JustPearlyThings - Pearl Asks The Panel This CRAZY Question

00:00:00.000 he is awesome he's like he's really help you financially yes like i used to have a job

00:00:07.520 and it was like that thing uh they don't make much in brazil my job i do she was like a high-end

00:00:12.800 engineer right i did love my job seriously i loved my job but the problem is being inside of my job

00:00:19.440 and having to take care of like the house john like the dogs it was like just like too much for

00:00:25.920 me why because like i would do everything like kind of and i hate that feeling because it like

00:00:32.240 really starts to like uh stress me out so and then he was like dude you can like do these little

00:00:39.280 things here and this so because he provides you give back in that way exactly like i understand

00:00:45.280 no yeah so it's like it's it's not hard privilege yeah it's not it's not like a hard thing you know

00:00:51.920 babe we need that so god forbid he lost his job he's gonna have to get back to monogamy real quick

00:01:00.320 but it's like when i first met him to be honest like today we have like all maids we have people

00:01:06.000 to walk the dogs we have everything but when i first met him and you have everything that we can

00:01:11.040 buy it wouldn't buy and you don't care about so many uh expensive so for us it's easy you know like we

00:01:18.560 uh he makes uh some amount that we don't even have time to spend like let's say like that so it's

00:01:25.040 easy it's not like oh but like when i first met him like three years ago he wasn't rich he didn't

00:01:31.760 have like that much money and he was like he did this stuff like we always try to help and it wasn't

00:01:37.440 like les you have to do this you have to do no it was like uh i can do this so you can do that i can do

00:01:45.600 this you can do that there was a point that like his company was doing bad and i was like my job and

00:01:50.800 i was just thinking dude if it goes bad because like he likes some stuff but i was just saying oh

00:01:58.160 am i able to take us with my wage for some time and i was to say okay so i need to work a little bit

00:02:05.920 more here so i was willing to do that because like i chose for it's how it's like for his mind you know

00:02:12.560 i think his mind is really fascinating for me well i found i found that the girls that say

00:02:18.160 like he has to he has to earn my submission or he has to make him a bunch of money they're just

00:02:22.160 keeping score yeah like relationships aren't good if you're keeping score of what he's doing for you

00:02:26.640 and what you're doing for him yeah should be natural i'm curious from the girls okay would you

00:02:33.520 rather date a guy you don't all right this is for a lifetime okay one guy you don't really like

00:02:40.240 so i don't know think of the last guy you dated that you just you're kind of into him kind of

00:02:44.720 not everyone got someone in their head okay now now come on i mean you're thinking of someone

00:02:52.320 or the guy you liked the most so the guy you're the most in love with would do anything got him in

00:02:57.920 your head now would you rather share the guy you liked the most ever and this sort of maybe not as

00:03:05.520 you know maybe it's not his job to screw other girls but every now and then he's going to get

00:03:09.040 some strange but you're the main you're the main or stay with the guy that you eh kind of liked for

00:03:14.800 life kind of like kind of like kind of liked can i just say something i won't share the guy that i

00:03:21.360 like the most but i'll share the guy that i don't like the most so if i like you that much i want you to

00:03:26.080 be mine if i don't like you i'm happy to yeah if you provide for me we have an agreement there you go

00:03:32.480 go do whatever you want i don't give two f's okay what about you i mean i'd rather just stay single

00:03:38.320 but if i had to pick one it'd probably be the guy that i don't really like because if i really like

00:03:43.600 someone i am jealous and i am petty as well and i will do the most if i like you and you're not mine

00:03:50.560 do you know what i'm saying so that's my answer okay what about you it's a difficult one because

00:03:55.360 if you're living with someone that you don't like you're gonna be very miserable and very unhappy so

00:04:01.440 would you rather just build yourself to a confidence where you don't mind and and like i see she's so

00:04:08.080 confident and she's happy i would rather be with someone that i love and be happy so but but my do you

00:04:16.320 guys think the most men cheat or no yeah yeah depends where you can get him so why would it be

00:04:22.560 different with you like in your case it would be like oh my guy won't he's gonna change for me it's

00:04:28.320 the same thing it's just the respect you know i definitely it's the respect i salute you and i think

00:04:35.680 you're like i can sense you guys are both are great people you know and you're like really subtle

00:04:40.960 chore of you who you are and it takes a lot of work to do that but there is also a red line i think

00:04:48.320 that just boundaries if you want to create children healthy relationship because it's easier if you

00:04:54.480 have to work way harder than i have to work i'm like i know my boundaries he knows his boundaries

00:04:59.760 things might slip out of balance we just like forgive forget blah blah work them out but the work

00:05:05.600 that you both have to do and maybe you're naturally i can i can sense that you naturally are not jealous

00:05:10.320 person you know you're naturally are way more open-minded than a lot of women but she also met

00:05:15.760 him doing that yes but i think also in the future when you have kids things might get out of balance

