The Level Of DELUSION Of This O.F Model Is AMAZING
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss sex ed in schools, sex ed vs sex education, sexual education in schools and the pressures society puts on women to have sex. We are joined by the lovely Arbelle to discuss all things sex ed.
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it's been proven it's been proven to that if that is negative but it's it's been proven that
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children are not taught about sexuality enough especially men right come on are you are you for
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real no no no they started in no in like the 70s or 80s they started implementing sex ed in school
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no but they're not teaching men no no no that's why men are going out and watching no that's not
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it's not true they implemented sex ed in like the 60s 70s i don't wait 60s 70s 80s i don't remember
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exactly what year but i know after it there's a direct correlation to the fact that the more
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exposure the kid has the more sexually promiscuous they are there's higher body counts more sexuality
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not lower i can understand that i mean my situation when i was a kid i went to a catholic school and we
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literally just watched two pillows rub up against each other so we got we got taught to stay
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abstinent and where did i turn out like we got taught abstinence we didn't get taught about
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stds we didn't get taught about anything i had to get taught that on my own i had to learn about that
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on my own you act like this is such a big struggle it's not like i had to learn it on my own google
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it but that's what i'm saying it's like it's obviously majority of people like are learning
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like you're saying that it's such a big impact i mean no i'm saying it's wrong like it's a big
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impact when it comes from the school i'm saying when sex ed was implemented in schools which
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increased awareness of so you think sex ed is a bad thing no i do i i do because there's been more
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abortions after sex ed there's been more unplanned pregnancies after sex ed there's been like there's
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been uh more promiscuity so it's like what do you think sex ed was a good thing then we would see
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a decrease in that stuff but we didn't i think sex ed would be beneficial if we actually spoke
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about stds and like what they can do to people because obviously stds can lead to infertility
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and people just going around obviously with now the thing that we have obviously it's something we
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can't help people are going around having sex and you can actually cause infertility in women which
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is probably the same sort of thing as birth control you know if you're going around giving
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everyone chlamydia and then that woman can't have children because of it we need to have that
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education there in place like or hear me out okay i like the i'm ready i'm ready i like the
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yeah i bet you do that though yeah yeah very i'm the born again you know what i mean yeah i love that
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i love it but i wonder how many guys come on your podcast and actually want to like
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man you know ban you yeah i was no not none no no no no no no just put it out there okay
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sorry i don't make you feel comfortable i don't nya ed sad
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and the thing is that you are beautiful you're a really good looking woman and like obviously i know
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that you speak about the values and stuff and that's so attractive to men and like i just i find it so hard to
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believe that like you haven't found someone yet yeah well it's just just lonely things yeah
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you're wonderful like the thing is you're like you're like
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i can't put a baby into her i can't go working on an oil rig i can't do nothing like come on
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in all honesty though i think it's better to keep that stuff off the internet to be honest
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oh yeah whereas i put it online you don't huh i put it online and you don't you know i look so um
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um i don't even know what we're talking about um what
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i would agree with i just say that i agree with uh what was your name sorry arabella i would agree
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with arabella i think i don't know if sterling agrees but majority of guys nowadays are pushing
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more to the values of pearl yeah then as opposed to what society is pushing on everyone definitely
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that's like the women's standards have gone up and the guys standards have gone up it's like an elastic
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band yeah you pull too far one way it's going to snap back in the other direction yeah what's the
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lowest amount of money you guys would date uh i don't care i've literally dated people who don't
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have jobs okay so the bar is zero i respect it and the thing is that i've i've had such a thing
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around people i i don't go for looks i go for personality and that's always been my thing i am
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i don't know what it is but i literally used to cry in my room at night about the fact that my friends
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used to fancy justin bieber harry stars all these people and i'd be like i don't get it i don't
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understand and this is me too i thought i was asexual and this is the thing i have fallen in love with
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people and it's ended up being a situation where they don't have money and they don't have resources
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and they don't have i don't go out with the expectation that people are going to pay for me
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because i know what comes with that if a guy's at a bar and he sits there and goes oh yeah i want
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to get you would you ever date one of your subscribers never yeah definitely if they were nice
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enough of course i wouldn't what do you mean why they're normal people they're not normal people
