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00:00:00.000 can i can i ask can i ask what's your opinion on grape then like if it's not in the women's control 0.99

00:00:06.960 what's what do you then think grape grape is a bit irritating people always bring this up and

00:00:11.680 it because it's less than 0.5 percent of abortion but it does so you're right i'll tell you my 1.00

00:00:16.240 opinion but i'm saying if you know it it's frustrating because it's like okay if we give

00:00:21.680 you grape will you guys get rid of the 99.5 percent of abortions and and i know the answer

00:00:26.960 to that is no so i just think people do that as a way to discredit the right but um no great i would

00:00:32.720 have no exceptions no could i just quickly ask what what what your guys views on um say a girl

00:00:42.800 says that she's on contraception but then um and then the guy doesn't use a condom oh wait actually

00:00:51.280 no sorry did use a condom and the girl holes huh poke holes in it is that what you're getting that 1.00

00:01:00.160 turkey based on what wait so it's always in the condom is that what you're getting to yes okay 0.91

00:01:06.400 are you gonna so what what is so for the dad who is now a dad and he didn't want to be a dad and he

00:01:14.320 asked and made sure are you on contraception yes okay and they still put on a condom on and she's 0.94

00:01:22.480 poked holes or turkey basted um you know that kind of thing what and and and as people say trapped

00:01:32.480 the the dad and then he is not a great dad wait but then she trapped him i'm actually you know what i

00:01:41.360 was thinking about i was thinking about how they make laws where if a guy removes the condom without

00:01:46.240 a woman's consent that's considered great yet a woman lying to a man about birth control is not 0.99

00:01:52.000 considered great yes this is why this is so that's what i was that's serious that is an actual thing

00:01:59.440 if you interfere with a condom it is a crime but it's difficult to prove but it is so you would agree 0.52

00:02:06.720 that's a double standard right yeah yeah that that is that is a double standard 100 because

00:02:11.200 if you're lying to someone yeah not today but they're both crimes no no but i'm asking would

00:02:16.080 you say it's a double stand it's not a crime for a woman to do that the birth control is not a crime 1.00

00:02:20.960 lying about birth control well yeah that that's not an unethical but you shouldn't just blindly

00:02:26.720 believe i mean you were the one criticizing uh do you do you think do you think that's a double standard 0.99

00:02:31.200 that's my question please no i think it's stupidity on the men's part okay so this is the 0.99

00:02:35.200 men's fault okay even if they're dating them like this is a lot of times this happens to men that 0.99

00:02:40.000 have been well it's unethical it's unethical it's deceptive it's manipulative but you probably 0.54

00:02:46.240 shouldn't be dating someone like that right well then couldn't we say that to the women like you 1.00

00:02:49.840 shouldn't be dating someone that people shouldn't date bad people yes or generally speaking if you're

00:02:55.600 saying it's it's a crime if the guy if they got both crimes okay but you know i said one was a crime

00:03:02.000 one is that but you said you kind of defended the other one you kind of gave the woman out again

00:03:07.440 but my point is if the guy's own is bad for taking of the condom you said it can be proved if the

00:03:12.800 woman interferes with the condom so how does the woman prove that the guy took off the condom after 1.00

00:03:16.960 the fact i think you um well it is it's incredibly hard to prove but if there is semen inside the

00:03:24.080 woman then she can go get checked at the hospital that's not hard to prove there's a condom and now 1.00

00:03:28.480 there's not a condom no but no no it's hard to convict for sexual assault in general so you can't

00:03:34.640 prove it because when you're going to prove it you're not going to be in how did the condom get off

00:03:38.800 you're not listening if she's going to have to go and prove it

00:03:42.480 then she has to bring evidence so how does that's mad though so if you imagine not having sex with 0.94

00:03:47.680 somebody and they've got you in say a particular position where you can't see them for example they're

00:03:55.040 not face to face now um you have now stopped having sex you guys have intercourse so i don't 0.95

00:04:02.480 even know if i can really say that can i say that yeah yeah so you guys are having you guys

00:04:07.200 have finished doing what you're doing and obviously he's released you've released climaxed or whatever

00:04:12.480 you realize he's not wearing a condom now there's only two things there's only two ways that can go

00:04:18.000 it's either the condom has slipped off inside of you or the condom has come off and how's the condom

00:04:24.400 gonna magically come out with that i know but i'm saying like if they've taken the condom off then

00:04:29.200 that's the proof right there because the condom's over there on the floor listen she said that the

00:04:38.160 guy won't be able to prove that the woman interfered with the condom okay agreed i said it would be hard

00:04:43.920 you kind of can though guys guys let him finish let him finish okay it would be hard to prove that

