JustPearlyThings - Pearl CONFRONTS Lying Boss Babe

00:00:00.000 The clear majority of the women here have had at least one celebrity slide into their DMs in Miami, right? 1.00

00:00:04.640 So what does that say for the average dude in the street who's working in public?

00:00:09.760 They don't have a chance.

00:00:10.900 Exactly.

00:00:11.660 So, you know, it seems very tough to guys.

00:00:13.720 I think especially in Miami, I think that there's this thing that everybody thinks they're the main character.

00:00:21.120 And so it's like everyone is too good for everyone.

00:00:23.820 And so instead of getting to know somebody and being like, oh, this is another human being.

00:00:28.000 And let me find out about this person and maybe we have something to connect on.

00:00:31.600 Everybody wants to be like, you know what I mean?

00:00:34.160 Oh, you don't have enough money?

00:00:36.080 You know what I mean?

00:00:39.100 I mean, that's a quality car.

00:00:41.820 I love Toyotas.

00:00:43.080 I love Toyotas.

00:00:44.820 And girls will go on our podcast and say they will never sit in a Toyota. 1.00

00:00:48.700 No, do you know what?

00:00:49.360 I really, I like Honda Civic. 1.00

00:00:50.860 And then I fuck them right after. 1.00

00:00:51.680 I'm a good pilot. 1.00

00:00:52.180 I love Lexus because Lexus is very reliable.

00:01:00.420 As long as you like change the oil.

00:01:01.680 Lexus is a Toyota.

00:01:03.080 I know.

00:01:03.440 Exactly.

00:01:03.940 Because like what cars do I love?

00:01:05.020 I'm curious.

00:01:06.100 Okay.

00:01:06.480 So what industries do women typically date here? 1.00

00:01:10.340 Like if you guys had to pick an industry.

00:01:12.680 Like bankers.

00:01:14.180 Bartending.

00:01:14.680 I would say the hospitality industry.

00:01:17.500 Hospitality.

00:01:18.060 What about you?

00:01:18.460 Well, me?

00:01:19.080 Yeah.

00:01:19.640 I like businessmen.

00:01:21.320 Businessmen?

00:01:21.940 Businessmen.

00:01:23.200 I'm still trying to figure that out because I just came out of a seven-year relationship.

00:01:26.660 So it's not like I'm out there looking for someone.

00:01:29.460 So I'm still trying to figure that out.

00:01:31.320 You're so cute.

00:01:33.260 She's innocent.

00:01:34.480 You guys stay away.

00:01:35.880 She's innocent.

00:01:37.780 Yeah.

00:01:39.400 I see that a lot of girls here in Miami are dating YouTubers, podcasters, guys that own luxury companies. 0.96

00:01:46.820 Cars, private jets.

00:01:49.640 Yeah.

00:01:50.020 Is that a bad thing?

00:01:50.540 You know the beautiful thing about Miami? 1.00

00:01:53.200 All these guys fuck you and then let you go back into the wild. 1.00

00:01:56.340 They make it so easy. 1.00

00:01:57.280 It's like Pokemon trainers. 1.00

00:01:59.160 They fuck you and then let you go right back out. 1.00

00:02:01.160 That's why I say a woman should figure out what she wants in life and get her own money. 1.00

00:02:08.180 Because when you have your own money, you don't pick a man based off what he provides for you.

00:02:11.740 You pick a man based off how he treats you.

00:02:13.640 But that's just what they do.

00:02:14.660 Women don't pick men. 1.00

00:02:15.920 Women don't pick men. 1.00

00:02:18.240 The man fixes it.

00:02:19.360 What's the point of relationships?

00:02:21.320 Love.

00:02:22.580 Love?

00:02:23.340 Okay.

00:02:23.660 What is love?

00:02:24.540 For me, it's someone that mutual respect, open communication, loyalty, honesty.

00:02:30.180 It's just like having each other's back, knowing that, hey, this is your journey in life.

