JustPearlyThings - August 29, 2023


Pearl BREAKS DOWN Polygamy To Boss Babe


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11 minutes

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215.64874

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2,554

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00:00:00.000 I also think that when when women are having sex with a lot of men, it almost gives the woman like this.
00:00:10.400 I don't want to say power, but I would say it sort of gives this woman like a boost of confidence because now she can sort of go out there and get the guy.
00:00:20.380 Because you've got to think as women, all we really need to do is dress good, give the guy sex and that's it.
00:00:26.400 And then we can get access to all these things.
00:00:28.620 But we can get that screen.
00:00:29.720 So as so the woman's thinking when she's had sex with all those parts, she's kind of has all that experience.
00:00:35.500 She can now go and find like that high value man and like get him whipped.
00:00:41.420 You know what I mean?
00:00:42.280 That's how women think, you know, because now she's got a lot of numbers and it's like she's been there.
00:00:48.260 She's got that experience.
00:00:49.360 Whereas a girl who maybe doesn't have any experience, she will actually stick with that guy.
00:00:54.600 And she will, yeah, because he makes her feel safe and she's maybe a little bit scared to try outside.
00:01:01.080 So are you saying that they want, they think that men want a woman who does have a lot of experience?
00:01:07.180 Some do.
00:01:07.660 Specific type of men.
00:01:09.760 So it depends on the men that that type of woman is looking for.
00:01:14.140 So we're going to talk about the high value men or these famous actors or celebrities.
00:01:20.600 We see it in the media all the time.
00:01:22.360 I don't think Leonardo DiCaprio is sitting with a virgin right now.
00:01:25.920 Let's be real.
00:01:26.500 But it's also about what they want them for.
00:01:29.580 It's not necessarily for a long term.
00:01:31.460 Yeah, but we're talking about.
00:01:32.720 But you're also going to see a trend of men just not getting married.
00:01:35.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:36.100 And you're going to see those top guys just.
00:01:37.840 Absolutely.
00:01:38.260 But what we're talking about is what that does to a woman when she's had sex with loads of different guys.
00:01:43.180 It gives her this kind of like I've got experience.
00:01:47.880 I can now go fly to Miami and be with that guy who's telling me to come here or, you know.
00:01:53.040 But that's the worst possible belief system to hold because that's not going to yield the results you truly want on a long term basis.
00:01:58.560 I know, but that is what women think because that's why they can now just go get any guy they want.
00:02:04.760 That's not an accomplishment though.
00:02:06.500 That's a pretty way to put it.
00:02:07.980 I would say the more dicks a woman takes, the more masculine she becomes.
00:02:12.540 Wow.
00:02:13.120 Of course.
00:02:14.640 I mean, but you guys think that, but I'm telling you how the women think.
00:02:17.700 That's what it is.
00:02:19.060 That's what it should be.
00:02:20.400 Yeah, well, that's what it should be.
00:02:21.540 I've mapped out a very nice modern dating market here.
00:02:25.020 So these are the, this is the sex.
00:02:27.080 Okay.
00:02:27.300 This is the sex happening.
00:02:28.740 So these are the hottest people and these are the ugliest people.
00:02:33.100 Okay.
00:02:33.400 So the problem we have is this guy fucking all the way down here.
00:02:38.440 And then these women are like, oh my God, why do I always like men that don't like me back?
00:02:44.020 Well, it's because you're shooting too high, sweetheart.
00:02:45.880 Then we have the second guy, right?
00:02:51.540 So then it's like the women are like, oh my God, I always just love the assholes.
00:02:57.160 No, you just like the men that are out of your league.
00:03:00.640 Yeah.
00:03:00.940 So that's her right here.
00:03:02.920 She's saying, I love assholes.
00:03:04.500 I love bad guys.
00:03:06.020 Yeah.
00:03:06.240 They usually, because again, what, what incentive do these guys have to stop sleeping with everybody?
00:03:11.620 They're all there.
00:03:12.940 None.
00:03:13.500 Like, I mean, come on.
00:03:15.400 What about the girls that are like deemed to be in that caliber or like that league of the high men?
00:03:21.540 Oh, okay.
00:03:22.080 So I'll tell you what happens.
00:03:24.220 They typically have the same results because they're still going after the man horse.