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over you though okay so you wouldn't or you would you wouldn't i i don't think i think we've got a
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relationship where i'm online and they're over there and yeah i i i wouldn't be able to cross that line
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okay and what about money what's the money yeah um yeah like nothing i yeah i don't date someone for
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the amount of money that they have it doesn't even register in my head have you ever dated an
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unemployed guy um i haven't dated that's the thing i don't i don't date and i don't date anybody no
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okay no do you do you want to not really okay so you want to be by yourself yeah okay fine fair
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enough go ahead i would like someone with a job but that's not me like no but like just a normal job
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like it can be literally anything even only fans yeah literally but i don't sleep with other people
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on only fans or just in general i don't i don't sleep with anybody who i'm not seeing or on the
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way to a relationship with would you date a subscriber no no no because online like i'm a dominatrix so
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for me like i like to keep work separate from my personal life so like i don't think i could date a
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subscriber who i would need to like dominate i would feel like i'm always at work if i was in
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a relationship with one of my subscribers i feel like the people on the other side have this perception
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of you that's not actually real so they will see an image of you and they will see one side of you
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they don't actually know the real you and they they are already invested in you emotionally from the
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other side of things and like if they was to if you was to date someone they would already be
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emotionally invested because they feel like they know you and you don't actually know them they're
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they are literally a stranger to you i know like a lot of my subscribers would it be different if it
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was like equal like like you could also find out everything about him online i've had it where i found
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out a lot like that's like dating apps that's like dating someone off a dating app okay so would you do it
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or no without like no no i'm saying like for the subscriber because you said the issue was he knows
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everything about you what if it was mutual like you could find out everything about him like he
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had a channel or something no i feel like they they they know what they think they know about me but
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they don't actually okay they don't know the real me they know the character yeah kimmy k is a character
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and that's that's literally it that's that's the only thing that they see and that's the thing that
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they pay for they wouldn't pay for normal mom at home they wouldn't they wouldn't don't meet your hero
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it's it's a character it's a character and yeah that's why i wouldn't joggies on yeah
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that is probably more real like to her subscribers but to me i'm it's a character uh what were you
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gonna say wait me yeah you were gonna say something earlier i don't remember okay um but you don't
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have a money requirement not really like i would like somebody with a job because i have been with
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somebody who is unemployed and i'll be honest in a relationship the losers for a man i would like my
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partner to plan dates for us or do things for us and stuff but when you're the one who's making all
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the money because your partner doesn't have money they're not planning dates they're not doing anything
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nice for you so you end up in kind of like a man's position as in like you know like i don't mind cooking
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the dinners for my partner like doing all the nice house stuff and stuff but i do expect something in
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return as well whether it's a date once a month like just a bunch of flowers but they don't have a
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job they can't do anything any of that all day play xbox and smoke weed all day that's exactly
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that's exactly what that was so after a while after like a year or two you're just kind of like
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you know what's interesting if a guy plays xbox and smokes weed all day he's a loser
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but if a girl drinks wine and binge drinks all the time and it's on social it's just funny i don't
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think it's looked in society the same i think i think i think when someone drinks a full bottle
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of wine every single night if you're a woman sitting drinking a full bottle of wine every
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single night they're just as bad as somebody who smokes weed every single day and gets thrown to
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me that's just what you're doing it's so common like soccer moms you know what i mean yeah there's
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so many like middle-aged moms that are low-key freaking alcoholics yeah so what about you money
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requirement um i feel like i just want them to be able to keep up with me um i wouldn't say that they
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have to earn like a certain amount as long as it's kind of similar to me but i feel like a lot of the
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guys that i've dated they tend to like want to spoil me i don't know if that's a subconscious thing
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that i like but i feel like that's like it's kind of what i tend to attract and would you date a
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subscriber no i don't think so it do you know what it depends i feel like i go off the connection that
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i have with someone so i would never like rule it out but i don't know i've never done it so i don't know
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okay what about you um i have dated guys who have been on job seekers allowance uh but so money isn't
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like a must for me in my partner but as long as you don't plan to stay on job seekers allowance then
