JustPearlyThings - July 01, 2023


Woman Accuses Pearl Of Misogyny And Gets Annihilated


Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

195.35617

Word count

2,353

Sentence count

308

Harmful content

Misogyny

46

sentences flagged

Hate speech

28

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss whether or not women should or shouldn t be in charge in the workplace. We also discuss the role of women in society and the role that women play in society as a whole, and how they should be treated.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 You seem like a statistician.
00:00:02.540 No, no, no, no, I'm just saying, you're not saying facts.
00:00:05.480 You're not actually...
00:00:06.360 Right, I'm giving you, I'm giving you, I just said this as...
00:00:09.000 It's just a parent, it's just comparing racism, it's comparing...
00:00:12.360 I didn't bring up race, let's not make this a race convo.
00:00:16.480 Can I say something?
00:00:17.440 Wait, wait, wait, wait, ladies, ladies, wait, wait, wait, my point, this is an opinion, so
00:00:24.080 this part is an opinion, right, you can disagree, but I...
00:00:28.180 Can I say, I think what you have just said is, when you put it in practice, it almost
00:00:33.740 it makes it easier for a woman to leave. 1.00
00:00:37.300 You don't work at the marriage, you don't want to fix things, you don't want to talk about
00:00:41.340 it, you don't want to communicate, it's easier to leave.
00:00:45.060 That's true, that's a fact.
00:00:46.620 Men and women leave, but one's paid to, obviously the women are going to do it. 1.00
00:00:50.320 No, no, no, I will...
00:00:52.260 Work-oriented, my woman has other things, you know... 1.00
00:00:56.660 So, oh wait, I need to finish one part, I'm sorry, I'm going to let you go, I'm sorry,
00:01:01.180 one more part, and I will, I will.
00:01:03.260 But the other thing is, even in the industries that women work a lot in, men can easily learn
00:01:09.000 those industries.
00:01:10.340 Men can easily become nurses, men can easily become teachers.
00:01:13.760 So if all the women left the workforce... 1.00
00:01:15.100 Because they learn easy things.
00:01:17.000 What are you talking...
00:01:17.920 Okay, okay, build a building.
00:01:19.280 Can I make a point?
00:01:20.880 Look it, look it, so if you think men learn easy things, they're... 0.98
00:01:23.800 So wait, wait, wait, wait, okay, okay, then go, wait, wait, wait, wait, so next...
00:01:27.120 Sorry, Pearl, can we please just remember the rules?
00:01:30.820 It's not just about Pearl, it's about each other as well.
00:01:32.760 Let's stop overtalking each other.
00:01:34.260 I know it's hard, but we need to try and...
00:01:36.280 Should...
00:01:36.680 Okay?
00:01:37.600 Should women be in charge? 1.00
00:01:39.980 It just really depends on the women. 1.00
00:01:42.080 Sorry.
00:01:42.680 If she's great at soccer, let's let her coach a girls team. 1.00
00:01:46.620 But would I let this lady in the pink manage a beauty salon? 1.00
00:01:54.020 Of course not.
00:01:55.940 It just depends on the position.
00:02:00.000 So you don't love her.
00:02:01.280 No, no, no, no, sorry.
00:02:01.960 Can you emphasize on what you're saying?
00:02:03.840 I don't get the point that you made about her running... 1.00
00:02:07.220 A beauty.
00:02:07.920 Yeah, I don't get that.
00:02:09.300 It depends on the position.
00:02:10.640 It depends on should women... 1.00
00:02:12.480 I mean, okay.
00:02:14.060 I don't know if this sounds sexist or not to the viewers,
00:02:19.080 but isn't this sort of show why women get the bad rap that they get? 1.00
