JustPearlyThings - August 14, 2023


Pearl Calls Simp Out On His LIE


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

214.58887

Word count

2,073

Sentence count

45

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Hate speech

19

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Summary

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In this episode, the guys talk about how women should or shouldn t care about their body count when it comes to sex. We also talk about the dangers of sleeping with more than one person at once and how to deal with it.

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00:00:00.000 And if you think when you want to buy a car or you want to buy clothes or anything you want it not used really
00:00:06.460 Yeah, I want nobody putting dicks in my car 1.00
00:00:13.320 What do you see do you still think body count doesn't matter or do you still same opinion same opinion always to up to the
00:00:20.560 Dad I don't know. I'm just curious like new new information doesn't ever change. You know, it's just I don't care
00:00:27.380 I just don't care. It just doesn't because for a man a man can sleep with what thousand people
00:00:34.500 But that man's not home, but a woman. She's a hoe. Hey, he's the homemaker. He's okay 1.00
00:00:40.200 He's a homemaker, but um, I mean, what's the phrase like a key that opens many locks is a good key
00:00:47.840 Opens for everybody. It's not a good lock. No, also you have to let the men actually in yeah
00:00:53.440 Do you know what I mean? Yeah, it's quite actually a big deal
00:00:57.380 And you know what actually saying you saying that I do understand because it's like a soul tie a little bit
00:01:02.160 I feel like if you do sleep around you're kind of letting people into your that's that's your home
00:01:07.560 You know your body is your home. So I do understand that as well likely to pass on like STD
00:01:11.640 You're more likely to have like one in one in four women have an STD actively. Oh, good. That's fine. Go get that check 0.85
00:01:19.400 Yeah, one in three women have had an abortion too. It's like actually crazy the numbers
00:01:24.860 What's like guys like girls are experienced and it's like 0.97
00:01:32.180 We just went over why are you going back to the
00:01:34.180 No, I'm not even like no, it's like okay, you know what you you this is the problem
00:01:40.340 I feel like it's on men men like you
00:01:43.380 This is what you guys do you're trying to not you don't want the you know the women you want to sleep with or whatever to let here 0.81
00:01:49.780 Here you hear you saying that because you you're like. No, no, no, no, come on
00:01:54.740 But you know deep down you would never take them seriously, so then you mislead us
00:01:59.380 It's misleading to women because you tell women it doesn't matter and then the women say oh, okay 1.00
00:02:05.700 It doesn't matter. They'll go do it
00:02:08.260 But you know it matters. So let's we're not liars on the podcast
00:02:12.260 We're truth-tellers
00:02:14.260 It's confusing though. It's like guys like I think guys will be more likely to keep a girl if they're like
00:02:20.660 Sexually satisfied with that women, you know, and I think girls 1.00
00:02:24.260 That's had like a lot of experience can provide that for guys, but I don't know
00:02:29.620 Can you provide it for her is the question too can I provide it not not sarcastically by the way?
00:02:34.660 Because you don't know the emotional the emotional engagement. She had previously. It's not even about the sex
00:02:38.900 It's about the danger of the sex 0.71
00:02:40.820 But how would you forbidden this of it, right?
00:02:42.820 How would you feel if you got like a woman with like a high body count? 1.00
00:02:46.100 Well, I can tell exactly how I felt I was dating a girl in Texas and I've said this on a podcast once before and she was like
00:02:51.540 Super hot and I was just like wow and I was younger at the time, too
00:02:54.420 So I was like I really valued that as like the number one thing
00:02:57.540 And then and then you know a couple months in the relationship. We had to have a conversation
00:03:00.820 She was like hey, I just need you to know like I didn't know this. I was very naive
00:03:04.020 She's like I'm a stripper 1.00
