JustPearlyThings - July 14, 2023


Panel Thoughts On If Their Moms Became O.F Models


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

196.27457

Word Count

2,564

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

26

Hate Speech Sentences

6


Summary

In this episode, we are joined by our special guest, to talk about her experience with Only Fans and her relationship with her own mother. We discuss her experience of growing up on the social media platform and how she has dealt with the stigma surrounding it and how it has affected her in the past.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 if your moms were on only fans my mom actually spoke about starting on only fans oh wow
00:00:05.360 how old is she my mom's 50 um the amount of times that my mom has been on dates with people who are
00:00:11.160 also my age um what's our socials uh andy i'll ask him for a friend leave my mom alone
00:00:19.940 no because the amount of people the amount of people who are obsessed with my mom and she's
00:00:24.860 like because obviously you know you know every girl has that friend who has a mom who's attractive
00:00:30.680 my mom kind of knows it like she's one of those she loves it she loves some people interested in
00:00:35.660 her she's like maybe i should start on only fans maybe i should stop and i'm like no please don't
00:00:41.460 i think obviously it comes down to obviously the fact that people don't understand like how
00:00:46.660 actually difficult it is and i think obviously the gap in the age where and the social media gap and
00:00:51.540 engaging with people i think she wouldn't be able to get it but um but i i think so i would
00:00:58.360 support her would you say mom start that of i would say you don't understand um i i'd imagine
00:01:05.640 she'd get a good following if she probably would like would you collab i would not collab with my
00:01:11.120 own mother i would not hello that's not even allowed on any fans that's how i know that's how
00:01:16.200 i know that you don't subscribe to any so there you go guys let's plug this guy for not
00:01:21.260 subscribe to any of you you're not allowed to insert yes or no to mother i need to reel
00:01:26.320 you in no no okay what about i would say go for it if my if my mom wanted to get an only
00:01:31.820 funds and get her baps out she absolutely wouldn't because she's a very catholic irish lady but
00:01:37.640 if she wanted to i'm catholic and irish too yeah i would i would say my mom's nearly 70 so she's at
00:01:50.660 the point of life where literally dignity and all of that anything nonsense literally means nothing to
00:01:56.600 her anymore she's gonna she's gonna pop a clog soon so she probably wants to get she probably wants to
00:02:01.020 get into heaven did your parents as a catholic did your did your parents have like an issue
00:02:06.080 with you doing only fans um so initially yes um i don't even know if my dad knows that i do it i
00:02:11.840 don't know does now i i literally wouldn't be bothered he i know he'd support me like most people
00:02:17.860 think that only fans girls are fatherless but i've got a great relationship with my dad um and my mom
00:02:23.400 literally so she wasn't happy at first but i i think when they realize that the money's coming in
00:02:28.800 it's people's opinion changes curious who made decisions in your parents relationship
00:02:33.040 um so my mom and dad split up when they when i was about eight um but i lived with both my parents
00:02:39.740 so i lived with my mom and i've lived with my dad as well so do you consider your dad to be like a
00:02:44.620 masculine guy or um my dad's um i don't you're hesitating it's just a normal dude he's just a normal
00:02:52.440 dude he's not he's not strict he's not he's not anything he's just a normal guy i just find that
00:02:57.160 like guys that are a bit more masculine tend to like like they would have a more visceral gut
00:03:01.380 reaction like they would have a problem with that where guys that aren't wouldn't i think like so
00:03:06.280 i i don't i don't think he'd have an issue just because part of masculinity is protection right
00:03:11.300 they're protective i've spoke to my dad so before i started of i spoke to i spoke to my family and i
00:03:16.040 said like how would you feel if i went and sold some pictures of my boobs online that's how i put it
00:03:21.180 and my dad said i wouldn't be proud um but i'd still support you and i think that's probably
00:03:26.100 that would be his stance still like i don't have an open conversation with him but this is this is
00:03:30.680 the thing i honestly oh god i love these i love these interjections because the thing is what you
00:03:37.580 guys what a lot of women don't understand about western culture is that the reality is a lot of men
00:03:42.600 literally have to say that not because they want to because they know if they don't support you
