JustPearlyThings - The Level Of DELUSION Of This O.F Model Is AMAZING

00:00:00.000 it's been proven it's been proven to that if that is negative but it's it's been proven that

00:00:06.720 children are not taught about sexuality enough especially men right come on are you are you for

00:00:13.240 real no no no they started in no in like the 70s or 80s they started implementing sex ed in school

00:00:20.160 no but they're not teaching men no no no that's why men are going out and watching no that's not

00:00:24.560 it's not true they implemented sex ed in like the 60s 70s i don't wait 60s 70s 80s i don't remember

00:00:33.240 exactly what year but i know after it there's a direct correlation to the fact that the more

00:00:38.980 exposure the kid has the more sexually promiscuous they are there's higher body counts more sexuality

00:00:45.040 not lower i can understand that i mean my situation when i was a kid i went to a catholic school and we

00:00:49.940 literally just watched two pillows rub up against each other so we got we got taught to stay

00:00:54.700 abstinent and where did i turn out like we got taught abstinence we didn't get taught about

00:00:59.800 stds we didn't get taught about anything i had to get taught that on my own i had to learn about that

00:01:04.240 on my own you act like this is such a big struggle it's not like i had to learn it on my own google

00:01:10.120 it but that's what i'm saying it's like it's obviously majority of people like are learning

00:01:15.400 like you're saying that it's such a big impact i mean no i'm saying it's wrong like it's a big

00:01:20.740 impact when it comes from the school i'm saying when sex ed was implemented in schools which

00:01:24.720 increased awareness of so you think sex ed is a bad thing no i do i i do because there's been more

00:01:30.700 abortions after sex ed there's been more unplanned pregnancies after sex ed there's been like there's

00:01:36.300 been uh more promiscuity so it's like what do you think sex ed was a good thing then we would see

00:01:42.260 a decrease in that stuff but we didn't i think sex ed would be beneficial if we actually spoke

00:01:47.120 about stds and like what they can do to people because obviously stds can lead to infertility

00:01:52.100 and people just going around obviously with now the thing that we have obviously it's something we

00:01:56.920 can't help people are going around having sex and you can actually cause infertility in women which 1.00

00:02:01.400 is probably the same sort of thing as birth control you know if you're going around giving

00:02:05.160 everyone chlamydia and then that woman can't have children because of it we need to have that 1.00

00:02:08.960 education there in place like or hear me out okay i like the i'm ready i'm ready i like the

00:02:15.400 yeah i bet you do that though yeah yeah very i'm the born again you know what i mean yeah i love that

00:02:22.320 yeah respect

00:02:23.900 i love it but i wonder how many guys come on your podcast and actually want to like

00:02:29.680 man you know ban you yeah i was no not none no no no no no no just put it out there okay

00:02:37.540 thank you

00:02:41.260 sorry i don't make you feel comfortable i don't nya ed sad

00:02:43.920 um uh i don't even know what you're doing

00:02:45.520 i don't even know i should do

00:02:47.120 and the thing is that you are beautiful you're a really good looking woman and like obviously i know

00:02:51.400 that you speak about the values and stuff and that's so attractive to men and like i just i find it so hard to

00:02:56.700 believe that like you haven't found someone yet yeah well it's just just lonely things yeah

00:03:05.420 you're wonderful like the thing is you're like you're like

00:03:12.700 i can't put a baby into her i can't go working on an oil rig i can't do nothing like come on 1.00

00:03:19.660 in all honesty though i think it's better to keep that stuff off the internet to be honest

00:03:26.700 oh yeah whereas i put it online you don't huh i put it online and you don't you know i look so um

00:03:35.900 um i don't even know what we're talking about um what

00:03:47.580 i would agree with i just say that i agree with uh what was your name sorry arabella i would agree

00:03:53.180 with arabella i think i don't know if sterling agrees but majority of guys nowadays are pushing

00:03:59.900 more to the values of pearl yeah then as opposed to what society is pushing on everyone definitely

00:04:04.460 that's like the women's standards have gone up and the guys standards have gone up it's like an elastic

00:04:08.620 band yeah you pull too far one way it's going to snap back in the other direction yeah what's the

00:04:13.820 lowest amount of money you guys would date uh i don't care i've literally dated people who don't

00:04:18.860 have jobs okay so the bar is zero i respect it and the thing is that i've i've had such a thing

00:04:25.900 around people i i don't go for looks i go for personality and that's always been my thing i am

00:04:32.060 i don't know what it is but i literally used to cry in my room at night about the fact that my friends

00:04:35.900 used to fancy justin bieber harry stars all these people and i'd be like i don't get it i don't

00:04:39.500 understand and this is me too i thought i was asexual and this is the thing i have fallen in love with

00:04:45.740 people and it's ended up being a situation where they don't have money and they don't have resources

00:04:51.740 and they don't have i don't go out with the expectation that people are going to pay for me

00:04:56.060 because i know what comes with that if a guy's at a bar and he sits there and goes oh yeah i want

00:05:00.700 to get you would you ever date one of your subscribers never yeah definitely if they were nice

