JustPearlyThings - August 29, 2023


Pearl BREAKS DOWN Polygamy To Boss Babe


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In this episode we discuss how women have sex with lots of men and why it gives them confidence to go out there and get the guy they want. We also talk about the women that are considered to be in the top men's league and why they tend to get the most out of them.

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00:00:00.000 I also think that when when women are having sex with a lot of men, it almost gives the woman like this. 0.74
00:00:10.400 I don't want to say power, but I would say it sort of gives this woman like a boost of confidence because now she can sort of go out there and get the guy. 0.94
00:00:20.380 Because you've got to think as women, all we really need to do is dress good, give the guy sex and that's it. 1.00
00:00:26.400 And then we can get access to all these things.
00:00:28.620 But we can get that screen.
00:00:29.720 So as so the woman's thinking when she's had sex with all those parts, she's kind of has all that experience.
00:00:35.500 She can now go and find like that high value man and like get him whipped. 1.00
00:00:41.420 You know what I mean?
00:00:42.280 That's how women think, you know, because now she's got a lot of numbers and it's like she's been there. 1.00
00:00:48.260 She's got that experience.
00:00:49.360 Whereas a girl who maybe doesn't have any experience, she will actually stick with that guy. 0.99
00:00:54.600 And she will, yeah, because he makes her feel safe and she's maybe a little bit scared to try outside.
00:01:01.080 So are you saying that they want, they think that men want a woman who does have a lot of experience?
00:01:07.180 Some do.
00:01:07.660 Specific type of men.
00:01:09.760 So it depends on the men that that type of woman is looking for. 1.00
00:01:14.140 So we're going to talk about the high value men or these famous actors or celebrities.
00:01:20.600 We see it in the media all the time.
00:01:22.360 I don't think Leonardo DiCaprio is sitting with a virgin right now. 0.94
00:01:25.920 Let's be real.
00:01:26.500 But it's also about what they want them for.
00:01:29.580 It's not necessarily for a long term.
00:01:31.460 Yeah, but we're talking about.
00:01:32.720 But you're also going to see a trend of men just not getting married.
00:01:35.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:36.100 And you're going to see those top guys just.
00:01:37.840 Absolutely.
00:01:38.260 But what we're talking about is what that does to a woman when she's had sex with loads of different guys.
00:01:43.180 It gives her this kind of like I've got experience.
00:01:47.880 I can now go fly to Miami and be with that guy who's telling me to come here or, you know.
00:01:53.040 But that's the worst possible belief system to hold because that's not going to yield the results you truly want on a long term basis.
00:01:58.560 I know, but that is what women think because that's why they can now just go get any guy they want. 1.00
00:02:04.760 That's not an accomplishment though.
00:02:06.500 That's a pretty way to put it.
00:02:07.980 I would say the more dicks a woman takes, the more masculine she becomes. 1.00
00:02:12.540 Wow.
00:02:13.120 Of course.
00:02:14.640 I mean, but you guys think that, but I'm telling you how the women think. 1.00
00:02:17.700 That's what it is.
00:02:19.060 That's what it should be.
00:02:20.400 Yeah, well, that's what it should be.
00:02:21.540 I've mapped out a very nice modern dating market here.
00:02:25.020 So these are the, this is the sex. 0.81
00:02:27.080 Okay.
00:02:27.300 This is the sex happening.
00:02:28.740 So these are the hottest people and these are the ugliest people.
00:02:33.100 Okay.
00:02:33.400 So the problem we have is this guy fucking all the way down here.
00:02:38.440 And then these women are like, oh my God, why do I always like men that don't like me back?
00:02:44.020 Well, it's because you're shooting too high, sweetheart.
00:02:45.880 Then we have the second guy, right?
00:02:51.540 So then it's like the women are like, oh my God, I always just love the assholes. 1.00
00:02:57.160 No, you just like the men that are out of your league.
00:03:00.640 Yeah.
00:03:00.940 So that's her right here. 0.93
00:03:02.920 She's saying, I love assholes.
00:03:04.500 I love bad guys.
00:03:06.020 Yeah.
00:03:06.240 They usually, because again, what, what incentive do these guys have to stop sleeping with everybody?
00:03:11.620 They're all there.
00:03:12.940 None.
00:03:13.500 Like, I mean, come on.
00:03:15.400 What about the girls that are like deemed to be in that caliber or like that league of the high men?
00:03:21.540 Oh, okay.
00:03:22.080 So I'll tell you what happens.