00:02:25.540 Exactly.
00:02:26.160 No, no, no, no.
00:02:26.760 I feel like this show...
00:02:28.580 This show, I'm sorry, it almost caters for misogynist viewers, literally.
00:02:34.200 Because I agree with Pearl to a certain extent.
00:02:36.560 My problem where me and Pearl kind of like, I don't agree.
00:02:40.740 Misogynist.
00:02:41.400 That's a tough accusation.
00:02:42.700 Can I just say what you said?
00:02:43.900 No, no, no, no, no.
00:02:44.620 I got to address the first part.
00:02:46.780 I mean, that's my opinion.
00:02:47.860 It's all facts.
00:02:48.520 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:02:51.740 It's all facts.
00:02:52.440 It's my opinion.
00:02:52.960 It's exactly what you're saying.
00:02:52.980 No, what is it?
00:02:54.060 No, what is the definition?
00:02:55.000 I don't have to give you a definition.
00:02:56.400 I'm saying yes.
00:02:57.020 It's your message.
00:02:58.880 No, just like she didn't have to say she was married.
00:03:00.820 Okay, if I was...
00:03:01.720 Exactly.
00:03:01.980 No, no, no, no.
00:03:03.020 If you're going to accuse me...
00:03:04.580 Because there's an agenda.
00:03:06.020 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:03:06.520 There's an agenda.
00:03:07.300 I'll tell you why.
00:03:08.340 Okay, thank you.
00:03:10.940 Thank you.
00:03:11.580 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:03:14.120 I just...
00:03:14.820 If I'm going to call someone something, I know...
00:03:17.180 Okay.
00:03:17.600 Okay.
00:03:17.940 Right.
00:03:18.580 The fact that you just base it, everything that you base and all the information that you
00:03:22.140 base, it caters literally for men's egos.
00:03:26.460 Okay.
00:03:26.720 You basically eradicate any sort of work that women... 1.00
00:03:31.720 Okay.
00:03:31.980 Just answer the question.
00:03:32.700 First of all, first of all, first of all, don't tell me.
00:03:35.100 It's not...
00:03:35.580 I don't have to tell you the...
00:03:36.900 I don't have to define...
00:03:38.040 You can't call someone a word.
00:03:39.660 You have an agenda.
00:03:40.980 There is an agenda.
00:03:41.840 There's a narrative being played.
00:03:43.200 In society, in society, there are women who are toxic and there are women that play a field 1.00
00:03:48.460 that basically push this agenda.
00:03:51.740 It's like basically toxic masculinity.
00:03:53.200 That's all good I'm going.
00:03:53.780 It's the same thing as toxic femininity. 1.00
00:03:55.520 It's just...
00:03:56.540 You're basically the opposite to what we basically...
00:03:58.520 No, that's good I'm fine.
00:03:59.160 That's good I'm fine.
00:03:59.660 That's good I'm fine.
00:03:59.700 That's that.
00:04:00.160 Let me explain something.
00:04:01.000 The reason why we're asking you to define misogyny is not because we're trying to pick
00:04:05.120 on you.
00:04:05.480 There's a reason.
00:04:06.500 We've done this show.
00:04:07.640 If you can look at the...
00:04:09.080 But that's just my opinion, though.
00:04:10.180 Just one second.
00:04:10.920 You just keep cutting me off.
00:04:12.160 We've done this show.
00:04:13.060 This is episode 137, right?
00:04:15.040 Yeah.
00:04:15.540 And every single time, a woman... 1.00
00:04:18.460 Think about it.
00:04:19.580 How many women are here? 1.00
00:04:20.760 So we've done 137 episodes.
00:04:22.620 That should tell you that we've probably had over 600 women in this room. 1.00
00:04:27.080 So every time a woman has used the word misogyny, she has not known the meaning of the word. 0.99
00:04:31.600 So I want to...
00:04:31.900 I just told you.
