JustPearlyThings - March 16, 2023


Pearl and Maggie react to Kevin Samuels rating Nickiminaj

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Kevin Samuels
Aunty Jenny goes on an Epic Rant Pearl DEBUNKS the ＂PATRIACHY＂ fallacy

Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

166.29

Word count

1,795

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

11

sentences flagged

Toxicity

9

sentences flagged

Hate speech

3

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and react to the life and death of Kobe Bryant and his daughter, Kobe s daughter Shanice Bryant. They also discuss the impact of social media and how it has changed the way we view Black women.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
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00:00:00.240 so this is kevin samuel's celebration of life okay am i putting this on yeah you put that on
00:00:05.760 and um i know where it goes my 600 hair yeah i'm sorry no it's fine um so he
00:00:14.960 we're just gonna react to some of the key moments that they had okay oh this sounds good
00:00:20.800 let me tell you you see let me tell you why i must i love the universe and i am a firm believer
00:00:34.960 of the universe okay listen i wanted to get on and talk to you for a very long time is that right
00:00:43.680 that's very right what we got so i want to know what you gotta you know let's let's have this real
00:00:52.080 talk let's have this real talk um because i know a lot of times when people will speak to you
00:00:58.320 they it's like they trying to be funny and and i feel and i feel like if if you if you call somebody
00:01:07.280 trying to be funny yes i think i feel if you try if you call somebody trying to be funny then don't
00:01:13.120 be mad at what you get if you call somebody if you call somebody that you know and you're really
00:01:17.920 trying to you know sincerely ask questions or get information or chat then that's different so
00:01:26.960 i want to talk to you okay what are we talking about well
00:01:35.840 what what do you rate me
00:01:37.840 is that what we're starting out with yeah do you think the women do you think the men rate women
00:01:48.240 no i thought because that isn't that what you do
00:01:52.880 that's what have you seen in my content have you seen have you just seen like the clips
00:01:58.160 yeah i well i think i always see people calling you and they and then you and you tell them you ain't
00:02:05.360 no such and such you lying to yourself you ain't this you know what i typically don't do is i don't
00:02:11.440 typically rate people i ask if they rate themselves i usually ask these questions so let's start it that
00:02:17.360 way yeah how tall are you i'm five three dress size my dress size
00:02:24.160 that's a good question um i guess a four all right and on a scale from one to ten you can't use seven
00:02:40.720 what would you rank yourself
00:02:48.960 fresh race out of the shower just keep yeah as i always ask the question
00:03:00.400 seven can you seven that's why seven is the most common answer really
00:03:07.520 me it's the default answer for most people because they don't want to go too high they don't want
00:03:12.400 to go too low well no um it ain't a default answer for me well i would let's see
00:03:21.200 i'll give you a nine okay i will give you nine because you have the facial symmetry
00:03:28.080 and you get additional points for eyes full lips see it's not it's i'm an actual image consultant
00:03:36.480 oh i'm sure you there are a lot of people are you surprised he gave her a nine
00:03:42.400 actually i was um i know nikki minaj is um a performer and she has you know the makeup on that's 1.00
00:03:50.720 kind of like stage makeup but um she is beautiful but i don't know if i've ever seen her without that
00:03:58.320 full face but yes i was surprised yeah i was surprised too yeah but it's hard because i don't really
00:04:04.080 know what she looks like either so yeah there's some celebrities that you can see pictures of them 0.82
00:04:12.080 plain faced you know and kind of say oh that's who they are but i've never seen her plain faced
00:04:17.680 take your pictures or something so what you have a symmetrical face and so it's much more based upon
00:04:23.120 facial symmetry it's not based on european beauty standards or anything like that it's much more based
00:04:28.560 upon what babies animals human beings have evolved to find attractive wow you get and you get additional
00:04:36.800 points because we have evolved to find more slanted eyes somewhere attractive especially when they're not
00:04:44.080 on asian wow wow that's not what gets that's not what gets translated most of the time people take my
00:04:52.640 clips and cut it down to something that's going to make a viral moment it's going to start a conversation
00:04:59.280 take the good with your bad have you seen anything else that i do i saw one time when you check this lady
00:05:07.520 for i think i guess it was a white lady or hispanic lady and you was like oh you're not gonna come on 0.99
00:05:12.880 this show and talk down on black women that's what the fuck you're not gonna do yeah and so again that 1.00
00:05:18.320 was the clip i didn't i didn't see the context really but well i get i get a rapper hating black 1.00