00:03:24.220 They typically have the same results because they're still going after the man horse.
00:03:28.300 They might, they might get the commitment in the end.
00:03:31.100 But I mean, look at what happened to Logan Paul's girlfriend.
00:03:34.460 Oh God.
00:03:34.820 I mean, she was a top, a top lady. 1.00
00:03:37.120 I mean, when, when the top women are around all these top men all the time, that's tough.
00:03:41.900 That's tough.
00:03:42.360 I mean, it's hard for them to not be whores. 1.00
00:03:45.860 You know, I just wanted to say, because you were saying that women think that they should have experience. 0.98
00:03:50.140 But I don't know about what other the guys think.
00:03:52.200 But I know that if I meet someone and the girl's doing bits, in my head, I'm like, yo, you've slept with loads of people.
00:03:58.020 Yeah.
00:03:58.280 I'm not really on it too.
00:03:59.320 So you're having the opposite effect.
00:04:00.820 You think you need to do that.
00:04:02.100 We're thinking, wow.
00:04:03.080 Yeah.
00:04:03.440 That's what girls are thinking. 1.00
00:04:04.940 They actually think the guy might judge me or something like that.
00:04:08.240 There are actually, a lot of girls are really uncomfortable to have that conversation with guys.
00:04:11.520 But if you're not good, I'm like, wow, that means you ain't been with a lot of people.
00:04:14.740 That's a good thing.
00:04:15.520 Exactly.
00:04:15.900 From a long term point, I'm saying.
00:04:17.720 What if she has been with a lot of people?
00:04:19.180 She's just bad.
00:04:19.400 No, no, that's true.
00:04:20.300 But obviously, let's be honest.
00:04:22.240 If you've been with a lot of men, you probably know how to do some stuff.
00:04:24.700 I don't believe this because if women really were afraid of like not having enough experience, 1.00
00:04:32.360 they wouldn't call women whores.
00:04:34.080 Yeah.
00:04:34.540 Yeah.
00:04:34.800 You know what I mean?
00:04:35.100 Like we know that's a bad thing because that's the first thing we call each other.
00:04:38.080 Yeah.
00:04:38.480 But women are also afraid to be super open with their girlfriends. 1.00
00:04:43.660 What does that have to do with anything?
00:04:45.240 Well, like you said, you know, they, why would they, what did you say?
00:04:49.800 Sorry.
00:04:52.480 I swear it made sense in my mind.
00:04:55.740 You were saying that the women, like they are like nervous because they don't have enough experience for the men. 0.76
00:05:03.080 And I'm saying if that was true, we wouldn't call each other whores.
00:05:05.840 Yeah.
00:05:06.080 So we know it's a bad thing.
00:05:07.580 Yeah.
00:05:07.940 Men leave women for others that are more experienced. 0.89
00:05:12.100 I'll explain this.
00:05:15.100 So, so the women, this is what will happen. 1.00
00:05:16.860 Okay.
00:05:17.200 So the, the, the girls down here will say, what, this guy totally left me for a whore. 1.00
00:05:22.980 And the truth of the matter is she was just hotter than you.
00:05:26.620 Yeah.
00:05:27.060 Hot chicks get to get away with stuff that the mid chicks do not. 1.00
00:05:31.540 Us women like, okay, men know that if a rich guy is being a dick, he gets to get away with it.
00:05:38.200 Why do we think we're all created equal?
00:05:40.080 The hot chicks get to do more. 1.00
00:05:42.720 I just think men and women, but I think men and women both just give such mixed signals in my opinion.
00:05:48.840 Not men, not men.
00:05:49.920 No, no, you do.
00:05:50.820 You do because you said, look, you just said you want that good girl.
00:05:54.760 You just basically said what you said just now.
00:05:56.740 You, the men actually are thinking, no, she's too experienced, blah, blah, blah.
00:05:59.580 But then you're saying he's gone off with the hot whore. 0.74
00:06:02.200 Okay, so it's like, no, no, that's not what I said.
00:06:04.840 Just to have sex with, not, I understand what you're saying. 0.50
00:06:08.240 No, I feel so confused.
00:06:08.740 No, that's not what I said.
00:06:10.260 I said sometimes the whores get away with it. 1.00
00:06:12.660 No, but she said that's what we hear all the time.
00:06:14.840 No, no, no.
00:06:15.680 No, I say women will always think of the example of a whore that got away with it. 1.00
00:06:20.000 And typically the reason they got away with it is because they're hotter.