00:04:32.800 No, you haven't told us the meaning.
00:04:34.260 What's the meaning?
00:04:34.900 Oh my Lord.
00:04:36.180 Oh my Lord.
00:04:36.740 You basically...
00:04:37.640 I just basically told you.
00:04:39.120 Your show is almost like the opposite to feminism. 1.00
00:04:42.260 No.
00:04:42.400 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:04:44.320 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:04:46.200 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:04:46.560 It's sexist.
00:04:47.500 It's basically sexist to...
00:04:48.880 It's a sex... 0.89
00:04:49.600 You're basically...
00:04:50.240 Okay, what is sexist?
00:04:50.760 Those are all adjectives.
00:04:51.780 Oh my God.
00:04:52.000 These are all adjectives.
00:04:53.040 Listen, I feel...
00:04:53.680 What have meaning?
00:04:54.600 Listen, I'm not going...
00:04:55.820 Because I feel...
00:04:56.260 I know what you guys are basically trying to sort of do.
00:04:58.260 You know exactly what I mean.
00:04:58.860 No, you don't know what we're trying to do.
00:04:59.960 You push an agenda with a specific type of women. 1.00
00:05:02.620 And you generalize all women in that sense.
00:05:05.540 You take away...
00:05:06.720 Literally, the society...
00:05:09.120 What do you call it?
00:05:09.640 The...
00:05:10.040 Oh my gosh.
00:05:11.100 The systemic...
00:05:12.040 The systemic oppression of women.
00:05:14.080 Okay, but are you going to answer the question?
00:05:14.960 You disregard the systemic oppression of women.
00:05:17.380 You do.
00:05:17.820 Are you going to answer the question?
00:05:18.240 That's all misogyny.
00:05:19.340 I'm just...
00:05:19.740 I'm trying to.
00:05:20.360 But you don't want to hear it.
00:05:21.780 What is...
00:05:22.080 Okay.
00:05:22.380 Oh my God.
00:05:23.220 I have my opinion.
00:05:23.920 You have your opinion.
00:05:25.160 And that's all.
00:05:25.780 But here's being respectful.
00:05:26.340 Can I ask you...
00:05:27.140 Can I ask you...
00:05:27.280 Can I ask you...
00:05:28.040 Can I ask you...
00:05:28.560 Can you please...
00:05:29.480 Can you kindly tell us the definition of misogyny?
00:05:31.060 I already told you.
00:05:31.960 No, you haven't.
00:05:32.920 You really haven't.
00:05:33.540 Okay, then I didn't.
00:05:34.920 Okay, then...
00:05:35.780 Then I didn't.
00:05:36.380 Please, can you don't use the word again?
00:05:37.680 I mean, that's my opinion.
00:05:39.020 But we move.
00:05:40.180 But what is untrue?
00:05:42.360 And this is the thing.
00:05:43.240 I'll tell you why.
00:05:44.280 Like, because a lot of...
00:05:45.340 You know, people think that I'm super hard on women. 0.88
00:05:48.300 Right?
00:05:49.480 And my thing is, historically, women are just worse than we've ever been. 1.00
00:05:53.640 From a historical point of view.
00:05:55.380 It's unprecedented.
00:05:56.780 You know what percent of women are virgins on their wedding days? 1.00
00:05:59.740 And some would say...
00:06:00.800 That's what you're saying now is misogynistic.
00:06:02.580 This isn't misogynistic.
00:06:04.080 I'm about to give you stats.
00:06:05.460 I'm about to give you guys numbers and stats.
00:06:07.400 For where?
00:06:08.020 So, I mean, you could Google them pretty easy.
00:06:10.980 It's pretty simple.
00:06:11.820 I mean, give us the statistics.
00:06:13.460 Which should you take them from?
00:06:14.260 One is...
00:06:14.660 I mean, this is what the left will try to do to, like, discredit you.
00:06:18.120 Is they just question every stat.
00:06:20.220 But you can Google them pretty easy.
00:06:23.180 Okay?
00:06:23.360 So, what percent of women... 1.00
