Pearl Almost KICKS OUT Post Wall Woman
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the age difference between men and women when it comes to men cheating on you, fertility issues and what it means to be a woman in the 21st century. We also discuss whether or not men cheat on you when you get older and how to deal with it.
Transcript
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in the beginning was would you blame a man for stepping out if you had given
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somebody else your best years and this is why the men were saying what the
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best years are but the women do not want to hear from the men what the best years
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are and when it comes to what the best the best years for the men biology takes
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a main part of it so it doesn't matter and how old you guys and you guys were
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arguing about what the best years were gave your best years to someone else
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that's where I was a bit what do you mean gave my best experience is the it's
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that hope especially when you've had a child for someone else especially I will
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say majority of men legacy is very important do not yes there's a lot of
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baby mamas around okay okay hold on hold on and then this falls in with the age
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thing as well because as we're saying the older you're getting the more barren
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you're becoming so then because you're older you should accept that a man will
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cheat on you is that is that what we're saying you could die alone too so but we
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don't that's the point guys like not every women need a man like it does want to
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step out step out like when we are 30 that's my value when you say oh you know
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20 anymore so you don't have any value it no I actually my value is that I can
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stand by my own I can pay my bills I'm independent and this is because I'm
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party because when I was 20 I was probably looking for a man to do you
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know help me out in you know just to you know the two you're gonna be happy 60
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without a family by yourself yeah because in in the world I can do a lot of
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think I can okay I can I can if I cannot have my own baby I can adopt it I can
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have a pet I can do whatever else I'm not just a bloody baby machine
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I'm not a baby machine so my value doesn't depend from how many eggs I
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I don't know I still don't I'd never found a man that let me think okay let's
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have a baby still so if I don't know I don't I don't gonna have a child I don't
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think my life gonna be sad you want you want children with the right man it has
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to be the right man of course I'm 30 now right so what I want to say is that if
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you find the right man right at 35 you get in a relationship at 35 when are you
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gonna think about having a child you know that can happen in six months that
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can happen in two years time that's not a you know calendar and we don't planify
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our life day by day things just happens and I just don't feel like I'm less
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valuable than 20 years old I'm just different so did you know one out of
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three women under 30 have fertility issues one out of everything our food is
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different today so so I know but I'm saying for the right guy so if you found
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the guy that that you would have a kid with like that that's more of a risk
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when you're older that you can't give him to go with a 20 years old if he's
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just one think about me as a baby machine it's free to go with a 20 years old
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yeah we're talking about baby right now so I just answer it's all the question
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your value my value I explained to you just now that my value is not about how
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many men I slept with it's not about how many eggs I contain steel because I'm not
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a baby machine my value is about how many money I can make because I probably can
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make more money than a man out there it's about what I can deal with life
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every day I don't need a man this is my value okay I stand by my own this is my
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value so so the question is can you find a man that can stand next to me and deal
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with me yeah but when you say that's your value to who's that yeah for me I don't I don't
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need to like like when you're selling something she talking about cars when you're
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selling something is you you decide the value of your so okay that's like me
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saying okay I'm NBA like an NBA why an NBA player would like that's like that's
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like that's like okay stop stop interrupting me that's that's like me
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saying that I can get a top 1% guy so I say I deserve a guy that can that can
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that makes half a million but none are lying lining up to buy me that I'm not I'm
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not worth that that's your value and so so you can't just tell men oh I'm still
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just I don't need to tell nothing but you just did you just went off on a rant
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you just you know getting my point I gonna repeat I gonna repeat clearly so I know
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very clearly what I want okay now as I as you said probably I'm not available so I
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don't gonna get what I want cool I say by my home I don't need a man like oh I get
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what I want I guess I can just say by my own I don't need a man I need a child I'm
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like a person I'm not a baby machine I'm not I do you know what I mean like
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that's my value for what you're saying you don't sound very happy about that no I
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just don't I'm not very happy about how another other women can think about our
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our body and our essence I didn't I'm telling you what men want yeah but you
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can you can think in your way and that's that's perfect it's not no no no I've
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talked to thousands of men yeah cool men approach her and then she's saying the
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value that she brings to the man that is approaching her whether he chooses to
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go to her or on once a 20 whatever obviously he's approached her so he likes
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her so that's the value that she brings that's that's the point I'm saying I've
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never talked about you guys I don't I don't know the question is is that fair
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to expect monogamy so I'm saying over a certain age you're less valuable to men
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and then as soon as I say as soon as I say that you guys get triggered no no no
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and you guys you keep you keep interrupting this is this is my this is this is this is my
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this is she I don't know no I'm saying stop stop stop stop stop mute her mic mute her mic
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stop this is rude this is my show it's very rude to interrupt the host okay like so so yeah
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like this is disrespectful sorry carry on and so I'm saying that if you're going to men and telling
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them what they should value and every time I say this is what men value you guys you keep
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arguing with it then you want to say well what what are my best years this this this and this
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I get that but I'm just saying she asked the question and said that this girl said she's 30
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and then you said you're 30 so when you get to 30 you made it personal about her but that's why
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no sorry I don't know auntie's name but yeah she said once she gets to 35 and then her eggs blah blah
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she asked her something personal about her so that's why it got personal because you made it about
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her honestly so that's why she was talking about herself and not saying that you expect
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all men to accept this value blah blah blah the point is if if a certain man approaches her and
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this is the value that she gives or she brings and the guy doesn't want it then that's fine
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you I can understand that you're saying that this is men want xyz men want um whatever you said from
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a certain age or whatever as if to say no man approaches a 30 or 35 year old woman when there's
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two 30 year old women sat here who men approach that's the point but there's a difference between like
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force that like like it doesn't count unless you're getting to get a ring none of it counts
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yeah it doesn't count yeah it doesn't it doesn't yeah it doesn't you can be approached your number
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can be taken your instagram can be got but if you're not being kept it doesn't matter you can tell