JustPearlyThings - Pearl Asks Male Guests This DIFFICULT Question

00:00:00.000 never gonna happen it doesn't count you need a wedding date yeah hundreds a wedding date not

00:00:04.960 not a little ring but i was young anyway no okay so it wasn't a real it wasn't a real proposal

00:00:10.340 no no no okay so so the whole point is like you're counting things that don't count

00:00:15.180 it doesn't count if they don't want to marry you i feel you well they do their intention is to you

00:00:19.540 no no like men say things when they mean it they do it like you can't you can't count it like i 0.90

00:00:25.700 know what you mean but you know shit happens you know i've had guys say i want to marry you 0.92

00:00:30.100 doesn't count unless he goes by hundred eyes and ring ask my dad this is 100 we can't like like i 0.71

00:00:35.520 don't know why i was women we count things that don't count you know it don't count so probably

00:00:39.560 you've been proposed to a couple times or no i don't count like that's what i just said like yeah

00:00:47.420 so no one's boot a ring and said no no no it doesn't it don't count like it's like i had a

00:00:54.920 promise ring there's a promise ring a wedding ring no no no i don't count that but anytime we

00:01:00.500 feel like it but did he say it was a promise ring or did he say it's an engagement ring no he

00:01:04.460 said it was a promise ring and then he said he was trying to he said it doesn't count that's what

00:01:10.340 i'm saying he was trying to get the property no i'm not gonna do it it doesn't count um okay how

00:01:18.360 so everyone went right how does a guy identify a good woman yeah mandem time okay all right

00:01:24.720 men if you want to say how do i one are any of you with a good woman like like anyone married

00:01:31.460 anyone married we're not married yet no no no married okay i just wanted to get okay how do you

00:01:36.320 find a good woman how do i find one yeah identify one um i think a good woman i can't i can't tell a

00:01:44.100 good woman straight away it has to be along the course of time she needs to be how i want when i want 1.00

00:01:50.640 when i need her to be and i won't get that from the first look basis you know i mean so i think a

00:01:57.360 first um a good woman to me is a woman that has good family values that know how to be around her 1.00

00:02:06.400 family that has a good relationship with her dad um submissive um caring nurturing

00:02:15.600 healthy

00:02:18.400 that's about it all right caring yeah that's about it for me uh and how do you know a good one so right

00:02:28.960 now this is what you have to do you have to see her for three months yeah ask her to make you a coffee

00:02:33.920 no i agree go for you that three month thing yeah yeah three months okay yeah um this is for the

00:02:41.440 woman you pick to marry so like okay and you can make edits so it's okay um take on a coffee date for

00:02:48.400 first date okay um date as many women as possible to tell the difference make sure she's not on birth 1.00

00:02:55.920 control and figure out what her relationship's like with her family and her dad what do you agree with

00:03:02.400 disagree with and what would you like to add um

00:03:09.520 there's loads i need to add to that man um

00:03:12.000 it's not that simple

00:03:16.160 yeah start out again tell me that

00:03:19.360 we can keep going yeah so you got to see her for three months so what are you guys for three months

00:03:23.760 yeah yeah i think three months that's enough you can marry a girl three months no no no you can

00:03:28.800 you know why you can a lot of women are chameleons no a hundred percent yeah trust me they can 1.00

00:03:35.920 a hundred percent shape-shift how have you ever dated a girl for three months and she changes completely

00:03:40.880 yes yes you cheated like you know when the biggest change of a woman happens which has a baby for me 1.00

00:03:47.200 that's when i see the biggest change in a woman so you won't even really know your woman until she has a 1.00

00:03:52.080 child probably that's what i believe so in order to find a good woman you have to get her pregnant no 1.00

00:03:56.560 you don't have to but i'm saying no you don't have to because there's certain things you'll see but

00:04:02.800 i'm saying from my experience i have three kids in it so i saw the biggest change when the woman had a 1.00

00:04:09.120 child okay so how how long should you see her before you marry or knock her up whatever i don't know 1.00

00:04:15.120 about marry or knock her up three months is a good time to determine whether she's being genuine

00:04:19.200 she's wearing a mask yeah so you got to see her for three months in order to date her like what's 0.99

00:04:23.840 the i mean i don't think you as he said you can't really determine anyone as the true person as they're

00:04:29.280 being genuine as they say they are for like the first three months generally if you've lived with