00:06:25.140 What percent of women do you think are virgins on their wedding day? 1.00
00:06:28.020 Okay.
00:06:28.500 So, if a woman was to be a virgin... 0.88
00:06:30.080 Wait, wait, wait.
00:06:30.880 I just...
00:06:31.220 Then the man would have to be a virgin. 0.96
00:06:32.520 Okay, okay.
00:06:32.880 And the man cannot be a virgin, so the woman would not be a virgin. 0.83
00:06:35.760 We're going to go into this later.
00:06:38.740 But I want to say, what percent of women are virgins on their wedding day? 0.73
00:06:42.540 In the West, in the West, can we answer the question?
00:06:48.340 Probably about 25%.
00:06:49.680 25%?
00:06:50.720 Okay, who thinks it's higher than 25%?
00:06:52.520 I'm not going to answer, because I genuinely don't know.
00:06:53.740 Unless I go in the same answer.
00:06:55.200 Okay, it's an answer.
00:06:56.140 All right, all right.
00:06:57.700 It's five percent.
00:06:59.780 What percent of women have been on birth control at some point in their life? 0.82
00:07:04.280 90%.
00:07:05.480 But what are the reasons why women are on birth control? 1.00
00:07:08.140 Wait, wait, because...
00:07:08.640 I've been on birth control before, but it wasn't because of sex.
00:07:10.420 Okay, okay, fine.
00:07:11.240 Which is all good and well, until we start looking at the body count statistics, where
00:07:16.180 after a woman has had five partners, her chance of a happy marriage drops to 20%. 0.91
00:07:22.160 Okay, so an average woman has slept with more than five men.
00:07:26.700 Okay, which, remember, historically, 100 years ago, 85% of women were virgins on their wedding 0.75
00:07:32.000 nights.
00:07:32.820 Now, what else does men get out of marriage?
00:07:35.060 They get loyalty, but not today, because half of women leave. 0.99
00:07:39.020 Then, then we start to go into weight, where women are overweight. 1.00
00:07:43.540 The average woman is 5'3", 170 pounds. 0.94
00:07:46.240 These are just numbers.
00:07:47.280 And yet, we scream misogyny at me.
00:07:49.940 But these are, these are just numbers.
00:07:52.720 Now, I'm, and it's like, I can't say numbers without being called sexist, when they are
00:07:58.580 true.
00:07:59.500 Can I tell you something?
00:08:00.360 I'm going to let you go.
00:08:01.860 I'm going to let you go.
00:08:02.360 Firstly, I'm a family therapist, and I make big research, and I have a lot of numbers.
00:08:06.160 80% of women decide to divorce.
00:08:08.880 You're totally right.
00:08:09.560 And you're totally right that women choose, but women choose from men who choose her. 0.89
00:08:14.060 And have, wait, sorry, that's, I didn't, I didn't.
00:08:16.640 Women choose, but first, for example, if you are one Roman, you have five men. 0.99
00:08:21.560 From these five men, you choose men who choose you.
00:08:24.640 One man make you signal, I like you, I smile you.
00:08:28.000 You go and you choose from men who choose you.
00:08:30.220 If men don't like you, if not have sex attraction, you cannot do anything.
00:08:35.360 First, men need to go up and say, I want this woman. 0.97
00:08:39.380 And then you choose from men who choose you.
00:08:42.060 First, second, you're totally right.
00:08:43.880 We are women. 0.94
00:08:45.200 I make my book about entrepreneur, and it's absolutely in numbers.
00:08:49.800 We are women. 0.94
00:08:50.420 We are not so smart like men.
00:08:52.140 We cannot make many things which make men.
00:08:54.540 Never, ever, because our brain, it's different.
00:08:57.920 It's different.
00:08:58.780 We cannot, we cannot run so fast.
00:09:00.420 We cannot make some big numbers.
