there's a very, that's not by accident. This gets
00:01:31.320 really interesting, right? So there's a, there's a ribosome, a sequence of ribosomes in the genes
00:01:36.300 that when it lines up in a certain, in a certain alignment, it has something like a 78% predictive
00:01:43.440 factor of your socio sexual status. Social sexuality is like a scientific way of saying
00:01:48.820 promiscuity. It's how you treat sex, like, you know, just socially and not with any sort of higher
00:01:54.040 purpose. Right. And it's genetic. And what else is crazy about it is, well, a couple of things,
00:01:58.760 right? Number one, women that have this particular set of ribosomes are more promiscuous by definition. 1.00
00:02:04.900 Number two, they're more likely to have male offspring. Wow. Yeah. And it's, and it's like,
00:02:10.880 it's been known for like 40 years. Huh? Why do you think that's the case? There are reasons.
00:02:16.200 There actually are reasons for it, which get very scientific and very interesting. Okay. This is my
00:02:20.340 guess. This is my guess. So back in the day, if you were like a concubine, I'd imagine you'd be a 0.99
00:02:27.100 concubine for like the most like alpha guy, like the king. Yes. So maybe there's some genetic variation
00:02:33.580 that happened because the kings wanted sons and they would kind of, wouldn't they kill the
00:02:38.520 mistresses that like couldn't give them sons? Like when they, this is just a wild guess. I don't 0.98
00:02:42.760 know the answer to that, but I know that female, when, you know, when you have a girl as opposed 1.00
00:02:46.480 to a boy, the sperm gestrates longer in the, in the uterus, right. Or in the going up and through
00:02:50.160 the fallopian tubes, et cetera. So it's like, um, so there, there is an argument to be said that
00:02:54.760 there's just like a different kind of sex that occurs when a woman is very, very into the sex, 1.00
00:02:59.340 which a hypersexual woman would be because they exhibit more male characteristics. Right. 0.91
00:03:03.900 And so one, and I started reading into that and there's like quite, and there's got like
00:03:07.980 a whole chapter on it. And as I, as I'm reading through the studies and I'm like, I'm putting
00:03:11.720 all this data together, I'm going, Oh my God, maybe there's a genetic trigger to tell men
00:03:16.120 to stay away from promiscuous women because they're genetically predisposed to cheat on you.
00:03:21.960 Yeah. Wow. That's very interesting.
00:03:26.780 Well, can I ask you a question? What's wrong with a woman being a whore? 1.00
00:03:31.500 Well, I just don't think it makes for good wives and mothers. 1.00
00:03:34.740 Why not? But part of being a wife is to enjoy sex with your husband. 1.00
00:03:40.640 Yeah. Not a bunch of men. Your husband and the highest sex. 1.00
00:03:43.600 Yeah, but practice makes perfect. No, but the highest sexual satisfaction was when they've only had sex
00:03:48.180 with one person. So she's going to enjoy sex more.
00:03:53.300 You could also get the argument. And the number one, and the number one person that women cheat with 1.00
00:03:58.320 is their exes. You could make the argument that practice makes perfect.
00:04:02.300 You could argue that. I just don't think it'd be true. I think they would just make you a whore. 1.00
00:04:06.200 Well, it depends also on what kind of person you want. Because the thing is as well,
00:04:09.860 would you say that people are more likely to be attracted to people who are like them?
00:04:13.480 So for example, a woman who say been with a few people would want a guy who'd also been with a few people.
00:04:18.180 A man loves a whore. They will fuck a whore. But they will not marry a whore. 1.00
00:04:23.520 They will want to find a lady that hasn't slept with multiple men. A wifey. And a wifey isn't 1.00
00:04:29.360 someone that sleeps around for fun and wants to, I don't know, build their experience up.
00:04:34.500 Go use a toy.
00:04:36.000 Especially if a man has resources. You look at a country like France today,
00:04:38.860 where paternity testing is illegal in France. You can look this up. You go to jail for 20 years
00:04:42.920 for getting a paternity test. So if the wife delivers a child, that's not the color that you are. 0.75
00:04:46.300 It's like, you just have to accept them as your kid and that's it.
00:04:49.340 Right? And so, and now your resources are going to a man, you know, to a baby, to a child that's not
00:04:53.840 your child, which it's like, if you have resources as a man, what are your, what are your chances of
00:04:57.460 preserving those in divorce court? Like pretty damn close to zero.
00:05:00.280 Zero.
00:05:00.360 What if he's happy raising loads of kids though?