00:04:33.680 someone that's different if you move in with someone you can see the truth like a lot quicker

00:04:37.760 actually can i can i i'm sorry i'm a little add sometimes when when do you guys expect to sleep with her

00:04:43.680 you don't you know what that's that's subjective you see that question there yeah it is very

00:04:49.680 subjective yeah expect general are you saying expect yeah expectation is a big word i don't have

00:04:54.720 an expectation i don't have expectation they expect straight away on the phone you know what it is

00:04:59.680 i'll be honest yeah i don't think there's too much it's not a problem if you sleep with a woman the 1.00

00:05:04.320 first night or you sleep with a woman two months down the line because man can move different man can wait

00:05:08.640 a woman with her as soon as you can yeah but you know what it is because you can you can sleep with 1.00

00:05:15.040 a woman straight away and have a great connection and a great relationship with her or you can a

00:05:19.360 woman can hold out for six months and whatever and there's man out here that will sit there for six 1.00

00:05:23.440 months all right how long is too long i need hands okay how long is too long no matter how good the

00:05:32.480 girl is you ain't waiting like this is i think three months is the max okay okay that's why i want

00:05:37.840 hands for the max are you waiting all right wait wait wait i need hands are we waiting a week is that okay

00:05:46.880 all right yeah i need you to go you put your hand up when it's too long okay all right two weeks three

00:05:55.760 weeks he's so you're putting in three weeks it depends on the context i mean uh has she made other

00:06:02.000 people wait i mean she's some kind of born again virgin i don't know i i'm not i'm not you're getting

00:06:20.640 a girl from from finding your first date like so you don't know you've just met her off the street

00:06:25.840 whatever dating app whatever so you have to determine all right so three weeks you can wait you're not

00:06:30.560 you're he's okay four weeks four weeks too long for anyone no five weeks okay two months too long

00:06:39.520 to sleep with her the two months is the max all right after that yeah yeah i get bored easily so

00:06:47.760 after two months i might two two months yeah i'll go i'll go with two to three months two to three

00:06:52.000 months all right so three all right so you guys too you said i don't know but the thing is i've done

00:06:56.480 three months when i was young maybe when i'm older now i don't i don't know that's why i'm in

00:07:01.760 but when i had the three months relationship now you meet a nice woman you think you're 0.73

00:07:08.320 you're looking for if she's the one then you i could wait like a year but i have to be convinced

00:07:12.560 yeah yeah no i don't care if she's the one one right you know she's the one though because 0.93

00:07:16.240 but then you have to know you have to know you have to be in her life for that whole time i

00:07:21.520 understand her how old are you again i'm 29 okay you're 29 so how old women do you usually date 0.60

00:07:27.680 around my age so if she's not a virgin will you wait for a year for her she's not a virgin would i wait 0.98

00:07:32.880 for a year if i was yeah i could do i could do that's not likely i could do are you sleeping with

00:07:39.280 other people at the time you're waiting i don't know what she's waiting for i'm saying i don't know

00:07:51.920 that's a good question okay okay so you got a year you went from two months hands to a year yeah but i'm

00:07:57.760 saying it depends how much all right the average the the nice i don't know your favorite girl that

00:08:05.520 you've been on a date with let's just take her you guys can think of whoever your favorite ex is

00:08:10.080 whatever all right would you wait it a year for her yeah i did oh you did okay um so you'll wait a

00:08:18.000 year you'll wait two months two months you'll wait what when you say now you're saying favorite yo

00:08:28.320 you know what i would wait i would wait but one of the if you're talking about favorites it didn't

00:08:32.720 last it didn't take long it was first time no but how long would you wait for a girl you liked that's

00:08:38.080 what i'm saying i i just use that as you know give me i don't know i can't answer that question

00:08:43.360 please answer the question but it's hard you're here to answer my no i know 100 for

00:08:48.720 how long would i wait an answer please it doesn't have to be said i would wait two months yeah two

00:08:53.360 months okay thank you thank you so much you're like three weeks roughly a month a month yeah three so

00:08:59.520 one month two months a year we gotta okay so step one sleep with her as soon as possible 1.00

00:09:09.280 and wait up to a year up to one month to a year depending on the guy because what if you wait a

00:09:20.400 year and you don't like it good point i wasn't only in that one into that one so you know what i'm saying

JustPearlyThings - July 19, 2023

Pearl Asks Male Guests This DIFFICULT Question

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