00:03:06.020 I actually had no idea. I just remember thinking the whole time
00:03:08.180 I was like this checks out a body should be a stripper, right? She was a stripper and then we went to a certain 1.00
00:03:13.540 We went to a sporting event and there were 10 athletes on the on playing and she had slept with eight of them
00:03:19.620 And she told me that she's like I slept with this guy and this guy
00:03:21.700 This is one of those girls that would hunt those kind of professional athletes, right? 1.00
00:03:24.420 Yeah, and I was just like oh, I think my dick just fell off because I was like
00:03:27.940 I don't think I want to you know, I don't think I want to I don't know if it's a competition thing, but like
00:03:33.460 What was her body count?
00:03:35.700 I don't know the exact number, but when you're there's 10 guys on the court
00:03:39.060 And she's been with eight of them. Yeah of the 10. Yeah
00:03:42.180 Well, yeah, she had to have been like if you found out about eight
00:03:45.700 I'd be like 50 or something. Oh, no, it was way more than that
00:03:48.020 I'm sure I'm sure it was because she she actually kept a list of all the famous dudes. She was with
00:03:52.020 Like don't get me wrong. The side the sex was just like mind-blowing fine
00:03:56.180 But i'm thinking like there's no way I would have a daughter with this person
00:03:59.700 There's like a 50 50 roughly chance that one of her is like on the whole way
00:04:03.380 No, wait what's like
00:04:05.380 imagine day in for like
00:04:07.860 Not even day and say you've known this girl for like six years 1.00
00:04:11.620 You thought the world of her right and then
00:04:14.020 All of a sudden like after like six or seven years you found out a body count
00:04:18.820 Would you look at that person differently or would you just be like?
00:04:22.820 Yes, are you just dating her for six years? I say like you're married or anything like even
00:04:29.140 I seen say even like she's your girlfriend, right?
00:04:32.260 And you've known her for six years. This is like has that happened to you?
00:04:35.860 No, no, okay, but
00:04:38.820 Six years is a very specific
00:04:41.300 I think it's a long enough time to not go back
00:04:43.940 And on a thursday she says yeah, but it's like after so long would you look at that person differently knowing that?
00:04:50.740 Oh, body counts like 50. You know, I'm not gonna lie. You would
00:04:54.900 There's no way in hell that you wouldn't like you would you may not say anything
00:04:59.860 But in the back of your mind
00:05:01.860 You're gonna be thinking oh my god
00:05:03.940 She's slept with that many men and then you're now gonna start looking at her differently 0.58
00:05:07.780 So what then tends to happen is that you might now she might say i'm going out with my friends
00:05:12.580 So when she was doing it before you were fine, but when she's now doing it and she's told you a number you're thinking oh is
00:05:20.020 Where she wait where you go particularly like what you gonna do. Yeah, it's an ego thing
00:05:24.580 Yeah, I get you know
00:05:26.580 Sleep
00:05:28.740 Secret that's quite a secret to have
00:05:30.740 I'm just thinking 50 men would you you can't could you go anywhere and not run it?
00:05:35.220 Like this is like the law of something where you're like five connections away from everybody. Is that a thing? Yeah
00:05:43.140 So I'm like 50
00:05:45.220 Did you guys run into like women like men she slept with?
00:05:48.100 Well, we would we would go to sporting events and see them playing sports
00:05:51.300 So that was like kind of weird and you know, it's always the same conversation
00:05:54.100 It's like oh now that you know, like you don't think it's highly of me cry cry cry
00:05:57.220 I'm, like no, no, no, it's fine. I don't care about your past
00:05:59.300 Of course, i'm gonna say it because I want more mind-blowing sex
00:06:02.260 But i'm not gonna put a ring on it because remember market value is not determined, but how long did you date her for about six seven months?
00:06:07.300 Okay, and then you broke it off
00:06:09.300 Um, she'd reappear occasionally in my life since then. I mean up until I you know up until I got very serious with somebody
00:06:15.460 Right, you know
00:06:16.420 It was business is business
