JustPearlyThings - Pearl Challenged FEMINST On Sex ED In Schools

00:00:00.000 do you feel like your standards have gotten higher or lower the older you've gotten

00:00:05.620 or the same lower higher higher higher the same the same how have your standards gotten higher

00:00:15.140 for you two like what were your standards before and what are your standards now i don't know before

00:00:19.760 it was just i didn't really think too much into it i would kind of just talk to someone and then

00:00:25.480 accept them as who they are but now it's like i can't just accept them as who they are because

00:00:32.460 it's depending like they could have some sort of issues that i would not necessarily want to deal

00:00:38.580 with and just me growing myself i don't necessarily have time to deal with those things so now i'm just

00:00:44.280 like i have just a certain limit that i yeah okay go ahead sorry mine's quite similar to hers it's

00:00:53.180 more standards in a sense of more patience and just having given time to get to know people and

00:00:59.240 also knowing that you know a lot of things are like the surface level um and that's what most

00:01:04.040 guys are searching for is is the body so just giving our time to get to know someone mentally

00:01:09.860 emotionally more so what'd you say about the body i'm saying that most guys are after you for sex

00:01:17.320 so it's about just knowing that and having that you know they're giving you the gift of the gap and

00:01:22.480 telling you what you want to hear just because they want to get your knickers and it's not because

00:01:25.560 they genuinely care about you or they actually really want to get to know you know you i think

00:01:28.760 that takes time okay do you think we should work to create a more sex positive culture

00:01:36.580 um not necessarily sex positive um i don't think it needs to be um advertised anymore

00:01:52.700 necessarily but for those who do it is what it is but i don't think it needs to be publicized any

00:01:59.100 further okay so i should stop tweeting that strippers are whores yes well no it's your opinion 0.98

00:02:06.620 but i don't feel like it needs to be i don't think it needs to be publicized any further i would argue

00:02:11.380 that's fact i i would argue that's fact in your opinion yeah well we could say opinion right but

00:02:19.440 then then you look up the definition of a whore right it says prostitution but you know which you

00:02:25.760 could argue they're not because they're technically not having sex or you could argue they are because

00:02:31.460 they're taking off their clothes for money but that's but it's not tomatoes tomat like to me

00:02:37.420 a fact okay it's still selling sex isn't it at the end of the day

00:02:43.280 whether you're actually physically having sex or visually having sex still selling sex

00:02:51.040 so once you sell sex you're a prostitute i'm just getting i'm just saying technically 0.59

00:02:58.260 sex is sex what about you should we create a more sex positive culture

00:03:04.140 i feel like it's already out there enough i don't think it needs to be advertised anymore

00:03:11.780 okay like yeah no i think we definitely do need to create a more sex positive culture because sex is 0.51

00:03:18.780 natural that's how we're created it's it's something that we can't help but it's how we

00:03:23.600 you know cultivate that and get into that i.e not sleeping with loads of people that's to the guys as

00:03:29.280 well i've got young sons and i try to teach them to be celibate put your energy into your sports and

00:03:34.600 into your careers and hopefully when you elevate you can give yourself to a woman that you know is decent

00:03:39.200 but also you've got all the stis and stds whatever they're called and the sex like the energy transfer

00:03:45.540 and i think in that way we need to be more educated it's not about like oh sex is bad sex is not bad

00:03:51.420 we're not gonna stop and i think because we haven't really taken on face value and be like okay sex is

00:03:56.700 natural this is why we do have all the corn and you know the sa and whatever because we're restricted

00:04:03.240 and we feel dirty and it's not like it's natural just find one person that you vibes with

00:04:09.300 and you know build that relationship with them get to know each other so how would how would we create

00:04:14.260 a more sex positive culture i think by educating ourselves a lot more about it like i think that

00:04:20.180 we need to really get into this whole thing of energy it matters you know every person how should

00:04:24.760 we educate so if you're gonna are you gonna educate kids are you gonna educate teenagers when do

00:04:30.020 we start the education yeah i think we should start the education in schools because it's normal

00:04:33.640 okay what age um i think when puberty starts so like 13 14 yeah yeah so at 14 years old how do you