00:03:28.300 They might, they might get the commitment in the end.
00:03:31.100 But I mean, look at what happened to Logan Paul's girlfriend.
00:03:34.460 Oh God.
00:03:34.820 I mean, she was a top, a top lady.
00:03:37.120 I mean, when, when the top women are around all these top men all the time, that's tough.
00:03:41.900 That's tough.
00:03:42.360 I mean, it's hard for them to not be whores.
00:03:45.860 You know, I just wanted to say, because you were saying that women think that they should have experience.
00:03:50.140 But I don't know about what other the guys think.
00:03:52.200 But I know that if I meet someone and the girl's doing bits, in my head, I'm like, yo, you've slept with loads of people.
00:03:58.020 Yeah.
00:03:58.280 I'm not really on it too.
00:03:59.320 So you're having the opposite effect.
00:04:00.820 You think you need to do that.
00:04:02.100 We're thinking, wow.
00:04:03.080 Yeah.
00:04:03.440 That's what girls are thinking.
00:04:04.940 They actually think the guy might judge me or something like that.
00:04:08.240 There are actually, a lot of girls are really uncomfortable to have that conversation with guys.
00:04:11.520 But if you're not good, I'm like, wow, that means you ain't been with a lot of people.
00:04:14.740 That's a good thing.
00:04:15.520 Exactly.
00:04:15.900 From a long term point, I'm saying.
00:04:17.720 What if she has been with a lot of people?
00:04:19.180 She's just bad.
00:04:19.400 No, no, that's true.
00:04:20.300 But obviously, let's be honest.
00:04:22.240 If you've been with a lot of men, you probably know how to do some stuff.
00:04:24.700 I don't believe this because if women really were afraid of like not having enough experience,
00:04:32.360 they wouldn't call women whores.
00:04:34.080 Yeah.
00:04:34.540 Yeah.
00:04:34.800 You know what I mean?
00:04:35.100 Like we know that's a bad thing because that's the first thing we call each other.
00:04:38.080 Yeah.
00:04:38.480 But women are also afraid to be super open with their girlfriends.
00:04:43.660 What does that have to do with anything?
00:04:45.240 Well, like you said, you know, they, why would they, what did you say?
00:04:49.800 Sorry.
00:04:52.480 I swear it made sense in my mind.
00:04:55.740 You were saying that the women, like they are like nervous because they don't have enough experience for the men.
00:05:03.080 And I'm saying if that was true, we wouldn't call each other whores.
00:05:05.840 Yeah.
00:05:06.080 So we know it's a bad thing.
00:05:07.580 Yeah.
00:05:07.940 Men leave women for others that are more experienced.
00:05:12.100 I'll explain this.
00:05:15.100 So, so the women, this is what will happen.
00:05:16.860 Okay.
00:05:17.200 So the, the, the girls down here will say, what, this guy totally left me for a whore.
00:05:22.980 And the truth of the matter is she was just hotter than you.
00:05:26.620 Yeah.
00:05:27.060 Hot chicks get to get away with stuff that the mid chicks do not.
00:05:31.540 Us women like, okay, men know that if a rich guy is being a dick, he gets to get away with it.
00:05:38.200 Why do we think we're all created equal?
00:05:40.080 The hot chicks get to do more.
00:05:42.720 I just think men and women, but I think men and women both just give such mixed signals in my opinion.
00:05:48.840 Not men, not men.
00:05:49.920 No, no, you do.
00:05:50.820 You do because you said, look, you just said you want that good girl.
00:05:54.760 You just basically said what you said just now.
00:05:56.740 You, the men actually are thinking, no, she's too experienced, blah, blah, blah.
00:05:59.580 But then you're saying he's gone off with the hot whore.
00:06:02.200 Okay, so it's like, no, no, that's not what I said.
00:06:04.840 Just to have sex with, not, I understand what you're saying.
00:06:08.240 No, I feel so confused.
00:06:08.740 No, that's not what I said.
00:06:10.260 I said sometimes the whores get away with it.
00:06:12.660 No, but she said that's what we hear all the time.
00:06:14.840 No, no, no.
00:06:15.680 No, I say women will always think of the example of a whore that got away with it.
00:06:20.000 And typically the reason they got away with it is because they're hotter.
