JustPearlyThings - October 19, 2023


Pearl And @vtsoscast EXPOSE Arranged Marriages


Episode Stats

Length

4 minutes

Words per Minute

202.989

Word Count

824

Sentence Count

99

Misogynist Sentences

11

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the concept of virgins and why women should or shouldn t be virgins. We also discuss the benefits and drawbacks of being a virgin in modern society and what it takes to be a virgins in the modern world.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 But prior to 25, you know, how are they eating?
00:00:04.260 How are they living?
00:00:04.960 How are they making money?
00:00:06.080 Oh, what I would say, I would just say be a virgin, young chicas.
00:00:10.020 Be a virgin and get married.
00:00:11.620 That's what I would say.
00:00:12.840 I would say that's the best option.
00:00:14.520 If we want to look at, you know, if your goal is family and children, that is the best option for you.
00:00:21.080 Gotcha.
00:00:21.560 How would you suggest a woman would court or how would you suggest a woman get experience?
00:00:26.440 I'm not saying sleeping around because I'm not condoning sleeping around.
00:00:28.620 But how would you suggest a woman like that?
00:00:31.700 You know, she's been home to be able to identify this is a man that is going to.
00:00:37.520 Oh, God, women can't identify.
00:00:38.880 We're terrible at it.
00:00:39.720 So then that's my point.
00:00:40.700 What suggestion would you have to those women that stay at home?
00:00:43.500 I think like traditionally it used to be that the dads would help you.
00:00:47.840 And so the dads would say these are like five guys in town.
00:00:50.660 I think this would be the ideal.
00:00:52.300 All right.
00:00:52.540 So you got it.
00:00:53.200 You got a daughter, right?
00:00:54.140 Let's just say.
00:00:54.880 Okay.
00:00:55.020 And you say these five guys, they're everything that I think would be good in a husband.
00:01:00.980 Daughter, pick one.
00:01:02.160 Boom.
00:01:02.480 There you go.
00:01:03.060 So kind of like the Indian culture where they kind of give the marriage.
00:01:07.140 Yeah.
00:01:07.520 They do that in Indian culture.
00:01:08.900 So I do want to talk about women and the body positivity.
00:01:13.320 We touched on some of the stuff.
00:01:15.020 Looks, marriage.
00:01:16.620 You just brought up virgins.
00:01:18.240 Yeah.
00:01:18.360 This is something that I find fascinating, this conversation about virgin brides.
00:01:24.900 Yes.
00:01:25.320 Right.
00:01:25.960 One of my favorite movies of all time is The Princess Bride and this whole concept of virginity.
00:01:33.140 And look, you know, in high school and college, maybe I took one or two.
00:01:37.580 Right.
00:01:37.800 But at this phase in my life, the last thing I'm looking for, for me, is a virgin because
00:01:42.520 I'm a little bit older.
00:01:43.440 Right.
00:01:43.700 But I understand that concept.
00:01:44.880 So would you consider yourself a traditional guy?
00:01:48.740 Um, in many respects, yes, but maybe not, uh, in certain categories.
00:01:54.080 Are you like looking to get married the next couple of years?
00:01:56.500 I'm looking to have kids and a girl for sure.
00:01:58.880 Okay.
00:01:59.220 But traditional marriage, as far as the government getting involved in my life, I, you know,
00:02:03.920 I don't know if you know, I was married.
00:02:05.680 You were married?
00:02:06.460 Yeah.
00:02:06.700 Oh my God.
00:02:06.980 I had no idea.
00:02:07.700 So you go.
00:02:08.420 Well, at the end, you're going to flip it on me, have this conversation.
00:02:11.700 But yeah, I do.
00:02:12.700 I would like, I would say that.
00:02:14.300 How about this?
00:02:14.900 I've been pretty traditional, but I'm becoming more traditional, evolving, as we kind of
00:02:20.360 discussed.
00:02:21.280 Would you say you're traditional?
00:02:22.780 No.
00:02:23.360 You're not?
00:02:23.980 No, I wish I was, but no.
00:02:26.860 How so?
00:02:27.720 Well, when I, I think of like a traditional woman, I think of a woman that like, I don't
00:02:32.260 know, I was an athlete growing up.
00:02:33.720 Okay.
00:02:33.980 So I was like, I was, I spent like four hours a day in the gym.
00:02:37.380 I don't think that's like a traditional.
00:02:39.880 All right.
00:02:40.260 So you played sports.
00:02:41.140 I don't think that, I mean, in modern society, a lot of girls play sports.
00:02:44.000 How else are you not traditional, but you would love to be traditional?
00:02:47.040 Well, that's, that's the main thing.
00:02:48.880 I think traditional women get married before the age of 25.
00:02:52.380 So, okay.
00:02:54.180 So, um, but the virginity thing.
00:02:57.200 Yeah.
00:02:57.640 I think, yeah.
00:02:58.320 I also think that that's part of it.
00:03:00.260 Traditional women, they're virgins.
00:03:01.960 They wait till they're married.
00:03:03.380 They, they're typically like rate, like they're more raised.
00:03:09.340 Um, like I just don't see athletes like female athletics as being like the epitome of traditional.
00:03:14.840 And you've already answered this.
00:03:15.700 You're, you, you said you're not a virgin, right?
00:03:18.380 Not again.
00:03:19.100 Okay.
00:03:19.480 No, I mean, it's not like breaking news.
00:03:22.080 Okay.
00:03:22.700 You're not married.
00:03:23.580 This is not breaking news.
00:03:24.720 I get it.
00:03:25.160 You've said you're not traditional, but you wish you were.
00:03:28.120 Yeah.
00:03:28.360 But you're also saying, Hey women go be traditional.
00:03:30.960 Yeah.
00:03:31.200 You're also like, look, I'm not really traditional, but this is what I would recommend for you.
00:03:35.480 Right.
00:03:36.020 But when it comes to virginity thing, it's actually pretty fascinating to me because I have some stats.
00:03:40.580 Malik, pull that up in a second.
00:03:41.520 You said the ideal marriage of two virgins is getting married and staying married for a lifetime is good.
00:03:47.180 You've said that, right?
00:03:48.680 Non-virgin women cause all of the world's problems.
00:03:50.960 Oh, yes.
00:03:51.360 Interesting.
00:03:51.860 Yes.
00:03:52.220 Okay.
00:03:52.940 So, you know, in the West specifically, the concept of virgin brides, in my opinion, is so far fetched today.
00:04:00.720 It's done, yeah.
00:04:00.740 4%.
00:04:01.300 I think it's like 3% or 4%.
00:04:02.560 Yeah, yeah.
00:04:03.240 So.