00:03:48.280 you'll probably go the route of self-harm or probably still go and do it anyways so most men
00:03:53.580 will just give in to the slave mind program and support you anyways but he still speaks to me he
00:03:59.100 still speaks to me i still have a relationship with him that's my point because he would rather
00:04:02.700 he would rather protect you from yourself than tell you what he really feels and then open up the
00:04:10.400 door for you to go and harm yourself because that is more popular in the west in africa i think that's
00:04:16.620 in africa the idea will get beaten out of your head
00:04:21.920 well if your daughter does only fans is it a disown yeah i'd have to i'd have to sorry guys
00:04:30.180 no don't worry about it i would well i would wonder who the hell i married because i'm like why what
00:04:35.520 like where was i can't wait for you to get married you probably can i get invited if i quit
00:04:39.880 only fans can i get invited to a wedding no you're just a whore yeah no no wait where do i come again
00:04:47.180 you're a whore i come everywhere that's the problem i'm sorry well i i stopped at my wedding i can go
00:04:54.760 okay the single mothers and up can come maybe maybe high body count okay so do you want me to tell
00:05:00.360 you my body count in private and then you can re re oh you could could you tell me now no oh no
00:05:06.280 absolutely no okay that's the hundreds then mine's so basically i'm going to the wedding guys because
00:05:11.080 my body count isn't that high my body count is two okay okay okay who do you who do you on this
00:05:17.160 who do you think is the highest body count on this chart i would say a porn star no actually i would
00:05:22.120 say hooker hooker okay sorry take out hooker who is the highest body count porn star after that i don't
00:05:27.400 know yeah definitely i would probably say that's the job super um okay no because sterling brought
00:05:34.600 up that um like if it's a dude yes 100 but female corn stars no like professionals probably there's a
00:05:41.720 bit of noise there like how many times can they show you there's probably a lot more there's probably
00:05:46.440 a bunch of female of girls with a way higher body count than a like mainstream porn girl i don't
00:05:52.600 think so a lot of do you know how many girls in uh in the uk in the uk literally there are no
00:06:01.400 collaboration opportunities because all the guys are creeps and they are not actually real
00:06:12.920 but people like andy andy will work with anyone right so the way that only yeah
00:06:17.800 is that's what i'm talking about yeah literally literally the whole thing if we added like one
00:06:21.800 of those chicks that's like just sleeps with all the like a famous like an amber rose where do you
00:06:27.960 think she would fall right she calls herself if you if you if you for clout you are right at the bottom
00:06:34.280 yeah so where where did those girls fall like they're below hooker i would say they're the same
00:06:40.280 level i think they're slightly above hooker are you for real they are they are having sex for clout even if
00:06:47.480 they don't enjoy it they're still doing it that's jealousy what do you guys think where would you
00:06:52.200 why would i want to a rich man when i already am rich guys i want to i want to where would you yeah
00:06:56.360 definitely above hooker and possibly the general of girl because there's purpose behind it you know
00:07:02.600 if amber rose is banging kanye west or sorry for what reason though she's getting alimony she's going
00:07:10.920 the smarter out whereas the general of girl yeah but you'd have to do that on the average chance you're
00:07:15.560 making no money uh and then if you're a hooker you know you're at the bottom of the barrel yeah but
00:07:20.120 you'd have to have a baby to actually get any financial gain out of that or get married which
00:07:23.960 is a long-term investment for little like you'd have to put up with that i mean i mean i i would
00:07:30.520 think the return would be the child yeah i don't think so no yeah but it's with someone that you don't
00:07:38.920 want like so a majority of women who are just doing it for the gain of money they would hate
00:07:43.560 their child okay so but the men see it as above sorry guys the men see it as above only fans yeah
00:07:51.960 so so i forgot what the question was it was if your mom did oh yeah what about you your mom does only fans
00:07:59.560 know no no no why not no like my mom personally my mom my mom is the nicest most innocent like
00:08:09.880 little lady like all i want to do in life is like look after her and my little brother which is what
00:08:14.680 i do so like i'm doing this so my mom doesn't have to do anything like this like i look after my mom
