JustPearlyThings - October 19, 2023


Pearl And @vtsoscast EXPOSE Arranged Marriages


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4 minutes

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824

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99

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11

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3

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In this episode, we discuss the concept of virgins and why women should or shouldn t be virgins. We also discuss the benefits and drawbacks of being a virgin in modern society and what it takes to be a virgins in the modern world.

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00:00:00.000 But prior to 25, you know, how are they eating?
00:00:04.260 How are they living?
00:00:04.960 How are they making money?
00:00:06.080 Oh, what I would say, I would just say be a virgin, young chicas. 1.00
00:00:10.020 Be a virgin and get married. 0.98
00:00:11.620 That's what I would say. 0.78
00:00:12.840 I would say that's the best option.
00:00:14.520 If we want to look at, you know, if your goal is family and children, that is the best option for you.
00:00:21.080 Gotcha.
00:00:21.560 How would you suggest a woman would court or how would you suggest a woman get experience? 0.97
00:00:26.440 I'm not saying sleeping around because I'm not condoning sleeping around.
00:00:28.620 But how would you suggest a woman like that? 0.98
00:00:31.700 You know, she's been home to be able to identify this is a man that is going to.
00:00:37.520 Oh, God, women can't identify. 1.00
00:00:38.880 We're terrible at it.
00:00:39.720 So then that's my point.
00:00:40.700 What suggestion would you have to those women that stay at home? 1.00
00:00:43.500 I think like traditionally it used to be that the dads would help you.
00:00:47.840 And so the dads would say these are like five guys in town.
00:00:50.660 I think this would be the ideal.
00:00:52.300 All right.
00:00:52.540 So you got it.
00:00:53.200 You got a daughter, right?
00:00:54.140 Let's just say.
00:00:54.880 Okay.
00:00:55.020 And you say these five guys, they're everything that I think would be good in a husband.
00:01:00.980 Daughter, pick one. 1.00
00:01:02.160 Boom.
00:01:02.480 There you go.
00:01:03.060 So kind of like the Indian culture where they kind of give the marriage.
00:01:07.140 Yeah.
00:01:07.520 They do that in Indian culture.
00:01:08.900 So I do want to talk about women and the body positivity.
00:01:13.320 We touched on some of the stuff.
00:01:15.020 Looks, marriage.
00:01:16.620 You just brought up virgins. 0.99
00:01:18.240 Yeah.
00:01:18.360 This is something that I find fascinating, this conversation about virgin brides.
00:01:24.900 Yes.
00:01:25.320 Right.
00:01:25.960 One of my favorite movies of all time is The Princess Bride and this whole concept of virginity.
00:01:33.140 And look, you know, in high school and college, maybe I took one or two.
00:01:37.580 Right.
00:01:37.800 But at this phase in my life, the last thing I'm looking for, for me, is a virgin because
00:01:42.520 I'm a little bit older.
00:01:43.440 Right.
00:01:43.700 But I understand that concept.
00:01:44.880 So would you consider yourself a traditional guy?
00:01:48.740 Um, in many respects, yes, but maybe not, uh, in certain categories.
00:01:54.080 Are you like looking to get married the next couple of years?
00:01:56.500 I'm looking to have kids and a girl for sure.
00:01:58.880 Okay.
00:01:59.220 But traditional marriage, as far as the government getting involved in my life, I, you know,
00:02:03.920 I don't know if you know, I was married.
00:02:05.680 You were married?
00:02:06.460 Yeah.
00:02:06.700 Oh my God.
00:02:06.980 I had no idea.
00:02:07.700 So you go.
00:02:08.420 Well, at the end, you're going to flip it on me, have this conversation.
00:02:11.700 But yeah, I do.
00:02:12.700 I would like, I would say that.
00:02:14.300 How about this?
00:02:14.900 I've been pretty traditional, but I'm becoming more traditional, evolving, as we kind of
00:02:20.360 discussed.
00:02:21.280 Would you say you're traditional?
00:02:22.780 No.
00:02:23.360 You're not?
00:02:23.980 No, I wish I was, but no.
00:02:26.860 How so?
00:02:27.720 Well, when I, I think of like a traditional woman, I think of a woman that like, I don't 1.00
00:02:32.260 know, I was an athlete growing up.
00:02:33.720 Okay.
00:02:33.980 So I was like, I was, I spent like four hours a day in the gym.
00:02:37.380 I don't think that's like a traditional.
00:02:39.880 All right.
00:02:40.260 So you played sports.
00:02:41.140 I don't think that, I mean, in modern society, a lot of girls play sports. 0.98
00:02:44.000 How else are you not traditional, but you would love to be traditional?
00:02:47.040 Well, that's, that's the main thing.
00:02:48.880 I think traditional women get married before the age of 25. 1.00
00:02:52.380 So, okay.
00:02:54.180 So, um, but the virginity thing.
00:02:57.200 Yeah.
00:02:57.640 I think, yeah.
00:02:58.320 I also think that that's part of it.
00:03:00.260 Traditional women, they're virgins. 1.00
00:03:01.960 They wait till they're married.
00:03:03.380 They, they're typically like rate, like they're more raised.
00:03:09.340 Um, like I just don't see athletes like female athletics as being like the epitome of traditional. 0.53
00:03:14.840 And you've already answered this.
00:03:15.700 You're, you, you said you're not a virgin, right?
00:03:18.380 Not again.
00:03:19.100 Okay.
00:03:19.480 No, I mean, it's not like breaking news.
00:03:22.080 Okay.
00:03:22.700 You're not married.
00:03:23.580 This is not breaking news.
00:03:24.720 I get it.
00:03:25.160 You've said you're not traditional, but you wish you were.
00:03:28.120 Yeah.
00:03:28.360 But you're also saying, Hey women go be traditional. 1.00
00:03:30.960 Yeah.
00:03:31.200 You're also like, look, I'm not really traditional, but this is what I would recommend for you.
00:03:35.480 Right.
00:03:36.020 But when it comes to virginity thing, it's actually pretty fascinating to me because I have some stats.
00:03:40.580 Malik, pull that up in a second.
00:03:41.520 You said the ideal marriage of two virgins is getting married and staying married for a lifetime is good. 0.99
00:03:47.180 You've said that, right?
00:03:48.680 Non-virgin women cause all of the world's problems. 1.00
00:03:50.960 Oh, yes.
00:03:51.360 Interesting.
00:03:51.860 Yes.
00:03:52.220 Okay.
00:03:52.940 So, you know, in the West specifically, the concept of virgin brides, in my opinion, is so far fetched today.
00:04:00.720 It's done, yeah.
00:04:00.740 4%.
00:04:01.300 I think it's like 3% or 4%.
00:04:02.560 Yeah, yeah.
00:04:03.240 So.