JustPearlyThings - Pear EXPOSED Their Hypocrisy

00:00:00.000 i take you for my lawfully wedded husband to have him to hold for better for worse for richer

00:00:11.640 for poorer and sickness and health till death do us part if you believe in leaving the second

00:00:16.880 there's a rough patch you might get married it's like a relationship at that point oh that bible 0.99

00:00:22.680 that's all boomer stuff that bible shit 0.99

00:00:24.400 but the whole point is like if if you believe in divorce then why get married there's no point 0.99

00:00:33.660 just be in a relationship because you're not a wife i mean you're you're getting married and then

00:00:37.940 you think oh i'm gonna divorce one day that's why i don't have some prenups though because it's like

00:00:42.040 well i don't think anyone wants to get divorced when they get married they think it's forever but

00:00:46.520 i think things happen yeah and you have to be realistic that but that's i'm not saying that

00:00:51.980 maybe you marry someone and in the beginning it's all good and then suddenly when you get married

00:00:56.560 he might lose his money and then leave him no i don't agree with that but i feel like yeah i feel

00:01:01.800 like you should still stay with that person but if there's no progress there's no sign of him you

00:01:06.980 know working hard or trying or trying to get back to that level that he was at before then you know

00:01:12.780 it's time to call it this is what this is one more time one more time for better or for worse

00:01:19.540 for richer for poorer yeah in sickness and in health until death do us anyways that's it

00:01:26.560 this is what rollo tomassi the the author of the rational mail who talks a lot about this kind of

00:01:32.060 these kind of intergender dynamics he talks about the burden of performance on men and that's exactly

00:01:36.120 what you're talking about then there's always this there's this burden of performance on men it's like

00:01:39.800 okay well he could have a rough patch but if he doesn't shape up after two years you know she's

00:01:43.720 going to be like thinking well hang on what's going on which is i understand why you would say that but

00:01:48.900 that is contrary to what pearl read out because the agreement is for better or worse for sicker and

00:01:53.140 poorer because it could be he's got some underlying issue like he's got maybe some underlying like

00:01:57.280 like depression or something like that that he's trying to deal with some trauma and he's not working

00:02:01.360 he's not pushing himself to the degree because of that but you know the the woman who disregards that

00:02:06.900 could just say well sod it you know i'm going to go for steve over here because he's making six

00:02:10.440 figures so i have a question so the same way you believe that um if he's not making more money or

00:02:16.840 working or whatever you should leave should he leave her if she gets fat wow i mean

00:02:22.420 same energy same energy if that's the standard he went for yeah yeah why not it just depends if

00:02:31.300 you're if you're gonna flip it i'm looking i'm just asking yes um i think he's he's allowed to

00:02:38.180 to bring it up yeah for sure i think no no out out oh well you're gonna give her some chance you know

00:02:44.600 to get in the gym she got like three months six months no well no because she's not gonna leave

00:02:49.920 him like if the woman is like in that situation she's not we're not saying the woman's just gonna go

00:02:55.580 right oh you're not working for three months off i go like it's not gonna happen like that she's

00:02:59.740 obviously gonna stick it out she's gonna try and help especially if you've got kids it's different

00:03:04.400 like she may not be able to go back to work they may have to find alternative ways of surviving i 1.00

00:03:09.520 don't know it's very difficult but she's not going to leave straight away it's it's you know over a few

00:03:15.080 years three four years maybe i don't know um and in the same yeah same energy for for the man as well

00:03:22.020 if the woman's completely let herself go and you know she's not taking care of herself forget the man

00:03:27.820 it's not even good for you as a woman forget him like it's about you like you want to be able to 1.00

00:03:32.640 look yourself in the mirror and feel confident and happy and you know comfortable in your skin so

00:03:37.480 go out and do something about it so i yeah but he have to make sure you you get like some compliments

00:03:44.500 about it you know so he can make you feel better but are you gonna give him the same compliments

00:03:48.980 if he has no job oh yeah yeah you know what i mean but i think it works i have a question do you

00:03:55.340 i'm gonna help him do you genuinely think most women nicely ask or do you think most women nag 1.00

00:04:00.900 what's just nag about yeah okay yes baby i'm so happy you didn't do that thing i asked you to do 0.97

00:04:11.920 last week yeah very happy i mean that's the woman condition yeah should be away but the female 1.00

00:04:20.880 condition is very different to a man as well like we we do like to no offense but pick at things yeah

00:04:27.820 whereas a man will be very much more upfront about it and if they have an issue with something

00:04:32.640 most of the time most of the time not all men i i know not all men are quite as straightforward as