00:09:02.540 You are totally right that business which make we are women, it's psychologist, coach,
00:09:07.120 and beauty, it cannot be male men.
00:09:09.380 And if a woman, for God, she is a woman, she becomes to be sick. 1.00
00:09:14.160 Every day I work with women who cannot be pregnant.
00:09:16.500 Today is the biggest problem in our society, in UK.
00:09:20.020 And what they do, they become to be men.
00:09:22.560 She has a lot of cortisol. 0.99
00:09:23.860 She has opinion about it all.
00:09:25.420 It messes up your hormones.
00:09:26.100 She wants to be feminist. 1.00
00:09:27.400 And after she came to me, like family therapist, I want to be pregnant. 0.93
00:09:30.820 What do you do 40 years?
00:09:32.460 You hate men, you hate your father.
00:09:34.180 You try to show that you have big balls.
00:09:37.020 And after you say, oh, I want to be a woman.
00:09:39.600 What you did before.
00:09:41.200 You need first to be a woman. 1.00
00:09:42.700 And woman, it's totally different quality. 0.91
00:09:44.700 Quality which you need to survive as a man.
00:09:47.540 You need to be strong.
00:09:48.620 And we know usually what women today tell to me.
00:09:51.240 Natalia, I want to find a man which is very kind, very rich, very good looking, very sexy.
00:09:57.600 Love me like a crazy.
00:09:58.800 He's very crazy to accept my child.
00:10:01.760 He wants to take care about him, about my child.
00:10:04.540 He wants to marry me.
00:10:05.520 And from some reason, he's single in 40 years old.
00:10:09.540 And of course, she couldn't find it after she's very disappointed.
00:10:14.100 And you are right that women choose. 0.98
00:10:15.700 But probably that women have too high acceptation. 1.00
00:10:19.020 She wants to be a princess. 0.78
00:10:20.100 She doesn't want to change herself, to go to fitness, to take care about how she looks, how she speaks with men, how she listens to men. 1.00
00:10:27.860 Because a woman must listen, not to speak. 1.00
00:10:30.640 You need to speak 10% and 90% you need to listen.
00:10:33.880 And to speak exactly admiring.
00:10:36.580 Admire your man.
00:10:38.140 Admire to him, admire him.
00:10:39.680 And about single and separation has a big difference.
00:10:42.060 You can be separate with your partner, but he continues to help you.
00:10:46.200 He continues to help your child.
00:10:47.920 He continues to take care about you.
00:10:49.460 He continues to be your best friend.
00:10:51.420 And to call you every time when you need him, if you make a normal relationship.
00:10:55.600 You must do divorce only when you have financial independence, loyal independence, your emotional stability.
00:11:02.480 You love yourself.
00:11:03.800 You love your partner, but you can develop because you say, I want something else.
00:11:08.560 And you continue to say, your child, your father is the best man in the world.
00:11:11.900 And your child, if he can be divorced, but he can love both of parents.
00:11:17.280 And not have psychological trauma.
00:11:20.220 You can be in marriage, to be in toxic relationship, and you can destroy your child.
00:11:25.000 A woman must to love.
00:11:27.120 It's the most important mission of women, which for God, not compare with men. 0.73
00:11:31.560 You are not a man, you are a woman. 0.99
00:11:33.240 Mm-hmm.
00:11:33.980 Mm-hmm.
00:11:35.020 Mm-hmm.
00:11:35.540 Mm-hmm.
00:11:37.060 Mm-hmm.
00:11:38.000 Yeah.
00:11:38.200 Mm-hmm.
00:11:39.100 Mm-hmm.
00:11:39.160 Mm-hmm.
00:11:39.580 Yeah.
00:11:44.280 That's right.
00:11:44.900 Mm-hmm.
00:11:45.580 Mm-hmm.
00:11:45.780 Mm-hmm.
00:11:48.500 Mm-hmm.
00:11:59.640 Mm-hmm.
00:12:00.620 Mm-hmm.
00:12:01.900 Mm-hmm.