Pearl and Maggie react to Kevin Samuels rating Nickiminaj
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Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and react to the life and death of Kobe Bryant and his daughter, Kobe s daughter Shanice Bryant. They also discuss the impact of social media and how it has changed the way we view Black women.
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so this is kevin samuel's celebration of life okay am i putting this on yeah you put that on
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and um i know where it goes my 600 hair yeah i'm sorry no it's fine um so he
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we're just gonna react to some of the key moments that they had okay oh this sounds good
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let me tell you you see let me tell you why i must i love the universe and i am a firm believer
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of the universe okay listen i wanted to get on and talk to you for a very long time is that right
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that's very right what we got so i want to know what you gotta you know let's let's have this real
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talk let's have this real talk um because i know a lot of times when people will speak to you
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they it's like they trying to be funny and and i feel and i feel like if if you if you call somebody
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trying to be funny yes i think i feel if you try if you call somebody trying to be funny then don't
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be mad at what you get if you call somebody if you call somebody that you know and you're really
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trying to you know sincerely ask questions or get information or chat then that's different so
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i want to talk to you okay what are we talking about well
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is that what we're starting out with yeah do you think the women do you think the men rate women
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no i thought because that isn't that what you do
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that's what have you seen in my content have you seen have you just seen like the clips
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yeah i well i think i always see people calling you and they and then you and you tell them you ain't
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no such and such you lying to yourself you ain't this you know what i typically don't do is i don't
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typically rate people i ask if they rate themselves i usually ask these questions so let's start it that
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way yeah how tall are you i'm five three dress size my dress size
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that's a good question um i guess a four all right and on a scale from one to ten you can't use seven
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fresh race out of the shower just keep yeah as i always ask the question
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seven can you seven that's why seven is the most common answer really
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me it's the default answer for most people because they don't want to go too high they don't want
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to go too low well no um it ain't a default answer for me well i would let's see
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i'll give you a nine okay i will give you nine because you have the facial symmetry
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and you get additional points for eyes full lips see it's not it's i'm an actual image consultant
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oh i'm sure you there are a lot of people are you surprised he gave her a nine
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actually i was um i know nikki minaj is um a performer and she has you know the makeup on that's
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kind of like stage makeup but um she is beautiful but i don't know if i've ever seen her without that
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full face but yes i was surprised yeah i was surprised too yeah but it's hard because i don't really
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know what she looks like either so yeah there's some celebrities that you can see pictures of them
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plain faced you know and kind of say oh that's who they are but i've never seen her plain faced
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take your pictures or something so what you have a symmetrical face and so it's much more based upon
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facial symmetry it's not based on european beauty standards or anything like that it's much more based
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upon what babies animals human beings have evolved to find attractive wow you get and you get additional
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points because we have evolved to find more slanted eyes somewhere attractive especially when they're not
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on asian wow wow that's not what gets that's not what gets translated most of the time people take my
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clips and cut it down to something that's going to make a viral moment it's going to start a conversation
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take the good with your bad have you seen anything else that i do i saw one time when you check this lady
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for i think i guess it was a white lady or hispanic lady and you was like oh you're not gonna come on
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this show and talk down on black women that's what the fuck you're not gonna do yeah and so again that
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was the clip i didn't i didn't see the context really but well i get i get a rapper hating black
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women uh and it's far from that i mean there are over 50 black women report that they've gotten married
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as a result of watching my content really it's on my it's on my instagram i actually had a young sister
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uh this post up saying hey as a result to you i smashed the ring i just actually posted a brother
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who was about to move to the dominican republic and he found his wife in my facebook group like
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12 couples have gotten married in there but that stuff doesn't get publicized but when i'm talking
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about relationships i'm talking about men and women but because i'm black i'm talking about us
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and at the time i would bring stuff in and then a lot of times sister would say well men when they
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get to a certain level they only want white women it is to that um so i let women from other races come
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in i'm like okay well can you learn anything from what what would you teach them and
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the one woman came in and she thought she was going to do what i did to black women
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like hold on oh wait wait now i we can talk this way karen you sit your ass down over there because
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i don't play that um i wouldn't let you know despite popular opinion i love my mother i love my daughter
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but we do have to have a family conversation yeah what do you think of that i 100 understand and you
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know agree that there is a conversation that needs to be had in our community
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and i think that it is it is better received by people who you can identify with i think that's
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all of us but i do agree with what he said is when you see something that's working even if it's in
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another community if you can learn from it eat the meat and spit out the bones remember we talked about
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that list that you had of you said like in your upbringing of you know upper middle class these are
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the things that are expected but i said it's actually kind of all one percent men because
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you know even being with a black man he's not going to tolerate a lot of that foolishness and he
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challenges me too like you know when we look at other communities that really support their community is
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there something that we can learn from that so i understand i always say when they talk about passport
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bros and a lot of girls will get mad and say oh they don't get like men anyway or these are just women
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that are like they don't have anything going for them you know what a passport bro is i do yeah and
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i always say why don't we just learn from the women that the countries that they're going to and i grew
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up with nannies um all pairs from around the world so i understand why they're picking them for wives to
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be honest um i always recommend germany just because yeah i grew up with germans but it's like um
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it's like we can either complain or we can learn you know yeah i mean kevin often used to talk about
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being competitive and i think we took that in a way of like you know i shouldn't have to do anything but
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that's a part of being competitive studying your competition why are they winning right you can just
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take it as a slight if you want to but even in my family you know my i won't put my family's business
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out there but you know i have seen this as well so um one of the things that i hear women complain
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about the passport bros but when i think about it from the man's perspective do you know how exhausted
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a man has to be and the expense that is required to to bypass your you know surroundings and go look
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for what you want elsewhere if we even if we think back to like um let's just say the vikings or any of
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those other groups they only went out looking for other land because their area at home was not farmable
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so if we give men what they want in an area that's close to them i don't see men bypassing that when
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they have a great selection here even animals wander when their land is um you know dry they move and they
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look for more i just think men are logical oh yeah so they're just like well they're not working out
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here so i'm gonna go there yeah and i don't blame them i support men doing what's best for them because
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and again another thing that kevin used to say if a man is going to take time to build himself you
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know i think about my boys you know may have to go to the military and then go to college later or
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maybe do you know some other type of career by the time they're ready to take on the responsibility
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that comes with a wife and potential children i wouldn't want them to waste a minute more than they
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have to because they've already done all that work up front and i think a lot of women forget that
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especially if you meet a man who has arrived you have not seen what he had to do to become that man
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so i have a lot of respect for that as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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