00:05:06.780 enough of course i wouldn't what do you mean why they're normal people they're not normal people

00:05:11.900 over you though okay so you wouldn't or you would you wouldn't i i don't think i think we've got a

00:05:19.340 relationship where i'm online and they're over there and yeah i i i wouldn't be able to cross that line

00:05:27.260 okay and what about money what's the money yeah um yeah like nothing i yeah i don't date someone for

00:05:34.220 the amount of money that they have it doesn't even register in my head have you ever dated an

00:05:37.820 unemployed guy um i haven't dated that's the thing i don't i don't date and i don't date anybody no

00:05:45.740 okay no do you do you want to not really okay so you want to be by yourself yeah okay fine fair

00:05:52.300 enough go ahead i would like someone with a job but that's not me like no but like just a normal job

00:05:58.620 like it can be literally anything even only fans yeah literally but i don't sleep with other people

00:06:05.100 on only fans or just in general i don't i don't sleep with anybody who i'm not seeing or on the

00:06:11.100 way to a relationship with would you date a subscriber no no no because online like i'm a dominatrix so

00:06:19.500 for me like i like to keep work separate from my personal life so like i don't think i could date a

00:06:25.900 subscriber who i would need to like dominate i would feel like i'm always at work if i was in

00:06:31.340 a relationship with one of my subscribers i feel like the people on the other side have this perception

00:06:36.300 of you that's not actually real so they will see an image of you and they will see one side of you

00:06:41.020 they don't actually know the real you and they they are already invested in you emotionally from the

00:06:46.380 other side of things and like if they was to if you was to date someone they would already be

00:06:51.900 emotionally invested because they feel like they know you and you don't actually know them they're

00:06:56.460 they are literally a stranger to you i know like a lot of my subscribers would it be different if it

00:07:03.260 was like equal like like you could also find out everything about him online i've had it where i found

00:07:08.540 out a lot like that's like dating apps that's like dating someone off a dating app okay so would you do it

00:07:13.900 or no without like no no i'm saying like for the subscriber because you said the issue was he knows

00:07:18.460 everything about you what if it was mutual like you could find out everything about him like he

00:07:22.860 had a channel or something no i feel like they they they know what they think they know about me but

00:07:28.540 they don't actually okay they don't know the real me they know the character yeah kimmy k is a character

00:07:34.300 and that's that's literally it that's that's the only thing that they see and that's the thing that

00:07:38.380 they pay for they wouldn't pay for normal mom at home they wouldn't they wouldn't don't meet your hero

00:07:44.860 it's it's a character it's a character and yeah that's why i wouldn't joggies on yeah

00:07:50.380 that is probably more real like to her subscribers but to me i'm it's a character uh what were you

00:07:57.420 gonna say wait me yeah you were gonna say something earlier i don't remember okay um but you don't

00:08:03.420 have a money requirement not really like i would like somebody with a job because i have been with

00:08:07.820 somebody who is unemployed and i'll be honest in a relationship the losers for a man i would like my

00:08:16.220 partner to plan dates for us or do things for us and stuff but when you're the one who's making all

00:08:22.060 the money because your partner doesn't have money they're not planning dates they're not doing anything

00:08:26.940 nice for you so you end up in kind of like a man's position as in like you know like i don't mind cooking

00:08:33.820 the dinners for my partner like doing all the nice house stuff and stuff but i do expect something in

00:08:38.540 return as well whether it's a date once a month like just a bunch of flowers but they don't have a

00:08:43.420 job they can't do anything any of that all day play xbox and smoke weed all day that's exactly

00:08:51.980 that's exactly what that was so after a while after like a year or two you're just kind of like 0.96

00:08:57.660 you know what's interesting if a guy plays xbox and smokes weed all day he's a loser

00:09:03.020 but if a girl drinks wine and binge drinks all the time and it's on social it's just funny i don't

00:09:19.900 think it's looked in society the same i think i think i think when someone drinks a full bottle

00:09:25.260 of wine every single night if you're a woman sitting drinking a full bottle of wine every

00:09:29.420 single night they're just as bad as somebody who smokes weed every single day and gets thrown to

00:09:33.100 me that's just what you're doing it's so common like soccer moms you know what i mean yeah there's

00:09:38.860 so many like middle-aged moms that are low-key freaking alcoholics yeah so what about you money 1.00

00:09:48.380 requirement um i feel like i just want them to be able to keep up with me um i wouldn't say that they

00:09:53.820 have to earn like a certain amount as long as it's kind of similar to me but i feel like a lot of the

00:09:58.140 guys that i've dated they tend to like want to spoil me i don't know if that's a subconscious thing

00:10:03.100 that i like but i feel like that's like it's kind of what i tend to attract and would you date a

00:10:09.580 subscriber no i don't think so it do you know what it depends i feel like i go off the connection that

00:10:15.260 i have with someone so i would never like rule it out but i don't know i've never done it so i don't know

00:10:20.620 okay what about you um i have dated guys who have been on job seekers allowance uh but so money isn't

00:10:28.700 like a must for me in my partner but as long as you don't plan to stay on job seekers allowance then