00:02:34.120 This is your journey in life.

00:02:35.360 Let's do it together.

00:02:36.340 Okay.

00:02:36.520 Do you think love is a choice?

00:02:39.160 Yeah.

00:02:39.420 Okay.

00:02:40.580 So I think relationships are about family and duty.

00:02:44.640 That's what I think the goal of relationships are.

00:02:48.600 Yeah.

00:02:48.880 So I think the question when you say a backup plan, you know, I think like what is your goal?

00:02:55.280 My goal?

00:02:56.220 Yeah.

00:02:57.160 Right now, I would be to find a partner that I feel is like the other half of me, someone

00:03:01.160 that because my last partner, he hindered me a lot in life.

00:03:05.860 I would be a lot for even though I'm really good for 29.

00:03:09.300 Okay.

00:03:09.540 What for 20 years?

00:03:11.260 What is, what is hindered?

00:03:12.620 Like he, he like held me back.

00:03:14.400 Like, Oh, I'd be at the office and he'd pop up to the office and start drama at the office

00:03:18.620 and try and get like, and you were just a perfect angel.

00:03:21.600 You never had any, I came from a very small town.

00:03:24.780 I came from a, it doesn't, it doesn't, it doesn't matter. 0.88

00:03:27.820 Very strong.

00:03:28.120 No, no, it does.

00:03:28.760 If you let me listen, very strong family values.

00:03:31.820 I, when I first came to Miami, I didn't know what dating was.

00:03:35.280 I thought that when you asked a girl to be on a relationship, you guys were together.

00:03:39.140 It was just you.

00:03:39.920 I didn't realize dating is dating multiple people.

00:03:42.220 I've only been with one person.

00:03:43.900 I'm a very loyal person.

00:03:45.180 Right.

00:03:45.540 And that made you perfect.

00:03:47.460 No, I'm the, what makes me perfect is that I never did anything to upset him.

00:03:51.520 I never stepped out on him.

00:03:53.220 I never disrespected him.

00:03:55.980 I've never heard somebody just claim to be perfect.

00:03:58.940 You just said it.

00:04:00.680 You said, I'm perfect because of this.

00:04:01.920 What, what, what could I have done?

00:04:03.400 What did I do to make me unper, what's not, what's not making me perfect?

00:04:05.960 I don't know your relationship, but for someone.

00:04:07.900 Tell me things that I can do that would make me not.

00:04:10.000 You can.

00:04:10.520 What she's trying to say is that she didn't do anything outwardly.

00:04:14.140 But that can, you can be oblivious to your own faults.

00:04:16.920 You don't need to know.

00:04:17.940 Okay.

00:04:18.300 If he, if I was such a bad partner, why is the one that.

00:04:21.000 No one said you're a bad partner.

00:04:21.420 Okay.

00:04:21.620 If I was a bad partner.

00:04:23.220 Don't claim to be perfect.

00:04:24.120 You can't.

00:04:24.460 Nobody's saying, nobody's saying you were a bad partner.

00:04:27.040 We're saying that everybody has flaws.

00:04:29.160 Everyone has flaws.

00:04:30.220 Everyone has flaws.

00:04:30.600 So you're not perfect and you'll never be a perfect partner.

00:04:33.400 I'm saying I was in a, in my, in my relationship, my partner boasted about me to people.

00:04:38.380 He showed me off.

00:04:39.460 I mean, Kim Kardashian got showed off three times.

00:04:42.040 Yeah, but it wasn't, it wasn't about Michael Flander.

00:04:45.820 Yeah, it was, yeah, it was, it was more about my books.

00:04:48.840 He always boasted about how smart I was.

00:04:50.960 The fact that we were business partners, we were 50, 50 business partners.

00:04:53.760 We literally built and destroyed and rebuilt houses together.

00:04:57.920 Like we were a perfect team.

00:04:59.940 If he did not like men, we would still be together today.

00:05:03.420 But then if y'all was so perfect, why couldn't you look past the fact that he was alive?