00:06:23.600 Sometimes they get away with it.
00:06:25.360 But in general, a pure hot chick over a whore hot chick, the man's taking the pure hot chick. 0.97
00:06:30.700 Okay, so then why aren't men complaining about purity and all this stuff?
00:06:34.240 When they'll just go with the whore? 1.00
00:06:36.100 No, but they don't like it.
00:06:38.320 Explain it to me because these men are actually marrying these women that they say they're not going to stay committed to.
00:06:46.820 Because they're probably, like she's saying, because they're very, very good looking.
00:06:50.240 So sometimes they want to flex.
00:06:54.060 They want to flex like, I want to have a hot chick on their side. 1.00
00:06:56.660 So a female should stay a virgin, do everything for a man, for the man to go and cheat with her. 1.00
00:07:02.300 Men have to do everything to be successful.
00:07:04.440 So we both have our struggles.
00:07:06.040 So how are you pair bonded?
00:07:07.100 We both have our struggles.
00:07:07.960 And how are you going to pair bond properly of your wife and make sure that you're assessing to all her needs and being there properly for her as a man while you're shagging all these girls? 0.99
00:07:14.380 No, because we have a higher threshold of pair bonding.
00:07:16.040 It doesn't matter.
00:07:16.880 It does matter.
00:07:17.800 That's the whole point.
00:07:18.860 Yeah, because females walk away because they can feel that. 1.00
00:07:21.100 You think as a female you can't feel when your man's been out sleeping with people because you can. 1.00
00:07:25.080 I guess when they've cheated, before they've ever cheated.
00:07:27.880 Yeah, female intuition.
00:07:28.860 Women don't care. 1.00
00:07:30.000 Women don't care about... 1.00
00:07:30.920 If you want your man shagging everyone, that's on you.
00:07:33.620 If women cared, then they wouldn't keep sleeping with the top guys. 1.00
00:07:37.580 But all the data's showing us we're all sleeping with the same guys.
00:07:41.360 No, men.
00:07:42.120 Girls that are hoes don't care about getting married by this top 1%. 1.00
00:07:46.000 But that's why I bring back to the point that all women pretty much on the dating market are hoes because, again, according to the data, if you've slept with three men... 1.00
00:07:55.060 So then men need to just stay away from them and look for virgins then? 1.00
00:07:58.380 Wait, wait, wait.
00:07:58.540 Yeah, exactly.
00:07:59.720 Well, not stay away.
00:08:00.720 Just not commit.
00:08:01.700 Just not commit.
00:08:02.240 I actually agree with you.
00:08:04.420 I think men need to take one route and just go down that route and stop, like, saying, okay, but actually don't make exceptions for the whole girl.
00:08:11.920 Why are you making exceptions for the whole girl?
00:08:14.260 I say that men should treat the whores like whores and treat the virgins like whores. 1.00
00:08:18.380 Yeah, but not be a virgin, but shag a whore. 1.00
00:08:20.700 Hold on.
00:08:21.200 No, no, no.
00:08:21.780 The problem, the real virgins that want to wait till they're married will wait till they're married. 1.00
00:08:26.560 Okay, but if she's a whore and she's hot, it's fine, yeah? 1.00
00:08:30.320 No, I know.
00:08:30.920 So say a virgin, but your mom's going to shag a whore. 1.00
00:08:33.620 Guys, guys, guys, guys, wait, wait, wait.
00:08:36.000 So, men will accept it sometimes, but it's the exception.
00:08:40.160 It's not the rule.
00:08:41.240 Okay, but that's why girls are having confusion. 1.00
00:08:44.360 That's why the women have confusion. 1.00
00:08:45.420 But from a guy's point of view, only 4% of women wait until they're married. 0.99
00:08:50.360 But that's why girls don't. 1.00
00:08:51.300 Who is he, who, no, no, no.
00:08:52.780 Who is he going to pick?
00:08:54.920 Yeah, he'll pick the virgin and then sleep with a whore. 1.00
00:08:57.360 That's why you're starting to see the trend.
00:08:59.520 And that's why you're starting to see the trend of men not getting into long-term relationships.
00:09:04.840 And same with women. 1.00
00:09:05.600 Women don't want to be cheated on. 1.00
00:09:06.740 A man doing situationships. 0.92
00:09:07.680 Yeah.
00:09:08.060 I actually agree with you.
00:09:09.620 Now, but you know why you're missing it, though?