00:04:41.880 educate do you tell them how to have sex no i think you should tell them about the feelings like a guide

00:04:46.460 yeah no i think we should tell them about the feelings that they're going to experience you know

00:04:50.180 um and what they might want to do but i think we have to educate them on a moral value to be like look

00:04:55.500 you might have these feelings and this energy but you have to kind of hold it within yourself

00:04:59.480 until you find somebody that you really connect with and usually you don't find that

00:05:03.180 until you can pay a bill until you can go and if you can't get a job and work you can't be having

00:05:07.460 sex that's the way i say to my boys that if you can't take a girl on a date and treat her good you

00:05:12.260 can't be having sex with her and do you think that's a conversation the school should be having

00:05:15.960 or the parents both it's a joint thing it like they say what is it it takes the what is it a village

00:05:21.040 to raise a child and that's what we need to do between all of ours

00:05:24.920 okay and so you would tell them not to the message the education would be telling them

00:05:30.640 don't have sex until you can have a job basically yeah okay okay

00:05:35.840 um what's sex positive what do you say sex positive should we create a more sex positive culture

00:05:47.120 no sex negative yeah how would you do that auntie don't have it didn't they have um in america 1.00

00:05:54.860 somewhere where they have those um is it set up to see when they go around the schools and have

00:06:01.100 friends and stuff that's what i grew up getting that's chastity that's it chastity speakers that's

00:06:06.400 what they should do and we had no everyone said okay i had a certain i'm not going to name names certain

00:06:12.660 someone say oh the catholic schools were so bad look it i don't know what catholic schools y'all

00:06:17.960 went to we had no teen pregnancies in my my high school and we didn't chat that's what they all 1.00

00:06:23.140 would say oh if you don't have sex ed you guys are going to go crazy da da da da i'm like no 0.69

00:06:27.260 we were much better than the public schools i mean there were a lot of catholic schools that i knew

00:06:31.480 that nearby and the girls had plenty of sex didn't get pregnant because they use really good 0.98

00:06:35.840 contraception but they're all slags yeah the catholic girls were the worst look it that wasn't 1.00

00:06:42.640 my high school wasn't like that it like wasn't crazy as my mom said the undercover horse

00:06:46.780 oh my god yeah i feel like in and honestly it was the public schools they were just wild and

00:06:53.920 like we didn't even have parties or anything with us or if we did i wasn't invited maybe they had

00:06:59.080 them and i just wasn't but i don't use that fine in england that the catholic girls they're wild 1.00

00:07:04.240 and they get loose i find it all girls schools yeah which are normally yeah yeah england america two

00:07:10.620 different things like girls are wild yeah i think in america like they've got like what they stand 1.00

00:07:15.440 for they stand for they mean it but here it's you can just kind of do what you want to do and there's

00:07:21.040 no strength in any beliefs really we don't really have a strong religious belief where like in america

00:07:26.420 like they had all those you know groups and it means something you stand by something it's your word

00:07:31.460 it's your honor yeah somewhat with them data beta clubs in it exactly

00:07:36.960 i read super chats one more time do you think wait do you think that changed like that england used to

00:07:47.760 be like have more of what you were just talking about like culture standards when do you think it

00:07:53.860 switched um i think when the internet was um blew up and also i think when we just started integrating

00:08:02.420 cultures um i think that's when it kind of just messed up a little bit because it was kind of all

00:08:08.660 a lot we all lost our way basically i think got it got it um okay i'm gonna refresh this i don't think so

00:08:17.140 i think it was when everybody started copying everybody like the internet opened it up so

00:08:23.680 everybody started copying america and here and there and ever but i just think that it's just they've got

00:08:30.580 too many laws in england that protect the children that's what it is you can't do nothing with your

00:08:35.020 children anymore to protect them and i think that's what it is but i think the internet has got a lot

00:08:41.820 and just like following other people just like thinking the grass is always green on the other side

00:08:47.120 whatever if my mom always says that if america gets a cold we sneeze yeah and that's the way it's

00:08:54.620 worked can i just as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily

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JustPearlyThings - March 13, 2023

Pearl Challenged FEMINST On Sex ED In Schools

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