00:06:23.600 Sometimes they get away with it.
00:06:25.360 But in general, a pure hot chick over a whore hot chick, the man's taking the pure hot chick.
00:06:30.700 Okay, so then why aren't men complaining about purity and all this stuff?
00:06:34.240 When they'll just go with the whore?
00:06:36.100 No, but they don't like it.
00:06:38.320 Explain it to me because these men are actually marrying these women that they say they're not going to stay committed to.
00:06:46.820 Because they're probably, like she's saying, because they're very, very good looking.
00:06:50.240 So sometimes they want to flex.
00:06:54.060 They want to flex like, I want to have a hot chick on their side.
00:06:56.660 So a female should stay a virgin, do everything for a man, for the man to go and cheat with her.
00:07:02.300 Men have to do everything to be successful.
00:07:04.440 So we both have our struggles.
00:07:06.040 So how are you pair bonded?
00:07:07.100 We both have our struggles.
00:07:07.960 And how are you going to pair bond properly of your wife and make sure that you're assessing to all her needs and being there properly for her as a man while you're shagging all these girls?
00:07:14.380 No, because we have a higher threshold of pair bonding.
00:07:16.040 It doesn't matter.
00:07:16.880 It does matter.
00:07:17.800 That's the whole point.
00:07:18.860 Yeah, because females walk away because they can feel that.
00:07:21.100 You think as a female you can't feel when your man's been out sleeping with people because you can.
00:07:25.080 I guess when they've cheated, before they've ever cheated.
00:07:27.880 Yeah, female intuition.
00:07:28.860 Women don't care.
00:07:30.000 Women don't care about...
00:07:30.920 If you want your man shagging everyone, that's on you.
00:07:33.620 If women cared, then they wouldn't keep sleeping with the top guys.
00:07:37.580 But all the data's showing us we're all sleeping with the same guys.
00:07:41.360 No, men.
00:07:42.120 Girls that are hoes don't care about getting married by this top 1%.
00:07:46.000 But that's why I bring back to the point that all women pretty much on the dating market are hoes because, again, according to the data, if you've slept with three men...
00:07:55.060 So then men need to just stay away from them and look for virgins then?
00:07:58.380 Wait, wait, wait.
00:07:58.540 Yeah, exactly.
00:07:59.720 Well, not stay away.
00:08:00.720 Just not commit.
00:08:01.700 Just not commit.
00:08:02.240 I actually agree with you.
00:08:04.420 I think men need to take one route and just go down that route and stop, like, saying, okay, but actually don't make exceptions for the whole girl.
00:08:11.920 Why are you making exceptions for the whole girl?
00:08:14.260 I say that men should treat the whores like whores and treat the virgins like whores.
00:08:18.380 Yeah, but not be a virgin, but shag a whore.
00:08:20.700 Hold on.
00:08:21.200 No, no, no.
00:08:21.780 The problem, the real virgins that want to wait till they're married will wait till they're married.
00:08:26.560 Okay, but if she's a whore and she's hot, it's fine, yeah?
00:08:30.320 No, I know.
00:08:30.920 So say a virgin, but your mom's going to shag a whore.
00:08:33.620 Guys, guys, guys, guys, wait, wait, wait.
00:08:36.000 So, men will accept it sometimes, but it's the exception.
00:08:40.160 It's not the rule.
00:08:41.240 Okay, but that's why girls are having confusion.
00:08:44.360 That's why the women have confusion.
00:08:45.420 But from a guy's point of view, only 4% of women wait until they're married.
00:08:50.360 But that's why girls don't.
00:08:51.300 Who is he, who, no, no, no.
00:08:52.780 Who is he going to pick?
00:08:54.920 Yeah, he'll pick the virgin and then sleep with a whore.
00:08:57.360 That's why you're starting to see the trend.
00:08:59.520 And that's why you're starting to see the trend of men not getting into long-term relationships.
00:09:04.840 And same with women.
00:09:05.600 Women don't want to be cheated on.
00:09:06.740 A man doing situationships.
00:09:07.680 Yeah.
00:09:08.060 I actually agree with you.
00:09:09.620 Now, but you know why you're missing it, though?
00:09:11.040 Who have made the whore a whore primarily?
00:09:12.400 No, no, no.