00:05:03.300 He's got more children.
00:05:04.240 Great. So find a man that's happy raising other men's kids. 1.00
00:05:07.280 Why wouldn't he just get a young woman that can give him a bunch of kids? 1.00
00:05:11.500 What if he's got five young women who can give him a bunch of kids? 1.00
00:05:15.860 Not my baby, dad.
00:05:18.200 I mean, you'd probably be attracted to a man that has those options.
00:05:21.880 Okay. We're going to go back to the wives of yesterday from today. Okay. So we're just 0.96
00:05:28.740 going to go through. So what do we say before she would stay? 85% of people were married. 0.99
00:05:35.020 There was a big social stigma against divorce. Now there's a 32 to 41% chance. She's leaving 0.75
00:05:42.180 your ass. Yeah. Okay. Next. Next. Next. Wait, I need you to wait. Pipe, pipe, pipe down. Wait.
00:05:49.980 Okay. Thank you. All right. So depending on the time period in social class, you'd have
00:05:55.180 a wife helping up on the farm. So you're going to get some cooking from scratch, right? And
00:06:01.740 farming. Now I'm not saying there are not wives that offer this, but does the average 0.95
00:06:06.360 chick, I don't know how to farm. You guys know how to farm? He does. I don't know how 0.60
00:06:11.260 to farm, but my wife knows how to farm. I'm not a perfect person. I don't know. I do help
00:06:15.020 my dad water the garden, but that's about how fast I, how far I take it. Okay. So we
00:06:19.840 got cooking and farming. Then, then three, there was a major stigma against female cheating. 1.00
00:06:26.820 You wouldn't have to worry about her cheating on you. It happened, but so infrequently that
00:06:31.340 it would barely cross your mind as opposed to today where one in five women cuck their 1.00
00:06:36.960 partners. Right there. Yes. Okay. Next. Four. Rule of thumb is a myth. Christian cultures 1.00
00:06:44.500 always despise wife beating and the paranoia about domestic violence was not as high as
00:06:50.200 today. Meaning if your wife attacked you, you could defend yourself as opposed to today
00:06:54.980 where half of domestic violence is reciprocal. 70% of non-reciprocal, the wife is beating on 0.54
00:07:01.480 you sometimes with a weapon and the cops get called. The man is the one getting arrested.
00:07:06.480 So they used to be able to, I should, I put this on the wrong one. You could call the police
00:07:12.780 on your girl and they would help you if she starts beating you. Okay. So, um, if the wife 1.00
00:07:19.280 left, which was unlikely, she could not take your kids from you unless you gave them up voluntarily.
00:07:25.500 So the father automatically got custody where today, 90% of the time woman gets kids. Okay. Next. 1.00
00:07:41.320 In most cases, when you married a woman, you would get a dowry from her family. Any, any of you come 0.99
00:07:47.700 with a dowry? No, no, I know. Dang it. Right. It's like a dowry. What I can give you a dowry. Wow.
00:07:56.360 Thank you. I actually, I do come with eight acres of land. Shout out dad, but, uh, but, um, may it made
00:08:05.340 sense since you were the one providing financially seven, she would be a virgin. Moreover, it would,
00:08:12.360 it would pipe down. All right, wait, we'll get to you. It was considered her wifely duty to have sex 1.00
00:08:18.820 with you. So unlimited, sorry guys, I did not make this a very good chart. Unlimited sex. Sure. She
00:08:28.940 might deny you sex, but sexless marriages were a lot less common where now one in four marriages
00:08:35.360 are sexless. Very different. As the head of the household, you'd have the final say on all major
00:08:43.660 decisions. If your wife disagreed with you, she'd have to consult privately and not disagree with you
00:08:49.120 publicly. Oh, King, I'm sorry. I did not tell you this before. Can you pull up the tweet that I have
00:08:55.220 the muzzle? I'm going to go on my Twitter, go on my Twitter and look for a picture. You'll know it.
00:09:02.520 You'll know it. I said, should we bring this back? Okay. I'm going to, I'm going to go to 10. I'm going
00:09:07.440 to skip nine. I'm going to go back. In terms of childcare and domestic cleaning, there would be no
00:09:12.340 question of 50, 50 on top of your job. Just because your wife wanted to be a dental hygienist or 1.00
00:09:18.200 receptionist because some feminist teacher told her it was important. Nada. She was a stay at home wife. 1.00
00:09:24.420 11. Women were expected to behave gracefully and look after their appearance. Not to mention 1.00
00:09:30.400 postmodern period obesity was a lot rarer because of high food scarcity and lack of junk food. So
00:09:37.740 she was in shape. Now, unfortunately, today we're 170 pounds. I think you guys are a little thinner.
