Pearl CALLS OUT Narcissistic Feminist
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the value of a woman in the dating world and why men are attracted to younger women. We also discuss why men go for younger women because they feel they can be controlled and manipulated.
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okay so so i just want to clarify so you don't care what men want
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and and the way you determine your value is what you say yeah isn't that a bit narcissistic no it's
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not because you only because you only care about yourself and not what anyone else wants no listen
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the point i didn't say just about myself just about the people that actually is in in my small
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circle which is different because when someone comes inside my circles they actually understand
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my value i don't need to explain to them so that's the point the other point obviously i don't i don't
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give a shit about any not offense but really about people that is not in my small circle so like okay
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i'm not vulnerable okay cool like peace like i'm gonna come back to my life i'm gonna go to work
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tomorrow i'm gonna keep paying my bills and and you know what i mean like okay like you won the man
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so you you basically turn into the like this is what girls do though like women turn into the
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men they want to marry so if you're looking for a guy like all the things you i'm not looking for
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a guy no no no i know you're not i'm saying but like typically i'm saying in general i don't know
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you personally but i'm saying in general when women become the men they want to marry so they become
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all the things that like men want because what she just described that's the man like that's a man i
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would date but it's not a woman that's not what men want yeah like a guy that's independent that
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pays his bills like like gets the back i'm like sign me up but to a man that's like that's a red flag
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but you said men don't care what a woman about her career yeah that's what i said so then if
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she's making money getting her bag whatever whatever a man wouldn't care no no no they don't
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care so then her value so then a man will approach her then a man will want her a man can walk into
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tesco and see an attractive girl at the tilt i agree he wants to change her life um a woman will not
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walk into tesco see an attractive man that's what you think i i i get that i agree honestly
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it's not the totality i had i've been in relationship with men that honestly in less than
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me they had absolutely nothing and where are they now what does it mean that i like what about
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other other men that are six foot and they i don't know they're billionaire they anyway
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got like you know if you if you meet a billionaire you're dating a billionaire you fumble the bag
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listen i actually i actually like comparing i probably had more relationship with people that
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you know are less rich than someone that i probably didn't give a chance i didn't give a chance to them
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wait so it's not so you've dated like broke guys is what you're saying i had some not broken but
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broke just they know they don't they don't i wasn't checking them back and count honestly i'm not
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doing it still now do you think you attract feminine guys because you're more masculine uh no i wouldn't
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say feminine honestly just people with balls which is different it's not about yeah it's not about being
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feminine it's about be very confident because when you're standing next to me because i think i'm tough
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i got strong personality you need balls honestly why and someone else who prefer a young lady who doesn't
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work who can be manipulated and can be you know controlled because you are the strong in the
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relationship i need a man it doesn't really is a partnership like we are together we're strong in
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the same way when a man is looking for a younger lady which is virgin who doesn't work probably earning
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less than me it's because they need to feel like they are the strongest one they controlling they controlling
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they taking the power in the relationship you need to be right you're just deciding what you believe
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men no that's my point of view yeah yeah i'm not designing i'm expressing my point of view as you
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know you're deciding what you said i'm not deciding you are you said men go for younger women because
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they feel they're going to control them and manipulate them what if what if what if what if men said that
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about women they would look so stupid if they're like like women like rich guys because they want to
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manipulate and control them people be like that's a cope you just need to go make money and it's the
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same thing when women say things like that to men like you're shaming them shame guilt like this is
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like the common tactics are shame guilt insult wait shame guilt shame insult guilt and need to be right
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yeah no i'm not need to that's the point guys you have like you work like you're working like a horse
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you don't see like on the left and the right yes because i are setting your point of view by you
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saying that i want to control your own man's point of view no wait wait wait wait wait wait
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i never said that i never said that sorry i'm saying you're telling the room how they experienced
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you no no you you telling me if more than one person if more than one person in the room no you guys are
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saying like how a man should look at me no i've never said your name yeah i don't i don't know what you
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do you know honestly when i say to me i'm saying to women because i belong to the actually i don't
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know if you guys realize but yeah i'm a girl so the category of win women no me myself so if you
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belong to women yes and we're talking about what men want from women you then take yourself out of
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belonging to women to say what you are no you you've been doing that no i just i'm standing you just
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said yeah i belong to women right and the discussions we're having is what men want from
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women sorry when you represent the totality of men in this world come out do you represent the
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totality of men in this world insult guilt need to be right no i'm the statistics i don't need to be
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right i don't need to be right like which statistic because like it's based on what like honestly
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statistics all day the majority of the statistics the statistic is right and you come out with the
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best number ever okay let's let's say that okay cool so the majority of men think like you right
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all right cool i'm accepting that you prefer at 20 years old women i just don't give a shit is it clear
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like i don't give a so you can prefer go out with a 20 years old girl have child married uh whatever
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you wish i hope you do i hope you do i hope you do kids go get that 20 year old do you know i'm
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accepting it right cool i just don't give a that's fine as you don't give a about what i think so why
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you cannot just say okay this is just a different point of view as i'm accepting your point of view
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at okay that's cool that's cool for me like you're quite you're quite angry for being cool no i'm
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not no love you can't just get confused between have energy and then i'm pretty energetic i know it
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doesn't seem like i think a bit you know i just wanna like um community trying to communicate my point
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which is different i'm not angry to you or like to anyone else just my point i want to make it clear
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because i think i've been invited for this reason that's the point i'm not angry
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at all like honestly speaking okay all right cool good good it's passionate yeah there we go i'm
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just italian guys give me food and conversation i can do love that okay are men or women the prize
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you're asking the room yeah our men are women the prize go around go around all right cool bet
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give me a second oh women the prize all right so women the prize women are the prize okay wait
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tell me why because they're the ones that we're getting for well me personally i'm getting for the
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woman and i want to go for the women that i believe is the right woman and someone who else many people
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would want okay go ahead no i met at the price um we we run society we keep society going i'm not saying
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women she's gonna go men are the prize we're not the prize okay what do you think men or women who's
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the prize the the prize for like okay wait let me just so are men or women the prize in what sense like
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in the world or in in the dating game in the dating game well women okay women are the prize what do you
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think last 50 50 50. you think like half a woman half a man okay fair enough go ahead men men are the
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prize what do you think auntie's i think men there's more women anyway so i can win me with the prize
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there's so many of them running out around out there it's gotta be men so second question all right do
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women date up or down they date up okay up when they can help it okay do women date up or down uh
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day up yeah i answer for me personally up up okay they date down they sleep up