JustPearlyThings - Pearl Broke their Hearts With This Fact

00:00:00.000 um when it goes back to what you just asked um i agree with you um i don't have any parents in

00:00:07.120 my life mom or dad um i had a mom who played a woman and a father um but i think when it comes

00:00:16.360 to relationships and what you choose i think it comes to choices and what you learn i think the

00:00:21.760 world i think that's quite big to be honest but i think just like learning from people around you

00:00:27.680 you just kind of sit back and be like do i like that do i accept that um and i think it's just

00:00:34.760 choice really what makes you happy and you just build yourself if that makes sense like with me

00:00:39.620 i think love's beautiful i would love yeah i would love to get married and it's not just

00:00:45.360 marriage you know i understand where you're coming from it's like signing a paper and i get where you

00:00:50.840 where like you come from i understand that but i feel like there's someone out there for everyone

00:00:57.040 i agree you know yeah and i yeah i agree with you and i think i would love to get that

00:01:02.060 opportunity why do you think that why because what was that i didn't even hear it oh there's not

00:01:09.640 there's not someone for everyone why yeah because some women die alone a lot of women do they do all 1.00

00:01:15.720 the time some men die alone but how do you know they didn't have the love of their life yeah

00:01:19.660 and they lost it yeah because one out of three men are sex because karma

00:01:24.420 one out of three men are either virgins or having sex in the past year plus there's more women than 0.91

00:01:33.380 men but they lost the love of their life because of karma because of what no no there's there's more

00:01:39.040 women than men on the planet so if every woman had someone there would be eat 50 50 but there's also 1.00

00:01:44.760 there are people like me can i ask you a question do you see yourself sorry a bit off topic but i'm

00:01:55.660 just quite curious would you do you see yourself marrying a man or not like again i would only ever

00:02:01.400 get married if that other person really wanted it but i i've actually this is probably the first time

00:02:06.760 i've ever openly come out as bisexual like publicly um but yeah i mean i yeah either way if it's the if

00:02:19.660 it met a lot to the other person and i you know felt like it i was in a position in my life to be

00:02:27.000 like that's really if that means so much to you i want to be able to give that to you would you marry a 0.87

00:02:31.660 woman yeah yeah why me but i i again it wouldn't be because i want to even with the nagging

00:02:41.060 i nag to myself that's enough sometimes who here thinks i just want to raise a hand who thinks good

00:02:50.500 wives don't leave you do everyone else thinks good wives leave oh actually wait no good good wives

00:02:57.300 will never leave good good wives you you think that i don't think you're no you're not a wife if

00:03:03.860 you leave i think if you sign up for something you're not you're no longer a wife if you leave

00:03:11.360 are you you're no longer so so you're neither someone else wife yeah but you're not in that

00:03:17.200 situation you're no longer the wife to be a good wife so are you a good wife i'm just gonna i just

00:03:21.600 kind of want to break this down okay this is why men are complaining it's like they maybe get one

00:03:25.780 meal from a good wife and she's she's okay to leave if she feels like it and we fight i mean 1.00

00:03:31.640 he's okay to leave as well like it's a two issue i mean like it's not i mean but but the thing is we

00:03:37.380 don't have anything on the line if a man marries you you i'm doing a documentary on the court system

00:03:42.340 here you you literally are paid like lawyers um you are you get a free counsel here if you say that

00:03:50.300 he abused you and you can deny him access for his kids up to two years trying to get like he doesn't

00:03:55.840 have a chance in court vice versa though no it's not vice no no but vice versa it's so much harsher

00:04:01.560 on the man isn't it no it's so it's so much harsher on the man to the point 90 of the time um women 0.97

00:04:06.820 get custody yeah and it's actually like it's actually a really it's really sad i'm interviewing

00:04:12.300 some of the guys that have like been through it it's it's there are guys that haven't seen their

00:04:16.780 kid in four years because their ex accused them of abuse and they never did it there's no proof

00:04:21.700 there's no how'd you know they didn't do it because there's no proof that doesn't mean anything

00:04:25.420 that doesn't it doesn't mean that they do something or they okay you think it's do you think it's okay

00:04:30.860 to deny access to children with no evidence of a crime no evidence they never press charges no evidence

00:04:39.440 i think it very much depends we should just take take women's word amber heard's word 1.00

00:04:44.160 oh that's another that's another thing

00:04:47.640 so it's like what are guys getting out of this and is it is it just um is it just when you say

00:04:56.680 abuse is it is it also like mental coercion as well yeah and they're expanding that's what they're

00:05:00.660 doing they're expanding the definition of abuse so if a girl says oh i want to buy two thousand 0.62

00:05:05.060 dollars worth of addresses and he says no that he can put that under like mental

00:05:08.500 financial coercion or something or if he said if he said oh stop following guys on instagram or

00:05:14.700 something that could be seen as manipulation yeah it's really scary the more there's this one story

00:05:19.620 where the woman um accused him of of touching the kids and remember oh my god remember remember

00:05:24.860 they're financially incentivized to do that and then what they can do is they go to family court and

00:05:29.460 in family court you don't actually have a jury to judge you of your peers which you should be entitled

00:05:33.960 to and so they can go to family court and deny you access to your kids until they actually um

00:05:40.360 finish yeah and that can take up to two years so if he has a newborn he won't see the kid for two

00:05:46.120 years and she has no punishment if she lied like this is what men are this is what men have to deal

00:05:51.900 with here and it's like if she lied honestly i feel like she should have punishment that that should be

00:05:56.420 happened to him he killed himself oh well but they but they women do get punished for for example like 1.00

00:06:02.960 i don't really know but if like she accuses the man of like not in family court sexually assaulting

00:06:09.600 no they don't in family court i'm telling you i've interviewed the guys that they don't

00:06:13.780 it's really sad and so it's like the guys are like well what do we get out of this

00:06:17.700 and we can't even like admit we can't even say what's a good wife what's a bad wife 0.87

00:06:21.740 it's really sad yeah because it's different it's too vague it's so vague saying what's a good wife

00:06:28.780 because everyone has their own experiences their own interpretations yeah but we know vaguely what's

00:06:33.820 a good husband what's a bad husband a husband you wouldn't want a husband that like doesn't protect

00:06:37.560 you that if someone tries to beat you up he's like oh go do it yourself babe

00:06:41.060 we could say in generalities that women like men want thin wives in general i mean maybe slim 1.00

00:06:48.640 thick they're allowed to say that if they want to say that they can say that right but i'm saying

00:06:53.300 we can't even say it they can't even get three meals out of us for a good remember i kept saying

00:06:57.620 an a plus student except except you she gives three meals i like cooking so it's like there we go

00:07:06.120 see i feel like you've got to like doing something haven't you to be like it's like the gym isn't it

00:07:11.380 you've got to enjoy it no actually no i mean i work at it so i have to

00:07:14.860 i'm trying i'm trying with the gym shout out to my boxing coach

00:07:21.020 i'm trying to remember i'm watching this like good i keep it sorry thank you all right i'm gonna read

00:07:28.820 super chats really quick um also guys make sure you like the video and let me know in the comments

00:07:33.800 what do you guys think good wife bad wife what what do you think um makes a good wife okay 0.94

00:07:39.940 see dumbledore half of the girls over 30 are single and childless the percent is rising every year

00:07:45.860 of the six girls on the show at least three of you will die alone

00:07:49.380 oh

00:07:49.800 i hope but this

00:07:52.940 i hope but this

JustPearlyThings - June 07, 2023

Pearl Broke their Hearts With This Fact

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