00:05:07.160 Because I don't want to be with a man that's with other men.

00:05:10.040 But then that means you wasn't as perfect as you may claim to be.

00:05:13.620 What?

00:05:13.920 What?

00:05:14.420 Then you're not, you're saying we're perfect.

00:05:16.040 We were business.

00:05:17.000 We were this, we were this, we were that.

00:05:18.780 So if you are in a loving relationship and correct me, I could be wrong.

00:05:22.160 I don't know.

00:05:22.520 But if you're in a loving relationship, you, and you love this man, you guys are perfect.

00:05:27.240 You business, this, that, sex, whatever.

00:05:29.640 Then you will stay with them with their faults.

00:05:32.480 You will work through it.

00:05:33.600 No, his sexual orientation, no.

00:05:35.380 That is a hard no.

00:05:36.420 Could I just ask you a quick question though?

00:05:37.800 Did he, did he, was it the point that he would have said, okay, listen, I, maybe I am bisexual,

00:05:42.400 but I'm with you, babe.

00:05:43.220 So this is going to be it.

00:05:44.040 It's just going to be us.

00:05:44.720 Did he sort of say that kind of thing?

00:05:46.080 No, no, no.

00:05:46.780 So was it, he wanted, he would want to carry on seeing.

00:05:49.460 Yeah, he would do it behind my back.

00:05:51.000 Okay.

00:05:51.320 Okay, but let's leave him out of the picture.

00:05:53.900 You just said that you've been with how many men?

00:05:57.240 Eighteen.

00:05:57.780 Eight.

00:05:58.840 So let's leave him out of the picture.

00:06:01.300 Why didn't the other men work out?

00:06:03.580 My first one, my first, first one was a high school relationship.

00:06:08.200 My mom took me from my high school when I was 17.

00:06:11.260 Just why, why the, why the, the relationships.

00:06:14.780 You're so perfect.

00:06:15.940 Oh, cause I wasn't trying to be in, um, like a long-term relationship. 0.99

00:06:19.520 So you're telling me you were out here fucking seven other guys or six other guys. 0.97

00:06:23.940 Um, and you're Miss Tanya and none of you wanted to make. 0.98

00:06:26.980 Five other guys.

00:06:27.840 Wait, wait, no.

00:06:28.300 You also said that you, you said that you were, you didn't know what dating and being

00:06:32.440 together was.

00:06:33.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:06:34.020 You were dating them and they don't, you know, was it exclusive?

00:06:36.660 Um, I was only exclusive with the very first, the first three I was exclusive with.

00:06:40.820 Yeah.

00:06:41.000 And then the ones, the ones after.

00:06:42.960 I'm confused.

00:06:43.560 And then the.

00:06:43.960 She got taisy by Miami. 0.60

00:06:45.080 That's what happened.

00:06:45.740 No, no.

00:06:46.340 In the last year I've been dating, but I haven't been dating for a relationship.

00:06:50.520 I don't want to, I haven't been wanting a relationship.

00:06:51.940 Where are the sound effects here?

00:06:52.920 I've been wanting my own space.

00:06:54.440 Where's the violin?

00:06:55.040 So when I was dating, it was just for me needing the physical attention, like the physical

00:06:59.720 touch, you know, the penetration. 0.99

00:07:01.320 Dick. 0.99

00:07:01.960 Yes, basically. 1.00

00:07:03.140 Dick. 0.99

00:07:04.040 Believe it or not. 0.99

00:07:05.540 Even, even, even when women are independent, they still need men. 1.00

00:07:09.980 Yeah, that's just crazy. 0.85

00:07:11.080 For sex, yeah, for sure. 0.96

00:07:12.320 Do you say anything else? 0.81

00:07:13.580 Like, is there anything else that you can do?

00:07:14.980 I say a lot.

00:07:16.040 I say a lot.

00:07:17.000 I, I, I, I, no, I just, I say it, but I say, I say the truth.