00:09:11.040 Who have made the whore a whore primarily? 1.00
00:09:12.400 No, no, no.
00:09:13.160 But you're missing it.
00:09:13.900 That's what I was about to say.
00:09:14.960 Women make themselves bullshit. 1.00
00:09:18.060 No, but you, like, control it.
00:09:19.520 No, no.
00:09:19.900 Let me tell you why.
00:09:21.200 Because if all you, if every single woman turned around and said, look, unless you put
00:09:25.360 a ring on it, I'm not having sex with you. 0.98
00:09:26.600 We would adapt to them.
00:09:27.500 But you'd still sleep with hoaxes.
00:09:28.640 No, we wouldn't.
00:09:29.500 Because you can't.
00:09:30.140 You control it.
00:09:30.920 No, I'm saying.
00:09:31.780 I'm saying.
00:09:33.220 I have a solution for the next round of women. 1.00
00:09:37.300 Obviously, all of us are done.
00:09:39.080 You know what I mean?
00:09:39.940 Like, yeah, no.
00:09:41.880 I mean, look around.
00:09:43.100 Like, the 20s, the 20s, this is for the next generation. 0.97
00:09:47.840 Half of us are predicted to be single, childless.
00:09:50.720 Like, what percent of the women that come on the show are really going to get married? 1.00
00:09:53.940 Probably most not.
00:09:55.040 But what?
00:09:55.460 This isn't weight.
00:09:56.440 This isn't me.
00:09:59.000 No, guys, this isn't me saying this.
00:10:00.960 This is the data.
00:10:02.020 This is, they're investing in things like cat food, boxed wine, because we're all just
00:10:06.180 kind of done.
00:10:07.120 So I say, you know, let's talk about the next generation of women, because they're the 1.00
00:10:11.100 only ones that can, like, fix this thing.
00:10:12.780 So I say, if the next generation of women said, we're not going to shoot too high, so 1.00
00:10:18.720 we're going to stop, like, obviously, Brad Pitt doesn't want me.
00:10:22.620 I'm average.
00:10:23.740 Okay?
00:10:24.140 When we stop looking and say, let me date all the athletes, all the musicians, all that
00:10:29.680 stuff, and just said, look, I'm going to wait till I'm married for my look match.
00:10:34.340 So here, here.
00:10:36.200 Like, you do the Snapchat filter on yourself.
00:10:38.740 Would you date it?
00:10:39.540 If the answer is no, you're shooting too high, sweetie.
00:10:42.880 So, yeah, and I think that would solve a lot.
00:10:45.660 But the answer, the answer still is to wait for the ring, because then that will automatically
00:10:49.760 tell you what your level is.
00:10:51.300 Yes.
00:10:51.900 Because if Brad Pitt doesn't propose to you, then he's not your level.
00:10:54.720 But he can propose to you, and he's still going to sleep with the girls that don't want 0.69
00:10:57.700 to be like that.
00:10:58.380 But you're missing it.
00:10:59.200 If they don't sleep with anybody and say, I'm not sleeping with you.
00:11:02.440 You're saying every girl says, no, I'm not sleeping with you. 0.99
00:11:04.980 No, what I'm saying is that the men will adapt to the market.
00:11:07.300 If all the women say no. 0.51
00:11:08.620 To sleep with you, we had to put a ring on it. 0.73
00:11:10.480 That's why we need to get married. 1.00
00:11:11.220 But why can't men adapt to the market?
00:11:11.580 Now we don't need to.
00:11:12.600 So hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:11:13.680 So basically, what he's trying to say, right, is that women set the standard.
00:11:17.620 Okay?
00:11:17.880 Because as men, we pursue you, right?
00:11:19.400 And we care about sexual access, right?
00:11:21.100 Women set the standard, okay? 1.00
00:11:22.820 At the moment, the standard isn't a ring.
00:11:25.740 It's not even commitment.
00:11:27.280 Okay?
00:11:27.500 And he's saying if every, if the majority, it doesn't have to be every woman, right?
00:11:31.100 If the majority of women had the standard of, if you're going to be sexually intimate 0.98
00:11:35.260 with me, I need a level of exclusivity and commitment, men would adapt to the market.
00:11:39.460 This is men adapting to the market.
00:11:40.920 Because sexual access is so easy now, this is why a guy can go, I'm going to have my main
00:11:45.400 chick here, and I'm going to sleep with all these girls. 1.00
00:11:47.760 Because that's the market right now.
00:11:49.180 Because we can't, do you see what I'm saying?