00:05:27.360 women uh and it's far from that i mean there are over 50 black women report that they've gotten married
00:05:33.680 as a result of watching my content really it's on my it's on my instagram i actually had a young sister
00:05:39.440 uh this post up saying hey as a result to you i smashed the ring i just actually posted a brother
00:05:44.720 who was about to move to the dominican republic and he found his wife in my facebook group like
00:05:51.200 12 couples have gotten married in there but that stuff doesn't get publicized but when i'm talking
00:05:56.320 about relationships i'm talking about men and women but because i'm black i'm talking about us
00:06:03.120 and at the time i would bring stuff in and then a lot of times sister would say well men when they
00:06:08.160 get to a certain level they only want white women it is to that um so i let women from other races come 1.00
00:06:15.760 in i'm like okay well can you learn anything from what what would you teach them and
00:06:22.400 the one woman came in and she thought she was going to do what i did to black women 1.00
00:06:28.640 like hold on oh wait wait now i we can talk this way karen you sit your ass down over there because 1.00
00:06:36.240 i don't play that um i wouldn't let you know despite popular opinion i love my mother i love my daughter 0.98
00:06:43.040 but we do have to have a family conversation yeah what do you think of that i 100 understand and you
00:06:52.160 know agree that there is a conversation that needs to be had in our community
00:06:58.480 and i think that it is it is better received by people who you can identify with i think that's
00:07:08.080 all of us but i do agree with what he said is when you see something that's working even if it's in
00:07:13.600 another community if you can learn from it eat the meat and spit out the bones remember we talked about
00:07:19.680 that list that you had of you said like in your upbringing of you know upper middle class these are
00:07:25.200 the things that are expected but i said it's actually kind of all one percent men because 0.98
00:07:29.760 you know even being with a black man he's not going to tolerate a lot of that foolishness and he 1.00
00:07:35.360 challenges me too like you know when we look at other communities that really support their community is 0.97
00:07:40.640 there something that we can learn from that so i understand i always say when they talk about passport
00:07:46.240 bros and a lot of girls will get mad and say oh they don't get like men anyway or these are just women
00:07:52.240 that are like they don't have anything going for them you know what a passport bro is i do yeah and
00:07:57.840 i always say why don't we just learn from the women that the countries that they're going to and i grew 1.00
00:08:03.920 up with nannies um all pairs from around the world so i understand why they're picking them for wives to 0.99
00:08:09.840 be honest um i always recommend germany just because yeah i grew up with germans but it's like um
00:08:18.080 it's like we can either complain or we can learn you know yeah i mean kevin often used to talk about
00:08:25.360 being competitive and i think we took that in a way of like you know i shouldn't have to do anything but
00:08:31.200 that's a part of being competitive studying your competition why are they winning right you can just
00:08:36.800 take it as a slight if you want to but even in my family you know my i won't put my family's business
00:08:43.040 out there but you know i have seen this as well so um one of the things that i hear women complain 1.00
00:08:51.600 about the passport bros but when i think about it from the man's perspective do you know how exhausted
00:08:57.200 a man has to be and the expense that is required to to bypass your you know surroundings and go look
00:09:05.840 for what you want elsewhere if we even if we think back to like um let's just say the vikings or any of
00:09:13.040 those other groups they only went out looking for other land because their area at home was not farmable
00:09:20.800 so if we give men what they want in an area that's close to them i don't see men bypassing that when
00:09:28.560 they have a great selection here even animals wander when their land is um you know dry they move and they
00:09:34.960 look for more i just think men are logical oh yeah so they're just like well they're not working out
00:09:40.880 here so i'm gonna go there yeah and i don't blame them i support men doing what's best for them because
00:09:46.880 and again another thing that kevin used to say if a man is going to take time to build himself you
00:09:51.600 know i think about my boys you know may have to go to the military and then go to college later or
00:09:56.560 maybe do you know some other type of career by the time they're ready to take on the responsibility
00:10:01.920 that comes with a wife and potential children i wouldn't want them to waste a minute more than they 1.00
00:10:07.920 have to because they've already done all that work up front and i think a lot of women forget that 1.00
00:10:13.840 especially if you meet a man who has arrived you have not seen what he had to do to become that man
00:10:20.720 so i have a lot of respect for that as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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