00:07:20.280 I just think, no, it's, you, you, you, people are, look, I mean, people, I think people

00:07:23.380 are right to sort of, it is a bit cat to sort of imply that you're perfect in a relationship.

00:07:27.440 Because nobody's perfect, you, you probably didn't step out with it.

00:07:29.360 Like, not, not one of them was your fault.

00:07:31.540 Like, not one.

00:07:33.300 No, no, no, no, listen.

00:07:34.720 Nothing?

00:07:35.660 Like, the last, the last five, I have not tried to, um, I have not tried to, um, I have not

00:07:39.980 to have a relationship with them.

00:07:41.560 It was purely like, I enjoy having time with you.

00:07:43.980 I want to spend time with you.

00:07:45.380 It's fine.

00:07:46.280 Yeah, I do.

00:07:46.820 I have my entire life.

00:07:48.280 Yes, I do.

00:07:49.480 So you're telling me that 40, 50, 60 year olds are not getting married right now?

00:07:52.060 If you, if you hit 30 and you're still single, you're more likely to not reproduce than

00:07:56.540 reproduce as a woman.

00:07:57.140 I don't want to reproduce.

00:07:58.220 It's not one of my people.

00:07:58.620 Okay, well, if you don't, if you don't want to have kids, that's fine.

00:08:01.620 But I'm saying it's more likely that you will, especially if you hit 35 and you're not

00:08:06.180 married, it's like a 15% chance you'll ever marry. 0.63

00:08:08.640 So like statistically, um, it does.

00:08:13.500 No, it doesn't.

00:08:14.400 You know, I would argue there are some women that are too damaged to be completed by marriage. 1.00

00:08:20.000 Not saying that's you, but I don't, but you know, I do think for most women, I mean, if

00:08:27.640 you look at antidepressant usage for women over the age of 45, when they're single and

00:08:32.300 unmarried, it's typically pretty bad. 0.83

00:08:34.160 So yeah, I would say for most women, they do feel incomplete without a man.

00:08:39.020 Well, I'm not most women. 0.51

00:08:40.800 Um, I feel very complete on my own and I will be part of the-

00:08:43.880 Are we, are we, can I ask a question for the rest of this?

00:08:46.400 Are we going to always argue the exception or we're going to talk to the generality?

00:08:50.600 I like her.

00:08:52.620 Like me specifically, that's why we're talking about me.

00:08:55.120 Just because it gets really confusing because when we sit here and we say, I, I, I, I, I,

00:08:59.760 they were asking me direct questions.

00:09:02.380 But she made a general statement.

00:09:05.820 I feel bad for the animals.

00:09:07.160 I can't leave.

00:09:08.540 Think about the puppies.

00:09:10.320 They want to leave.

00:09:11.600 Think about the dogs, the cats, man.

00:09:13.960 I'm being, I'm being honest though.

00:09:16.720 They did, they did a study and they said that by 2030, most women are going to have animals. 0.94

00:09:21.000 They're not even going to want kids anymore. 0.90

00:09:22.380 like they're all your animals hey even the rate of depression is higher than it's ever been the

00:09:29.740 rate of i was thinking about single mothers i think women should be banned from owning pets 1.00

00:09:34.620 thank you yeah yeah and i have a dog i get to keep i get except for me thank you

00:09:41.980 okay but why do you say that though oh because there's a couple trends that i see that are quite

00:09:46.700 weird are these these women doing with their dogs i've i've said this i said that i've heard of this 0.99

00:09:53.980 this is weird that's some weird we gotta stop oh it's a thing there's some incel accounts on uh

00:10:00.620 there's some incel accounts on twitter who are going about that saying you see men are so despised

00:10:04.620 by women they'd rather their dogs yeah whether it's true or not i don't know yeah no no no there

00:10:10.620 is some there's some girls that have gone to like gotten in trouble for it it's like a thing

JustPearlyThings - October 31, 2023

Pearl CONFRONTS Lying Boss Babe

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