00:06:18.020 You could have dated her for six years her thinking you're gonna marry her you knowing that you wouldn't
00:06:24.420 I wasn't gonna do that. No, no, but i'm just saying women don't realize that a man can date you for years and have absolutely no intention of marrying you 0.86
00:06:33.140 He's just waiting until he finds that woman that he will marry and we don't really know that but that's true 1.00
00:06:38.980 Women do the same 1.00
00:06:40.100 They do and I think they're signs anyway
00:06:41.940 I don't think I think that's that's weird. You're describing hypergamy. That's actually very female behavior women 1.00
00:06:47.780 No, no, no, I mean
00:06:50.100 No, I don't mean that
00:06:52.500 No, I
00:06:53.940 I actually agree with him because women leave more we leave like 80 percent of the time 1.00
00:06:57.300 I don't mean leaving I just mean that a man
00:07:00.020 Have you not had boyfriends that now you look back you think actually I thought I broke up with him
00:07:05.460 But he was never gonna marry me you weren't you weren't you weren't his girlfriend you just learned that they weren't your boyfriend
00:07:11.460 oh
00:07:13.460 You know what I mean
00:07:15.460 It's like if a woman is given I'm like over dating but it's like well 0.99
00:07:18.740 Are you dating or are you right?
00:07:20.420 No, I've only ever had like relationship. Well, I've had a situation ship, but you know what I mean is
00:07:26.340 You might think as a girl that you're dating this guy and you may even live together 0.98
00:07:30.900 but
00:07:31.940 That still doesn't mean he has any intention of actually marrying you and you don't know that
00:07:37.540 Happened to you
00:07:39.540 Not what like the the dating someone for a long time and you know I've had several relationships
00:07:44.580 That now I look back. I think actually that was never going anywhere either
00:07:49.060 I always thought it was me deciding that but then you think actually
00:07:53.060 He never was gonna provide any it was time wasting men can waste time
00:07:56.260 Yeah, did he did he end up like marrying someone else right after or did they never get married?
00:08:00.500 I'm a couple of my exes I think a manager
00:08:04.980 Sometimes I think it's like girls will try to make a guy that doesn't want to be a husband a husband 1.00
00:08:08.980 Yeah, I mean, he's just not a husband
00:08:10.820 So I was just curious if the guys like were they not husbands or like they were never gonna marry you to me
00:08:14.980 They weren't I don't actually think they were husbands. I wasn't happy, but
00:08:18.980 but they may well be now this was obviously I'm 35 this was in my 20s early 20s
00:08:28.340 I think that women date potential so me dating someone at my own age at that point might have been the problem 1.00
00:08:34.820 I've not really dated older. I've not really I've been a bit weird about it, but actually maybe that's a better idea
00:08:41.460 Not now my my fiance's younger
00:08:44.980 But I'm just saying that I
00:08:48.020 I've lost my train of thought you know if a guy doesn't get married after the age of 35
00:08:52.100 He only has a 15% chance of ever getting married. Isn't that crazy?
00:08:56.900 For women it's like 0% 1.00
00:08:58.580 Oh, wow. No, I think what is it by if a woman doesn't if a woman doesn't have a child by 35 0.93
00:09:02.980 The chances of her having a child drop to about zero
00:09:05.300 Well, she's single by 30 the chance of her the chance 1.00
00:09:08.100 If she's single at 30 the chance of her ever having like a kid drops below 50% right?
00:09:12.740 So you're like she's more likely to not have a kid than have one
00:09:14.980 What does that tell you about sexual market value of a woman? That's a scary statistic, right? 1.00
00:09:18.500 That's the harsh reality for me. I'm getting married
00:09:20.340 I would like to have kids my partner would like to have kids
00:09:22.500 But I am 35 and the chances and I think that should be taught to
00:09:26.900 So girls because at the moment you see a lot of celebrities they've paid for IVF 1.00
00:09:31.220 They've had their expose and they're doing it older
00:09:32.980 But they've got millions of pounds to achieve things that isn't actually easy to achieve
00:09:37.620 in the real world