00:09:47.900 I'm American. You know what I mean? I'm so, but it's like 160. Regardless, we're both fat, UK, US.
00:09:58.280 Women were expected to learn, to learn how to sing or play an instrument to help pass the hours with 0.99
00:10:05.260 evening entertainment. So not only would you get a girl that could farm, make food from scratch,
00:10:11.380 she also had to play an instrument and sing for all of your friends. She had to trust you to make the
00:10:17.460 final decision. 13. She'd take your last name. None of this hyphen. I want to keep my own name.
00:10:23.880 I'm going to still take my own last names. All right. 14. She'd be raised to think marriage, 0.99
00:10:28.680 motherhood, and duty to her husband was her purpose in life rather than motherhood being optimal, 0.99
00:10:34.700 a burden, and having to delete the word obey from, oh my God, they deleted the word obey from wedding
00:10:39.820 vows. I didn't even know that. All right. 15. Because people courted and then married didn't
00:10:47.600 play the field, monogamy was strictly enforced. You can forget about this modern 80-20 thing.
00:10:55.220 The modern guerrilla-like quasi-polygamy where fours are chasing dudes who are tens was gone.
00:11:01.300 Most men, provided they were mentally stable, not criminals could find a white. Even if you were 0.99
00:11:06.380 beta AF, you would not be invisible. Some women out there would consider you a prospect. 0.99
00:11:12.380 Moreover, women had to look for traits that made a good husband, that healthy, good quality, 1.00
00:11:18.100 gentlemanly traits that modern women find boring today. This guy's funny. You wouldn't have to 1.00
00:11:23.940 learn to be cocky, mildly cruel, borderline sociopath just to keep a woman's interest. 0.58
00:11:29.380 No leaving her on red for six hours. You want to bring her flowers because you like her? 1.00
00:11:33.460 Odds are she'd actually appreciate it. 16. As a result of the smallness of the dating pool in
00:11:39.880 the local village and the emphasis on choosing a man who's a good provider and had the traits of
00:11:44.620 being sensible, caring husband, a distinctly mid-5 out of 10 guy had a good shot at a hottie.
00:11:51.420 As opposed to the results of dating apps, over half of dating now, where the men often end up with
00:11:57.580 a woman significantly uglier than them and fatter than them. 1.00
00:12:01.920 Hey, do you know the stats? It's really interesting.
00:12:03.460 So I got one more. I need you to wait one more. So this is my favorite one. Did you find it,
00:12:08.440 King? All right. There was a social stigma against women who nagged or yelled too much or berated their 1.00
00:12:15.680 husband. In England, they called this a scold and there were laws against it. And you could be
00:12:21.640 punished by public shaming or forcing a woman to wear a muzzle. Wait, show them. Yeah. So if you 0.98
00:12:29.280 nagged your husband too much, I asked the guy, should we bring this back? You know, I just wanted
00:12:37.480 to see. Scroll down, scroll down. I don't, I don't even know what they said. Let's see. So that was the
00:12:46.260 quality of the wives then. So do you think feminism has made us better women overall? 0.99
00:12:53.040 Do you know what? Following here in your stats and even seeing that muzzle, I still have my views
00:12:58.780 on feminism, but I would say that it has played a huge part in assisting women, you know, with
00:13:05.780 getting a better quality of life, getting more equality. Because obviously at some point there
00:13:11.380 was a lot of oppression and unfair treatment. I don't think it was oppression ever.
00:13:17.820 Yeah, I believe so. And I believe that, you know, to a certain point that it's assisted with like
00:13:24.640 just creating a better space, letting getting our voices heard. Because like it's all well saying
00:13:29.980 that we don't agree with a lot of the things that the feminists say today. The reason why I don't
00:13:34.760 agree with them is because they're taking it too far. And like the definition has been lost
00:13:39.400 of independence and what it is to be an independent woman and person. But as far as feminism and what 0.94
00:13:46.520 the people were doing to make the change and the changes, I think that to a certain extent
00:13:51.340 they are doing a good thing because it is important that we have a diverse, you know, diverse people
00:13:57.480 and voices on the tables. Like you've got a diverse panel, you know, so it's important that we can get
00:14:03.320 a male's opinion, you know, so all voices, all cultures are very important in order for us to
00:14:09.320 breed greater innovation, for us to breed better humans within our children and a better future.