Pearl BREAKS DOWN Polygamy To Boss Babe
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Summary
In this episode we discuss how women have sex with lots of men and why it gives them confidence to go out there and get the guy they want. We also talk about the women that are considered to be in the top men's league and why they tend to get the most out of them.
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I also think that when when women are having sex with a lot of men, it almost gives the woman like this.
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I don't want to say power, but I would say it sort of gives this woman like a boost of confidence because now she can sort of go out there and get the guy.
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Because you've got to think as women, all we really need to do is dress good, give the guy sex and that's it.
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And then we can get access to all these things.
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So as so the woman's thinking when she's had sex with all those parts, she's kind of has all that experience.
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She can now go and find like that high value man and like get him whipped.
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That's how women think, you know, because now she's got a lot of numbers and it's like she's been there.
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Whereas a girl who maybe doesn't have any experience, she will actually stick with that guy.
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And she will, yeah, because he makes her feel safe and she's maybe a little bit scared to try outside.
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So are you saying that they want, they think that men want a woman who does have a lot of experience?
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So it depends on the men that that type of woman is looking for.
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So we're going to talk about the high value men or these famous actors or celebrities.
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I don't think Leonardo DiCaprio is sitting with a virgin right now.
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But you're also going to see a trend of men just not getting married.
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But what we're talking about is what that does to a woman when she's had sex with loads of different guys.
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It gives her this kind of like I've got experience.
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I can now go fly to Miami and be with that guy who's telling me to come here or, you know.
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But that's the worst possible belief system to hold because that's not going to yield the results you truly want on a long term basis.
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I know, but that is what women think because that's why they can now just go get any guy they want.
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I would say the more dicks a woman takes, the more masculine she becomes.
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I mean, but you guys think that, but I'm telling you how the women think.
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I've mapped out a very nice modern dating market here.
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So these are the hottest people and these are the ugliest people.
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So the problem we have is this guy fucking all the way down here.
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And then these women are like, oh my God, why do I always like men that don't like me back?
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Well, it's because you're shooting too high, sweetheart.
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So then it's like the women are like, oh my God, I always just love the assholes.
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No, you just like the men that are out of your league.
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They usually, because again, what, what incentive do these guys have to stop sleeping with everybody?
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What about the girls that are like deemed to be in that caliber or like that league of the high men?
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They typically have the same results because they're still going after the man horse.
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They might, they might get the commitment in the end.
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But I mean, look at what happened to Logan Paul's girlfriend.
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I mean, when, when the top women are around all these top men all the time, that's tough.
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You know, I just wanted to say, because you were saying that women think that they should have experience.
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But I don't know about what other the guys think.
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But I know that if I meet someone and the girl's doing bits, in my head, I'm like, yo, you've slept with loads of people.
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They actually think the guy might judge me or something like that.
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There are actually, a lot of girls are really uncomfortable to have that conversation with guys.
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But if you're not good, I'm like, wow, that means you ain't been with a lot of people.
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If you've been with a lot of men, you probably know how to do some stuff.
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I don't believe this because if women really were afraid of like not having enough experience,
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Like we know that's a bad thing because that's the first thing we call each other.
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But women are also afraid to be super open with their girlfriends.
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Well, like you said, you know, they, why would they, what did you say?
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You were saying that the women, like they are like nervous because they don't have enough experience for the men.
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And I'm saying if that was true, we wouldn't call each other whores.
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Men leave women for others that are more experienced.
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So the, the, the girls down here will say, what, this guy totally left me for a whore.
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And the truth of the matter is she was just hotter than you.
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Hot chicks get to get away with stuff that the mid chicks do not.
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Us women like, okay, men know that if a rich guy is being a dick, he gets to get away with it.
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I just think men and women, but I think men and women both just give such mixed signals in my opinion.
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You do because you said, look, you just said you want that good girl.
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You just basically said what you said just now.
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You, the men actually are thinking, no, she's too experienced, blah, blah, blah.
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But then you're saying he's gone off with the hot whore.
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Okay, so it's like, no, no, that's not what I said.
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Just to have sex with, not, I understand what you're saying.
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No, but she said that's what we hear all the time.
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No, I say women will always think of the example of a whore that got away with it.
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And typically the reason they got away with it is because they're hotter.
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But in general, a pure hot chick over a whore hot chick, the man's taking the pure hot chick.
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Okay, so then why aren't men complaining about purity and all this stuff?
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Explain it to me because these men are actually marrying these women that they say they're not going to stay committed to.
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Because they're probably, like she's saying, because they're very, very good looking.
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They want to flex like, I want to have a hot chick on their side.
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So a female should stay a virgin, do everything for a man, for the man to go and cheat with her.
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And how are you going to pair bond properly of your wife and make sure that you're assessing to all her needs and being there properly for her as a man while you're shagging all these girls?
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No, because we have a higher threshold of pair bonding.
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Yeah, because females walk away because they can feel that.
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You think as a female you can't feel when your man's been out sleeping with people because you can.
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I guess when they've cheated, before they've ever cheated.
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If you want your man shagging everyone, that's on you.
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If women cared, then they wouldn't keep sleeping with the top guys.
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But all the data's showing us we're all sleeping with the same guys.
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Girls that are hoes don't care about getting married by this top 1%.
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But that's why I bring back to the point that all women pretty much on the dating market are hoes because, again, according to the data, if you've slept with three men...
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So then men need to just stay away from them and look for virgins then?
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I think men need to take one route and just go down that route and stop, like, saying, okay, but actually don't make exceptions for the whole girl.
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Why are you making exceptions for the whole girl?
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I say that men should treat the whores like whores and treat the virgins like whores.
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The problem, the real virgins that want to wait till they're married will wait till they're married.
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Okay, but if she's a whore and she's hot, it's fine, yeah?
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So say a virgin, but your mom's going to shag a whore.
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So, men will accept it sometimes, but it's the exception.
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Okay, but that's why girls are having confusion.
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But from a guy's point of view, only 4% of women wait until they're married.
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Yeah, he'll pick the virgin and then sleep with a whore.
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And that's why you're starting to see the trend of men not getting into long-term relationships.
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Now, but you know why you're missing it, though?
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Because if all you, if every single woman turned around and said, look, unless you put
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Like, the 20s, the 20s, this is for the next generation.
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Half of us are predicted to be single, childless.
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Like, what percent of the women that come on the show are really going to get married?
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This is, they're investing in things like cat food, boxed wine, because we're all just
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So I say, you know, let's talk about the next generation of women, because they're the
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So I say, if the next generation of women said, we're not going to shoot too high, so
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we're going to stop, like, obviously, Brad Pitt doesn't want me.
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When we stop looking and say, let me date all the athletes, all the musicians, all that
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stuff, and just said, look, I'm going to wait till I'm married for my look match.
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If the answer is no, you're shooting too high, sweetie.
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But the answer, the answer still is to wait for the ring, because then that will automatically
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Because if Brad Pitt doesn't propose to you, then he's not your level.
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But he can propose to you, and he's still going to sleep with the girls that don't want
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If they don't sleep with anybody and say, I'm not sleeping with you.
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You're saying every girl says, no, I'm not sleeping with you.
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No, what I'm saying is that the men will adapt to the market.
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So basically, what he's trying to say, right, is that women set the standard.
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And he's saying if every, if the majority, it doesn't have to be every woman, right?
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If the majority of women had the standard of, if you're going to be sexually intimate
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with me, I need a level of exclusivity and commitment, men would adapt to the market.
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Because sexual access is so easy now, this is why a guy can go, I'm going to have my main
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chick here, and I'm going to sleep with all these girls.