00:09:13.160 But you're missing it.
00:09:13.900 That's what I was about to say.
00:09:14.960 Women make themselves bullshit.
00:09:18.060 No, but you, like, control it.
00:09:19.520 No, no.
00:09:19.900 Let me tell you why.
00:09:21.200 Because if all you, if every single woman turned around and said, look, unless you put
00:09:25.360 a ring on it, I'm not having sex with you.
00:09:26.600 We would adapt to them.
00:09:27.500 But you'd still sleep with hoaxes.
00:09:28.640 No, we wouldn't.
00:09:29.500 Because you can't.
00:09:30.140 You control it.
00:09:30.920 No, I'm saying.
00:09:31.780 I'm saying.
00:09:33.220 I have a solution for the next round of women.
00:09:37.300 Obviously, all of us are done.
00:09:39.080 You know what I mean?
00:09:39.940 Like, yeah, no.
00:09:41.880 I mean, look around.
00:09:43.100 Like, the 20s, the 20s, this is for the next generation.
00:09:47.840 Half of us are predicted to be single, childless.
00:09:50.720 Like, what percent of the women that come on the show are really going to get married?
00:09:53.940 Probably most not.
00:09:55.040 But what?
00:09:55.460 This isn't weight.
00:09:56.440 This isn't me.
00:09:59.000 No, guys, this isn't me saying this.
00:10:00.960 This is the data.
00:10:02.020 This is, they're investing in things like cat food, boxed wine, because we're all just
00:10:06.180 kind of done.
00:10:07.120 So I say, you know, let's talk about the next generation of women, because they're the
00:10:11.100 only ones that can, like, fix this thing.
00:10:12.780 So I say, if the next generation of women said, we're not going to shoot too high, so
00:10:18.720 we're going to stop, like, obviously, Brad Pitt doesn't want me.
00:10:22.620 I'm average.
00:10:23.740 Okay?
00:10:24.140 When we stop looking and say, let me date all the athletes, all the musicians, all that
00:10:29.680 stuff, and just said, look, I'm going to wait till I'm married for my look match.
00:10:34.340 So here, here.
00:10:36.200 Like, you do the Snapchat filter on yourself.
00:10:38.740 Would you date it?
00:10:39.540 If the answer is no, you're shooting too high, sweetie.
00:10:42.880 So, yeah, and I think that would solve a lot.
00:10:45.660 But the answer, the answer still is to wait for the ring, because then that will automatically
00:10:49.760 tell you what your level is.
00:10:51.300 Yes.
00:10:51.900 Because if Brad Pitt doesn't propose to you, then he's not your level.
00:10:54.720 But he can propose to you, and he's still going to sleep with the girls that don't want
00:10:57.700 to be like that.
00:10:58.380 But you're missing it.
00:10:59.200 If they don't sleep with anybody and say, I'm not sleeping with you.
00:11:02.440 You're saying every girl says, no, I'm not sleeping with you.
00:11:04.980 No, what I'm saying is that the men will adapt to the market.
00:11:07.300 If all the women say no.
00:11:08.620 To sleep with you, we had to put a ring on it.
00:11:10.480 That's why we need to get married.
00:11:11.220 But why can't men adapt to the market?
00:11:11.580 Now we don't need to.
00:11:12.600 So hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:11:13.680 So basically, what he's trying to say, right, is that women set the standard.
00:11:17.620 Okay?
00:11:17.880 Because as men, we pursue you, right?
00:11:19.400 And we care about sexual access, right?
00:11:21.100 Women set the standard, okay?
00:11:22.820 At the moment, the standard isn't a ring.
00:11:25.740 It's not even commitment.
00:11:27.280 Okay?
00:11:27.500 And he's saying if every, if the majority, it doesn't have to be every woman, right?
00:11:31.100 If the majority of women had the standard of, if you're going to be sexually intimate
00:11:35.260 with me, I need a level of exclusivity and commitment, men would adapt to the market.
00:11:39.460 This is men adapting to the market.
00:11:40.920 Because sexual access is so easy now, this is why a guy can go, I'm going to have my main
00:11:45.400 chick here, and I'm going to sleep with all these girls.
00:11:47.760 Because that's the market right now.
00:11:49.180 Because we can't, do you see what I'm saying?