Pearl DEBUNKED Their Disney Fairy Tales With This Statement
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the patriarchy, fat women, fat moms, fat babies, fat friends, fat husbands, fat kids, fat children, fat insecurities and fat in general. We also talk about how women lie to each other about their weight, fatness and what it takes to be a housewife.
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i think if the stats are that most majority of men like in a woman
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is her is her mic off as a fat woman as a fat woman you just say just give up her love
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no but she can maximize her well i i would say i would say reality will hit you in the face
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anyways and i think a lot of times as women we shield each other from reality we say oh
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you'll there's someone for everyone i hear this all the time you realize 50 of us will end up
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alone 50 of women are going to be single child half of women are going to be single and childless
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half of the um and that doesn't even include the women that are single mothers they don't typically
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remarry really it's like less than i would argue roughly 20 of women that are predicted to have a
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happy ending so where you feel like you have a vision board where do i um i think there's a lot
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of people that lie to women i think women lie to each other and like they often make us like cope
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with poor choices so for example the fat friend instead of saying lose weight your life will be
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better if you lose weight you'll be healthier if you lose weight and you won't be insecure
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and i think again and again and i think it's i think it's backed up um by the media and they have
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an entire industry dedicated to keeping us fat and alone and they just want to make money off of us
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i have a friend one of my best friends very large she's been with our husband for years she's she's
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fat she likes being being big was she fat when they got married yeah there was she was over over
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overweight when she got married she's in a happy relationship she's got two beautiful kids she likes
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being bigger she's a she's a model as well an influencer and she's yeah so happy i like being fat and i i
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i think it's actually quite selfish to be fat i think it's really selfish because your kids are
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the ones that are going to have to take care of you so you're basically saying i don't have any
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self-control and now my kids you're not going to have as long of a life with your children
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not everyone's fat because of lack of self-control though so i think that's very generalizing
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no i would say you're fat because you eat too much and you don't exercise i hardly eat anything and
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i'm not skinny like a twig so what does that mean i i would say that you probably eat more than you
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say i think women probably like women tend to lie about that so if i if i had a dollar
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yeah no one cares we're very very honest aren't we but to the point of being very blunt
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so it's like we're not protecting anyone's feelings sorry i'll be saying like oh babe maybe
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yeah you could look better be a bit more like that's my sister she'll be like all right well
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and triceps have got a bit loose a bit tricepy and honestly for me a lot of guys that i um date
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they tend to say to me oh when i'm training you you're too slim they don't like it
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mm-hmm well i think they like i think men i think i think men typically like slim thick
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yeah you know you know they might like a big butt but they have you have to have the small
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ways it's like they've been like an hourglass figure who's hotter aliyah or lizzo none
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what do you guys say would you guys all right i have a question if i have a question women raise
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your hand if i said you have a body like lizzo would you take that as a compliment raise your
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hand if yes no this is what i mean when i say women lie i would no you all know
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but but my point is before no but the reason i said that is earlier i said that women or lizzo i
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said that lizzo was unattractive and she said or i think there's a couple of you maybe that said
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that lizzo is attractive i said she's pretty i said she's fat but she's pretty that's what i said
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we all know that she's not yet if you said do i want lizzo's face this is a different i would say
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the fat ruins her face because there's all this blubber around it i think she's pretty
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so i would say i'm gonna i'm gonna say so i think that the second i think that the second
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thing that women lie to each other about and this kind of goes to the housewife because for whatever
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reason when i have these conversations about like what what does it take to deserve to be a housewife
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we can always like talk about it in the abstract but when it comes to reality it's like we could never
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be honest um and the second thing i think that we lie to each other about is just how hard women
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have it i think women have it pretty easy especially compared to men i think you mentioned
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a patriarchy earlier i don't believe in that in the slightest i think you're given far more
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opportunity as a woman your opinion babe um and i think typically the women that argue about patriarchy
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are usually just lazy i can't know i think we have it so easy and i'm so glad to be a woman
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yeah and i think there's a couple carry the baby i don't have to have hormones
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i would say there's a couple i would say there's a couple reasons solid relationship
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when it comes down to a solid solid solid relationship between a man and a woman
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who has got to do the most providing technically a woman the man but that's the man the woman
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usually wants that life more than the man anyways women usually want kids more than the man and want
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that lifestyle more than the man we go into a club and we flutter our eyelids of course
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yeah we have it 10 times easier there's all these special programs i've been the breadwinner in most of
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my relationships so i don't see it like that well yeah right but wait okay what do you what do you do
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again what do i do yeah what do you do for a living i dance on a palm
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no no i don't really i'm a singer and i'm an artist okay well i would argue that artists
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performers podcasters social media influences are all monetizing their looks you absolutely
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have an advantage as a woman as an entertainer well you know but i'm just talking about being the
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breadwinner in a relationship what we say that what'd you say you're a podcaster you like
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the podcasters have monetized their looks oh you know i think i think i think i think women have
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it easier i think it's and i've managed i could say this from managing i've managed social media
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accounts for women and for men oh my gosh it's so much easier if you're a chick chicks just have
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to do some reactions they're like oh no but if you're a hot man yeah i'll go crazy for that so i
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disagree well but hot men so so but men pay more because firstly well i no even as a hot guy it's
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way harder but everybody still have it easier because nobody's gonna get up for a hot guy on
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the train but they'll get up for a hot girl on the train i would i would rather if i had to manage
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one or the other i would rather manage the average the slut the cute chick over the hot guy it's easier
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i'd manage the hot guy can he sell more though can he actually sell more than a woman can he can he
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genuinely sell you more product i mean if you look at if you look at social media accounts i mean
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even guys is his mic off guys even guys no one i can't hear i don't feel like mine is either
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yeah some of these mics i can't hear myself either what we didn't get to answer the question
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engineer yeah i'm still there we've been going on about yours who do you think's more sexual i think
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i think the way the media can everyone hear me yeah i can hear you not really not in the way
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so i think the way the media sort of um has sort of created this perception of life or reality is
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you know right from when we're young and growing up you know we see the images of men being very
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sexual with tv american pie i've not seen movie a lot of movies and just a lot of things in media
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centered around men being sexual but the reality is women are more sexual and we see this everywhere
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like on the train we see women openly reading 50 shades of grey but we whereas obviously men
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are probably indoors watching con but men and women are more like liberated and sort of have this sort
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of standard of being able to express discreetly that they're sexual and is accepted whereas men are
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then seen by the society as this overtly sexual people and that's what there's all these images about
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you know men if a man is looking at you too much you know they're probably thinking too much about
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too much about sexual stuff and things like that whereas the real truth is like women are just more
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sexual in my opinion i think that's where feminism like makes it easier for women then it's only now
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that we're seeing content around women being sexual no i just well i mean when you think about it
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women we could when you think of uh blessing i don't know what's going on i can hear you can you
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hear me when you when you think about it though it's like women she could have chosen to be anything
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you know we got all this freedom and a lot of us chose only fans there's more only fans models than
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teachers right now i'm a teacher i'm a qualified teacher what about men are there more uh only fans
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men than men teachers are there more women teachers than male teachers what's the statistics i want to