00:04:37.720 that but most men will just say it as it is whereas women will sugarcoat things i'm not gonna 1.00

00:04:42.980 i'm kind of i'm gonna be straightforward me it makes it more complicated so if you can't take it

00:04:48.300 don't give it no my opinion on it is oh so um i actually haven't seen this response video to me

00:04:57.420 i was sent it so let's um i don't want to show the original tiktok you know what okay i do want to

00:05:04.260 can you click my original tiktok i sent tiktok awry this week oh my gosh awry um what oh yeah but

00:05:14.340 you have to it's a stitch you got to click the

00:05:16.200 you see that yeah there you go

00:05:21.020 now

00:05:25.420 okay are you gonna show it okay i'll look it i know i had something on my shirt i'd like to say

00:05:34.460 thank you i don't know i don't know how to curl my hair my friend does

00:05:42.300 have you naturally straight hair no i just that's the only thing i know how to do

00:05:46.920 i don't know how to do anything else fair enough you do you you do you um okay wait go ahead

00:05:52.240 so i sent the internet awry with this amok i've done that a lot this week okay

00:05:58.440 scroll it up oh we can't hear it so a lot of the wives are triggered on this app saying i'm young

00:06:08.820 inexperienced don't know what i'm talking about but i listen to what the men say every single day

00:06:15.440 through consultations through what i do for work youtube videos made about you guys 0.99

00:06:21.460 don't shoot the messenger i'm just letting you know a lot of you are shitty wives sorry okay this 0.99

00:06:26.860 is the wrong one i thought it was a different one okay my the one i'm talking about because i was 0.99

00:06:31.340 responding to the other one i just said okay look if you don't clean you don't cook and you don't 0.98

00:06:35.420 have sex with him what does he get out of that that's a shitty wife and you leave and take half 1.00

00:06:41.320 that's a shitty like it's like ouch i mean you've got you've got a point first what does he get out 1.00

00:06:49.300 it's a basic principle of marriage this is what i said i said nothing you're a shitty wife 1.00

00:06:54.480 okay good start if you get fat oh god you're not loyal because you know 70 to 80 percent of women in 0.99

00:07:04.920 the u.s are overweight 70 80 so yeah so so that's one two we're not loyal we leave 70 to 80 percent of

00:07:12.180 the time on top of that um one out of four marriages is sexless so and i i can't imagine most women 1.00

00:07:19.920 really have their original recipes really cater to men support them so it's like can we really say

00:07:24.660 we're doing a good job as a group i'm including myself in this right but i'm just saying as a group

00:07:29.300 can we say we're we're offering a lot do you know i feel like a lot of it comes down to the fact that

00:07:36.160 marriage is now a nearly a political statement it's nothing to do with the religion aspect of it

00:07:42.220 i'm not religious myself but i come from a very religious background i'm born and raised in northern

00:07:48.220 ireland very religious and all the basis of marriage is like the core elements of it you take religion out

00:07:55.540 of that yeah marriage is nothing but a statement yeah she's right no you're right because it's the

00:08:02.080 because religion has become you know watered down and fewer people are religion religious today and

00:08:08.720 also societal constraints but the societal constraints came out of religion didn't they

00:08:12.620 you know the whole reason that it was so um frowned upon for people to be divorced and certainly for

00:08:18.640 women to be divorced in the past was because of the religious aspects to it we'll take out the religion 1.00

00:08:21.980 and suddenly it's like well what is the incentive do you know i mean there is no incentive

00:08:25.520 and that's the that's the problem with the marriage contract now i also think that's quite

00:08:30.120 sad because i feel like marriage has lost its meaning like let's not forget marriage is a

00:08:34.460 beautiful thing it's a sacred thing but that's only that's only if you're religious that's the

00:08:39.540 issue that that is coming up at the minute i think they come at the marriage but you're

00:08:45.480 i understand what you're saying like in some people can just be in relationships and not get

00:08:48.820 married but you're forgetting that you don't actually get that security the type of security that you

00:08:53.120 get when you're married but the man doesn't get the security because seven percent of the women 1.00

00:08:57.500 leave i would say yeah and it's women's it's women's fault we don't get security okay we wanted to work 1.00

00:09:05.080 we said send us to work and then we go to work and now the wages are cut in half for everyone when

00:09:10.620 you got double the amount of employees it's our own fault and then women women who's in charge of sex 1.00

00:09:16.340 right so women said i you know what i used to require marriage to have sex with me 1.00

00:09:21.460 now we don't do that so it's our own fault it broke down because of women 1.00

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JustPearlyThings - June 07, 2023

Pear EXPOSED Their Hypocrisy

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