00:05:21.520 it's harder work i think you know if you just see relationship traditional relationship the most

00:05:27.440 successful relationship was just stay with your woman if you cheated don't ever let her know same if

00:05:33.200 she if she i tried that i tried that in the beginning right yeah and there was like times where like

00:05:37.440 she came over and like there was like she came over early or maybe not even early but i was like

00:05:41.040 sloppy and she like arrived and i was with a girl yeah and it's like giant fight right but we keep we

00:05:46.240 keep like the emotional stuff like segmented yeah i got like the love and the affection and stuff just

00:05:50.880 with her yeah and that's a lot of work no do you want kids together potentially but we're not sure yet

00:05:56.000 are you gonna carry on doing this when you have kids with chat gpt out i don't know about how much

00:06:01.840 longer the world will be normal but no i mean we're pretty happy with the three dogs we have it still

00:06:06.480 allows flexibility to travel and do all these yeah it's interesting well i'm curious because you guys

00:06:10.320 gonna get older there's there is like a reduce of your sexual needs you probably won't even need to have

00:06:17.360 as much how old are you guys i'm gonna turn 40 in october yeah but i but i take like supplemental

00:06:23.200 testosterone through an endocrinologist i still take like maca and the different libido supplements

00:06:27.440 so i still have my point is if that is what brings you fulfillment right right now at this point what

00:06:33.040 would bring you fulfillment in the future i don't know i mean like i come from an interesting background

00:06:38.320 like the reason why i went and slept with 1600 girls i came from like a pretty verbal abusive childhood

00:06:42.560 where like my parents are really nice people but they're always saying like you're gonna be nothing

00:06:46.320 you're gonna be a failure you're gonna be this like that and when i like sleep with a new girl 0.98

00:06:51.200 it makes me like feel like oh i'm not like that yeah i don't know if it's compensating but it's 0.95

00:06:58.480 it's definitely like you know i wouldn't have gone and done this had i not come from that background

00:07:02.400 like people like a lot of like the best ufc fighters they're bullied for instance as a kid and they were

00:07:06.800 like i'm gonna become the best fighter in the world so like i think my mom like stripped all the like 1.00

00:07:12.080 validation for me like routinely over overall the way you come back is to sleep with women to make up for

00:07:18.400 that trauma yeah but then what would you all right cool i'm a client i'm a guy i come to you and i say

00:07:25.680 to you right i sleep with i don't know eight women a week right i've been doing it for years years years

00:07:34.720 but now i'm ready to commit to one woman what advice would you give me if you want to go from from seeing

00:07:40.800 a bunch of people just to one because that's obviously helping me that's helping my confidence and

00:07:46.560 that's fulfilling so how would you say to me cool stop that stick to one woman and this is how you 0.99

00:07:52.160 can what why wouldn't i don't i don't ever tell them like you know you should just be doing this

00:07:56.240 but you know i don't tell them like any societal narratives i don't tell guys to get a girlfriend

00:07:59.520 or wife or bang a bunch of girls or see a bunch of girls on the side asked i want to be with one 1.00

00:08:04.080 woman how can i go about that would you even give them advice yeah i just want to know lots of

00:08:10.240 lots of guys just want girlfriends but but most of them like in practice like once i teach them to be able to

00:08:15.360 have a bunch of options and they pick the best one usually and get more serious with that one but

00:08:20.240 you know if they had that issue where they were seeing a bunch i would you know they have to like

00:08:24.960 realign their internal values and stuff like that i guess but they wouldn't even want to do that i don't

00:08:28.800 think do you guys who here out of the women thinks that all men cheat when given the chance you know

00:08:34.720 what i would have to say i discovered something new tonight completely because she's stunning gorgeous 0.90

00:08:40.240 right and a lot of women that get cheated on they would just say i'm the i'm out of shape i'm i'm 0.99

00:08:46.240 less but it's just i'm realizing your looks and who you are won't stop men cheating and wanting to 0.98

00:08:55.200 i want to i want to just get this all right you think yes raise your hand if you think yes all men

00:08:59.760 cheat when given the chance yeah okay so um three girls i'm just curious so nba players have women 1.00

00:09:08.880 and i know this um i just interviewed a guy who he has like good friends with a couple professional

00:09:14.080 sports players right and he said that on the sidelines these girls that are tens okay nines and 1.00

00:09:20.800 tens will come to their games and just offer them threesomes and say like we're available and they hunt 1.00

00:09:25.680 them down and try to get them to cheat on their wives like they i have stuff like that happening 1.00

00:09:30.480 yeah what do you what do you guys do you think those guys mo that most guys would cheat in that

00:09:36.400 situation if he's a man of god then it's very unlikely that's what i was gonna say as well yeah

00:09:44.000 that's just a fear of hell right no no it's not it's for your love as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - April 15, 2023

Pearl Asks The Panel This CRAZY Question

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