00:04:51.360 the woman interfered with the condom i think it's equally as hard to prove that the man took off the

00:04:55.680 condom because how do you how do you prove to the lord that okay this man took off the condom

00:05:01.360 because semen is not proof because there are people that have gotten pregnant even when the

00:05:05.200 condom was still on yeah so when a guy takes off a condom and it's got semen inside of it if there was

00:05:11.760 a hole in the condom wouldn't you notice that it's like the semen's coming out of the condom when

00:05:17.280 you see a hole like it's seeping through or something wouldn't you notice that so when you're 0.94

00:05:21.120 putting a condom on maybe maybe i can't speak okay i think that would just off the back of what you've

00:05:26.960 said i think i've just clocked that that would prove it so so for example if she kept the condom 0.91

00:05:32.720 as evidence and there was holes in the condom in all honesty then maybe it was no there's no good

00:05:38.240 can i finish there's no no there's no good way to prove it no there's no there's no there's no

00:05:44.240 you can't prove it this is this is like this is how in my opinion a lot of false accusations

00:05:48.720 come because there's no really good way to prove this stuff you can't because well yeah but it's

00:05:55.760 still going to be he said she said no no it's not you consent no because if she's kept the condom

00:06:00.240 if she kept the condom and there's no holes in it let me let me how would they know it was consensual or 0.77

00:06:04.640 not oh let me know i let you talk a lot all right but i haven't landed though if the condom has got

00:06:09.440 no holes or no splits or nothing in it and she's pregnant it would surely show that the condom had 1.00

00:06:14.880 to have been physically removed if there was holes or or gaps in a condom then maybe it was accidental

00:06:20.880 but you still wouldn't know if she consented to it being removed or not no you wouldn't so exactly

00:06:25.680 no you wouldn't i'm only going off physical evidence that's my point so it goes back of he said

00:06:29.520 she said it's only two people in the room unless there's cameras correct correct correct um so

00:06:35.360 i'm kind of going to go into what you were saying earlier do you guys think that men should have an

00:06:40.000 opinion on abortion because we constantly hear my body my choice men shouldn't have an opinion on this

00:06:47.760 but today we have a doctor here who probably knows more about abortion than most people had imagined

00:06:53.360 doctor um i think so should should men have an opinion on abortion i i think i think yes i think

00:07:00.240 yeah yeah for sure yeah 100 what do you guys think it's half it's it's it's a piece of you it's a piece

00:07:06.560 of me like you know i mean what do you guys think on the couch um i actually think no no i actually think

00:07:13.200 that it's the woman's choice yeah okay she said can you have an opinion but it's the same thing like

00:07:19.680 what i said about women having the um the final say if a guy still has a part say in having sex and

00:07:25.600 a guy should still have part saying if they have an abortion or not a guy has a part say whether you

00:07:30.400 remove a condom or not whether women feel like a guy should have a say or not a guy has a say because 0.98

00:07:34.880 it's your it's your organs we're all talking about um do you think do you think a guy should be able to

00:07:39.840 veto an abortion so so let's say let's say you got pregnant and you want an abortion the father of 0.57

00:07:46.240 the kid could he have a say in it yeah like if the father so if he said no and you wanted it would

00:07:51.840 you go with like do you think he should be able to legally say you can't have an abortion no but it's 0.98

00:07:57.120 that's that's where that's where some people that's where you were talking about accountability and

00:08:01.280 responsibility kind of comes from because if you're gonna have unprotected sex with somebody

00:08:07.360 it kind of some people obviously if you're not in a relationship you're not in a relationship but

00:08:11.840 you need to kind of still choose who you're having sex with wisely because you need to be able to know

00:08:16.000 the person you're having sex with you can still have that kind of conversation and come to an

00:08:20.480 understanding and stuff like that you have to at the end of the day there's only yay or nay you have

00:08:25.200 to come to an agreement so okay but so you would you personally would take his opinion into account

00:08:31.200 yeah because his opinion legally you still think he should have no say no i'm not saying legally he

00:08:36.640 shouldn't have no say no so i'm saying i'm asking like what what would it look like so if he he gets

00:08:41.680 to say what say does he get it's i it's all to do with pros and cons really are we ready to have a

00:08:46.560 baby are you financially ready to have a baby am i financially ready to have a baby it's no so i'm

00:08:52.960 saying two people yeah the woman says i want an abortion he says that's my kid i don't want you to 1.00

00:08:58.800 have one should he legally have any rights in this situation i'm asking you um see there i don't know

00:09:08.000 there you would have actually i think legally i i i couldn't answer that

JustPearlyThings - July 02, 2023

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