00:10:36.300 i'm more than happy to be with you i actually try to stay away from guys who have money but that's like

00:10:42.940 my preference you like broke men no and not broke men just men that not maybe have ambition not status

00:10:51.660 like i have dated guys who have had a bit more money than the average man and for me it was like

00:10:59.500 a bad experience so it's just put me off personally okay would you date a subscriber i i think i would

00:11:06.620 just because i offer like girlfriend experience with my subscribers so i have like a lot of a

00:11:12.860 closer relationships with people so to me they are like genuine people curious oh sorry keep going who

00:11:20.700 i would like spend time with in person you know i'm curious do you think they go to you more for the

00:11:28.940 sex or for the attention like the female like attention and talking to you um for me personally i think

00:11:35.340 it's 50 50 i do have a big attention where if i don't speak to them every single day they'll

00:11:42.300 start having hissy fits and yeah stuff like that no i've just heard from a lot of sex workers that um 0.99

00:11:49.740 like a lot of it isn't even about the sex like it's the companionship yeah because a lot of guys are

00:11:54.540 so lonely yeah it is definitely and that's why that's the plus of only fans as well like with porn

00:12:00.220 hope you don't get to know the creators with only fans they do um they they are actually speaking to

00:12:06.460 you and they get to know you so they feel like they've got a connection and that's that's the plus

00:12:11.500 side of of to it's like it's like online escorts then well the real fat the real fantasy that only

00:12:17.980 fans actually sells is the ability for like a loser guy to talk to a beautiful woman and not get rejected 0.90

00:12:24.620 but then shortly when we were speaking earlier about guys who are the the bottom percentage i

00:12:31.020 think there are so many guys that come to us and just want to have a conversation or like learn

00:12:36.460 especially with for me for example i teach sex education and on tick tock and i talk about male

00:12:43.340 and female sexuality and things like that and guys will come to me and ask me about things and obviously

00:12:50.940 i will give them an answer of as far as i'm aware or whatever and i think giving guys that sort of

00:12:57.660 like gas up and i think there's a lot of male influencers out there who are selling some random

00:13:02.060 thing on how to pick up women when actually in reality sometimes it is just about having that first

00:13:06.780 step of having a conversation with a woman and sometimes these guys they need that first bit of 1.00

00:13:10.940 like oh i can actually do it i can actually speak to it what type of guys typically like what's your average

00:13:19.340 only fans customer 25 year old normal guy uh literally one would be one of your mates like

00:13:25.180 for someone who probably would sit there and go i would never ever have an only fans and they do

00:13:30.460 everyone in the red pill space knows that people cap because they'll buy the

00:13:37.260 but this is the thing is that like you know especially in the red pill community everyone wants 0.72

00:13:43.100 that sort of expectation and i think having that experience of talking to someone especially if

00:13:50.380 they are on the other end of it you know there's been so many situations where i've spoken to guys

00:13:54.140 and they've been like i just want to have a conversation with you yeah i just want to do

00:13:58.380 this and there's way more of that than people think and there's way more of it than people

00:14:01.020 being like can you those people are the 10 percent that paul brought up at the start that is the

00:14:09.340 the ones that would go out with an only fans girl long term they wouldn't they wouldn't they wouldn't

00:14:14.220 know they think they're better than us if you had to rank if you had to rank the guys like attractiveness

00:14:18.780 one to ten that typically it's so different it's so different i've had guys who are very very

00:14:24.460 attractive and who actually have money i've had guys who are in the midsection probably three to 0.56

00:14:28.940 five average i'd say they're all average men like they're the average men like average like earner

00:14:35.020 average average yeah i'm just curious i have no idea i've had i've not i know girls who've literally

00:14:41.340 had guys who they wanted to date because they're attractive like you know you have no idea until

00:14:47.020 you're on the other end of it sterling would you date a fan uh no but you know what's funny i've

00:14:52.700 actually had like women email me asking me to take their virginity oh yeah i've had that love it 1.00

00:14:58.700 i've had that but i have a still got these emails politely declined good to know do you think you're

00:15:06.380 the only like corn star they emailed well which they emailed me through because of my youtube so

00:15:14.860 it was a copy and paste situation trust me like was there like she's like all right this group of 10

00:15:20.300 i'll do let's see if i get one knocking 100 doors maybe get a couple answers maybe um what about you

00:15:26.700 would you date a fan i don't know i don't think so if i'm being honest i don't say anyways but i don't

00:15:32.620 because i keep my personal life very personal so i don't date i work on a travel simple as that um

00:15:38.380 my followers are a range of everybody because i do such a mix so i have men women trans every single

00:15:45.900 thing follows me couples too couples subscribe too what about you you have a following right yeah

00:15:51.420 would you date a fan um if our values aligned um yeah but i'm not not really inclined to meet

00:15:57.660 someone on social media or like i don't use dating apps i'd rather just do the old-fashioned way

00:16:01.900 meet someone in person

JustPearlyThings - July 13, 2023

The Level Of DELUSION Of This O.F Model Is AMAZING

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