00:08:22.360 all the time seems my little brother so my mom would never have to do anything like this anyway so
00:08:26.920 i'll be honest i wouldn't want my mom to do this ever why like um because it seems like you don't
00:08:34.520 think there's anything wrong with it so if there's nothing wrong with it like for me like like don't
00:08:39.800 get me wrong like you could handle it but your mom can't yeah like i'm absolutely fine doing this like
00:08:43.480 i love my job and stuff like that right but my mom is just an innocent little lovely lady like i just
00:08:50.040 know what if she loved it too though wait my mom wouldn't my mom my mom is an accountant like she loves
00:08:55.880 numbers she's so quiet she just i love numbers too but like my mom is just like an innocent lovely lady
00:09:02.920 she's just like sending an office like doing everyone's salaries like stuff like that how did
00:09:08.360 she feel when you did it so for my mom she is just happy for me to be happy and safe whatever i decide
00:09:16.120 to do in life because i'm an adult i'm 20 years old my mom is happy for me to do anything she's like as
00:09:21.880 long as you're happy she supported it yeah a hundred percent okay what about your dad
00:09:27.880 my dad i'm not i've not spoke to my dad since i was 12 years old but we are from eastern europe and
00:09:34.680 if i spoke to my dad again and told him what i done he would hate it and he would also hate the fact
00:09:39.640 i have tattoos but we were raised differently so where why like did he leave or what happened so
00:09:47.400 not to air my dirty laundry and stuff but he wasn't a nice man towards a child so that's the reason he
00:09:57.160 was a bit you know okay so yeah that's why but like if he wasn't like that and he was still around
00:10:04.520 because the way eastern europe just says like this yeah um he would not be okay with me i don't love
00:10:10.600 fans or even having tattoos so it's just definitely my mom told me no tattoos too yeah yeah what about
00:10:19.000 i get it yeah what about you um yeah so i i do kind of agree so i the reason that i want to make
00:10:26.120 money is so that i can look after my family and the people around me yeah so i would hope that she
00:10:30.680 wouldn't have to do something oh yeah do your parents know you do it yeah yeah so my dad is a very
00:10:37.880 strong muslim so he would never agree with anything that i did anyway so um but he understands
00:10:44.280 you know we do actually have a good relationship surprisingly he understands that i'm gonna live
00:10:49.480 my life and i'm a grown woman and that i can do what i want to do do you still speak to him yeah we
00:10:55.160 do speak okay so how does like do you send your parents money now is that i said my dad money no
00:11:02.280 that was oh no no so my parents can take care of themselves oh no you said you're doing this to
00:11:07.000 take care of your parents so it just seemed like maybe they could all right no no not to take care
00:11:11.000 of them but you know um i would love to buy my mom a house one day that would be like the end goal
00:11:15.080 okay okay what about you your mom um recently i actually had a conversation with my mom about it
00:11:21.720 and i genuinely thought in my head like oh if she made an account i would be like oh mom like you know
00:11:29.400 that's cool because obviously i do it so i can't judge anybody else who does it even though she would
00:11:35.080 never do that because of the type of person she is you know she's very sweet kind she's a very open
00:11:41.640 minded person and she's brought me up to be that kind of person as well but if she was to do it i
00:11:49.080 would be like go ahead okay so you'd have no problem yeah did what what did your parents say about you
00:11:54.840 doing only fans um they just basically said as long as you're happy and you're safe and you take care
00:12:02.680 of yourself i have very lovely open-minded parents so it was never it's never been an issue with my
00:12:10.280 family okay if my mom did only fans i'd probably institutionalize her
00:12:19.800 because it'd be it'd be a sad sight to see but i don't know i feel like and i'm not not mean to
00:12:25.000 go you guys individually but i think the common theme across the couches is uh the breakdown of the
00:12:30.440 family you guys have no fathers in the homes no i nobody said that i do a couple of people said
00:12:35.560 that actually i think it's that and a lack of masculinity because it's so interesting listening
00:12:39.640 to you guys talk because a lot of you guys that were saying they supported you you're saying as
00:12:43.960 long as you're happy but that that implies that and that's interesting in the western world it's like
00:12:47.960 happiness is first our personal happiness money is first where in other countries it's more about
00:12:53.800 legacy and family and that's more important