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i'm more than happy to be with you i actually try to stay away from guys who have money but that's like
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my preference you like broke men no and not broke men just men that not maybe have ambition not status
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like i have dated guys who have had a bit more money than the average man and for me it was like
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a bad experience so it's just put me off personally okay would you date a subscriber i i think i would
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just because i offer like girlfriend experience with my subscribers so i have like a lot of a
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closer relationships with people so to me they are like genuine people curious oh sorry keep going who
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i would like spend time with in person you know i'm curious do you think they go to you more for the
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sex or for the attention like the female like attention and talking to you um for me personally i think
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it's 50 50 i do have a big attention where if i don't speak to them every single day they'll
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start having hissy fits and yeah stuff like that no i've just heard from a lot of sex workers that um
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like a lot of it isn't even about the sex like it's the companionship yeah because a lot of guys are
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so lonely yeah it is definitely and that's why that's the plus of only fans as well like with porn
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hope you don't get to know the creators with only fans they do um they they are actually speaking to
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you and they get to know you so they feel like they've got a connection and that's that's the plus
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side of of to it's like it's like online escorts then well the real fat the real fantasy that only
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fans actually sells is the ability for like a loser guy to talk to a beautiful woman and not get rejected
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but then shortly when we were speaking earlier about guys who are the the bottom percentage i
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think there are so many guys that come to us and just want to have a conversation or like learn
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especially with for me for example i teach sex education and on tick tock and i talk about male
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and female sexuality and things like that and guys will come to me and ask me about things and obviously
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i will give them an answer of as far as i'm aware or whatever and i think giving guys that sort of
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like gas up and i think there's a lot of male influencers out there who are selling some random
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thing on how to pick up women when actually in reality sometimes it is just about having that first
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step of having a conversation with a woman and sometimes these guys they need that first bit of
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like oh i can actually do it i can actually speak to it what type of guys typically like what's your average
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only fans customer 25 year old normal guy uh literally one would be one of your mates like
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for someone who probably would sit there and go i would never ever have an only fans and they do
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everyone in the red pill space knows that people cap because they'll buy the
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but this is the thing is that like you know especially in the red pill community everyone wants
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that sort of expectation and i think having that experience of talking to someone especially if
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they are on the other end of it you know there's been so many situations where i've spoken to guys
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and they've been like i just want to have a conversation with you yeah i just want to do
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this and there's way more of that than people think and there's way more of it than people
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being like can you those people are the 10 percent that paul brought up at the start that is the
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the ones that would go out with an only fans girl long term they wouldn't they wouldn't they wouldn't
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know they think they're better than us if you had to rank if you had to rank the guys like attractiveness
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one to ten that typically it's so different it's so different i've had guys who are very very
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attractive and who actually have money i've had guys who are in the midsection probably three to
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five average i'd say they're all average men like they're the average men like average like earner
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average average yeah i'm just curious i have no idea i've had i've not i know girls who've literally
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had guys who they wanted to date because they're attractive like you know you have no idea until
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you're on the other end of it sterling would you date a fan uh no but you know what's funny i've
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actually had like women email me asking me to take their virginity oh yeah i've had that love it
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i've had that but i have a still got these emails politely declined good to know do you think you're
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the only like corn star they emailed well which they emailed me through because of my youtube so
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it was a copy and paste situation trust me like was there like she's like all right this group of 10
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i'll do let's see if i get one knocking 100 doors maybe get a couple answers maybe um what about you
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would you date a fan i don't know i don't think so if i'm being honest i don't say anyways but i don't
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because i keep my personal life very personal so i don't date i work on a travel simple as that um
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my followers are a range of everybody because i do such a mix so i have men women trans every single
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thing follows me couples too couples subscribe too what about you you have a following right yeah
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would you date a fan um if our values aligned um yeah but i'm not not really inclined to meet
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someone on social media or like i don't use dating apps i'd rather just do the old-fashioned way